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y R.L. Black<br />
There is nothing permanent except change.<br />
~ Heraclitus<br />
Change is in the air. The Easter Holiday has<br />
just passed, and in the same spirit,<br />
what once was dead is now very much<br />
alive. Here in the states, we’ve<br />
weathered the winter, a kind of death,<br />
and spring has arrived. Trees are<br />
budding, flowers popping up out of the<br />
cold ground, birds singing. Nature has a<br />
story to tell us, if we listen closely<br />
enough. It’s a story of rebirth, of<br />
regeneration, of renewal, and the moral<br />
of the story seems to be that life goes on<br />
— and that change is good.<br />
We don’t always like change. We resist.<br />
Why? Because we’re afraid of the<br />
unknown. We don’t know what’s<br />
waiting for us on the other side of that<br />
change, and it torments us. We become<br />
like those “westerners” in Ghost Rift,<br />
taking “torturous routes … to avoid the<br />
Rift.” We dodge those rifts, those cracks<br />
in the world as we know it. We are<br />
creatures of habit, after all, and we like<br />
our feet on solid ground. We like to know<br />
where we stand.<br />
In Blue Roses, the parents are so focused on<br />
the normal, everyday world that they don’t<br />
see the out-of-this-world sitting right in<br />
front of them. They totally missed it. They<br />
refuse to even acknowledge that something<br />
has changed. The boy didn’t miss it. He saw<br />
something he’d never seen before, and he<br />
didn’t hesitate to explore. We’re left to<br />
wonder if the parents had missed other<br />
things, too. If they didn’t notice this huge<br />
shift right in front of them, had they been<br />
missing their son and all the tiny, daily<br />
differences, too? Were they refusing to see?<br />
Afraid of what those changes would mean<br />
to their lives?<br />
In Regrets, we see two different ways of<br />
approaching change. The son had a “young<br />
heart.” He saw the magic, and he gave<br />
himself to it. The father, on the<br />
other hand, let fear hold him back,<br />
and in the end, he’s left with only<br />
anguish, more haunting than any<br />
banshee shriek. Yes, maybe the son<br />
drowned, but wasn’t the father<br />
drowning in sorrow and regret the<br />
greater tragedy?<br />
the plunge<br />
How do you feel about change? When<br />
those rifts come your way, how do you<br />
react? Do you find yourself resisting?<br />
I wonder … if we were able somehow<br />
to let our guards down and trust a little<br />
more, maybe we’d find something<br />
magical ourselves? Probably not an<br />
alien invader or a kelpie, but<br />
something … perhaps even something<br />
extraordinary.<br />
The greatest change of all is faced in<br />
Those Three Days. Death. Steve Jobs<br />
called death “Life's change agent.”<br />
Death is the proverbial elephant in the<br />
room. Always hanging over our heads.<br />
The end of our physical lives is ultimately<br />
what we fear the most, isn’t it? Because,<br />
like all change, we don’t know what to<br />
expect. We don’t know how it’s gonna play<br />
out. We can have faith and believe that<br />
something wonderful is on the other side,<br />
but we won’t actually know until we get<br />
there. And that’s what makes change so<br />
damn scary.<br />
But if we can face those cracks that come<br />
our way, even when we’re scared, if we can<br />
go there bravely like Sung Li in Ghost Rift,<br />
I think we’d find our own way through, and<br />
who knows, we might discover on the other<br />
side, something not so unfamiliar after all.<br />
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