beyond magzine sept 2016 (2)

something handed out like balloons at the fair, you have
to earn it. You need to make a lot of good choices and
fair decisions that don’t wreck you or your family. If you
keep making bad ones you are never going to learn to
trust your decision making and clarity on any particular
thing.
Secondly you have to have enough experience to gander
some wisdom on any given topic. There is something to
be said about studying human behavior in a college but
the real lessons are learned in actual events. The proof
is in the pudding when you are able to stand the stress
of a situation and know what to do because other
situations failed when you gave into bad advice and you
learned from that experience what not to do.