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Melissa<br />
Joanne<br />
Roseanne<br />
Salpietro<br />
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The<br />
Motherhood<br />
Of The<br />
Traveling<br />
Pants<br />
For generations, the gender of babies<br />
born into one family have all been<br />
determined in advance. The<br />
pregnant mothers receive a<br />
package in the mail, and<br />
if a little pink dress<br />
is inside, it’s a girl.<br />
If there is a pair of<br />
brown polyester oldman<br />
pants, it’s a boy.<br />
Producer Brian Reed<br />
reports the story.<br />
We<br />
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egin today with a series of messages<br />
that have gone back and forth<br />
within one family for over 35 years.<br />
They are uncanny.<br />
They are mysterious.<br />
They are inexplicable in their<br />
accuracy. Brian Reed explains. A<br />
Brian Reed<br />
few weeks ago, I talked to woman<br />
named Melissa Salpietra. She’s pregnant,<br />
so she had a lot on her mind.<br />
But the thing she was obsessing over<br />
most-- more than baby names, or<br />
strollers, or the new house she and<br />
her husband recently bought-- was<br />
this package that had arrived in the<br />
mail with her<br />
name on it. I<br />
CHARLOTTE,<br />
NORTH CAROLINA<br />
Melissa Salpietro<br />
haven’t seen it yet. I have been away<br />
from home. And the package came<br />
to me at my house in North Carolina.<br />
And I’ve been in New England<br />
for the summer.<br />
But it probably is some sort of padded<br />
manila envelope that you get at,<br />
like, Staples or something. And my<br />
husband is going to bring it to me<br />
this weekend. And if I open it up and<br />
there’s a pair of pants in it, I’m going<br />
to have a boy. But if I open it up<br />
and there is a little pink dress, I’m<br />
going to be having a girl.<br />
BROWNFIELD,<br />
NEW ENGLAND.<br />
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know, we joke. We laughed and<br />
thought, oh my God, look at this<br />
little polyester pair of pants, little<br />
old man pants. And at that time,<br />
you didn’t do sonograms. You didn’t<br />
find out the sex of babies before you<br />
were born.<br />
So we just waited.<br />
And when the first born was born, it<br />
was a boy. Did<br />
you guys have a moment where you<br />
said, oh, wow, Nonna was right?<br />
Yes.<br />
We all said that. Oh, hey,<br />
she picked it. Great. Now<br />
to nail that job interview? Talk to<br />
Nonna. Trying to buy a new house?<br />
Go see Nonna. She didn’t even make<br />
you kiss her hand.<br />
So years before Melissa was born,<br />
when one of Nonna’s grandsons announced<br />
that his wife was expecting<br />
a baby, he went to Nonna and asked<br />
for a little favor.<br />
He told her he wanted a boy. Here’s<br />
Melissa’s mom, Mary Annette, who<br />
was around at the time. You<br />
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is Roseanne, the next of Nonna’s<br />
grand-kids to have a baby.<br />
Roseanne<br />
just a heads up here. Nonna had<br />
this big Sicilian family. And their<br />
names are what one might call variations<br />
on a theme. There’s Mary Annette,<br />
Mary Anne, [? Roseanne, ?] [?<br />
Joanne, ?] Melissa Anne.<br />
So the woman who had this first<br />
baby boy was Mary Anne. She<br />
named her son Tony and stitched<br />
his name on the tiny pair of pants.<br />
And then for some mysterious reason,<br />
without even being instructed<br />
by Nonna, when the next woman in<br />
the family got pregnant--<br />
She<br />
just automatically when she found<br />
out I was pregnant, she packaged it<br />
up and mailed it to me as a good<br />
luck charm.<br />
This<br />
You know, I just got the pants and<br />
assumed I was to have a boy. Why?<br />
That seems a little bit crazy. I<br />
know. When I think bad it’s like, I<br />
don’t know, kind of weird. Because<br />
honestly, my husband and I never<br />
gave it a thought.<br />
I mean, we truly did not have a girl’s<br />
name picked out.<br />
Because<br />
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wanted the girl. I wanted to be the<br />
first one to have the girl in the family.<br />
There<br />
Mary Annette was, lying in a hospital<br />
bed back in the old country,<br />
about to go into labor any day, fantasizing<br />
about her new baby girl. And<br />
my husband comes in after work<br />
one day. And he says, I picked up the<br />
mail, here. It was this manila envelope.<br />
I thought it was pictures of her baby.<br />
I thought it was, you know, newborn<br />
baby, they sent me pictures.<br />
So I opened the envelope. And out<br />
falls the little brown pants. And I<br />
screamed. I went, oh, fuck, fuck,<br />
fuck. You<br />
swore? I<br />
did. I said, oh, no.<br />
I wanted the girl. A<br />
you got a little pair of pants in the<br />
mail, you just were sure you were<br />
having a boy? It<br />
was meant to be a boy. It was meant<br />
to be. It was going to be. And<br />
across the Atlantic Ocean, Mary Annette<br />
was on the verge of having a<br />
baby. She was living in Italy at the<br />
time. And she was due just a few<br />
weeks after Roseanne.<br />
So Roseanne stitched her newborn<br />
son’s name on the pair of pants.<br />
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what did you have? I<br />
had my son, Tommy.<br />
Meanwhile<br />
it up and mailed it to Mary Annette,<br />
thinking that that’s what she would<br />
want, you know, a boy. I<br />
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few days later, Mary<br />
Annette had a son. After<br />
that, we all looked at Nonna. Then<br />
we asked. We all looked at Nonna<br />
and said, OK, how about a dress<br />
now? Nonna<br />
abided. She sewed a miniature pink<br />
satin dress and gave it to Mary Anne,<br />
who was pregnant with her second<br />
baby. And the rest was like clockwork.<br />
Mary Anne had a girl. She sent Roseanne<br />
the dress. Roseanne had a girl.<br />
She sent Mary Annette the dress.<br />
Mary Annette had a girl, and then<br />
another girl.<br />
Nonna wasn’t directing this. But everyone<br />
knew where the power originated.<br />
Nonna was batting seven for<br />
seven.<br />
A few years passed. And then Nonna’s<br />
prediction powers reached a<br />
turning point.<br />
Because Mary Annette was the last<br />
one to have a boy and the last one<br />
to have a girl, which means she had<br />
possession of both the pants and the<br />
dress. So when Mary Annette’s sister-in-law<br />
announced that she was<br />
having a baby, it was up to Mary<br />
Annette alone to decide which one<br />
to send. The power to determine<br />
the sex of this woman’s baby was in<br />
Mary Annette’s hands. And<br />
I’m sitting in my family room getting<br />
the pants, getting the dress,<br />
getting the envelope ready with her<br />
address, her name and address, to<br />
send. And then sitting there looking<br />
at these two items, I said, I have<br />
a choice to make. And I don’t know<br />
how many times in and out that envelope<br />
went the dress or the pants,<br />
the dress or the pants, the dress or<br />
the pants.<br />
And I said, I can’t play God. I’m going<br />
to have to let her choose. So I put<br />
the dress and the pants in the envelope,<br />
mailed them to her. I<br />
called Mary Annette’s sister-in-law,<br />
Joanne. She vividly remembers tearing<br />
open the envelope, the pants<br />
falling onto her kitchen counter, the<br />
dress tumbling out right after it. A<br />
couple months later, the doctor told<br />
her she was having twins.<br />
Joanne waited until she delivered<br />
her twins to find out what sex they<br />
were. Though really, she knew all<br />
along.<br />
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off, he says, you have a son. And he<br />
handed me the baby. And I was like,<br />
oh my God, my boy. I got my boy.<br />
And then I think they were only born<br />
one minute apart. He immediately<br />
then said, and you have a daughter.<br />
And it was just, of course.<br />
It wasn’t a surprise to me.<br />
And<br />
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It’s a boy!<br />
Melissa went around hugging everyone.<br />
Her brother, Nonna prediction<br />
number three. Her cousin, Nonna<br />
prediction number five. Her sister,<br />
Nonna prediction number seven.<br />
Laura.<br />
Laura<br />
Yeah.<br />
I’m calling to tell you that Nonna<br />
was right again.<br />
Oh my gosh.<br />
Oh my gosh. That is so crazy.<br />
I have goosebumps.<br />
Do you?<br />
Finally, she could wipe the sweat off<br />
her brow and breathe a sigh of relief.<br />
Not only was she getting the boy she<br />
wanted, she could call Nonna’s relatives<br />
all over the country without<br />
shame or disappointment and tell<br />
them that number 23 was right.<br />
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