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THE<br />
MU DELTA<br />
PHI<br />
FRATERNITY<br />
THE<br />
LEADING<br />
PRIDE<br />
LION<br />
W W W . P H I M U D E L T A . O R G
on accepting membership to Phi Mu Delta Fraternity! This is an<br />
Congratulations<br />
time for you and <strong>the</strong> chapter you have joined. Since 1918, Phi Mu Delta believes<br />
exciting<br />
Bro<strong>the</strong>rhood, Service, and Democracy and through <strong>the</strong>se ideals, members guide<br />
in<br />
daily behaviors.<br />
<strong>the</strong>ir<br />
<strong>the</strong> next six weeks, you will learn about <strong>the</strong> history and traditions of <strong>the</strong><br />
Throughout<br />
what it means to be a Phi Mu Delta, and techniques and skills to<br />
organization,<br />
a member of a fraternity is not easy. There are standards to live up to and<br />
Being<br />
to hold. To be successful in this experience, you must actively<br />
expectations<br />
in your learning. Throughout <strong>the</strong> educational sessions, you will be<br />
participate<br />
using this workbook and The Oracle: Phi Mu Delta's Membership Manual.<br />
actively<br />
of <strong>the</strong> best parts about joining Phi Mu<br />
One<br />
is <strong>the</strong> support system, you are not in<br />
Delta<br />
experience alone. You have fellow new<br />
this<br />
active members, alumni,<br />
members,<br />
and <strong>the</strong> National Office staff here<br />
volunteers,<br />
support you throughout your journey in<br />
to<br />
Welcome<br />
Dear New Member,<br />
make you a successful member and college student.<br />
Be sure to bring both books to your sessions.<br />
Phi Mu Delta. Welcome to <strong>the</strong> bro<strong>the</strong>rhood!<br />
Sincerely,<br />
Director of Chapter Services & Growth<br />
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Table of Contents<br />
EXPECTATIONS<br />
WEEK 1:<br />
INTRODUCTION<br />
WEEK 2:<br />
CHARACTER EDUCATION<br />
WEEK 3:<br />
HISTORY<br />
WEEK 4:<br />
WELLNESS<br />
WEEK 5:<br />
LEADERSHIP<br />
WEEK 5:<br />
LIFELONG MEMBERSHIP<br />
INITIATION<br />
PREPARATION
New Member Orientation Program is not a "weed out" process; you were identified by <strong>the</strong><br />
The<br />
as an individual whose values align with <strong>the</strong> organization and seen as a positive<br />
chapter<br />
to <strong>the</strong> organization, you do not need to prove that to anyone. To ensure Phi Mu Delta is<br />
addition<br />
a positive new member education environment and that <strong>the</strong> learning outcomes are<br />
creating<br />
it is imperative that hazing has not part of <strong>the</strong> experience. Phi Mu Delta strictly<br />
achieved,<br />
hazing and all hazing activities.<br />
prohibits<br />
following: use of alcohol; paddling in any form; creation of excessive fatigue; physical<br />
<strong>the</strong><br />
psychological shocks; quests, treasure hunts, scavenger hunts, road trips or any o<strong>the</strong>r<br />
and<br />
activities carried on outside or inside f <strong>the</strong> confines of <strong>the</strong> chapter house; wearing of<br />
such<br />
apparel which is conspicuous and normally in good taste; engaging in public stunts<br />
public<br />
buffoonery; morally degrading or humiliating games and activities; and any o<strong>the</strong>r<br />
and<br />
which are not consistent with academic achievement, fraternal law, ritual or<br />
activities<br />
you believe you are being hazed, <strong>the</strong>re are many avenues to<br />
If<br />
report it. You can contact your campus Greek<br />
anonymously<br />
your Chapter Advisor, <strong>the</strong> National Office, or call <strong>the</strong><br />
Advisor,<br />
Hotline at 1-888-668-4293.<br />
Hazing<br />
new members, and big bro<strong>the</strong>rs once identified, should attend <strong>the</strong> educational<br />
All<br />
sessions<br />
new members should actively participate in <strong>the</strong> educational sessions<br />
All<br />
new members are reported to <strong>the</strong> National Office, via <strong>the</strong> Induction Report<br />
All<br />
following <strong>the</strong> Induction Ceremony<br />
immediately<br />
new members pay <strong>the</strong> Initiation Fee 10 days PRIOR to <strong>the</strong> Initiation Ceremony<br />
All<br />
members are given one month's notice of <strong>the</strong> Initiation Ceremony<br />
New<br />
alcohol-free environment for new member activities, including events involving <strong>the</strong><br />
No<br />
Expectations<br />
HAZING POLICY<br />
chapter, colony, student or alumnus shall conduct nor condone hazing activities.<br />
No<br />
activities are defined as: “Any action taken or situation created, intentionally,<br />
Hazing<br />
on or off fraternity premises, to produce mental or physical discomfort,<br />
whe<strong>the</strong>r<br />
harassment or ridicule. Such activities may include but are not limited to<br />
embarrassment,<br />
policy or <strong>the</strong> regulation and policies of <strong>the</strong> educational institution or applicable state law.”<br />
EXPECTATIONS FOR THE NEW MEMBER ORIENTATION PROGRAM<br />
big bro<strong>the</strong>rs<br />
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<strong>the</strong> three ideals of Phi Mu Delta Fraternity<br />
Identify<br />
<strong>the</strong> purpose of a fraternity on a college campus<br />
Articulate<br />
and meet <strong>the</strong> expectations of membership<br />
Understand<br />
friendships with fellow new members, active members, and alumni of Phi<br />
Build<br />
Delta Fraternity, and volunteers<br />
Mu<br />
<strong>the</strong> history of fraternities and sororities and of Phi Mu Delta Fraternity<br />
Describe<br />
<strong>the</strong> importance of <strong>the</strong> Founders' Creed of Phi Mu Delta<br />
Articulate<br />
<strong>the</strong> six pillars of character and describe how to embody <strong>the</strong>m daily<br />
Identify<br />
positive wellness behaviors for an individual and <strong>the</strong> chapter<br />
Recognize<br />
how to effectively work in a team<br />
Demonstrate<br />
<strong>the</strong> risk management policies of Phi Mu Delta<br />
Understand<br />
positive recruitment efforts for identifying and recruitment potential<br />
Strategize<br />
members<br />
new<br />
<strong>the</strong> importance of time management and scholarship within <strong>the</strong><br />
Articulate<br />
LEARNING OUTCOMES<br />
As a result of participating in <strong>the</strong> New Member Orientation Program, participants will<br />
fraternity experience<br />
CONTACT INFORMATION<br />
PRESIDENT<br />
______________________________<br />
VP ______________________________<br />
OF MEMBERSHIP<br />
VP ______________________________<br />
OF FINANCE<br />
VP ______________________________<br />
OF MEMBER DEVELOPMENT<br />
VP ______________________________<br />
OF ADMINISTRATION<br />
______________________________<br />
______________________________<br />
______________________________<br />
______________________________<br />
______________________________<br />
______________________________<br />
CHAPTER ADVISOR<br />
MEMBER DEVELOPMENT ADVISOR<br />
______________________________<br />
ACADEMIC ADVISOR<br />
______________________________<br />
FINANCIAL ADVISOR<br />
______________________________<br />
JUDICIAL ADVISOR<br />
______________________________<br />
CAMPUS GREEK ADVISOR<br />
______________________________<br />
______________________________<br />
______________________________<br />
______________________________<br />
______________________________<br />
______________________________<br />
______________________________<br />
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through <strong>the</strong> Induction Ceremony<br />
Go<br />
reported to <strong>the</strong> National Office through <strong>the</strong><br />
Be<br />
Report<br />
Induction<br />
<strong>the</strong> Induction Fee ($30 per new member)<br />
Pay<br />
to starting <strong>the</strong> New Member Orientation<br />
prior<br />
Program<br />
complete <strong>the</strong> New Member<br />
Successfully<br />
Program<br />
Orientation<br />
Office 10 days PRIOR to <strong>the</strong> initiation date<br />
National<br />
<strong>the</strong> Initiation Fees ($300 per new member) to <strong>the</strong> National Office 10 days<br />
Pay<br />
$300 Initiation Fee includes:<br />
The<br />
Badge, received during <strong>the</strong> Initiation Ceremony<br />
Initiation<br />
INITIATION REQUIREMENTS<br />
To be a fully initiated member of Phi Mu Delta, a new member must..<br />
<strong>the</strong> National Examination with a score of at least 80%<br />
Pass<br />
approved to initiate through <strong>the</strong> Initiation Report submitted to <strong>the</strong><br />
Be<br />
PRIOR to <strong>the</strong> initiation date<br />
Personalized Membership Certificate, received <strong>the</strong> semester following initiation<br />
NOTE: Any chapter that initiates without permission is subject to a fine.<br />
NOTE: All forms and reports are to be completed by <strong>the</strong> Vice President of Membership.<br />
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forget to complete your New Member Biography for<br />
Don't<br />
National Office!<br />
<strong>the</strong><br />
Week 1: Introduction<br />
to <strong>the</strong> Fraternity<br />
ANNOUNCEMENTS<br />
Initiation Date: _________________________ Time: _______ Location: ____________________<br />
Initiation Fee Due: _______________________<br />
CHECK IN<br />
Why did I join Phi Mu Delta?<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
Where on my clo<strong>the</strong>s do I wear my New Member Pin?<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
When do I return my New Member Pin?<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
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NEW MEMBER CLASS EXPECTATIONS<br />
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does a fraternity differ<br />
How<br />
a club?<br />
from<br />
does it mean to be a<br />
What<br />
based organization?<br />
values<br />
INTRODUCTION<br />
What is a fraternity?<br />
Why did I join a fraternity?<br />
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is something <strong>the</strong><br />
What<br />
member class needs<br />
new<br />
work on to be an<br />
to<br />
team?<br />
effective<br />
did you help <strong>the</strong><br />
How<br />
today?<br />
team<br />
is something you<br />
What<br />
to contribute to<br />
want<br />
new member class<br />
your<br />
semester?<br />
this<br />
WORKING AS A TEAM<br />
Respond to <strong>the</strong> following questions based on your experiences in <strong>the</strong> activities today.<br />
How can you hold yourself and <strong>the</strong> team accountable?<br />
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that you are a member of Phi Mu Delta, you have <strong>the</strong> right and opportunity to provide<br />
Now<br />
to your bro<strong>the</strong>rs. This is a vital component of bro<strong>the</strong>rhood and should happen<br />
feedback<br />
RECRUITMENT EVALUATION<br />
Just because you are a new member does not mean you cannot provide feedback.<br />
regularly.<br />
are not meant to degrade <strong>the</strong> Recruitment Chair or <strong>the</strong> chapter, ra<strong>the</strong>r improve <strong>the</strong><br />
Critiques<br />
process and <strong>the</strong> chapter. After all, if we do not know what our weaknesses are,<br />
recruitment<br />
can we ever eliminate <strong>the</strong>m? Please complete this form as honestly and in as much<br />
how<br />
detail as you can.<br />
How did you learn about Phi Mu Delta on campus?<br />
Who was your first contact with Phi Mu Delta?<br />
What did you like about Phi Mu Delta's recruitment?<br />
What did you dislike about Phi Mu Delta's recruitment?<br />
What did you like and dislike about o<strong>the</strong>r fraternities' recruitment events?<br />
Which members of Phi Mu Delta really impressed you during recruitment? Why?<br />
Was <strong>the</strong>re adequate follow-up to maintain your interest?<br />
What suggestions do you have for future recruitments?<br />
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Week 2: Character<br />
Education<br />
ANNOUNCEMENTS<br />
Initiation Date: _________________________ Time: _______ Location: ____________________<br />
Initiation Fee Due: _______________________<br />
Big Bro<strong>the</strong>r: _________________________ Phone Number: ____________________________<br />
CHECK IN<br />
In Phi Mu Delta, newly inducted members are called __________________, not ___________.<br />
List 2 expectations of Phi Mu Delta membership.<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
Describe <strong>the</strong> purpose of a fraternity on a college campus.<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
What are Phi Mu Delta's nicknames?<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
How can I be successful during <strong>the</strong> New Member Orientation Program?<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
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around <strong>the</strong> room and find someone that matches you. Write <strong>the</strong>ir name in <strong>the</strong> box and<br />
Walk<br />
<strong>the</strong>m <strong>the</strong> follow up question to get to know <strong>the</strong>m! Then, move on to someone else. Try to<br />
ask<br />
NAME BINGO<br />
learn as many names as possible!<br />
From <strong>the</strong> same hometown as<br />
you.<br />
Same favorite sports team<br />
Same shoe size<br />
Why did you attend this<br />
college/university?<br />
What drew you to Phi Mu<br />
Delta?<br />
Name one interesting fact<br />
about you,<br />
Participated in <strong>the</strong> same high<br />
school activities (band, sports,<br />
musical, etc.)<br />
Same major<br />
Same middle name<br />
Who is your favorite<br />
superhero and why?<br />
Why did you pick this major?<br />
If you could live anywhere,<br />
where would it be and why?<br />
Same favorite food<br />
Same favorite song or artist<br />
Same favorite movie<br />
What is your proudest<br />
accomplishment?<br />
What is your favorite book and<br />
why?<br />
What are your hobbies?<br />
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VALUES<br />
What are values?<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
People share different values and be respectful towards one ano<strong>the</strong>r? TRUE<br />
FALSE<br />
Rate on a scale from 1-5 with 1 being “Not at All Important” and 5 being "Very Important".<br />
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<strong>the</strong> list below, rank your top 15 values from 1-15. Utilize your responses in <strong>the</strong> activity<br />
From<br />
<strong>the</strong> previous page to help guide you in your rankings.<br />
on<br />
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can being more aligned with<br />
How<br />
values impact my life? My<br />
my<br />
VALUES DISCUSSION<br />
Knowing this about yourself, in small groups discuss <strong>the</strong> following questions:<br />
How do our answers differ?<br />
I live <strong>the</strong> values I selected<br />
Do<br />
Why or why not?<br />
everyday?<br />
chapter?<br />
can I do to better align with<br />
What<br />
values? my<br />
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PILLARS OF CHARACTER<br />
T R R<br />
Respect Responsibility<br />
Trustworthiness<br />
Fairness<br />
C C<br />
Caring<br />
Citizenship<br />
Concepts from Character Counts! For more information, visit charactercounts.org<br />
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Week 3: History<br />
ANNOUNCEMENTS<br />
Initiation Date: _________________________ Time: _______ Location: ____________________<br />
Initiation Fee Due: _______________________<br />
CHECK IN<br />
What are <strong>the</strong> six pillars of character?<br />
____________________________________<br />
____________________________________<br />
____________________________________<br />
____________________________________<br />
____________________________________<br />
____________________________________<br />
To be initiated into Phi Mu Delta, I am expected to pay <strong>the</strong> Initiation Fee of ____________.<br />
My values need to be congruent with my ___________________.<br />
What does it mean to be a man of good moral character?<br />
______________________________________________________________________________<br />
______________________________________________________________________________<br />
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________________________________<br />
CAMPUS AND LOCATION CHAPTER INFORMATION<br />
Chapter Designation: _______________________<br />
Local chartering date: ________________________<br />
Fraternity and Sorority Life Governing Councils:<br />
Fraternities<br />
Sororites<br />
Important Fraternity and Sorority Life Events:<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
Important Campus Events:<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
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<strong>the</strong> biographies of <strong>the</strong> Phi Mu Delta Founders, which founder do you identify with<br />
Read<br />
why? and<br />
PHI MU DELTA INFORMATION<br />
Phi Mu Delta Ideals:<br />
_____________________________________________________________<br />
Phi Mu Delta was founded on ______________________________________________ at<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
National Council Members<br />
President<br />
__________________________________________________<br />
Vice President of Membership<br />
__________________________________________________<br />
__________________________________________________<br />
Secretary<br />
Vice President of Finance<br />
__________________________________________________<br />
Members-at-Large<br />
__________________________________________________<br />
__________________________________________________<br />
Undergraduate Reps<br />
__________________________________________________<br />
__________________________________________________<br />
My chapter's District Governor is<br />
__________________________________________________<br />
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DISTRICT<br />
GOVERNORS<br />
ADVISORY<br />
CHAPTER<br />
BOARDS<br />
NATIONAL<br />
COUNCIL<br />
CHAPTERS<br />
ACTIVE<br />
COLONIES<br />
&<br />
ASSOC. &<br />
ALUMNI<br />
CORPS.<br />
HOUSING<br />
METRO/REGIONAL<br />
CLUBS<br />
NATIONAL GOVERNING STRUCTURE<br />
NATIONAL OFFICE<br />
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CHAPTER GOVERNING STRUCTURE<br />
_________________________________<br />
____<br />
____<br />
__<br />
____<br />
____<br />
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provide a positive fraternity experience for<br />
To<br />
college man, encouraging high personal<br />
today's<br />
The relationship between<br />
Bro<strong>the</strong>rhood:<br />
that is linked by common values,<br />
bro<strong>the</strong>rs<br />
The act of doing something for <strong>the</strong><br />
Service:<br />
of o<strong>the</strong>rs.<br />
welfare<br />
Each member has a voice and<br />
Democracy:<br />
treated with dignity, respect, and<br />
is<br />
That all decisions are made with<br />
equality.<br />
in mind and that we do what is just<br />
justice<br />
is this relevant to us as members of<br />
Why<br />
Mu Delta?<br />
Phi<br />
redefine fraternity through cultivating and<br />
To<br />
a culture of lifelong civic engagement and<br />
curating<br />
can we apply <strong>the</strong>se ideals to our daily<br />
How<br />
lives?<br />
MISSION<br />
morally, mentally, and spiritually, and,<br />
standards,<br />
help its members live <strong>the</strong> ideals of our<br />
to<br />
founders: democracy, bro<strong>the</strong>rhood and service.<br />
VISION<br />
What does it mean to "redefine fraternity?"<br />
fellowship.<br />
FRATERNITY IDEALS<br />
interests, and goals.<br />
at all times.<br />
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elieve in Democracy… a democracy characterized by <strong>the</strong> practice of justice in every<br />
I<br />
of life. I hold that justice is <strong>the</strong> foremost principle to be considered in making<br />
relations<br />
decisions as a voting member of Phi Mu Delta, <strong>the</strong> student body, and as a citizen of<br />
my<br />
United States. I believe in that broad conception of democracy which seeks freedom<br />
<strong>the</strong><br />
Believe in Service... service to <strong>the</strong> college; service to every group organized<br />
I<br />
<strong>the</strong> common good; service to <strong>the</strong> individual. I believe in service defined<br />
for<br />
<strong>the</strong> terms of voluntary sacrifice for <strong>the</strong> welfare of those with whom I<br />
in<br />
in contact.<br />
come<br />
BREAKING DOWN THE FOUNDERS' CREED<br />
of opportunity, and recognizes no color, race, creed, or position.<br />
parts resonate with me? Why?<br />
What<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
To me, this part means....<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
When I heard <strong>the</strong> active member speak about why this is his favorite section...<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
What parts resonate with me? Why?<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
To me, this part means....<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
When I heard <strong>the</strong> active member speak about why this is his favorite section...<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
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Believe in Bro<strong>the</strong>rhood... Bro<strong>the</strong>rhood that reaches beyond <strong>the</strong> limits of Phi<br />
I<br />
Delta and welcomes every man as my Bro<strong>the</strong>r. I believe in <strong>the</strong> intrinsic<br />
Mu<br />
of <strong>the</strong> man at my side, and in his ability to make good and justify my<br />
worth<br />
in him. faith<br />
hold <strong>the</strong>se beliefs as my profound conviction, and I pledge my fellow<br />
I<br />
to live up to <strong>the</strong>m to <strong>the</strong> best of my ability.<br />
men<br />
What parts resonate with me? Why?<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
To me, this part means....<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
When I heard <strong>the</strong> active member speak about why this is his favorite section...<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
What parts resonate with me? Why?<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
To me, this part means....<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
When I heard <strong>the</strong> active member speak about why this is his favorite section...<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
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Week 4: Wellness<br />
ANNOUNCEMENTS<br />
Initiation Date: _________________________ Time: _______ Location: ____________________<br />
Initiation Fee Due: _______________________<br />
CHECK IN<br />
Phi Mu Delta was founded on ______________________________________________ at<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
List Phi Mu Delta's founders.<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
What organization was Phi Mu Delta formed from?<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
What are <strong>the</strong> official colors of Phi Mu Delta?<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
Once I am initiated, I am a member for ___________________________________________.<br />
List <strong>the</strong> 6 umbrella organizations.<br />
______________________ ______________________ ______________________<br />
______________________ ______________________ ______________________<br />
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INDIVIDUAL WELLNESS<br />
Physical Health<br />
Mental Health<br />
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dimensions of wellness<br />
Which<br />
you improve?<br />
could<br />
2 goals about how you will<br />
Write<br />
your overall personal<br />
improve<br />
Dimension of Wellness Maximum Score Your Score<br />
Physical<br />
40<br />
Emotional<br />
40<br />
Occupational<br />
40<br />
Intellectual<br />
40<br />
Environmental<br />
40<br />
Spiritual<br />
40<br />
Financial<br />
40<br />
wellness.<br />
1.<br />
2.<br />
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does a successful chapter<br />
What<br />
like? look<br />
anything that could<br />
List<br />
impact <strong>the</strong> chapter.<br />
negatively<br />
could hinder a chapter in<br />
What<br />
successful?<br />
being<br />
can we do to improve <strong>the</strong><br />
What<br />
chapter?<br />
CHAPTER WELLNESS<br />
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chapter is actively involved on campus (we are<br />
My<br />
in Greek life events, campus programs, etc.)<br />
participating<br />
chapter's term GPA is at or above <strong>the</strong> all men's average<br />
My<br />
campus. on<br />
chapter has bro<strong>the</strong>rhood events sponsored by <strong>the</strong><br />
My<br />
(I don't have to pay out of pocket).<br />
chapter<br />
chapter's size is at or above <strong>the</strong> minimum expectation<br />
My<br />
<strong>the</strong> National Fraternity.<br />
for<br />
chapter uses dynamic recruitment strategies to<br />
My<br />
and recruit potential new members.<br />
identify<br />
are having risk management programming every<br />
We<br />
semester.<br />
semester, my chapter achieved <strong>the</strong> ___________________ Standard for <strong>the</strong><br />
Last<br />
Accreditation Program.<br />
National<br />
CHAPTER WELLNESS ASSESSMENT<br />
YES<br />
NO<br />
We have an active and engaged chapter advisor. YES NO<br />
YES<br />
NO<br />
YES<br />
NO<br />
YES<br />
NO<br />
YES<br />
NO<br />
YES<br />
NO<br />
CHAPTER WELLNESS<br />
Write 3 goals you have for <strong>the</strong> chapter based on your chapter wellness assessment.<br />
1.<br />
2.<br />
3.<br />
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all of your chapter's advisors,<br />
List<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
Week 5: Leadership<br />
ANNOUNCEMENTS<br />
Initiation Date: _________________________ Time: _______ Location: ____________________<br />
Initiation Fee Due: _______________________<br />
CHECK IN<br />
I need to maintain a minimum ____________ GPA throughout my membership.<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
What is <strong>the</strong> minimum expectation for chapter size? ______________<br />
Recruitment is...<br />
________________________________________________________________<br />
What are <strong>the</strong> ramifications if my GPA falls below <strong>the</strong> minimum expectations?<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
What is fraternity?<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
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Compare all 4 boxes in each row. Do not analyze each word; just get a sense<br />
Instructions:<br />
each box. Score each of <strong>the</strong> four boxes in each row from most to least as it describes you:<br />
of<br />
Orderly<br />
On-Time<br />
Honest<br />
Stable<br />
Sensible<br />
Dependable<br />
Helpful<br />
Trustworthy<br />
Dependable<br />
Loyal<br />
Conservative<br />
Organized<br />
Follow<br />
Rules<br />
Money Save<br />
Concerned<br />
Procedural<br />
Cooperative<br />
<strong>Pride</strong><br />
Traditions<br />
Things Right<br />
Do<br />
Orderly<br />
Conventional<br />
Careful<br />
GOLD<br />
TOTAL<br />
______<br />
SCORE:<br />
Caring<br />
Oriented<br />
People<br />
Feelings<br />
Unique<br />
Empa<strong>the</strong>tic<br />
Communicative<br />
Kind<br />
Understanding<br />
Giving<br />
Devoted<br />
Warm<br />
Poetic<br />
Sharing<br />
Along<br />
Getting<br />
Feelings<br />
Tender<br />
Inspirational<br />
Dramatic<br />
Exciting<br />
Lively<br />
On Hands<br />
Courageous<br />
Skillful<br />
Stage On<br />
BLUE TOTAL<br />
______<br />
SCORE:<br />
Active<br />
Variety<br />
Sports<br />
Opportunities<br />
Spontaneous<br />
Flexible<br />
Action<br />
Challenges<br />
Competitive<br />
Impetuous<br />
Playful<br />
Quick<br />
Adventurous<br />
Confrontive<br />
Minded<br />
Open<br />
Independent<br />
Active<br />
Free<br />
Winning<br />
Daring<br />
Implusive<br />
Taker Risk<br />
Causes<br />
Social<br />
Going Easy<br />
Endings<br />
Happy<br />
Approachable<br />
Affectionate<br />
Sympa<strong>the</strong>tic<br />
ORANGE<br />
TOTAL<br />
______<br />
SCORE:<br />
Curious<br />
Ideas<br />
Questions<br />
Conceptual<br />
Knowledge<br />
Solver<br />
Problem<br />
Independent<br />
Exploring<br />
Competent<br />
Theoretical<br />
Questions<br />
Why<br />
Ingenious<br />
Thinking<br />
Problems<br />
Solving<br />
Perfectionist<br />
Determined<br />
Complex<br />
Composed<br />
Puzzles<br />
Info<br />
Seeking<br />
Sense<br />
Making<br />
Philosophical<br />
Prinicpled<br />
Rational<br />
GREEN<br />
TOTAL<br />
______<br />
SCORE:<br />
LEADERSHIP INVENTORY<br />
= most, 3 = a lot, 2 = somewhat, 1 = least.<br />
4<br />
completed, total up your scores in each row to determine your primary colors.<br />
Once<br />
Organized<br />
Planned<br />
Warm<br />
Helpful<br />
Learning<br />
Science<br />
Neat<br />
Parental<br />
Friends<br />
Au<strong>the</strong>ntic<br />
Quiet<br />
Versatile<br />
Traditional<br />
Responsible<br />
Harmonious<br />
Compassionate<br />
Inventive<br />
Competent<br />
SCORE: ______<br />
SCORE: ______<br />
SCORE: ______<br />
SCORE: ______<br />
Impactful<br />
SCORE: ______<br />
SCORE: ______<br />
SCORE: ______<br />
SCORE: ______<br />
SCORE: ______<br />
SCORE: ______<br />
SCORE: ______<br />
SCORE: ______<br />
SCORE: ______<br />
SCORE: ______<br />
SCORE: ______<br />
SCORE: ______<br />
SCORE: ______<br />
SCORE: ______<br />
SCORE: ______<br />
SCORE: ______<br />
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Logical, Perfectionistic<br />
Inventive,<br />
intelligence, insight, fairness, and justice<br />
Value<br />
am conceptual and an independent thinker. For me, work is play. I am drawn to<br />
I<br />
challenge in careers, and like to develop models, explore ideas, or build<br />
constant<br />
to satisfy my need to deal with <strong>the</strong> innovative. Once I have perfected an idea,<br />
systems<br />
prefer to move on, leaving <strong>the</strong> project to be maintained and supported by o<strong>the</strong>rs.<br />
I<br />
have a strong desire to influence o<strong>the</strong>rs so <strong>the</strong>y may lead more significant lives. I<br />
I<br />
work in <strong>the</strong> arts, communications, education, and <strong>the</strong> helping professions. I<br />
often<br />
am bored and restless with jobs that are routine and structured and satisfied in<br />
I<br />
that allow me independence and freedom, while utilizing my physical<br />
careers<br />
and my love of tools. I view any kind of tool as an extension of self. I<br />
coordination<br />
a natural performer.<br />
am<br />
Sensible, Punctual<br />
Thorough,<br />
to be useful and to belong<br />
Needs<br />
home, family, and tradition<br />
Values<br />
Concerned, Concrete<br />
Caring,<br />
am a natural preserver, a parent, a helper<br />
I<br />
provide stability and can maintain organization. My ability to handle details and to<br />
I<br />
hard makes me <strong>the</strong> backbone of many organizations. I believe that work<br />
work<br />
before play, even if I must work overtime to complete <strong>the</strong> job.<br />
comes<br />
TRUE COLORS<br />
Seeks knowledge and understanding<br />
Innovative and logical<br />
Cool, Calm, Collected<br />
Analytical, Global, Conceptual<br />
I need explanations and answers<br />
Abstract, Hypo<strong>the</strong>tical, Investigative<br />
I live life by my own standard<br />
I am a natural non-conformist, a visionary, a problem solver<br />
Needs to feel unique and au<strong>the</strong>ntic<br />
Enthusiastic, Sympa<strong>the</strong>tic, Personal<br />
Looks for meaning and significance in life<br />
Warm, Communicative, Compassionate<br />
Needs to contribute, to encourage, and to care<br />
Idealistic, Spiritual, Sincere<br />
Peaceful, Flexible, Imaginative<br />
Values integrity and unity in relationships<br />
I am a natural romantic, a port, a nurturer<br />
am adept at motivating and interacting with o<strong>the</strong>rs.<br />
Physical, Immediate, Fraternal<br />
Optimistic, Eager, Bold<br />
Acts on a moment’s notice<br />
Values skill, resourcefulness, and courage<br />
Needs fun, variety, and excitement<br />
Impulsive, Generous, Impactful<br />
Witty, Charming, Spontaneous<br />
I am a natural trouble-shooter, a performer, a competitor<br />
Loyal, Dependable, Prepared<br />
Has a strong sense of what is right and wrong in life<br />
Faithful, Stable, Organized<br />
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executive board's<br />
The<br />
in <strong>the</strong> chapter is:<br />
role<br />
general member's<br />
The<br />
is: role<br />
new member's role<br />
The<br />
is:<br />
semester, my chapter achieved a _____________________ Standard Chapter, based on<br />
Last<br />
National Fraternity's Accreditation Program.<br />
<strong>the</strong><br />
CHAPTER OPERATIONS<br />
Meeting Date: _________________________ Time: _______ Location: ____________________<br />
The committees in my chapter are:<br />
We can improve in <strong>the</strong> following areas:<br />
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- Provide feedback<br />
P<br />
- Link to consequences<br />
L<br />
Trustworthiness: a trait of being worthy of trust<br />
-<br />
confidence<br />
and<br />
Liability: being legally bound to a debt or<br />
-<br />
obligation<br />
ACCOUNTABILITY<br />
was an important job to be done and Everybody was sure that Somebody would do it.<br />
There<br />
could have done it, but Nobody did it.<br />
Anybody<br />
got angry about that because it was Everybody's job.<br />
Somebody<br />
thought that Anybody could do it, but Nobody realized that Everybody wouldn't<br />
Everybody<br />
it. do<br />
ended up that Everybody blamed Somebody when Nobody did what Anybody could have<br />
It<br />
done it.<br />
What is <strong>the</strong> moral of this story?<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
________________________________________________________________________________<br />
Model for Accountability<br />
SIMPLE<br />
- Set expectations<br />
S<br />
are four keys to successful accountability:<br />
There<br />
Responsibility: a duty that binds to <strong>the</strong> pursuit<br />
-<br />
- Invite commitment<br />
I<br />
- Measure progress<br />
M<br />
action of<br />
Answerability: being called to account<br />
-<br />
E - Evaluate effectiveness<br />
Keys to Accountability<br />
Pillars of Character<br />
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engagement is more than community service hours. It is working to make a difference in<br />
Civic<br />
civic life of our communities and developing <strong>the</strong> combination of knowledge, skills, values,<br />
<strong>the</strong><br />
Volunteerism<br />
Individual<br />
time and skills into <strong>the</strong><br />
Devoting<br />
itself, taking action in <strong>the</strong><br />
community<br />
as it's needed and working<br />
community<br />
community members to make a<br />
with<br />
difference,<br />
Involvement<br />
Organizational<br />
organizations offer ways<br />
Community<br />
<strong>the</strong>ir missions, and work<br />
understand<br />
accomplish <strong>the</strong>ir goals.<br />
to<br />
performance, illustration, or<br />
The<br />
of public issues<br />
representation<br />
an artistic lens, and <strong>the</strong><br />
through<br />
or beautification of a<br />
improvement<br />
space through artistic<br />
public<br />
enhancement.<br />
Participation<br />
Electoral<br />
to streng<strong>the</strong>n <strong>the</strong><br />
Advocating<br />
process by clarifying<br />
democratic<br />
and explaining <strong>the</strong> implications<br />
issues<br />
decisions or working to register voters<br />
of<br />
promoting electoral participation.<br />
and<br />
CIVIC ENGAGEMENT<br />
motivation to make a difference. It is promoting <strong>the</strong> quality of life in a community,<br />
and<br />
both political and non-political processes.<br />
through<br />
get involved outside of campus.<br />
to<br />
existing organizations,<br />
Support<br />
Creative Representation<br />
Adapted from <strong>the</strong> Association of American Colleges & Universities. For more information, visit<br />
https://www.aacu.org/civic-engagement<br />
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new member class will create, develop, and execute a civic engagement project. They<br />
Each<br />
choose any type of civic engagement but must come up with <strong>the</strong> plan and execute it<br />
may<br />
CIVIC ENGAGEMENT PROJECT<br />
as a team. Projects should be completed by <strong>the</strong> end of <strong>the</strong>ir new member semester.<br />
Brainstorm<br />
Civic Engagement Project: ______________________________________________________<br />
Date: _______________________________ Time: ___________________________________<br />
Location: _____________________________________________________________________<br />
Contact: ______________________________________________________________________<br />
______________________________________________________________________________<br />
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Believe in Service... service to <strong>the</strong> college; service to every group organized for <strong>the</strong><br />
I<br />
good; service to <strong>the</strong> individual. I believe in service defined in <strong>the</strong> terms of<br />
common<br />
CIVIC ENGAGEMENT PROJECT REFLECTION<br />
Describe <strong>the</strong> project:<br />
voluntary sacrifice for <strong>the</strong> welfare of those with whom I come in contact.<br />
How does my project relate to <strong>the</strong> Founders' Creed of Phi Mu Delta?<br />
How did I benefit <strong>the</strong> community by doing this project?<br />
What did I gain by participating in this project?<br />
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Week 6: Lifelong<br />
Membership<br />
ANNOUNCEMENTS<br />
Initiation Date: _________________________ Time: _______ Location: ____________________<br />
Initiation Fee Due: _______________________<br />
Initiation Attire: __________________________________________________________________<br />
CHECK IN<br />
keep chapter meetings running smoothly, we use _________________________________<br />
To<br />
our parliamentary procedure.<br />
as<br />
How many people can have <strong>the</strong> groups attention at one time? ________________________<br />
Some members have more rights than o<strong>the</strong>rs. TRUE FALSE<br />
To address <strong>the</strong> chair, you say, "___________________________________________________."<br />
General members do not have any role in <strong>the</strong> chapter. TRUE FALSE<br />
What are <strong>the</strong> 7 components of <strong>the</strong> National Fraternity's Accreditation Program?<br />
1. _____________________________________________________________<br />
2. _____________________________________________________________<br />
3. _____________________________________________________________<br />
5. _____________________________________________________________<br />
6. _____________________________________________________________<br />
7. _____________________________________________________________<br />
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serves on my alumni board (if applicable)?<br />
Who<br />
___________________________________________________<br />
President:<br />
serves on my Housing Corporation (if applicable)?<br />
Who<br />
___________________________________________________<br />
President:<br />
LIFELONG MEMBERSHIP<br />
What is an Alumni Association?<br />
Vice President: _______________________________________________<br />
Secretary: ___________________________________________________<br />
Treasurer: ___________________________________________________<br />
What is an Housing Corporation?<br />
Vice President: _______________________________________________<br />
Secretary: ___________________________________________________<br />
Treasurer: ___________________________________________________<br />
How else can I give back <strong>the</strong> fraternity after graduation?<br />
Famous alumni from my chapter:<br />
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Initiation Preparation<br />
WHAT?<br />
HOW?<br />
WHY?<br />
Concept from Simon Sinek's Start with Why - for more information, visit startwithwhy.com<br />
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My daily rituals:<br />
RITUAL<br />
BROTHERHOOD<br />
CLUB<br />
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