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Dream Weddings Magazine - Dorset & Hampshire - issue.35

Planning your wedding starts here and now and in Dream Weddings you will find tips and hints on every aspect of your big day, from the latest collections of gowns to transport, from wedding day etiquette to up-to-date fashions in flowers. You’ll also find advertisements from a whole army of local businesses, all with plenty of experience to call on. They will work with your ideas, offer creative suggestions of their own and find solutions to match every budget. They know the shortcuts and the pitfalls - and they’re fully aware of how important it is to you that everything runs smoothly. So start planning your big day. And enjoy every minute of it!

Planning your wedding starts here and now and in Dream Weddings you will find tips and hints on every aspect of your big day, from the latest collections of gowns to transport, from wedding day etiquette to up-to-date fashions in flowers. You’ll also find advertisements from a whole army of local businesses, all with plenty of experience to call on. They will work with your ideas, offer creative suggestions of their own and find solutions to match every budget. They know the shortcuts and the pitfalls - and they’re fully aware of how important it is to you that everything runs smoothly. So start planning your big day. And enjoy every minute of it!

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Y O U R F R E E L O C A L W E D D I N G M A G A Z I N E<br />

dream<br />

WEDDINGS<br />

in <strong>Dorset</strong><br />

& <strong>Hampshire</strong><br />

SPRING / SUMMER 2017 • ISSUE 35<br />

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Step-by-step<br />

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Retro black & white photos<br />

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contents<br />

Y congratulations...<br />

ou’ve found the man of your dreams and you’re<br />

embarking on one of the happiest adventures of your<br />

life. The months ahead will be full of the most delicious<br />

decisions (what to wear, which flowers to carry, how to<br />

decorate the tables at the reception) and some stressful<br />

ones: if we invite Great Aunt Agatha, can we rely on her<br />

not to come? Should we have an intimate wedding<br />

breakfast or a buffet for scores of friends? Will it rain?<br />

However daunting the whole organisation seems at the<br />

outset, this is one celebration everyone wants to be a<br />

spectacular success and you will find good wishes and<br />

friendly faces wherever you turn for help. Planning your<br />

wedding starts here and now and in this issue of<br />

<strong>Dream</strong> <strong>Weddings</strong> you will find tips and hints on every<br />

aspect of your big day, from the latest collections of<br />

gowns to ideas on music, from wedding day P2-15<br />

etiquette to up-to-date fashions in flowers.<br />

DESIGNER<br />

DAZZLE<br />

You’ll also find advertisements from a whole<br />

army of local businesses, all with plenty of<br />

experience to call on. They will work with<br />

your ideas, offer creative suggestions of<br />

their own and find solutions to match<br />

every budget. They know the shortcuts<br />

and the pitfalls - and they’re fully aware<br />

of how important it is to you that<br />

everything runs smoothly.<br />

So turn the page, start planning<br />

your big day.<br />

And enjoy every minute of it!<br />

COVER PICTURE: GOWN FROM THE ALFRED ANGELO 2017 COLLECTION<br />

AT CHERISHED BRIDAL WEAR IN BOURNEMOUTH AND BRIDAL &<br />

BALL IN WEYMOUTH<br />

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2-15 Glamour & glitz<br />

Stunning international bridal collections<br />

for the beautiful brides of 2017<br />

16-17 Groom with a view<br />

Well groomed looks for your men, from<br />

traditional morning suits to classic kilts<br />

18-19 Truly scrumptious<br />

Sensational bridal flowers and cakes that<br />

taste every bit as good as they look<br />

20-21 Snapshot of the day<br />

Don’t miss out on black & white photos<br />

for a contemporary take on the day<br />

23-29 Plan ahead<br />

Our step-by-step guide to everything you<br />

need to know – and then some...<br />

SPRING / SUMMER 2017 • ISSUE 35<br />

P20-21 - GRAB THEIR ATTENTION! ...IN BLACK & WHITE!<br />

P18-19 ...TRULY SCRUMPTIOUS<br />

30-31 All’s fair...<br />

Check out the best of the counties’<br />

wedding fairs at a venue near you<br />

32-35 Mamma mia!<br />

Glamorous new collections for Mums of<br />

the Bride and Groom – and your guests<br />

36-51 Picture the scene<br />

Venues to suit every bride’s style and<br />

budget and dressing them to perfection<br />

52-53 Time to party<br />

Play the tables at a fun casino – and round<br />

off the fun with dazzling fireworks<br />

54-56 Brides’ directory<br />

Our handy classified index, plus those<br />

all-important Spring dates for your diary<br />

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PICTURED: BENJAMIN ROBERTS AT<br />

A BRIDE 2 BEE IN SOUTHAMPTON<br />

Spring<br />

into the<br />

New<br />

Wave a fond farewell to 2016 and open<br />

your arms to the promise of a brand<br />

new year – and, if you’re one of the<br />

lucky brides with a wedding scheduled<br />

for 2017, savour the moment.<br />

Among all the delicious decisions you’re going to have<br />

to make about your big day, there can’t be one which<br />

offers more unadulterated pleasure than deciding what<br />

you’re going to wear.<br />

Sleek and chic or all frills and flounces? Strapless<br />

or illusion neckline? Understated or glamorously<br />

glittering? Lace, tulle, organza, silk, satin, chiffon,<br />

brocade, taffeta?<br />

Take time to make the right choice for you –<br />

don’t be persuaded into buying a dress you’re<br />

not completely convinced about and don’t<br />

be afraid to ask for help and advice<br />

from the friendly staff in <strong>Dorset</strong><br />

and <strong>Hampshire</strong>’s bridal<br />

shops.<br />

Enjoy!<br />

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Year<br />

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Razzle


PICTURED: ALFRED ANGELO AT BRIDAL & BALL IN WEYMOUTH<br />

AND CHERISHED BRIDAL WEAR IN BOURNEMOUTH<br />

dazzle’em!<br />

Glamour and glitz: if you’ve<br />

always dreamed of being a<br />

movie star, your wedding<br />

day is your time to steal the<br />

spotlight. The aisle is your red carpet<br />

as you make your entrance,<br />

shimmering centre stage in a<br />

sparkling gown to match the sparkle<br />

in your eyes.<br />

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Amazing<br />

lace<br />

When it comes to choosing the most special dress of<br />

your life, nothing says ‘Here Comes the Bride’ quite like<br />

lace. Antique or modern, fine-textured Chantilly lace<br />

or more dramatic Guipure lace, it weaves a spell of<br />

romance around its wearer.<br />

And it’s versatile enough to cover every fashion requirement,<br />

trimming illusion necklines, emphasising dipping backs and<br />

covering a froth of tulle underskirts with a perfectly beautiful overlay.<br />

Whatever style of dress you choose for your wedding, from a<br />

confection of tulle to a sleek, slim silhouette, lace will transform it to<br />

a fairytale gown.<br />

PICTURED: NICOLE SPOSE AT CHERISHED<br />

BRIDAL WEAR IN BOURNEMOUTH<br />

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ELLA ROSA AT<br />

NEW FOREST &<br />

DORSET BRIDES<br />

IN HIGHCLIFFE<br />

Pile on<br />

the<br />

drama<br />

In so many ways your wedding is a like a<br />

theatrical production with the beautiful<br />

heroine and the handsome hero coming<br />

together for their happy-ever-after in the last<br />

scene of the play. Cue the ceremony, the sets,<br />

the audience - and, of course, the costumes.<br />

If you like to play the drama queen, this is an<br />

opportunity like no other. Embrace the moment,<br />

stand tall in your gorgeous gown and drink in the<br />

love and good wishes bombarding you from<br />

all sides.<br />

It may be the last scene of one play, but there’s a<br />

whole new future awaiting you in Part II.<br />

LEFT: KENNETH WINSTON AT<br />

NEW FOREST & DORSET<br />

BRIDES IN HIGHCLIFFE<br />

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ABOVE & BELOW: KENNETH WINSTON AT NEW<br />

FOREST & DORSET BRIDES IN HIGHCLIFFE<br />

ELLA ROSA AT NEW FOREST &<br />

DORSET BRIDES IN HIGHCLIFFE<br />

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PICTURED: STELLA YORK AT<br />

WEDDING TIME IN DORCHESTER<br />

Letthe<br />

quest<br />

begin...<br />

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It’s easy to feel completely bamboozled by the huge<br />

choice of wedding dresses out there at a boutique near<br />

you. Slim and slinky, chic and elegant, a confection of<br />

tulle? Off-the-shoulder, halter neck, spaghetti-strapped,<br />

strapless, backless? In virginal white, ivory, champagne,<br />

the palest of baby pinks, blush..?<br />

If you’re beginning to panic, don’t. Just get out there and<br />

start looking! Your wedding dress is the most exciting dress<br />

you will ever buy and most brides will tell you they knew<br />

they’d found the right one as soon as they tried it on.<br />

Don’t be afraid to ask for the advice from the experts in the<br />

shop. They know their dresses and they know what’s going<br />

to suit your shape and style.<br />

Good luck!<br />

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BEAUTIFUL WEDDING GOWNS<br />

BRIDESMAIDS<br />

MOTB • ACCESSORIES<br />

Boutique bridal salon & men's formalwear<br />

Established 1983<br />

15 High East Street, Dorchester DT1 1HH<br />

Tel: 01305 269555 • www.wedding-time.com<br />

5-7 Warsash Road, Warsash, Southampton SO31 9HW<br />

Tel: 01489 557553 • www.abride2bee.co.uk<br />

Stunning gowns from<br />

Kenneth Winston<br />

including Ella Rosa<br />

and Femme for the<br />

curvier bride<br />

Something for every<br />

budget Sizes 6 to 34<br />

Appointments only<br />

Tel: 01425 616939 or<br />

078513 85116<br />

www.newforestbrides.co.uk<br />

404 Lymington Road, Highcliffe, <strong>Dorset</strong>, BH23 5HE.<br />

Bridal, Bridesmaids, Prom & Accessories<br />

9 Abbotsbury Road, Weymouth DT4 OAD<br />

Tel: 01305 773940 • www.bridalandball.co.uk<br />

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Cute<br />

and<br />

So you’re not a perfect dress size 8, or 10<br />

or 12. So what? That engagement ring<br />

on your finger is proof positive that your<br />

husband-to-be loves your sexy,<br />

voluptuous curves. Beauty comes in all<br />

shapes and sizes and brides with generously<br />

curvaceous figures needn’t feel nervous about<br />

choosing their bridal gowns. Most collections<br />

come in sizes up to 30 and some collections,<br />

specially designed to flatter fuller figures start at<br />

size 16 and go up to 36.<br />

LEFT: SONSIE AT BRIDAL & BALL<br />

IN WEYMOUTH<br />

RIGHT: FEMME AT NEW FOREST &<br />

DORSET BRIDES IN HIGHCLIFFE<br />

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PICTURED & INSETS RIGHT:<br />

STELLA YORK AT WEDDING<br />

TIME IN DORCHESTER<br />

curvelicious!<br />

If you’re looking for a few pointers:<br />

• A streamlined design in a classically styled<br />

gown will elongate your figure<br />

• A high-waisted, A-line gown will skim your<br />

tummy, and sleeves or a pretty wrap (so<br />

fashionable at the moment) will cover less<br />

than perfect arms.<br />

• Perfectly fitted underwear makes a huge<br />

difference, so invest in that before you start<br />

looking for your dress.<br />

• And finally, remember, every bride’s most<br />

beautiful accessory is her smile. If you’re<br />

happy and confident, you can’t help but<br />

be a beautiful bride.<br />

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Top it off<br />

with a tiara<br />

Traditional or contemporary, worn<br />

with or without a veil, the tiara is<br />

the headdress of choice for today’s<br />

brides. ‘Tiaras complement any<br />

style of gown,’ says Ros Woodhouse of<br />

Tiaras and Crowns ‘and can be worn with<br />

upswept, worn down or short hairstyles.’<br />

When you’re choosing your tiara bear in<br />

mind that it should suit the shape of your<br />

face, your wedding hairstyle and the style of your gown.<br />

‘Diamante tiaras go with any colour of gown, says Ros, ‘while tiaras with<br />

pearls should match either your jewellery or your gown.’<br />

Tiaras and Crowns has a fantastic selection of bridal headdresses to<br />

complement every bride.<br />

For more information, call 01305<br />

814950 or visit the website at www.tiarasandcrowns.net.<br />

Men's Formalwear & Boutique bridal Salon<br />

Established 1983<br />

15 High East Street, Dorchester DT1 1HH<br />

Tel: 01305 269555 • www.wedding-time.com<br />

www.tiarasandcrowns.net<br />

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Man of the<br />

moment...<br />

Award-winning Dorchester boutique,<br />

Wedding Time, now has a fully stocked<br />

menswear department, offering not<br />

only a complete range of formal wear<br />

by Wilvorst for hire, but also their own slim fit<br />

suits both for hire and to buy.<br />

For details, call 01305 269555 or visit<br />

www.wedding-time.com.<br />

The men’s formal hire department at Chas<br />

H. Baker in Salisbury aims to fulfil the<br />

groom’s dream of wearing the perfect<br />

outfit. They set out to create a relaxing<br />

atmosphere where grooms and their partners can<br />

take time to select the look they want to achieve,<br />

considering their huge range of different styles<br />

from classic morning suits to their new blue and<br />

light grey lounge suits matched with a large range<br />

of waistcoats.<br />

The formal hire department also runs alongside<br />

the store’s wide range of quality menswear selling<br />

high quality brands such as Gant, Meyer, Barbour,<br />

Magee, Seidensticker/ Olymp shirts and a large<br />

selection of suits from Label and country jackets<br />

from Douglas and Graham, Gurteen and many<br />

more ranges.<br />

Chas H. Baker, established in the city over 100<br />

years ago, is still run by the same family – a<br />

testimony to its outstanding reputation for quality<br />

menswear and traditional service<br />

For more information, call 01722 324234<br />

or visit the website at www.salisbury-suithire.com.<br />

PICTURED: PERFECTLY SUITED<br />

AT CHAS H BAKER<br />

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Award winning bespoke wedding cakes<br />

tel. 01202 539120 | mob. 07789 000387<br />

email. coastcakes@btinternet.com<br />

www.coastcakes.co.uk<br />

www.LinusMoranPhotography.co.uk<br />

Subtle, Emotive & Raw<br />

Wedding Photography –<br />

Capturing the soul<br />

of your wedding.<br />

You can simply<br />

be yourself.<br />

A feast<br />

Anaturalistic approach and<br />

an exacting eye for detail<br />

marks out Bloom Floristry<br />

as one of the county’s top<br />

florists. Victoria and her team are<br />

genuinely inspired by the freshest,<br />

most perfect seasonal flowers and<br />

bring that enthusiasm to everything<br />

they do.<br />

For details, call 01929 426197 or<br />

visit www.bloomfloristry.com.<br />

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for the eyes<br />

Make it a joined up wedding, where<br />

everything comes together in your<br />

own unique style. Of course you will<br />

have your favourite flowers, of course<br />

they will echo the colours the bridesmaids are<br />

wearing and of course the shape of your bouquet<br />

will complement the style of your dress.<br />

But it’s a great idea to bring your cake into the<br />

picture too. It’s the centrepiece of your reception<br />

after all, so give it a flavour of your style and<br />

your colours - it could even echo the flowers<br />

in your bouquet.<br />

CAKES PICTURED...<br />

Jennifer Bronsell of Bournemouth-based Coast<br />

Cakes is an award-winning cake artist who is a<br />

preferred supplier to many of the top wedding<br />

venues in <strong>Dorset</strong> and <strong>Hampshire</strong>. A qualified<br />

chef, she promises both excellent service and<br />

outstanding quality.<br />

For details, call 01202 539120<br />

or visit www.coastcakes.co.uk.<br />

CAKE BY FILIGRANA<br />

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PHOTO BY HOLLY MARSH PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

PHOTO BY ROSIE CUTBILL PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

Black& white...<br />

PHOTO BY STUART<br />

BRAMPTON PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

PHOTO BY STUART BRAMPTON PHOTOGRAPHYY<br />

PHOTO BY<br />

ROSIE CUTBILL<br />

PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

PHOTO BY CP PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

PHOTO BY<br />

CP PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

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PHOTO BY HOLLY MARSH PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

PHOTO BY STUART<br />

BRAMPTON<br />

PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

PHOTO BY<br />

CP PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

It’s the new colour!<br />

PHOTO BY<br />

ROSIE CUTBILL<br />

PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

PHOTO BY<br />

STUART BRAMPTON<br />

PHOTOGRAPHYY<br />

PHOTO BY HOLLY MARSH<br />

PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

PHOTO BY STUART BRAMPTON PHOTOGRAPHYY<br />

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Real <strong>Weddings</strong>...<br />

We’d love to hear your stories HOUSE and see ADyour wedding pictures so we<br />

can share your joy with nervous FULL and PAGE excited brides-to-be everywhere.<br />

???<br />

Did you have an amazing proposal?<br />

What are you planning for your wedding?<br />

Will it be here or abroad?<br />

Photos by Linus Moran Photography<br />

WEDDINGSW dream Contact us through our website at<br />

www.dream-weddings-magazine.co.uk<br />

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Follow us on:


The Engagement<br />

Traditionally, the first thing to do after telling<br />

your family and close friends about your<br />

forthcoming marriage is to announce your<br />

engagement in your local and/or a national<br />

newspaper. Do check how much it will cost<br />

before you place the announcement.<br />

It will usually read:<br />

The engagement is announced between Michael,<br />

elder son of Mr and Mrs David Jones, of Downend,<br />

Bristol and Jennifer Anne, only daughter of Mr and<br />

Mrs Simon Hayes, of Marlborough, Wiltshire.<br />

Though the habit of giving engagement presents<br />

has now fallen somewhat into disuse, if you are<br />

lucky enough to receive some, don’t forget to write<br />

and thank the senders.<br />

Getting down<br />

to Business<br />

The very first things you must decide about<br />

your wedding are where, when - and how<br />

much. The most popular days for weddings<br />

are Saturdays and the most popular months are<br />

from May right through to September. If your<br />

plans follow that pattern, be aware that the most<br />

popular venues get booked up very early, so set<br />

the date and book the venues as soon as<br />

possible after your engagement.<br />

Talk to both sets of parents about setting<br />

budgets and who is going to pay for what.<br />

It is increasingly common for bridesmaids to pay<br />

for their own dresses, but if they do you should<br />

allow them some say in what they are going to<br />

wear. If you plan to pay for them yourself, you<br />

can choose their outfits.<br />

Your wedding will probably be the biggest<br />

party you ever throw - which means it will<br />

probably also be the most expensive. So it’s<br />

vital that you set your budget and stick to it.<br />

Nowadays it’s becoming much more common<br />

for the bride and groom themselves and even<br />

the groom’s parents to contribute towards the<br />

cost. Again, whoever is contributing to the<br />

cost should have some say in how the money<br />

is spent.<br />

INSURANCE<br />

Plan ahead for<br />

your perfect day<br />

So how much is it all<br />

going to cost?<br />

Basically, the answer is as much or as little as<br />

you want it to. An intimate ceremony with<br />

lunch in your favourite pub for your closest<br />

family and friends can be every bit as special as a<br />

huge event at a top venue for hundreds of guests.<br />

If you’re working on a limited budget, decide what’s<br />

most important to you and spend your money on<br />

that. Maybe you want a really spectacular dress and<br />

are prepared to do without a flashy car to take you<br />

to the reception. Or perhaps you’ve always wanted<br />

to arrive at your wedding in a pony and trap, and will<br />

settle for fewer guests.<br />

Whatever you decide, do remember that many<br />

guests may be coming a long way and spending<br />

a lot of money simply to attend your wedding, so<br />

it’s often better to look after a small number of<br />

people well than to invite more than you can<br />

comfortably cater for.<br />

The important thing is that it’s your day and the last<br />

thing you want to be worrying about is how you’re<br />

going to find the money to pay for it. So be realistic<br />

when you’re setting your budget - and remember<br />

that, with a little imagination, you can make your<br />

money go a lot further.<br />

Your budget will need to cover:<br />

• Wedding ring(s)<br />

• Wedding dress<br />

• Bridesmaids’ and attendants’ outfits<br />

• Groom’s suit<br />

• Stationery<br />

• Flowers<br />

• Fees for the ceremony<br />

• Reception venue, food and drink<br />

• Wedding cake<br />

• Photographs/video<br />

• Wedding transport<br />

• Thank you gifts for best man and attendants<br />

• Going away outfits<br />

• Honeymoon<br />

A STEP-BY-STEP GUIDE<br />

TO ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW<br />

- AND THEN SOME...<br />

TRADITIONALLY,<br />

the bride’s parents pay for:<br />

• Announcements in the newspapers<br />

• All the wedding stationery<br />

• Bride’s and bridesmaids’ dresses<br />

• Transport for the bridal party to the<br />

ceremony and from the ceremony<br />

to the reception<br />

• Flowers for the church and the reception<br />

• The reception itself<br />

• The wedding cake<br />

The groom<br />

traditionally pays for:<br />

• All the fees - whether for church<br />

officials (including vicar, organist,<br />

choir, bellringers) or for the registrar<br />

and civil licence.<br />

• Bouquets for the bride and<br />

bridesmaids, sprays of flowers for the<br />

bride’s mother and his own mother and<br />

buttonholes for himself, the best man<br />

and the ushers.<br />

• Engagement and wedding rings for the<br />

bride.<br />

• Presents for the best man and the<br />

bride’s attendants.<br />

• Transport to the ceremony for himself<br />

and the best man and to the reception for<br />

himself and the bride<br />

• The honeymoon.<br />

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Much though we hate to say it, things can<br />

go wrong at a wedding and it’s some<br />

consolation to know that you won’t lose<br />

out financially if they do. Insurance policies on<br />

offer cover everything from damage to your<br />

wedding dress to loss of deposits due to<br />

cancellation of the wedding and theft of wedding<br />

presents. Do get quotes before you decide which<br />

one to take out - and do read the small print to<br />

see exactly what each policy covers.<br />

Should unforeseen circumstances mean the<br />

postponment or cancellation of your wedding,<br />

guests can either be notified by telephone or by<br />

a personal or printed note saying:<br />

Mr and Mrs Simon Hayes announce that the<br />

wedding of their daughter Jennifer Anne to Mr<br />

Michael Jones will be postponed until (date)/will<br />

not now take place. If you have announced the<br />

engagement in the newspaper, it would be<br />

appropriate to place a similarly worded notice<br />

there too.<br />

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Planning Makes Perfect<br />

The invitations...<br />

Your wedding stationery is the first clue day.<br />

your guests will have about the style of Invitations should be sent out six weeks before<br />

your wedding, so it’s worth taking time to the wedding (see panel for suggested<br />

choose something appropriate. wording), but many couples now use an early<br />

If you’re planning a big formal affair, stiff cards and warning system in the form of a Save the Date<br />

high quality envelopes will sing and dance card – particularly useful if your wedding is<br />

traditional glamour.<br />

planned for the busy summer months when<br />

If your wedding theme is vintage or rustic, some of your most desired guests are likely to<br />

you can go for floral decoration or vintage be taking holidays.<br />

lace embellishments. Chic and classical? Allow your stationer or printer about three<br />

Try contemporary stripes or bold colours. Going months to complete your order.<br />

for a theme? Then match your stationery to it. Apart from Save the Date and invitation<br />

Once you’re chosen the style, all your wedding cards, you’re going to need order of service<br />

stationery should be in keeping, presenting a sheets (one for each guest plus a few<br />

unified theme for the whole<br />

spares), menus for the reception, place cards,<br />

perhaps a table plan.<br />

It’s always a good idea to include maps with your<br />

invitations to help guests find their way easily, plus<br />

details of where guests can park and, for those<br />

who are coming long distances, a selection of<br />

recommended accommodation.<br />

For guests of the groom’s family, the groom’s<br />

mother should send a list of names and addresses<br />

to the bride’s mother so she can issue the<br />

invitations.<br />

As a matter of courtesy, an invitation should be<br />

English Rose<br />

...and what they should say<br />

The traditional invitation, with the<br />

bride’s mother and father acting as<br />

hosts, is worded as follows:<br />

Mr and Mrs Simon Hayes request the<br />

pleasure of your company at the marriage of<br />

their daughter Jennifer Anne to Mr Michael<br />

Jones at St Benedict’s Church,<br />

Bournemouth on Saturday August 19th at<br />

2pm and afterwards at The County Hotel,<br />

Bournemouth RSVP 10 Marigold Gardens,<br />

Bournemouth<br />

In this form, the names of the guests<br />

are handwritten in the top left hand<br />

corner of the invitation.<br />

Alternatively a space is left in the invitation<br />

for the guests’ names:<br />

Mr and Mrs Simon Hayes request the<br />

pleasure of the company of<br />

........................................................<br />

at the marriage of their daughter<br />

Jennifer Anne (etc)<br />

Invitations for civil ceremonies and<br />

partnerships follow the same pattern.<br />

Make it clear precisely who is being<br />

invited. For a married couple, Mr and<br />

Mrs John Jeffries; for a family, Mr and<br />

Mrs John Jeffries, Jeremy and Jemima.<br />

If you’re hosting the wedding<br />

yourselves, change the<br />

wording accordingly.<br />

Invitations to the evening reception<br />

only should be worded as follows:<br />

BELOW: Invitations by Hand<br />

sent to the groom’s parents and to the minister<br />

and his wife. When ordering your invitations,<br />

remember you’ll only need one for each family,<br />

plus a few spares for emergencies.<br />

“...It’s always a<br />

good idea to<br />

include maps with<br />

your invitations to<br />

help guests find<br />

their way easily...”<br />

LEFT: English Rose Wedding Stationery<br />

BELOW: Coral Wedding Invitations<br />

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Mr and Mrs Simon Hayes request the<br />

pleasure of your company at an<br />

evening reception to celebrate the<br />

marriage of their daughter Jennifer<br />

Anne to Mr Michael Jones at The<br />

County Hotel, Bournemouth on<br />

Saturday August 19th at 8pm<br />

RSVP 10 Marigold Gardens,<br />

Bournemouth<br />

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REGISTER OFFICE<br />

To marry at a register office or building approved<br />

for civil ceremonies, your first step is to contact<br />

the registrar and/or venue to confirm registrar<br />

and date are available.<br />

Then both bride and groom must each give<br />

notice of the wedding in person at the register<br />

office covering the area where they live (and<br />

where they must have been in residence for at<br />

least seven days).<br />

If you both live in the same district you should<br />

attend the register office together - but whether<br />

you do or not, ring your local office first as many<br />

now operate appointment systems.<br />

Each of you will have to produce evidence of your<br />

name, age, marital status and nationality - for<br />

example, a current valid full passport. If you<br />

don’t have one, you’ll need two documents - for<br />

example a birth certificate and utility bill.<br />

The fee for giving notice is £35 each and,<br />

normally, notices should be with the registrar<br />

about eight weeks before the marriage. If either of<br />

you have been married before, the notices should<br />

be given 10 weeks before.<br />

The minimum period before the date of the<br />

proposed marriage is 28 days, but if you leave<br />

things as late as this you could be faced with the<br />

need to postpone your marriage.<br />

In exceptional circumstances the Registrar<br />

General may consider waiving the waiting period.<br />

A notice of marriage is valid for 12 months.<br />

THE NORMAL ORDER<br />

OF SERVICE FOR A<br />

CHURCH WEDDING IS:<br />

Entrance of the bride •<br />

Hymn • The marriage • Prayers<br />

Hymn or psalm • Blessing<br />

Signing of the register • Recessional<br />

LICENSED VENUES<br />

Over the past few years since a change<br />

in the law many thousands of venues<br />

throughout the country have become<br />

licensed to hold civil weddings. They range<br />

from hotels to stately homes, zoos to football<br />

clubs. You still have to give notice of your<br />

intention to marry in the same way as you do<br />

for register office weddings and, in the same<br />

way, you can personalise the ceremony to<br />

suit yourselves although no religious music<br />

is allowed. Though this option costs more<br />

than a register office ceremony - you will<br />

have to pay for the hire of the room and it<br />

costs more to have the registrar travel to you<br />

- it is becoming increasingly popular as<br />

the trend away from church weddings<br />

continues.<br />

The Ceremony<br />

church or civil<br />

Religious or civil, register office or one of the new approved<br />

venues, a wedding can take place on any day of the week<br />

between 8am and 6pm. While most still take place on Saturdays,<br />

Fridays are gaining in popularity allowing guests travelling a fair<br />

distance to make a long weekend of the celebrations.<br />

Church <strong>Weddings</strong><br />

The Church of England welcomes couples<br />

who want to marry in church whatever<br />

their beliefs, whether or not they are<br />

christened and whether or not they are regular<br />

churchgoers, though same sex couples are<br />

currently limited to civil ceremonies.<br />

A marriage conducted in church will include<br />

asking for God’s guidance and blessing, adding<br />

a spiritual dimension to the ceremony which<br />

many couples find particularly special and<br />

moving.<br />

Your first step is to find a church, which need<br />

not necessarily be your local one, and arrange<br />

an appointment with the vicar so you can get to<br />

know him or her and complete some forms.<br />

The vicar will explain the church fees and the<br />

system of reading the banns.<br />

Banns are the public announcement of your<br />

marriage and legally must be called in church<br />

for three Sundays during the three months<br />

before the wedding. They have to be read in the<br />

parish where each of you lives and also<br />

in the church where you will<br />

marry, if this is different.<br />

Although the vows you make<br />

to each other in church are<br />

those which have been<br />

handed down through<br />

generations, you still have a<br />

huge amount of influence<br />

over the service.<br />

You can choose your hymns<br />

and music, readings and<br />

what prayers you would like<br />

and family and friends can<br />

contribute to the service.<br />

Marrying abroad<br />

Second<br />

Marriages<br />

Though the Roman Catholic church does not<br />

condone divorce, there are some<br />

circumstances in which the Church of<br />

England will marry divorced people, so it’s<br />

worth consulting your vicar. Even if you are<br />

limited to a civil ceremony, some ministers<br />

will offer a Service of Blessing afterwards.<br />

It’s important to establish early on what the<br />

church’s policy is on photographs or video<br />

being taken during the service, whetherany<br />

secular music is allowed and on the throwing of<br />

confetti within the church grounds.<br />

Ask too about other couples marrying on the<br />

same day as it may be possible to share the<br />

cost of the church flowers.<br />

Religious services in churches outside the<br />

established Church of England require a licence<br />

from the authorised registrar of your area and<br />

will have different requirements, so see your<br />

priest or minister as early as possible.<br />

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Combining your wedding with the holiday of a lifetime is gaining in popularity with exotic destinations luring<br />

an increasing number of couples. The sun-kissed beaches of the Caribbean, the Maldives and Bali are<br />

among the most popular choices and many tour operators now offer all-inclusive packages. The legal<br />

requirements for each country may differ but generally if a marriage is recognised as legally binding in the<br />

country in which it takes place, it will be recognised in the UK as well. Consult your tour operator and allow at<br />

least three months for all the paperwork to be properly processed.<br />

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Planning Makes Perfect<br />

The Best Man<br />

If the bride is the star of the wedding show, the<br />

best man is the kingpin of a successful wedding<br />

day, so make sure your groom chooses him with<br />

care. However tempting it might be to choose the<br />

joker who’s the life and soul of every party, you’re<br />

far better off with someone who will take his<br />

responsibilities seriously, keep all the<br />

organisation under control and leave you to<br />

enjoy your day without any niggling worries<br />

about how many guests have been stranded at<br />

the church. The part that worries most best<br />

men is the speech, but that should be the least<br />

of their problems. The best man’s job, in a<br />

nutshell, is to support the groom both in the<br />

run-up to the wedding and on the day itself.<br />

Before the wedding,<br />

the best man should:<br />

• Make sure he keeps himself up to date with<br />

all the arrangements, liaising regularly with<br />

the groom and the bride’s family<br />

• Check the hiring, cleaning or collecting of suits<br />

for himself and the groom<br />

• Check the ordering of the flowers for the bride<br />

and her attendants, sprays for the two<br />

mothers and buttonholes for himself, the<br />

groom and other immediate members of the<br />

families<br />

• Check the printing and collection of order of<br />

service sheets and make sure that the ushers<br />

know what their duties are<br />

• Check arrangements for the first night and<br />

honeymoon are in place and that necessary<br />

passports and visas are in order<br />

• Organise the groom’s stag night - preferably<br />

some days in advance of the wedding - and<br />

make sure the groom gets home safely<br />

afterwards<br />

• Check the rings have been collected<br />

• Check the transport for the bridal party both to<br />

the ceremony and from there to the reception<br />

• Organise accommodation for the groom and<br />

himself the night before the wedding<br />

• He might also be asked to help with<br />

accommodation for guests and to liaise with<br />

live musicians or disco both before and during<br />

the reception.<br />

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CP PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

On the day<br />

• Take the groom’s going away clothes to the<br />

reception venue<br />

• Check the service sheets are delivered to the<br />

church for the ushers to hand out to guests as<br />

they arrive<br />

• Make sure the groom arrives for the ceremony in<br />

good time<br />

• Hold the ring(s) until the appropriate moment in<br />

the ceremony when they should be handed to<br />

the groom or the minister<br />

• Pay all the church fees on the groom’s behalf<br />

before the ceremony<br />

• Sign the register as a witness to the marriage<br />

• Get the bridal party together for photographs<br />

• Make sure the ushers arrange lifts to the<br />

reception for any guests who need them<br />

• Escort the bride and groom to the bridal car and<br />

then escort the bridesmaids to the reception<br />

• Liaise with the toastmaster or, if there isn’t<br />

one, assume those duties himself - these<br />

include announcing the speeches and the<br />

cutting of the cake<br />

• Reply to the groom’s toast to the bridesmaids<br />

with a brief, polite and - if possible - funny speech<br />

before reading out the cards and telegrams<br />

• Announce the newlyweds’ departure from the<br />

reception and ensure they have all<br />

their tickets and luggage<br />

• Make sure all the guests have<br />

transport to their accommodation<br />

• Arrange for any wedding presents<br />

taken to the reception to be taken<br />

home<br />

• Take the groom’s wedding clothes<br />

from the reception and, if necessary,<br />

return hired suits.<br />

The speech<br />

When it comes to the speech, all the<br />

advice is: Resist the temptation to<br />

tell any juicy stories whatsoever<br />

from the couple’s past. The escapades may have<br />

been hilarious, but now is not the time for<br />

embarrassing reminders about past romances<br />

or past quarrels between the happy pair.<br />

Because the best man’s speech is generally<br />

regarded as the prime entertainment at the<br />

reception, getting it together can be a daunting<br />

prospect - but don’t panic. If you can tell jokes -<br />

clean ones, please - that’s fine, but a short,<br />

polite and sincere speech wishing the couple<br />

every happiness will fit the bill just as well.<br />

Unless you’re experienced at this sort of thing,<br />

write down exactly what you want to say and<br />

practise it. Don’t be tempted to wing it on the day.<br />

The three essential parts of the speech are to<br />

thank the groom on behalf of the bridesmaids<br />

for his kind words about them, to read the cards<br />

and telegrams that have arrived and to<br />

announce the cutting of the cake.<br />

The chief bridesmaid<br />

The bride’s equivalent of a best man also needs to be chosen with care as it is she who will support the<br />

bride in the run-up to the ceremony and on the day itself. Though her duties aren’t as arduous as those<br />

of her male equivalent, they’re every bit as important in ensuring the bride has a worry-free day.<br />

PHOTO BY CP PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

• Keeps an eye on young attendants during the reception<br />

THE CHIEF BRIDESMAID:<br />

• Arranges the hen night and make sure the bride gets home safely<br />

• Arranges for the bride’s going away outfit and honeymoon<br />

luggage to be taken to the reception venue<br />

• Helps the bride to dress for the ceremony<br />

• Makes sure the flowers and bouquets have arrived on schedule<br />

• Supervises the other bridesmaids and attendants and<br />

assembles them at the church ready for the arrival of the bride<br />

• Arranges the bride’s dress and veil before the procession<br />

down the aisle<br />

• Takes the bride’s bouquet at the start of the wedding service and<br />

carries it to the vestry ready to give back to the bride after the<br />

signing of the register<br />

• Helps the bride change from her wedding dress into her going away outfit<br />

• Arranges for the wedding dress to be returned home<br />

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THE USHERS<br />

Church weddings normally have<br />

three ushers who should arrive at<br />

the church about 40 minutes before<br />

the wedding is due to start.<br />

Their principal job is to hand out the order<br />

of service sheets to guests as they arrive<br />

and show them to their seats - friends and<br />

family of the bride on the left of the<br />

aisle, friends and family of the groom on<br />

the right.<br />

They should make sure one of them pays<br />

special attention to the groom’s parents and<br />

the bride’s mother as they arrive and<br />

escorts them to their places.<br />

They should also help the best man<br />

organise lifts to the reception for guests<br />

who may need them.<br />

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Who does what<br />

- and when...<br />

If you think military precision takes the fun out of a<br />

wedding, you’d be wrong. The essence of a trouble-free<br />

day is that everyone knows where they’re supposed<br />

to be and what they’re supposed to be doing.<br />

Your civil<br />

ceremony explained<br />

Gone are the days when a civil marriage was a<br />

hasty 15-minute affair, conducted in a small<br />

room at the register office. Nowadays many<br />

register offices have light, spacious ceremony<br />

rooms or suites accommodating reasonably large<br />

wedding parties and even a separate bride’s<br />

waiting room and garden for photographs.<br />

A large number of venues are now also licensed<br />

for civil ceremonies and the only major restriction<br />

is that no religious music or reading may be used.<br />

Otherwise, you may personalise your ceremony in<br />

terms of vows, readings, music, dedicating<br />

candles and lots more. The registrar will offer help<br />

and advice in planning your ceremony and will<br />

normally meet you a few weeks in advance to go<br />

over the format which could be:<br />

• Pre-arrival music<br />

• Entrance music<br />

• Welcome by the registrar<br />

• Reading<br />

• Legal declarations and vows<br />

• Promises and exchange of rings<br />

• Signing the register<br />

• Reading or music<br />

• Presentation of the certificate<br />

• Leaving music<br />

You can also have a ‘dual’ ceremony – after a<br />

short ceremony at the register office to fulfil the<br />

legal requirements, you can have a further<br />

ceremony of your choosing in front of family and<br />

friends on the beach or in a woodland glade, for<br />

instance.<br />

Most registrars will try to be as flexible as<br />

possible to accommodate individual requests<br />

and they will lead you through your declarations,<br />

vows and promises.<br />

The one thing you must do is agree all of your<br />

selections in advance to ensure they comply with<br />

the law.<br />

GOODBYE AND<br />

GOOD LUCK<br />

The bride and groom should always be<br />

the first to leave the reception.<br />

The best man announces their<br />

departure after they have changed into<br />

their going away clothes and, if the<br />

bride is going to throw her bouquet,<br />

she should do so just before she<br />

leaves for her honeymoon.<br />

At the Reception<br />

The formal receiving line at the reception should take<br />

the following order:<br />

Bride’s parents<br />

Groom’s parents<br />

Bride and Groom<br />

Chief bridesmaid<br />

and best man<br />

After the meal, the best<br />

man (or toastmaster, if you<br />

have one) introduces the<br />

speeches in the following<br />

order:<br />

The bride’s father (or an<br />

old family friend) always<br />

speaks first, welcoming<br />

the guests to the<br />

reception and his new<br />

son-in-law to the family.<br />

He will complement the<br />

bride and often thanks her mother for their many happy<br />

years together. He ends by proposing the toast to the<br />

bride and groom.<br />

The groom replies to his father-in-law’s toast, thanking<br />

him and the bride’s mother for their daughter, for their<br />

welcome into the family and for the reception (the<br />

wording can be discreetly changed here if the<br />

newlyweds and/or the groom’s parents have contributed<br />

to the expense).<br />

He thanks the guests for coming to celebrate the day<br />

and for the presents they have given. He thanks his best<br />

man and the bride’s attendants for the help they have<br />

given to the bride. He then proposes the toast to the<br />

bridesmaids.<br />

Order of service<br />

PHOTO BY HOLLY MARSH PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

The order of service is variable and your<br />

minister or priest will advise you. Often a<br />

hymn is sung after the bride’s procession,<br />

followed by readings and an address by the<br />

minister.<br />

The marriage itself follows. The minister asks:<br />

“Who giveth this woman to be married to this<br />

man?” and the bride’s father silently gives his<br />

daughter’s right hand to the minister, who passes<br />

it to the groom.<br />

The bride’s father takes his seat beside the bride’s<br />

mother.<br />

The vows are made and the best man may either<br />

pass the ring(s) to the groom or they may be<br />

placed on the minister’s prayer book before he<br />

passes them to the groom.<br />

Arrival at the<br />

church<br />

The ushers should arrive about 40 minutes before<br />

the ceremony is due to begin<br />

The groom and best man should arrive about 15<br />

minutes before the ceremony is due to begin<br />

The bridesmaids and attendants should arrive about<br />

five minutes before the ceremony is due to begin<br />

The bride’s mother should be the last to arrive before<br />

the bride - when she is shown to her seat that is a<br />

signal to the congregation that the wedding is about<br />

to start<br />

The bride will be met on her arrival at the church by<br />

the minister, who precedes the bride and her father<br />

down the aisle As the congregation rises, the groom<br />

and best man take their places at the chancel steps<br />

The order of the bride’s procession is: Minister,<br />

Bride on her father’s right arm, Attendants.<br />

Now girl power<br />

is more firmly<br />

established, it is<br />

not uncommon<br />

now for the bride to<br />

say a few words and<br />

if she chooses to do<br />

so, she should speak<br />

after her new<br />

husband. This is a<br />

good opportunity for<br />

her to thank all the<br />

people who have<br />

helped her plan the big day, to thank her own parents<br />

for all their support and to thank the groom’s parents<br />

for welcoming her into their family.<br />

Last of the speeches is always the best man, who<br />

replies to the groom’s toast to the bridesmaids,<br />

wishes the happy couple well, read the cards and<br />

telegrams and announces the cutting of the cake.<br />

Many weddings now include an evening dance or<br />

disco. Before it begins, the best man should make<br />

sure the bride and groom are ready to take the floor<br />

first, followed by the bride’s parents, the groom’s<br />

parents, the best man and chief bridesmaid.<br />

The best man then returns to his seat.<br />

After the ceremony, the minister leads the<br />

couple to the altar for prayers, possibly a hymn<br />

or psalm and a final blessing. The minister then<br />

leads the couple to the vestry to sign the register<br />

and they are usually joined by their parents, the<br />

best man and the chief bridesmaid. The signing<br />

of the register must be witnessed by two adults<br />

and it is at this point that the bride raises her veil.<br />

While this is taking place, the choir may sing or<br />

the organist play a piece of music.<br />

The bridal procession then leaves the church in<br />

the following order:<br />

Bride and groom<br />

Young attendants<br />

Chief bridesmaid with the best man<br />

Bride’s mother with the groom’s father<br />

Groom’s mother with the bride’s father.<br />

If you are having bells, they will peal out at<br />

this point.<br />

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Planning Makes Perfect<br />

Those all-important<br />

The Photographs<br />

If you’re anything like most brides, your wedding<br />

day will fly by all too quickly and the best way of<br />

reliving it in the months and years to come will be<br />

through your photographs.<br />

Though lots of your friends and family will take<br />

pictures on the day, it’s always a good idea to book<br />

a professional photographer for shots you can look<br />

back on with pleasure.<br />

Your choice of photographer should be based on<br />

whether you like the type of work he or she does.<br />

Visit a selection and ask to see examples of their<br />

work from recent weddings. See how the<br />

photographer has chosen his settings and make<br />

sure there’s a mixture of different types of shots. If<br />

the firm you visit employs several photographers,<br />

find out who has taken the pictures you like best and<br />

make sure you book that specific photographer for<br />

your day - and find out what happens if that<br />

photographer is suddenly not available.<br />

Discuss whether you want formally posed shots, or<br />

whether you would like the photographer to take<br />

informal pictures as they happen. Find out whether<br />

proofs will be available at the reception.<br />

Your photographer may well know the church and<br />

the reception venue you have chosen, but if he<br />

doesn’t, check he will visit both before the day so he<br />

can choose the best locations.<br />

Make sure you get a written quotation which<br />

specifies exactly how many<br />

photographs will be taken, at<br />

what points during the day<br />

and how much extra prints<br />

will cost.<br />

If you want photographs<br />

taken in the church, check<br />

that the priest is happy for<br />

this to happen and at what<br />

points during the service.<br />

details<br />

The Cake<br />

Ideally your cake should be ordered<br />

at least three months before the<br />

wedding. Though the tradition is<br />

for a multi-tiered fruit cake, the rich<br />

variety of styles and designs now<br />

means you can have anything from<br />

profiteroles to a rich chocolate fudge.<br />

The only thing to remember is that it<br />

will have to be big enough to give<br />

everyone a slice at the reception and to send<br />

slices to absent friends. Traditionally the top tier<br />

of a wedding cake was kept for the christening of<br />

the first child - if you want to follow that tradition,<br />

you’ll have to opt for a cake that will last that<br />

long. Ask to see designs of wedding cake and<br />

find out whether bakers will create one to your<br />

own specifications. Try to match the style of cake<br />

to the style of your wedding - and remember that<br />

The Transport<br />

It’s lovely to have a luxury chauffeur-driven limousine to drive you to the ceremony - and it’s also a<br />

practical choice. You can be sure you’ll arrive on time and with all that room in the car, you won’t have<br />

to worry about your dress getting creased.<br />

Normally the best man drives the groom to the ceremony and then takes the car to the reception. But<br />

you will need transport for the bride’s mother and bridesmaids (who usually travel together) and for the<br />

bride and her father to the ceremony and for the principals from<br />

the ceremony to the reception. Whether you want a traditional<br />

Rolls Royce, a classic Daimler, a convertible Cadillac, a stretch<br />

The Video<br />

Much the same advice applies to choosing a videographer<br />

as to choosing a photographer. Make sure you see<br />

samples of recent work, make sure the videographer<br />

you get is the one whose work you like best.<br />

Again check with the priest first whether he is prepared<br />

to give permission for filming during the ceremony.<br />

PHOTO BY HOLLY MARSH PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

you can save money on the reception by<br />

choosing a wedding cake which will double as a<br />

dessert. If you do this, you might want to cut<br />

your cake early at the reception, so it can be cut<br />

up ready to serve at the appropriate time.<br />

You will need the cake to be delivered to the<br />

reception venue on the morning of the wedding -<br />

and don’t forget to check that the venue has a<br />

cake stand and knife you can use.<br />

limo or even a horse and carriage, contact a variety of<br />

companies in your area and ask to see the cars themselves, not<br />

just pictures of them.<br />

Some companies offer a service which includes flowers in the<br />

cars and a glass of champagne for the bride and groom on their<br />

way to the reception. Check exactly what’s included in the price<br />

and get a written quotation.<br />

The Flowers<br />

The cost of your flowers depends very much on the time of year, so if you<br />

want a huge display don’t choose the middle of winter when you’ll have to<br />

pay a fortune for sufficient blooms.<br />

Spring and early summer are when the biggest choice of blooms is available - it’s<br />

something of a myth that flowers are easy to come by in the height of summer -<br />

though at other times of year dramatic effects can be achieved with foliage.<br />

Your florist will help you match both the colours and the arrangement of your flowers to the<br />

style of the wedding, teasing out the shades of your bridesmaids’ dresses, matching the<br />

men’s buttonholes and styling the arrangements for both church and reception to help<br />

you create an atmosphere which may be country style, dreamily romantic, classically<br />

elegant or even based on a theme.<br />

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PHOTO BY<br />

STUART BRAMPTON<br />

PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

cut out and keep


cut out and keep<br />

As this is likely to be<br />

the most expensive<br />

part of your wedding<br />

day, it’s important to<br />

set the standard early on in your<br />

planning. Popular venues get<br />

booked up well in advance,<br />

particularly on Saturdays during<br />

the peak wedding months so<br />

make sure of your choice by<br />

booking as early as you can. Do<br />

also make sure you confirm all<br />

the details with the venue in<br />

writing, paying particular<br />

attention to what is included in<br />

the price.<br />

Depending on your budget, you<br />

can have anything from a buffet<br />

catered for at home by family and friends to<br />

hiring outside caterers for a church or village hall<br />

to a formal sit-down meal at a hotel followed by<br />

an evening dance.<br />

A sit-down meal is obviously the most expensive<br />

option, but there are all sorts of alternatives from<br />

drinks and canapes to a buffet or even a<br />

barbecue. Whichever you choose, do make sure<br />

there are plenty of chairs for people to sit down<br />

while they’re eating - standing up balancing a<br />

drink and a plate while trying to eat is virtually<br />

never comfortable for guests.<br />

If you choose a hotel, do try to eat there and<br />

sample the food before making your booking.<br />

Check such details as corkage, parking space and<br />

whether the hotel will offer a cake stand and knife<br />

and a room for the bride and groom to change<br />

into their going away outfits. Many hotels offer a<br />

package which includes the services of a<br />

toastmaster and a complimentary room for<br />

the first night of the honeymoon. Once<br />

you have chosen your venue, confirm in<br />

writing what you understand is included<br />

in the price.<br />

Drinks for your guests will take up a<br />

large part of your budget. It’s<br />

reasonable to assume each will drink<br />

one or two glasses on arrival at the<br />

reception, three or four glasses with<br />

their meal and another glass with the<br />

toasts.<br />

A right royal reception<br />

Whether it’s a small buffet for a few close family and friends or a lavish do at<br />

the smartest of venues, your reception is the big celebration of your wedding -<br />

a chance for people to share your happiness and an opportunity for you to<br />

thank them for their presents and for coming to see you married.<br />

Though champagne is the traditional<br />

wedding drink, you can offer sherry,<br />

Chief bridesmaid<br />

Pimms or Bucks Fizz on arrival and wine with the<br />

meal, saving the champagne - or, indeed a good<br />

sparkling wine - for the toasts. For reference, you<br />

will get between 10 and 12 glasses of sherry to<br />

each bottle and between six and eight glasses of<br />

wine or champagne per bottle. Do remember to<br />

provide plenty of soft drinks for children and<br />

adults who prefer them or who may be driving.<br />

Allow between half and one litre per person.<br />

There can be a long break between ceremony and<br />

reception while photographs are being taken and<br />

some couples are now offering a glass of sherry<br />

outside the church and perhaps live music to<br />

entertain guests as they arrive at the reception.<br />

The usual order of events at the reception is:<br />

The receiving line<br />

The meal<br />

Speeches and toasts<br />

Cutting of the cake (though some couples prefer to<br />

Top Table Seating Plan<br />

Groom’s father<br />

Bride’s mother<br />

Groom<br />

PHOTO BY ROSIE CUTBILL PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

Bride<br />

Bride’s father<br />

Groom’s mother<br />

Best Man<br />

do this before the speeches to<br />

allow it to be cut and served)<br />

Departure of bride and groom<br />

If you are having a sit-down meal, it<br />

is essential to have a seating plan.<br />

Try to put together tables of people<br />

who you think will get on well<br />

together. The top table seating plan<br />

for a sit-down meal is shown below.<br />

Don’t feel hidebound by what you<br />

think a traditional wedding breakfast<br />

should consists of - nowadays<br />

anything goes, from bangers and<br />

mash and jam roly-poly to pasta with<br />

wedding cake for dessert. It’s also<br />

worth remembering you may need to<br />

cater for vegetarians or guests on<br />

special diets.<br />

Do give considerable thought to the room and table<br />

decorations and the lighting at your reception. Flowers<br />

should match the theme colours of the wedding and a<br />

little money spent on atmospheric lighting can make<br />

an enormous difference.<br />

Favours for guests range from the traditional small<br />

baskets of sugared almonds or fortune cookies to little<br />

books of love poems.<br />

Crackers and balloons always help create an<br />

atmosphere and many couple now put a disposable<br />

camera on each table, so guests can record for you<br />

the parts of your reception that you missed on<br />

the day!<br />

If you are having a number of small children at your<br />

wedding, it’s worth giving some thought as to whether<br />

you can organise a creche - both to stop the<br />

youngsters getting bored and to give their parents a<br />

chance to enjoy themselves without worrying<br />

about what their offspring are up to.<br />

WHATEVER THE SIZE OF YOUR RECEPTION,<br />

it’s always nice to have a formal or semiformal<br />

receiving line to welcome your<br />

guests. This ensures that you get the<br />

chance to meet everybody and<br />

accept their congratulations.<br />

The bride’s parents, as the hosts are<br />

usually first in the receiving line,<br />

followed by the groom’s parents,<br />

the bride and groom and then the<br />

bridesmaids and attendants.<br />

Planning Makes Perfect<br />

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Novotel Hotel<br />

Southampton Hants<br />

19th February 2017<br />

Holiday Inn Hotel,<br />

Titchfield Hants<br />

26th February 2017<br />

Langstone Hotel, Hayling Hants<br />

5th March 2017<br />

Holiday Inn Hotel, Eastleigh Hants<br />

12th March 2017<br />

Winchester Royal Hotel<br />

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19th March 2017<br />

Inn Lodge Hotel, Portsmouth Hants<br />

2nd April 2017<br />

The Basingstoke Hotel (opening soon<br />

as the Crowne Plaza) Old Common<br />

Road, Black Dam, Basingstoke<br />

9th April 2017<br />

Royal Beech Hotel, Southsea Hants<br />

4th June 2017<br />

Langstone Hotel, Hayling Hants<br />

18th June 2017<br />

Holiday Inn Hotel, Titchfield Hants<br />

25th June 2017<br />

Holiday Inn Hotel, Eastleigh Hants<br />

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For a comprehensive list of all our shows, please<br />

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PHOTO BY STUART<br />

BRAMPTON PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

My fair lady...<br />

The 2017 BIC Wedding Show, now<br />

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There'll be a full programme of events<br />

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The event begins on Friday, February 17<br />

PHOTO BY ROSIE<br />

CUTBILL PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

with a free preview evening from 4.30pm to 7pm, continuing on Saturday,<br />

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with daily fashion shows and musical performances.<br />

Tickets are on general sale now and cost £5 on Saturday and Sunday. The<br />

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Call BH Live Tickets on 0844 576 3000*, book online at<br />

www.bhlivetickets.co.uk or visit the BIC or Bournemouth Pavilion ticket office<br />

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For a round-up of wedding fairs near<br />

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There really is something to suit every<br />

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The knowledgeable staff are happy to<br />

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They can suggest complementary hats,<br />

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It all adds up to an enjoyable, pressurefree<br />

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So if you have something to celebrate<br />

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For more information visit the<br />

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▼Kingston Country Courtyard, Corfe Castle<br />

Kingston Country Courtyard gives you a taste of farmstead life in an<br />

Area of Outstanding Natural Beauty. Set on a ridge amid the beautiful<br />

Purbeck Hills, it offers spectacular views stretching from historic Corfe<br />

Castle to the north to the Isle of Wight to the east. Nearby are the golden<br />

sands of Studland Bay and Kimmeridge and the <strong>Dorset</strong> Coastal Path.<br />

The beautifully restored 16th century barn is a blank canvas on which couples<br />

can create their unique wedding day. It is licensed for civil ceremonies, so you<br />

can marry outside under a pretty pagoda or<br />

inside the barn itself.<br />

Wedding co-ordinators Bobbie and Lara work<br />

closely with each individual couple’s ideas<br />

and the barn is hired for two and a half days,<br />

so there’s plenty of time to decorate however<br />

you choose.<br />

The high-beamed barn can be simply strung<br />

with fairy lights and ivy or adorned with<br />

handmade pompoms, lanterns, vintage china,<br />

seaside themes, rustic hay bales or simply<br />

clever lighting of the Purbeck stone walls.<br />

On-site caterers have over 25 years’<br />

experience and each menu is tailored to<br />

personal tastes.<br />

With 25 en suite rooms available for guests,<br />

often the celebrations start the day before –<br />

and there’s a deluxe honeymoon suite for the happy couple.<br />

For further details call 01929 481066 or visit the website at<br />

www.kingstoncountrycourtyard.com.<br />

PHOTO BY ROSIE CUTBILL PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

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dreamvenues<br />

▼Merley House, Wimborne<br />

Merley House is<br />

a stunning 18th<br />

century Georgian<br />

manor house just south of<br />

Wimborne, <strong>Dorset</strong>. If you<br />

are looking for a venue for<br />

your whole day then look<br />

no further! They offer<br />

exclusivity for you and your<br />

guests and a friendly<br />

personal service tailored to<br />

your needs.<br />

The ground floor has<br />

four state rooms each<br />

individually decorated with period features,<br />

enchanting ceilings and impressive fireplaces.<br />

The classic entrance hall and dramatic staircase<br />

provide you with wonderful photograph<br />

opportunities while your guests enjoy the wide<br />

variety of sumptuous food and fine beverages. On<br />

the first floor you have use of the bridal suite which<br />

offers fantastic photo opportunities, including use<br />

of the three balconies.<br />

There are packages to suit every budget and<br />

discounts for weekday and winter weddings.<br />

If you are interested in viewing the venue,<br />

contact the events team on 01202 885024 or<br />

enquiries@merleyhouseevents.co.uk.<br />

▼ The Victorian Barn,<br />

Blandford Forum<br />

The Victorian Barn offers a civil ceremony in the<br />

stunning Osborne Hall for up to 120 guests or<br />

the Garden Room for up to 200 guests.<br />

The Osborne Hall can seat up to 120 for a formal<br />

meal and up to 200 for a buffet and specialises in<br />

bespoke weddings designed to meet your exclusive<br />

requirements.<br />

Working closely with a group of hand-picked local<br />

suppliers, The Victorian Barn can offer excellent<br />

food, discreet service, wonderful facilities and<br />

an impressive backdrop for your photographs.<br />

The Victorian Barn offers onsite luxury<br />

accommodation for up to 66 guests.<br />

For more information or an informal chat contact<br />

wedding co-ordinator Isabelle on 01258 817501,<br />

email: weddings@thevictorianbarn.co.uk or visit<br />

the website at www.thevictorianbarn.co.uk.<br />

PS: You can see the beautiful venue and all of its<br />

fantastic facilities for yourself at the Victorian<br />

Barn’s annual Wedding Showcase on Sunday,<br />

February 26, 2017 from 11am to 3pm.<br />

Let The Victorian<br />

Barn provide the setting<br />

for your special day<br />

• Licensed for civil ceremonies.<br />

• <strong>Weddings</strong> up to 120<br />

• Receptions up to 200<br />

• Onsite luxury accommodation<br />

Please contact Isabelle,<br />

Wedding Co-ordinator:<br />

Tel: 01258 817501<br />

weddings@thevictorianbarn.co.uk<br />

www.thevictorianbarn.co.uk<br />

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Your special day in Poole, the wedding coast…<br />

Upton House Upton House – 01202 262753<br />

weddingsuptonhouse@poole.gov.uk<br />

Scaplen’s Court Scaplen’s Court – 01202 262600<br />

www.poolemuseum.com/hire/weddings<br />

Branksome Dene Branksome Dene – 01202 708181<br />

beachoffice@poole.gov.uk<br />

The Guildhall The Guildhall – 01202 633744<br />

www.poole.gov.uk<br />

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Skip to the<br />

loo, my darling!<br />

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in keeping with the rest of your special day. They take care to ensure that<br />

their units are prepared to a high standard and their wide range ensures<br />

that your requirements can be met no matter whether your wedding is a large<br />

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Director Rob Beale said: ‘As part of a family business, currently celebrating<br />

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The Ladies’ section of the 3+1 (17ft) unit includes mirrors and three separate<br />

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photo by David Wilkins<br />

All units include the<br />

following:<br />

• Soft toilet tissue<br />

• Warm running water<br />

• Hand soap and<br />

paper towels<br />

• Fresh flowers<br />

• Vanity basket option<br />

• Waste bin in<br />

each cubicle<br />

• Warm air heaters<br />

With Temporary Toilets<br />

you can be sure that the essentials are taken care of in style.<br />

For more information, call 01747 871464 or visit the website at<br />

www.temporarytoilets.co.uk.<br />

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▼ Highcliffe Castle, Highcliffe<br />

dreamvenues<br />

Avington Park<br />

PHOTO BY WWW.CARRIEBUGGPHOTOGRAPHY.CO.UK<br />

Built in an architectural style appropriately called ‘Romantic and<br />

Picturesque’, spectacular Highcliffe Castle provides a stunning clifftop<br />

location for your wedding. The Grade I listed castle specialises in both<br />

civil ceremonies and receptions.<br />

You can hold your ceremony in the<br />

beautiful Wintergarden which seats<br />

100 guests and then enjoy your<br />

reception in the refurbished State<br />

Dining Room, which seats 80, or<br />

the Great Hall seating up to 100.<br />

The Wedding Suite holds up to 150<br />

for your evening party. Alternatively<br />

you may wish to head off to one of<br />

the many local restaurants or hotels<br />

for your reception.<br />

You can hold your wedding on any<br />

day of the week throughout the year,<br />

with several time options to choose<br />

from. Following your ceremony why<br />

PHOTO BY<br />

CP PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

not enjoy Champagne and canapés in the beautiful grounds while your<br />

photographs are taken?<br />

The beautiful sandy beach, just a gentle stroll away, provides additional photo<br />

opportunities.<br />

Contact the castle team on 01425 278807 to receive a wedding pack and<br />

check availability or visit www.highcliffecastle.co.uk.<br />

A stunning setting<br />

for ceremonies and<br />

receptions, from the<br />

grandest wedding<br />

to a small intimate<br />

gathering, this<br />

beautiful stately home in magnificent parkland<br />

offers exclusive use to make your day truly<br />

memorable.<br />

Tel: 01962 779260 • www.avingtonpark.co.uk<br />

Winchester, <strong>Hampshire</strong> SO21 1DB<br />

e: enquiries@avingtonpark.co.uk<br />

Images courtesy of Dave Burlison and Jacques Eloff<br />

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Licensed for Civil<br />

Ceremonies &<br />

Partnerships<br />

Tailor made wedding<br />

packages<br />

Your perfect day awaits...<br />

A choice of two fabulous venues with a picturesque<br />

backdrop for your ceremony & reception<br />

64 Christchurch Road, Ferndown, <strong>Dorset</strong>, BH228ST.<br />

Tel: 01202 593499 E-mail: weddings@dudsburygolfclub.co.uk<br />

£2695.00<br />

Based on 40 adult guests<br />

Valid until April 2018<br />

S TA N W E L L H O U S E<br />

B O U T I Q U E H O T E L<br />

PACKAGE INCLUDES:<br />

A glass of bucks fizz or pimms<br />

for your drinks reception<br />

3 course wedding breakfast from<br />

our 2 rosette restaurant<br />

Half a bottle of house wine<br />

per person<br />

Unlimited still and<br />

sparkling water<br />

Tea or coffee included<br />

Use of cake stand and knife<br />

Personalised place cards<br />

A glass of prosecco for<br />

speeches<br />

Guaranteed sole wedding<br />

on the day<br />

Evening buffet<br />

Complimentary bridal suite<br />

for your wedding night<br />

Discounted accommodation<br />

for all wedding guests<br />

Dedicated wedding coordinator<br />

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TIGER LILY OCCASIONS<br />

Wedding and Event Hire Specialists<br />

CHAIR COVERS - CENTREPIECES<br />

CHOCOLATE FOUNTAINS - TABLE LINEN<br />

VENUE DECORATION - CANDY BUFFETS<br />

EDIBLE PALM TREES - PICK 'N' MIX STAND<br />

GIANT GARDEN GAMES - CANDY FLOSS<br />

*WEDDING PACKAGES AVAILABLE*<br />

Poole-based Tiger Lily<br />

Occasions specialises in hiring<br />

those little extras which make<br />

your wedding stand out from the<br />

crowd. Services range<br />

from chair covers, centrepieces and<br />

accessories to chocolate fountain and<br />

pick ’n’ mix hire. They even have<br />

giant garden games.<br />

Call 0784 5000 454 or visit<br />

www.tigerlilyoccasions.com.<br />

▼<br />

WWW.TIGERLILYOCCASIONS.COM<br />

Email: TIGERLILYOCCASIONS@LIVE.CO.UK<br />

PHONE: 07845 000454<br />

Adding the<br />

www.rosiecutbillphotography.co.uk<br />

07958 984554 | 01672 540520<br />

info@rosiecutbillphotography.co.uk<br />

EK Creations work closely with<br />

their clients to ensure all<br />

expectations and requests are<br />

met, to the highest possible<br />

standard. Emma and her team provide<br />

a personal, yet professional service, to<br />

ensure every bridal couple have the<br />

memorable Wow! factor, they deserve.<br />

Their decorative chair covers and<br />

extensive array of coloured chair<br />

sashes allow EK Creations to create a<br />

unique feel to every event. They<br />

also make bespoke, hand-crafted<br />

stationery and have a stunning<br />

selection of table centrepieces and<br />

decorations for those finishing<br />

touches.<br />

All of their products are of the highest<br />

quality and standard.<br />

For details, call 07584 495639, or visit www.ekcreations.co.uk.<br />

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Wow!<br />

factor<br />

Beautiful chair covers & sashes,<br />

elegant table decorations & bespoke<br />

wedding stationery<br />

Tel: 07584 495639<br />

sales@ekcreations.co.uk<br />

www.ekcreations.co.uk<br />

Walk down an aisle fringed with<br />

beautiful blossom trees, have<br />

your photographs taken under<br />

a romantic cherry tree in full<br />

bloom and, in the evening, illuminate the<br />

outdoors – and even the dance floor – with<br />

stunning trees sparkling with LED lights.<br />

Winchester-based Twilight Trees supply<br />

some of the country’s best known venues and work with top event planners<br />

to create a breathtaking result.<br />

Now you can hire their wisteria and cherry blossom trees and their LED<br />

cherry and maple trees to add romance and sparkle to your wedding day. The<br />

realistic tree trunks are made of hand-painted resin, the branches are of real<br />

wood and the petals are a silk blend.<br />

They also have wisteria poms, stunning at the end of an aisle or inside a<br />

marquee, as well as a selection of accessories.<br />

The professional team from Twilight Trees will deliver and collect at your<br />

convenience and set up the trees quickly and efficiently.<br />

For more details, call 01962 877644 or visit www.twilight-trees.com.<br />

The LED Tree Company<br />

For indoors and out, to buy or to rent<br />

01962 877644<br />

info@twightlIght-trees.com<br />

www.twightlight-trees.com<br />

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W E D D I N G FA I R S<br />

Sunday 19th February • Sunday 8th October • 11am - 3pm<br />

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▼The Italian Villa at Compton Acres, Poole<br />

dreamvenues<br />

PHOTO BY DAVID<br />

WHEELER PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

Set against a dramatic backdrop of 10 acres of<br />

manicured gardens, the stunning Italian Villa is<br />

one of the UK’s best wedding venues, offering chic<br />

sophistication, impeccable service and mouth-watering<br />

cuisine. And it can be exclusively yours for<br />

your wedding.<br />

Voted Best Venue at the National Wedding<br />

Awards and also Most Popular All-Inclusive<br />

Venue, Worldwide in the International<br />

Wedding Expert Awards, the multi-award<br />

winning Italian Villa offers three floors of<br />

unrivalled elegance.<br />

It is licensed for civil ceremonies and, with a<br />

balcony that overlooks the stunning Italian<br />

Garden, you can be sure that your wedding<br />

photos will be sensational! Book The Italian Villa and<br />

you’ll enjoy full exclusivity of this luxurious, fairytale<br />

venue – and really WOW your guests!<br />

You don’t have to worry about bumping into other hotel<br />

guests or finding staff attending to others’ needs. You<br />

will be the only priority and their impeccable standards<br />

mean every couple and their guests are treated like the<br />

VIPs they are.<br />

The villa can cater for intimate receptions for 65, or can<br />

provide a relaxed setting for up to 250 guests by using<br />

the direct access into the spectacular Italian Garden.<br />

There are lifts to all three floors, air conditioning, builtin<br />

sound system and speakers, a stage, and audio-visual<br />

screens.<br />

And with catering from the award-winning Beales<br />

Gourmet, your guests will savour spectacular cuisine<br />

from this talented team of chefs.<br />

See the venue for yourself at their Wedding Open Day<br />

on Sunday, January 29 from 11am to 3pm or for more<br />

information, call 01202 816074 or visit the website at<br />

www.the-italian-villa.co.uk.<br />

▼Kingston Maurward, near Dorchester<br />

Enjoy your own English country<br />

house wedding at Kingston<br />

Maurward in a tranquil, peaceful<br />

and intimate setting near Dorchester.<br />

The Georgian mansion house is<br />

approached by a sweeping drive and set<br />

in beautiful gardens, with a scenic lake,<br />

extensive lawns and formal gardens.<br />

It is licensed for civil ceremonies and<br />

offers exclusive use of all state rooms<br />

and suites during your reception.<br />

You can choose how to use the<br />

rooms to create your<br />

perfect layout including<br />

reception room, quiet<br />

rooms for tired adults<br />

or even a TV lounge for<br />

restless youngsters.<br />

Friendly, professional<br />

staff will ensure that<br />

the entire day is tailored to your<br />

individual requirements and will<br />

always go the extra mile to make sure<br />

your day is one to remember for ever.<br />

For more details, call 01305<br />

215050 or visit the website at<br />

www.kingstonmaurward.com/weddings<br />

PS: See the venue for yourself<br />

at Kingston Maurward’s Spring<br />

wedding fair on February 19th from<br />

11am to 3pm.<br />

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▼The Custom House, Poole<br />

PHOTO BY TELL YOUR STORY PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

U N I Q U E G E O R G I A N V E N U E W I T H W A T E R S I D E V I E W S<br />

Apanoramic view over Poole Harbour and Quay is just one of the attractions<br />

of the historic Custom House as your reception venue. Its elevated position<br />

commands uninterrupted sea views. Elegant decor complements its<br />

beamed ceilings and character nooks and crannies. Sumptuous food, fine wines<br />

and friendly staff ensure both you and your guests will be well looked after.<br />

And, as a bonus, for all but the<br />

most intimate weddings, the<br />

whole of the building is yours<br />

for the day. Your guests can<br />

meet in the informal<br />

downstairs cafe bar, with an al<br />

fresco patio for fine days, then<br />

dine in the elegant dining<br />

room, spilling out onto the<br />

wonderful sweeping outside<br />

staircase which is perfect for<br />

photographs.<br />

The Custom House has been perfecting its wedding service for nearly 20 years and<br />

offers couples the chance to build whatever they like into their reception. Couples<br />

are invited to discuss their requirements over a cup of coffee and staff are happy<br />

to organise cake, flowers and evening entertainment if required. Up to 70 guests<br />

can be catered for a sit-down meal, or 120 for a buffet. For more intimate<br />

receptions, the Beamed Room upstairs, with its lovely waterside views, seats 30<br />

for a meal or 50 for a buffet.<br />

For more information, contact 01202 676767 or visit the website at<br />

www.customhouse.co.uk.<br />

W E D D I N G B R E A K F A S T S U P T O 7 0 , E V E N I N G<br />

R E C E P T I O N S U P T O 1 2 0 P L U S B E A U T I F U L R O O M<br />

F O R I N T I M A T E W E D D I N G S U N D E R 3 0 .<br />

THE QUAY, POOLE, BH15 1HP<br />

TELEPHONE 01202 676767<br />

email: info@customhouse.co.uk • www.customhouse.co.uk<br />

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The perfect venue for your perfect day. Hotel Miramar is the country house hotel overlooking<br />

the bay - the ideal destination for your dream wedding or civil ceremony.<br />

Please contact us for a Wedding Pack or to arrange a personal viewing<br />

www.miramar-bournemouth.com | 01202 556581<br />

Hotel Miramar, East Overcliff Drive, Bournemouth. BH1 3AL<br />

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www.hookecourt.co.uk/weddings<br />

Pennsylvania Castle is a very special place to escape to.<br />

Positioned upon a cliff top, overlooking the sea, it is a truly unique venue of pure luxury and elegance.<br />

Licensed for both indoor and outdoor ceremonies, with lavish interiors and extensive terraces.<br />

The Castle is hired exclusively for your wedding day.<br />

Contact the Castle team on 01305 820659 or visit www.thepenn.co.uk<br />

Photos by Angela Vincent, Ed Peers & Jude Middleton<br />

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▼ Hooke Court, near Beaminster<br />

dreamvenues<br />

Divine<br />

decadence...<br />

Hooke Court offers a choice of four fabulous<br />

venues for your marriage ceremony and<br />

wedding reception. With a choice of historic<br />

or contemporary rooms they can help you plan your<br />

wedding to your own personal style. Whether it’s an<br />

intimate candlelit ceremony for 20 guests or a<br />

grand affair for 200 friends and family they can<br />

assist you to make your dream wedding a reality.<br />

Set in beautiful grounds, Hooke Court offers a<br />

myriad of stunning locations<br />

to capture your cherished<br />

memories, from a quiet romantic<br />

moment overlooking the lake to a<br />

treasured photo with all of your<br />

family and friends gathered in<br />

front of the beautiful 14th<br />

century manor house.<br />

A member of the management<br />

team will help you plan the whole<br />

day, ensuring you make the most<br />

of all Hooke Court has to offer.<br />

They will also be on hand until the last guest leaves to<br />

ensure that you can relax and enjoy your special day.<br />

Perhaps you might like to extend your celebrations<br />

by offering your guests the opportunity to stay<br />

the night at Hooke Court, which can be hired<br />

exclusively.<br />

Call 01308 862260 to arrange a visit to see<br />

all that Hooke Court has to offer or visit<br />

www.hookecourt.co.uk/weddings<br />

PHOTO BY STUART BRAMPTON PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

For sheer indulgent<br />

decadence, you can’t beat a<br />

chocolate fountain at your reception. Dip<br />

bite-sized pieces of fresh fruit, homemade<br />

biscuits and other goodies in a warm<br />

cascade of luxury Belgian chocolate and<br />

savour the sensation. Well established<br />

family business, Chocolate Fountains of<br />

<strong>Dorset</strong>, offers packages to suit all budgets,<br />

starting at just £275 for two fountains.<br />

Call 01202 890033 or visit<br />

www.chocolatefountainsofdorset.co.uk<br />

for more details.<br />

▼<br />

▼ Pennsylvania Castle, Isle of Portland<br />

Set in stunning grounds on a clifftop with panoramic sea views, the<br />

Grade II listed Pennsylvania Castle is a spectacular location for your<br />

wedding.<br />

Licensed for civil ceremonies both indoors and outside under the wedding<br />

pergola, The Penn has been beautifully refurbished and can be hired<br />

exclusively. <strong>Weddings</strong> of all sizes are welcomed, from intimate family<br />

gatherings to parties of up to 100 guests for a wedding breakfast or more if<br />

you choose a marquee in the beautifully landscaped gardens.<br />

With nine luxurious en suite bedrooms, the castle offers accommodation for<br />

up to 20 guests and although it is self catered, a number of recommended<br />

caterers are available to meet every requirement.<br />

For more details, call 01305 820659 or visit the website at<br />

www.thepenn.co.uk.<br />

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Bournemouth<br />

R E G I S T R A T I O N S E R V I C E<br />

Your ceremony<br />

in Southampton<br />

TOWN HALL, BOURNEMOUTH<br />

Choice of 3 rooms - Monday to Saturday Mid-day<br />

Council Chamber - available 7 days a week.<br />

Telephone: 01202 451510<br />

www.bournemouth.gov.uk/living<br />

e-mail: registrars@bournemouth.gov.uk<br />

Licensed Venue<br />

or Register Office<br />

<strong>Weddings</strong>, Civil Partnerships<br />

and Renewal of Vows<br />

Tel: 02380 915327<br />

email: registrars@southampton.gov.uk<br />

www.southampton.gov.uk<br />

6a, Bugle Street, Southampton<br />

Classic Fireworks believe in<br />

giving a personal service and<br />

with our guidance and skill we<br />

aim to offer whatever you<br />

require to create a spectacular<br />

display.<br />

We can provide for any event<br />

from <strong>Weddings</strong> and Civil<br />

Ceremonies to corporate and<br />

other important events.<br />

We also specialise in low<br />

noise fireworks to suit the<br />

most sensitive of locations.<br />

• Indoor and outdoor flames<br />

• Confetti cannons<br />

• Snow and bubble machines<br />

are also available.<br />

Lance work fire pictures are<br />

available - initials, red hearts,<br />

champagne bottles and more...<br />

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Nothing entertains like a firework display<br />

and the stunning colours and effects<br />

will captivate all your guests and make<br />

a memorable ending to the most<br />

perfect of days.<br />

Classic Fireworks provide breathtaking professional<br />

firework displays, designed to your specific<br />

requirements.<br />

They can choreograph a display to music so you<br />

can enjoy the fireworks dancing to your favourite<br />

song or even light up the sky with lance work of<br />

your names, heart, initials or champagne bottle.<br />

And their dancing flames choreographed to music<br />

are 10 metres to 15 metres high.<br />

Worried about the noise? They specialise in low<br />

noise fireworks to suit even the most sensitive<br />

locations - and if you want a white<br />

wedding, they can even provide snow.<br />

Classic Fireworks pride themselves on<br />

providing a first class tailor made<br />

service offering value for money. Safety<br />

is paramount: all staff members are<br />

highly trained and experienced and the<br />

company is a member of the Explosives<br />

Industry Group and the British<br />

Pyrotechnics Association.<br />

For more details, call 0844 800 8542,<br />

email leon@classicfireworks.co.uk or<br />

visit the website at<br />

www.classicfireworks.co.uk.<br />

...and off with a bang!<br />

All the atmosphere and excitement of a real<br />

casino with none of the risks, that’s what’s<br />

on offer from Absolute Fun Casino who<br />

will bring quality full size blackjack and roulette<br />

tables (staffed by professional croupiers) to your<br />

reception, where all your guests are given a piece<br />

of personalised fun money with your names, date<br />

and venue printed on it.<br />

PHOTO BY CP PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

Your guests bring this to the gaming tables where<br />

they will be taught to play and be entertained. This<br />

is a great icebreaker which will bring your families<br />

and friends together and the winner will receive a<br />

framed certificate and a bottle of Champagne.<br />

Call 01202 600699 or visit<br />

www.absolutefuncasino.co.uk for more<br />

information.<br />

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<strong>Hampshire</strong><br />

R E G I S T R A T I O N<br />

S E R V I C E S<br />

<strong>Hampshire</strong> REg Office<br />

REPEAT Art<br />

ALDERSHOT<br />

30, Grosvenor Rd. Aldershot GU11 3EB<br />

ALTON<br />

4, Queen's Rd. Alton GU34 1HU<br />

ANDOVER<br />

Beech Hurst, Weyhill Rd. Andover SP10 3AJ<br />

BASINGSTOKE<br />

Goldings, London Rd. Basingstoke RG21 4AN<br />

EASTLEIGH<br />

Eastleigh Library, 1st Floor Swan Centre, Eastleigh SO50 5SF<br />

FAREHAM<br />

4, Osborn Rd. South, Fareham PO16 7DG<br />

GOSPORT<br />

Gosport Discovery Centre, High Street, Gosport PO12 1BT<br />

HAVANT<br />

1st Floor, Havant Library, Meridian Centre, Havant PO9 1UN<br />

LYMINGTON<br />

Lymington Library, North Close, Lymington SO41 9BW<br />

PETERSFIELD<br />

Petersfield Library, 27, The Square, Petersfield GU32 3HH<br />

RINGWOOD<br />

Ringwood Gateway, The Furlong, Ringwood BH24 1AT<br />

ROMSEY<br />

Romsey Town Hall, 1, Market Place, Romsey SO51 8YZ<br />

TOTTON<br />

Totton Hub, 1, High Street, Totton SO40 8YZ<br />

WINCHESTER<br />

Castle Hill, High Street, Winchester SO23 8HU<br />

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For more information please contact us on 0845 603 5637<br />

or visit www3.hants.gov.uk/registration.htm


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Tel: 01935 816245<br />

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for details or visit<br />

www.dreamwed.co.uk<br />

MOTHER OF THE BRIDE<br />

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Handbags<br />

Exclusive range of<br />

handmade bags using<br />

fine silks, satins & leather.<br />

Colour matching and<br />

bespoke service available.<br />

For an appointment please call<br />

01202 738064<br />

www.roseringrosehandbags.co.uk<br />

TOASTMASTER<br />

Do you want a perfect day?<br />

Brian is one of the highest quality<br />

toastmasters and will<br />

ensure your day is<br />

well organized<br />

01202<br />

824885<br />

brian.handsandfeet@talktalk.net<br />

www.toastmasterdorset.co.uk<br />

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dates for your diary<br />

JANUARY 7: The Millstream Bistro, Wimborne, <strong>Dorset</strong> (11am to 3pm,<br />

contact 07715 293080 or www.siennagraceweddings.co.uk)<br />

JANUARY 7 & 8: Dudsbury Golf Club, Ferndown (11am to 4pm,<br />

contact 01202 593499)<br />

JANUARY 8: RNLI College, Poole (10am to 3pm, contact 01202<br />

533014 or www.bellissimo-weddings.co.uk)<br />

JANUARY 8: Spinnaker Tower, Portsmouth (11am to 3.30pm,<br />

contact 01329 227437 or www.pmnweddingfayres.co.uk)<br />

JANUARY 15: The Solent Hotel & Spa, Whiteley (11am to 3.30pm,<br />

contact 01329 227437 or www.pmnweddingfayres.co.uk)<br />

JANUARY 15: Weymouth Pavilion (11am to 4pm, contact 01305<br />

783225 or www.weymouthpavilion.com)<br />

JANUARY 22: Holiday Inn, Winchester (11am to 3pm, contact<br />

www.littlestarevents.co.uk)<br />

JANUARY 22: Meon Valley Marriott Hotel, Southampton (11am to<br />

3.30pm, contact 02380 560073 or<br />

www.weddingexhibitionpromotions.co.uk)<br />

JANUARY 29: The Italian Villa, Compton Acres, Poole (11am to 3pm,<br />

contact 01202 816074 or www.the-italian-villa.co.uk)<br />

JANUARY 29: Botleigh Grange Hotel, Hedge End (10.30am to 3pm,<br />

contact 01903 366163 or www.stylisheventsfayres.com)<br />

JANUARY 29: Digby Hall, Sherborne (11am to 3pm, contact 01458<br />

250755 or www.abcweddingdresses.co.uk)<br />

JANUARY 29: Canford School, Wimborne (11am to 3pm, contact<br />

01202 741650 or www.weddingdaze.co.uk)<br />

JANUARY 29: Holiday Inn, Southsea (11am to 3.30pm, contact<br />

02380 560073 or www.weddingexhibitionpromotions.co.uk)<br />

JANUARY 29: De Vere New Place, Shirrel Heath (11.30am to 4pm,<br />

contact 01329 227437 or www.pmnweddingfayres.co.uk)<br />

FEBRUARY 5: Holiday Inn, Basingstoke (11am to 3.30pm, contact<br />

02380 560073 or www.weddingexhibitionpromotions.co.uk)<br />

FEBRUARY 5: Chilworth Manor, Southampton (11am to 3.30pm,<br />

contact 01329 227437 or www.pmnweddingfayres.co.uk)<br />

FEBRUARY 5: Rhinefield House, New Forest (10.30am to 3pm,<br />

contact 01903 366163 or www.stylisheventsfayres.com)<br />

FEBRUARY 12: Novotel Hotel, Southampton (11am to 3.30pm,<br />

contact 02380 560073 or www.weddingexhibitionpromotions.co.uk)<br />

FEBRUARY 12: Portsmouth Guildhall (11am to 3.30pm, contact<br />

01329 227437 or www.pmnweddingfayres.co.uk)<br />

FEBRUARY 12: Sunninghill Prep School, Dorchester (1 to 4pm,<br />

contact 0747 2550567 or www.v-a-productions.com)<br />

FEBRUARY 17 to 19: Bournemouth International Centre, (4.30 to<br />

8pm Friday, 10am to 5pm Saturday and 11am to 4pm Sunday,<br />

contact 01202 456592 or www.bhlivetickets.co.uk)<br />

FEBRUARY 19: Holiday Inn, Tichfield, Fareham (11am to 3.30pm,<br />

contact 02380 560073 or www.weddingexhibitionpromotions.co.uk)<br />

FEBRUARY 19: Lighthouse, Poole Arts Centre (11am to 3pm, contact<br />

01202 741650 or www.weddingdaze.co.uk)<br />

FEBRUARY 19: Old Thorns Manor, Liphook (11am to 3.30pm,<br />

contact 01329 227437 or www.pmnweddingfayres.co.uk)<br />

FEBRUARY 19: Kingston Maurward House, <strong>Dorset</strong> (11am to 3pm,<br />

contact 01305 215050)<br />

FEBRUARY 26: Hallmark Hotels Collection Open Day, Carlton Hotel,<br />

West Overcliff Drive, Bournemouth (11am to 3pm, contact 01202<br />

552011)<br />

FEBRUARY 26: Langstone Hotel, Hayling (11am to 3.30pm, contact<br />

02380 560073 or www.weddingexhibitionpromotions.co.uk)<br />

FEBRUARY 26: Bridal Boot Sale & Vintage wedding fayre, Thistle<br />

Hotel, Poole (1pm to 4pm, contact 0747 2550567 or www.v-aproductions.com)<br />

FEBRUARY 26: Victorian Barn, Blandford Forum (11am to 3pm,<br />

contact 01258 817501 or www.thevictorianbarn.com)<br />

calling wedding fair organisers<br />

MARCH 5: Littledown Centre, Bournemouth (11am to 3pm, contact<br />

01202 741650 or www.weddingdaze.co.uk)<br />

MARCH 5: Holiday Inn, Eastleigh (11am to 3.30pm, contact 02380<br />

560073 or www.weddingexhibitionpromotions.co.uk)<br />

MARCH 5: Norton Park Hotel, Winchester (11am to 3.30pm, contact<br />

0843 2892742 or www.captivatingevents.co.uk)<br />

MARCH 5: George Albert Hotel, Wardon Hill, Dorchester (11am to<br />

3pm, contact 01935 483430)<br />

MARCH 5: Holiday Inn, Southampton (10am to 3pm, contact<br />

02381205224 or www.southamptonhospitalcharity.org/calendar)<br />

MARCH 5: Hilton Southampton (11am to 3pm, contact<br />

www.littlestarevents.co.uk)<br />

MARCH 5: Portsmouth Marriott, (11am to 3.30pm, contact 01329<br />

227437 or www.pmnweddingfayres.co.uk)<br />

MARCH 5: Upton House, Upton Country Park (11am to 3pm, contact<br />

01202 262753 or www.uptoncountrypark.org)<br />

MARCH 12: Lainston House, Winchester (11am to 3.30pm, contact<br />

01329 227437 or www.pmnweddingfayres.co.uk)<br />

MARCH 12: Winchester Royal Hotel, Winchester (11am to 3.30pm,<br />

contact 02380 560073 or www.weddingexhibitionpromotions.co.uk)<br />

MARCH 12: Winchester Cathedral (11am to 3pm, contact<br />

www.littlestarevents.co.uk)<br />

MARCH 12: Highcliffe Castle, <strong>Dorset</strong> (10.30am to 4pm, contact<br />

01425 278807 or www.highcliffecastle.co.uk)<br />

MARCH 19: Grand Harbour Hotel, Southampton (11am to 3.30pm,<br />

contact 01329 227437 or www.pmnweddingfayres.co.uk)<br />

MARCH 19: Riviera Hotel, Alum Chine, Bournemouth (12noon to<br />

4pm, contact 07464973138)<br />

MARCH 19: Inn Lodge Hotel, Portsmouth (11am to 3.30pm, contact<br />

02380 560073 or www.weddingexhibitionpromotions.co.uk)<br />

MARCH 26: Merley House, Wimborne (11am to 3pm, contact 01202<br />

885024)<br />

APRIL 2: Old Alresford Place, Alresford (11am to 3pm, contact<br />

www.littlestarevents.co.uk)<br />

APRIL 2: Basingstoke Hotel (The Crowne Plaza) Basingstoke (11am to<br />

3.30pm, contact 02380 560073 or www.weddingexhibitionpromotions.co.uk)<br />

APRIL 9: Beach <strong>Weddings</strong> Bournemouth (10am to 4pm, contact<br />

01202 533014 or www.bellissimo-weddings.co.uk)<br />

APRIL 9: Royal Beech Hotel, Southsea (11am to 3.30pm, contact<br />

02380 560073 or www.weddingexhibitionpromotions.co.uk)<br />

APRIL 23: Orangery Suite, Merley House Lane, Wimborne (11am to<br />

3pm, contact 07427 162282 or www.cjpromotions-events.co.uk)<br />

MAY 4: The Italian Villa, Compton Acres, Poole (5pm to 9pm, contact<br />

01202 816074 or www.the-italian-villa.co.uk)<br />

MAY 6: Wedding Fayre in The Square, Wimborne, <strong>Dorset</strong> (10am to<br />

4pm, contact 07715 293080 or www.siennagraceweddings.co.uk)<br />

MAY 7: The Royal Marines Museum, Portsmouth (11am to 3.30pm,<br />

contact 01329 227437 or www.pmnweddingfayres.co.uk)<br />

MAY 14: The Cottonwood Boutique Hotel, Bournemouth (11am to<br />

3pm, contact 07427 162282 or www.cjpromotions-events.co.uk)<br />

MAY 14: Hilton at the Ageas Bowl, Southampton (11am to 3.30pm,<br />

contact 01329 227437 or www.pmnweddingfayres.co.uk)<br />

JUNE 4: Langstone Hotel, Hayling (11am to 3.30pm, contact 02380<br />

560073 or www.weddingexhibitionpromotions.co.uk)<br />

JUNE 18: Rhinefield House, New Forest (10.30am to 3pm, contact<br />

01903 366163 or www.stylisheventsfayres.com)<br />

JUNE 18: Holiday Inn, Tichfield (11am to 3.30pm, contact 02380<br />

560073 or www.weddingexhibitionpromotions.co.uk)<br />

JUNE 25: Holiday Inn, Eastleigh (11am to 3.30pm, contact 02380<br />

560073 or www.weddingexhibitionpromotions.co.uk)<br />

JULY 2: Coldeast Mansion, Sarisbury Green (11am to 3.30pm,<br />

contact 01329 227437 or www.pmnweddingfayres.co.uk)<br />

Organisers of Autumn wedding fairs who would like to have their dates<br />

included in the next issue of <strong>Dream</strong> <strong>Weddings</strong> magazine should email<br />

editorial@countymagazines.co.uk by June 30th.<br />

Please mention <strong>Dream</strong> <strong>Weddings</strong> magazine when replying to advertisements<br />

Check out our great website www.dream-weddings-magazine.co.uk<br />

FOLLOW<br />

US ON:<br />

Wedding fairs are a great source of ideas for brides as well as a<br />

way of finding everything you need under one roof - and there’s<br />

bound to be one near you soon. So make a note of these dates,<br />

but do check locally nearer the time as they may change.<br />

index to advertisers<br />

BRIDAL ACCESSORIES<br />

Tiaras & Crowns....................................16<br />

BRIDAL FASHION<br />

Bridal & Ball...........................................12<br />

A Bride 2 Bee.........................................12<br />

Cherished Bridal Wear...........................13<br />

New Forest & <strong>Dorset</strong> Brides..................12<br />

Wedding Time .......................................12<br />

CAKES<br />

Coast Cakes...........................................18<br />

Filigrana.................................................55<br />

ENTERTAINMENT<br />

Absolute Fun Casino..............................55<br />

FIREWORKS<br />

Classic Fireworks...................................52<br />

FLOWERS<br />

Bloom Floristry......................................18<br />

FOOD & DRINK<br />

Beales Gourmet.....................................46<br />

Chocolate Fountains of <strong>Dorset</strong>..............55<br />

Happy Hearts Candy Cart ......................55<br />

JEWELLERS<br />

Forum Jewellers ....................................34<br />

LUXURY LOOS<br />

Temporary Toilets..................................40<br />

MEN’S FORMAL HIRE<br />

Chas H Baker.........................................16<br />

Wedding Time .......................................16<br />

MOTHER OF THE BRIDE<br />

Charisma of Fawley ...............................32<br />

Fab Frocks .............................................34<br />

Irené ......................................................32<br />

Rosemary Ringrose Handbags .............55<br />

PHOTOGRAPHERS<br />

CP Photography ....................................55<br />

Holly Marsh Photography .....................55<br />

Rosie Cutbill Photography.....................44<br />

Stuart Brampton Photography ..............34<br />

Twisty Focus <strong>Weddings</strong>.........................13<br />

REGISTER OFFICES<br />

Bournemouth Registration Service .......52<br />

<strong>Hampshire</strong> Registration Services..........54<br />

Southampton Register Office................52<br />

SPECIAL TOUCHES<br />

EK Creations..........................................45<br />

Tiger Lily Occasions ..............................44<br />

Twilight Trees.........................................45<br />

TOASTMASTER<br />

Brian Cox...............................................55<br />

VENUES<br />

Athelhampton House ...........................IBC<br />

Avington Park........................................41<br />

Branksome Dene ...................................39<br />

The Custom House................................48<br />

Dudsbury Golf Club...............................42<br />

The Grange at Oborne ...........................50<br />

Hallmark Hotels..................................OBC<br />

Highcliffe Castle.....................................41<br />

Hooke Court ..........................................50<br />

Hotel Miramar .......................................49<br />

The Italian Villa......................................46<br />

Kingston Country Courtyard..................36<br />

Kingston Maurward...............................46<br />

Meon Valley Marriott Hotel....................38<br />

Merley House ........................................36<br />

Norfolk Royale Hotel .............................38<br />

Pennsylvania Castle...............................50<br />

Poole Guildhall ......................................39<br />

The Riviera Hotel...................................43<br />

Russell-Cotes House............................IFC<br />

Scaplen’s Court .....................................39<br />

Stanwell House......................................42<br />

Trevenna ................................................40<br />

Upton House .........................................39<br />

The Victorian Barn.................................37<br />

WEDDING FAIRS<br />

BIC Wedding Show ...............................31<br />

CCP Productions ...................................31<br />

PMN Wedding Fayres............................30<br />

Stylish Events........................................30<br />

VA Productions......................................31<br />

Wedding Exhibition Promotions............30<br />

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