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Editor’s Prize for<br />

Keep me alive // Let me live<br />

writing 2016<br />

Congratulations to Elizabeth Georgina Ryan Harper who has won this year’s<br />

Editor’s Prize for a written contribution. Her work, “Been there, done that, got<br />

nothing but the t-shirt” can be seen on page 19 of the May edition.<br />

Elizabeth will receive £100 in book vouchers.<br />

Highly commended goes to Rebecca Wray, whose work, “The screening paradox”<br />

can be seen in this issue on page 31.<br />

________________<br />

All submissions in a calendar year are eligibile to win the Editor’s Prize. The award<br />

goes to the piece of work deemed to be of the highest quality; taking into account<br />

the originality and polish of the final piece, as well as the steps undertaken to achieve<br />

it. The winning piece is chosen by the editorial team.<br />

Simple daily decisions, such<br />

as whether to have an apple<br />

or a chocolate bar, to take<br />

the stairs or the lift, or even<br />

whether to re-read your favourite<br />

book or binge-watch yet another<br />

TV show all have an important impact<br />

on a person’s life. The ‘correct’<br />

choice for each of these scenarios<br />

can lead to a healthier lifestyle and<br />

increased longevity; values we ordinarily<br />

rate highly. What you choose<br />

to do with your time ultimately boils<br />

down to how you want the rest of<br />

your life to play out, although it does<br />

not normally seem that our decisions<br />

will have such far reaching consequences.<br />

Sometimes, when you do<br />

not have a whole lot of life left, the<br />

decision you have to make is whether<br />

to try and increase the number of<br />

days you have left, or to make the<br />

most of the ones that remain. Often,<br />

both can be benefitted or detrimented<br />

from the same decision; smoking<br />

will lead you to an early grave, and<br />

it will do so from a hospital bed attached<br />

to an oxygen canister.<br />

Ela Karbaron<br />

out every last drop of life at any cost.<br />

In my opinion, to prolong life in this<br />

way, without regard for the way you<br />

spend each day, is to live without<br />

satisfaction. There is nothing about<br />

spending your last days in a hospital<br />

bed attached to countless tubes that<br />

says ‘living’ to me. This may seem<br />

unjust; after all, I’m not living each<br />

day to the fullest. Many people my<br />

age and younger, even adults in the<br />

work force, are unsure of what they<br />

somewhere you have always wanted<br />

to go, to volunteer with the elderly<br />

to give you a sense of responsibility<br />

and fulfilment, or even to make that<br />

extra effort with your friends and<br />

family. One thing all of these examples<br />

have in common is that they encourage<br />

and secure enjoyment and<br />

happiness. These may not be your<br />

goals, but you must have a purpose,<br />

whatever it is, in order to meet the<br />

definition of living: ‘the pursuit of a<br />

lifestyle of a specified type’. It is not<br />

There are those treatments that give you extra<br />

days, and others that give you better days. There<br />

are some that do both and others that, sadly, end<br />

up doing neither. When it comes to make the<br />

choice, if you cannot have both, which do you<br />

decide to take?<br />

To be alive is simply to continue<br />

breathing. It is what you do whilst<br />

you are alive and breathing that<br />

matters. To prolong life, with<br />

no purpose other than to keep the<br />

heart ticking over, would be to completely<br />

disregard the quality of life<br />

a patient desires. They are existing<br />

without any fulfilment or satisfaction.<br />

To prolong living, however,<br />

is to increase the time in which<br />

you can achieve the things you want<br />

to achieve and live the life you wish<br />

to lead. Most of the time, there is no<br />

decision to be made between the two<br />

but, eventually, for many patients,<br />

push comes to shove and we have to<br />

decide; go out in flames or squeeze<br />

are aiming for in life. We are living in<br />

the rigid routine that school or work<br />

forces upon us. We are unable to live<br />

each day exactly as we wish, but that<br />

doesn’t mean to say that teenagers<br />

are not living. Each of us must draw<br />

our own line, but it is rarely a case<br />

of choosing the single best thing in<br />

all walks of life. It is usually other<br />

choices that determine whether we<br />

are truly experiencing enjoyment<br />

and doing things we love, and it is<br />

up to us to make choices that have<br />

a positive impact on our lives, with<br />

whatever spare time we have to<br />

make them. This could be to travel<br />

enough to spend your days without<br />

aim; we talk about a person’s raison<br />

d’être for good reason.<br />

The terminally ill are faced with<br />

the very real decision of what to do<br />

with their remaining days. For the<br />

purpose of this article, I have divided<br />

their options in two: prolonging<br />

living, or prolonging life. There are<br />

those treatments that give you extra<br />

days, and others that give you better<br />

days. There are some that do both<br />

and others that, sadly, end up doing<br />

neither. When it comes to make<br />

the choice, if you cannot have both,<br />

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