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20 | February 9, 2017 | The Mokena Messenger faith<br />
mokenamessenger.com<br />
Robin’s Nest<br />
A late night brush with humor<br />
Robin Melvin<br />
Contributing Columnist<br />
I<br />
tried not to laugh. I<br />
really did was almost<br />
midnight, and my<br />
sleep-deprived husband was<br />
snoozing five feet from the<br />
bathroom door. It was Memorial<br />
Day weekend, and he<br />
was 31 hours into overtime<br />
on the second day of storm<br />
duty. He could be called<br />
back at any moment, so I<br />
didn’t want to wake him.<br />
I was exhausted, too.<br />
Physically, because it was<br />
nearing midnight. Emotionally,<br />
because we were<br />
depressed after our recent<br />
move from Texas. Humor<br />
was in short supply. We’d<br />
let too much seriousness<br />
sneak into our days.<br />
After tip-toeing past Jeff<br />
and into the bathroom, I<br />
squeezed paste onto my<br />
toothbrush. About 5 seconds<br />
in, something wasn’t right.<br />
It didn’t smell right.<br />
Tom’s of Maine Toothpaste<br />
smells and tastes<br />
weird, but this was different.<br />
Kind of fishy. After sniffing<br />
it, I shrugged and continued<br />
scrubbing until I looked in<br />
the mirror.<br />
The white stuff was a<br />
little too creamy and a tad<br />
too white. A quick glance<br />
into my toiletry basket revealed<br />
a long-forgotten tube<br />
of Preparation H sitting on<br />
top of my Tom’s of Maine.<br />
At first, I thought, “How<br />
stupid is that?” Then, looking<br />
back up at the ointment<br />
oozing out between my<br />
teeth, I wondered, “Will my<br />
gums shrink and make my<br />
teeth fall out?”<br />
I tried to stifle my giggles<br />
as I rinsed and re-brushed.<br />
When I crawled into bed,<br />
they still bubbled out. Trying<br />
to hold it in only made<br />
me snort, which woke Jeff.<br />
“What’s so funny?”<br />
I barely had breath to<br />
explain. Soon he was laughing<br />
too. A good, cleansing<br />
laugh with the works. Snot<br />
and tears and calming down<br />
to try to sleep until one of us<br />
giggled again.<br />
When is the last time you<br />
enjoyed a good belly laugh?<br />
Are you so burdened, even<br />
by everyday irritants, that<br />
you miss the blessing of<br />
humor? We don’t have to<br />
look far to see we’re created<br />
for it. It’s wired into us for<br />
a reason.<br />
Proverbs 17:22 tells us,<br />
“A cheerful disposition is<br />
good for your health; gloom<br />
and doom leave you bonetired.”<br />
When did we start taking<br />
life so seriously? Perhaps<br />
we need to look back and<br />
seek healing. If we’re not<br />
careful, a somber spirit<br />
becomes natural to us. It’s<br />
the way we roll. Too hard<br />
on ourselves and others.<br />
My friends, let’s not get<br />
so bogged down in difficulties<br />
and busyness that we<br />
forget to see life’s funny<br />
side. Even the most bizarre<br />
and illogical can be downright<br />
comical.<br />
So, let’s lighten up. Life’s<br />
too short to be stern and<br />
humorless. Learn to play a<br />
little and laugh a lot. And<br />
don’t forget to laugh at<br />
yourself. It’s good medicine<br />
for the mind, body and<br />
spirit. Our moods and our<br />
relationships will benefit<br />
from it.<br />
I pray peace and laughter<br />
for your journey, my<br />
friends.<br />
The thoughts and opinions<br />
expressed in this column are<br />
those of the author. They do<br />
not necessarily represent the<br />
thoughts of 22nd Century Media<br />
or its staff.<br />
Faith Briefs<br />
St. Mary’s Catholic Church (19515 115th<br />
Ave., Mokena)<br />
Church Service<br />
5 p.m. Saturdays; 8 a.m,<br />
9:30 a.m., 11 a.m. and 6:<br />
p.m. Sundays<br />
Adoration<br />
Wednesdays following<br />
8:00 a.m. Mass in the Chapel<br />
until 6:45 p.m.<br />
Holy Rosary<br />
7:30 a.m. daily; 7 p.m.<br />
Tuesday evenings<br />
Parker Road Bible Church (18512 Parker<br />
Road, Mokena)<br />
Worship Service<br />
10:30 a.m. Sundays. Be<br />
sure to arrive early for our<br />
Sunday Worship Service to<br />
enjoy a hot, complimentary<br />
cup of coffee every week at<br />
the church. Following the<br />
Christian Education Hour<br />
(9:15 - 10:15 a.m.), all beverages<br />
can be found just outside<br />
the sanctuary.<br />
Grace Fellowship Church (11049 LaPorte<br />
Road, Mokena)<br />
Narcotics Anonymous<br />
7-9 p.m. Mondays. All<br />
those struggling or who have<br />
struggled with a narcotics<br />
addiction are welcome. All<br />
meetings are confidential.<br />
For more information, call<br />
(708) 479-0300.<br />
Spanish Church<br />
12:30 p.m. every Sunday<br />
Worship Service<br />
10 a.m. every Sunday. All<br />
are welcome.<br />
Women’s Bible Study<br />
8:45-9:45 a.m. every Sunday<br />
and 2-3 p.m. every Tuesday<br />
Marley Community Church (12625 W.<br />
187th St., Mokena)<br />
Church Service<br />
10 a.m. Sundays. Childcare<br />
is provided<br />
Sunday School<br />
9-10 a.m.<br />
Men’s Group<br />
6 p.m. Sunday nights in<br />
the church basement. All<br />
men are welcome.<br />
Immanuel Evangelical Lutheran Church<br />
(10731 W. La Porte Road, Mokena)<br />
Friendship Weekend<br />
5 p.m. Saturday, Feb. 11<br />
and 9 a.m. and 10:15 a.m.<br />
Sunday, Feb. 12.<br />
Contemporary Worship<br />
5 p.m. Saturday<br />
Worship<br />
9 a.m. Sunday<br />
Mokena Baptist Church (9960 W. 187th<br />
St., Mokena)<br />
Ladies Bible Study<br />
7 p.m. every Thursday.<br />
Meetings take place at The<br />
Talking Shirt Boutique,<br />
19805 S. LaGrange Road in<br />
Mokena. For more information,<br />
call (312) 350-2279.<br />
Men’s Bible Study<br />
The men’s bible study is<br />
held quarterly at Cracker<br />
Barrel, 18531 N. Creek<br />
Drive in Tinley Park. The<br />
meetings are held at 9 a.m.,<br />
and men will enjoy studying<br />
the Bible over breakfast.<br />
Sunday Services<br />
11 a.m. and 5 p.m. For<br />
more information, call (312)<br />
350-2279.<br />
Sunday School<br />
10:15 a.m. Sundays. Mokena<br />
Baptist offers Sunday<br />
School classes for all ages.<br />
For more information, call<br />
(312) 350-2279.<br />
Mokena United Methodist Church (10901<br />
LaPorte Road, Mokena)<br />
Service and Sunday School<br />
10:15 a.m. Sundays.<br />
Church service and Sunday<br />
school will be held. For<br />
more information, call (708)<br />
479-1110.<br />
Bible Study<br />
7 p.m. Tuesdays<br />
Walking Club<br />
7 p.m. Mondays<br />
Weight Watchers<br />
Wednesday<br />
Weigh-ins take place at<br />
6:30 p.m., while the meeting<br />
is at 7 p.m.<br />
Have something for Faith<br />
Briefs? Contact Assistant<br />
Editor Amanda Stoll at<br />
a.stoll@22ndcenturymedia.com<br />
or call (708) 326-9170 ext. 34.<br />
Deadline is noon Thursday one<br />
week prior to publication.<br />
In Memorium<br />
Frank Haddon<br />
Frank Haddon,<br />
68, of Mokena,<br />
died Jan. 11. He attended<br />
Thornton High School in<br />
Harvey. He served in the U.S.<br />
Air Force and was a Vietnam<br />
veteran. Frank is survived by<br />
his wife, Cindy (nee Rodenburg),<br />
daughters, Joni (Brian)<br />
Murphy and Molly (Scott)<br />
Long, grandchildren, Carly,<br />
Tegan, Olivia, Jack, Kyle,<br />
and Georgia and sister Janice<br />
(Vince) Rizzi. Interment at<br />
Abraham Lincoln National<br />
Cemetery. In lieu of flowers,<br />
donations to the American<br />
Cancer Society at www.cancer.org.<br />
Lester Lingle<br />
Lester B. Lingle,<br />
88, formerly of Mokena, died<br />
on Jan. 29. He was a United<br />
States Army Veteran, retired<br />
from Amtrak as a Material<br />
Control Clerk and was formerly<br />
a butcher for 27 years.<br />
He is survived by his wife,<br />
Sandra Faye (nee Bass),<br />
children Timothy L. (Amy)<br />
Lingle, Teddy W. (Kathy)<br />
Lingle, and Tracey L. Lingle,<br />
eight grandchildren, six<br />
great-grandchildren, brother<br />
Rev. Clifford (Lacene) Lingle<br />
and son-in law, David Perry.<br />
Visitation and funeral were<br />
held at Kurtz Memorial Chapel<br />
in New Lenox. Interment<br />
Abraham Lincoln National<br />
Cemetery. In lieu of flowers,<br />
donations to Zion Hill Baptist<br />
building fund, 2003 Zion<br />
Hill Rd., Centralia, IL 62801<br />
would be appreciated.<br />
Luke Dominy<br />
Luke Daniel Dominy, 32,<br />
of Mokena and Homewood,<br />
died Jan. 29. He was a graduate<br />
of Lincoln-Way East and<br />
Safety Director and Project<br />
Manager for Meany Electric.<br />
He is survived by his<br />
mother, Jeanne M. Dominy<br />
(nee Fares), father, Daniel R.<br />
Dominy, and siblings Julie<br />
(Alex) Zubak and Nick (Rebecca)<br />
Dominy. Visitation<br />
was held at Panozzo Bros.<br />
Funeral Home in Chicago<br />
Heights. Funeral service was<br />
held at Olympia Fields Country<br />
Club. Interment private.<br />
In lieu of flowers, memorials<br />
to New Star Services, 1624<br />
East 154th Street, Dolton, IL<br />
60419, would be appreciated.<br />
Have someone’s life you’d<br />
like to honor? Email Editor<br />
Tim Carroll at tim@mokenames-<br />
senger.com with information<br />
about a loved one<br />
who was a part of the Mokena<br />
community.