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circles: SMALL ACTS by Vicki Pinkerton<br />

In the movie “Pay it Forward” (2000), a young boy decides to make the world a better place in response to a<br />

challenge by his teacher. His project was to commit an act of kindness, or to pay it forward, for 3 people and have<br />

each of them do the same for three more. By the end of the movie, the concept had swept North America.<br />

Everyone was paying it forward. It was an audience favorite, but could it happen in real life? Do we have time<br />

or energy in our busy lives to commit random acts of kindness for no other reason than to give life to kindness<br />

in our communities? I think we all have the heart for it; it’s just that we forget. We get busy and we stomp through<br />

life sometimes too overwhelmed to look left or right.<br />

Let’s not do that anymore. Speaking to people about this<br />

I realize that there is an active kindness culture here.<br />

Anne told me that she was in the library ready to check<br />

out a pile of books when the librarian told her that she<br />

had to clear her card of over-due fines first. She rifled her<br />

purse looking for change and came up empty handed. Oh<br />

sigh. She would have to go home, get change and come<br />

back before she could take them out. <strong>The</strong>n a hand slipped<br />

across the counter with money in it. A gentleman had<br />

witnessed the incident and pulled the change out of his<br />

pocket. “Just pay it forward,” he grinned.<br />

Lorraine has found her driveway plowed out after every<br />

snow or blow this winter. She doesn't know who is doing<br />

it but her gratitude is immeasurable. It means that she and<br />

her boys aren't out there shoveling the considerable load<br />

of snow that has accumulated lately. She has tried<br />

unsuccessfully to find out who is doing it, but she feels<br />

good knowing that she has a 'snow' angel out there.<br />

Cathy told me that working in retail, especially before<br />

Christmas can be a thankless job. People are rushed,<br />

tempers are frayed and the hours are long. One day just<br />

as she started work, she found a woman frustrated<br />

because she could not find an item that would complete<br />

her Christmas list. She had searched everywhere and<br />

Cathy's store was her last chance. <strong>The</strong> clerk who was helping her didn't understand the request. Cathy stepped in,<br />

found the item and that was that, or so she thought. Later in the day, the woman arrived back in the store bearing<br />

homemade cookies. She expressed her gratitude and thanked Cathy for being so patient with her. I could tell by<br />

the look on her face that Cathy still remembered the moment fondly as she told me about it. “It changed the day<br />

that I was about to have. I was filled with Christmas spirit.”<br />

Most acts of kindness are small ones. <strong>The</strong>y don't intend to change the world but often put smiles on faces and<br />

help people feel good about themselves. I try to practice kindness in small ways too. I love to write letters of<br />

thanks to stores praising clerks who have gone over and above. It reminds bosses how important their employees<br />

8 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Bulletin</strong> | 13TH YEAR www.<strong>The</strong><strong>Bulletin</strong><strong>Magazine</strong>.com

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