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MDF Magazine Issue 53 August 2017

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People<br />

‘She wins all the races’ – A tragicomedy with biscuits<br />

By Sheonad MacFarlane<br />

A review on the hit show ‘She Wins All the Races’.<br />

It’s the 1970s and Belinda is a fun loving, living life<br />

to the full little girl. She has two brothers: Older and<br />

Younger. They are somehow different. They don’t<br />

walk properly. There are family secrets hidden in a<br />

drawer, “the drawer she must never open”. One day<br />

she opens the drawer and her world is blown apart.<br />

Duchenne muscular dystrophy enters her life.<br />

What can she do to save her brothers? She needs<br />

help… A microscopic Wonderwoman travels through<br />

the body of Younger to the left calf muscle, but the<br />

muscle caves in around her. Duchenne is not something<br />

that can be battled against; but instead something<br />

is missing. She dons her supersleuth hat and<br />

meets the elusive Dystrophin in a seedy Becker Bar:<br />

there is hope in research – a treatment perhaps and<br />

Science shines bright.<br />

As time passes the reality of the disease must be<br />

faced. Her brothers become wheelchair dependent,<br />

their muscles weaken until they can no longer keep<br />

their eyes open. The family becomes four… and<br />

then three as they say goodbye.<br />

She Wins All the Races is a quirky tragicomedy with<br />

biscuits – Tunnock Teacakes and all! – and a modicum<br />

of Abba. It tells the story of a little girl who has<br />

two brothers living with Duchenne muscular dystrophy.<br />

You understand the loss the family feels, the<br />

ever present grief and sorrow, following their diagnosis.<br />

You see Belinda, desperate to be seen by her<br />

parents ever focused on the needs of her brothers.<br />

You feel the despair as they wrangle with their own<br />

spirituality, Jesus ever present in the room.<br />

You imagine everyone living life to the full, wheelchairs<br />

racing in the park, Match of the Day on a<br />

Saturday night.<br />

Shelley O’Brien tells her real life story openly and<br />

honestly. The show is challenging: emotions run<br />

close to the surface; the “beast in the labyrinth”<br />

feels ever present in the room; the physical deterioration<br />

evident in the graceful movements that she<br />

makes; the loss of her brothers acutely palpable as<br />

the balloons floating high are carefully packed away.<br />

Music plays quietly in the background. Life carries<br />

on; bittersweet perhaps but it carries on:<br />

“Happiness, happiness, the greatest gift that I possess,<br />

I thank the Lord I’ve been blessed, with more<br />

than my share of happiness”<br />

There are tears falling silently down my face as<br />

Shelley takes her final bow and I am in awe of her<br />

strength and courage. Yes, She Wins All the Races<br />

is challenging, but educational and, for me, cathartic<br />

too. There is courage and resilience abundant<br />

throughout, but in the end what you are left with is<br />

love, the love that binds this family together throughout<br />

their journey with Duchenne. The love that encouraged<br />

Shelley to tell her story. This same love<br />

carries many families through each day as they live<br />

with neuromuscular disease and that is a wonderful<br />

and powerful force.<br />

Shelley O’Brien is one woman on a mission, spreading<br />

awareness of Duchenne muscular dystrophy<br />

across the UK. If only Wonderwoman could really<br />

help in the fight against this muscle-wasting condition…<br />

Article published 19/10/2016 online at: http://www.<br />

musculardystrophyuk.org/blog/all-posts-by-shewins-all-the-races-a-tragicomedy-with-biscuits/<br />

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