MDF Magazine Issue 53 August 2017
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People<br />
‘She wins all the races’ – A tragicomedy with biscuits<br />
By Sheonad MacFarlane<br />
A review on the hit show ‘She Wins All the Races’.<br />
It’s the 1970s and Belinda is a fun loving, living life<br />
to the full little girl. She has two brothers: Older and<br />
Younger. They are somehow different. They don’t<br />
walk properly. There are family secrets hidden in a<br />
drawer, “the drawer she must never open”. One day<br />
she opens the drawer and her world is blown apart.<br />
Duchenne muscular dystrophy enters her life.<br />
What can she do to save her brothers? She needs<br />
help… A microscopic Wonderwoman travels through<br />
the body of Younger to the left calf muscle, but the<br />
muscle caves in around her. Duchenne is not something<br />
that can be battled against; but instead something<br />
is missing. She dons her supersleuth hat and<br />
meets the elusive Dystrophin in a seedy Becker Bar:<br />
there is hope in research – a treatment perhaps and<br />
Science shines bright.<br />
As time passes the reality of the disease must be<br />
faced. Her brothers become wheelchair dependent,<br />
their muscles weaken until they can no longer keep<br />
their eyes open. The family becomes four… and<br />
then three as they say goodbye.<br />
She Wins All the Races is a quirky tragicomedy with<br />
biscuits – Tunnock Teacakes and all! – and a modicum<br />
of Abba. It tells the story of a little girl who has<br />
two brothers living with Duchenne muscular dystrophy.<br />
You understand the loss the family feels, the<br />
ever present grief and sorrow, following their diagnosis.<br />
You see Belinda, desperate to be seen by her<br />
parents ever focused on the needs of her brothers.<br />
You feel the despair as they wrangle with their own<br />
spirituality, Jesus ever present in the room.<br />
You imagine everyone living life to the full, wheelchairs<br />
racing in the park, Match of the Day on a<br />
Saturday night.<br />
Shelley O’Brien tells her real life story openly and<br />
honestly. The show is challenging: emotions run<br />
close to the surface; the “beast in the labyrinth”<br />
feels ever present in the room; the physical deterioration<br />
evident in the graceful movements that she<br />
makes; the loss of her brothers acutely palpable as<br />
the balloons floating high are carefully packed away.<br />
Music plays quietly in the background. Life carries<br />
on; bittersweet perhaps but it carries on:<br />
“Happiness, happiness, the greatest gift that I possess,<br />
I thank the Lord I’ve been blessed, with more<br />
than my share of happiness”<br />
There are tears falling silently down my face as<br />
Shelley takes her final bow and I am in awe of her<br />
strength and courage. Yes, She Wins All the Races<br />
is challenging, but educational and, for me, cathartic<br />
too. There is courage and resilience abundant<br />
throughout, but in the end what you are left with is<br />
love, the love that binds this family together throughout<br />
their journey with Duchenne. The love that encouraged<br />
Shelley to tell her story. This same love<br />
carries many families through each day as they live<br />
with neuromuscular disease and that is a wonderful<br />
and powerful force.<br />
Shelley O’Brien is one woman on a mission, spreading<br />
awareness of Duchenne muscular dystrophy<br />
across the UK. If only Wonderwoman could really<br />
help in the fight against this muscle-wasting condition…<br />
Article published 19/10/2016 online at: http://www.<br />
musculardystrophyuk.org/blog/all-posts-by-shewins-all-the-races-a-tragicomedy-with-biscuits/<br />
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