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NICHE Style Fall 2017

The style team at NICHE magazine is sharing our favorite designers, collections and trends of this season. From everything you wear, to all that you are - NICHE wants to help you make this your best fall season ever.

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<strong>NICHE</strong> magazine<br />

ADAPT<br />

by Christina Benty<br />

LEADERSHIP BEGINS WITH YOU.<br />

Call me crazy but I love Mondays. I get excited about<br />

new beginnings: the start of the day, the week, the<br />

month, the season, and the year.<br />

I am especially eager when the fall arrives because<br />

it always symbolizes the season of launching and<br />

learning with the return of routine. So when fall<br />

rolled around, I was surprised to find my usual energy<br />

and enthusiasm waning. Like a tire with a slow leak, I<br />

felt flat and uninspired.<br />

It was a busy summer, and I spent most of it doing<br />

the dance of insanity. I am still in the early years of<br />

a thriving new business and plenty of opportunities<br />

coming my way. All very exciting! However, it also<br />

means burning the candle at both ends physically,<br />

mentally and financially. With too many balls in the<br />

air, too many people to please, too many rabbit trails<br />

to follow, I found myself buried in a tsunami of my<br />

own making. But the real tsunami was the story inside<br />

my head. I indulged the bad habit of repeating a selfdefeating<br />

message of overwhelm and I was starting to<br />

believe it.<br />

either serve us or they don’t. I like my habits to serve<br />

me. In order to get back on track, my habits need to<br />

be intentional.<br />

Philosopher Morpheus said “There is a difference<br />

between knowing the path and walking the path”. If<br />

you truly want to be a leader, then you better lead<br />

your own life first. Leading your own life means<br />

embracing the notion that your primary and ultimate<br />

responsibility is to intentionally take charge of self.<br />

That means your habits. I preach it, I teach it and I<br />

believe it. I knew I had to look myself in the mirror,<br />

and gently give myself some of my own advice! This<br />

fall, I needed to ADAPT. Maybe you do too?<br />

It may mean going back to the basics:<br />

Habits are a redundant set of thoughts, behaviors, and<br />

patterns that get repeated over and over again. They<br />

CHRISTINA BENTY<br />

Christina Benty, MA is the former mayor of Golden and<br />

the owner of the consulting firm, Strategic Leadership<br />

Solutions. She uses her superpower to assist individuals and<br />

teams in building cultures of excellence in leadership and<br />

governance. She can turn any conversation into one about<br />

living with intention and leading from the soul. Christina can<br />

be reached for speaking, coaching and facilitating at www.<br />

christinabenty.com. Check out her TED Talk on leadership<br />

here: www.youtube.com/watch?v=VmDN0PLHZHk<br />

32 . FALL <strong>2017</strong>

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