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<strong>Faith</strong><br />

<strong>On</strong> <strong>Every</strong> <strong>Corner</strong><br />

<strong>Issue</strong> 2<br />

<strong>Every</strong>day People Making A Difference<br />

Enter The Mission Field<br />

by Craig Ruhl<br />

Chloe Steps Up!<br />

New Youth Feature<br />

by Karen Ruhl<br />

Stories of<br />

<strong>Faith</strong> and<br />

Service<br />

Featuring:<br />

Christian Writer<br />

Vanessa<br />

Fortenberry<br />

Spring Awakening<br />

by Pam McCormick<br />

A Heart For Service<br />

Ruth Sullivan<br />

by Karen Ruhl<br />

Good & <strong>Faith</strong>ful Servants<br />

Ed and Cora Hamilton<br />

by Craig Ruhl<br />

BOOK REVIEW<br />

Ancient Stones;<br />

Timeless Encouragement<br />

Reviewed by Karen Ruhl<br />

Day Trippin’<br />

by Karen Ruhl


Enter The Mission Field<br />

Last night, Karen and I were streaming a movie that<br />

provoked me into some serious thinking. The film<br />

would fall under the genre of <strong>Faith</strong> or Christian.<br />

It was a good movie that flowed well, with a good<br />

message, even with a low production quality. We<br />

tend to value these movies for their message more<br />

than theatrics. In this case, I was more affected by<br />

a sub plot than the main story line. Let me explain.<br />

The primary theme was “What would Jesus do?”<br />

The story focuses around a pastor of a small church<br />

who is impacted by a homeless man who holds the<br />

congregation to task because of the way he was<br />

treated by the community. The pastor calls for those<br />

in the church to join him on a journey to examine<br />

their daily choices, actions, and responses. What<br />

did they think Jesus would do in the same situation?<br />

There were only a few takers. I’ll stop here so I<br />

don’t give the story away for those who will want to<br />

see the movie.<br />

The sub plot that really struck me had to do with the<br />

concept of the church as we know it today.<br />

We attend church, read the Bible, sing the hymns,<br />

hear the sermons, but how do we practice our<br />

Christianity? Is this what Jesus would do? Or<br />

would he take the church outside to where the vast<br />

numbers of people needing to hear His words are?<br />

Sometimes, I think that the brick and mortar church<br />

is mostly like-minded people gathering together to<br />

hear each other’s tales of accomplishments,<br />

involvements, participation, generally sanctimonious<br />

lives, shake hands, pat each other on the back,<br />

and return to their everyday lives. There might as<br />

well be a checklist in the pews; Bible, check;<br />

pray, check; attend church, check, and so on.<br />

Unfortunately, that is where it ends for many of us.<br />

It seems like preaching to the choir, as the saying<br />

goes. We, the people, are the church. I have heard<br />

it said that one reason people don’t go to church is<br />

that there are Christians there. I believe that this is<br />

not just a Christian thing either.<br />

There are many people of all faiths who are lovingly<br />

engaged in daily acts of kindness, service, aid,<br />

and comfort to those who are in need. This can take<br />

a multitude of forms. Volunteering at a small community<br />

food bank or kitchen, joining a jail or prison<br />

ministry, visiting the sick or elderly, helping build<br />

a house for a deserving family, and taking meals to<br />

the housebound are just a few ideas. This is one of<br />

the ways the pastor in the movie called his flock to<br />

participate in Christ like behavior. He suggests that<br />

this is what Jesus called us to do, minister to each<br />

other. This struck a note with me as I watched the<br />

movie. People don’t just need to hear God’s message.<br />

They also need to feel God’s love. Both need<br />

to be delivered by us, the church, in person. Bible<br />

verses can be memorized, recited and woven into<br />

a condemning, judging, and unforgiving attitude.<br />

We can also decide to spread the Word through our<br />

actions. To paraphrase a saying I remember -<br />

“People won’t care how much you know until they<br />

know how much you care.”<br />

We believe that churches with pastors and congregations<br />

are important in our communities, families,<br />

and personal lives. However, faithfulness cannot<br />

stop inside those walls. At one of our past churches,<br />

at each of the parking lot exits, was this message on<br />

a sign: Now Entering the Mission Field. This is true,<br />

we are taught in the church but it is up to us to put<br />

what we have learned into action once we have left.<br />

The church has fulfilled its purpose.<br />

Karen and I started our online digital magazine,<br />

<strong>Faith</strong> <strong>On</strong> <strong>Every</strong> <strong>Corner</strong>, with the intention of sharing<br />

stories of everyday people making a difference in<br />

their communities through acts of love, service,<br />

and kindness. We pray that our readers will be<br />

inspired to seek out new ways to be of faithful<br />

service. If you know of an interesting story of faith<br />

and service, please let us know. Stay tuned, God<br />

isn’t finished yet.<br />

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Table of Contents<br />

Enter The Mission Field Page 1<br />

Letter from the Editor Page 3<br />

Vanessa Fortenberry Page 5<br />

Writing For God And Family<br />

Youth In Service (New) Page 8<br />

Featuring Chloe<br />

Spring Awakening Page 9<br />

Pam McCormick<br />

A Heart For Serving Others Page 13<br />

Ruth Sullivan<br />

Good and <strong>Faith</strong>ful Servants Page 15<br />

Cora and Ed Hamilton<br />

Day Tripppin’ Page 19<br />

Video link: Page 21<br />

Rev. John and Gwenyth Haspels<br />

A Missionaries Story of <strong>Faith</strong>, Hope, and Forgiveness<br />

Rest In Peace Willie Williamson<br />

DOB 4-19-1950 - First saw Jesus 8-25-2017<br />

Our thoughts, prayers, and love go out<br />

to Vicki Williamson.<br />

Vicki and Willie Williamson were one of our<br />

first features for this magazine. They left an<br />

indelible mark on our hearts.<br />

Vicki, your faith is inspiring.<br />

Sending our love, thoughts, and prayers.<br />

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Letter from the Editor<br />

Thank you for making our premiere magazine a success. We received<br />

great comments and e-mails from readers who love having something<br />

positive to read.<br />

We encourage you to take a look at our two new features this month,<br />

Youth In Service will feature kids of all ages serving and telling their<br />

faith stories. We are also starting a book review. If you are like me,<br />

you hate to start a good book only to have to put it aside because the<br />

content is graphic in nature. Our goal will be to bring you reviews on<br />

books that we feel are good and safe reading.<br />

We look forward to sharing stories every month. Please email us your<br />

story ideas to <strong>Faith</strong><strong>On</strong><strong>Every</strong><strong>Corner</strong>@gmail.com.<br />

Thank you and God Bless You and Your Family,<br />

Karen Ruhl, Publisher and Executive Director<br />

karenruhl12@gmail.com<br />

For all of those suffering from the fires, earthquakes,<br />

and hurricane damages, our thoughts and prayers are<br />

with you. From our family to yours, we ask<br />

God’s blessings over you.<br />

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<strong>Faith</strong> <strong>On</strong> <strong>Every</strong> <strong>Corner</strong><br />

Publisher & Editor in Chief: Karen Ruhl<br />

Senior Editor & Business Manager: Craig Ruhl<br />

Photography: Karen Ruhl<br />

Writers: Craig Ruhl, Karen Ruhl<br />

Advertising: Craig Ruhl<br />

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Writing For God and Family<br />

Vanessa Fortenberry<br />

We recently had the opportunity and pleasure to<br />

meet Vanessa Fortenberry at her home in Dekalb,<br />

Georgia. During our visit, we heard and discussed<br />

how this inspirational Christian came to be a published<br />

author of children’s books.<br />

on the great American love story, which, although<br />

never finished, has been kept in her writing files. As<br />

with many of us, life events caught up with Vanessa<br />

and she found herself abandoning her dreams of<br />

writing.<br />

Vanessa was born and raised in Atlanta, Georgia.<br />

As a young girl, she wrote plays, poetry, and short<br />

stories. Fascinated with words, she was also an<br />

avid reader. While attending Clark College, now<br />

Clark-Atlanta University, she found herself in the<br />

predicament of having to choose between English<br />

or Music as her major. Her love of music prevailed<br />

and she initiated studies in Music Education with a<br />

concentration in Voice.<br />

After graduation, Vanessa still could not escape the<br />

appeal of the “written word.” She continued to write<br />

poetry and, while in her 20’s, she started working<br />

Vanessa’s career consisted of teaching general<br />

music, chorus, and voice to children in the publicschool<br />

system. She excelled in passing on her love<br />

of music to her students. In 2000, she decided to<br />

return to school to earn a Master’s degree in Library<br />

Media. Since she felt that there would be a cutback<br />

in public school funding for music and other art<br />

programs, she wanted to have a plan in place should<br />

that happen. She earned her Master’s degree and<br />

Library Media Specialist certification from the<br />

University of West Georgia.<br />

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As a teacher-librarian, Vanessa enjoys story time<br />

with her students and takes pleasure in literacy<br />

events with them. Vanessa has been fascinated by<br />

how children learn to read and how to best teach<br />

them to read. In 2009, she returned to the<br />

University of Georgia where she earned a Reading<br />

Endorsement. At one point, she debated going on<br />

to earn a doctorate degree. As she considered that<br />

path, it made more sense to her to put her free time<br />

and energy into writing her own books.<br />

When asked about her dreams for the future,<br />

Vanessa would always respond, “to write a book.”<br />

But, she could never pinpoint the genre or<br />

audience. In 2010, while exercising at the gym,<br />

Vanessa mistakenly (how many of you know it<br />

wasn’t a mistake?) turned the TV channel to the<br />

700 Club. A conversation about how God knows<br />

each of us by name quickly gained her attention.<br />

Vanessa heard God speak to her that not only<br />

would she write books for children, they would be<br />

Christian books. After that, she went home to write<br />

the first of many motivational stories for children.<br />

Additionally, her love of music inspired her to<br />

write songs to accompany several of her writing<br />

projects.<br />

Vanessa also wrote an article, Encouraging Your<br />

Reader, published in the June 2012 edition of the<br />

Guardian Angel Kids Ezine. (http://www.guardianangel-kids.com/)<br />

Vanessa’s book launch celebration for her book,<br />

Mama, I Want to See God, was held on March 1,<br />

2014, at the Wesley Chapel-William C. Brown<br />

Library in Decatur, Georgia. Vanessa spoke on the<br />

theme: “Literature and Libraries: Influencing Children’s<br />

Lives through Life Lesson Stories.” Interestingly,<br />

Mama, I want to See God started out as a<br />

poem she wrote for her grandchildren.<br />

Vanessa at<br />

her Barnes &<br />

Noble book<br />

signing.<br />

Her local writing group encouraged her to finish<br />

and publish the work as a children’s book. This is<br />

the first book in the 3-book series called Families<br />

Growing in <strong>Faith</strong>. Mama, I want to See God was<br />

the 2017 Bookvana winner in the Children’s<br />

Religious category. It was also named an awardwinning<br />

finalist in the Children’s Religious<br />

category of the 2016 Best Books Awards.<br />

Daddy, I Want to Know God is the next book in the<br />

“Families Growing in <strong>Faith</strong>” series. It is due to be<br />

released in October 2017.<br />

When we asked Vanessa what her life mission is,<br />

she stated, “I use my writing as a tool for<br />

Christian ministry that expands beyond the walls<br />

of the church and communicates an inspirational<br />

message to children and adults.”<br />

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Vanessa continues to develop her craft by participating<br />

in several writers’ organizations. She is a member of<br />

The Christian Authors Guild, (www.christianauthorsguild.org),<br />

where she is also a contributor to the book,<br />

Relief Notes: Encouraging Letters for Tough Times;<br />

The Society of Children’s Book Writers and Illustrators<br />

(SCBWI);<br />

The Wesley Chapel Creative Writers Group; The<br />

Stonecrest Writing Support Group; and she was<br />

previously a contributing writer for her church<br />

newsletter publication, The Anchor. In addition,<br />

Vanessa is a member of The Christian Authors on<br />

Tour group (http://christianauthorsontour.com).<br />

You can subscribe to her blog, Children’s Bookroom,<br />

and to her quarterly newsletter, Connecting Readers<br />

to the Word, by visiting her website at<br />

VanessaFortenberry.com.<br />

Vanessa savors the moments she spends with her family<br />

and friends; as well as baking delicious desserts for her<br />

loved ones. While we were with Vanessa, she treated us<br />

to true Southern hospitality with a luscious light lunch<br />

and her homemade dessert.<br />

Award-Winning <strong>Final</strong>ist in the<br />

“Children’s Religious” category<br />

of<br />

the 2016 Best Book Awards.”<br />

Vanessa has been busy with her book tour for<br />

“Mama, I Want To See God.” Her new book, “Daddy,<br />

I Want To Know God” will be released in October of<br />

2017.<br />

Vanessa enjoys meeting her friends and fans on her<br />

book tour rounds.<br />

LOS ANGELES –<br />

Bookvana.com announced the<br />

winners and finalists of THE<br />

2017 BOOKVANA AWARDS<br />

(BVA) on August 14, 2017.<br />

Children’s Religious<br />

Mama, I Want to See God by<br />

Vanessa Fortenberry,<br />

Follow on Facebook for more information. Write2Ignite 2018<br />

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New Feature!<br />

Youth In Service<br />

Introducing Chloe<br />

As a new feature, we have added a story about<br />

youth in service. This month, we feature sweet,<br />

curious, bright, and playful Chloe. This is a<br />

personal story for us because she is our grandchild.<br />

<strong>On</strong> a recent trip to the kids museum in Rutherford,<br />

NC, Chloe jumped into action to help with one of<br />

the displays. They have a grocery store where kids<br />

come in, get a cart, shop, and even check out at the<br />

cashiers stand,. There is play money, where someone<br />

can act as cashier and the kids get the full<br />

experience of being in control at the store. Chloe<br />

and I had already played in the grocery store once<br />

during the visit, but she really loves the exhibit and<br />

it seems to be a really popular activity with<br />

the kids, boys and girls alike. As we entered the<br />

exhibit for the second time, we were shocked to<br />

find everything had been thrown on the floor. The<br />

place was a complete mess. I was ready to take<br />

Chloe to another exhibit but looked down to see<br />

Chloe picking up the items and putting them back<br />

in place.<br />

<strong>On</strong>e of the workers came in, apologized, and said<br />

a little boy had done the damage. She said he just<br />

threw everything everywhere. Chloe said, “That<br />

little boy shouldn’t have done that.” Since it was<br />

obvious that Chloe wanted to help, we both got a<br />

cart and started to pick up everything on the floor<br />

and return it to the shelves. The museum worker<br />

was amazed as she watched Chloe working<br />

diligently to help get the store reopened for the<br />

other kids.<br />

I was so proud that my heart was about to burst.<br />

Chloe didn’t need prompting, she just saw that<br />

something needed to done and stepped up to the<br />

plate. She had such a determined look on her face,<br />

she never once complained or decided she had<br />

done enough. Her goal was to continue to work<br />

until the job was finished.<br />

This little 4-year-old girl finished the job, watched<br />

as the store started to fill with kids again and then<br />

moved on to the next exhibit. The museum let her<br />

pick a little gift for helping but that isn’t why Chloe<br />

helped, it came straight from her heart.<br />

Chloe and her beautiful mother Katie.<br />

Do you have a young person you would like<br />

featured in our magazine? Please contact us at<br />

<strong>Faith</strong><strong>On</strong><strong>Every</strong><strong>Corner</strong>@gmail.com


Spring Awakening<br />

by Pam McCormick<br />

She was called sweet. She was called good. She was<br />

a good girl. She was a performer. She earned praise<br />

by being at the right place at the right time and<br />

seeking to please people in all that she did. She had<br />

gone to church all her life. It was what you did on<br />

Sunday. <strong>Every</strong>body knows that. She lived the good<br />

life. That’s what Mom and Dad wanted, a good girl,<br />

so she was good, to the best of her ability. She<br />

desired to be liked by others, so much that she<br />

copied others, believing, that if she could be just<br />

like them, she would belong and be accepted. The<br />

people she admired wore the latest fashions, so she<br />

had to get those kinds of clothes too, or her biggest<br />

fear would come true. Her biggest fear was being<br />

different, odd even peculiar; she would then stand<br />

out in a crowd. She would hear others’ laughter<br />

at nasty jokes. Even though her insides wanted to<br />

cringe, she laughed. She cursed, when they cursed.<br />

She made fun of others, because to not do so meant<br />

she would be made fun of, and the horror attached<br />

to that feeling of being disconnected with people<br />

that really mattered, was real. She had to play the<br />

game well, even if it meant she lost her identity. It<br />

was worth it all, just to have friends.<br />

She would buy gifts for people, expensive gifts, just<br />

to earn their friendship. She believed there was<br />

nothing inside her that had value. Her value came<br />

from seeking the attention of others and doing what<br />

they wanted, for in doing what others wanted, she<br />

could belong. Do you know what? She never did fit<br />

in, although she tried. She was like a square peg in<br />

a world of round holes, and no matter how hard she<br />

tried, she was lost and without hope of ever being<br />

accepted for who she was, a person in need of love.<br />

Then one day, the ones she idolized did something<br />

that she did not expect; they went up to the front of<br />

the church and asked a man named Jesus to come<br />

into their heart. She told herself, “If that’s what I<br />

have to do now, to be a part of their group, I’ll do<br />

that too.” So she went up to the front with them. If<br />

she went up and cried and appeared saintly, then<br />

she could influence others to do the same. She<br />

wanted to belong so badly; it didn’t matter what she<br />

had to do.<br />

And that was her life, her whole life:<br />

PERFORMANCE to earn friends, to earn praise,<br />

to earn the good favor of her parents, to be called<br />

sweet and good, to emulate others.<br />

How long could she keep it up?<br />

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Then, in a tiny closet, on a dark, hopeless night in May<br />

of 2000, God heard the desperate cries of someone who<br />

wanted to know if He was real or just someone in a<br />

storybook. She carried three things into the closet space<br />

with her and shut the door. She just felt if she could<br />

numb herself, just enough, that she would get the guts<br />

to take the sleeping pills she held in her hand. Drinking<br />

a bottle of wine and two beers, she was inebriated and<br />

ready to give up her life. She opened the pill bottle; she<br />

doesn’t remember how many she took. As her eyelids<br />

began to flutter and her eyes could cry no more, she said<br />

with seemingly her last breath, “Help me, God!”<br />

At 2:16 am, she awoke. Instead of being in the small<br />

closet, she was now kneeling on her knees next to her<br />

bed. As she looked around and felt her heart still beating,<br />

she screamed out in hate and disbelief, “God, why<br />

didn’t you let me die?”<br />

She saw the hour and knew that in less than four hours,<br />

she would be going to work. She covered her body with<br />

the warm blankets and went fast asleep. She got up at<br />

6:30 am and went about her normal routine for that hour<br />

of the morning, getting ready for work. Little did she<br />

know, but her night of darkness would soon turn into a<br />

spring awakening.<br />

All her deeds were not done in secret, as she had<br />

thought. <strong>Every</strong>thing had been seen by God, and He<br />

knew what would come next. He had planned it. She<br />

was going to be surprised to find the answer to her<br />

question of whether He was real.<br />

She went to work, wearing a mask to hide the tears<br />

inside. She covered up all the hurt and all the pain with a<br />

smile. No one could ever know the truth of what she had<br />

done. What would people think of her, if she unveiled<br />

this insecure, scaredy cat kind of gal, that just wanted to<br />

be liked, whatever the cost. So she blended, like a round<br />

peg in a world of round pegs, fitting into circles by<br />

laughing life away and crying in dark, tiny closets, when<br />

she was by herself.<br />

God would not have it that way anymore. He set in<br />

motion a plan where He used a woman named Carol to<br />

come to a grown woman’s rescue. All Carol knew was<br />

that God wanted her to do something, and as a result of<br />

her obedience to God, a life was forever changed.<br />

She tried her hardest to persuade Carol to leave.<br />

She used the guise that she was busy and had lots<br />

to do. It’s funny; Carol and she had never talked<br />

before. They were acquaintances only.<br />

Carol would not leave. I stood there in defiance and<br />

trying to be as nice as I could, I kept telling her to<br />

get out of my room. Carol didn’t budge. She stood<br />

firm in The Lord, although I mocked her and<br />

ridiculed her when she told me, “God sent me to<br />

you.”<br />

I’m very fortunate to be alive, because God could<br />

have turned His back on me right then and there,<br />

but God’s Love for me was greater than my attitude.<br />

Carol walked towards me. Carol asked me, “Why<br />

did you try to kill yourself last night?”<br />

How did Carol know? No one knew. This was<br />

impossible. No one knew what had happened the<br />

night before. Then I remembered. In my last<br />

seconds before going unconscious, I had cried out,<br />

“Help me, God,” and God showed up. I went to my<br />

knees.<br />

Then, I straightened up and told myself, “Wait a<br />

minute. I’m a Christian, just like Carol. What is she<br />

doing telling me to go to her church with her? I go<br />

to church all the time.”<br />

God and Carol had patience beyond understanding.<br />

Again, here I was, rearing my head and showing<br />

my rear end and God was so good still.<br />

When given the choice to go with her to her church<br />

or go to my boss, I quickly decided that I didn’t<br />

want to lose my job, so I would pacify Carol and<br />

go.<br />

While there, I spoke with a counselor and after a<br />

long discussion about God, it was decided that I<br />

was going to be okay. I knew all the stories, all the<br />

facts, all the holidays like Christmas and Easter and<br />

what they meant, so I would be okay. The counselor<br />

determined in a short while that I would never<br />

try to take my life again. Well, they were right, I<br />

never did try to take my life again.<br />

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See, I got outside to get in my van and as I started<br />

to open the door, I thought about something. Yes, I<br />

know all the stories, all the special moments about<br />

God, but I don’t know Jesus. I didn’t know Him. I<br />

knew of Him, but I didn’t know Him.<br />

I had been a good girl always doing what others<br />

told me to do. I did, not because I wanted to do it,<br />

but because I was told, “good girls go to church.”<br />

Jesus knew about all the things that I did. He knew<br />

me inside and out. My name is Pam, and I am being<br />

changed one day at a time by a God that never<br />

gives up on me. The Good News is that I didn’t<br />

do anything; God did everything. He loved me so<br />

much that He didn’t want to leave me where I was<br />

at, and although life has not been perfect and I have<br />

not been perfect, God has been.<br />

Yet to all who did receive Him, to those who<br />

believed in His name, He gave the right to become<br />

children of God — children born not of natural<br />

descent, nor of human decision or a husband’s will,<br />

but born of God. John 1: 12-13<br />

That was Monday, May 26, 2000. It was Memorial<br />

Day. School was in session that day, because God<br />

knew what I needed more than I did. Shortly after<br />

that, a young girl from R-S Central High School<br />

wrote a letter to the local newspaper asking why<br />

schools did not observe the holiday. The following<br />

year, all schools in the county observed Memorial<br />

Day. If you’re smiling, I am too. God’s timing was<br />

and always is perfect.<br />

<strong>On</strong> June 23, 2001, I was baptized in a swimming<br />

pool. I still have the picture that was snapped, as I<br />

came out of the water. I was grinning from ear<br />

to ear. I could not contain my joy. I had been<br />

searching for love, and love found me.<br />

Has life been easy? No, but God has been good.<br />

<strong>Every</strong>body walks a road designed personally for<br />

them by God, since before time began. I can’t<br />

compare my journey with another person’s journey.<br />

We each have unique life circumstances that make<br />

us who we are. I am thankful for everything that<br />

has happened in my life, because without God and<br />

a woman who boldly spoke up for God, I wouldn’t<br />

be alive today to write this story. I write for three<br />

reasons. First, to give glory to God for what He has<br />

done in my life; second, to let people know God is<br />

alive, and third, to tell of the hope I have in Christ<br />

now, and it’s because of Him and Him alone, I<br />

sing, in the storms, in the peaceful times. I know<br />

my God is alive and is in control.<br />

The Associated Press printed a story on June 13,<br />

2010 of a man named Don Ritchie who lives to<br />

save people’s lives. He lives near a rocky cliff, and<br />

when he wakes in the morning, he looks outside<br />

his humble home and if there is someone<br />

considering suicide, he goes to them and offers<br />

them a listening ear, a smile, and a cup of tea. At<br />

the time of the post, he had convinced 160 people<br />

to change their minds. God can use anyone and<br />

anything to make Himself known. God just asks,<br />

“Are you willing?” This story was very difficult for<br />

me to write, but if it can be used by God to save<br />

someone’s life, then yes, I am willing to share it.<br />

I never could grasp the fact that was right before<br />

my eyes every day. I was a sinner, and no matter<br />

how good I would be, I never was going to be good<br />

enough. I was basing my entrance to Heaven on<br />

what I did. That’s the funny part. When I look back<br />

at what I did to gain others’ approval, it wasn’t God<br />

I was trying to please. It was others and little ol’<br />

me.<br />

Editor’s Note: by Karen Ruhl<br />

This story is printed as written by the author. It is our prayer that her testimony touches the life of others. It<br />

has to be written from the heart so we can feel those raw emotions. Thank you for sharing your story Pam,<br />

we are sure it will be an inspiration to others.<br />

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It didn’t take long for Ruth to start serving Randi<br />

and Bob in big ways. The following was written by<br />

Randi about her sweet angel friend.<br />

“When we first moved into The Groves last Oct. 1,<br />

Ruth had a key to help movers that got there ahead<br />

of us. I let her keep it and that’s what she has used<br />

for all her angel visits.<br />

The very first thing I saw when we got to our new<br />

home was the yellow sign she had posted at our<br />

back door. The blue one she posted at the front<br />

door. I kept those up for over a month! I have<br />

laminated them and may post them again.<br />

A Heart For Serving Others<br />

Ruth Sullivan<br />

There are times when we see a story or hear about<br />

someone that serves directly from their heart. They<br />

think about it, they just do it because it is the right<br />

thing to do. Ruth Sullivan is one of those<br />

people, a caregiver for her 99 year old mother, and<br />

a loving friend and neighbor to many.<br />

Ruth and I have several friends in common, we<br />

were once part of the same church family in<br />

California. <strong>On</strong>e of our friends, Randi, recently<br />

moved into the same community that Ruth lives in.<br />

It was not by chance, Ruth helped Randi and her<br />

husband Bob find a home there. Randi’s husband,<br />

Bob, has Alzheimer’s, and they were very blessed<br />

by being able to move into this gated area. Not only<br />

is it a wonderful place to live, it is one story and<br />

much easier for Randi to help Bob in and out of the<br />

house.<br />

Two weeks after we moved in, I came home to find<br />

white chocolate-dipped strawberries in our<br />

refrigerator. She has done this several times.<br />

In December, as I was ready to unpack our crystal<br />

and silver, I mentioned to Ruth that they don’t show<br />

off well in our all-white cabinet. I wanted to paint<br />

the back blue. Ruth suggested using blue scrapbook<br />

paper . . . then came while I was at work and put it<br />

up for me!<br />

It was time to decorate for Christmas,<br />

but all I put up were my wreaths. I<br />

came home one day to find one that<br />

Ruth made especially for our front<br />

door,” Randi tells us.<br />

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Ruth loves to volunteer, limited only by how long<br />

she is able to leave her mother at home. Ruth’s<br />

mom can take care of herself for the most part so<br />

she does not have to be there 24/7 but she stays<br />

close to home.<br />

For the past 9 or 10 years, Ruth goes to church to<br />

make sure the paraments are on the communion<br />

table and she puts water in the baptismal font.<br />

Ruth has been attending Trinity United Presbyterian<br />

Church for 16 years. She lived in Canada for 16<br />

years and starting attending Trinity again as soon as<br />

she got back. She has been singing in the choir from<br />

September through June each year since 1985. The<br />

choir takes a break for summer and Ruth continues<br />

to sing in summer choir.<br />

Ruth just finished being the MC for the Follies, a<br />

dinner show that is held in the community she lives<br />

in. This year was even more successful than other<br />

years, even adding an additional day to the program.<br />

She was involved in the rehearsals, pictures, and<br />

even more rehearsals. The show ran in August. The<br />

theme for the Follies was the Calendar Year.<br />

Besides being the MC, Ruth did a number where<br />

she was a witch for Halloween.<br />

Being in showbiz is nothing new to Ruth, she has<br />

been doing shows since she was 4 or 5 years old<br />

and she knows how showbiz works. For the Follies,<br />

you must be 55 or older. This years show featured<br />

a Men’s Tap Dance Group, one of the men was 93<br />

years old.<br />

During the interview, I asked Ruth about her<br />

parents. I asked if they served as well. Ruth was<br />

excited to share her parents journey.<br />

“My mother and father, Hursh and Harriette Parnell,<br />

were part time missionaries for years, working with<br />

the Hopi and Navajo Indians. They donated about<br />

half their vacation time to making trips to Arizona.<br />

Sometimes they went with my Aunt and Uncle,<br />

Clair and Lorene Hanson, and often as part of a<br />

larger group driving RVs.<br />

My mother was a Buyer for the Irvine Medical<br />

Center. When the hospital was replacing medical<br />

equipment my mother would ask the vendors to<br />

donate the “used” equipment. My parents took<br />

operating tables, sterilizers, wheel chairs, medicine,<br />

and anything else they could find. Another time<br />

they had a request for sewing machines, something<br />

they seldom got as donations Shortly after the<br />

request they got a call from one of the local schools<br />

giving them the old machines and someone else<br />

contacted them with an offer to clean and repair all<br />

the machines. Then a few weeks before they were to<br />

leave they got a call regarding a bunch of bolt end<br />

fabric from a clothing manufacturing firm.<br />

Another sign of God’s work was when they were<br />

taking an open trailer loaded with a piano and<br />

furniture. My father was the expert on tying down<br />

tarps. Part way into the trip someone told him (via<br />

CB radio) that a corner of the tarp was loose. They<br />

stopped and dad retied the rope and double checked<br />

the other knots. Before long another rope was<br />

loose, they made another stop. Then a few miles<br />

down the road they realized that there had been a<br />

major thunder storm and rain. Had they not stopped<br />

they would have been caught in the storm and the<br />

items in the trailer would have gotten wet,” said<br />

Ruth.<br />

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Ruth dressed as a witch for the Follies and as a<br />

clown for the parade in her neighborhood.<br />

Hearing Ruth tell about her mother and father and<br />

aunt and uncle being in service to God, shows us<br />

how much we as parents and grandparents<br />

impact our children’s lives.<br />

Ruth is a wonderful Christian woman. Her<br />

examples are easy to emulate. Be an inspiration,<br />

like Ruth.


Good and <strong>Faith</strong>ful Servants<br />

Cora and Ed Hamilton<br />

Karen and I met Ed and Cora Hamilton while we<br />

were living in a rural community in southwestern<br />

Ohio. It was during our first visit to a new church<br />

when they greeted us in the parking lot, welcomed<br />

us, introduced us to others as we entered and then<br />

sat with us during the service. Afterward, they<br />

treated us to lunch and shared their story of faith<br />

and mission with us. We now live in southwestern<br />

North Carolina and the Hamiltons live in eastern<br />

Tennessee. What a blessing it was to be<br />

able to visit them recently. During our<br />

time together, we asked them to write<br />

us with more details of their lives and<br />

adventures together. Here is their story, as<br />

told to us.<br />

Ed and Cora, having been high school sweethearts,<br />

married soon after graduation on May 22, 1957.<br />

For more than sixty years, they have worked,<br />

shared, prayed, and served together. Ed states,<br />

“We work best when we work together. The Lord<br />

has blessed us in so many ways that I can’t count<br />

them. My greatest blessing has been Cora. She<br />

has been the love of my life, my greatest possible<br />

companion on life’s journey, given me wonderful<br />

children, encouraged me in whatever I was<br />

pursuing, and is a sister in Christ. In many ways,<br />

we differ and yet, we are often of like minds. We<br />

have memories and stories that will last as long as<br />

we do and we look forward to<br />

what the Lord has in store for us<br />

with faith and confidence that<br />

he will care for us and use us as<br />

long as life shall last.”<br />

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The Hamiltons have been blessed with four daughters<br />

plus grandchildren and great grandchildren<br />

who are very special to them. They lost one<br />

daughter at the age of forty. Their three daughters<br />

are devoted Christians and, much like their parents,<br />

love to serve others. Two daughters are nurses and<br />

the third daughter is the wife of a Navy Chaplain.<br />

All three take every opportunity to share their<br />

Christian faith with those they serve.<br />

Ed and Cora began their adult service lives when,<br />

shortly after Ed graduated from Ohio State<br />

University with a degree in Electrical Engineering,<br />

he joined the Air Force and became a fighter<br />

jet pilot. For more than twenty years, they served<br />

their country with duty stations both stateside and<br />

abroad. During this time, Cora helped raise the<br />

girls and worked on a teaching degree. She taught<br />

school within the Department of Defense Overseas<br />

School System at several of their assignments.<br />

<strong>On</strong>ce Cora earned a degree in special education,<br />

she started teaching at the local schools.<br />

In 1984, Ed retired from the Air Force and he and<br />

Cora settled into civilian life. This lasted about<br />

a year. They decided they weren’t quite ready to<br />

settle down. Now armed with a Masters degree,<br />

Cora applied for a teaching position with the<br />

Department of Defense Overseas School System<br />

in the Philippines and was accepted. Now Cora<br />

was the sponsor and Ed was the dependent. Many<br />

Universities provided continuing education for<br />

the DDODS teachers on the base and Ed could do<br />

course work to be certified to teach in Science and<br />

Math. During their second year there, Ed taught<br />

Math and Science in the same system. Two years<br />

later, Ed and Cora moved to Stuttgart, Germany<br />

where they both continued to teach within the<br />

DDODS. In 1989, they returned to the family farm<br />

in Ohio where they built a house. Ed did the framing<br />

and interior finishing while Cora taught Special<br />

Education in the local school system. <strong>On</strong>ce the<br />

house was finished, Ed began teaching math at the<br />

local high school. Since the school system did not<br />

have a computer program, Cora and Ed began to<br />

write grants and eventually about $1,000,000 worth<br />

of computer equipment and software was acquired<br />

with which they established a network linking the<br />

four schools in the area.<br />

Ed oversaw operating the networks throughout the<br />

school system while teaching junior and senior<br />

high school students math, introducing them to<br />

using the computers in the lab and classrooms. The<br />

Hamiltons continued to teach in the Greenfield,<br />

Ohio school system until retiring in 2000.<br />

While teaching, a fellow teacher led Ed to join<br />

Gideons International. Gideons is almost 120 years<br />

old and has distributed over 2 billion scriptures<br />

around the world while seeking to bring the lost to<br />

Jesus Christ. Most of us are familiar with the Bibles<br />

placed in hotel and motel rooms by this organization,<br />

but the ministry is very diverse. Ed states<br />

that he has been blessed to have participated in the<br />

distribution of complete Bibles, New Testaments,<br />

and witnessing his faith during his long service<br />

with Gideons. More information on opportunities<br />

to serve is available at http://www.gideons.org/.<br />

During the time that they were teaching, they<br />

renewed their interest in sailing and purchased a<br />

26 foot. trailer-able sailboat. During the summers,<br />

when they were not teaching, they enjoyed taking<br />

the boat to the Chesapeake Bay and many lakes in<br />

other states. In the late ‘90s, they bought a 42-foot<br />

sailboat and prepared it for extensive travel. In the<br />

fall of 2000, they sailed from Lake Erie, through<br />

the Erie Canal, to the Hudson River and then down<br />

the River to the Atlantic Ocean, ending up in the<br />

Florida Keys. After spending the winter on their<br />

boat in Florida, although loving the sailing life<br />

and being very blessed, they felt that something<br />

was missing. Over the years, the Hamiltons visited<br />

many churches of different denominations.<br />

It was at a church in their marina that they met a<br />

couple who were active with a group that helped<br />

troubled children at an orphanage in the Bahamas.<br />

The group needed a teacher and a person to perform<br />

general work duties at the facility. A course<br />

was plotted and plans made to make the crossing<br />

in their boat. Foul weather forced them to change<br />

course, landing them in Miami, Florida. In the<br />

meantime, their youngest daughter, in Ohio, was<br />

going to have a baby.<br />

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The Bahamas trip would have to wait until next<br />

fall. Ed and Cora sailed north towards Annapolis,<br />

Maryland. Severe weather caused them into port<br />

near Savannah, Georgia. While doing some sightseeing,<br />

they noticed a rather large ship named the<br />

Caribbean Mercy tied up at the dock. They were<br />

conducting tours of some sort so we decided to go<br />

on board. The ship, part of an organization called<br />

Mercy Ships, was crewed by believers in Jesus<br />

Christ and provided outreach, when invited, to<br />

developing nations. Ed and Cora were impressed<br />

by the education department where children of long<br />

term crew members were schooled. They left a<br />

donation check and went on their way. They then<br />

sailed from Savannah to Charleston where they<br />

planned to stay about 2 weeks because Cora wanted<br />

to work on genealogy. About 2 days before they<br />

planned to leave, the ship Caribbean Mercy came<br />

into the harbor and tied up at the dock. Thinking<br />

it very interesting that a Mercy Ship should come<br />

into our lives again, they decided to go take another<br />

tour. They were again impressed by the crew<br />

and the work they did including surgery, general<br />

health examinations and treatment, well drilling,<br />

optical, dental, and evangelical outreach. The crew<br />

members came from almost 20 different countries<br />

and even more denominations. Leaving Charleston,<br />

they knew that God was sending them a message;<br />

find out more about the Mercy Ship organization.<br />

Leaving their boat in Annapolis, Ed and Cora returned<br />

to their home in Ohio.<br />

They contacted Mercy Ships, applied for positions<br />

and in less than a month, they were working at<br />

the headquarters in Garden Valley, Texas. Ed was<br />

working in the computer department and Cora in<br />

the education department. They could live in their<br />

newly acquired 5th wheel travel trailer that they<br />

parked the Mercy Ship headquarters facility. After<br />

about three months, Ed and Cora were led to join<br />

the Caribbean Mercy Ship in its ministry. Before<br />

being able to do that, they had to complete the<br />

Mercy Ship Discipleship program which consisted<br />

of about a month of classroom activities where they<br />

heard several speakers from different aspects of<br />

Mercy Ship’s activities in addition to exploring and<br />

deepening their relationship with God and seeking<br />

His guidance on how they could be used.<br />

They contacted Mercy Ships, applied for positions<br />

and in less than a month, they were working at<br />

the headquarters in Garden Valley, Texas. Ed was<br />

working in the computer department and Cora in<br />

the education department. They could live in their<br />

newly acquired 5th wheel travel trailer that they<br />

parked the Mercy Ship headquarters facility. After<br />

about three months, Ed and Cora were led to join<br />

the Caribbean Mercy Ship in its ministry. Before<br />

being able to do that, they had to complete the<br />

Mercy Ship Discipleship program which consisted<br />

of about a month of classroom activities where<br />

they heard several speakers from different aspects<br />

of Mercy Ship’s activities in addition to exploring<br />

and deepening their relationship with God and<br />

seeking His guidance on how they could be used.<br />

They traveled to Juarez, Mexico where a house<br />

was being built for one of the member families of<br />

the sponsoring churches. During this time, they<br />

worked very closely with the church members to<br />

deepen their relationship and were encouraged to<br />

spend a night with a church family. This night<br />

touched Ed and Cora in many ways. The young<br />

couple came from outside Juarez and their family<br />

was very rich. But their family was Catholic, and<br />

when the couple converted and became Protestants,<br />

declaring their love and commitment to Jesus<br />

Christ, they were disowned by their families. The<br />

house was built of tin and whatever else could be<br />

found. The family slept on dirt floors and their water<br />

and bathroom facilities were outside. They had<br />

only bare necessities for them and their children.<br />

Cora says, “The thing that brought us to tears and<br />

showed their level of Christian commitment was at<br />

breakfast time. They had taken funds that would<br />

have provided for them and bought items that they<br />

thought Americans would normally eat for breakfast.<br />

What an example of Christian hospitality!”<br />

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Ed and Cora served on the Caribbean Mercy for<br />

almost 2 years. The ship was like a small city,<br />

requiring most of the services that would be available<br />

on land. Ed took care of all the computers<br />

on board and managed the computer network and<br />

satellite communications while Cora had various<br />

jobs including bank teller, bookkeeper, and manager<br />

of the onboard café, library, bookstore, and<br />

video room. The job she liked most was that of<br />

“Julie” (on the Love Boat). When in port, she went<br />

to the hotels and shops to find good deals for the<br />

ship’s crew when they had time off. Both enjoyed<br />

the opportunity to join the various outreach efforts<br />

including water well drilling, dental clinic, general<br />

health clinic, and evangelical outreach. They<br />

were bountifully blessed by the work they could<br />

do and by the fellowship and love of those around<br />

them. There were about 18 different nationalities<br />

on board the ship and many different denominations.<br />

Those things were not spoken of, only the<br />

common love of and service to Jesus Christ. All<br />

were blessed by the opportunity to share different<br />

insights and different life styles but it was Jesus<br />

who they knew in common. After leaving the<br />

Caribbean Mercy, Ed and Cora returned home but<br />

continued to work for Mercy Ships as public relations<br />

representatives. They attended fund raising<br />

activities and represented Mercy Ships as recruiters<br />

at functions such as mission festivals. More information<br />

on serving with Mercy Ships can be found<br />

at https://www.mercyships.org/.<br />

In 2005, their pastor asked them to conduct an<br />

introduction to missions during a mission weekend<br />

in their church. People involved in mission<br />

activities in several different areas were invited to<br />

present information about those activities. <strong>On</strong>e of<br />

the representatives spoke about NOMADS (Nomads<br />

on a Mission Active in Divine Service). NO-<br />

MADS are people, most of whom have RV’s, who<br />

travel the country working on mission projects.<br />

Their work has been requested by a Methodist<br />

church or other Methodist activity through the central<br />

NOMADS office. Members of any denomination<br />

can join NOMADS. They do whatever work<br />

the requesting agency has, except for heavy concrete<br />

work and steep roof work. Ed and Cora were<br />

so impressed by their presentation that they subsequently<br />

joined NOMADS. From 2006 until 2015,<br />

they worked on multiple projects in Ohio, Tennessee,<br />

Florida, Georgia, Mississippi, Louisiana, and<br />

Arizona. Projects are generally three weeks long<br />

except for disaster relief projects for which there is<br />

a weekly sign up. The agency for which you work<br />

must provide a place to park your RV, but you are<br />

responsible for all other expenses you may incur.<br />

Each NOMAD brings tools that fit the work they<br />

expect to do. You may work as many or as few<br />

projects as you want. Further information is at<br />

www.umcnomads.org.<br />

Ed and Cora Hamilton are great examples of a<br />

couple living their faith through service to others.<br />

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Ed and Cora Hamilton (left) presented a beautiful quilted<br />

wall hanging to Rainsboro United Methodist Church on<br />

January 25, 2015. The wall hanging was made by the<br />

Nomads and presented to Rev. Debbie Ketcham on behalf<br />

of the church.


Road Trippin’ in North Carolina<br />

Photos by Karen Ruhl<br />

Two and one-half years ago, our son called and<br />

asked us to move to North Carolina to be closer to<br />

his family. He said, “Mom, you will love it here!”<br />

We prayed and after several months, decided to<br />

make the big move. We are full-time RVers, so<br />

moving a motor coach is pretty easy!<br />

<strong>On</strong>ce in North Carolina, we started exploring and<br />

fell in love with this state - much of which we still<br />

have not explored. We live in the foothills of The<br />

Blue Ridge Mountains and about one hour from<br />

South Carolina and all of its beauty.<br />

We feel very blessed<br />

to be able to explore<br />

the country and<br />

thought you might<br />

enjoy some of the<br />

photos from this area.<br />

There are hundreds<br />

of lakes within a short<br />

drive from us and<br />

many waterfalls. NC<br />

is known as the land<br />

of waterfalls. Looking<br />

Glass Falls is featured<br />

in this photo to the<br />

right.<br />

The fall is always<br />

beautiful and will be<br />

ready to show off in<br />

a few weeks. Black<br />

Mountain is on the<br />

right starting to show<br />

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If you watched Hunger Games, you might recognize the building<br />

in the top photo. It was the bakery in the first movie. This<br />

abandoned town is fun to walk around in and snap some photos of<br />

a once thriving mill town of Henry River Mill Village.<br />

I will continue to share photos in future issues. Get out and take<br />

a drive, there is a world of beauty surrounding you wherever you<br />

live.<br />

Beautiful South Mountain is home to a stunning creek that runs down stream from the High Shoals Falls waterfall.<br />

This hike is not for the meek, I was surprised that I made it to the falls and felt like a Billy Goat along the<br />

trail climbing over huge rocks and up hills. The water level was low the day I walked to the falls, still stunning!<br />

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A Missionaries Story of <strong>Faith</strong>, Hope, and Forgiveness<br />

The Haspels are Presbyterian Mission Partners who<br />

served in Ethiopia for over 40 years. They were<br />

supported for over 10 years by Trinity United<br />

Presbyterian Church. They are now officially retired<br />

but continue to connect with the people they served in<br />

Ethiopia.<br />

Please click to watch them speak about the attack<br />

against them and forgiveness.<br />

VIDEO https://vimeo.com/228580330<br />

This is a sermon the Hapels gave at Trinity United Presbyterian Church, our church home for many years when<br />

we were in California. We contacted Pastor Doug Rumford for permission to post this link in our magazine.<br />

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Book Review<br />

Ancient Stones;<br />

Timeless Encouragement<br />

This devotional book has 52 devotions for the<br />

present using the Old Testament scriptures. It was<br />

written by the Encouragers Christian Writers Group<br />

and compiled and edited by Cathy Biggerstaff.<br />

I love reading the personal stories from the writers<br />

as they tackle everything from ADHD to Questions<br />

For God. Their experiences range from losing a<br />

child to moving into a nursing home. Real life<br />

situations that will make you stop and think. I was<br />

able to relate to the devotions from experiences I<br />

have gone through or someone close to me has<br />

experienced. I will continue to use this book<br />

weekly.<br />

Devotions are meant to be read and prayed over. I<br />

can recommend this book highly.<br />

You can find this book on Amazon by following the<br />

link below:<br />

Ancient Stones; Timeless Encouragement<br />

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