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<strong>Faith</strong><br />
<strong>On</strong> <strong>Every</strong> <strong>Corner</strong><br />
<strong>Issue</strong> 2<br />
<strong>Every</strong>day People Making A Difference<br />
Enter The Mission Field<br />
by Craig Ruhl<br />
Chloe Steps Up!<br />
New Youth Feature<br />
by Karen Ruhl<br />
Stories of<br />
<strong>Faith</strong> and<br />
Service<br />
Featuring:<br />
Christian Writer<br />
Vanessa<br />
Fortenberry<br />
Spring Awakening<br />
by Pam McCormick<br />
A Heart For Service<br />
Ruth Sullivan<br />
by Karen Ruhl<br />
Good & <strong>Faith</strong>ful Servants<br />
Ed and Cora Hamilton<br />
by Craig Ruhl<br />
BOOK REVIEW<br />
Ancient Stones;<br />
Timeless Encouragement<br />
Reviewed by Karen Ruhl<br />
Day Trippin’<br />
by Karen Ruhl
Enter The Mission Field<br />
Last night, Karen and I were streaming a movie that<br />
provoked me into some serious thinking. The film<br />
would fall under the genre of <strong>Faith</strong> or Christian.<br />
It was a good movie that flowed well, with a good<br />
message, even with a low production quality. We<br />
tend to value these movies for their message more<br />
than theatrics. In this case, I was more affected by<br />
a sub plot than the main story line. Let me explain.<br />
The primary theme was “What would Jesus do?”<br />
The story focuses around a pastor of a small church<br />
who is impacted by a homeless man who holds the<br />
congregation to task because of the way he was<br />
treated by the community. The pastor calls for those<br />
in the church to join him on a journey to examine<br />
their daily choices, actions, and responses. What<br />
did they think Jesus would do in the same situation?<br />
There were only a few takers. I’ll stop here so I<br />
don’t give the story away for those who will want to<br />
see the movie.<br />
The sub plot that really struck me had to do with the<br />
concept of the church as we know it today.<br />
We attend church, read the Bible, sing the hymns,<br />
hear the sermons, but how do we practice our<br />
Christianity? Is this what Jesus would do? Or<br />
would he take the church outside to where the vast<br />
numbers of people needing to hear His words are?<br />
Sometimes, I think that the brick and mortar church<br />
is mostly like-minded people gathering together to<br />
hear each other’s tales of accomplishments,<br />
involvements, participation, generally sanctimonious<br />
lives, shake hands, pat each other on the back,<br />
and return to their everyday lives. There might as<br />
well be a checklist in the pews; Bible, check;<br />
pray, check; attend church, check, and so on.<br />
Unfortunately, that is where it ends for many of us.<br />
It seems like preaching to the choir, as the saying<br />
goes. We, the people, are the church. I have heard<br />
it said that one reason people don’t go to church is<br />
that there are Christians there. I believe that this is<br />
not just a Christian thing either.<br />
There are many people of all faiths who are lovingly<br />
engaged in daily acts of kindness, service, aid,<br />
and comfort to those who are in need. This can take<br />
a multitude of forms. Volunteering at a small community<br />
food bank or kitchen, joining a jail or prison<br />
ministry, visiting the sick or elderly, helping build<br />
a house for a deserving family, and taking meals to<br />
the housebound are just a few ideas. This is one of<br />
the ways the pastor in the movie called his flock to<br />
participate in Christ like behavior. He suggests that<br />
this is what Jesus called us to do, minister to each<br />
other. This struck a note with me as I watched the<br />
movie. People don’t just need to hear God’s message.<br />
They also need to feel God’s love. Both need<br />
to be delivered by us, the church, in person. Bible<br />
verses can be memorized, recited and woven into<br />
a condemning, judging, and unforgiving attitude.<br />
We can also decide to spread the Word through our<br />
actions. To paraphrase a saying I remember -<br />
“People won’t care how much you know until they<br />
know how much you care.”<br />
We believe that churches with pastors and congregations<br />
are important in our communities, families,<br />
and personal lives. However, faithfulness cannot<br />
stop inside those walls. At one of our past churches,<br />
at each of the parking lot exits, was this message on<br />
a sign: Now Entering the Mission Field. This is true,<br />
we are taught in the church but it is up to us to put<br />
what we have learned into action once we have left.<br />
The church has fulfilled its purpose.<br />
Karen and I started our online digital magazine,<br />
<strong>Faith</strong> <strong>On</strong> <strong>Every</strong> <strong>Corner</strong>, with the intention of sharing<br />
stories of everyday people making a difference in<br />
their communities through acts of love, service,<br />
and kindness. We pray that our readers will be<br />
inspired to seek out new ways to be of faithful<br />
service. If you know of an interesting story of faith<br />
and service, please let us know. Stay tuned, God<br />
isn’t finished yet.<br />
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Table of Contents<br />
Enter The Mission Field Page 1<br />
Letter from the Editor Page 3<br />
Vanessa Fortenberry Page 5<br />
Writing For God And Family<br />
Youth In Service (New) Page 8<br />
Featuring Chloe<br />
Spring Awakening Page 9<br />
Pam McCormick<br />
A Heart For Serving Others Page 13<br />
Ruth Sullivan<br />
Good and <strong>Faith</strong>ful Servants Page 15<br />
Cora and Ed Hamilton<br />
Day Tripppin’ Page 19<br />
Video link: Page 21<br />
Rev. John and Gwenyth Haspels<br />
A Missionaries Story of <strong>Faith</strong>, Hope, and Forgiveness<br />
Rest In Peace Willie Williamson<br />
DOB 4-19-1950 - First saw Jesus 8-25-2017<br />
Our thoughts, prayers, and love go out<br />
to Vicki Williamson.<br />
Vicki and Willie Williamson were one of our<br />
first features for this magazine. They left an<br />
indelible mark on our hearts.<br />
Vicki, your faith is inspiring.<br />
Sending our love, thoughts, and prayers.<br />
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Letter from the Editor<br />
Thank you for making our premiere magazine a success. We received<br />
great comments and e-mails from readers who love having something<br />
positive to read.<br />
We encourage you to take a look at our two new features this month,<br />
Youth In Service will feature kids of all ages serving and telling their<br />
faith stories. We are also starting a book review. If you are like me,<br />
you hate to start a good book only to have to put it aside because the<br />
content is graphic in nature. Our goal will be to bring you reviews on<br />
books that we feel are good and safe reading.<br />
We look forward to sharing stories every month. Please email us your<br />
story ideas to <strong>Faith</strong><strong>On</strong><strong>Every</strong><strong>Corner</strong>@gmail.com.<br />
Thank you and God Bless You and Your Family,<br />
Karen Ruhl, Publisher and Executive Director<br />
karenruhl12@gmail.com<br />
For all of those suffering from the fires, earthquakes,<br />
and hurricane damages, our thoughts and prayers are<br />
with you. From our family to yours, we ask<br />
God’s blessings over you.<br />
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Writing For God and Family<br />
Vanessa Fortenberry<br />
We recently had the opportunity and pleasure to<br />
meet Vanessa Fortenberry at her home in Dekalb,<br />
Georgia. During our visit, we heard and discussed<br />
how this inspirational Christian came to be a published<br />
author of children’s books.<br />
on the great American love story, which, although<br />
never finished, has been kept in her writing files. As<br />
with many of us, life events caught up with Vanessa<br />
and she found herself abandoning her dreams of<br />
writing.<br />
Vanessa was born and raised in Atlanta, Georgia.<br />
As a young girl, she wrote plays, poetry, and short<br />
stories. Fascinated with words, she was also an<br />
avid reader. While attending Clark College, now<br />
Clark-Atlanta University, she found herself in the<br />
predicament of having to choose between English<br />
or Music as her major. Her love of music prevailed<br />
and she initiated studies in Music Education with a<br />
concentration in Voice.<br />
After graduation, Vanessa still could not escape the<br />
appeal of the “written word.” She continued to write<br />
poetry and, while in her 20’s, she started working<br />
Vanessa’s career consisted of teaching general<br />
music, chorus, and voice to children in the publicschool<br />
system. She excelled in passing on her love<br />
of music to her students. In 2000, she decided to<br />
return to school to earn a Master’s degree in Library<br />
Media. Since she felt that there would be a cutback<br />
in public school funding for music and other art<br />
programs, she wanted to have a plan in place should<br />
that happen. She earned her Master’s degree and<br />
Library Media Specialist certification from the<br />
University of West Georgia.<br />
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As a teacher-librarian, Vanessa enjoys story time<br />
with her students and takes pleasure in literacy<br />
events with them. Vanessa has been fascinated by<br />
how children learn to read and how to best teach<br />
them to read. In 2009, she returned to the<br />
University of Georgia where she earned a Reading<br />
Endorsement. At one point, she debated going on<br />
to earn a doctorate degree. As she considered that<br />
path, it made more sense to her to put her free time<br />
and energy into writing her own books.<br />
When asked about her dreams for the future,<br />
Vanessa would always respond, “to write a book.”<br />
But, she could never pinpoint the genre or<br />
audience. In 2010, while exercising at the gym,<br />
Vanessa mistakenly (how many of you know it<br />
wasn’t a mistake?) turned the TV channel to the<br />
700 Club. A conversation about how God knows<br />
each of us by name quickly gained her attention.<br />
Vanessa heard God speak to her that not only<br />
would she write books for children, they would be<br />
Christian books. After that, she went home to write<br />
the first of many motivational stories for children.<br />
Additionally, her love of music inspired her to<br />
write songs to accompany several of her writing<br />
projects.<br />
Vanessa also wrote an article, Encouraging Your<br />
Reader, published in the June 2012 edition of the<br />
Guardian Angel Kids Ezine. (http://www.guardianangel-kids.com/)<br />
Vanessa’s book launch celebration for her book,<br />
Mama, I Want to See God, was held on March 1,<br />
2014, at the Wesley Chapel-William C. Brown<br />
Library in Decatur, Georgia. Vanessa spoke on the<br />
theme: “Literature and Libraries: Influencing Children’s<br />
Lives through Life Lesson Stories.” Interestingly,<br />
Mama, I want to See God started out as a<br />
poem she wrote for her grandchildren.<br />
Vanessa at<br />
her Barnes &<br />
Noble book<br />
signing.<br />
Her local writing group encouraged her to finish<br />
and publish the work as a children’s book. This is<br />
the first book in the 3-book series called Families<br />
Growing in <strong>Faith</strong>. Mama, I want to See God was<br />
the 2017 Bookvana winner in the Children’s<br />
Religious category. It was also named an awardwinning<br />
finalist in the Children’s Religious<br />
category of the 2016 Best Books Awards.<br />
Daddy, I Want to Know God is the next book in the<br />
“Families Growing in <strong>Faith</strong>” series. It is due to be<br />
released in October 2017.<br />
When we asked Vanessa what her life mission is,<br />
she stated, “I use my writing as a tool for<br />
Christian ministry that expands beyond the walls<br />
of the church and communicates an inspirational<br />
message to children and adults.”<br />
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Vanessa continues to develop her craft by participating<br />
in several writers’ organizations. She is a member of<br />
The Christian Authors Guild, (www.christianauthorsguild.org),<br />
where she is also a contributor to the book,<br />
Relief Notes: Encouraging Letters for Tough Times;<br />
The Society of Children’s Book Writers and Illustrators<br />
(SCBWI);<br />
The Wesley Chapel Creative Writers Group; The<br />
Stonecrest Writing Support Group; and she was<br />
previously a contributing writer for her church<br />
newsletter publication, The Anchor. In addition,<br />
Vanessa is a member of The Christian Authors on<br />
Tour group (http://christianauthorsontour.com).<br />
You can subscribe to her blog, Children’s Bookroom,<br />
and to her quarterly newsletter, Connecting Readers<br />
to the Word, by visiting her website at<br />
VanessaFortenberry.com.<br />
Vanessa savors the moments she spends with her family<br />
and friends; as well as baking delicious desserts for her<br />
loved ones. While we were with Vanessa, she treated us<br />
to true Southern hospitality with a luscious light lunch<br />
and her homemade dessert.<br />
Award-Winning <strong>Final</strong>ist in the<br />
“Children’s Religious” category<br />
of<br />
the 2016 Best Book Awards.”<br />
Vanessa has been busy with her book tour for<br />
“Mama, I Want To See God.” Her new book, “Daddy,<br />
I Want To Know God” will be released in October of<br />
2017.<br />
Vanessa enjoys meeting her friends and fans on her<br />
book tour rounds.<br />
LOS ANGELES –<br />
Bookvana.com announced the<br />
winners and finalists of THE<br />
2017 BOOKVANA AWARDS<br />
(BVA) on August 14, 2017.<br />
Children’s Religious<br />
Mama, I Want to See God by<br />
Vanessa Fortenberry,<br />
Follow on Facebook for more information. Write2Ignite 2018<br />
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New Feature!<br />
Youth In Service<br />
Introducing Chloe<br />
As a new feature, we have added a story about<br />
youth in service. This month, we feature sweet,<br />
curious, bright, and playful Chloe. This is a<br />
personal story for us because she is our grandchild.<br />
<strong>On</strong> a recent trip to the kids museum in Rutherford,<br />
NC, Chloe jumped into action to help with one of<br />
the displays. They have a grocery store where kids<br />
come in, get a cart, shop, and even check out at the<br />
cashiers stand,. There is play money, where someone<br />
can act as cashier and the kids get the full<br />
experience of being in control at the store. Chloe<br />
and I had already played in the grocery store once<br />
during the visit, but she really loves the exhibit and<br />
it seems to be a really popular activity with<br />
the kids, boys and girls alike. As we entered the<br />
exhibit for the second time, we were shocked to<br />
find everything had been thrown on the floor. The<br />
place was a complete mess. I was ready to take<br />
Chloe to another exhibit but looked down to see<br />
Chloe picking up the items and putting them back<br />
in place.<br />
<strong>On</strong>e of the workers came in, apologized, and said<br />
a little boy had done the damage. She said he just<br />
threw everything everywhere. Chloe said, “That<br />
little boy shouldn’t have done that.” Since it was<br />
obvious that Chloe wanted to help, we both got a<br />
cart and started to pick up everything on the floor<br />
and return it to the shelves. The museum worker<br />
was amazed as she watched Chloe working<br />
diligently to help get the store reopened for the<br />
other kids.<br />
I was so proud that my heart was about to burst.<br />
Chloe didn’t need prompting, she just saw that<br />
something needed to done and stepped up to the<br />
plate. She had such a determined look on her face,<br />
she never once complained or decided she had<br />
done enough. Her goal was to continue to work<br />
until the job was finished.<br />
This little 4-year-old girl finished the job, watched<br />
as the store started to fill with kids again and then<br />
moved on to the next exhibit. The museum let her<br />
pick a little gift for helping but that isn’t why Chloe<br />
helped, it came straight from her heart.<br />
Chloe and her beautiful mother Katie.<br />
Do you have a young person you would like<br />
featured in our magazine? Please contact us at<br />
<strong>Faith</strong><strong>On</strong><strong>Every</strong><strong>Corner</strong>@gmail.com
Spring Awakening<br />
by Pam McCormick<br />
She was called sweet. She was called good. She was<br />
a good girl. She was a performer. She earned praise<br />
by being at the right place at the right time and<br />
seeking to please people in all that she did. She had<br />
gone to church all her life. It was what you did on<br />
Sunday. <strong>Every</strong>body knows that. She lived the good<br />
life. That’s what Mom and Dad wanted, a good girl,<br />
so she was good, to the best of her ability. She<br />
desired to be liked by others, so much that she<br />
copied others, believing, that if she could be just<br />
like them, she would belong and be accepted. The<br />
people she admired wore the latest fashions, so she<br />
had to get those kinds of clothes too, or her biggest<br />
fear would come true. Her biggest fear was being<br />
different, odd even peculiar; she would then stand<br />
out in a crowd. She would hear others’ laughter<br />
at nasty jokes. Even though her insides wanted to<br />
cringe, she laughed. She cursed, when they cursed.<br />
She made fun of others, because to not do so meant<br />
she would be made fun of, and the horror attached<br />
to that feeling of being disconnected with people<br />
that really mattered, was real. She had to play the<br />
game well, even if it meant she lost her identity. It<br />
was worth it all, just to have friends.<br />
She would buy gifts for people, expensive gifts, just<br />
to earn their friendship. She believed there was<br />
nothing inside her that had value. Her value came<br />
from seeking the attention of others and doing what<br />
they wanted, for in doing what others wanted, she<br />
could belong. Do you know what? She never did fit<br />
in, although she tried. She was like a square peg in<br />
a world of round holes, and no matter how hard she<br />
tried, she was lost and without hope of ever being<br />
accepted for who she was, a person in need of love.<br />
Then one day, the ones she idolized did something<br />
that she did not expect; they went up to the front of<br />
the church and asked a man named Jesus to come<br />
into their heart. She told herself, “If that’s what I<br />
have to do now, to be a part of their group, I’ll do<br />
that too.” So she went up to the front with them. If<br />
she went up and cried and appeared saintly, then<br />
she could influence others to do the same. She<br />
wanted to belong so badly; it didn’t matter what she<br />
had to do.<br />
And that was her life, her whole life:<br />
PERFORMANCE to earn friends, to earn praise,<br />
to earn the good favor of her parents, to be called<br />
sweet and good, to emulate others.<br />
How long could she keep it up?<br />
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Then, in a tiny closet, on a dark, hopeless night in May<br />
of 2000, God heard the desperate cries of someone who<br />
wanted to know if He was real or just someone in a<br />
storybook. She carried three things into the closet space<br />
with her and shut the door. She just felt if she could<br />
numb herself, just enough, that she would get the guts<br />
to take the sleeping pills she held in her hand. Drinking<br />
a bottle of wine and two beers, she was inebriated and<br />
ready to give up her life. She opened the pill bottle; she<br />
doesn’t remember how many she took. As her eyelids<br />
began to flutter and her eyes could cry no more, she said<br />
with seemingly her last breath, “Help me, God!”<br />
At 2:16 am, she awoke. Instead of being in the small<br />
closet, she was now kneeling on her knees next to her<br />
bed. As she looked around and felt her heart still beating,<br />
she screamed out in hate and disbelief, “God, why<br />
didn’t you let me die?”<br />
She saw the hour and knew that in less than four hours,<br />
she would be going to work. She covered her body with<br />
the warm blankets and went fast asleep. She got up at<br />
6:30 am and went about her normal routine for that hour<br />
of the morning, getting ready for work. Little did she<br />
know, but her night of darkness would soon turn into a<br />
spring awakening.<br />
All her deeds were not done in secret, as she had<br />
thought. <strong>Every</strong>thing had been seen by God, and He<br />
knew what would come next. He had planned it. She<br />
was going to be surprised to find the answer to her<br />
question of whether He was real.<br />
She went to work, wearing a mask to hide the tears<br />
inside. She covered up all the hurt and all the pain with a<br />
smile. No one could ever know the truth of what she had<br />
done. What would people think of her, if she unveiled<br />
this insecure, scaredy cat kind of gal, that just wanted to<br />
be liked, whatever the cost. So she blended, like a round<br />
peg in a world of round pegs, fitting into circles by<br />
laughing life away and crying in dark, tiny closets, when<br />
she was by herself.<br />
God would not have it that way anymore. He set in<br />
motion a plan where He used a woman named Carol to<br />
come to a grown woman’s rescue. All Carol knew was<br />
that God wanted her to do something, and as a result of<br />
her obedience to God, a life was forever changed.<br />
She tried her hardest to persuade Carol to leave.<br />
She used the guise that she was busy and had lots<br />
to do. It’s funny; Carol and she had never talked<br />
before. They were acquaintances only.<br />
Carol would not leave. I stood there in defiance and<br />
trying to be as nice as I could, I kept telling her to<br />
get out of my room. Carol didn’t budge. She stood<br />
firm in The Lord, although I mocked her and<br />
ridiculed her when she told me, “God sent me to<br />
you.”<br />
I’m very fortunate to be alive, because God could<br />
have turned His back on me right then and there,<br />
but God’s Love for me was greater than my attitude.<br />
Carol walked towards me. Carol asked me, “Why<br />
did you try to kill yourself last night?”<br />
How did Carol know? No one knew. This was<br />
impossible. No one knew what had happened the<br />
night before. Then I remembered. In my last<br />
seconds before going unconscious, I had cried out,<br />
“Help me, God,” and God showed up. I went to my<br />
knees.<br />
Then, I straightened up and told myself, “Wait a<br />
minute. I’m a Christian, just like Carol. What is she<br />
doing telling me to go to her church with her? I go<br />
to church all the time.”<br />
God and Carol had patience beyond understanding.<br />
Again, here I was, rearing my head and showing<br />
my rear end and God was so good still.<br />
When given the choice to go with her to her church<br />
or go to my boss, I quickly decided that I didn’t<br />
want to lose my job, so I would pacify Carol and<br />
go.<br />
While there, I spoke with a counselor and after a<br />
long discussion about God, it was decided that I<br />
was going to be okay. I knew all the stories, all the<br />
facts, all the holidays like Christmas and Easter and<br />
what they meant, so I would be okay. The counselor<br />
determined in a short while that I would never<br />
try to take my life again. Well, they were right, I<br />
never did try to take my life again.<br />
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See, I got outside to get in my van and as I started<br />
to open the door, I thought about something. Yes, I<br />
know all the stories, all the special moments about<br />
God, but I don’t know Jesus. I didn’t know Him. I<br />
knew of Him, but I didn’t know Him.<br />
I had been a good girl always doing what others<br />
told me to do. I did, not because I wanted to do it,<br />
but because I was told, “good girls go to church.”<br />
Jesus knew about all the things that I did. He knew<br />
me inside and out. My name is Pam, and I am being<br />
changed one day at a time by a God that never<br />
gives up on me. The Good News is that I didn’t<br />
do anything; God did everything. He loved me so<br />
much that He didn’t want to leave me where I was<br />
at, and although life has not been perfect and I have<br />
not been perfect, God has been.<br />
Yet to all who did receive Him, to those who<br />
believed in His name, He gave the right to become<br />
children of God — children born not of natural<br />
descent, nor of human decision or a husband’s will,<br />
but born of God. John 1: 12-13<br />
That was Monday, May 26, 2000. It was Memorial<br />
Day. School was in session that day, because God<br />
knew what I needed more than I did. Shortly after<br />
that, a young girl from R-S Central High School<br />
wrote a letter to the local newspaper asking why<br />
schools did not observe the holiday. The following<br />
year, all schools in the county observed Memorial<br />
Day. If you’re smiling, I am too. God’s timing was<br />
and always is perfect.<br />
<strong>On</strong> June 23, 2001, I was baptized in a swimming<br />
pool. I still have the picture that was snapped, as I<br />
came out of the water. I was grinning from ear<br />
to ear. I could not contain my joy. I had been<br />
searching for love, and love found me.<br />
Has life been easy? No, but God has been good.<br />
<strong>Every</strong>body walks a road designed personally for<br />
them by God, since before time began. I can’t<br />
compare my journey with another person’s journey.<br />
We each have unique life circumstances that make<br />
us who we are. I am thankful for everything that<br />
has happened in my life, because without God and<br />
a woman who boldly spoke up for God, I wouldn’t<br />
be alive today to write this story. I write for three<br />
reasons. First, to give glory to God for what He has<br />
done in my life; second, to let people know God is<br />
alive, and third, to tell of the hope I have in Christ<br />
now, and it’s because of Him and Him alone, I<br />
sing, in the storms, in the peaceful times. I know<br />
my God is alive and is in control.<br />
The Associated Press printed a story on June 13,<br />
2010 of a man named Don Ritchie who lives to<br />
save people’s lives. He lives near a rocky cliff, and<br />
when he wakes in the morning, he looks outside<br />
his humble home and if there is someone<br />
considering suicide, he goes to them and offers<br />
them a listening ear, a smile, and a cup of tea. At<br />
the time of the post, he had convinced 160 people<br />
to change their minds. God can use anyone and<br />
anything to make Himself known. God just asks,<br />
“Are you willing?” This story was very difficult for<br />
me to write, but if it can be used by God to save<br />
someone’s life, then yes, I am willing to share it.<br />
I never could grasp the fact that was right before<br />
my eyes every day. I was a sinner, and no matter<br />
how good I would be, I never was going to be good<br />
enough. I was basing my entrance to Heaven on<br />
what I did. That’s the funny part. When I look back<br />
at what I did to gain others’ approval, it wasn’t God<br />
I was trying to please. It was others and little ol’<br />
me.<br />
Editor’s Note: by Karen Ruhl<br />
This story is printed as written by the author. It is our prayer that her testimony touches the life of others. It<br />
has to be written from the heart so we can feel those raw emotions. Thank you for sharing your story Pam,<br />
we are sure it will be an inspiration to others.<br />
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It didn’t take long for Ruth to start serving Randi<br />
and Bob in big ways. The following was written by<br />
Randi about her sweet angel friend.<br />
“When we first moved into The Groves last Oct. 1,<br />
Ruth had a key to help movers that got there ahead<br />
of us. I let her keep it and that’s what she has used<br />
for all her angel visits.<br />
The very first thing I saw when we got to our new<br />
home was the yellow sign she had posted at our<br />
back door. The blue one she posted at the front<br />
door. I kept those up for over a month! I have<br />
laminated them and may post them again.<br />
A Heart For Serving Others<br />
Ruth Sullivan<br />
There are times when we see a story or hear about<br />
someone that serves directly from their heart. They<br />
think about it, they just do it because it is the right<br />
thing to do. Ruth Sullivan is one of those<br />
people, a caregiver for her 99 year old mother, and<br />
a loving friend and neighbor to many.<br />
Ruth and I have several friends in common, we<br />
were once part of the same church family in<br />
California. <strong>On</strong>e of our friends, Randi, recently<br />
moved into the same community that Ruth lives in.<br />
It was not by chance, Ruth helped Randi and her<br />
husband Bob find a home there. Randi’s husband,<br />
Bob, has Alzheimer’s, and they were very blessed<br />
by being able to move into this gated area. Not only<br />
is it a wonderful place to live, it is one story and<br />
much easier for Randi to help Bob in and out of the<br />
house.<br />
Two weeks after we moved in, I came home to find<br />
white chocolate-dipped strawberries in our<br />
refrigerator. She has done this several times.<br />
In December, as I was ready to unpack our crystal<br />
and silver, I mentioned to Ruth that they don’t show<br />
off well in our all-white cabinet. I wanted to paint<br />
the back blue. Ruth suggested using blue scrapbook<br />
paper . . . then came while I was at work and put it<br />
up for me!<br />
It was time to decorate for Christmas,<br />
but all I put up were my wreaths. I<br />
came home one day to find one that<br />
Ruth made especially for our front<br />
door,” Randi tells us.<br />
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Ruth loves to volunteer, limited only by how long<br />
she is able to leave her mother at home. Ruth’s<br />
mom can take care of herself for the most part so<br />
she does not have to be there 24/7 but she stays<br />
close to home.<br />
For the past 9 or 10 years, Ruth goes to church to<br />
make sure the paraments are on the communion<br />
table and she puts water in the baptismal font.<br />
Ruth has been attending Trinity United Presbyterian<br />
Church for 16 years. She lived in Canada for 16<br />
years and starting attending Trinity again as soon as<br />
she got back. She has been singing in the choir from<br />
September through June each year since 1985. The<br />
choir takes a break for summer and Ruth continues<br />
to sing in summer choir.<br />
Ruth just finished being the MC for the Follies, a<br />
dinner show that is held in the community she lives<br />
in. This year was even more successful than other<br />
years, even adding an additional day to the program.<br />
She was involved in the rehearsals, pictures, and<br />
even more rehearsals. The show ran in August. The<br />
theme for the Follies was the Calendar Year.<br />
Besides being the MC, Ruth did a number where<br />
she was a witch for Halloween.<br />
Being in showbiz is nothing new to Ruth, she has<br />
been doing shows since she was 4 or 5 years old<br />
and she knows how showbiz works. For the Follies,<br />
you must be 55 or older. This years show featured<br />
a Men’s Tap Dance Group, one of the men was 93<br />
years old.<br />
During the interview, I asked Ruth about her<br />
parents. I asked if they served as well. Ruth was<br />
excited to share her parents journey.<br />
“My mother and father, Hursh and Harriette Parnell,<br />
were part time missionaries for years, working with<br />
the Hopi and Navajo Indians. They donated about<br />
half their vacation time to making trips to Arizona.<br />
Sometimes they went with my Aunt and Uncle,<br />
Clair and Lorene Hanson, and often as part of a<br />
larger group driving RVs.<br />
My mother was a Buyer for the Irvine Medical<br />
Center. When the hospital was replacing medical<br />
equipment my mother would ask the vendors to<br />
donate the “used” equipment. My parents took<br />
operating tables, sterilizers, wheel chairs, medicine,<br />
and anything else they could find. Another time<br />
they had a request for sewing machines, something<br />
they seldom got as donations Shortly after the<br />
request they got a call from one of the local schools<br />
giving them the old machines and someone else<br />
contacted them with an offer to clean and repair all<br />
the machines. Then a few weeks before they were to<br />
leave they got a call regarding a bunch of bolt end<br />
fabric from a clothing manufacturing firm.<br />
Another sign of God’s work was when they were<br />
taking an open trailer loaded with a piano and<br />
furniture. My father was the expert on tying down<br />
tarps. Part way into the trip someone told him (via<br />
CB radio) that a corner of the tarp was loose. They<br />
stopped and dad retied the rope and double checked<br />
the other knots. Before long another rope was<br />
loose, they made another stop. Then a few miles<br />
down the road they realized that there had been a<br />
major thunder storm and rain. Had they not stopped<br />
they would have been caught in the storm and the<br />
items in the trailer would have gotten wet,” said<br />
Ruth.<br />
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Ruth dressed as a witch for the Follies and as a<br />
clown for the parade in her neighborhood.<br />
Hearing Ruth tell about her mother and father and<br />
aunt and uncle being in service to God, shows us<br />
how much we as parents and grandparents<br />
impact our children’s lives.<br />
Ruth is a wonderful Christian woman. Her<br />
examples are easy to emulate. Be an inspiration,<br />
like Ruth.
Good and <strong>Faith</strong>ful Servants<br />
Cora and Ed Hamilton<br />
Karen and I met Ed and Cora Hamilton while we<br />
were living in a rural community in southwestern<br />
Ohio. It was during our first visit to a new church<br />
when they greeted us in the parking lot, welcomed<br />
us, introduced us to others as we entered and then<br />
sat with us during the service. Afterward, they<br />
treated us to lunch and shared their story of faith<br />
and mission with us. We now live in southwestern<br />
North Carolina and the Hamiltons live in eastern<br />
Tennessee. What a blessing it was to be<br />
able to visit them recently. During our<br />
time together, we asked them to write<br />
us with more details of their lives and<br />
adventures together. Here is their story, as<br />
told to us.<br />
Ed and Cora, having been high school sweethearts,<br />
married soon after graduation on May 22, 1957.<br />
For more than sixty years, they have worked,<br />
shared, prayed, and served together. Ed states,<br />
“We work best when we work together. The Lord<br />
has blessed us in so many ways that I can’t count<br />
them. My greatest blessing has been Cora. She<br />
has been the love of my life, my greatest possible<br />
companion on life’s journey, given me wonderful<br />
children, encouraged me in whatever I was<br />
pursuing, and is a sister in Christ. In many ways,<br />
we differ and yet, we are often of like minds. We<br />
have memories and stories that will last as long as<br />
we do and we look forward to<br />
what the Lord has in store for us<br />
with faith and confidence that<br />
he will care for us and use us as<br />
long as life shall last.”<br />
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The Hamiltons have been blessed with four daughters<br />
plus grandchildren and great grandchildren<br />
who are very special to them. They lost one<br />
daughter at the age of forty. Their three daughters<br />
are devoted Christians and, much like their parents,<br />
love to serve others. Two daughters are nurses and<br />
the third daughter is the wife of a Navy Chaplain.<br />
All three take every opportunity to share their<br />
Christian faith with those they serve.<br />
Ed and Cora began their adult service lives when,<br />
shortly after Ed graduated from Ohio State<br />
University with a degree in Electrical Engineering,<br />
he joined the Air Force and became a fighter<br />
jet pilot. For more than twenty years, they served<br />
their country with duty stations both stateside and<br />
abroad. During this time, Cora helped raise the<br />
girls and worked on a teaching degree. She taught<br />
school within the Department of Defense Overseas<br />
School System at several of their assignments.<br />
<strong>On</strong>ce Cora earned a degree in special education,<br />
she started teaching at the local schools.<br />
In 1984, Ed retired from the Air Force and he and<br />
Cora settled into civilian life. This lasted about<br />
a year. They decided they weren’t quite ready to<br />
settle down. Now armed with a Masters degree,<br />
Cora applied for a teaching position with the<br />
Department of Defense Overseas School System<br />
in the Philippines and was accepted. Now Cora<br />
was the sponsor and Ed was the dependent. Many<br />
Universities provided continuing education for<br />
the DDODS teachers on the base and Ed could do<br />
course work to be certified to teach in Science and<br />
Math. During their second year there, Ed taught<br />
Math and Science in the same system. Two years<br />
later, Ed and Cora moved to Stuttgart, Germany<br />
where they both continued to teach within the<br />
DDODS. In 1989, they returned to the family farm<br />
in Ohio where they built a house. Ed did the framing<br />
and interior finishing while Cora taught Special<br />
Education in the local school system. <strong>On</strong>ce the<br />
house was finished, Ed began teaching math at the<br />
local high school. Since the school system did not<br />
have a computer program, Cora and Ed began to<br />
write grants and eventually about $1,000,000 worth<br />
of computer equipment and software was acquired<br />
with which they established a network linking the<br />
four schools in the area.<br />
Ed oversaw operating the networks throughout the<br />
school system while teaching junior and senior<br />
high school students math, introducing them to<br />
using the computers in the lab and classrooms. The<br />
Hamiltons continued to teach in the Greenfield,<br />
Ohio school system until retiring in 2000.<br />
While teaching, a fellow teacher led Ed to join<br />
Gideons International. Gideons is almost 120 years<br />
old and has distributed over 2 billion scriptures<br />
around the world while seeking to bring the lost to<br />
Jesus Christ. Most of us are familiar with the Bibles<br />
placed in hotel and motel rooms by this organization,<br />
but the ministry is very diverse. Ed states<br />
that he has been blessed to have participated in the<br />
distribution of complete Bibles, New Testaments,<br />
and witnessing his faith during his long service<br />
with Gideons. More information on opportunities<br />
to serve is available at http://www.gideons.org/.<br />
During the time that they were teaching, they<br />
renewed their interest in sailing and purchased a<br />
26 foot. trailer-able sailboat. During the summers,<br />
when they were not teaching, they enjoyed taking<br />
the boat to the Chesapeake Bay and many lakes in<br />
other states. In the late ‘90s, they bought a 42-foot<br />
sailboat and prepared it for extensive travel. In the<br />
fall of 2000, they sailed from Lake Erie, through<br />
the Erie Canal, to the Hudson River and then down<br />
the River to the Atlantic Ocean, ending up in the<br />
Florida Keys. After spending the winter on their<br />
boat in Florida, although loving the sailing life<br />
and being very blessed, they felt that something<br />
was missing. Over the years, the Hamiltons visited<br />
many churches of different denominations.<br />
It was at a church in their marina that they met a<br />
couple who were active with a group that helped<br />
troubled children at an orphanage in the Bahamas.<br />
The group needed a teacher and a person to perform<br />
general work duties at the facility. A course<br />
was plotted and plans made to make the crossing<br />
in their boat. Foul weather forced them to change<br />
course, landing them in Miami, Florida. In the<br />
meantime, their youngest daughter, in Ohio, was<br />
going to have a baby.<br />
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The Bahamas trip would have to wait until next<br />
fall. Ed and Cora sailed north towards Annapolis,<br />
Maryland. Severe weather caused them into port<br />
near Savannah, Georgia. While doing some sightseeing,<br />
they noticed a rather large ship named the<br />
Caribbean Mercy tied up at the dock. They were<br />
conducting tours of some sort so we decided to go<br />
on board. The ship, part of an organization called<br />
Mercy Ships, was crewed by believers in Jesus<br />
Christ and provided outreach, when invited, to<br />
developing nations. Ed and Cora were impressed<br />
by the education department where children of long<br />
term crew members were schooled. They left a<br />
donation check and went on their way. They then<br />
sailed from Savannah to Charleston where they<br />
planned to stay about 2 weeks because Cora wanted<br />
to work on genealogy. About 2 days before they<br />
planned to leave, the ship Caribbean Mercy came<br />
into the harbor and tied up at the dock. Thinking<br />
it very interesting that a Mercy Ship should come<br />
into our lives again, they decided to go take another<br />
tour. They were again impressed by the crew<br />
and the work they did including surgery, general<br />
health examinations and treatment, well drilling,<br />
optical, dental, and evangelical outreach. The crew<br />
members came from almost 20 different countries<br />
and even more denominations. Leaving Charleston,<br />
they knew that God was sending them a message;<br />
find out more about the Mercy Ship organization.<br />
Leaving their boat in Annapolis, Ed and Cora returned<br />
to their home in Ohio.<br />
They contacted Mercy Ships, applied for positions<br />
and in less than a month, they were working at<br />
the headquarters in Garden Valley, Texas. Ed was<br />
working in the computer department and Cora in<br />
the education department. They could live in their<br />
newly acquired 5th wheel travel trailer that they<br />
parked the Mercy Ship headquarters facility. After<br />
about three months, Ed and Cora were led to join<br />
the Caribbean Mercy Ship in its ministry. Before<br />
being able to do that, they had to complete the<br />
Mercy Ship Discipleship program which consisted<br />
of about a month of classroom activities where they<br />
heard several speakers from different aspects of<br />
Mercy Ship’s activities in addition to exploring and<br />
deepening their relationship with God and seeking<br />
His guidance on how they could be used.<br />
They contacted Mercy Ships, applied for positions<br />
and in less than a month, they were working at<br />
the headquarters in Garden Valley, Texas. Ed was<br />
working in the computer department and Cora in<br />
the education department. They could live in their<br />
newly acquired 5th wheel travel trailer that they<br />
parked the Mercy Ship headquarters facility. After<br />
about three months, Ed and Cora were led to join<br />
the Caribbean Mercy Ship in its ministry. Before<br />
being able to do that, they had to complete the<br />
Mercy Ship Discipleship program which consisted<br />
of about a month of classroom activities where<br />
they heard several speakers from different aspects<br />
of Mercy Ship’s activities in addition to exploring<br />
and deepening their relationship with God and<br />
seeking His guidance on how they could be used.<br />
They traveled to Juarez, Mexico where a house<br />
was being built for one of the member families of<br />
the sponsoring churches. During this time, they<br />
worked very closely with the church members to<br />
deepen their relationship and were encouraged to<br />
spend a night with a church family. This night<br />
touched Ed and Cora in many ways. The young<br />
couple came from outside Juarez and their family<br />
was very rich. But their family was Catholic, and<br />
when the couple converted and became Protestants,<br />
declaring their love and commitment to Jesus<br />
Christ, they were disowned by their families. The<br />
house was built of tin and whatever else could be<br />
found. The family slept on dirt floors and their water<br />
and bathroom facilities were outside. They had<br />
only bare necessities for them and their children.<br />
Cora says, “The thing that brought us to tears and<br />
showed their level of Christian commitment was at<br />
breakfast time. They had taken funds that would<br />
have provided for them and bought items that they<br />
thought Americans would normally eat for breakfast.<br />
What an example of Christian hospitality!”<br />
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Ed and Cora served on the Caribbean Mercy for<br />
almost 2 years. The ship was like a small city,<br />
requiring most of the services that would be available<br />
on land. Ed took care of all the computers<br />
on board and managed the computer network and<br />
satellite communications while Cora had various<br />
jobs including bank teller, bookkeeper, and manager<br />
of the onboard café, library, bookstore, and<br />
video room. The job she liked most was that of<br />
“Julie” (on the Love Boat). When in port, she went<br />
to the hotels and shops to find good deals for the<br />
ship’s crew when they had time off. Both enjoyed<br />
the opportunity to join the various outreach efforts<br />
including water well drilling, dental clinic, general<br />
health clinic, and evangelical outreach. They<br />
were bountifully blessed by the work they could<br />
do and by the fellowship and love of those around<br />
them. There were about 18 different nationalities<br />
on board the ship and many different denominations.<br />
Those things were not spoken of, only the<br />
common love of and service to Jesus Christ. All<br />
were blessed by the opportunity to share different<br />
insights and different life styles but it was Jesus<br />
who they knew in common. After leaving the<br />
Caribbean Mercy, Ed and Cora returned home but<br />
continued to work for Mercy Ships as public relations<br />
representatives. They attended fund raising<br />
activities and represented Mercy Ships as recruiters<br />
at functions such as mission festivals. More information<br />
on serving with Mercy Ships can be found<br />
at https://www.mercyships.org/.<br />
In 2005, their pastor asked them to conduct an<br />
introduction to missions during a mission weekend<br />
in their church. People involved in mission<br />
activities in several different areas were invited to<br />
present information about those activities. <strong>On</strong>e of<br />
the representatives spoke about NOMADS (Nomads<br />
on a Mission Active in Divine Service). NO-<br />
MADS are people, most of whom have RV’s, who<br />
travel the country working on mission projects.<br />
Their work has been requested by a Methodist<br />
church or other Methodist activity through the central<br />
NOMADS office. Members of any denomination<br />
can join NOMADS. They do whatever work<br />
the requesting agency has, except for heavy concrete<br />
work and steep roof work. Ed and Cora were<br />
so impressed by their presentation that they subsequently<br />
joined NOMADS. From 2006 until 2015,<br />
they worked on multiple projects in Ohio, Tennessee,<br />
Florida, Georgia, Mississippi, Louisiana, and<br />
Arizona. Projects are generally three weeks long<br />
except for disaster relief projects for which there is<br />
a weekly sign up. The agency for which you work<br />
must provide a place to park your RV, but you are<br />
responsible for all other expenses you may incur.<br />
Each NOMAD brings tools that fit the work they<br />
expect to do. You may work as many or as few<br />
projects as you want. Further information is at<br />
www.umcnomads.org.<br />
Ed and Cora Hamilton are great examples of a<br />
couple living their faith through service to others.<br />
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Ed and Cora Hamilton (left) presented a beautiful quilted<br />
wall hanging to Rainsboro United Methodist Church on<br />
January 25, 2015. The wall hanging was made by the<br />
Nomads and presented to Rev. Debbie Ketcham on behalf<br />
of the church.
Road Trippin’ in North Carolina<br />
Photos by Karen Ruhl<br />
Two and one-half years ago, our son called and<br />
asked us to move to North Carolina to be closer to<br />
his family. He said, “Mom, you will love it here!”<br />
We prayed and after several months, decided to<br />
make the big move. We are full-time RVers, so<br />
moving a motor coach is pretty easy!<br />
<strong>On</strong>ce in North Carolina, we started exploring and<br />
fell in love with this state - much of which we still<br />
have not explored. We live in the foothills of The<br />
Blue Ridge Mountains and about one hour from<br />
South Carolina and all of its beauty.<br />
We feel very blessed<br />
to be able to explore<br />
the country and<br />
thought you might<br />
enjoy some of the<br />
photos from this area.<br />
There are hundreds<br />
of lakes within a short<br />
drive from us and<br />
many waterfalls. NC<br />
is known as the land<br />
of waterfalls. Looking<br />
Glass Falls is featured<br />
in this photo to the<br />
right.<br />
The fall is always<br />
beautiful and will be<br />
ready to show off in<br />
a few weeks. Black<br />
Mountain is on the<br />
right starting to show<br />
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If you watched Hunger Games, you might recognize the building<br />
in the top photo. It was the bakery in the first movie. This<br />
abandoned town is fun to walk around in and snap some photos of<br />
a once thriving mill town of Henry River Mill Village.<br />
I will continue to share photos in future issues. Get out and take<br />
a drive, there is a world of beauty surrounding you wherever you<br />
live.<br />
Beautiful South Mountain is home to a stunning creek that runs down stream from the High Shoals Falls waterfall.<br />
This hike is not for the meek, I was surprised that I made it to the falls and felt like a Billy Goat along the<br />
trail climbing over huge rocks and up hills. The water level was low the day I walked to the falls, still stunning!<br />
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A Missionaries Story of <strong>Faith</strong>, Hope, and Forgiveness<br />
The Haspels are Presbyterian Mission Partners who<br />
served in Ethiopia for over 40 years. They were<br />
supported for over 10 years by Trinity United<br />
Presbyterian Church. They are now officially retired<br />
but continue to connect with the people they served in<br />
Ethiopia.<br />
Please click to watch them speak about the attack<br />
against them and forgiveness.<br />
VIDEO https://vimeo.com/228580330<br />
This is a sermon the Hapels gave at Trinity United Presbyterian Church, our church home for many years when<br />
we were in California. We contacted Pastor Doug Rumford for permission to post this link in our magazine.<br />
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Book Review<br />
Ancient Stones;<br />
Timeless Encouragement<br />
This devotional book has 52 devotions for the<br />
present using the Old Testament scriptures. It was<br />
written by the Encouragers Christian Writers Group<br />
and compiled and edited by Cathy Biggerstaff.<br />
I love reading the personal stories from the writers<br />
as they tackle everything from ADHD to Questions<br />
For God. Their experiences range from losing a<br />
child to moving into a nursing home. Real life<br />
situations that will make you stop and think. I was<br />
able to relate to the devotions from experiences I<br />
have gone through or someone close to me has<br />
experienced. I will continue to use this book<br />
weekly.<br />
Devotions are meant to be read and prayed over. I<br />
can recommend this book highly.<br />
You can find this book on Amazon by following the<br />
link below:<br />
Ancient Stones; Timeless Encouragement<br />
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