16.10.2017 Views

CCChat_2

Create successful ePaper yourself

Turn your PDF publications into a flip-book with our unique Google optimized e-Paper software.

You’re in a new book which has a<br />

whopper of a title. (The Dangerous<br />

Case of Donald Trump) What made<br />

you contribute to this book?<br />

The editor, a fabulous scholar and<br />

colleague, Bandy Lee, approached me. I<br />

was actually swamped with a renovation<br />

and other big project and not in a great<br />

position to take it on. But she was so clear<br />

in her vision, so convincing about the<br />

importance of educating the public, and<br />

so committed to getting me on board as a<br />

narcissism expert who could speak to that<br />

piece of the book, that I ended up happily<br />

saying yes.<br />

I had to really push to generate a chapter<br />

before the personal chaos hit, but now I’m<br />

so glad I did.<br />

What is a typical day for you?<br />

Wake up, get the girls to the school bus,<br />

work out, eat, teach and then see clients,<br />

and on Thursdays, add in some writing.<br />

How do you switch off from work?<br />

Exercise, exercise, exercise. And<br />

reminding myself that my time with my<br />

girls and my wife is precious and not to be<br />

wasted so I havet o be as present as<br />

possible so I can truly savor the<br />

experience.<br />

“If Trump asked you for your advice, what<br />

would it be? Seek therapy. ”<br />

I haven’t read the book yet but it is<br />

on my list so, apologies if you have<br />

addressed this but if Trump asked<br />

you for your advice, what would it<br />

be?<br />

Seek therapy. Please. And stay off twitter.<br />

Maybe wear mittens so you can’t type<br />

What would you say to someone<br />

who is worried that they might be<br />

too narcissistic?<br />

If you take real emotional risks—seeking<br />

help when you need it, sharing when your<br />

sad or scared or lonely and truly turning<br />

to others for mutual care and support (a<br />

style of interaction known as secure<br />

attachment in the research) , you have<br />

absolutely nothing to worry about. .<br />

Finally, you’re stranded on a<br />

desert island. Which 3 things<br />

could you not live without? You<br />

are not allowed to say people or<br />

pets!<br />

If we’ve got basic needs like food and<br />

water covered: Music Video Streaming<br />

A weight bench--in the shade of<br />

course.<br />

Thank you so much for giving up<br />

your time to be interviewed, it’s<br />

been a real privilege. Now all<br />

that remains is for me to say,<br />

enough about you, let’s talk about<br />

MEEEEEE!!!!!!!<br />

Dr Craig Malkin

Hooray! Your file is uploaded and ready to be published.

Saved successfully!

Ooh no, something went wrong!