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Viva Brighton Issue #58 December 2017

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FAMILY<br />

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<strong>Brighton</strong>5<br />

Peer support for screen teens<br />

Daisy Cresswell and<br />

her sister Tayler are<br />

the founders of social<br />

media company Liberty842.<br />

Now Daisy<br />

(pictured left) tells us<br />

how they’re cutting<br />

back on big name<br />

clients to focus on<br />

helping teenagers and<br />

parents understand<br />

each other better.<br />

We’ve worked in social media for years, managing<br />

accounts for celebrities like Alan Carr and<br />

creating online narratives for shows including Holby<br />

City and The Archers. Our experience has been really<br />

positive but I was increasingly concerned about<br />

the way my teenage daughters used social media.<br />

My youngest, who’s 13, seems to spend all<br />

day behind her bedroom door on Snapchat and<br />

Instagram. When she goes somewhere without<br />

wifi, she’ll ask her older sister to keep up with her<br />

Snapchat ‘streaks’ [where users are rewarded for<br />

keeping conversations going as long as possible].<br />

I never knew exactly what she was up to but I<br />

was reading about how one in four girls aged 14<br />

have depression fuelled by social media. I thought,<br />

I can’t look back with good conscience and say I<br />

didn’t do anything while this is the world I work in.<br />

I spoke to my 16-year-old about it, she said<br />

something interesting - how the hierarchy in our<br />

house changed when I wasn’t there and instead of<br />

squabbling, she almost became ‘mum’ and the two<br />

of them talked to each other.<br />

I came up with the idea of <strong>Brighton</strong>5, an<br />

initiative made by teenagers for teenagers as a<br />

peer support system. We have a group of girls<br />

aged 16 to 18 who<br />

discuss mental<br />

health, body image,<br />

pocket money,<br />

responsibilities,<br />

school and college.<br />

They will go on a<br />

mission to try and<br />

sort this shit out and<br />

have fun doing it. It’s<br />

TV-based and we<br />

hope to start filming<br />

in the Easter holidays.<br />

It turned out that most of the girls were as<br />

worried about social media as their parents.<br />

One said, ‘If we had a world without social media<br />

I wouldn’t miss it’. That was astonishing. But it<br />

goes back to the point that if you can’t talk to your<br />

child, you’ll never know that’s how they really feel.<br />

The second strand of the project is a parent<br />

podcast – exploring their fears about teenage<br />

behaviour. I went to look at the Mass Observation<br />

archive at The Keep and even in the 80s and 90s<br />

diarists were writing things like ‘teenagers are<br />

trouble’. Yet they were teenagers once. I thought<br />

it would be funny to look at the way we were as<br />

teens and compare that to today. Are our kids<br />

really any worse than we were?<br />

<strong>Brighton</strong>5 is a really big deal for Tayler and<br />

me. We’ve culled 70% of our client base and<br />

I’ve been working on <strong>Brighton</strong>5 nonstop since<br />

July. Yet I’ve never been so determined about our<br />

mission – to make (good) trouble!<br />

As told to Nione Meakin<br />

Daisy and Tayler are keen to hear from parents<br />

who would like to take part in the podcast. Visit<br />

brighton5.com for details<br />

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