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February/March 2018<br />
WOODSEATS • SHEFFIELD
WELCOME to Impact - the magazine of St Chad’s Church,<br />
Woodseats. Impact is published every two months and distributed<br />
to over 5,000 homes in S8.<br />
St Chad’s Church is committed to serving you - the people of<br />
Woodseats, Beauchief and Chancet Wood. To find out more about<br />
St Chad’s, visit our website at www.stchads.org or call the church<br />
office on 0114 274 5086.<br />
Here’s where to find us:<br />
Abbey Lane<br />
Linden Avenue<br />
St Chad's<br />
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Office<br />
Church<br />
House<br />
Abbey Lane<br />
School<br />
Camping Lane<br />
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How do I love thee? Let me count the<br />
ways.<br />
I love thee to the depth and breadth and<br />
height<br />
My soul can reach, when feeling out of<br />
sight<br />
For the ends of being and ideal grace.<br />
February/March 2018<br />
Elizabeth Barrett Browning’s famous<br />
sonnet is regularly recited at<br />
weddings across the land, but her<br />
opening question “how do I love<br />
thee? Let me count the ways” has<br />
rather more to it than simply a list of loving<br />
attributes. For many years now, it has been<br />
recognised that we show and receive love differently depending on our<br />
personality. These different ways have been called love languages and<br />
they include physical touch, gifts, quality time spent with one another,<br />
assistance with domestic chores and affi rming and loving words. We<br />
often assume that because we particularly appreciate one way of being<br />
loved, others are the same, but that may well not be the case – hence<br />
the wife or husband who is frustrated at being constantly bought gifts<br />
whilst their partner doesn’t lift a fi nger to help with the housework.<br />
Discovering your (and your loved one’s) love language can be a vital<br />
part of marriage preparation.<br />
Love is such a powerful and complex emotion, that it can be very<br />
hard to separate the strands of altruism and selfi shness. Because we<br />
enjoy being “in love”, acting lovingly towards the object of our desire<br />
also feeds our own sense of importance and self-worth. It can be very<br />
easy to confuse love for others and love for self. Tools such as “love<br />
languages” can help us learn that the best way to please those we love<br />
may involve putting ourselves out and may not involve the big romantic<br />
gesture at all.<br />
And this is particularly true when our love is given to those who<br />
cannot reciprocate, most particularly in old age when our love of 50<br />
years is in the last stages of memory-loss, or perhaps struggling with<br />
physical or mental health issues. The love that lasts a lifetime is a love<br />
that has long outgrown selfi sh or wilful desires. It is a love that seems<br />
to exist almost independently of the circumstances in which it fi nds<br />
itself. Elizabeth Barrett Browning ends her sonnet with the<br />
Christian belief that love is eternal because it has its roots<br />
in God, and that love is not limited to the pains of this<br />
brief life, but to the everlasting life promised in Jesus.<br />
I love thee with the breath,<br />
Smiles, tears, of all my life; and, if God choose,<br />
I shall but love thee better after death.<br />
Rev Toby Hole,<br />
Vicar, St Chad’s, Woodseats<br />
WOODSEATS • SHEFFIELD<br />
The Many Ways of Showing Love<br />
St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />
Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />
Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />
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St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />
Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />
Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />
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“Jesus loves Eve ‘n’ me!”<br />
Boy: Do you<br />
have a date for<br />
Valentine’s Day?<br />
Girl: Yes, February<br />
14.<br />
What did one wall<br />
say to the other<br />
wall?<br />
I’ll meet you at the<br />
corner.<br />
A man told his<br />
girlfriend she<br />
was drawing her<br />
eyebrows too<br />
high. She looked<br />
surprised.<br />
Two aerials met on a<br />
roof and got married.<br />
Their guests said the<br />
ceremony wasn’t up to<br />
much, but the reception<br />
was excellent.<br />
A wife complained to<br />
her husband: “Just look<br />
at that couple down<br />
the road, how lovely<br />
they are. He holds her<br />
hand, kisses her, holds<br />
the door for her. Why<br />
don’t you do that?”<br />
The husband replied:<br />
“I wouldn’t feel<br />
comfortable. I barely<br />
know her!”<br />
A couple were<br />
enjoying a<br />
romantic meal<br />
in a restaurant<br />
until their main<br />
course arrived.<br />
“We can’t eat<br />
this steak, it’s<br />
terrible,” the man<br />
told the waiter,<br />
“Fetch the<br />
manager.”<br />
“That’s no use,”<br />
said the waiter,<br />
“He won’t eat it<br />
either!”<br />
Why do bees have<br />
sticky hair?<br />
Because they use<br />
honey combs!<br />
Why did the man<br />
run around his<br />
bed?<br />
Because he was<br />
trying to catch up<br />
on his sleep!<br />
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St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />
Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />
Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />
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What’s On<br />
If you have an event you would like<br />
to see included in our What’s On<br />
section, email impact@stchads.org<br />
Health Walks<br />
•Mondays - 10am: Graves Park.<br />
Meet outside the Rose Garden<br />
Cafe;<br />
•Tuesdays - 10.30am: Ecclesall<br />
Woods. Meet at the Visitors<br />
Centre at Abbeydale Industrial<br />
Hamlet;<br />
•Thursdays - 10.30am: Lowedges.<br />
Meet at the Gresley Road Meeting<br />
Rooms, Gresley Road, Lowedges;<br />
•Thursdays - 10.30am: Ecclesall<br />
Woods. Meet at the JG Graves<br />
Discovery Centre off Abbey Lane.<br />
•Fridays - 10.30am: Graves Park.<br />
Meet in the main entrance, Graves<br />
Leisure Centre.<br />
Call 07505 639524 or visit www.<br />
healthwalksinsheffi eld.btck.co.uk<br />
for details about any of the walks.<br />
February 4<br />
Pedlar’s Corner Flea Market<br />
The Abbeydale Picture House<br />
10am-3pm<br />
A mixture of general fl ea market<br />
stalls and specialist antiques,<br />
vintage, retro, arts, crafts, makers<br />
and salvage stalls.<br />
February 13-17<br />
Murdered to Death<br />
Ecclesall Church Halls<br />
Ecclesall Theatre Company<br />
presents its February play<br />
Murdered to Death by Peter<br />
Gordon.<br />
February 26<br />
The Anti-Slavery Movement in<br />
Sheffield<br />
Bishops’ House<br />
7.30pm<br />
Suzanne Bingham talks of how<br />
the anti-slavery movement took<br />
off in Sheffi eld, the crucial role<br />
that local women played, and the<br />
movement’s contribution towards<br />
the radical reputation of the city.<br />
March 3<br />
Book Sale<br />
36 Crawshaw Grove, Beauchief<br />
10am-12pm<br />
Good quality second-hand books<br />
for sale in aid of the Alzheimer’s<br />
Society. Donations of good<br />
condition paperback novels or<br />
biographies are welcome.<br />
March 3<br />
Antiques Valuation Day<br />
Bishops’ House<br />
10am-1pm<br />
Bishops’ House will be hosting an<br />
antiques valuation day with three<br />
valuers from Sheffi eld Auction<br />
Gallery.<br />
March 3<br />
St Matthew Passion<br />
Sheffi eld Cathedral<br />
6.30pm<br />
Sheffi eld Bach Choir presents JS<br />
Bach’s St Matthew Passion with the<br />
Leeds-based St Peter’s Singers.<br />
Call in for a Cuppa<br />
at Church House, 56 Abbey Lane<br />
10am to 12noon<br />
on the last Saturday of each month<br />
Bring & Buy (new items)<br />
Handicrafts and Home Baking<br />
St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />
Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />
Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />
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Send details of your event to impact@stchads.org or write to: Impact,<br />
St Chad‟s Church Offices, 15 Camping Lane, Sheffield S8 0GB.<br />
Thursdays – 10.30am:<br />
Lowedges. Meet at the Community<br />
Wing, Lowedges Junior School.<br />
Call 0114 203 9337.<br />
March 4<br />
National Pedlar’s Council Corner Flea for Divorced, Market<br />
Single Abbeydale and Widowed Picture House<br />
Tuesdays 10am-3pm8-11pm<br />
Norton A mixture Country of general Club flea market<br />
Club stalls offering and specialist friendship antiques, and social<br />
activities. vintage, retro, arts, crafts, makers<br />
<br />
and<br />
Call<br />
salvage<br />
Magdalen<br />
stalls.<br />
on 0114<br />
2394326. March 7-10<br />
Patience<br />
January Dronfield 30 Civic - February Hall 5<br />
AEGON 7.30pmBritish Tennis Tour<br />
Graves Meersbrook Tennis Park and Church Leisure Operatic Centre<br />
World Society ranked presents players Patience compete by<br />
alongside Gilbert and local Sullivan. Sheffield For players. tickets, call<br />
<br />
0114<br />
Call<br />
2557634.<br />
0114 283 9900.<br />
March 10<br />
February Haydn Nelson 5 Mass<br />
Book Sheffield Sale Cathedral<br />
367.30pm<br />
Crawshaw Grove, Beauchief<br />
10am-12pm Sheffield Oratorio Chorus presents<br />
Good Haydn’s quality Nelson second-hand Mass with books<br />
for Skipton sale in Camerata. aid of the Alzheimer‟s<br />
Society. Tickets Donations are £16. of paperback<br />
novels March or 16biographies in good<br />
condition An evening are welcome without Jake (but not<br />
larger Thackray books due to space<br />
limitations). Greenhill Library<br />
7pm<br />
February Enjoy the 5 poetry and wit of Jake<br />
Free Thackray. Environmental Tickets £8 Activities available from<br />
Millhouses the library Park reception desk.<br />
10.30am-12.30pm<br />
March 17<br />
Obstacle Gloria in course Excelsis and Deo stream<br />
dipping Holy Trinity activities Church, for 8 Millhouses - 13 year<br />
olds.<br />
Call 0114 263 4335.<br />
Call 0114 230 8842.<br />
February 12<br />
Free Environmental Activities<br />
Millhouses 7.30pm Park<br />
1.30-3.30pm<br />
Escafeld Chorale presents a<br />
Nature concert quiz including trail, stream Joseph dipping Haydn<br />
and<br />
Missa<br />
bug<br />
Brevis<br />
hunting<br />
No 7,<br />
activities<br />
Franz Schubert<br />
for 8 - 13<br />
year<br />
Mass<br />
olds.<br />
in G Major, and a tenor solo<br />
song cycle.<br />
Call 0114 263 4335.<br />
March 21<br />
February The suffragette, 12 the silversmith<br />
Free and the Environmental novelist Activities<br />
Ecclesall Bishops’ House Woods Sawmill<br />
10.30am-12.30pm<br />
Hear about three local ladies who<br />
Nature contributed quiz to trail, art, stream literature dipping and<br />
and politics, bug but hunting who have activities now for largely 8 - 13<br />
year been olds. forgotten.<br />
Call 0114 235 6348.<br />
March 24<br />
Sheffield Chorale in Concert<br />
February St Andrew’s, 20 Psalter Lane.<br />
Why 7.30pm Not Try A Bike<br />
Greenhil A concert Park with Sheffield Chorale<br />
10am-2pm and Unite The Union brass band.<br />
Rediscover your cycling skills in<br />
Greenhill March 25Park. The rangers will<br />
provide Celebrity a bike, Concert helmet and<br />
instruction. Sheffield City Meet Hallat the Bowls<br />
Pavilion,<br />
7pm<br />
Greenhill Park.<br />
Booking<br />
Dore Male<br />
is<br />
Voice<br />
essential.<br />
Choir’s celebrity<br />
concert with Lesley Garrett.<br />
Call 0114 283 9195.<br />
Beauchief Abbey Abbey holds holds a variety a<br />
of variety services of services. and anyone For is more<br />
welcome information to attend. see page For 11. more<br />
details see the Abbey notice<br />
board.<br />
What’s On<br />
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We found<br />
the angels!<br />
During Advent<br />
our Christmas<br />
Angels<br />
appeared<br />
in trees,<br />
on railings and on<br />
doorposts around the<br />
community.<br />
We invited you<br />
to bring them to<br />
our Christmas Tree<br />
Festival or to take<br />
them home – and<br />
take a selfie to share<br />
with us on Twitter,<br />
Facebook or by email.<br />
Here are a few of<br />
your pictures – we<br />
hope our angels<br />
brought joy to you this<br />
Christmas!<br />
St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />
Church Office: Linden Avenue, Sheffield S8 0GA<br />
Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />
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Festival celebrates<br />
the Christmas story<br />
During Advent and Christmas St Chad’s<br />
held its first Christmas Tree Festival.<br />
Businesses, schools and church and<br />
community groups decorated trees in<br />
church on the theme of the nativity.<br />
Jemma Taylor, who organised the event, said:<br />
“It was a great opportunity to speak to local<br />
businesses and groups and welcome them into our<br />
newly re-shaped church and it has been lovely to<br />
see people come and look around.”<br />
The launch night included a brass band playing<br />
carols while visitors enjoyed sherry, mince pies<br />
and a walk around to look at the trees.<br />
Taking part in the event were Abbey Lane Primary<br />
School, Arabesque, Busy Hands, Besom, Chad’s<br />
Friends small group, Girlguiding, Hope 18, Jigsaw<br />
small group, Kingdom Kids, Memorial tree, St Chad’s<br />
choir and musicians, Natter, Recreation youth group,<br />
St Chad’s Third Age Book Group and Friendship<br />
Group, Spoon Café Bistro and Woodseats Primary<br />
School.<br />
Coming this Easter...<br />
We’ve more fun activities lined up for<br />
families in our church and community<br />
this Easter. To find out more keep<br />
visiting www.stchads.org, follow us on<br />
Facebook at stchadssheffield or<br />
see @stchadsimpact on Twitter.<br />
St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />
Church Office: Linden Avenue, Sheffield S8 0GA<br />
Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />
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The Heart of it All<br />
The dictionary defi nes<br />
the heart as ‘a hollow<br />
muscular organ that<br />
pumps blood through<br />
the circulatory system by<br />
rhythmic contraction and dilation’.<br />
I think we’d all agree with that, but<br />
why on earth should something so<br />
unsightly, gruesome even, have<br />
become the symbol for something<br />
as beautiful as love? Now, we<br />
associate the heart with passion,<br />
but history tells us it<br />
wasn’t always so.<br />
The Egyptians<br />
believed that the<br />
heart was the<br />
seat of thought,<br />
it was a person’s<br />
moral compass,<br />
which is probably<br />
why it was the only<br />
organ left in the body<br />
during mummifi cation.<br />
The Ancient Greeks and<br />
Romans, who believed<br />
that the heart contained the<br />
soul, adorned their art with<br />
the stylised heart shape of ivy<br />
leaves – the plant was known to<br />
symbolise fi delity and affection<br />
– and the seed pod of another<br />
plant, silphinium, which also had a<br />
distinct heart shape. Widely grown<br />
in and around Cyrene at that time,<br />
the city grew rich from its trade. It<br />
was such a valuable commodity<br />
that they stamped the heart shape<br />
on their coins as well as their<br />
decorations.<br />
It was during the Middle Ages<br />
that people began to associate<br />
the idea of romantic love with the<br />
heart. Artists attempted to draw a<br />
human heart but, as the Catholic<br />
Church was opposed to dissecting<br />
the human body, the study of<br />
anatomy was based purely on<br />
animals and so their attempts<br />
weren’t very successful. It wasn’t<br />
until the 16th century, when laws<br />
were passed to enable the medical<br />
profession to carry out human<br />
dissection, that it was possible<br />
for artists to paint anatomically<br />
realisitic hearts. Religious art<br />
began to fl ourish and paintings of<br />
Christ showing his ‘sacred heart’<br />
were much admired and sought<br />
after. Love poems printed in<br />
heart-shaped books were popular<br />
and hearts began to<br />
feature in heraldic<br />
design. By the<br />
1600s the symbol<br />
had acquired the<br />
‘scalloped’ form<br />
with an ‘indent’ as<br />
we know it today<br />
and was being widely<br />
used as a Valentine,<br />
whilst a heart pierced<br />
by an arrow meant lovesickness<br />
or a broken heart –<br />
and people are still using the<br />
same symbols today.<br />
In 1977 the logo ‘I NY’ fi rst<br />
appeared and has since been<br />
been copied millions of times –<br />
on to cards, T shirts, mugs and<br />
all manner of things. Since the<br />
1990s the symbol has been used<br />
by restaurants to recommend<br />
healthy food choices, claiming<br />
to be low in cholesterol, and by<br />
health professionals, cookery<br />
experts, slimming organisations<br />
and even video game makers.<br />
Despite knowing that the heart<br />
has been supplanted by the brain<br />
as the place where emotions<br />
are recorded, we still prefer<br />
the familiar glossy red heart to<br />
express our feelings.<br />
Well, a brain emblazoned on a<br />
Valentine’s card just wouldn’t give<br />
the right message, would it?<br />
Chris Laude<br />
St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />
Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />
Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />
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Holy Communion:<br />
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March<br />
Sun 4th, 11th, 25th 11.00am<br />
April<br />
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Evensong ( third Sunday 3pm)<br />
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Additional Easter Services:<br />
Ash Wednesday 14th Feb 7pm<br />
29th March Maunday Thurs 7pm<br />
30th March Good Friday 2pm<br />
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Loving and Caring for a<br />
Each year in India thousands of<br />
people are traffi cked. Many end<br />
up being forced to work in the<br />
country’s sex industry. Along<br />
with their children, they are often<br />
victims of physical, sexual and mental<br />
abuse, economic oppression and social<br />
rejection.<br />
St Chad’s is supporting the Sahaara<br />
project – based in Mumbai’s red light<br />
district – which is looking to bring love to<br />
these people by working intensively with<br />
over 300 women, men, and children<br />
each year to give them a way out.<br />
Sahaara runs drop-in centres in<br />
Turbhe and Bhiwandi ‘red light’ areas,<br />
catering to traffi cked women or women<br />
in prostitution. They build relationships<br />
with them, providing medical care and<br />
health awareness training as well as<br />
vocational guidance and training.<br />
The staff also provide counselling<br />
to the women; helping them with their<br />
trauma – the drop-in centre is a place<br />
where women can come to receive<br />
emotional support and feel safe.<br />
• The team at Sahaara helps<br />
the women of Mumbai and their<br />
children in a number of ways:<br />
Personal growth: Women trafficked<br />
into prostitution often have no<br />
self-esteem or self-worth. Offering<br />
emotional support through cell<br />
groups helps them address their<br />
past and build relationships to<br />
begin to give them back their<br />
identity.<br />
Medical care: This project provides<br />
education on hygiene, basic health<br />
and HIV awareness as well as<br />
providing a doctor and facilitating<br />
testing for HIV/AIDS.<br />
Skills training: Knowing a trade not<br />
only gives the women an avenue to<br />
help themselves out of poverty and<br />
abuse but also boosts self-esteem<br />
and confidence.<br />
Education: Teaching people how<br />
to read and write in Hindi enables<br />
them to become more independent.<br />
This project also provides<br />
education for the children so that<br />
they can go to mainstream schools.<br />
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Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />
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a World in Need<br />
Kajal (not her real name)<br />
was befriended by an<br />
older girl whose husband<br />
promised her a job. She<br />
left her village with him,<br />
unaware of the risks.<br />
The man sold her to a<br />
brothel where she was<br />
beaten and forced into<br />
prostitution.<br />
After two years and a<br />
dramatic escape through<br />
a skylight, she arrived at<br />
Sahaara. When she was at<br />
the centre, Kajal learnt a special<br />
kind of embroidery called Aari, so<br />
she would have a livelihood and be<br />
able to support herself. She is now a<br />
skilled worker, and continues to show<br />
great improvement. She has recently<br />
learnt Hindi literacy too. Kajal can now<br />
travel by herself and is overcoming<br />
her past traumas, becoming more<br />
expressive. There was much joy as she<br />
recently met her sister for the fi rst time<br />
in 12 years.<br />
Kajal is just one example of how the<br />
love and care Sahaara offers can turn<br />
lives around and make a difference.<br />
At St Chad’s we want to help make<br />
that difference possible across a world<br />
which is in need of God’s love for all.<br />
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Songs and Poetry of Love<br />
Love songs have been part<br />
of life since mankind fi rst<br />
walked the earth. In fact,<br />
recent research has found<br />
that even the Neanderthals<br />
(very early humans) could sing.<br />
But singing love songs is not<br />
confi ned to humans; song birds<br />
were singing to attract a mate long<br />
before humans were around and,<br />
even before birds, whales were<br />
singing in the depths of the ocean.<br />
So, song is as old as love itself.<br />
But there are many kinds of love.<br />
On Valentine’s Day, our thoughts<br />
turn naturally to romantic love<br />
between humans. Arguably, the<br />
greatest love song of all time can<br />
be found in the Bible between<br />
Ecclesiastes and Isaiah. It is<br />
called ‘The Song of Solomon’.<br />
Whoever wrote it, and however you<br />
interpret it, it stands as a glorious<br />
celebration of human love. ‘Set me<br />
as a seal upon your heart, as a seal<br />
upon your arm, for love is strong<br />
as death …. Many waters cannot<br />
quench love, neither can the fl oods<br />
drown it’. (chapter 8, verse 6)<br />
But it seems that, for most of<br />
history, only the males of the<br />
species sang ‘in public’. In birds<br />
and whales, this remains the case.<br />
But men sang songs of war as well<br />
as love. However, it is obvious<br />
that God intended women<br />
to sing as well<br />
because He gave<br />
them the vocal<br />
equipment to<br />
do so. And<br />
sing they did;<br />
lullabies to<br />
their children<br />
and story telling,<br />
handed down in<br />
folk songs which<br />
are still around today,<br />
hundreds of years later. It was not<br />
until the 19th Century that women<br />
came into their own as singers in<br />
opera and musical theatre. The<br />
Diva and Prima Donna were born,<br />
eventually to strip the men of their<br />
fame and fortune forever.<br />
Poetry and song fl owered in the<br />
trenches of the First World War,<br />
although most of the love poems<br />
have been cast aside by scholars<br />
in favour of the graphic brutality<br />
of the so-called ‘Soldier Poets’.<br />
Most of the love poems remained<br />
unpublished but many soldiers<br />
wrote, not of their love of wives and<br />
sweethearts but of their homeland<br />
and animal companions, particularly<br />
horses, with whom the soldiers<br />
formed a particularly strong bond.<br />
Love of homeland and countryside<br />
was a high priority for most soldiers.<br />
This is what they were fi ghting<br />
for. Who can forget Ivor Gurney’s<br />
heart-rending ‘Song’ written from<br />
the trenches in 1917? The last<br />
verse reads: ‘And who loves joy<br />
as he/ That dwells in shadows?/<br />
Do not forget me quite, /O Severn<br />
meadows’.<br />
The Second World War brought<br />
hardly any poetry. Soldiers had<br />
much less time on their hands<br />
and by then we had the radio (we<br />
called it the ‘wireless’). There were<br />
however plenty of songs and artists<br />
like Gracie Fields and Vera Lynn,<br />
the Forces Sweetheart, to sing<br />
them. Who, of a certain age, can<br />
forget, ‘The White Cliffs of Dover’<br />
and ‘We’ll meet again’?<br />
But what of love songs today?<br />
Fragments downloaded from You<br />
Tube? For me, ‘No, thank you’. If<br />
you want me, you’ll fi nd me curled<br />
up with a book of verse and an<br />
old-fashioned (vinyl) record of Mario<br />
Lanza singing songs from Ivor<br />
Novello musicals.<br />
Sylvia Bennett<br />
St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />
Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />
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Christmas, Valentine’s<br />
Day, even the summer<br />
holidays are wonderful<br />
times of the year. These<br />
are times when the family<br />
gets together, love is celebrated,<br />
or families or couples go away<br />
together. What could be lovelier?<br />
But what about those of us<br />
who have lost the one we love,<br />
who for some reason or another<br />
is no longer around? These may<br />
then cease to be lovely times<br />
and instead be times of great<br />
loneliness and emptiness; times<br />
when we may even wish that we<br />
ourselves had ceased to be.<br />
My husband died 12 years ago. I<br />
felt that I myself no longer wanted<br />
to live; that life had been emptied<br />
of all that really mattered. The<br />
Bible tells us that husband and<br />
wife become one fl esh so if one of<br />
us has died then we are left with<br />
only half of us; the other half has<br />
been torn away; how painful that<br />
is. We go to the shops and have<br />
to buy for just one; we go out and<br />
discover that for everyone else<br />
life is just as it always has been;<br />
but for us that is not so. How can<br />
everyone<br />
else be so<br />
apparently<br />
happy when<br />
our lives<br />
have been<br />
radically<br />
changed?<br />
How can<br />
they be<br />
laughing<br />
when all we<br />
want to do<br />
is cry?<br />
We are<br />
all different in our reactions. I<br />
can’t remember for how long I<br />
felt that life for me was over; that<br />
now I would just be existing. How<br />
I missed the cuddles and being<br />
told that I was loved; how I missed<br />
those most intimate physical<br />
moments; holding hands as we<br />
walked. How I envied seeing<br />
others do just that. I was glad for<br />
them but so sad for me.<br />
I am a Christian and knew that<br />
the Bible told me that all things<br />
work together for good; I knew that<br />
it said that God would comfort me<br />
and that we learn to be content,<br />
oh and so much more. I did not<br />
have a crisis of faith but for what<br />
seemed like a long time I did not<br />
read my Bible or pray and these<br />
biblical truths meant little to me.<br />
I think perhaps I felt numb. But<br />
gradually things began to change<br />
though I cannot remember how<br />
long “gradually” was.<br />
I began to see that there was still<br />
life for me; that God still had things<br />
for me to do; that my Bible came<br />
to life again and I began to pray.<br />
I began to smile as I saw others<br />
holding hands, thanking God for<br />
the years I had had when I could<br />
do that. It was still strange to be in<br />
a room full of couples whilst I was<br />
alone, but I began not to feel lonely<br />
at those times. But most amazing<br />
of all, I have discovered a joy I had<br />
never known; Jesus is more real to<br />
me than ever; I see beauty where I<br />
had missed it before.<br />
So, if like me, you have lost<br />
someone you love, I can promise<br />
you that deep happiness can still<br />
come if we know Jesus. I know<br />
that is true. It has happened to me.<br />
Mary Thomas<br />
When You Have Lost a Loved One<br />
St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />
Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />
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Services at St Chad’s<br />
Sunday Services<br />
Sunday<br />
Sunday<br />
Services<br />
Services<br />
Sunday Services<br />
The 9am Service<br />
The<br />
●<br />
The<br />
Traditional 9am Service<br />
in<br />
service<br />
style<br />
The ● • Traditional Traditional 9am Service in style in style<br />
● Includes Holy Communion, a sermon & hymns<br />
● • ● Includes Traditional Includes refreshments<br />
Holy Holy in style Communion, afterwards<br />
a sermon a sermon & hymns and hymns<br />
●<br />
• Includes Taken<br />
Includes<br />
from refreshments<br />
Common Worship: afterwards<br />
● Includes Holy Communion, a sermon Holy Communion<br />
& hymns<br />
● • Taken Taken from from Common Common Worship: Worship: Holy Holy Communion Communion<br />
● Includes refreshments afterwards<br />
● Taken from Common Worship: Holy Communion<br />
Lifted,<br />
Lifted, the<br />
the – the<br />
11am Service<br />
11am 11am Service service<br />
●<br />
•<br />
Informal<br />
Informal<br />
and<br />
and<br />
relaxed<br />
relaxed<br />
in style<br />
Lifted, the 11am Service in style<br />
● Informal and relaxed in style<br />
• An An emphasis emphasis on on families families<br />
● An emphasis on families<br />
• ● Includes Informal Includes music, and music relaxed led played by in a style band by a band<br />
● • ● Includes An Refreshments emphasis music, on served led families served by from a band from 10.15-10.45am<br />
to 10.45<br />
● ● Refreshments Includes music, served led by from a band 10.15-10.45am<br />
● Refreshments served from 10.15-10.45am<br />
Weekday<br />
Weekday<br />
Services<br />
Services<br />
Weekday Services<br />
Weekday Services<br />
Morning Prayers<br />
Morning Prayers<br />
Morning Prayers<br />
Morning Prayer<br />
Evening Prayers<br />
Evening Prayers<br />
Evening Prayers<br />
Monday to Thursday at 9am<br />
Monday to Thursday at 9am<br />
Monday to Thursday at 9am<br />
• Monday to Thursday at 9am - a half-hour service<br />
of prayer and Bible readings in church<br />
Monday to Thursday at 5pm<br />
• Monday Friday at to 9am Thursday - up to at an 5pm hour of prayer, blessing<br />
for Monday the community to Thursday and at prayer 5pm ministry if requested<br />
The Thursday 10am Service<br />
The Thursday 10am Service<br />
The Traditional Thursday in style 10am Service service<br />
Traditional<br />
Taken from<br />
in<br />
Common<br />
style<br />
Worship: Holy Communion<br />
• Taken Traditional in<br />
from style<br />
Common Worship: Holy Communion<br />
• Includes Taken from Holy common Common Communion, worship Worship: a sermon Holy Communion & hymns<br />
Includes<br />
Held in the<br />
Holy<br />
Lady<br />
Communion,<br />
Chapel at the sermon<br />
back of church<br />
hymns<br />
• Includes Holy Communion, a sermon & and hymns hymns<br />
•<br />
Held in the Lady<br />
chancel<br />
Chapel<br />
at the<br />
at<br />
front<br />
the back<br />
of church<br />
of church<br />
Held in the Lady Chapel at the back of church<br />
Other Services<br />
Other Services<br />
Prayer and Praise<br />
Prayer Prayer and and Praise<br />
Sunday, February 13 at 7.30pm<br />
Sunday,<br />
Sunday,<br />
February<br />
February<br />
13<br />
13<br />
at<br />
at<br />
7.30pm<br />
7.30pm<br />
Ash Wednesday Service<br />
Ash Wednesday Service<br />
Wednesday, March 9 at 7.30pm<br />
Wednesday, March 9 at at 7.30pm<br />
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Easter worship<br />
at St Chad’s<br />
PALM SUNDAY<br />
9am Traditional Communion Service<br />
11am<br />
Lifted Family Service<br />
Thursday March 29<br />
MAUNDY THURSDAY<br />
10am<br />
Our weekly service of Holy<br />
Communion<br />
Friday March 30<br />
GOOD FRIDAY<br />
10am<br />
1-3pm<br />
Good Friday Family Service<br />
(especially for children)<br />
Sunday April 1<br />
Meditations Around the Cross<br />
EASTER SUNDAY<br />
9am<br />
11am<br />
Easter Celebration with<br />
Holy Communion<br />
Family Service with<br />
Holy Communion<br />
Come and celebrate the risen Jesus!<br />
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If I Speak in the Tongues...<br />
Undoubtedly the most<br />
popular Bible reading<br />
to have at weddings is<br />
the thirteenth chapter of<br />
Paul’s first letter to the<br />
Corinthians. It is a fairly short<br />
passage, but has such resonance<br />
and poetry contained within it that<br />
parts of it have entered the English<br />
language even where their original<br />
context is forgotten.<br />
It is a hymn to love. Unusually<br />
it’s a passage that does not<br />
once mention God.<br />
Perhaps that is one<br />
reason why it<br />
has remained<br />
so popular;<br />
it could, in<br />
theory at least,<br />
be spoken<br />
of by those<br />
of all faiths<br />
and none.<br />
The Beatles<br />
sang that all you<br />
needed was love.<br />
Paul said something<br />
similar – not that all you<br />
need is love, but that without love<br />
you can have nothing else. If<br />
I speak in the tongues of men<br />
and of angels, if I can fathom all<br />
knowledge and mysteries, if I have<br />
a faith that can move mountains<br />
but do not have love then I am a<br />
noisy cymbal, full of sound and<br />
fury, signifying nothing (that last bit<br />
is Shakespeare, not St Paul, but<br />
Paul would have agreed).<br />
Paul then goes on to describe<br />
what love is, and he describes<br />
love not in terms of fluffy emotions<br />
as though we were settling down<br />
to a Christmas rom-com movie.<br />
Love is not baking cakes, buying<br />
flowers or giving your last Rolo<br />
to someone that you’re fond of.<br />
Love is, according to Paul, patient,<br />
kind, not envious, not boastful,<br />
not proud, not rude, not selfseeking,<br />
not easily angered but<br />
instead delights in truth, always<br />
protects, always trusts, always<br />
hopes, always perseveres. Paul<br />
was trained in the ancient art of<br />
rhetoric – the skill of speaking and<br />
writing to great effect – and as he<br />
gets into his stride so you can feel<br />
the waves of his poetry swelling<br />
and building up.<br />
Finally he ends by saying that<br />
whereas everything else will<br />
come to a natural end,<br />
love lasts eternally<br />
within a holy trinity<br />
of faith, hope and<br />
love, the greatest<br />
of which is love.<br />
It’s not<br />
surprising that so<br />
many wedding<br />
couples do choose<br />
this passage (though<br />
other fine ones are<br />
available!) but what<br />
about the absence of God?<br />
In a church wedding you might<br />
expect the Bible passage to say<br />
something about the Almighty.<br />
As I usually explain to the dewyeyed<br />
couple in the church, this<br />
passage is in fact all about God.<br />
Another possible wedding reading<br />
says bluntly “God is Love”, and,<br />
for the Christian, God and love<br />
can be interchangeable words.<br />
You change the words in the<br />
passage from love to God (“God<br />
is patient, God is kind, God is not<br />
easily angered etc…”) and you<br />
would still get the sense of the<br />
hymn. God is the author of love<br />
and is at the heart of human love.<br />
That is one of the messages that I<br />
try to bring across to the wonderful<br />
celebration that is marriage.<br />
Rev Toby Hole<br />
St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />
Church Office: Linden Avenue, Sheffield S8 0GA<br />
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Loving the P<br />
As humans, we are programmed<br />
to seek community. It is when<br />
we live in community that we<br />
harness the best in each other.<br />
We may not always get on with<br />
our neighbours but for good or bad they<br />
are there and we will be happier and<br />
be more fulfi lled if we seek their welfare<br />
because our welfare is tied in with<br />
theirs in ways that we cannot always<br />
appreciate. Only when we grasp this<br />
truth will we be truly alive.<br />
Our society, currently, is a deeply<br />
individualistic one. We have<br />
largely lost the concept of<br />
helping others because we<br />
feel that we need to focus<br />
on ourselves and those<br />
closest to us and only<br />
then can we help others.<br />
I am not sure that will<br />
work in the long term<br />
because we will never<br />
have enough and only<br />
when we put the needs<br />
of others before ourselves<br />
will we see real growth in<br />
them and ourselves, although maybe<br />
not in the ways we might expect. If we<br />
wish to seek real change then we need<br />
community because the ‘whole is greater<br />
than the sum of the parts’. Only by<br />
working together can we bring about real<br />
change.<br />
Jean Vanier the founder of L’Arche<br />
communities which is spread over 37<br />
countries and is an organisation for<br />
people with developmental diffi culties<br />
and those who support them, put it like<br />
this: “One of the marvellous things<br />
about community is that it enables us to<br />
welcome and help people in a way we<br />
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People Around You<br />
YOUR NEIGHBOUR NEEDS<br />
couldn’t as individuals. When we pool<br />
our strength and share the work and<br />
responsibility, we can welcome many<br />
people, even those in deep distress, and<br />
perhaps help them fi nd self-confi dence<br />
and inner healing.”<br />
Or to put it another way to quote John<br />
Donne – ‘no man is an island’ – we all<br />
need each other even if we choose not<br />
recognise it.<br />
Some people withdraw from society but<br />
others fi nd themselves isolated through<br />
no fault of their own. It is to those people<br />
that our thoughts must turn. Often they<br />
are the weakest and least self-suffi cient<br />
in our society and as such need our<br />
loving attention. It is true that how we<br />
treat the vulnerable in our society is a<br />
refl ection of the health of our society as<br />
a whole. If as a society we treat those<br />
who are especially vulnerable – the very<br />
young, the elderly, those living on the<br />
margins and those who are struggling<br />
with life – with love and care then we will<br />
have a better society in which to live.<br />
There was a time when mothers were<br />
the kingpin of the community. They<br />
knew whose husband had been made<br />
redundant and who would welcome a<br />
food parcel. They knew who had been in<br />
hospital and who would value a hot meal<br />
being taken round. They would know<br />
when a marriage had broken down and<br />
who needed a listening ear.<br />
We all need each other at times,<br />
however society changes and some of<br />
the benefi ts of community are lost – but<br />
this also creates other opportunities if we<br />
choose to seek them out. There may well<br />
be people who are living near us who<br />
have no one to turn to and need a good<br />
neighbour – is that you?<br />
Steve Winks<br />
St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />
Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />
Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />
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Film Focus on Love<br />
I<br />
love fi lms. I have just<br />
discovered a wonderful<br />
TV channel called Talking<br />
Pictures which shows old<br />
movies 24 hours a day.<br />
As a test of my memory I try to<br />
reel off all the old actors’ names,<br />
especially from the 50s and 60s.<br />
But, let me ask you a question...<br />
Are there still ‘women’s pictures’<br />
and ‘movies for men’? There<br />
shouldn’t be, but there are. The<br />
latter is actually a movie cable<br />
channel showing a mixture of<br />
war fi lms, westerns and “action”<br />
movies. Do men watch it? I<br />
certainly don’t. But how do you<br />
tell it’s a ‘women’s picture’? Well,<br />
one of the ways is to see if the<br />
word ‘love’ is in the title. Put love<br />
in the title and you are guaranteed<br />
to interest women of a certain age<br />
and inclination. Or you used to be.<br />
In this age of equality, many<br />
people of either gender still have<br />
favourites, based on their gender. I<br />
don’t include myself in this. A good<br />
fi lm is a good fi lm, regardless<br />
of who is acting, the theme, the<br />
setting or the language spoken.<br />
I can watch a fi lm about love, as<br />
long as it isn’t mawkish, sugary,<br />
sentimental or stereotypical. I<br />
am one of the few people never<br />
to watch The Sound of Music so<br />
I know what<br />
I am talking<br />
about!<br />
Back to<br />
fi lm titles<br />
containing<br />
the word love.<br />
Love Story<br />
and Love<br />
Actually will<br />
have attracted<br />
many females<br />
when they<br />
were released<br />
but perhaps not so much now.<br />
I think that James Bond movies<br />
attract males and females alike<br />
but in the 60s when To Russia<br />
With Love came out more men<br />
would have caught it than women.<br />
What else have we got? The Love<br />
Bug was for children. To Sir, With<br />
Love looked at social problems.<br />
Shakespeare in Love was a<br />
comedy. Women in Love was<br />
based on a classic novel.<br />
Putting love in the title no<br />
longer means that the movie will<br />
be romantic. Not so in the 50s<br />
when we had Love is a Many<br />
Splendoured Thing and Love in<br />
the Afternoon. Neither fi lm is as<br />
raunchy as the title suggests, by<br />
the way. There are thousands of<br />
fi lms whose title includes that little<br />
word. We even have Love in the<br />
Time of Cholera! and Capitalism:<br />
A Love Story. Several Woody Allen<br />
fi lms use the word love.<br />
Writing is not easy, be it novels,<br />
plays or fi lm scripts. But one of<br />
the hardest things is to come up<br />
with a title. My cynical view is<br />
that fi lm producers and the fi lm<br />
distributors will persuade writers<br />
and directors to include the word<br />
love in the title so that their piece<br />
of work will attract more punters<br />
and make more money at the box<br />
offi ce. They could use the word<br />
‘sex’ but that may put some people<br />
off. Using ‘love’ will appeal to<br />
many cinema visitors, looking for<br />
escapism and romance. Perhaps<br />
not so much now as in the 40s<br />
and 50s but it probably still has<br />
an effect. In a list of 100 movies<br />
voted the worst of all time, I found<br />
only one with ‘love’ in the title. At<br />
Long Last Love made in 1975 and<br />
starring Burt Reynolds. Check it<br />
out. It’s on Netfl ix.<br />
David Manning<br />
St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />
Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />
Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />
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Ingredients<br />
500g strong white flour<br />
50g caster sugar<br />
2tsp fast action/easy blend yeast<br />
50g butter, melted and cooled<br />
1tsp salt<br />
2 eggs, beaten<br />
200ml milk<br />
200g mixed dried fruit<br />
2tsp cinnamon<br />
1tsp mixed spice<br />
For the glaze<br />
50g granulated<br />
sugar<br />
a little milk<br />
Method<br />
Put the flour and salt in a large<br />
bowl. Stir in the caster sugar, yeast<br />
and melted butter. Add the eggs,<br />
enough milk to form a soft dough<br />
and then the spices and fruit.<br />
Knead the dough on a fl oured<br />
surface until smooth and elastic<br />
but not sticky (about 10 mins).<br />
Cover and leave to double in size.<br />
Turn out onto a fl oured surface,<br />
knead for couple of minutes then<br />
divide into 12.<br />
Shape into buns and arrange<br />
on a greased baking sheet.<br />
Make a cross on each<br />
bun with a sharp knife.<br />
Cover and leave to<br />
rise for 30minutes.<br />
Redefi ne the<br />
crosses.<br />
Bake for 15 mins at<br />
220°c Gas7.<br />
Make a glaze<br />
by dissolving the<br />
granulated sugar in milk,<br />
bring to the boil and simmer<br />
for two minutes.<br />
As soon as the buns are out of the<br />
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St Valentine<br />
February 14 is a day for<br />
lovers – when cards and<br />
chocolates arrive from<br />
mystery senders and the<br />
price of red roses soars in<br />
our fl orists.<br />
But what’s the history of St<br />
Valentine – the man who gives his<br />
name to this special day?<br />
St Valentine is known to be<br />
a real person who died<br />
around AD 270 but the<br />
truth about his life<br />
and identity is a bit of<br />
a mystery. There are<br />
various myths and<br />
legends about the<br />
man and why he is<br />
celebrated.<br />
In one account,<br />
Valentine is described as a<br />
temple priest who was beheaded<br />
near Rome by the emperor<br />
Claudius II for helping Christian<br />
couples to wed. Another account<br />
says that he was the Bishop of<br />
Terni, also martyred by Claudius II<br />
on the outskirts of Rome.<br />
Because of the similarities<br />
in these, they could be the<br />
same person – a man who was<br />
beheaded for performing Christian<br />
weddings despite Claudius II<br />
banning young Roman men from<br />
being married. Claudius felt that<br />
single men made better soldiers as<br />
they would be more willing to die.<br />
St Valentine was also found<br />
guilty of ministering to Christians<br />
– persecuted under the Roman<br />
Empire.<br />
As well as this St Valentine,<br />
there were many others with<br />
the same name – all killed<br />
for their faith. The name<br />
was popular up until the<br />
eighth century AD and<br />
means strong, worthy<br />
or powerful. The one<br />
we now celebrate on<br />
February 14 is officially<br />
known as St Valentine of<br />
Rome.<br />
In the fifth century Pope<br />
Gelasius declared February 14 as<br />
St Valentine’s Day, although it was<br />
not until the 14th century that the<br />
day became associated with love.<br />
Whatever the true story is, this<br />
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84 Charing Cross Road<br />
by Helene Hanff<br />
One of my all-time<br />
favourite books, 84<br />
Charing Cross Road<br />
was fi rst published in<br />
1970. A true story, it is<br />
written in the form of a series of<br />
letters from the author, Helene<br />
Hanff, an impoverished American<br />
writer, to Frank Doel, head buyer<br />
of Marks & Co, antiquarian<br />
booksellers, Charing Cross Road.<br />
When Hanff reads an<br />
advertisement for Marks & Co. in<br />
a magazine she writes to them<br />
requesting somewhat obscure<br />
books and publications which<br />
she cannot obtain in her native<br />
New York. Thus begins a 20-year<br />
correspondence between her and<br />
Frank Doel.<br />
The letters at fi rst are short<br />
and rather witty as she details<br />
her likes and dislikes of the<br />
various book and translations she<br />
receives. Frank is always aware<br />
that Helene’s income is limited<br />
and engages the help of the other<br />
members of staff to help fi nd<br />
books which will suit her taste.<br />
Helene’s joy when she opens<br />
her parcels is infectious. She<br />
writes of the beauty of leather<br />
bound fi rst editions and the gold<br />
tooling and wonderful illustrations.<br />
She says that there is nothing<br />
like the touch and smell of a<br />
beautifully produced pamphlet or<br />
book. Of being able to turn the<br />
pages and sense that someone<br />
else had enjoyed the book before<br />
her.<br />
As the years progress so the<br />
friendship between the two people<br />
develops and little personal<br />
details emerge about family, other<br />
members of staff and observations<br />
on their struggles<br />
with life in post<br />
WW2, when certain<br />
foodstuffs were hard<br />
to come by.<br />
Insights into<br />
their lives are both<br />
charming and<br />
heartwarming.<br />
Helene begins to<br />
send food parcels<br />
and Christmas<br />
and birthday gifts,<br />
as by now she is<br />
corresponding with<br />
some of the staff<br />
as well. They discuss such topics<br />
as the Coronation of Queen<br />
Elizabeth and how to make a<br />
good Yorkshire Pudding!<br />
In 1987 a film was made of<br />
the book starring Anne Bancroft<br />
as Helene, Anthony Hopkins as<br />
Frank and Judy Dench as Frank’s<br />
wife. This is one of the occasions<br />
where I think the film enhances<br />
the book. As I read the book again<br />
I can hear the tapping of Helene’s<br />
old typewriter and visualise Frank<br />
attending house sales in search<br />
of antiquarian books. I can put a<br />
face to each character, because<br />
it is brilliantly cast, and enjoy the<br />
passing of time as each character<br />
develops. It is a book which may<br />
be read in one sitting or one letter<br />
at a time. I heartily recommend it.<br />
Helene could never afford<br />
to visit the shop until 1971.<br />
The shop was by then empty.<br />
Frank Doel died in 1968 from<br />
peritonitis. Helene continued a<br />
correspondence with his wife.<br />
84 Charing Cross Road has a<br />
commemorative plaque affixed<br />
to the wall. Sadly no longer a<br />
bookshop but a McDonalds.<br />
Vicki Harris is a member of St<br />
Chad’s Third Age Book Group<br />
Book Review<br />
St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />
Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />
Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />
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Don’t Lose Your Humanity<br />
Imagine ... if an organic pod<br />
was growing in your cellar,<br />
slowly turning into a replica of<br />
you, until you fell asleep and it<br />
became you, and the original<br />
you wasn’t needed any more,<br />
because you were now one of the<br />
Pod People.<br />
That is essentially the plot of the<br />
1956 movie Invasion of the Body<br />
Snatchers. Spores drifting in outer<br />
space float to earth in Santa Mira, a<br />
typical American small town, where<br />
everyone knows everyone else –<br />
until the spores grow into the pods<br />
which become the townspeople<br />
and the other townspeople begin to<br />
realise they don’t know them any<br />
more. Then they, too, are taken<br />
over by the alien invaders. As the<br />
Pod People distribute more and<br />
more pods beyond Santa Mira, they<br />
threaten a takeover of the entire<br />
planet!<br />
OK, so it’s science fiction, which<br />
by its nature usually contains more<br />
fiction than science. In fact, there<br />
is so much suspension of reality<br />
between its covers or, in this case,<br />
between the first and last reels, that<br />
the science is usually manipulated<br />
to set, further and finally resolve<br />
the plot. And the plot can’t be lost,<br />
because ultimately it is subservient<br />
to the story’s metaphors, which<br />
Isaac Asimov, author of I, Robot and<br />
Fantastic Voyage, said we ignore at<br />
our peril.<br />
What, then, are the metaphors in<br />
Invasion of the Body Snatchers that<br />
we must not ignore?<br />
At the time of the film’s release, the<br />
United States was recovering from<br />
Senator Joe McCarthy’s investigation<br />
into communist infiltration, first<br />
of the State Department and<br />
then everywhere else, including<br />
Hollywood. However, in an interview<br />
on its 1998 DVD release, lead actor<br />
Kevin McCarthy (no relation) said<br />
he was not aware of any political<br />
allegory, when it was made. And in I<br />
Thought We Were Making Movies,<br />
Not History, Walter Mirisch also<br />
recalls that producer Walter Wanger,<br />
director Don Siegel, scriptwriter Dan<br />
Mainwaring, and Jack Finney, author<br />
of The Body Snatchers, the novel<br />
which inspired the movie, never saw<br />
it as ‘anything other than a thriller,<br />
pure and simple’.<br />
And thrill us this movie certainly<br />
does – as its story takes us deeper<br />
than politics, suggested or real,<br />
to the very heart of our human<br />
condition. And shows us what would<br />
happen, if we ever lost our humanity,<br />
because it’s not only bodies which<br />
are being snatched: as the aliens<br />
assume their sleeping victims’<br />
identities, they leave their humanity<br />
behind. All it takes is to nod off for a<br />
moment.<br />
While falling asleep as a<br />
democratic society could lead to a<br />
totalitarian future, or as somnolent<br />
individuals help bring that about,<br />
whatever were left would still have<br />
people in it, with all the emotions of<br />
which humans are capable, including<br />
love. The Pod People, however,<br />
are incapable of love – or hate, or<br />
anything in between. They just are,<br />
existing only to invade our world,<br />
dehumanise it and move on.<br />
‘Join us,’ they advise Dr Miles J<br />
Bennell, last man standing in Santa<br />
Mira, ‘life will be much simpler and<br />
better.’<br />
He is not convinced – and nor<br />
should we be. While there are seven<br />
billion of us, we are all individuals,<br />
with all that is human programmed<br />
in from birth. We lose our humanity<br />
at our peril. We must not nod off and<br />
allow that to happen.<br />
If Invasion of the Body Snatchers<br />
teaches us anything, I believe it<br />
teaches us that.<br />
Stephen Dowson<br />
St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />
Church Office: Linden Avenue, Sheffield S8 0GA<br />
Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />
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If you live in the Woodseats or<br />
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delighted to help you, whether it is<br />
planning the Big Day or saying goodbye<br />
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For weddings please contact St Chad’s<br />
church offi ce. For funerals please tell<br />
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• If you have had a new baby and would<br />
like to celebrate that baby’s birth with<br />
a service in church then please come<br />
to one of our thanksgiving and baptism<br />
mornings at St Chad’s.<br />
The morning will<br />
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and give<br />
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Please call the<br />
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CHURCH OFFICE 274 5086<br />
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Readers<br />
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St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />
Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />
Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />
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St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />
Church Office: Linden Avenue, Sheffield S8 0GA<br />
Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />
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email: office@stchads.org<br />
website: www.stchads.org
764 Chesterfield Road, Woodseats, Sheffield, S8 0SE<br />
St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />
Church Office: Linden Avenue, Sheffield S8 0GA<br />
Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />
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email: office@stchads.org<br />
website: www.stchads.org