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February/March 2018<br />

WOODSEATS • SHEFFIELD


WELCOME to Impact - the magazine of St Chad’s Church,<br />

Woodseats. Impact is published every two months and distributed<br />

to over 5,000 homes in S8.<br />

St Chad’s Church is committed to serving you - the people of<br />

Woodseats, Beauchief and Chancet Wood. To find out more about<br />

St Chad’s, visit our website at www.stchads.org or call the church<br />

office on 0114 274 5086.<br />

Here’s where to find us:<br />

Abbey Lane<br />

Linden Avenue<br />

St Chad's<br />

Church &<br />

Church<br />

Office<br />

Church<br />

House<br />

Abbey Lane<br />

School<br />

Camping Lane<br />

Chesterfield Road<br />

Cover photo: SwanLove by Callum Hampson<br />

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e: chrisshephardplumbing@virginmedia.com<br />

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St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />

Church Office: Linden Avenue, Sheffield S8 0GA<br />

Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />

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email: office@stchads.org<br />

website: www.stchads.org


How do I love thee? Let me count the<br />

ways.<br />

I love thee to the depth and breadth and<br />

height<br />

My soul can reach, when feeling out of<br />

sight<br />

For the ends of being and ideal grace.<br />

February/March 2018<br />

Elizabeth Barrett Browning’s famous<br />

sonnet is regularly recited at<br />

weddings across the land, but her<br />

opening question “how do I love<br />

thee? Let me count the ways” has<br />

rather more to it than simply a list of loving<br />

attributes. For many years now, it has been<br />

recognised that we show and receive love differently depending on our<br />

personality. These different ways have been called love languages and<br />

they include physical touch, gifts, quality time spent with one another,<br />

assistance with domestic chores and affi rming and loving words. We<br />

often assume that because we particularly appreciate one way of being<br />

loved, others are the same, but that may well not be the case – hence<br />

the wife or husband who is frustrated at being constantly bought gifts<br />

whilst their partner doesn’t lift a fi nger to help with the housework.<br />

Discovering your (and your loved one’s) love language can be a vital<br />

part of marriage preparation.<br />

Love is such a powerful and complex emotion, that it can be very<br />

hard to separate the strands of altruism and selfi shness. Because we<br />

enjoy being “in love”, acting lovingly towards the object of our desire<br />

also feeds our own sense of importance and self-worth. It can be very<br />

easy to confuse love for others and love for self. Tools such as “love<br />

languages” can help us learn that the best way to please those we love<br />

may involve putting ourselves out and may not involve the big romantic<br />

gesture at all.<br />

And this is particularly true when our love is given to those who<br />

cannot reciprocate, most particularly in old age when our love of 50<br />

years is in the last stages of memory-loss, or perhaps struggling with<br />

physical or mental health issues. The love that lasts a lifetime is a love<br />

that has long outgrown selfi sh or wilful desires. It is a love that seems<br />

to exist almost independently of the circumstances in which it fi nds<br />

itself. Elizabeth Barrett Browning ends her sonnet with the<br />

Christian belief that love is eternal because it has its roots<br />

in God, and that love is not limited to the pains of this<br />

brief life, but to the everlasting life promised in Jesus.<br />

I love thee with the breath,<br />

Smiles, tears, of all my life; and, if God choose,<br />

I shall but love thee better after death.<br />

Rev Toby Hole,<br />

Vicar, St Chad’s, Woodseats<br />

WOODSEATS • SHEFFIELD<br />

The Many Ways of Showing Love<br />

St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />

Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />

Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />

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email: offi ce@stchads.org<br />

website: www.stchads.org


John Heath & Sons<br />

Meadowhead Funeral Home<br />

An Independent Family Business<br />

for Over 135 Years<br />

Our premises have been purpose built<br />

internally and we have several chapels<br />

of rest. It is a modern funeral home<br />

whilst being sympathetic to traditional<br />

values.<br />

Pre-paid Funeral Plan Service<br />

available<br />

John Heath & Sons<br />

Meadowhead Funeral Home | 362 Meadowhead | Sheffield | S8 7UJ<br />

0114 274 9005<br />

www.meadowhead.net<br />

St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />

Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />

Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />

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email: offi ce@stchads.org<br />

website: www.stchads.org


“Jesus loves Eve ‘n’ me!”<br />

Boy: Do you<br />

have a date for<br />

Valentine’s Day?<br />

Girl: Yes, February<br />

14.<br />

What did one wall<br />

say to the other<br />

wall?<br />

I’ll meet you at the<br />

corner.<br />

A man told his<br />

girlfriend she<br />

was drawing her<br />

eyebrows too<br />

high. She looked<br />

surprised.<br />

Two aerials met on a<br />

roof and got married.<br />

Their guests said the<br />

ceremony wasn’t up to<br />

much, but the reception<br />

was excellent.<br />

A wife complained to<br />

her husband: “Just look<br />

at that couple down<br />

the road, how lovely<br />

they are. He holds her<br />

hand, kisses her, holds<br />

the door for her. Why<br />

don’t you do that?”<br />

The husband replied:<br />

“I wouldn’t feel<br />

comfortable. I barely<br />

know her!”<br />

A couple were<br />

enjoying a<br />

romantic meal<br />

in a restaurant<br />

until their main<br />

course arrived.<br />

“We can’t eat<br />

this steak, it’s<br />

terrible,” the man<br />

told the waiter,<br />

“Fetch the<br />

manager.”<br />

“That’s no use,”<br />

said the waiter,<br />

“He won’t eat it<br />

either!”<br />

Why do bees have<br />

sticky hair?<br />

Because they use<br />

honey combs!<br />

Why did the man<br />

run around his<br />

bed?<br />

Because he was<br />

trying to catch up<br />

on his sleep!<br />

Fun and Laughs<br />

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131 Holmhirst Road<br />

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Telephone: 0114 274 9101<br />

Email: thujopsis@aol.com 274 5061<br />

St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />

Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />

Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />

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email: offi ce@stchads.org<br />

website: www.stchads.org


What’s On<br />

If you have an event you would like<br />

to see included in our What’s On<br />

section, email impact@stchads.org<br />

Health Walks<br />

•Mondays - 10am: Graves Park.<br />

Meet outside the Rose Garden<br />

Cafe;<br />

•Tuesdays - 10.30am: Ecclesall<br />

Woods. Meet at the Visitors<br />

Centre at Abbeydale Industrial<br />

Hamlet;<br />

•Thursdays - 10.30am: Lowedges.<br />

Meet at the Gresley Road Meeting<br />

Rooms, Gresley Road, Lowedges;<br />

•Thursdays - 10.30am: Ecclesall<br />

Woods. Meet at the JG Graves<br />

Discovery Centre off Abbey Lane.<br />

•Fridays - 10.30am: Graves Park.<br />

Meet in the main entrance, Graves<br />

Leisure Centre.<br />

Call 07505 639524 or visit www.<br />

healthwalksinsheffi eld.btck.co.uk<br />

for details about any of the walks.<br />

February 4<br />

Pedlar’s Corner Flea Market<br />

The Abbeydale Picture House<br />

10am-3pm<br />

A mixture of general fl ea market<br />

stalls and specialist antiques,<br />

vintage, retro, arts, crafts, makers<br />

and salvage stalls.<br />

February 13-17<br />

Murdered to Death<br />

Ecclesall Church Halls<br />

Ecclesall Theatre Company<br />

presents its February play<br />

Murdered to Death by Peter<br />

Gordon.<br />

February 26<br />

The Anti-Slavery Movement in<br />

Sheffield<br />

Bishops’ House<br />

7.30pm<br />

Suzanne Bingham talks of how<br />

the anti-slavery movement took<br />

off in Sheffi eld, the crucial role<br />

that local women played, and the<br />

movement’s contribution towards<br />

the radical reputation of the city.<br />

March 3<br />

Book Sale<br />

36 Crawshaw Grove, Beauchief<br />

10am-12pm<br />

Good quality second-hand books<br />

for sale in aid of the Alzheimer’s<br />

Society. Donations of good<br />

condition paperback novels or<br />

biographies are welcome.<br />

March 3<br />

Antiques Valuation Day<br />

Bishops’ House<br />

10am-1pm<br />

Bishops’ House will be hosting an<br />

antiques valuation day with three<br />

valuers from Sheffi eld Auction<br />

Gallery.<br />

March 3<br />

St Matthew Passion<br />

Sheffi eld Cathedral<br />

6.30pm<br />

Sheffi eld Bach Choir presents JS<br />

Bach’s St Matthew Passion with the<br />

Leeds-based St Peter’s Singers.<br />

Call in for a Cuppa<br />

at Church House, 56 Abbey Lane<br />

10am to 12noon<br />

on the last Saturday of each month<br />

Bring & Buy (new items)<br />

Handicrafts and Home Baking<br />

St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />

Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />

Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />

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email: offi ce@stchads.org<br />

website: www.stchads.org


Send details of your event to impact@stchads.org or write to: Impact,<br />

St Chad‟s Church Offices, 15 Camping Lane, Sheffield S8 0GB.<br />

Thursdays – 10.30am:<br />

Lowedges. Meet at the Community<br />

Wing, Lowedges Junior School.<br />

Call 0114 203 9337.<br />

March 4<br />

National Pedlar’s Council Corner Flea for Divorced, Market<br />

Single Abbeydale and Widowed Picture House<br />

Tuesdays 10am-3pm8-11pm<br />

Norton A mixture Country of general Club flea market<br />

Club stalls offering and specialist friendship antiques, and social<br />

activities. vintage, retro, arts, crafts, makers<br />

<br />

and<br />

Call<br />

salvage<br />

Magdalen<br />

stalls.<br />

on 0114<br />

2394326. March 7-10<br />

Patience<br />

January Dronfield 30 Civic - February Hall 5<br />

AEGON 7.30pmBritish Tennis Tour<br />

Graves Meersbrook Tennis Park and Church Leisure Operatic Centre<br />

World Society ranked presents players Patience compete by<br />

alongside Gilbert and local Sullivan. Sheffield For players. tickets, call<br />

<br />

0114<br />

Call<br />

2557634.<br />

0114 283 9900.<br />

March 10<br />

February Haydn Nelson 5 Mass<br />

Book Sheffield Sale Cathedral<br />

367.30pm<br />

Crawshaw Grove, Beauchief<br />

10am-12pm Sheffield Oratorio Chorus presents<br />

Good Haydn’s quality Nelson second-hand Mass with books<br />

for Skipton sale in Camerata. aid of the Alzheimer‟s<br />

Society. Tickets Donations are £16. of paperback<br />

novels March or 16biographies in good<br />

condition An evening are welcome without Jake (but not<br />

larger Thackray books due to space<br />

limitations). Greenhill Library<br />

7pm<br />

February Enjoy the 5 poetry and wit of Jake<br />

Free Thackray. Environmental Tickets £8 Activities available from<br />

Millhouses the library Park reception desk.<br />

10.30am-12.30pm<br />

March 17<br />

Obstacle Gloria in course Excelsis and Deo stream<br />

dipping Holy Trinity activities Church, for 8 Millhouses - 13 year<br />

olds.<br />

Call 0114 263 4335.<br />

Call 0114 230 8842.<br />

February 12<br />

Free Environmental Activities<br />

Millhouses 7.30pm Park<br />

1.30-3.30pm<br />

Escafeld Chorale presents a<br />

Nature concert quiz including trail, stream Joseph dipping Haydn<br />

and<br />

Missa<br />

bug<br />

Brevis<br />

hunting<br />

No 7,<br />

activities<br />

Franz Schubert<br />

for 8 - 13<br />

year<br />

Mass<br />

olds.<br />

in G Major, and a tenor solo<br />

song cycle.<br />

Call 0114 263 4335.<br />

March 21<br />

February The suffragette, 12 the silversmith<br />

Free and the Environmental novelist Activities<br />

Ecclesall Bishops’ House Woods Sawmill<br />

10.30am-12.30pm<br />

Hear about three local ladies who<br />

Nature contributed quiz to trail, art, stream literature dipping and<br />

and politics, bug but hunting who have activities now for largely 8 - 13<br />

year been olds. forgotten.<br />

Call 0114 235 6348.<br />

March 24<br />

Sheffield Chorale in Concert<br />

February St Andrew’s, 20 Psalter Lane.<br />

Why 7.30pm Not Try A Bike<br />

Greenhil A concert Park with Sheffield Chorale<br />

10am-2pm and Unite The Union brass band.<br />

Rediscover your cycling skills in<br />

Greenhill March 25Park. The rangers will<br />

provide Celebrity a bike, Concert helmet and<br />

instruction. Sheffield City Meet Hallat the Bowls<br />

Pavilion,<br />

7pm<br />

Greenhill Park.<br />

Booking<br />

Dore Male<br />

is<br />

Voice<br />

essential.<br />

Choir’s celebrity<br />

concert with Lesley Garrett.<br />

Call 0114 283 9195.<br />

Beauchief Abbey Abbey holds holds a variety a<br />

of variety services of services. and anyone For is more<br />

welcome information to attend. see page For 11. more<br />

details see the Abbey notice<br />

board.<br />

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email: office@stchads.org<br />

hurch Offices: 15 Camping Lane, Sheffield S8 0GB Page 6 website: www.stchads.org<br />

el: (0114) 274 5086<br />

St Chads Church<br />

Church Offices: 1<br />

Tel: (0114) 274 5<br />

0114 453 4716<br />

St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />

Church Office: Linden Avenue, Sheffield S8 0GA<br />

Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />

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email: office@stchads.org<br />

website: www.stchads.org


We found<br />

the angels!<br />

During Advent<br />

our Christmas<br />

Angels<br />

appeared<br />

in trees,<br />

on railings and on<br />

doorposts around the<br />

community.<br />

We invited you<br />

to bring them to<br />

our Christmas Tree<br />

Festival or to take<br />

them home – and<br />

take a selfie to share<br />

with us on Twitter,<br />

Facebook or by email.<br />

Here are a few of<br />

your pictures – we<br />

hope our angels<br />

brought joy to you this<br />

Christmas!<br />

St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />

Church Office: Linden Avenue, Sheffield S8 0GA<br />

Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />

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email: office@stchads.org<br />

website: www.stchads.org


Festival celebrates<br />

the Christmas story<br />

During Advent and Christmas St Chad’s<br />

held its first Christmas Tree Festival.<br />

Businesses, schools and church and<br />

community groups decorated trees in<br />

church on the theme of the nativity.<br />

Jemma Taylor, who organised the event, said:<br />

“It was a great opportunity to speak to local<br />

businesses and groups and welcome them into our<br />

newly re-shaped church and it has been lovely to<br />

see people come and look around.”<br />

The launch night included a brass band playing<br />

carols while visitors enjoyed sherry, mince pies<br />

and a walk around to look at the trees.<br />

Taking part in the event were Abbey Lane Primary<br />

School, Arabesque, Busy Hands, Besom, Chad’s<br />

Friends small group, Girlguiding, Hope 18, Jigsaw<br />

small group, Kingdom Kids, Memorial tree, St Chad’s<br />

choir and musicians, Natter, Recreation youth group,<br />

St Chad’s Third Age Book Group and Friendship<br />

Group, Spoon Café Bistro and Woodseats Primary<br />

School.<br />

Coming this Easter...<br />

We’ve more fun activities lined up for<br />

families in our church and community<br />

this Easter. To find out more keep<br />

visiting www.stchads.org, follow us on<br />

Facebook at stchadssheffield or<br />

see @stchadsimpact on Twitter.<br />

St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />

Church Office: Linden Avenue, Sheffield S8 0GA<br />

Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />

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email: office@stchads.org<br />

website: www.stchads.org


The Heart of it All<br />

The dictionary defi nes<br />

the heart as ‘a hollow<br />

muscular organ that<br />

pumps blood through<br />

the circulatory system by<br />

rhythmic contraction and dilation’.<br />

I think we’d all agree with that, but<br />

why on earth should something so<br />

unsightly, gruesome even, have<br />

become the symbol for something<br />

as beautiful as love? Now, we<br />

associate the heart with passion,<br />

but history tells us it<br />

wasn’t always so.<br />

The Egyptians<br />

believed that the<br />

heart was the<br />

seat of thought,<br />

it was a person’s<br />

moral compass,<br />

which is probably<br />

why it was the only<br />

organ left in the body<br />

during mummifi cation.<br />

The Ancient Greeks and<br />

Romans, who believed<br />

that the heart contained the<br />

soul, adorned their art with<br />

the stylised heart shape of ivy<br />

leaves – the plant was known to<br />

symbolise fi delity and affection<br />

– and the seed pod of another<br />

plant, silphinium, which also had a<br />

distinct heart shape. Widely grown<br />

in and around Cyrene at that time,<br />

the city grew rich from its trade. It<br />

was such a valuable commodity<br />

that they stamped the heart shape<br />

on their coins as well as their<br />

decorations.<br />

It was during the Middle Ages<br />

that people began to associate<br />

the idea of romantic love with the<br />

heart. Artists attempted to draw a<br />

human heart but, as the Catholic<br />

Church was opposed to dissecting<br />

the human body, the study of<br />

anatomy was based purely on<br />

animals and so their attempts<br />

weren’t very successful. It wasn’t<br />

until the 16th century, when laws<br />

were passed to enable the medical<br />

profession to carry out human<br />

dissection, that it was possible<br />

for artists to paint anatomically<br />

realisitic hearts. Religious art<br />

began to fl ourish and paintings of<br />

Christ showing his ‘sacred heart’<br />

were much admired and sought<br />

after. Love poems printed in<br />

heart-shaped books were popular<br />

and hearts began to<br />

feature in heraldic<br />

design. By the<br />

1600s the symbol<br />

had acquired the<br />

‘scalloped’ form<br />

with an ‘indent’ as<br />

we know it today<br />

and was being widely<br />

used as a Valentine,<br />

whilst a heart pierced<br />

by an arrow meant lovesickness<br />

or a broken heart –<br />

and people are still using the<br />

same symbols today.<br />

In 1977 the logo ‘I NY’ fi rst<br />

appeared and has since been<br />

been copied millions of times –<br />

on to cards, T shirts, mugs and<br />

all manner of things. Since the<br />

1990s the symbol has been used<br />

by restaurants to recommend<br />

healthy food choices, claiming<br />

to be low in cholesterol, and by<br />

health professionals, cookery<br />

experts, slimming organisations<br />

and even video game makers.<br />

Despite knowing that the heart<br />

has been supplanted by the brain<br />

as the place where emotions<br />

are recorded, we still prefer<br />

the familiar glossy red heart to<br />

express our feelings.<br />

Well, a brain emblazoned on a<br />

Valentine’s card just wouldn’t give<br />

the right message, would it?<br />

Chris Laude<br />

St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />

Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />

Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />

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email: offi ce@stchads.org<br />

website: www.stchads.org


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are served afterwards<br />

email info@beauchiefabbey.org.uk<br />

www.beauchiefabbey.org.uk<br />

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Loving and Caring for a<br />

Each year in India thousands of<br />

people are traffi cked. Many end<br />

up being forced to work in the<br />

country’s sex industry. Along<br />

with their children, they are often<br />

victims of physical, sexual and mental<br />

abuse, economic oppression and social<br />

rejection.<br />

St Chad’s is supporting the Sahaara<br />

project – based in Mumbai’s red light<br />

district – which is looking to bring love to<br />

these people by working intensively with<br />

over 300 women, men, and children<br />

each year to give them a way out.<br />

Sahaara runs drop-in centres in<br />

Turbhe and Bhiwandi ‘red light’ areas,<br />

catering to traffi cked women or women<br />

in prostitution. They build relationships<br />

with them, providing medical care and<br />

health awareness training as well as<br />

vocational guidance and training.<br />

The staff also provide counselling<br />

to the women; helping them with their<br />

trauma – the drop-in centre is a place<br />

where women can come to receive<br />

emotional support and feel safe.<br />

• The team at Sahaara helps<br />

the women of Mumbai and their<br />

children in a number of ways:<br />

Personal growth: Women trafficked<br />

into prostitution often have no<br />

self-esteem or self-worth. Offering<br />

emotional support through cell<br />

groups helps them address their<br />

past and build relationships to<br />

begin to give them back their<br />

identity.<br />

Medical care: This project provides<br />

education on hygiene, basic health<br />

and HIV awareness as well as<br />

providing a doctor and facilitating<br />

testing for HIV/AIDS.<br />

Skills training: Knowing a trade not<br />

only gives the women an avenue to<br />

help themselves out of poverty and<br />

abuse but also boosts self-esteem<br />

and confidence.<br />

Education: Teaching people how<br />

to read and write in Hindi enables<br />

them to become more independent.<br />

This project also provides<br />

education for the children so that<br />

they can go to mainstream schools.<br />

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Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />

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a World in Need<br />

Kajal (not her real name)<br />

was befriended by an<br />

older girl whose husband<br />

promised her a job. She<br />

left her village with him,<br />

unaware of the risks.<br />

The man sold her to a<br />

brothel where she was<br />

beaten and forced into<br />

prostitution.<br />

After two years and a<br />

dramatic escape through<br />

a skylight, she arrived at<br />

Sahaara. When she was at<br />

the centre, Kajal learnt a special<br />

kind of embroidery called Aari, so<br />

she would have a livelihood and be<br />

able to support herself. She is now a<br />

skilled worker, and continues to show<br />

great improvement. She has recently<br />

learnt Hindi literacy too. Kajal can now<br />

travel by herself and is overcoming<br />

her past traumas, becoming more<br />

expressive. There was much joy as she<br />

recently met her sister for the fi rst time<br />

in 12 years.<br />

Kajal is just one example of how the<br />

love and care Sahaara offers can turn<br />

lives around and make a difference.<br />

At St Chad’s we want to help make<br />

that difference possible across a world<br />

which is in need of God’s love for all.<br />

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Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />

Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />

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Songs and Poetry of Love<br />

Love songs have been part<br />

of life since mankind fi rst<br />

walked the earth. In fact,<br />

recent research has found<br />

that even the Neanderthals<br />

(very early humans) could sing.<br />

But singing love songs is not<br />

confi ned to humans; song birds<br />

were singing to attract a mate long<br />

before humans were around and,<br />

even before birds, whales were<br />

singing in the depths of the ocean.<br />

So, song is as old as love itself.<br />

But there are many kinds of love.<br />

On Valentine’s Day, our thoughts<br />

turn naturally to romantic love<br />

between humans. Arguably, the<br />

greatest love song of all time can<br />

be found in the Bible between<br />

Ecclesiastes and Isaiah. It is<br />

called ‘The Song of Solomon’.<br />

Whoever wrote it, and however you<br />

interpret it, it stands as a glorious<br />

celebration of human love. ‘Set me<br />

as a seal upon your heart, as a seal<br />

upon your arm, for love is strong<br />

as death …. Many waters cannot<br />

quench love, neither can the fl oods<br />

drown it’. (chapter 8, verse 6)<br />

But it seems that, for most of<br />

history, only the males of the<br />

species sang ‘in public’. In birds<br />

and whales, this remains the case.<br />

But men sang songs of war as well<br />

as love. However, it is obvious<br />

that God intended women<br />

to sing as well<br />

because He gave<br />

them the vocal<br />

equipment to<br />

do so. And<br />

sing they did;<br />

lullabies to<br />

their children<br />

and story telling,<br />

handed down in<br />

folk songs which<br />

are still around today,<br />

hundreds of years later. It was not<br />

until the 19th Century that women<br />

came into their own as singers in<br />

opera and musical theatre. The<br />

Diva and Prima Donna were born,<br />

eventually to strip the men of their<br />

fame and fortune forever.<br />

Poetry and song fl owered in the<br />

trenches of the First World War,<br />

although most of the love poems<br />

have been cast aside by scholars<br />

in favour of the graphic brutality<br />

of the so-called ‘Soldier Poets’.<br />

Most of the love poems remained<br />

unpublished but many soldiers<br />

wrote, not of their love of wives and<br />

sweethearts but of their homeland<br />

and animal companions, particularly<br />

horses, with whom the soldiers<br />

formed a particularly strong bond.<br />

Love of homeland and countryside<br />

was a high priority for most soldiers.<br />

This is what they were fi ghting<br />

for. Who can forget Ivor Gurney’s<br />

heart-rending ‘Song’ written from<br />

the trenches in 1917? The last<br />

verse reads: ‘And who loves joy<br />

as he/ That dwells in shadows?/<br />

Do not forget me quite, /O Severn<br />

meadows’.<br />

The Second World War brought<br />

hardly any poetry. Soldiers had<br />

much less time on their hands<br />

and by then we had the radio (we<br />

called it the ‘wireless’). There were<br />

however plenty of songs and artists<br />

like Gracie Fields and Vera Lynn,<br />

the Forces Sweetheart, to sing<br />

them. Who, of a certain age, can<br />

forget, ‘The White Cliffs of Dover’<br />

and ‘We’ll meet again’?<br />

But what of love songs today?<br />

Fragments downloaded from You<br />

Tube? For me, ‘No, thank you’. If<br />

you want me, you’ll fi nd me curled<br />

up with a book of verse and an<br />

old-fashioned (vinyl) record of Mario<br />

Lanza singing songs from Ivor<br />

Novello musicals.<br />

Sylvia Bennett<br />

St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />

Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />

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Christmas, Valentine’s<br />

Day, even the summer<br />

holidays are wonderful<br />

times of the year. These<br />

are times when the family<br />

gets together, love is celebrated,<br />

or families or couples go away<br />

together. What could be lovelier?<br />

But what about those of us<br />

who have lost the one we love,<br />

who for some reason or another<br />

is no longer around? These may<br />

then cease to be lovely times<br />

and instead be times of great<br />

loneliness and emptiness; times<br />

when we may even wish that we<br />

ourselves had ceased to be.<br />

My husband died 12 years ago. I<br />

felt that I myself no longer wanted<br />

to live; that life had been emptied<br />

of all that really mattered. The<br />

Bible tells us that husband and<br />

wife become one fl esh so if one of<br />

us has died then we are left with<br />

only half of us; the other half has<br />

been torn away; how painful that<br />

is. We go to the shops and have<br />

to buy for just one; we go out and<br />

discover that for everyone else<br />

life is just as it always has been;<br />

but for us that is not so. How can<br />

everyone<br />

else be so<br />

apparently<br />

happy when<br />

our lives<br />

have been<br />

radically<br />

changed?<br />

How can<br />

they be<br />

laughing<br />

when all we<br />

want to do<br />

is cry?<br />

We are<br />

all different in our reactions. I<br />

can’t remember for how long I<br />

felt that life for me was over; that<br />

now I would just be existing. How<br />

I missed the cuddles and being<br />

told that I was loved; how I missed<br />

those most intimate physical<br />

moments; holding hands as we<br />

walked. How I envied seeing<br />

others do just that. I was glad for<br />

them but so sad for me.<br />

I am a Christian and knew that<br />

the Bible told me that all things<br />

work together for good; I knew that<br />

it said that God would comfort me<br />

and that we learn to be content,<br />

oh and so much more. I did not<br />

have a crisis of faith but for what<br />

seemed like a long time I did not<br />

read my Bible or pray and these<br />

biblical truths meant little to me.<br />

I think perhaps I felt numb. But<br />

gradually things began to change<br />

though I cannot remember how<br />

long “gradually” was.<br />

I began to see that there was still<br />

life for me; that God still had things<br />

for me to do; that my Bible came<br />

to life again and I began to pray.<br />

I began to smile as I saw others<br />

holding hands, thanking God for<br />

the years I had had when I could<br />

do that. It was still strange to be in<br />

a room full of couples whilst I was<br />

alone, but I began not to feel lonely<br />

at those times. But most amazing<br />

of all, I have discovered a joy I had<br />

never known; Jesus is more real to<br />

me than ever; I see beauty where I<br />

had missed it before.<br />

So, if like me, you have lost<br />

someone you love, I can promise<br />

you that deep happiness can still<br />

come if we know Jesus. I know<br />

that is true. It has happened to me.<br />

Mary Thomas<br />

When You Have Lost a Loved One<br />

St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />

Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />

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Services at St Chad’s<br />

Sunday Services<br />

Sunday<br />

Sunday<br />

Services<br />

Services<br />

Sunday Services<br />

The 9am Service<br />

The<br />

●<br />

The<br />

Traditional 9am Service<br />

in<br />

service<br />

style<br />

The ● • Traditional Traditional 9am Service in style in style<br />

● Includes Holy Communion, a sermon & hymns<br />

● • ● Includes Traditional Includes refreshments<br />

Holy Holy in style Communion, afterwards<br />

a sermon a sermon & hymns and hymns<br />

●<br />

• Includes Taken<br />

Includes<br />

from refreshments<br />

Common Worship: afterwards<br />

● Includes Holy Communion, a sermon Holy Communion<br />

& hymns<br />

● • Taken Taken from from Common Common Worship: Worship: Holy Holy Communion Communion<br />

● Includes refreshments afterwards<br />

● Taken from Common Worship: Holy Communion<br />

Lifted,<br />

Lifted, the<br />

the – the<br />

11am Service<br />

11am 11am Service service<br />

●<br />

•<br />

Informal<br />

Informal<br />

and<br />

and<br />

relaxed<br />

relaxed<br />

in style<br />

Lifted, the 11am Service in style<br />

● Informal and relaxed in style<br />

• An An emphasis emphasis on on families families<br />

● An emphasis on families<br />

• ● Includes Informal Includes music, and music relaxed led played by in a style band by a band<br />

● • ● Includes An Refreshments emphasis music, on served led families served by from a band from 10.15-10.45am<br />

to 10.45<br />

● ● Refreshments Includes music, served led by from a band 10.15-10.45am<br />

● Refreshments served from 10.15-10.45am<br />

Weekday<br />

Weekday<br />

Services<br />

Services<br />

Weekday Services<br />

Weekday Services<br />

Morning Prayers<br />

Morning Prayers<br />

Morning Prayers<br />

Morning Prayer<br />

Evening Prayers<br />

Evening Prayers<br />

Evening Prayers<br />

Monday to Thursday at 9am<br />

Monday to Thursday at 9am<br />

Monday to Thursday at 9am<br />

• Monday to Thursday at 9am - a half-hour service<br />

of prayer and Bible readings in church<br />

Monday to Thursday at 5pm<br />

• Monday Friday at to 9am Thursday - up to at an 5pm hour of prayer, blessing<br />

for Monday the community to Thursday and at prayer 5pm ministry if requested<br />

The Thursday 10am Service<br />

The Thursday 10am Service<br />

The Traditional Thursday in style 10am Service service<br />

Traditional<br />

Taken from<br />

in<br />

Common<br />

style<br />

Worship: Holy Communion<br />

• Taken Traditional in<br />

from style<br />

Common Worship: Holy Communion<br />

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Held in the<br />

Holy<br />

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Communion,<br />

Chapel at the sermon<br />

back of church<br />

hymns<br />

• Includes Holy Communion, a sermon & and hymns hymns<br />

•<br />

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chancel<br />

Chapel<br />

at the<br />

at<br />

front<br />

the back<br />

of church<br />

of church<br />

Held in the Lady Chapel at the back of church<br />

Other Services<br />

Other Services<br />

Prayer and Praise<br />

Prayer Prayer and and Praise<br />

Sunday, February 13 at 7.30pm<br />

Sunday,<br />

Sunday,<br />

February<br />

February<br />

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at<br />

7.30pm<br />

7.30pm<br />

Ash Wednesday Service<br />

Ash Wednesday Service<br />

Wednesday, March 9 at 7.30pm<br />

Wednesday, March 9 at at 7.30pm<br />

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Sunday March 25<br />

Easter worship<br />

at St Chad’s<br />

PALM SUNDAY<br />

9am Traditional Communion Service<br />

11am<br />

Lifted Family Service<br />

Thursday March 29<br />

MAUNDY THURSDAY<br />

10am<br />

Our weekly service of Holy<br />

Communion<br />

Friday March 30<br />

GOOD FRIDAY<br />

10am<br />

1-3pm<br />

Good Friday Family Service<br />

(especially for children)<br />

Sunday April 1<br />

Meditations Around the Cross<br />

EASTER SUNDAY<br />

9am<br />

11am<br />

Easter Celebration with<br />

Holy Communion<br />

Family Service with<br />

Holy Communion<br />

Come and celebrate the risen Jesus!<br />

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If I Speak in the Tongues...<br />

Undoubtedly the most<br />

popular Bible reading<br />

to have at weddings is<br />

the thirteenth chapter of<br />

Paul’s first letter to the<br />

Corinthians. It is a fairly short<br />

passage, but has such resonance<br />

and poetry contained within it that<br />

parts of it have entered the English<br />

language even where their original<br />

context is forgotten.<br />

It is a hymn to love. Unusually<br />

it’s a passage that does not<br />

once mention God.<br />

Perhaps that is one<br />

reason why it<br />

has remained<br />

so popular;<br />

it could, in<br />

theory at least,<br />

be spoken<br />

of by those<br />

of all faiths<br />

and none.<br />

The Beatles<br />

sang that all you<br />

needed was love.<br />

Paul said something<br />

similar – not that all you<br />

need is love, but that without love<br />

you can have nothing else. If<br />

I speak in the tongues of men<br />

and of angels, if I can fathom all<br />

knowledge and mysteries, if I have<br />

a faith that can move mountains<br />

but do not have love then I am a<br />

noisy cymbal, full of sound and<br />

fury, signifying nothing (that last bit<br />

is Shakespeare, not St Paul, but<br />

Paul would have agreed).<br />

Paul then goes on to describe<br />

what love is, and he describes<br />

love not in terms of fluffy emotions<br />

as though we were settling down<br />

to a Christmas rom-com movie.<br />

Love is not baking cakes, buying<br />

flowers or giving your last Rolo<br />

to someone that you’re fond of.<br />

Love is, according to Paul, patient,<br />

kind, not envious, not boastful,<br />

not proud, not rude, not selfseeking,<br />

not easily angered but<br />

instead delights in truth, always<br />

protects, always trusts, always<br />

hopes, always perseveres. Paul<br />

was trained in the ancient art of<br />

rhetoric – the skill of speaking and<br />

writing to great effect – and as he<br />

gets into his stride so you can feel<br />

the waves of his poetry swelling<br />

and building up.<br />

Finally he ends by saying that<br />

whereas everything else will<br />

come to a natural end,<br />

love lasts eternally<br />

within a holy trinity<br />

of faith, hope and<br />

love, the greatest<br />

of which is love.<br />

It’s not<br />

surprising that so<br />

many wedding<br />

couples do choose<br />

this passage (though<br />

other fine ones are<br />

available!) but what<br />

about the absence of God?<br />

In a church wedding you might<br />

expect the Bible passage to say<br />

something about the Almighty.<br />

As I usually explain to the dewyeyed<br />

couple in the church, this<br />

passage is in fact all about God.<br />

Another possible wedding reading<br />

says bluntly “God is Love”, and,<br />

for the Christian, God and love<br />

can be interchangeable words.<br />

You change the words in the<br />

passage from love to God (“God<br />

is patient, God is kind, God is not<br />

easily angered etc…”) and you<br />

would still get the sense of the<br />

hymn. God is the author of love<br />

and is at the heart of human love.<br />

That is one of the messages that I<br />

try to bring across to the wonderful<br />

celebration that is marriage.<br />

Rev Toby Hole<br />

St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />

Church Office: Linden Avenue, Sheffield S8 0GA<br />

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Loving the P<br />

As humans, we are programmed<br />

to seek community. It is when<br />

we live in community that we<br />

harness the best in each other.<br />

We may not always get on with<br />

our neighbours but for good or bad they<br />

are there and we will be happier and<br />

be more fulfi lled if we seek their welfare<br />

because our welfare is tied in with<br />

theirs in ways that we cannot always<br />

appreciate. Only when we grasp this<br />

truth will we be truly alive.<br />

Our society, currently, is a deeply<br />

individualistic one. We have<br />

largely lost the concept of<br />

helping others because we<br />

feel that we need to focus<br />

on ourselves and those<br />

closest to us and only<br />

then can we help others.<br />

I am not sure that will<br />

work in the long term<br />

because we will never<br />

have enough and only<br />

when we put the needs<br />

of others before ourselves<br />

will we see real growth in<br />

them and ourselves, although maybe<br />

not in the ways we might expect. If we<br />

wish to seek real change then we need<br />

community because the ‘whole is greater<br />

than the sum of the parts’. Only by<br />

working together can we bring about real<br />

change.<br />

Jean Vanier the founder of L’Arche<br />

communities which is spread over 37<br />

countries and is an organisation for<br />

people with developmental diffi culties<br />

and those who support them, put it like<br />

this: “One of the marvellous things<br />

about community is that it enables us to<br />

welcome and help people in a way we<br />

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People Around You<br />

YOUR NEIGHBOUR NEEDS<br />

couldn’t as individuals. When we pool<br />

our strength and share the work and<br />

responsibility, we can welcome many<br />

people, even those in deep distress, and<br />

perhaps help them fi nd self-confi dence<br />

and inner healing.”<br />

Or to put it another way to quote John<br />

Donne – ‘no man is an island’ – we all<br />

need each other even if we choose not<br />

recognise it.<br />

Some people withdraw from society but<br />

others fi nd themselves isolated through<br />

no fault of their own. It is to those people<br />

that our thoughts must turn. Often they<br />

are the weakest and least self-suffi cient<br />

in our society and as such need our<br />

loving attention. It is true that how we<br />

treat the vulnerable in our society is a<br />

refl ection of the health of our society as<br />

a whole. If as a society we treat those<br />

who are especially vulnerable – the very<br />

young, the elderly, those living on the<br />

margins and those who are struggling<br />

with life – with love and care then we will<br />

have a better society in which to live.<br />

There was a time when mothers were<br />

the kingpin of the community. They<br />

knew whose husband had been made<br />

redundant and who would welcome a<br />

food parcel. They knew who had been in<br />

hospital and who would value a hot meal<br />

being taken round. They would know<br />

when a marriage had broken down and<br />

who needed a listening ear.<br />

We all need each other at times,<br />

however society changes and some of<br />

the benefi ts of community are lost – but<br />

this also creates other opportunities if we<br />

choose to seek them out. There may well<br />

be people who are living near us who<br />

have no one to turn to and need a good<br />

neighbour – is that you?<br />

Steve Winks<br />

St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />

Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />

Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />

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Film Focus on Love<br />

I<br />

love fi lms. I have just<br />

discovered a wonderful<br />

TV channel called Talking<br />

Pictures which shows old<br />

movies 24 hours a day.<br />

As a test of my memory I try to<br />

reel off all the old actors’ names,<br />

especially from the 50s and 60s.<br />

But, let me ask you a question...<br />

Are there still ‘women’s pictures’<br />

and ‘movies for men’? There<br />

shouldn’t be, but there are. The<br />

latter is actually a movie cable<br />

channel showing a mixture of<br />

war fi lms, westerns and “action”<br />

movies. Do men watch it? I<br />

certainly don’t. But how do you<br />

tell it’s a ‘women’s picture’? Well,<br />

one of the ways is to see if the<br />

word ‘love’ is in the title. Put love<br />

in the title and you are guaranteed<br />

to interest women of a certain age<br />

and inclination. Or you used to be.<br />

In this age of equality, many<br />

people of either gender still have<br />

favourites, based on their gender. I<br />

don’t include myself in this. A good<br />

fi lm is a good fi lm, regardless<br />

of who is acting, the theme, the<br />

setting or the language spoken.<br />

I can watch a fi lm about love, as<br />

long as it isn’t mawkish, sugary,<br />

sentimental or stereotypical. I<br />

am one of the few people never<br />

to watch The Sound of Music so<br />

I know what<br />

I am talking<br />

about!<br />

Back to<br />

fi lm titles<br />

containing<br />

the word love.<br />

Love Story<br />

and Love<br />

Actually will<br />

have attracted<br />

many females<br />

when they<br />

were released<br />

but perhaps not so much now.<br />

I think that James Bond movies<br />

attract males and females alike<br />

but in the 60s when To Russia<br />

With Love came out more men<br />

would have caught it than women.<br />

What else have we got? The Love<br />

Bug was for children. To Sir, With<br />

Love looked at social problems.<br />

Shakespeare in Love was a<br />

comedy. Women in Love was<br />

based on a classic novel.<br />

Putting love in the title no<br />

longer means that the movie will<br />

be romantic. Not so in the 50s<br />

when we had Love is a Many<br />

Splendoured Thing and Love in<br />

the Afternoon. Neither fi lm is as<br />

raunchy as the title suggests, by<br />

the way. There are thousands of<br />

fi lms whose title includes that little<br />

word. We even have Love in the<br />

Time of Cholera! and Capitalism:<br />

A Love Story. Several Woody Allen<br />

fi lms use the word love.<br />

Writing is not easy, be it novels,<br />

plays or fi lm scripts. But one of<br />

the hardest things is to come up<br />

with a title. My cynical view is<br />

that fi lm producers and the fi lm<br />

distributors will persuade writers<br />

and directors to include the word<br />

love in the title so that their piece<br />

of work will attract more punters<br />

and make more money at the box<br />

offi ce. They could use the word<br />

‘sex’ but that may put some people<br />

off. Using ‘love’ will appeal to<br />

many cinema visitors, looking for<br />

escapism and romance. Perhaps<br />

not so much now as in the 40s<br />

and 50s but it probably still has<br />

an effect. In a list of 100 movies<br />

voted the worst of all time, I found<br />

only one with ‘love’ in the title. At<br />

Long Last Love made in 1975 and<br />

starring Burt Reynolds. Check it<br />

out. It’s on Netfl ix.<br />

David Manning<br />

St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />

Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />

Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />

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Ingredients<br />

500g strong white flour<br />

50g caster sugar<br />

2tsp fast action/easy blend yeast<br />

50g butter, melted and cooled<br />

1tsp salt<br />

2 eggs, beaten<br />

200ml milk<br />

200g mixed dried fruit<br />

2tsp cinnamon<br />

1tsp mixed spice<br />

For the glaze<br />

50g granulated<br />

sugar<br />

a little milk<br />

Method<br />

Put the flour and salt in a large<br />

bowl. Stir in the caster sugar, yeast<br />

and melted butter. Add the eggs,<br />

enough milk to form a soft dough<br />

and then the spices and fruit.<br />

Knead the dough on a fl oured<br />

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Shape into buns and arrange<br />

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Cover and leave to<br />

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Redefi ne the<br />

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Bake for 15 mins at<br />

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St Valentine<br />

February 14 is a day for<br />

lovers – when cards and<br />

chocolates arrive from<br />

mystery senders and the<br />

price of red roses soars in<br />

our fl orists.<br />

But what’s the history of St<br />

Valentine – the man who gives his<br />

name to this special day?<br />

St Valentine is known to be<br />

a real person who died<br />

around AD 270 but the<br />

truth about his life<br />

and identity is a bit of<br />

a mystery. There are<br />

various myths and<br />

legends about the<br />

man and why he is<br />

celebrated.<br />

In one account,<br />

Valentine is described as a<br />

temple priest who was beheaded<br />

near Rome by the emperor<br />

Claudius II for helping Christian<br />

couples to wed. Another account<br />

says that he was the Bishop of<br />

Terni, also martyred by Claudius II<br />

on the outskirts of Rome.<br />

Because of the similarities<br />

in these, they could be the<br />

same person – a man who was<br />

beheaded for performing Christian<br />

weddings despite Claudius II<br />

banning young Roman men from<br />

being married. Claudius felt that<br />

single men made better soldiers as<br />

they would be more willing to die.<br />

St Valentine was also found<br />

guilty of ministering to Christians<br />

– persecuted under the Roman<br />

Empire.<br />

As well as this St Valentine,<br />

there were many others with<br />

the same name – all killed<br />

for their faith. The name<br />

was popular up until the<br />

eighth century AD and<br />

means strong, worthy<br />

or powerful. The one<br />

we now celebrate on<br />

February 14 is officially<br />

known as St Valentine of<br />

Rome.<br />

In the fifth century Pope<br />

Gelasius declared February 14 as<br />

St Valentine’s Day, although it was<br />

not until the 14th century that the<br />

day became associated with love.<br />

Whatever the true story is, this<br />

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84 Charing Cross Road<br />

by Helene Hanff<br />

One of my all-time<br />

favourite books, 84<br />

Charing Cross Road<br />

was fi rst published in<br />

1970. A true story, it is<br />

written in the form of a series of<br />

letters from the author, Helene<br />

Hanff, an impoverished American<br />

writer, to Frank Doel, head buyer<br />

of Marks & Co, antiquarian<br />

booksellers, Charing Cross Road.<br />

When Hanff reads an<br />

advertisement for Marks & Co. in<br />

a magazine she writes to them<br />

requesting somewhat obscure<br />

books and publications which<br />

she cannot obtain in her native<br />

New York. Thus begins a 20-year<br />

correspondence between her and<br />

Frank Doel.<br />

The letters at fi rst are short<br />

and rather witty as she details<br />

her likes and dislikes of the<br />

various book and translations she<br />

receives. Frank is always aware<br />

that Helene’s income is limited<br />

and engages the help of the other<br />

members of staff to help fi nd<br />

books which will suit her taste.<br />

Helene’s joy when she opens<br />

her parcels is infectious. She<br />

writes of the beauty of leather<br />

bound fi rst editions and the gold<br />

tooling and wonderful illustrations.<br />

She says that there is nothing<br />

like the touch and smell of a<br />

beautifully produced pamphlet or<br />

book. Of being able to turn the<br />

pages and sense that someone<br />

else had enjoyed the book before<br />

her.<br />

As the years progress so the<br />

friendship between the two people<br />

develops and little personal<br />

details emerge about family, other<br />

members of staff and observations<br />

on their struggles<br />

with life in post<br />

WW2, when certain<br />

foodstuffs were hard<br />

to come by.<br />

Insights into<br />

their lives are both<br />

charming and<br />

heartwarming.<br />

Helene begins to<br />

send food parcels<br />

and Christmas<br />

and birthday gifts,<br />

as by now she is<br />

corresponding with<br />

some of the staff<br />

as well. They discuss such topics<br />

as the Coronation of Queen<br />

Elizabeth and how to make a<br />

good Yorkshire Pudding!<br />

In 1987 a film was made of<br />

the book starring Anne Bancroft<br />

as Helene, Anthony Hopkins as<br />

Frank and Judy Dench as Frank’s<br />

wife. This is one of the occasions<br />

where I think the film enhances<br />

the book. As I read the book again<br />

I can hear the tapping of Helene’s<br />

old typewriter and visualise Frank<br />

attending house sales in search<br />

of antiquarian books. I can put a<br />

face to each character, because<br />

it is brilliantly cast, and enjoy the<br />

passing of time as each character<br />

develops. It is a book which may<br />

be read in one sitting or one letter<br />

at a time. I heartily recommend it.<br />

Helene could never afford<br />

to visit the shop until 1971.<br />

The shop was by then empty.<br />

Frank Doel died in 1968 from<br />

peritonitis. Helene continued a<br />

correspondence with his wife.<br />

84 Charing Cross Road has a<br />

commemorative plaque affixed<br />

to the wall. Sadly no longer a<br />

bookshop but a McDonalds.<br />

Vicki Harris is a member of St<br />

Chad’s Third Age Book Group<br />

Book Review<br />

St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />

Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />

Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />

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Don’t Lose Your Humanity<br />

Imagine ... if an organic pod<br />

was growing in your cellar,<br />

slowly turning into a replica of<br />

you, until you fell asleep and it<br />

became you, and the original<br />

you wasn’t needed any more,<br />

because you were now one of the<br />

Pod People.<br />

That is essentially the plot of the<br />

1956 movie Invasion of the Body<br />

Snatchers. Spores drifting in outer<br />

space float to earth in Santa Mira, a<br />

typical American small town, where<br />

everyone knows everyone else –<br />

until the spores grow into the pods<br />

which become the townspeople<br />

and the other townspeople begin to<br />

realise they don’t know them any<br />

more. Then they, too, are taken<br />

over by the alien invaders. As the<br />

Pod People distribute more and<br />

more pods beyond Santa Mira, they<br />

threaten a takeover of the entire<br />

planet!<br />

OK, so it’s science fiction, which<br />

by its nature usually contains more<br />

fiction than science. In fact, there<br />

is so much suspension of reality<br />

between its covers or, in this case,<br />

between the first and last reels, that<br />

the science is usually manipulated<br />

to set, further and finally resolve<br />

the plot. And the plot can’t be lost,<br />

because ultimately it is subservient<br />

to the story’s metaphors, which<br />

Isaac Asimov, author of I, Robot and<br />

Fantastic Voyage, said we ignore at<br />

our peril.<br />

What, then, are the metaphors in<br />

Invasion of the Body Snatchers that<br />

we must not ignore?<br />

At the time of the film’s release, the<br />

United States was recovering from<br />

Senator Joe McCarthy’s investigation<br />

into communist infiltration, first<br />

of the State Department and<br />

then everywhere else, including<br />

Hollywood. However, in an interview<br />

on its 1998 DVD release, lead actor<br />

Kevin McCarthy (no relation) said<br />

he was not aware of any political<br />

allegory, when it was made. And in I<br />

Thought We Were Making Movies,<br />

Not History, Walter Mirisch also<br />

recalls that producer Walter Wanger,<br />

director Don Siegel, scriptwriter Dan<br />

Mainwaring, and Jack Finney, author<br />

of The Body Snatchers, the novel<br />

which inspired the movie, never saw<br />

it as ‘anything other than a thriller,<br />

pure and simple’.<br />

And thrill us this movie certainly<br />

does – as its story takes us deeper<br />

than politics, suggested or real,<br />

to the very heart of our human<br />

condition. And shows us what would<br />

happen, if we ever lost our humanity,<br />

because it’s not only bodies which<br />

are being snatched: as the aliens<br />

assume their sleeping victims’<br />

identities, they leave their humanity<br />

behind. All it takes is to nod off for a<br />

moment.<br />

While falling asleep as a<br />

democratic society could lead to a<br />

totalitarian future, or as somnolent<br />

individuals help bring that about,<br />

whatever were left would still have<br />

people in it, with all the emotions of<br />

which humans are capable, including<br />

love. The Pod People, however,<br />

are incapable of love – or hate, or<br />

anything in between. They just are,<br />

existing only to invade our world,<br />

dehumanise it and move on.<br />

‘Join us,’ they advise Dr Miles J<br />

Bennell, last man standing in Santa<br />

Mira, ‘life will be much simpler and<br />

better.’<br />

He is not convinced – and nor<br />

should we be. While there are seven<br />

billion of us, we are all individuals,<br />

with all that is human programmed<br />

in from birth. We lose our humanity<br />

at our peril. We must not nod off and<br />

allow that to happen.<br />

If Invasion of the Body Snatchers<br />

teaches us anything, I believe it<br />

teaches us that.<br />

Stephen Dowson<br />

St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />

Church Office: Linden Avenue, Sheffield S8 0GA<br />

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If you live in the Woodseats or<br />

Beauchief area, St Chad’s would be<br />

delighted to help you, whether it is<br />

planning the Big Day or saying goodbye<br />

to a loved one.<br />

For weddings please contact St Chad’s<br />

church offi ce. For funerals please tell<br />

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to have a church service.<br />

• If you have had a new baby and would<br />

like to celebrate that baby’s birth with<br />

a service in church then please come<br />

to one of our thanksgiving and baptism<br />

mornings at St Chad’s.<br />

The morning will<br />

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Please call the<br />

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CHURCH OFFICE 274 5086<br />

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Readers<br />

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Church Offi ce: Linden Avenue, Sheffi eld S8 0GA<br />

Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />

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St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />

Church Office: Linden Avenue, Sheffield S8 0GA<br />

Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />

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email: office@stchads.org<br />

website: www.stchads.org


764 Chesterfield Road, Woodseats, Sheffield, S8 0SE<br />

St Chad’s Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats<br />

Church Office: Linden Avenue, Sheffield S8 0GA<br />

Tel: (0114) 274 5086<br />

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email: office@stchads.org<br />

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