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Gentle Ways To Overcome Depression

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Celebrate Rather than Isolate<br />

When we are depressed and hurting emotionally,<br />

the natural tendency is to withdraw,<br />

retreat and isolate ourselves. However, a<br />

wiser course of action is to seek out increasing social<br />

opportunities and the solaces which friends<br />

can bring. Even though this is difficult when feeling<br />

depressed, choose to celebrate life rather than<br />

isolate yourself. Fight the urge to be alone. Selfimposed<br />

isolation only accentuates depression.<br />

Recently, a man wrote advice columnist<br />

Dear Abby saying he had retired to a new community<br />

and experienced depression, which has<br />

now caused him to regret the move. Other readers<br />

of the column responded to the man’s plight<br />

with one woman saying she and her husband<br />

recently relocated to Florida. “We don’t miss<br />

the snow and ice we left behind one bit. Yes, it’s<br />

hard to pick up and move to a new area where<br />

you know no one. The key is to get out there<br />

and meet as many new people as you can.” The<br />

writer explained that within three months of<br />

moving, she volunteered to be on the Welcoming<br />

Committee, which brought her in contact with<br />

many new members of the community. She also<br />

joined a volunteer group which provides used<br />

children’s clothing, blankets and sweaters for

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