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Some classmates would mock my<br />

speech when I shared answers in the<br />

class. The teasing did not deter me<br />

from sharing. We were also teased<br />

because of our hairdos. My mother<br />

would put fresh curls in our hair every<br />

day. Some curious girls would pull and<br />

tug at our curls to watch them bounce<br />

back; they didn’t understand how our<br />

curls were made.<br />

They fought back with their fists and<br />

curses in french creole...<br />

I got into fistfights almost<br />

on a daily basis to protect<br />

my sister and me. I would<br />

remember who the<br />

teasers were and meet<br />

with them after school<br />

(lol). I would even curse<br />

them out loudly in<br />

patois. They had no<br />

idea what those words<br />

meant, but it made me feel<br />

better. Thank goodness my<br />

parents were not around to hear<br />

those curses.<br />

Haha…<br />

My teasers and bullies faced<br />

consequences for their undesirable<br />

actions and were warned against<br />

continuing their behavior. Thankfully, I<br />

had teachers who were nurturing and<br />

went above and beyond to help<br />

acclimatize me to the classroom and the<br />

American school system. I was given<br />

classroom responsibilities such as<br />

watering classroom plants and feeding<br />

the pet rabbit, gerbil and snake.<br />

My teacher also made me line leader<br />

sometimes.<br />

Bekha survived the school environment and<br />

went on to becoming a teacher herself...<br />

I am an educator and have taught for 18 years. I<br />

am currently a clinical reading specialist and<br />

teacher trainer, working at my own business<br />

in Antigua. And recently became an author.<br />

But that was not always been Bekha's dream...<br />

My earliest dream was to<br />

become Miss Universe and<br />

then a radio disc jockey, but<br />

both those ideas died quickly<br />

(lol).<br />

I thought about<br />

becoming an actress, and<br />

I still have some<br />

thoughts about it (side<br />

eye with a grin). Just<br />

acting in commercials<br />

though,<br />

not motion pictures. I think I’m quite shy,<br />

yet sometimes I love to perform on a stage<br />

or in front of a camera. I can’t explain this<br />

phenomenon (lol).<br />

After high school I still had not a clue what I<br />

wanted to do. Becoming a doctor or a lawyer<br />

or any of those high profile jobs that appeal to<br />

Caribbean parents, I felt were quite overrated.<br />

I wanted to pursue a career that I was<br />

passionate about, not a career that my parents<br />

can brag about, but I had no interest in.<br />

Some of her earlier jobs...<br />

I started out by working for several years in

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