Freestyle Lifestyle Handbook

The Freestyle 

Lifestyle Handbook 

THE 

ULTIMATE 

GUIDE TO 

CREATING 

YOUR 

FREESTYLE 

LIFESTYLE 

DESTRIE MONIS

Contents 

01 

02 

Lifestyle Freestyle 

Your Head in the Game 

Getting 

03 

04 

Your Moves Develop 

Yourself Express 

05 

Putting Your Moves Together

Hey There! 

Awesome to connect with you! 

If you’re reading this eBook, then we already have something awesome in 

common… 

We both want to create a lifestyle that frees us up from the traditional 9 to 5 

rat race routine! 

Am I right?! 

You were probably looking around online for a simpler way to be able to ditch 

that soul-sucking job and create an income stream around something else that 

you just LOVE to do. 

I was the same way… 

And I'm here to show you that it is completely possible to do just that! 

Watch this video for a special message and tips on how to create your 

Freestyle Lifestyle now. 

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WHY I CREATED THIS 

I created this workbook because I wanted to show people that they can take 

something that they already love, are extremely passionate about, know how 

to do really well and create what I call a “Freestyle Lifestyle.” 

I’ll define Freestyle Lifestyle later on in this workbook but to put it simply, I see 

it as a lifestyle that allows you to have control over your schedule, spend more 

time with your family, and spend more time doing the things that you really love 

to do. 

To make a living from doing what you absolutely love to do. To be able to come 

and go as you please and not have to worry about asking for time off or having 

the money to take a spontaneous trip when you want to. 

You see a few years ago, I was just like you… 

I was trying to figure out how to put the pieces together on how to build 

something online, around the things that I already knew how to do and love but 

was completely confused about how to make it happen. 

There is so much information out there on the Internet that I found myself 

buying course after course, program after program, and wishing that there was 

something else out there that just made the process much more simple. 

And that’s why I put this workbook together, as a guide to save you years off of 

the learning curve and get straight to the point on the steps it really takes to 

create a lifestyle around your passions. 

Use this workbook as a guidethat you can come back to any time you feel 

stuck on what to do next to create your ideal lifestyle. We’re going to dive 

deep, so hold onto your hat and let me show you how simple it can be to create 

your Freestyle Lifestyle! 


Before we get started… 

How fulfilled and passionate are you about what you do to make a living right 

now? (One being the least fulfilled and ten being the highest) 

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 

Do you often find yourself at work thinking 

about something else that you would rather be doing? 

Yes 

No 

What is that OTHER thing that you would rather be doing and make a living with? 

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01 

Freestyle Lifestyle

FREESTYLE LIFESTYLE 

What is a Freestyle Lifestyle? 

I define a Freestyle Lifestyle as a lifestyle that provides you with the freedom to 

do what you want with your time, work remotely from anywhere in the world with 

only a cellphone and a laptop, taking trips with your family for more than 2 weeks 

out of the year,and gives you the ability to experience different cultures and all 

that life has to offer. 

It will give you the flexibility to try new things and the time to pick up the things 

that you loved to do but don't have time for anymore. If you wanted to pick up a 

dance class in the middle of the day or have the ability to take your family to the 

beach in the middle of the week, when everyone else is at work, you can! 

That's what a Freestyle Lifestyle means to me, to be able to break away from 

the traditional corporate routine and be spontaneous and adventurous enough 

to try new things! 


WHAT DOES A FREESTYLE LIFESTYLE MEAN TO YOU? 

Write your definition of a Freestyle Lifestyle in the box below: 


OLD SCHOOL VS NEW SCHOOL 

As a millennial, I followed the traditional path that my parents taught me about 

what it would take to become successful. 

The “Old School” advice of going to school, getting good grades, finding a high 

paying job after you graduate and working for a corporation for forty plus years. 

This advice was great advice for success BEFORE the age of the Internet. 

Our parents or grandparents worked in manufacturing jobs during the boom of 

the industrial revolution and the company that they worked for would take care 

of them for the rest of their careers and also take care of their employees during 

their retirement. 

That success plan doesn’t work anymore. 

Yet our traditional school system still caters to this plan. 

Students get into thousands of dollars of debt for a piece of paper that doesn't 

guarantee them a job to help them pay off their debt , after they graduate. 

We’re living though a new time now! 

Where people can literally take their laptops and cellphones to work remotely 

from any corner of the world, thanks to the Internet. 

The problem is the majority of people out there are still following the old school 

plan of becoming successful, because they haven't been exposed to a different 

plan or a better way of living life and creating success. 


OLD SCHOOL VS NEW SCHOOL 

Have you heard the phrase that "Millennials Are Lazy" or "Millennials are 

Entitled?" 

There are other generations out there that believe this and yet, here I am with 

a Mechanical Engineering degree and a young family, still hearing these 

stereotypes about my generation when I followed the old school plan of 

becoming successful to a T. 

Not all milliennials are lazy and the only reason reason they may appear this 

way is because they are following the old school advice and haven't been 

shown a success path that allows them to live life in the way that millennials 

want to live. 

To make an impact, work remotely from anywhere in the world, to travel, and 

create an income from your passions. 

The “New School” plan allows you the freedom to literally 

#FreestyleYourLifestyle and create a life that allows you to travel the world 

and work remotely from anywhere that has an Internet connection and 

creates a freedom lifestyle to try new things and live your life to the fullest. 

You can literally work remotely from a coffee shop in Paris or sitting on the 

beach in Hawaii or on top of a high rise in New York City… 

Literally anywhere you can imagine! But you need to learn the skills it takes to 

get you there. 

And that’s what I’m here to share with you in the Ultimate Guide to Creating 

Your Freestyle Lifestyle! 


WHAT YOU NEED TO CREATE A FREESTYLE LIFESTYLE 

Mindset - Skills - Expression 

The first thing you’re going to need to do to create the freestyle lifestyle you 

desire is to challenge the old beliefs you were taught about how to become 

successful. 

Your mindset is going to be challenged based on what you were taught growing 

up. 

I went through the same process when I found out this New School way of 

becoming successful was possible. And with the help of mentors along the way, I 

found my own path to create my Freestyle Lifestyle. 

“A mentor is someone who 

sees more talent and 

ability within you, than you 

see in yourself, and helps 

bring it out of you,” 

-Bob Proctor 

Click Here to get Mentorship from Destrie to help you 

put together a game plan for Your Freestyle Lifestyle! 


WHAT YOU NEED TO CREATE A FREESTYLE LIFESTYLE 

The second thing you’re going to need are a different set of skills that you most 

likely weren't taught when you were in school. 

I’m going to call these skills “Moves.” 

These different moves, just like in a breakdancing set, are going to lead you into 

your own style and way of expressing yourself, once you master the basics. 

Most people want to jump into the fancy moves first, before they master the 

basics. 

Make sure you master the fundamental moves first, before trying to get fancy, 

otherwise you won't get the results that you desire. 

The third piece of the puzzle is Expression. 

Expression is all about putting your own personality and your own personal flare 

into your skills / your moves, so that you have the ability to Freestyle Your 

Lifestyle and express everything you do in your life around the things that you 

are passionate about. 


Your Head Getting 

the Game In 

02

MINDSET 

Mindset is such a huge part of the success game. Successful people attribute 

mindset and their mentors to their success. Your beliefs are going to have to 

change if you want to create a freestyle lifestyle. 

Let’s take a look at your current set of beliefs: 

"Keep your thoughts positive because your thoughts become your words. 

Keep your words positive because your words become your behavior. 

Keep your behavior positive because your behavior becomes your habits. 

Keep your habits positive because your habits become your values. Keep 

your values positive because your values become your destiny." 

-Mahatma Gandhi 

What have you been told when you were growing up about what 

it takes to become successful? Write your ideas and insights in 

the box below: 


Mindset 

Who do you admire or follow online that DID NOT follow this 

plan? 

Here are some people that I follow online who have created the success or the 

lifestyle that I want: 

Kinjaz, Jabbawockeez, Mike Vestil, Tim Ferris, Russell Brunson, 

Gary Vaynerchuk, Dwane Johnson, Bruno Mars, Ed Sheeran 

Each of them have built up a following or audience of people who love and adore 

them. It's possible to create the life that you want when you build up a following 

of people that love you. 

With the right skills and guidance, do you believe it is possible to become 

successful without following the Old School traditional plan (Going to 

school, getting good grades, finding a high paying job after you graduate 

and work for a corporation for 40 years) ? Circle Your Choice: 

Heck Yes! 

Not Really 


MINDSET 

3 Resources to Help You Create Your Freestyle Lifestyle 

1. Time 

2. Energy 

3. Money 

Take a look at your current life, schedule, and responsibilities. 

Which of these resources can you invest into creating your freestyle lifestyle? 

If you don’t have a lot of money, you can invest your time. 

If you don’t have enough time, then you can invest your money. 

And when you do decide to work on your Freestyle Lifestyle, make sure that you 

put as much energy and focus as you can and work hard to create the ultimate 

lifestyle that you want. 


Your Developing 

Moves 

03

DEVELOPING YOUR MOVES 

Creating Your Freestyle Lifestyle is going to take a different set of skills that you 

may have not learned when you were in school. 

You’re going to have to stretch and grow when you learn and apply these skills. 

Your first move is going to be to create a personal brand… 

“It’s important to build a personal brand because it’s the only thing 

you’re going to have. Your reputation online and in the new business 

world is pretty much the game, so you’ve got to be a good person. You 

can’t hide anything and more importantly, you’ve got to be out there 

at some level.” -Gary Vaynerchuk 

What is a Personal Brand? 

A personal brand is how you will stand out in the age of the Internet and how 

people are going to remember you and what you do. 

There are 3 elements to creating a personal brand: 

1. Who you are 

2. How you stand out 

3. How you make people feel 



Let’s start crafting your personal brand now: 

• Who are you? 

• What do you love to do that you could spend days just talking about? 

• What do you want to be known for? 

• Who do you want to serve? 

Write your insights in the box below: 



What can make you stand out 

more than other people in the same space? 

When people think of your personal brand, 

how do you want them to feel? 


DEVELOPING Developing Your YOUR Moves MOVES 

Building Up Your Following 

Back in the Old School days, the person with the biggest Rolodex won. It was all 

about WHO you know. 

In the New School days, the person with the best relationships with their online 

following wins. Today, it's all about who KNOWS you! 

It takes time to build up a loyal following of people who just love everything 

that you do. Take the time to develop real relationships with people who 

engage with you online and in time, you will have a following of raving fans. 

Building up your following means that you use social media platforms to build 

relationships with people that vibe with you and what you’re all about. 

Not everyone is going to like you and that’s okay. You want to build an 

audience of people who relate to you the most. Your vibe will attract your tribe. 

These people are the ones who just can’t wait for you to put out a piece of 

content because they just love everything you do! 



There are 3 simple steps to building up your following: 

1. Create High Quality Content 

2. Develop a Relationship with your Audience 

3. Engage Your Audience 

Building a following is all about creating relationships. 

Take the time to care about others and actually listen to their concerns, it 

will help you think of content ideas that can help them solve their problems 

and they will love you for it! 

Capturing Your Freestyle 

One of the best ways to build a relationship with your following, is video. 

Video allows people to see and hear you, not just responding to impersonal 

text messages back and forth. Video makes the online world more personable 

and allows you to capture moments when you can relate the most to people. 

If you’re deathly afraid to get in front of the camera and speak your truths on 

the Internet, especially if it’s LIVE video, don’t be. 

People relate to people who are not perfect but have the courage to be 

vulnerable. It’s difficult to relate to perfection. 

Document your journey to creating your Freestyle Lifestyle and I’m sure there 

will be people out there who can relate to the challenges you face on your 

journey. 



Online Marketing 

The next set of moves will require you to make your personal brand known out 

there in the Internet. 

To create your Freestyle Lifestyle you’re going to need to learn the move 

of marketing online. 

You can have the best personal brand with amazing products and services to 

help people, but if people don't know about you, your personal brand doesnt 

exist. 

Have you ever seen someone playing the guitar but you were too far away to 

hear them? 

Think of online marketing as an amplifier. Without plugging into an amp, people 

can’t hear your song. Once you’re clear on your personal brand and your 

message, your marketing efforts will get your message heard. 

“A Brand is your song and 

Marketing is your microphone.” 

-Julia Baxter 


04 

Express Yourself

EXPRESS YOURSELF 

When I was learning how to breakdance, all of my mentors told me that they could 

teach me the moves but there was one element that they couldn't teach… 

That one element that couldn’t be taught was developing your own unique style. 

Once you learn the moves to create your Freestyle Lifestyle, that's not the end of 

it. 

You have to learn how to put in your own personality and your own unique spin 

on your content. 

No two people are born exactly the same. Even identical twins have different 

perspectives on the world! 

Take a page from one of Dr. Seuss' books: 

"Why fit in when you 

were born to Stand 

Out!" -Dr. Seuss 


EXPRESS YOURSELF 

Get Mentored 

By now, I hope that your eyes are open to a different way, a New School way, that 

you can live your life. 

Breaking out of the Old School way of being successful can take some time and 

some growing pains. I know because I’ve been there. 

But if you really have a strong desire to become successful in the New School 

way, I hope that you take this to heart… 

Get in touch with a mentor who can help guide you through the process of 

creating your Freestyle Lifestyle. 


Your Putting 

Together Moves 

05

PUTTING YOUR MOVES TOGETHER 

Every move you learned in this workbook flows together. 

The first thing that you defined is your personal brand, then building your 

following, then capturing your freestyle, online marketing and expressing 

yourself. 

These moves by themselves won't help you to build your Freestyle Lifestyle. 

When these moves are put together, that's where the magic happens. 

Each of these pieces flows seamlessly together. 

If you're missing one piece, it will be difficult to create the lifestyle you want. 

Take the time to master each of these moves by themselves first, then put 

them together. 

When I was learning how to breakdance, I would spend weeks or months 

focusing my efforts on mastering one move before I moved on. 

If you want to create your Freestyle Lifestyle, make sure that you master 

one move first before moving on. 

We live in a society where everyone wants instant gratification, they want 

things right now. But when it comes to creating the Freestyle you want in 

your life, remember it takes time to master these skills. Success is born 

from habits. 

Give yourself the time and discipline to develop these skills to ultimately 

create your Freestyle Lifestyle! 


PUTTING YOUR MOVES TOGETHER 

Putting all of these moves together will help you create your Freestyle Lifestyle. 

When you master the moves of creating your personal brand, building your 

following, capturing your freestyle, learning online marketing, and expressing 

yourself, the world can be a very exciting place to live in! 

If you need help putting your Freestyle Lifestyle plan together… 

get in touch with me! 

Click the button below and let's schedule a time to chat! 

We will discover what moves you have so far and put together a plan that 

will allow you to Freestyle Your Lifestyle! 

Discover Your Freestyle! 

Find out how you can Discover Your Freestyle with Destrie here: 


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