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the orland park prairie | July 5, 2018 | 13<br />

Social snapshot<br />

Top Web Stories<br />

From opprairie.com as of Friday, June 29<br />

from the editor<br />

Comments for those left behind<br />

1. Police say man shot woman multiple<br />

times before killing himself outside P.F.<br />

Chang’s<br />

2. News from Your Neighbors: Dead rabbit<br />

found in Tinley Park infected with rare<br />

disease, more<br />

3. Former St. Michael School football<br />

standouts reflect on their dominant<br />

Widget season of 2011<br />

4. Neighbor saves Orland Park home by<br />

reporting fire<br />

5. Joey’s set to expand with pizzeria<br />

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The Bridge Teen Center posted the following<br />

note on June 26, “Thank you Justin Allgaier<br />

(Official Page) for stopping by and inspiring<br />

our teens with your stories and showing us<br />

your gear. Good luck this weekend during<br />

your race at Chicagoland Speedway!”<br />

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BILL JONES<br />

bill@opprairie.com<br />

I<br />

welcome feedback.<br />

And as much as one<br />

end of the spectrum may<br />

be easier to take than the other,<br />

I welcome feedback both<br />

positive and negative — so<br />

long as it’s constructive.<br />

Good feedback can reaffirm<br />

the work we put into a<br />

particular piece. It can help<br />

us better understand the<br />

impact we have on people’s<br />

lives. It, frankly, can give<br />

us an ego boost, if only for<br />

a limited time. And it can<br />

mean a lot to the subjects<br />

featured in our stories and<br />

photographs.<br />

“Bad” feedback can make<br />

us stronger. It can point out<br />

alternatives we may have<br />

been too focused to see.<br />

It can draw attention to<br />

mistakes we made. And as<br />

painful as all of that can be,<br />

it can help us “do better.” It<br />

can voice displeasure in a<br />

politician who said or did the<br />

wrong thing.<br />

Simply put, it can inform<br />

us and others, as we inform<br />

you.<br />

What I don’t particularly<br />

welcome is in the internet<br />

culture’s inherent desire to<br />

one-up each other with pithy<br />

comments, the people whose<br />

most creative achievements<br />

are the fake names they craft<br />

to send snide comments or<br />

mail sent without signatures.<br />

Whether you love what we<br />

do or hate it, a lot of work<br />

goes into these papers. More<br />

importantly, the people we<br />

featured often have entrusted<br />

us with their information and<br />

comments — their stories.<br />

We try to choose every<br />

word carefully, especially<br />

when dealing with sensitive<br />

topics such as the allegedmurder-suicide<br />

we have<br />

followed over the course<br />

of the last week-and-a-half<br />

in Orland Park (Page 4).<br />

We vet sources, we gather<br />

info, we try to translate raw<br />

information into something<br />

readable. We make<br />

decisions about what goes<br />

into a story, what doesn’t<br />

and how it’s all presented.<br />

And we try to do all of that<br />

while remaining sensitive<br />

to the subject matter and the<br />

people involved.<br />

Then someone makes a<br />

joke about the food because<br />

it happened outside a P.F.<br />

Chang’s. People debate what<br />

race the individuals were<br />

before photos hit the internet.<br />

Someone boils it down<br />

to an oh well, while another<br />

suggests we shouldn’t feel<br />

sympathy because of the<br />

circumstances.<br />

Thing is: The two individuals<br />

involved in this case<br />

aren’t going to read your<br />

comments. But their families<br />

might — families distraught<br />

over a complicated set of<br />

circumstances that ended<br />

tragically. Their friends and<br />

their co-workers, looking<br />

for more information, may<br />

come across your quips, your<br />

one-liners, your ever-sodismissive<br />

reactions to the<br />

deaths of two people.<br />

I’m sure your hot take<br />

is helping them through a<br />

tough time. Clever comment<br />

about the orange chicken.<br />

Would you be so bold as<br />

to pass those judgements<br />

in person, unflawed as you<br />

are? Tell those jokes?<br />

Even if they don’t see<br />

your “work,” do you ever<br />

ask yourself why before hitting<br />

send?<br />

And I know this does not<br />

apply to most of you. The<br />

overwhelming response to<br />

this particular incident was<br />

sadness and sympathy. The<br />

general response to our work<br />

is supportive and constructive.<br />

But after this past week,<br />

I’m just left exhausted by the<br />

outliers among you.<br />

Do better.<br />

Letters to the Editor<br />

Disappointed in the<br />

disappearance of<br />

Pandemonium<br />

I recently became aware<br />

that the Village cut or reduced<br />

some of the summer<br />

special events enjoyed by the<br />

residents of Orland Park.<br />

I understand that the<br />

family-friendly 5K obstacle<br />

course Pandemonium was<br />

terminated. My family and I<br />

are disappointed.<br />

I know there are other outdoor<br />

races sponsored by the<br />

Village, but none of them is<br />

… obstacle course.<br />

Is Orland Park demonstrating<br />

a “health and wellness”-<br />

conscious community when<br />

we are cancelling family-orientated<br />

outdoor events?<br />

“Lead learner @Prorok_Liberty sketching<br />

with the new Apple Pencil. #ISTE18<br />

#AppleEdu #EveryoneCanCreate #osd135<br />

#PatriotPride135”<br />

@MrsKash101 — Mrs. Kash, on June 26<br />

Follow The Orland Park Prairie: @opprairie<br />

The Pandemonium was a<br />

unique way to be active with<br />

your spouse, your child or<br />

your friends. It was a great<br />

time to drop off a device and<br />

be active.<br />

As a conscious consumer,<br />

I am sure the Pandemonium<br />

was probably costly to coordinate.<br />

I wonder if there were<br />

options to make it less of an<br />

administrative burden.<br />

Swag bags, free shirts and<br />

other items could all have<br />

been eliminated and perhaps<br />

driven lower costs. It is possible<br />

that participants would<br />

have paid more to register for<br />

the event or perhaps corporate<br />

sponsors may have been<br />

interested in the event.<br />

Anyway, other suburbs<br />

will quickly fill the void left<br />

by the exit of Pandemonium.<br />

These types of unique, inclusive<br />

obstacle courses are on<br />

the rise in other suburbs and<br />

in the city.<br />

For example, there was a<br />

race in early June in the Cook<br />

County Forest Preserves<br />

(www.kidsobstaclechallenge.<br />

com), and there is an event in<br />

July in Chicago (www.mud<br />

factor.com).<br />

In closing, I am disappointed<br />

that just when Orland Park<br />

was cutting edge, it is cut.<br />

Ellen Bartolotta<br />

Orland Park resident<br />

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