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the orland park prairie | July 5, 2018 | 13<br />
Social snapshot<br />
Top Web Stories<br />
From opprairie.com as of Friday, June 29<br />
from the editor<br />
Comments for those left behind<br />
1. Police say man shot woman multiple<br />
times before killing himself outside P.F.<br />
Chang’s<br />
2. News from Your Neighbors: Dead rabbit<br />
found in Tinley Park infected with rare<br />
disease, more<br />
3. Former St. Michael School football<br />
standouts reflect on their dominant<br />
Widget season of 2011<br />
4. Neighbor saves Orland Park home by<br />
reporting fire<br />
5. Joey’s set to expand with pizzeria<br />
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The Bridge Teen Center posted the following<br />
note on June 26, “Thank you Justin Allgaier<br />
(Official Page) for stopping by and inspiring<br />
our teens with your stories and showing us<br />
your gear. Good luck this weekend during<br />
your race at Chicagoland Speedway!”<br />
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BILL JONES<br />
bill@opprairie.com<br />
I<br />
welcome feedback.<br />
And as much as one<br />
end of the spectrum may<br />
be easier to take than the other,<br />
I welcome feedback both<br />
positive and negative — so<br />
long as it’s constructive.<br />
Good feedback can reaffirm<br />
the work we put into a<br />
particular piece. It can help<br />
us better understand the<br />
impact we have on people’s<br />
lives. It, frankly, can give<br />
us an ego boost, if only for<br />
a limited time. And it can<br />
mean a lot to the subjects<br />
featured in our stories and<br />
photographs.<br />
“Bad” feedback can make<br />
us stronger. It can point out<br />
alternatives we may have<br />
been too focused to see.<br />
It can draw attention to<br />
mistakes we made. And as<br />
painful as all of that can be,<br />
it can help us “do better.” It<br />
can voice displeasure in a<br />
politician who said or did the<br />
wrong thing.<br />
Simply put, it can inform<br />
us and others, as we inform<br />
you.<br />
What I don’t particularly<br />
welcome is in the internet<br />
culture’s inherent desire to<br />
one-up each other with pithy<br />
comments, the people whose<br />
most creative achievements<br />
are the fake names they craft<br />
to send snide comments or<br />
mail sent without signatures.<br />
Whether you love what we<br />
do or hate it, a lot of work<br />
goes into these papers. More<br />
importantly, the people we<br />
featured often have entrusted<br />
us with their information and<br />
comments — their stories.<br />
We try to choose every<br />
word carefully, especially<br />
when dealing with sensitive<br />
topics such as the allegedmurder-suicide<br />
we have<br />
followed over the course<br />
of the last week-and-a-half<br />
in Orland Park (Page 4).<br />
We vet sources, we gather<br />
info, we try to translate raw<br />
information into something<br />
readable. We make<br />
decisions about what goes<br />
into a story, what doesn’t<br />
and how it’s all presented.<br />
And we try to do all of that<br />
while remaining sensitive<br />
to the subject matter and the<br />
people involved.<br />
Then someone makes a<br />
joke about the food because<br />
it happened outside a P.F.<br />
Chang’s. People debate what<br />
race the individuals were<br />
before photos hit the internet.<br />
Someone boils it down<br />
to an oh well, while another<br />
suggests we shouldn’t feel<br />
sympathy because of the<br />
circumstances.<br />
Thing is: The two individuals<br />
involved in this case<br />
aren’t going to read your<br />
comments. But their families<br />
might — families distraught<br />
over a complicated set of<br />
circumstances that ended<br />
tragically. Their friends and<br />
their co-workers, looking<br />
for more information, may<br />
come across your quips, your<br />
one-liners, your ever-sodismissive<br />
reactions to the<br />
deaths of two people.<br />
I’m sure your hot take<br />
is helping them through a<br />
tough time. Clever comment<br />
about the orange chicken.<br />
Would you be so bold as<br />
to pass those judgements<br />
in person, unflawed as you<br />
are? Tell those jokes?<br />
Even if they don’t see<br />
your “work,” do you ever<br />
ask yourself why before hitting<br />
send?<br />
And I know this does not<br />
apply to most of you. The<br />
overwhelming response to<br />
this particular incident was<br />
sadness and sympathy. The<br />
general response to our work<br />
is supportive and constructive.<br />
But after this past week,<br />
I’m just left exhausted by the<br />
outliers among you.<br />
Do better.<br />
Letters to the Editor<br />
Disappointed in the<br />
disappearance of<br />
Pandemonium<br />
I recently became aware<br />
that the Village cut or reduced<br />
some of the summer<br />
special events enjoyed by the<br />
residents of Orland Park.<br />
I understand that the<br />
family-friendly 5K obstacle<br />
course Pandemonium was<br />
terminated. My family and I<br />
are disappointed.<br />
I know there are other outdoor<br />
races sponsored by the<br />
Village, but none of them is<br />
… obstacle course.<br />
Is Orland Park demonstrating<br />
a “health and wellness”-<br />
conscious community when<br />
we are cancelling family-orientated<br />
outdoor events?<br />
“Lead learner @Prorok_Liberty sketching<br />
with the new Apple Pencil. #ISTE18<br />
#AppleEdu #EveryoneCanCreate #osd135<br />
#PatriotPride135”<br />
@MrsKash101 — Mrs. Kash, on June 26<br />
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The Pandemonium was a<br />
unique way to be active with<br />
your spouse, your child or<br />
your friends. It was a great<br />
time to drop off a device and<br />
be active.<br />
As a conscious consumer,<br />
I am sure the Pandemonium<br />
was probably costly to coordinate.<br />
I wonder if there were<br />
options to make it less of an<br />
administrative burden.<br />
Swag bags, free shirts and<br />
other items could all have<br />
been eliminated and perhaps<br />
driven lower costs. It is possible<br />
that participants would<br />
have paid more to register for<br />
the event or perhaps corporate<br />
sponsors may have been<br />
interested in the event.<br />
Anyway, other suburbs<br />
will quickly fill the void left<br />
by the exit of Pandemonium.<br />
These types of unique, inclusive<br />
obstacle courses are on<br />
the rise in other suburbs and<br />
in the city.<br />
For example, there was a<br />
race in early June in the Cook<br />
County Forest Preserves<br />
(www.kidsobstaclechallenge.<br />
com), and there is an event in<br />
July in Chicago (www.mud<br />
factor.com).<br />
In closing, I am disappointed<br />
that just when Orland Park<br />
was cutting edge, it is cut.<br />
Ellen Bartolotta<br />
Orland Park resident<br />
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