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Michele Marchese says: Being<br />

successful in one’s career often comes<br />

at a price. Time with loved ones is<br />

precious, and there is no price tag on<br />

that. The days of ‘selling your soul’ to<br />

the company are over. So what can<br />

one do to maintain a harmonious life?<br />

At work you can never be rewarded<br />

enough for time lost with family or<br />

not having downtime to re-energise<br />

yourself. Look for ways to manage<br />

normal work hours effectively so you<br />

have more time to do things you love.<br />

Often times we feel like we are<br />

climbing this corporate ladder, and<br />

we must keep going above and<br />

beyond what other coworkers do. Ask<br />

yourself, “Am I really compensated<br />

better than those that just show up<br />

to work and do what is expected<br />

of them?” Compensation can be<br />

monetary or non-material. The thing<br />

is, a good benefits package includes<br />

a way to balance your life outside of<br />

work.<br />

If you are going to continue<br />

working at the same pace I encourage<br />

you to have a set schedule that<br />

allows time to de-stress and enjoy<br />

your family. Stress and lack of rest<br />

contribute to mental and physical<br />

illness. Most companies are aware of<br />

the needs of their employees. Get the<br />

balance right.<br />

Michele Marchese is a Mind & Body<br />

Wellness Practitioner in Chicago. A<br />

graduate of South West Institute of<br />

Healing Arts, USA, she uses her intuitive<br />

gifts in her practice, and her current<br />

projects for her business Soul Equality are<br />

based on alchemical healing. Visit www.<br />

soulequality.com. For online consultation<br />

call (815) 669-0193. Follow her on<br />

https://twitter.com/spiritmichele<br />

Steve Steven says: In this life we<br />

are continually challenged with<br />

the balance between working for<br />

material security and nurturing our<br />

soul. There are many things that you<br />

can do to supplement your lifestyle<br />

and bring some inner fulfillment.<br />

Firstly, you need to ask yourself<br />

what your passion is. It may be doing<br />

arts or making music, gardening or<br />

simply being in nature for periods<br />

to rejuvenate yourself. Certainly,<br />

spending time with those closest to<br />

you will bring much for your inner<br />

well-being. You could try basic<br />

meditation practice and follow up if<br />

this brings any positive results. In<br />

the end the choice is yours as to how<br />

much you want to dedicate yourself<br />

to the working life that you have, but<br />

remember that it is important to be<br />

as much as possible in the present<br />

moment and to smell the roses on the<br />

way.<br />

Steve Steven is an Author, Publisher,<br />

and Mind & Spirit Consultant from New<br />

Zealand, now based in Germany. His<br />

work focuses on both spiritual experience<br />

and psychology, and assists you on your<br />

journey back to your Self. Visit www.<br />

spiritualinstinctpress.com. Connect<br />

with Steve on www.facebook.com/Post-<br />

Jungian-Archetypal-Psychology. Visit<br />

www.patreon.com/spiritualinstinctpress<br />

Gary R. Leigh says: The question you<br />

should ask yourself is: What is my<br />

ultimate goal here? Is it for spiritual,<br />

comfort or security? Will success<br />

bring you inner peace or happiness?<br />

Whatever it is, make sure that you<br />

don't forget to do the little things in<br />

life, especially with your loved ones.<br />

The key is being part of a family,<br />

not just providing for them. It's the<br />

small events that give you history<br />

and bonding time. It's being there in<br />

any way you can, even if it's just five<br />

minutes a day to talk while you're<br />

away.<br />

Also, be kind to yourself. Do things<br />

that will help you relax. It can be as<br />

simple as a massage or nice dinner<br />

and movie. Make a plan for how<br />

successful you need to be in order to<br />

live the life you desire. The problem<br />

with work is that it will exhaust and<br />

drain you to the point where you<br />

will spend your later years trying to<br />

recover from chronic fatigue.<br />

Remember, in the end, success is not<br />

about how much money you made,<br />

but about who you were being. The<br />

soul only cares if you were you true to<br />

yourself. Make sure you are.<br />

Gary R. Leigh is an Australian author of<br />

‘The Empath Guidebook’ and ‘I am The<br />

Phoenix’. (Books available on amazon.)<br />

He is also an empath and an expert in<br />

Bach Flower Medicine. You could connect<br />

with him on https://areyouanempath.<br />

com/ or https://psychicsupport.net/<br />

or https://www.facebook.com/groups/<br />

empathsupport/His YouTube channel<br />

is https://www.youtube.com/channel/<br />

UCtggM_AyMg9pjzSsuxwxIXQ<br />

Priyamvada Shastri says: Life goes<br />

through different phases. When we<br />

yearn for something more, it is usually<br />

because a new door or some sort of<br />

an expansion, on an emotional as<br />

also spiritual level, is opening out for<br />

us. After you have reached a certain<br />

stage on your path of development,<br />

you discover within yourself a power<br />

and intelligence that craves more.<br />

This does not mean that you alter<br />

your career or financial activities<br />

and decisions. A solid financial<br />

position can allow you to look after<br />

your emotional and spiritual needs<br />

better. As Anthroposophy founder<br />

Rudolf Steiner says, "Thinking, feeling<br />

and willing are parts of the soul. By<br />

practising them - first separately and<br />

then in combinations - you develop<br />

your self." Control of thought aims<br />

to gain control over what you think;<br />

control of will aims to gain control<br />

over your actions. Be aware of your<br />

feelings, weaken strong feelings and<br />

strengthen weak ones and balance<br />

them. Make sure to get some form<br />

of physical exercise, eat right, have a<br />

sense of humour, and pick your battles<br />

carefully. Go with the flow. Meditate as<br />

much as you can, explore books and<br />

writings that would resonate with you,<br />

and let the universe know that you are<br />

ready for a spiritual mentor. Harmony<br />

will come, slowly but steadily, if you<br />

pursue with determination to be<br />

something more than what you are<br />

right now.<br />

Priyamvada Shastri is a Medical Social<br />

Worker<br />

Do you need expert advice? Send your problem, in confidence, to: ask@yourwellness.com. Problems can only be<br />

answered on the page, we are unable to answer personally. You can also visit the forums at www.yourwellness.com and<br />

ask advice from other readers online.<br />

<strong>August</strong> <strong>2018</strong> • Issue III • Volume VII • yourwellness.com

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