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Michele Marchese says: Being<br />
successful in one’s career often comes<br />
at a price. Time with loved ones is<br />
precious, and there is no price tag on<br />
that. The days of ‘selling your soul’ to<br />
the company are over. So what can<br />
one do to maintain a harmonious life?<br />
At work you can never be rewarded<br />
enough for time lost with family or<br />
not having downtime to re-energise<br />
yourself. Look for ways to manage<br />
normal work hours effectively so you<br />
have more time to do things you love.<br />
Often times we feel like we are<br />
climbing this corporate ladder, and<br />
we must keep going above and<br />
beyond what other coworkers do. Ask<br />
yourself, “Am I really compensated<br />
better than those that just show up<br />
to work and do what is expected<br />
of them?” Compensation can be<br />
monetary or non-material. The thing<br />
is, a good benefits package includes<br />
a way to balance your life outside of<br />
work.<br />
If you are going to continue<br />
working at the same pace I encourage<br />
you to have a set schedule that<br />
allows time to de-stress and enjoy<br />
your family. Stress and lack of rest<br />
contribute to mental and physical<br />
illness. Most companies are aware of<br />
the needs of their employees. Get the<br />
balance right.<br />
Michele Marchese is a Mind & Body<br />
Wellness Practitioner in Chicago. A<br />
graduate of South West Institute of<br />
Healing Arts, USA, she uses her intuitive<br />
gifts in her practice, and her current<br />
projects for her business Soul Equality are<br />
based on alchemical healing. Visit www.<br />
soulequality.com. For online consultation<br />
call (815) 669-0193. Follow her on<br />
https://twitter.com/spiritmichele<br />
Steve Steven says: In this life we<br />
are continually challenged with<br />
the balance between working for<br />
material security and nurturing our<br />
soul. There are many things that you<br />
can do to supplement your lifestyle<br />
and bring some inner fulfillment.<br />
Firstly, you need to ask yourself<br />
what your passion is. It may be doing<br />
arts or making music, gardening or<br />
simply being in nature for periods<br />
to rejuvenate yourself. Certainly,<br />
spending time with those closest to<br />
you will bring much for your inner<br />
well-being. You could try basic<br />
meditation practice and follow up if<br />
this brings any positive results. In<br />
the end the choice is yours as to how<br />
much you want to dedicate yourself<br />
to the working life that you have, but<br />
remember that it is important to be<br />
as much as possible in the present<br />
moment and to smell the roses on the<br />
way.<br />
Steve Steven is an Author, Publisher,<br />
and Mind & Spirit Consultant from New<br />
Zealand, now based in Germany. His<br />
work focuses on both spiritual experience<br />
and psychology, and assists you on your<br />
journey back to your Self. Visit www.<br />
spiritualinstinctpress.com. Connect<br />
with Steve on www.facebook.com/Post-<br />
Jungian-Archetypal-Psychology. Visit<br />
www.patreon.com/spiritualinstinctpress<br />
Gary R. Leigh says: The question you<br />
should ask yourself is: What is my<br />
ultimate goal here? Is it for spiritual,<br />
comfort or security? Will success<br />
bring you inner peace or happiness?<br />
Whatever it is, make sure that you<br />
don't forget to do the little things in<br />
life, especially with your loved ones.<br />
The key is being part of a family,<br />
not just providing for them. It's the<br />
small events that give you history<br />
and bonding time. It's being there in<br />
any way you can, even if it's just five<br />
minutes a day to talk while you're<br />
away.<br />
Also, be kind to yourself. Do things<br />
that will help you relax. It can be as<br />
simple as a massage or nice dinner<br />
and movie. Make a plan for how<br />
successful you need to be in order to<br />
live the life you desire. The problem<br />
with work is that it will exhaust and<br />
drain you to the point where you<br />
will spend your later years trying to<br />
recover from chronic fatigue.<br />
Remember, in the end, success is not<br />
about how much money you made,<br />
but about who you were being. The<br />
soul only cares if you were you true to<br />
yourself. Make sure you are.<br />
Gary R. Leigh is an Australian author of<br />
‘The Empath Guidebook’ and ‘I am The<br />
Phoenix’. (Books available on amazon.)<br />
He is also an empath and an expert in<br />
Bach Flower Medicine. You could connect<br />
with him on https://areyouanempath.<br />
com/ or https://psychicsupport.net/<br />
or https://www.facebook.com/groups/<br />
empathsupport/His YouTube channel<br />
is https://www.youtube.com/channel/<br />
UCtggM_AyMg9pjzSsuxwxIXQ<br />
Priyamvada Shastri says: Life goes<br />
through different phases. When we<br />
yearn for something more, it is usually<br />
because a new door or some sort of<br />
an expansion, on an emotional as<br />
also spiritual level, is opening out for<br />
us. After you have reached a certain<br />
stage on your path of development,<br />
you discover within yourself a power<br />
and intelligence that craves more.<br />
This does not mean that you alter<br />
your career or financial activities<br />
and decisions. A solid financial<br />
position can allow you to look after<br />
your emotional and spiritual needs<br />
better. As Anthroposophy founder<br />
Rudolf Steiner says, "Thinking, feeling<br />
and willing are parts of the soul. By<br />
practising them - first separately and<br />
then in combinations - you develop<br />
your self." Control of thought aims<br />
to gain control over what you think;<br />
control of will aims to gain control<br />
over your actions. Be aware of your<br />
feelings, weaken strong feelings and<br />
strengthen weak ones and balance<br />
them. Make sure to get some form<br />
of physical exercise, eat right, have a<br />
sense of humour, and pick your battles<br />
carefully. Go with the flow. Meditate as<br />
much as you can, explore books and<br />
writings that would resonate with you,<br />
and let the universe know that you are<br />
ready for a spiritual mentor. Harmony<br />
will come, slowly but steadily, if you<br />
pursue with determination to be<br />
something more than what you are<br />
right now.<br />
Priyamvada Shastri is a Medical Social<br />
Worker<br />
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<strong>August</strong> <strong>2018</strong> • Issue III • Volume VII • yourwellness.com