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things, not intentionally, but those were the<br />
very things that had an impact on my son.<br />
No, it’s a God thing with Chip,” he said.<br />
In their 24/7 duties as pastors, the topic<br />
of weddings and funerals were discussed.<br />
Gene learned that everyone knows what<br />
they want at a wedding, but comfort is the<br />
monumental need for everyone at a funeral.<br />
He also found a funeral as optimum time<br />
to share that all in the audience would<br />
someday die, and there’s no comfort for the<br />
family if you die without salvation in Jesus.<br />
Chip has chosen to limit the weddings<br />
he conducts because of the time it takes<br />
away from being with his family. In<br />
weddings, he knows the bride and groom<br />
are usually too nervous to listen to him,<br />
so he speaks primarily to the congregation.<br />
As for funerals, he said, “You preach your<br />
funeral while you’re living. If you live well,<br />
it’ll be a great funeral. For the lost, it’s the<br />
hardest.”<br />
All preachers’ kids are subject to the fish<br />
bowl syndrome, but that never bothered<br />
Gene. He reminded his kids often that he<br />
would always love them, no matter what<br />
they did. “I also let my kids be kids,” he<br />
said. “After all, they ran with the deacons’<br />
kids!” Gene was quick to give Dorothy<br />
credit for being a great disciplinarian.<br />
Chip spoke up and said, “Our parents<br />
never told us that we were making them<br />
look bad; we were to behave because we<br />
didn’t want to disappoint God.” He added<br />
that his biggest struggle as being a preacher’s<br />
kid was dealing with members who didn’t<br />
want to be led while his dad was trying to<br />
lead. “But Dad always took the high road<br />
– he modeled integrity.”<br />
The preacher in Gene pointed out,<br />
“People can be really mean, but they don’t<br />
realize that the enemy is using them.” His<br />
goal was to maintain a love for the people<br />
while standing against the enemy.<br />
The two generations of preachers<br />
recognize the changing times in ministry.<br />
Chip reflected, “Sunday was a protected<br />
day during Dad’s ministry; everyone<br />
committed to church. Today only 20%<br />
of members attend every week. The rest<br />
are here every third week due to sports,<br />
vacations, and family time.” Another<br />
mentor, Bob Russell, gave Chip sound<br />
advice for not being preoccupied with<br />
attendance numbers. “You plant the grass;<br />
God brings the sheep.”<br />
Another noticeable change in church<br />
life has been the open discussion of certain<br />
sins – those that were usually swept under<br />
the rug. Not now. “It’s not church; it’s life,”<br />
Chip says as he shares his passion for<br />
getting people to church and keeping them<br />
by sharing stories of Christ’s transforming<br />
power in and through life’s heartaches.<br />
Pinelake’s philosophy for creating<br />
satellites in four other cities was to address<br />
the startling statistics of how many kids<br />
leave church after high school. “We now<br />
take church to them, so there’s not this<br />
lapse in time out of the church.”<br />
As the church discussions grew to<br />
include a variety of topics, that “endowed<br />
call” for both men filled the room.<br />
Chip: “Here at Pinelake, we move from<br />
‘fire insurance’ to be a child of God.”<br />
Gene: “The church has failed my<br />
generation in discipleship. We must help<br />
new Christians mature!”<br />
Chip: “The crazier the world gets, the<br />
better opportunity for the church to be<br />
distinctive. When it’s the darkest, light<br />
shines the brightest.”<br />
Gene: “In music I listen to the words.<br />
I prefer to sing TO God in worship and<br />
not ABOUT God.”<br />
Chip: “We go to the Word! If there’s a<br />
discrepancy between my life and God’s<br />
Word, guess who’s wrong?”<br />
Gene: “So many people go to church but<br />
don’t meet God. We’re meant to meet God<br />
at church.”<br />
Chip: “People are not going to stay with<br />
us as long as they just hear sermons. They<br />
have to see powerful answers to specific<br />
prayers.”<br />
Chip in agreement with his dad:<br />
“We are NOT in competition with other<br />
churches. We’ve just chosen our lane and<br />
are staying in it. Choose the lane you’re<br />
comfortable with and get in the Word<br />
and be a part of kingdom life! l<br />
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