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MDF Magazine Newsletter Issue 57 December 2018

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People<br />

Living with<br />

Congenital Myopathy<br />

By Lavinia Petersen<br />

someone to help me as my legs were not strong<br />

enough for me to move around on my own. I loved<br />

going to school, learning and meeting new friends.<br />

At the age of 12 years (April 1998) I started walking<br />

on my toes as my ligaments were short and I had to<br />

undergo surgery on my legs. I was out of school for<br />

approximately six weeks. During that period I felt so<br />

helpless. In June of the same year I went to see an<br />

orthopaedic surgeon for my scoliosis. Consequently<br />

a spinal brace was constructed to control my spinal<br />

deformity. I hated every minute of wearing it, but<br />

I had no choice but to do so. I had to wear it to<br />

school, where the children teased me, and I had to<br />

sleep with it on. The only time I could take it off was<br />

when I washed myself. I was in between the Red<br />

Cross Hospital and Medi-Clinic, where I was treated<br />

by three specialists.<br />

I am Lavinia Petersen from Mossel Bay, a 31-yearold<br />

woman who was diagnosed with congenital<br />

myopathy, which is a muscular dystrophy (MD) that<br />

affects the muscles from birth. At the age of 1 year<br />

I started showing signs of MD when I frequently<br />

fell on my forehead. My parents, Ivan and Belinda<br />

Petersen, took me to a paediatrician in George.<br />

The doctor suspected that I had some sort of MD<br />

and he referred me to The Red Cross Children’s<br />

Hospital, where a muscle biopsy confirmed that I had<br />

congenital myopathy. The doctor told my parents<br />

that I would only live until the age of 9 years; what a<br />

shock that must have been for my parents. I had to<br />

visit Red Cross Hospital every year for check-ups.<br />

As time went by I had to go to school. My parents<br />

were told by the teachers to put me in a school<br />

for children with special needs, but my mother<br />

refused and I was allowed to remain at the school<br />

I was at. I had my challenges at school, especially<br />

when climbing steps to attend classes. I always had<br />

When I started attending high school in 1999, my<br />

mother went to the principal to arrange that I have<br />

classes in the same block because I could not walk<br />

far and climb so many steps. One time at school<br />

during break a friend asked me: “Are you not angry<br />

at God for making you go through all these things,<br />

being disabled?” I answered: “No, I’m not because<br />

God has a reason for making me this way and he<br />

has a purpose for me being here.” She said that<br />

she would have been angry at God. There was a<br />

time when I wanted to leave school because I could<br />

not cope with the workload, but God gave me the<br />

strength to go to school each day.<br />

In June 2001, I had another operation on the back<br />

of my neck muscles. The doctor at Medi-Clinic<br />

explained that it would be a long procedure and that<br />

my parents should remain calm when they saw me.<br />

When the nurses pushed me out of the operating<br />

room and into ICU, my mother collapsed when she<br />

saw me because I had a brace on with four screws<br />

in my head. I still have the scars of this operation.<br />

I had a lot of support from my family, teachers and<br />

friends. I could not attend school for six months.<br />

I could not walk alone or wash myself properly or<br />

wear proper clothes. During the night I had to call<br />

my parents to help turn me over on my sides. I got<br />

so tired of being helpless that I cried at times. My<br />

mom had to leave her work during this time to take<br />

care of me.<br />

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