2018 Spring Kansas Child
All about relationships
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joyfulWork<br />
interchangeable in creating a higher level<br />
of energy for yourself and for others.<br />
We don’t have to be afraid and doubtful.<br />
Expecting the best and giving the benefit<br />
of the doubt is the fastest road to an open<br />
mind and an open heart. It feels good<br />
to be optimistic and kind. When we feel<br />
good, we welcome more joy into our lives.<br />
4<br />
Watch less news. Finding<br />
positive ways to nourish your<br />
mind creates joy. The information<br />
we let into our minds can be<br />
compared to food. If we<br />
eat healthy<br />
and stay<br />
nourished,<br />
we will be<br />
healthier<br />
and<br />
have more energy. The same goes for<br />
what we let into our minds. If we wake<br />
up and read positive things and think<br />
about the contributions we would like to<br />
make for the day, we are off to a healthier<br />
start. If we end our day with proactive,<br />
self-consideration and positive reading<br />
material we are nourishing our minds<br />
as we go to sleep. Watching news in<br />
the morning and the evening interrupts<br />
opportunities for you to generate joy in<br />
your life. Constant bad news drains our<br />
energy and distracts us from our purpose.<br />
Be informed, just don’t be consumed.<br />
5<br />
Laugh harder and more<br />
often. There is a plethora of<br />
research on how healthy laughing<br />
is for the body and the mind. Laughing<br />
gets your blood flowing; it releases<br />
endorphins, relaxes your body and boosts<br />
your immune system. Laughing gets us in<br />
a better mood and inevitably spreads joy to<br />
those around us. We all like a good laugh,<br />
but most of us wait for something funny<br />
to happen or for a funny thought to<br />
come to mind.<br />
About twenty years ago I saw a story<br />
on television about a laughing club<br />
that would meet to laugh together. I<br />
tried to make myself laugh by making<br />
funny noises and fake laughing sounds.<br />
It worked. I looked in the mirror and<br />
literally cracked up! I started doing<br />
it with my children and their<br />
friends, which led to lots<br />
of laughter. Try it<br />
in your<br />
classrooms, around your dinner tables<br />
and with yourself. Laughing is our hearts<br />
singing. Make your own funny. You will<br />
have more fun.<br />
6<br />
Live<br />
in Gratitude. Gratitude is<br />
the fastest way to create more joy in<br />
your life. A woman who attended<br />
one of my workshops created a “Joy Door.”<br />
She put up a sign with “Don’t Postpone Joy.<br />
Find Joy Every Day,” and each one of her<br />
family members puts something up on the<br />
door every day. She told me that even if<br />
her kids were struggling to find something<br />
joyful they would talk it out and dig deep<br />
to write something down. When you focus<br />
on what you are grateful for you tend to<br />
focus less on the things that drain you.<br />
Build Gratitude Practices into your rituals.<br />
You can also create a Gratitude Line with<br />
string and clothes pins. Hang what people<br />
write or draw that they are grateful for.<br />
This is a joyful way to decorate a hallway,<br />
classroom, or for a party.<br />
Tell people what you admire or are<br />
grateful for about them. Write down what<br />
you are grateful for. Find at least one thing<br />
every day. You will have more vibrant<br />
energy and you will create more good in<br />
your life.<br />
7<br />
Make<br />
Smiling a Habit.<br />
Smiling creates presence and<br />
presence brings joy. You can build<br />
a habit of greeting your daily routines<br />
with joy. One of the first steps in creating<br />
more joy is ensuring your mood is good.<br />
Practicing and intentionally smiling at<br />
yourself and others is an essential tool for<br />
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