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joyfulWork<br />

interchangeable in creating a higher level<br />

of energy for yourself and for others.<br />

We don’t have to be afraid and doubtful.<br />

Expecting the best and giving the benefit<br />

of the doubt is the fastest road to an open<br />

mind and an open heart. It feels good<br />

to be optimistic and kind. When we feel<br />

good, we welcome more joy into our lives.<br />

4<br />

Watch less news. Finding<br />

positive ways to nourish your<br />

mind creates joy. The information<br />

we let into our minds can be<br />

compared to food. If we<br />

eat healthy<br />

and stay<br />

nourished,<br />

we will be<br />

healthier<br />

and<br />

have more energy. The same goes for<br />

what we let into our minds. If we wake<br />

up and read positive things and think<br />

about the contributions we would like to<br />

make for the day, we are off to a healthier<br />

start. If we end our day with proactive,<br />

self-consideration and positive reading<br />

material we are nourishing our minds<br />

as we go to sleep. Watching news in<br />

the morning and the evening interrupts<br />

opportunities for you to generate joy in<br />

your life. Constant bad news drains our<br />

energy and distracts us from our purpose.<br />

Be informed, just don’t be consumed.<br />

5<br />

Laugh harder and more<br />

often. There is a plethora of<br />

research on how healthy laughing<br />

is for the body and the mind. Laughing<br />

gets your blood flowing; it releases<br />

endorphins, relaxes your body and boosts<br />

your immune system. Laughing gets us in<br />

a better mood and inevitably spreads joy to<br />

those around us. We all like a good laugh,<br />

but most of us wait for something funny<br />

to happen or for a funny thought to<br />

come to mind.<br />

About twenty years ago I saw a story<br />

on television about a laughing club<br />

that would meet to laugh together. I<br />

tried to make myself laugh by making<br />

funny noises and fake laughing sounds.<br />

It worked. I looked in the mirror and<br />

literally cracked up! I started doing<br />

it with my children and their<br />

friends, which led to lots<br />

of laughter. Try it<br />

in your<br />

classrooms, around your dinner tables<br />

and with yourself. Laughing is our hearts<br />

singing. Make your own funny. You will<br />

have more fun.<br />

6<br />

Live<br />

in Gratitude. Gratitude is<br />

the fastest way to create more joy in<br />

your life. A woman who attended<br />

one of my workshops created a “Joy Door.”<br />

She put up a sign with “Don’t Postpone Joy.<br />

Find Joy Every Day,” and each one of her<br />

family members puts something up on the<br />

door every day. She told me that even if<br />

her kids were struggling to find something<br />

joyful they would talk it out and dig deep<br />

to write something down. When you focus<br />

on what you are grateful for you tend to<br />

focus less on the things that drain you.<br />

Build Gratitude Practices into your rituals.<br />

You can also create a Gratitude Line with<br />

string and clothes pins. Hang what people<br />

write or draw that they are grateful for.<br />

This is a joyful way to decorate a hallway,<br />

classroom, or for a party.<br />

Tell people what you admire or are<br />

grateful for about them. Write down what<br />

you are grateful for. Find at least one thing<br />

every day. You will have more vibrant<br />

energy and you will create more good in<br />

your life.<br />

7<br />

Make<br />

Smiling a Habit.<br />

Smiling creates presence and<br />

presence brings joy. You can build<br />

a habit of greeting your daily routines<br />

with joy. One of the first steps in creating<br />

more joy is ensuring your mood is good.<br />

Practicing and intentionally smiling at<br />

yourself and others is an essential tool for<br />

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