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22 | February 7, 2019 | The highland park landmark faith<br />

hplandmark.com<br />

Faith Briefs<br />

Christ Church (1713 Green Bay Road,<br />

Highland Park)<br />

Weeknight Service<br />

7-8 p.m. Thursdays,<br />

church coffee bar. Weeknight<br />

service is a place to<br />

come, stay awhile, meet<br />

people and then go make<br />

a difference. For more<br />

information, call (847)<br />

234-1001 or email Brad at<br />

bcoleman@cclf.org.<br />

Men’s Breakfast Group<br />

6:30-7:30 a.m. Tuesdays.<br />

Panera Bread, 1211<br />

Half Day Road, Bannockburn.<br />

For more information,<br />

contact Sean at seansmith797@gmail.com.<br />

Trinity Episcopal (425 Laurel Avenue,<br />

Highland Park)<br />

Sunday Schedule<br />

8 a.m. – Holy Eucharist,<br />

St. Michael’s Chapel<br />

8:45 a.m. – Fellowship<br />

10 a.m. – Holy Eucharist<br />

with music, Main Sanctuary<br />

10 a.m. Sunday School<br />

(on the 1st and 3rd<br />

Sundays)<br />

11 a.m. – Fellowship<br />

Wednesday Service<br />

9:30 a.m. – Holy Eucharist<br />

with healing, St.<br />

Michael’s Chapel<br />

A Safe Place<br />

6 p.m. Thursdays - Guild<br />

Room<br />

North Suburban Synagogue Beth El<br />

(1175 Sheridan Road, Highland Park)<br />

Open Conversational<br />

Hebrew<br />

10-11 a.m. Sundays.<br />

Practice Hebrew conversation<br />

and reading informally<br />

with other participants.<br />

Free. For information,<br />

contact Judy Farby at<br />

judyfarby@yahoo.com.<br />

Submit information for The<br />

Landmark’s Faith page to<br />

Erin Yarnall at erin@hplandmark.com.<br />

The deadline is<br />

noon on Thursdays. Questions?<br />

Call (847) 272-4565<br />

In Memoriam<br />

Regina Maximovna<br />

Rabinovich<br />

Regina Maximovna<br />

Rabinovich (nee Dinnerstein)<br />

85, of Highland<br />

Park, Illinois passed<br />

away peacefully on January<br />

26th, 2019. She was<br />

born to the late Maxim<br />

Grigorievich (Mendel<br />

Girshevich) Dinnerstein<br />

and Inna Platonovna in<br />

Moscow, Soviet Union<br />

on September 17th, 1933<br />

and was preceded in death<br />

by her beloved husband,<br />

Gennadiy Rabinovich.<br />

She is survived by her<br />

son, Yuri, and her three<br />

grandsons, Mark, Max<br />

and Matthew.<br />

During World War II,<br />

Regina’s family evacuated<br />

to Uzbekistan as a result<br />

of the invasion of the<br />

Soviet Union. After the<br />

war, she finished school<br />

and went on to study Road<br />

Transport Engineering at<br />

the USSR Road Transport<br />

Institute. She eventually<br />

went on to work as a foreman<br />

and later manager at<br />

the Ministry of Technical<br />

Machine-Building Industry<br />

of the USSR. Her<br />

career spanned over 40<br />

years.<br />

Regina married the love<br />

of her life, Gennadiy in<br />

June 1956, and they later<br />

had a son, Yuri, born 1957.<br />

They explored the country<br />

and later the world together.<br />

In 2007, Regina moved<br />

the United States to be<br />

closer to her son. She<br />

loved her newfound country,<br />

and was always ready<br />

for the next event in life.<br />

She had an adventurous,<br />

curious, and accepting appreciation<br />

for the world<br />

and its people, and an<br />

absolute love of life.<br />

Neil Ament<br />

If freelance photographer<br />

Neil Ament was offered<br />

an assignment by<br />

the Highland Park Landmark<br />

on a Saturday afternoon<br />

when the University<br />

of Wisconsin had a home<br />

football game the answer<br />

always was “No, thank<br />

you.”<br />

Although Ament liked<br />

shooting sports photos for<br />

the Landmark very much,<br />

when he took pictures at<br />

football, basketball and<br />

hockey games at his alma<br />

mater, he loved it with a<br />

passion.<br />

Sadly, late last year the<br />

Landmark and the Wisconsin<br />

Badgers lost a photographer<br />

who was in a class<br />

by himself when Ament<br />

died in his sleep at age 57<br />

at his home in Highland<br />

Park.<br />

Ament didn’t make his<br />

living as a photographer.<br />

“He was a lawyer who<br />

mostly did real estate<br />

work,” said his 28-yearold<br />

daughter Melissa, who<br />

lives in San Mateo, California.<br />

“That was his day<br />

job.<br />

“Photography was his<br />

passion.”<br />

“Neil has been a freelance<br />

photographer for<br />

a handful of years,” said<br />

Joe Coughlin, publisher<br />

of 22nd Century Media<br />

newspapers, including<br />

The Highland Park<br />

Landmark. “His work<br />

was often captivating<br />

and always impressive,<br />

and Neil was nothing but<br />

courteous and professional<br />

with our team. He<br />

captured joy, community<br />

and action with such talent.<br />

We miss him and<br />

our thoughts are with his<br />

family.”<br />

Ament had working<br />

press credentials for the<br />

Wisconsin home games<br />

and his work appeared on<br />

Badgers websites.<br />

“He was a huge Badger<br />

fan,” Melissa said. “That<br />

definitely was a major<br />

part of his life. He was<br />

at every football game,<br />

some hockey games and<br />

some basketball games.<br />

He loved the Badgers so<br />

much.”<br />

When the word came<br />

out that Ament had died<br />

suddenly the response was<br />

spontaneous: hundreds<br />

of heartfelt tributes were<br />

posted on Buckyville.<br />

Among them:<br />

Southfew — “I believe<br />

we live on in the lives and<br />

hearts of those we meet,<br />

in their memories of us<br />

and in the way we treated<br />

them. Neil’s scorecard<br />

in that regard is off the<br />

charts.”<br />

Buckballsandpucks —<br />

“Neil had a way to make<br />

even virtual strangers<br />

know that he genuinely<br />

cared for them. Simply<br />

put, as good a dude as<br />

I’ve had the pleasure to<br />

meet over my 63 years.”<br />

Badgergirl101—“I<br />

never met Neil but I always<br />

loved looking at his<br />

photos. He was a great<br />

photographer and going<br />

by everyone’s comments a<br />

better human being.”<br />

LakevilleBadger—<br />

“RIP, Neil. I will never<br />

again attend a Badger<br />

sporting event without<br />

thinking of you.”<br />

Wisconsin’s coaches<br />

also knew and respected<br />

Ament and appreciated<br />

his work.”<br />

He took a picture of the<br />

accomplished former basketball<br />

coach, Bo Ryan,<br />

cutting down the net in<br />

exultation after Wisconsin<br />

knocked off Michigan<br />

State in the 2010 Big Ten<br />

Tournament semi-finals<br />

and asked a mutual friend<br />

if he could have Ryan sign<br />

the photo.<br />

Ryan’s reply to the request:<br />

“I’ll sign it on one<br />

condition. You need to get<br />

me a copy because I really<br />

like it.”<br />

The former coach liked<br />

it so much that when<br />

Ament forwarded a copy<br />

he had it framed and put<br />

it on a bookshelf behind<br />

his desk.<br />

Ament, who was born<br />

in Skokie and moved to<br />

Highland Park when he<br />

was a boy, began his love<br />

affair with the Wisconsin<br />

Badgers when he went to<br />

college in Madison and<br />

was a sports photographer<br />

for the school newspaper,<br />

The Daily Cardinal.<br />

After receiving his<br />

undergraduate degree,<br />

Ament came back to the<br />

Chicago area and enrolled<br />

at John Marshall Law<br />

School. He received his<br />

Juris Doctorate and began<br />

working for a downtown<br />

law firm. Then, he<br />

started his own practice.<br />

At the time of his death,<br />

he had an office in Northbrook.<br />

According to Melissa,<br />

“The bulk of what he did<br />

was real estate law, and (in<br />

addition to going to his office)<br />

he would do a lot of<br />

the work out of his home<br />

in Highland Park. He did<br />

a lot of pro bono work and<br />

heavily discounted work<br />

for his friends.”<br />

While the Wisconsin<br />

Badgers were the team<br />

nearest and dearest to his<br />

heart, Ament also was a<br />

diehard fan of the Cubs,<br />

Bears and Blackhawks.<br />

Growing up in Highland<br />

Park, he loved playing<br />

hockey and he continued<br />

playing as an adult.<br />

Melissa was told that<br />

the day she was born he<br />

was playing in a hockey<br />

game and her mother had<br />

to call him. During his<br />

adult life, he also enjoyed<br />

skiing, biking, hiking,<br />

fishing and camping.<br />

Music was another<br />

“huge, huge part of his<br />

life,” Melissa said. “He<br />

loved the Grateful Dead<br />

and the Allman Brothers.<br />

Last year he went with<br />

some friends to a Dead<br />

& Co. festival at Riviera<br />

Maya in Mexico. Dead &<br />

Co. has some members of<br />

the Grateful Dead with a<br />

few more people.<br />

“He enjoyed it so much<br />

he bought a ticket again<br />

this year and was planning<br />

to go back with his friends<br />

in January. He had hotel<br />

reservations.<br />

“I decided to use the<br />

ticket and hotel room and<br />

go with his friends. There<br />

were close to 10 of us and<br />

I was there for six days.<br />

It was nice being with his<br />

friends and hearing stories<br />

about him. I knew him as<br />

my dad; they knew him as<br />

their friend.”<br />

At the time of his death<br />

Ament was single. Both<br />

of his marriages ended in<br />

divorce but Melissa said<br />

he was on good terms<br />

with her mother, Debbi,<br />

and “very, very close”<br />

with his second wife’s<br />

stepson, Jared Silber, who<br />

lives in South Africa and<br />

was planning to return for<br />

a visit with him this year.<br />

“This past September<br />

we went on our first family<br />

vacation in 24 years,”<br />

reminisced Melissa. “We<br />

went to Madison and we<br />

all stayed in a hotel. He<br />

went to the football game<br />

to take pictures and my<br />

mom and I were in the<br />

stands watching him do<br />

what he loved.”<br />

Melissa said what her<br />

father enjoyed most about<br />

freelancing for the Landmark<br />

was “the community<br />

aspect—he very much enjoyed<br />

taking pictures in<br />

the community.”<br />

“If he had friends who<br />

had kids in sports he often<br />

would go out and take pictures<br />

on his own and give<br />

them to the parents,” she<br />

added. “The other thing<br />

he would often do is send<br />

his pictures to the people<br />

he photographed—even if<br />

he didn’t know them.”<br />

Donations honoring<br />

Ament’s memory can be<br />

sent to the UW-Madison<br />

Athletics Scholarship<br />

Fund: supportthebadgers.<br />

athletics.wisc.edu.<br />

Reporting by Neil Milbert,<br />

Freelance Reporter.

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