Feast Bay Area Morning Bulletin for Feb 17, 2019
Mr & Ms Right Series Talk 3
Mr & Ms Right Series Talk 3
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Philippine International<br />
Convention Center<br />
02 // <strong>17</strong> // 19<br />
I’ve met so many singles who told me, “I’m no longer a virgin, so I might as well do it<br />
in my next relationship. What’s the point? There’s nothing to preserve.”<br />
That’s a lie. You’re like a diamond that fell on mud. It got filthy, yes, but your<br />
intrinsic value remains the same. Wash off the dirt.<br />
In the same way, your soul is made in God’s image. He made you His duplicate.<br />
I shout this message from the housetops: More important than physical virginity is<br />
spiritual virginity. If you fell in the past, press the reset button. You can start afresh.<br />
You can start anew!<br />
Singles and Couples: For the sake of your present or future marriage, commit to<br />
purity, chastity and fidelity. Massive blessings will follow you all the days of your life!<br />
May your dreams come true,<br />
BO SANCHEZ<br />
Press The Reset Button<br />
TALK 3: Disordered Purity<br />
“One evening, David got up from his bed and walked around on<br />
the roof of the palace. From the roof he saw a woman bathing. The<br />
woman was very beautiful, and David sent someone to find out<br />
about her. The man said, ‘She is Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam<br />
and the wife of Uriah the Hittite.’”<br />
-2 Samuel 11:2-3 NIV<br />
Read also:<br />
–Matthew 5:27-28 NIV<br />
–Matthew 5:29-30 NIV<br />
Personal Reflection and Group Discussion:<br />
Share how you started afresh in the past and was changed<br />
by God’s Love.<br />
Many Sundays ago, a guy approached me while I was on my way to my car.<br />
He was a first-timer. He said how he was touched when I shared my story as a<br />
verbally-abused child. Then he told me how his own father also verbally abused<br />
him.<br />
How his breakfast would be a sermon, his lunch would be a sermon, his<br />
dinner would be a sermon. And so I asked him, “What was <strong>for</strong> dessert?” Just to<br />
break the mood.<br />
Our conversation ended with him asking, “How can I be part of The <strong>Feast</strong>? Is<br />
there a place in your community <strong>for</strong> a guy like me?”<br />
I smiled and said, “Not only is there a place in our community <strong>for</strong> a guy like<br />
you, but our community was created <strong>for</strong> a guy just like you!” And I told him,<br />
“Welcome home, brother.”<br />
I say this to anyone who might be feeling unworthy, unwanted or unloved:<br />
people who attend The <strong>Feast</strong> are not perfect people. They are people who are<br />
broken, hurting, lost, afraid, lonely. We can be summed up by one word: sinners.<br />
That’s all of us.<br />
The <strong>Feast</strong> exists <strong>for</strong> sinners who are in need of the Savior.<br />
If you are a sinner, I want you to know that you have a God who's waiting <strong>for</strong><br />
you today.<br />
Come on in. Welcome home.<br />
You will be blessed today.<br />
In Him,<br />
AUDEE VILLARAZA<br />
Welcome Home
Ayala Land IT Offcer Raphael Joseph "RJ" G. Rosario, 35,<br />
tells Zelle Flora how God’s presence in his life helped him<br />
overcome his trials and find love.<br />
Heartbreak after Heartbreak<br />
In September 2014, my fiancée flew to Australia <strong>for</strong> work. But<br />
the diffculty of long-distance relationship tainted our 11-year<br />
romance. After 6 months, we called it quits.<br />
Not too long after my devastating break-up, I received a call<br />
from my father telling me that my brother has been set up and<br />
arrested <strong>for</strong> selling illegal drugs. Despite his cooperation and<br />
confession, he was convicted <strong>for</strong> three years in prison.<br />
My heart was crushed. All we can do was cry <strong>for</strong> the unjust<br />
decision. My brother's appeal to me was, "Please take care of my<br />
family." He has two kids: 13 years old and 3 months old then.<br />
I also had problems in the offce. For one, I no longer enjoyed<br />
working there. It required a week-long service and erratic<br />
working hours.<br />
All Alone<br />
Life became burdensome. Depression kicked in and I<br />
struggled on my own. I had no one to talk to since my close<br />
friends were the friends of my ex-fiancée.<br />
I felt I didn't have any reason to live anymore. I was about<br />
to call it quits too, but a voice within nagged me, "What's your<br />
purpose <strong>for</strong> living?"<br />
It kept me thinking.<br />
Dying to Oneself<br />
Blessing Blog<br />
Being the eldest in our family, I knew I had to take on my<br />
brother’s responsibility. I disregarded my feelings and let my<br />
depression take care of itself. I thought I’d live <strong>for</strong> someone<br />
else—<strong>for</strong> my brother's dreams—his family.<br />
I quit my job and looked <strong>for</strong> a new one that could help me<br />
sustain the needs of my brother's family. It was not easy but it<br />
became my reason to stay strong and to be alive.<br />
It became my purpose <strong>for</strong> living.<br />
Receiving God’s Love<br />
Leaving my old job allowed me to go back to The <strong>Feast</strong>.<br />
There, I got to release all the pain and diffculty that I've been<br />
through. And in the midst of my every cry, the love of God<br />
filled me.<br />
WORTH HIS LOVE<br />
In June 2015, I got<br />
a new job in an offce<br />
near a church. So every<br />
day, I would drop by<br />
to pray, to give thanks<br />
to Him and ask <strong>for</strong> His<br />
guidance. Being the<br />
good God that He is, He<br />
helped me cope with the<br />
challenges that life has<br />
been throwing at me.<br />
The change of<br />
environment was a big<br />
help <strong>for</strong> me too. I found<br />
new friends. And there I<br />
met Danica.<br />
New Love Blooms<br />
Sweethearts RJ and Danica<br />
Danica has a cheerful personality and a warm heart. When we<br />
go out with friends at work, she makes sure everybody is happy.<br />
She became my listening ear and a shoulder to cry on. I woke<br />
up one day missing this sweet girl, even if we've only separated<br />
<strong>for</strong> a couple of hours. To spend more time with her, I would invite<br />
her out. She became my reason to smile and mend the pain of my<br />
broken heart.<br />
At that time, Danica was still in her six-year relationship. But<br />
she decided to end her longtime romance to give us a clean start.<br />
Her courage inspired me to call up my ex-fiancée <strong>for</strong> closure.<br />
I introduced her to my <strong>Feast</strong> family and until today, we serve<br />
together in different ministries. In January 2016, we became a<br />
couple. Danica has been with me in good and in bad times. She<br />
stayed with me even in my most undesirable moment. She's not<br />
just my girlfriend—she's my Ms. Right. We take our relationship<br />
seriously <strong>for</strong> we have God as our center.<br />
Ever Grateful<br />
My life is now filled with God’s love and gratitude <strong>for</strong> Him.<br />
Thinking back, I realize that the Lord has always been there <strong>for</strong><br />
me – through the good and bad. So I always acknowledge Him <strong>for</strong><br />
His Presence and the things He does in my life. I am worth His<br />
love. His overflowing love allowed me to love others.<br />
Allow me to share another good news: my brother has been<br />
released and who knows he might be with us at The <strong>Feast</strong><br />
this Sunday.<br />
Is God calling you to serve with us? Don’t wait <strong>for</strong> the next<br />
Ministry Fair. Join us today. Just approach any of the FBA<br />
servants at the lobby.<br />
Got an inspiring story to share? Email us today at<br />
iamblessedatthefeast@gmail.com.
Scenes From Last Sunday<br />
Recap<br />
Gospel Verses: Luke 5:1-11<br />
Jesus Calls His First Disciples<br />
“When you surrender<br />
your weaknesses to God,<br />
you discover your greatest<br />
strength.”<br />
- Fr. Alex Balatbat<br />
It is okay to fail in life and lose everything because we will<br />
always have God on our side. He will heal our brokenness. He<br />
alone is enough to take us out of the dark.<br />
Happy Single. Marianne Mencias’s latest book<br />
is out, Why Is My Forever Taking Forever?<br />
Dear Lord,<br />
I surrender in my<br />
waiting. I will wish.<br />
I will work. I will<br />
walk. I will worship.<br />
I will worship<br />
because I trust<br />
You. I entrust my<br />
whole life and my<br />
future into Your<br />
big hands. In Jesus’<br />
Name. Amen.<br />
“While you’re<br />
waiting,<br />
God is<br />
working.”<br />
–Bro. Bo Sanchez<br />
Teacher Penny Bongato shares her tithe<br />
story and tells <strong>Feast</strong>ers, “The more you<br />
give, the more blessings will come.”<br />
Series: Looking <strong>for</strong> Mr. and Ms. Right<br />
Talk 2: Disordered Priorities<br />
Big Message: Your blessing is coming.<br />
Our Purpose. We all have a purpose in life – a calling that we<br />
must fulfill. When God calls us, He provides and equips us with<br />
what we need. His purpose is to always bless us.<br />
Learn to Surrender. It takes faith to surrender and trust that<br />
His blessings are coming. Oftentimes though, when we do not<br />
understand these plans, our impatience makes us take matters<br />
into our own hands. When this happens, we commit these<br />
common mistakes:<br />
• Our dream isn’t wrong, just our deadline. We are in a<br />
hurry because we know what we want. But God is never in a<br />
rush because He knows what we need.<br />
Single people, it is better to remain single than to be married to<br />
the wrong person.<br />
• We want God’s promise, but not His process. Sometimes,<br />
we create problems due to our impatience and pride. The<br />
Lord wants us to wait so that we may grow and mature more.<br />
• Prioritize the blessing over the Blesser. Prioritize Him.<br />
The greatest goal is to love God and be happy. We are called<br />
to share this happiness with the world whether we’re married<br />
or single.<br />
Blessed Are They Who Wait. The real miracle is who we<br />
become while waiting <strong>for</strong> our miracle.<br />
Do the following while waiting:<br />
• Wish. Single people, set criteria <strong>for</strong> your partner. Stick to<br />
your negotiables and non-negotiables. Don’t waste your time<br />
on recreational relationships.<br />
• Work. Be<strong>for</strong>e you look <strong>for</strong> the right partner, be the right<br />
partner. Work on yourself.<br />
• Walk. Get out of your circle. Do things you’ve never done<br />
be<strong>for</strong>e. Go out and explore the world. Have a life outside<br />
your com<strong>for</strong>t zone and enjoy life.<br />
• Worship. Our waiting has a higher purpose. It is to deepen<br />
our relationship with God.<br />
Seek the Blesser. Don’t <strong>for</strong>get that the greatest blessing we<br />
could ever receive is God Himself. Seek first the Blesser and His<br />
blessings will follow.
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