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ISSUE NO.57 MARCH <strong>2019</strong><br />
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WELL-BEING<br />
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ISSUE #57<br />
VOLUME #7, ISSUE 3<br />
PUBLISHER<br />
ANDREW FISHMAN<br />
CO-PUBLISHER<br />
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ART DIRECTION<br />
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EZRA BRAVES<br />
JON COHEN<br />
ELDEN FREEMAN<br />
REBECCA HAY<br />
SARAH JEAN<br />
HARRISON<br />
LAWSON HENNICK<br />
JESSICA LANGER<br />
JOANNE SALLAY<br />
JAIME SLAVIN<br />
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MARCH <strong>2019</strong><br />
EVENTS<br />
Keeping you connected to your community.<br />
FROM THE<br />
PUBLISHERS<br />
Winter has dragged on long<br />
enough! It’s <strong>March</strong> and we’re<br />
feeling ready for Spring with<br />
stories that will help you bring<br />
light, happiness and fun into your life.<br />
In Styling, you can chase the winter blahs<br />
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roti (Eating).<br />
If cabin fever set in over the winter, it might<br />
be time to hit the open road! Just make sure<br />
you brush up on your motorcycle safety. And<br />
don’t forget about home safety too — when<br />
was the last time you tested for radon gas?<br />
(<strong>Living</strong>)<br />
For parents, <strong>March</strong> means one thing: <strong>March</strong><br />
Break. The little ones are going to be home<br />
and in need of entertaining, but turning your<br />
kitchen into a classroom can help with that!<br />
Packing the kids up and taking them to Japan<br />
might be a slightly more ambitious <strong>March</strong><br />
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(Parenting).<br />
If your kids are making you feel frazzled,<br />
you’re not alone. There are stress<br />
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(Well-Being), as well as advice for new moms<br />
who maybe are sick of getting advice in Diary<br />
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Month 1<br />
Month 2<br />
LIVING<br />
RADON<br />
DETECTOR<br />
Month 3<br />
Image from Health Canada<br />
HOW TO REDUCE RADON IN YOUR HOME<br />
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RADON<br />
Radon Gas<br />
An Invisible Menace<br />
Recent research found that ONLY<br />
29% OF CANADIANS<br />
with high RADON in their home<br />
took action to REDUCE it!<br />
BY ELDEN FREEMAN<br />
The cold winter weather traps many of us inside our<br />
homes until the first sign of spring, and being inside all<br />
that time may lead you to wonder about the quality of your<br />
indoor air.<br />
In Canada, radon gas is something of a concern. In 2014,<br />
the CBC obtained data that showed over 1,500 homes had<br />
radon levels above Health Canada’s safety guidelines,<br />
following tests of approximately 14,000 homes across the<br />
country.<br />
Radon is the second-leading cause of lung cancer after<br />
smoking. It’s estimated that radon is responsible for<br />
3,000 deaths in Canada each year.<br />
Radon is a radioactive gas created in nature that can seep<br />
into poorly ventilated basements and crawl spaces. Radon is<br />
created by decaying uranium found in soil, rock and water.<br />
These three elements are found in the ground, making radon<br />
www.takeactiononradon.ca<br />
likely to leach into its first point of contact, like cellars or<br />
crawl spaces, through TEST cracks in the and foundation and gaps<br />
around pipes.<br />
The scary thing about REDUCE radon is that it’s RADON<br />
invisible, odourless<br />
and tasteless. The only<br />
to<br />
way<br />
protect<br />
to know for sure<br />
against<br />
if it’s your<br />
home is to do a DIY test, or call in a professional at your<br />
own expense. lung cancer<br />
According to the CBC, recommendations that the<br />
government help fund homeowners in need of testing or<br />
cleaning up radon have not been addressed. Neither has<br />
a recommendation for mandatory testing of homes as a<br />
condition of sale, as is the case in several U.S. states.<br />
Radon gas levels are measured in units known as the<br />
Becquerel (Bq). One Becquerel is described as one event of<br />
radiation emission per second and it is minute.<br />
The old Canadian standard considered 800 Bq per cubic<br />
metre to be a safe standard. But ten years ago, following a<br />
push to tighten guidelines, the federal government changed<br />
its standard to 200 Bq per cubic metre, the same level<br />
considered safe by Russia and China. The U.S. pegs its safe<br />
level at 150.<br />
For more information or to learn more about testing for<br />
radon, visit Health Canada at http://www.hc-sc.gc.ca/ewhsemt/radiation/radon/testing-analyse-eng.php<br />
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LIVING<br />
Motorcycle<br />
Safety<br />
BY LAWSON HENNICK<br />
With spring within sight, it’s<br />
only a matter of time before<br />
motorcycle enthusiasts dust<br />
off their bikes and head outdoors<br />
to enjoy the open road.<br />
In my years working as<br />
a personal injury lawyer, I<br />
admit I’ve been somewhat<br />
skeptical of motorcycling,<br />
probably for the same<br />
reason as many others —<br />
it’s risky, unpredictable and<br />
seemingly crime ridden,<br />
right? Well, I have come to<br />
learn that motorcycle culture<br />
is so much more than just<br />
tattoos, mindless stunts and<br />
vigilante justice.<br />
To the contrary, anyone<br />
who rides will likely tell you<br />
it’s truly about the thrill and<br />
freedom of the open road,<br />
the beauty of the passing<br />
countryside<br />
and the camaraderie of<br />
like-minded individuals<br />
who share the same values.<br />
Essentially, to passionate<br />
motorcycle riders, it’s so<br />
much more than a means<br />
of transportation — it’s a<br />
symbol of liberty.<br />
This passion is shared<br />
across a wide range of<br />
demographics: including<br />
men, women, doctors,<br />
lawyers, dentists,<br />
accountants and so many<br />
more. These enthusiasts can<br />
be your friends, neighbours<br />
or even your family. You may<br />
even be one yourself.<br />
Even baby boomers, many<br />
of whom are now empty<br />
nesters, are picking up their<br />
motorcycles for the first time<br />
in decades and reigniting<br />
their passion for biking.<br />
While motorcycling<br />
is no doubt a liberating<br />
passion, the inherent risks<br />
that go with it must not be<br />
underestimated.<br />
American research has<br />
shown that in 2004, the<br />
chance of a motorcyclist<br />
dying was 34 times greater<br />
than that of someone using<br />
any other motor vehicle.<br />
(https://www.ncbi.nlm.<br />
nih.gov/pmc/articles/<br />
PMC2792408/).<br />
Globally, motorcyclists<br />
account for nearly 25% of all<br />
road traffic deaths (World<br />
Health Organization. Global<br />
Status Report on Road<br />
Safety 2015. 2015. Available<br />
at http://www.who.int/<br />
violence_injury_prevention/<br />
road_safety_status/2015/en/.)<br />
It is often<br />
not the<br />
motorcyclists<br />
themselves<br />
who are at<br />
fault in a<br />
crash, but<br />
the operators<br />
GLOBAL<br />
STATUS<br />
REPORT<br />
ON ROAD<br />
SAFETY<br />
2018<br />
of cars who fail to notice<br />
them. Drivers may not<br />
notice motorcycles travelling<br />
through an intersection due<br />
to their smaller size and may<br />
be more focused on scanning<br />
the intersection for other<br />
cars instead of motorcycles.<br />
Between 2005 and 2014,<br />
the O.P.P. conducted a<br />
study of 279 motorcycle<br />
rider deaths. In 89 of these<br />
fatalities, the victims did<br />
“nothing wrong.”<br />
Wishing everyone<br />
a safe and happy<br />
<strong>2019</strong> motorcycle<br />
riding season!<br />
While there<br />
are numerous<br />
causes of<br />
motorcycle<br />
accidents,<br />
motorcyclists<br />
should always<br />
take safety<br />
precautions like<br />
the following:<br />
» Always wear<br />
a helmet<br />
» Wear visible<br />
clothing and proper<br />
protective gear and<br />
be seen<br />
» Drive defensively,<br />
and maintain space<br />
as well as anticipate<br />
actions of other<br />
drivers<br />
» Avoid riding in<br />
poor weather<br />
» Make sure your<br />
bike is properly<br />
maintained<br />
» Follow rules of<br />
the road<br />
» Never ride when<br />
tired and give<br />
yourself a break<br />
when needed<br />
» Look ahead at<br />
all times and pay<br />
attention to road<br />
grade and surface<br />
» Be extra vigilant<br />
when riding through<br />
intersections<br />
LAWSON HENNICK is a personal injury lawyer specializing in motor vehicle litigation, slip and falls, dog bites and long term disability<br />
denials. He can be reached at lhennick@jrjlaw.com<br />
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Facebook first started out as a simple social networking<br />
platform that brought college students together, one<br />
campus at a time. Back then, it was a revolutionary<br />
way to chat with friends. As it grew, it gave everyone a place<br />
to share photos, connect with others and make new friends.<br />
Fast forward 15 years and Facebook is faced with privacy<br />
issues, scams and a ton of ads. Boy, I miss the good ol’ days!<br />
This month, I am giving you a gift: an add-on I have been<br />
using for a while that really makes Facebook usable again.<br />
Meet Social Fixer (www.socialfixer.com)! This is an add-on<br />
(plugin) for your computer web browser that adds new features<br />
to Facebook and brings back some of the old features<br />
that people loved. Oh, and did I mention that it has a built-in<br />
ad blocker? Sadly, it doesn’t work on your phone or tablet.<br />
Since installing it on my own personal machines, I have<br />
gotten more productivity from Facebook thanks to options<br />
like turning off or blocking certain keywords or users. Allow<br />
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HIDE POSTS Easily hide posts from your feed by<br />
keyword or phrase.<br />
STEALTH MODE Hide things you might accidentally<br />
click on when you don’t mean to, like the “Like” and<br />
“Add Friend” links or “Comment” fields.<br />
CHECK FOR FILTERED MESSAGES This feature<br />
alerts you if there are any unread messages from people<br />
outside your network that Facebook has hidden.<br />
DISABLE AUTO-PLAY VIDEOS This prevents videos<br />
from automatically playing as you scroll past them.<br />
AUTOMATICALLY SHOW MOST RECENT POSTS<br />
This option automatically switches you from Top Stories<br />
to the chronological Most Recent view.<br />
FRIEND MANAGER This allows you to see who has left<br />
your social network, either by quitting Facebook or by<br />
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Now that you know all about it, I would encourage you<br />
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I am sure you will find a few features that you will fall<br />
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STYLING<br />
Working & <strong>Living</strong><br />
with Colour<br />
Must-know tips for taking the plunge<br />
BY REBECCA HAY<br />
Decorating with colour can be<br />
intimidating and scary, but when<br />
it’s done right, it can make a room<br />
feel inviting and inspiring. As a designer,<br />
I love to infuse a healthy amount of<br />
colour into a space. When it came to<br />
decorating my own family home, I<br />
made no exceptions. With two young<br />
kids and a small furry dog, I wanted a<br />
space that felt friendly and yet looked<br />
polished, where neighbours could gather<br />
and kids could play. Finding that perfect<br />
balance is what transforms a beautifully<br />
decorated house into a home.<br />
Colour is integral to creating the right<br />
mood. It is always my goal to create<br />
living spaces that are warm, unique and<br />
inviting. Colour allows me to do this<br />
every time.<br />
Before designing any space, think<br />
about the mood you want to convey.<br />
Is it a cool, relaxing space or a warm,<br />
inviting space where dinner parties<br />
evolve into dance parties? You don’t<br />
need a degree in psychology to figure<br />
out which colours are right for you.<br />
Trust your gut and you will never go<br />
wrong, but it’s important to be mindful<br />
of the mood and energy you are trying to<br />
evoke. The psychology behind colour is<br />
a fascinating study. Yellow is a cheerful<br />
colour that promotes optimism, while<br />
blue is associated with tranquillity<br />
and reliability. It also happens to be<br />
the preferred colour of men, so it’s no<br />
surprise that I needed a little bit of navy<br />
14 VILLAGE LIVING <strong>MIDTOWN</strong>
for the men in my own home!<br />
My home is a true expression of “his<br />
meets hers” style. When we first moved<br />
into the house six years ago, I fell in<br />
love with its architectural features like<br />
the crown moulding, wall panelling and<br />
the fact that it was “almost“ 100 years<br />
old. My husband was less excited about<br />
the “old” factor, so the decor needed to<br />
reflect his modern sensibilities as well<br />
as my own more traditional take on life.<br />
For the living room, I wanted it to be<br />
bright and energizing as this is the main<br />
sitting and socializing area of the home.<br />
The drapery fabric was my starting<br />
point. I knew we wanted to energize the<br />
space with yellow and we already had<br />
the retro navy chairs to work with, so I<br />
chose to balance the navy of the chairs<br />
with bright yellow custom drapery.<br />
Finding the right balance of colour<br />
was also key in achieving a cohesive<br />
design. When decorating with colour, it’s<br />
important to balance any bold colours<br />
with lots of neutrals. A little trick that<br />
I like to use is the 60-30-10 rule. When<br />
decorating a particular room, divide<br />
the colours into percentages: 60% of a<br />
dominant colour, 30% of a secondary<br />
colour, 10% of an accent colour and you<br />
will never go wrong.<br />
The three dominant colours in our<br />
living/dining space are Beige, Yellow and<br />
Navy, but I also chose to compliment<br />
the blues with hints of orange in the<br />
living room. Adding a few “bonus”<br />
colours adds further interest. I found<br />
an old traditional wingback armchair<br />
on the curb along Earlsdale Road one<br />
day shortly after we moved in. One<br />
man’s trash is another man’s treasure!<br />
Needless to say, it was in desperate<br />
need of TLC. I had it stripped down<br />
and recovered with bold contemporary<br />
orange fabric, and now it’s cozy,<br />
warm and inviting while adding some<br />
traditional sophistication to the space.<br />
We repeated the orange hue throughout<br />
the room.<br />
Repetition is the key to any<br />
successfully designed home. By<br />
repeating a colour multiple times<br />
in a space, it feels purposeful and<br />
comforting. We repeated the orange in<br />
custom toss cushions and with smaller<br />
accessories. It’s not enough to have a<br />
large amount of colour in one piece of<br />
furniture. Layering the same colour<br />
throughout the space creates a cohesive<br />
and unified design.<br />
Ask any of our neighbours and they<br />
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STYLING<br />
Just ask the Butler<br />
PERSONAL CONCIERGES<br />
HELP YOU GREEN YOUR LIFE<br />
BY SARAH JEAN HARRISON<br />
How would your life change if<br />
you had a butler? I know it feels<br />
like an odd question in <strong>2019</strong>,<br />
but humour me. What tasks would you<br />
gladly hand over to more capable hands?<br />
Would it be switching the house over<br />
to LED lights, or finding an organic<br />
catering company that accommodates<br />
your family’s dietary needs? Perhaps<br />
it would be sourcing the best organic<br />
cotton sheets for the cottage?<br />
Whatever task you’d like to hand<br />
over to the professionals, you’re not<br />
alone. Personal concierge services are<br />
booming across North America, which<br />
is not surprising given the increasing<br />
demands of our work lives and long<br />
hours at the computer. According to a<br />
recent article in The Guardian, in 2002<br />
only 10% of us checked our emails<br />
outside of work hours but by 2018 it<br />
was 50%, and “often before we get out<br />
of bed.”<br />
Within the burgeoning world of<br />
personal concierges there is a subset<br />
of services dedicated to helping you<br />
green your life. In San Francisco, Friday<br />
Apaliski of Sustainability Concierge offers<br />
eco-friendly services like setting up<br />
composting systems. In Houston, Texas,<br />
Amy Vance, founder of EcoModern<br />
Concierge, focuses on decluttering and<br />
swapping out conventional products for<br />
greener versions.<br />
Here in Toronto, I spoke with<br />
Modern Concierge CEO and founder<br />
Tina Iaquinta. While not expressly<br />
“green” (at the moment there are<br />
no exclusively green concierges<br />
in Toronto), Tina assured me that<br />
greening your life is definitely within<br />
her purview. “This is an area I am<br />
slowly getting more requests for,<br />
especially regarding food. Many people<br />
are increasingly concerned about eating<br />
organic foods or sticking to a vegan<br />
diet. I’m excited to<br />
see more requests<br />
for sustainablerelated<br />
services.”<br />
For many busy<br />
professionals,<br />
the research and<br />
set-up required<br />
to establish<br />
sustainable<br />
practices at home can be too timeintensive.<br />
Finding the best all-natural<br />
laundry soap or setting up a zero-waste<br />
kitchen are huge tasks for the timestrapped.<br />
A personal concierge takes all<br />
of that work and puts it into one simple<br />
phone call.<br />
But don’t think of this as a one-off<br />
kind of service. “To really enjoy the<br />
value of a personal concierge, you<br />
have to stay with us for at least a<br />
few months,” Tina says. “We learn to<br />
anticipate your needs and preferences,<br />
which means you never have to think<br />
about hiring a snow removal service or<br />
find a good organic chef for that work<br />
“We learn to<br />
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needs and<br />
preferences<br />
event you’re<br />
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Is this<br />
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service just for the uber rich, like Bezos<br />
and Gates? To a degree, yes: these<br />
services don’t come cheap.<br />
“This isn’t for everyone. But for our<br />
clients, who want more time with<br />
their kids and more time enjoying life,<br />
a personal concierge is worth every<br />
penny,” says Tina. And honestly, who<br />
doesn’t dream about having a butler to<br />
take care of the LED change overs?<br />
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The<br />
Spice<br />
Route<br />
BY EZRA BRAVES<br />
What does it<br />
say about<br />
me that<br />
I have<br />
no less than a dozen<br />
hot sauces in my<br />
fridge? Or that I have<br />
a diabolical look of<br />
satisfaction whenever<br />
I see someone start<br />
to vibrate and sweat,<br />
both hands to the<br />
sinus area, from<br />
eating my homemade<br />
horseradish? It happens<br />
at least twice a year.<br />
While some parents are<br />
proud when their kid<br />
gets an A, I beam when<br />
my 10-year-old eats a<br />
jalapeño — we call it<br />
spice training.<br />
Maybe my taste buds have<br />
been in a steady decline from<br />
my relentless, self-imposed,<br />
hot sauce torture, but I’m<br />
addicted to spice. It isn’t<br />
heat for its own sake, it’s the<br />
complexity of flavours I’m<br />
looking for — the burn, the<br />
excitement, the anticipation<br />
of my next meal as a<br />
platform to add heat. Spice<br />
is fundamental to pleasure.<br />
When I eat out, I usually<br />
gravitate to meals that I<br />
can’t easily make at home.<br />
This includes my favourite<br />
food group, curry. Yes, curry.<br />
There are few flavours, other<br />
than soft raw milk cheese<br />
sitting out for hours, that<br />
inspire me to leave the house<br />
these days.<br />
Fourteen. That is the<br />
number of roti I ate to write<br />
this piece. My favourite<br />
recent memory was during<br />
the last deep freeze, sitting in<br />
Matha, the new roti joint on<br />
Harbord Street (formerly Flip,<br />
Toss, and Thai) eating a spicy<br />
(as I later found out, “white<br />
person spicy” — jeez. Really?)<br />
roti, my neck sweating and<br />
my face blush red against the<br />
backdrop of the blowing snow<br />
and grey clouded sky. I wasn’t<br />
registering the heat, but I<br />
did notice my face changing<br />
colour in the window<br />
reflection as I devoured their<br />
madras masala roti with<br />
methi leaves, coconut and<br />
fennel. I must have been in<br />
a trance. I’m haunted by the<br />
deep flavour of their curry,<br />
the smell of frying onions,<br />
ghee and coriander, the<br />
layers of heat, first mouth<br />
and then body, a warmth<br />
radiating in my core (or was<br />
that heartburn?), the<br />
garam masala and<br />
subtle cardamom — I’m<br />
entirely jealous that I will<br />
never be able to make this.<br />
I’m transported to the market<br />
place of my mind: rows of<br />
slightly dented but pristine<br />
aluminum bowls, where<br />
spices are piled high in<br />
perfectly sculpted pyramidal<br />
shapes and colours — reds,<br />
deep rust orange, pale<br />
yellows and green, line my<br />
neural synapses.<br />
Roti is ubiquitous in our<br />
city and I have travelled to<br />
each end of it to find the<br />
perfect roti (thanks Suresh,<br />
D Hot Shoppe in Burlington<br />
was so good!). When I’m less<br />
adventurous, I like my spice<br />
route to be closer to home.<br />
Making small talk while<br />
waiting for my vegan curried<br />
mixed vegetable roti with<br />
added saag, I asked one of<br />
the staff at Roti Cuisine of<br />
India, “Would it be healthy<br />
to eat roti every day?” She<br />
responded, “Oh yes, we have<br />
customers coming in twice<br />
a day.” That would be my<br />
fantasy. Is this what it has<br />
come to?<br />
All the places on my list<br />
(and I deeply apologize to<br />
those left out as there are<br />
so many great roti joints)<br />
really had the right balance<br />
of filling and sauce to roti<br />
flatbread or dhal puri — and<br />
some made the roti bread on<br />
site, from scratch. There is an<br />
art here. And please, please,<br />
more sauce. While it might<br />
be a bit camp or even retro<br />
to serve orange Fanta, the<br />
use of frozen ridge cut carrot<br />
and vegetable medley (I’m<br />
quietly protesting, while also<br />
forgiving) is not.<br />
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FINDING HOME<br />
“<br />
First you write your story, then<br />
you read your story, then you<br />
tell your story,” says Katherine<br />
Govier, novelist and founder of<br />
The Shoe Project. The Shoe Project is a<br />
writing and performance workshop for<br />
immigrant women that is in its seventh<br />
year and has held performances in eight<br />
cities across Canada, from Vancouver to<br />
Halifax. On <strong>March</strong> 31 and April 2, <strong>2019</strong>,<br />
the George Ignatieff Theatre in Toronto<br />
will host 12 women who immigrated to<br />
Canada, some as refugees, sharing their<br />
stories of suffering, despair, upheaval<br />
and hope. These women participated<br />
in a 10-week writing and performance<br />
workshop, which helped them shape<br />
first-person stories of their journey to<br />
Canada through a pair of shoes.<br />
“We want to represent as many<br />
countries, language backgrounds and<br />
ages as possible,” says Govier. “We<br />
recruit through various immigration<br />
groups, including the YWCA and our<br />
alumni, and interview candidates who<br />
can make the commitment to the 10-<br />
week workshop and, most importantly,<br />
want to share their experiences through<br />
a pair of shoes.” The shoes are a<br />
metaphor for their travels. Through their<br />
soles, the stories help build a bridge of<br />
understanding as they evolve in “finding<br />
their home” and start to unmask<br />
themselves as immigrants and refugees<br />
and assimilate into neighbourhoods.<br />
Govier is quick to point out that these<br />
women are not professional writers;<br />
however, their background, experiences<br />
and professions require them to have a<br />
sophisticated grasp of the English language,<br />
and this experience helps with<br />
that. And the confidence they gain as a<br />
collective group fuels and heals them.<br />
BY MARYLENE VESTERGOM<br />
A long-time advocate of freedom of<br />
speech, this midtown Toronto resident is<br />
also a well-known and prolific writer of<br />
over 11 novels. Govier is no stranger to<br />
championing the voice of women in her<br />
stories.<br />
“I have always written about women<br />
who don’t have a voice, and I think<br />
recognition is a major part of my<br />
writing,” she says. “Right now I’m<br />
working on a sequel to the novel The<br />
Ghost Brush, which is about Katsushika<br />
Ōi, a great artist in her own right and<br />
the daughter of legendary printmaker<br />
Katsushika Hokusai, known for The<br />
Great Wave.” Govier uncovered that<br />
the late images attributed to Hokusai<br />
might very well not be his work,<br />
but those of his daughter, Ōi. Govier<br />
says that Hokusai lived twice his life<br />
expectancy and during his last 25 years,<br />
he was disabled by a stroke. “How<br />
does someone disappear from history?<br />
Just like the women involved in The<br />
Shoe Project, these are stories that<br />
would be lost between languages if we<br />
didn’t encourage those who are closest<br />
to speak.”<br />
The Shoe Project is the platform that<br />
has encouraged these women to share<br />
their stories. “My mother used to say<br />
to me: it takes three generations to<br />
make an artist. The first generation has<br />
to survive in this country, the second<br />
generation wants more security than an<br />
artist, but the third generation can take<br />
those risks. But look at all we lose when<br />
that happens; we lose the reality, we<br />
lose that first-person story of what it was<br />
like getting here.”<br />
Finding home – The Shoe Project promises<br />
to be an evening of laughter, tears<br />
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WELL-BEING<br />
The Modern Moms’<br />
Guide to Calming Stress<br />
– Part 3 of 3<br />
BY SINDY SHIN, ND CREATOR OF THE CALM MAMA METHOD<br />
Easing the Emotional Stress of Motherhood:<br />
The 3 Daily Reminders Every Mother Needs<br />
to Lighten the Emotional Load<br />
Life can be exhausting! You feel like the world is spinning around<br />
you, everything is pulling you in different directions and the<br />
juggling act to balance it all feels impossible. The hardest part<br />
may not be the physical demand or even the mental drain of managing<br />
every aspect of life, but the emotional load. More and more, that’s what<br />
bears the greatest weight for mothers today.<br />
Have you ever had one of those mornings where everything just<br />
feels harder? Maybe you had an exhausting night with a little one who<br />
just couldn’t sleep, or a chaotic morning of yelling and tantrums, or,<br />
in those two minutes before you’re out the door, your perfectly pottytrained<br />
toddler decides to pee on the floor. You’re tired, frustrated and<br />
disappointed. The hardest thing to deal with isn’t what’s happening<br />
around you, but how you’re feeling in that moment.<br />
With recent studies recognizing parental burnout as a very real<br />
concern, I am seeing more and more mothers step out of their silent<br />
suffering and reach out for help with their symptoms of emotional<br />
overwhelm. Symptoms include uncharacteristic mood changes,<br />
irritability, anger, depressed moods, crying often and an overall<br />
heightened sensitivity to external triggers. It’s like living in a tiny glass<br />
house filled with a rainbow of emotions that could shatter with the<br />
slightest touch. Your patience and tolerance has become so delicate<br />
that you just might snap at any given moment.<br />
No matter where you may be in your motherhood journey, you’re not<br />
alone if you feel like you’re on an emotional rollercoaster. All you want<br />
is the ride to stop long enough so you can catch your breath and get<br />
back to being you. Take these daily reminders with you and begin to<br />
ease your emotional stress, so when the world is spinning around you,<br />
you can find a moment of peace in the centre of it all.<br />
In moments of self-doubt,<br />
self-judgment and guilt, there<br />
are three core reminders that I<br />
coach mothers through to<br />
help them reconnect to their<br />
self-worth. With each reminder,<br />
inhale self-compassion and<br />
exhale tension.<br />
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PRESENCE IS ENOUGH.<br />
When you feel like you’re not<br />
measuring up, remember that<br />
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everything by simply being you.<br />
NOT A BAD PERSON,<br />
YOU’RE JUST HAVING A BAD DAY.<br />
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PARENTING<br />
A Tween<br />
Abroad<br />
THREE THINGS I LEARNED<br />
WHILE TRAVELLING WITH<br />
MY DAUGHTER<br />
BY JESSICA LANGER<br />
When I decided to use part<br />
of my summer as a public<br />
relations professor taking<br />
a research trip to Japan<br />
studying of public signs and how they<br />
use adorable imagery to communicate<br />
specific cultural messages, I wanted<br />
to bring along my 8-year-old daughter,<br />
Miranda. A third-grader obsessed with<br />
unicorns and rainbows would be a<br />
perfect research assistant for a project<br />
on cuteness, I figured.<br />
So I booked her a ticket on credit card<br />
points, prayed for minimal jet lag and<br />
off we went! We visited Osaka, Kyoto,<br />
Hiroshima, Hakone and Tokyo.<br />
It turned out to be a research trip in<br />
every sense: I learned almost as much<br />
about traveling with a tween as I did<br />
about my research topic! If you ever<br />
decide to do the same, here are<br />
three things to consider.<br />
1. GO HIGH-LOW. It’s practical to go<br />
cheap and cheerful and fun to go luxe.<br />
But when you’re traveling with a child,<br />
why not try both?<br />
In Osaka and Tokyo, we stayed at<br />
business hotels. This type of hotel<br />
features very small rooms and in-room<br />
electricity is triggered by putting your<br />
room key card in a slot by the door.<br />
They’re clean and nice, but basic.<br />
In Hiroshima and Hakone, we<br />
splurged. At the ANA Crowne Plaza<br />
Hiroshima, we stayed in a large room<br />
with a sweeping view of downtown and<br />
the bay. There was even a warming eye<br />
mask to help you fall asleep, which was<br />
helpful with the persistent jet lag!<br />
We stayed for one glorious night at<br />
the Kowakien Ten-yu in Hakone, a<br />
luxurious onsen (volcanic hot spring)<br />
resort. We had a private open-air bath<br />
on our balcony and a view over the<br />
forested mountains; in the morning, we<br />
sipped hot green tea next to a waterfall<br />
in the forest garden.<br />
The best part? The variety led to a<br />
conversation about what really matters<br />
when it comes to a place to stay.<br />
(Miranda’s answer: “I just need someone<br />
to snuggle with, and I’m happy.” I agree.)<br />
2. TRUST THEM TO EXPAND THEIR<br />
HORIZONS… BUT MANAGE YOUR<br />
EXPECTATIONS. We were booked<br />
in for a kaiseki dinner at Ten-yu, a<br />
traditional Japanese meal of many<br />
small courses. Our lovely hosts asked<br />
if Miranda would eat sashimi. Although<br />
I wanted her to try it, I also wanted<br />
to make sure she had something<br />
familiar since new foods are sometimes<br />
challenging for her. I told them she<br />
wasn’t a fan; they promised to prepare<br />
her some tempura instead.<br />
The food was delightful but Miranda<br />
only ate the tempura. (I ate most of her<br />
dinner, as well as all of mine. I’m not<br />
sorry.)<br />
But you know what? She did dress in a<br />
yukata (a Japanese robe), use chopsticks<br />
like an expert, and sit and chat with<br />
me at dinner for almost two hours.<br />
Horizons officially expanded.<br />
JESSICA LANGER is a professor in the Centennial College Bachelor of Public Relations Management program. She’s a third-generation<br />
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3. GIVE THEM TIME TO BE KIDS. In<br />
Tokyo, my local friend Paige who has two<br />
kids around Miranda’s age, invited us out<br />
to a playground. “Japanese playgrounds<br />
are pretty cool,” she said. “They’re built<br />
with child development in mind.”<br />
This playground had saws — actual<br />
metal saws — and pieces of wood to use<br />
them on. It had a treehouse that reached<br />
nearly into the treetops. It had a pedal-car<br />
racetrack with working traffic signals.<br />
It was kid heaven.<br />
More than that: after nearly a week<br />
hanging out with just grown-ups,<br />
Miranda was dying for the company of<br />
other kids. The three kids spent hours<br />
building a fort, driving pedal cars and<br />
sawing wood while Paige and I sat and<br />
chatted in the sunshine.<br />
It was a perfect afternoon, because<br />
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You are in good physical<br />
and mental health<br />
You are pregnant<br />
You are not taking any<br />
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Compensation provided<br />
Please call: 416-535-8501 x 31697<br />
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PARENTING<br />
Diary of a New Mama<br />
What I wish I knew before becoming a mom<br />
BY JAIME SLAVIN<br />
One year into motherhood, I’m<br />
pausing for a moment to reflect on<br />
what a simultaneously beautiful and<br />
crazy year this was. While I couldn’t<br />
have learned these lessons without<br />
going through the experience myself,<br />
anyone embarking on the journey<br />
of motherhood may find something<br />
helpful from this (I hope!).<br />
When people tell you to “nap<br />
when your baby naps,” try not to get<br />
frustrated. I wish I could have napped<br />
every time my baby napped, but I was either doing<br />
chores around the house or cooking (of course your<br />
baby always wakes up the second you’re about to eat<br />
something). Start thinking of naps as part of your “to<br />
do” list, and prioritize them just as much as things<br />
around the house.<br />
Have real open and honest conversations with<br />
other moms. Don’t pretend like you have it all<br />
together or that your baby is the happiest baby on the<br />
block. When you are vulnerable and raw, other moms<br />
will start being that way with you too. You learn from<br />
each other, laugh and cry with each other and can<br />
pick up some really useful tips along the way.<br />
Speaking of tips, everyone will share advice with<br />
you. This is neither good nor bad. It’s confusing at times<br />
and helpful at other times. While you’re still getting to<br />
know your baby and developing your mom intuition, you<br />
will eventually learn that you know your baby best.<br />
It’s okay to look at the clock multiple times a day and<br />
wonder when is it time for your baby to sleep. You are<br />
allowed to want your alone time. You are not a bad mom<br />
if you need a break. I know that I am a better mom when I<br />
have some time to “recharge,” even if that’s just 15 minutes<br />
to myself.<br />
Lastly, compliment yourself. I know this sounds silly but<br />
your baby doesn’t have the ability to tell you how much<br />
they love you, or how thankful they are for you. If they did,<br />
the positive feedback would make the really challenging<br />
moments seem less intense. Instead, tell yourself how<br />
amazing you are and mean it when you say it!<br />
Call to book your spot<br />
1-866-933-1652<br />
JAIME SLAVIN is a nutritionist, registered dietician,<br />
Masters of Public Health, food educator and advocate<br />
for your health and well-being. jaimeslavin.com<br />
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PARENTING<br />
HOOKED ON BOOKS<br />
Turn your Kitchen into a<br />
Classroom for <strong>March</strong> Break<br />
BY JOANNE SALLAY EDUCATION COLUMNIST<br />
Do you have a young sous-chef at home? Cooking is a valuable skill to teach<br />
children with the potential for delicious outcomes! Cooking also happens to be<br />
jam-packed with educational potential.<br />
There are many teachable moments for students that can be taught in the<br />
learning lab – aka the kitchen. Both baking and cooking can reinforce subjects taught at<br />
school: math, science, reading and history. It also is a great way to introduce students to<br />
other cultures, encourage creativity and promote healthy eating.<br />
With time off from school this month for <strong>March</strong> Break, consider keeping little chefs<br />
occupied in the kitchen! Here are some resources filled with ideas and recipe inspiration:<br />
In the French Kitchen<br />
with Kids: Easy, Everyday<br />
Dishes for the Whole<br />
Family to Make and Enjoy<br />
By Mardi Michels<br />
AGES<br />
8+<br />
This educational<br />
cookbook comes<br />
from Mardi Michels, an<br />
elementary French teacher<br />
and blogger in Toronto. She<br />
aims to make French cooking<br />
accessible for kids and<br />
families with this beautiful<br />
guide. Students and adults<br />
will certainly have a lot of<br />
fun eating their creations!<br />
Food Fight!<br />
A Mouthwatering History<br />
of Who Ate What and Why<br />
Through the Ages<br />
By Tanya Steel<br />
AGES<br />
10+<br />
History fans will<br />
devour this title from<br />
National Geographic Kids. It<br />
explores the origins<br />
and stories behind<br />
the food we enjoy<br />
and includes cute<br />
quizzes and related<br />
recipes throughout<br />
the chapters. Students<br />
will learn how to<br />
make Cave Kid Trail<br />
Mix, Almond Milk for<br />
Lords and Ladies and<br />
Let Them Eat Quiche.<br />
Just for Chef Apron Set<br />
Available at Mastermind Toys<br />
AGES<br />
3+<br />
Every budding chef<br />
requires tools. Equip<br />
your young apprentice<br />
with fun accessories to get<br />
started this <strong>March</strong> Break<br />
and continue all year long.<br />
Shout-out to my neighbour<br />
friend, Colleen, whose<br />
family gave my son this<br />
gift for his birthday. It may<br />
even motivate some help at<br />
mealtime in your home!<br />
A Taste of Prince Edward<br />
County: A Guide to the<br />
People, Places & Food<br />
of Ontario’s Favourite<br />
Getaway<br />
Written by Chris Johns,<br />
Photography by<br />
Johnny C.Y. Lam<br />
FOR ADULTS<br />
Prince Edward County is<br />
a favourite destination for<br />
families and all ages. For<br />
me, it’s the perfect escape<br />
and I love going there for its<br />
beauty, quaintness and<br />
especially for the cuisine.<br />
While in Picton browsing<br />
the isles of Books &<br />
Company, I was thrilled to<br />
discover this title which is<br />
now proudly sitting on my<br />
coffee table. It’s a great<br />
intro for newcomers and<br />
visitors who want to delve<br />
deeper into the roots and<br />
local recipes.<br />
Get cracking in the<br />
kitchen. Bon Appétit!<br />
JOANNE SALLAY is the President of Teachers on Call, an award-winning home tutoring service with over 30 years of experience providing<br />
one-on-one instruction in all subjects and grades. Visit Teachers on Call at teachersoncall.ca<br />
28 VILLAGE LIVING <strong>MIDTOWN</strong>
PRIVATE SCHOOLS<br />
Paul Penna<br />
Downtown Jewish Day School<br />
www.djds.ca<br />
Paul Penna DJDS is a vibrant SK to Grade 6 Jewish day school<br />
committed to exceptional academics in a dynamic environment.<br />
The school’s distinct program integrates Judaic and General<br />
Studies while encouraging artistic expression as a tool for learning.<br />
Committed to social justice and Tikkun Olam (Repairing the World),<br />
we nurture responsible citizens and compassionate, confident<br />
human beings. Embracing the values of diversity and equality,<br />
the school welcomes students of all Jewish backgrounds.<br />
Visit us and find out what makes our unique integrated curriculum<br />
so exceptional.<br />
Year Established<br />
1998<br />
Grades<br />
SK to Grade 6<br />
Gender<br />
Co-ed<br />
Maximum Class Size<br />
25<br />
Annual Tuition<br />
$16,850<br />
Financial Aid<br />
Subsidy Available<br />
750 Spadina Avenue<br />
Contact: Sheri Rapp 416 928-3537 sheri@djds.ca<br />
Robbins Hebrew Academy<br />
www.rhacademy.ca<br />
At Robbins Hebrew Academy (RHA), we are equipping our students<br />
to succeed as global citizens in the 21st century. We are incorporating<br />
skills like innovation, perseverance and collaboration right into our<br />
curriculum. Our students explore, discover, debate and imagine the<br />
future through the lens of concrete, real-world problem solving.<br />
We are not just developing minds, but the character of our students.<br />
We empower our students to discover their own unique Jewish<br />
identity while building their role in making the world a better<br />
place. RHA is also Ontario’s first Jewish school to be recognized<br />
for excellence in education through accreditation by CAIS<br />
(Canadian Accredited Independent Schools).<br />
Year Established<br />
1961<br />
Grades<br />
Nursery to Grade 8<br />
Gender<br />
Co-ed<br />
Boarding Offered<br />
No<br />
Financial Aid<br />
Available<br />
Annual Tuition<br />
$13,050 - $17,790<br />
1700 Bathurst Street Contact: Michael Ferman 416 224-8737 ext. 137 mferman@rhacademy.ca<br />
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CAMPS<br />
Bayview Glen Camp<br />
Director<br />
Dara<br />
Kahane<br />
Since 1962, we have created unforgettable summer<br />
memories for thousands of boys and girls, as one of<br />
Toronto’s longest-running, most comprehensive day<br />
camps. Bayview Glen offers enriched, balanced and<br />
age-appropriate programs, activity electives for our<br />
oldest campers and program for children with special<br />
needs. Centrally located on the secure, leafy and airconditioned<br />
campus of Bayview Glen School, campers<br />
enjoy swimming for instructional and recreational swim,<br />
4 sports fields, a theatre, climbing wall, tech labs, art<br />
studios, gymnasiums, and more…perfect facilities for our<br />
specialized programs in robotics, sports, dance and more.<br />
Our all-inclusive fees make for unforgettable summer<br />
memories not only for our campers, but our parents too!<br />
Our door-to-door transportation brings fully-trained bus<br />
counsellors on every bus right to your doorstep, and<br />
nutritious lunches are prepared on-site daily.<br />
www.bayviewglencamp.com<br />
Year Established<br />
1962<br />
Ages<br />
4-13<br />
Session Length<br />
2,4,6, or 8 weeks<br />
Staff/Camper Ratio<br />
1:3<br />
Session Cost<br />
Varies<br />
275 Duncan Mill Road<br />
416 449-7746<br />
camp@bayviewglen.ca<br />
Camp Robin Hood<br />
www.camprobinhood.ca<br />
Directors<br />
Sari &<br />
Howie<br />
Grossinger<br />
Our beautiful outdoor facilities provide the atmosphere<br />
of overnight camp. An outstanding staff fosters<br />
independence and emotional growth in a fun, highspirit<br />
setting. Our day camp, with 4 outdoor pools,<br />
allows for 2 daily swims where we deliver a special<br />
Lifesaving Society 10-level Learn To Swim program in<br />
partnership with Shendy’s Swim School. Traditional<br />
camp activities are a hallmark of this program,<br />
including: Canoeing, Archery, Arts & Crafts, Theatre,<br />
Dance, Gymnastics, Rock Climbing, Campfire Cooking<br />
and more! A dedicated Sports Academy provides an<br />
all-sport mix of hands-on instruction and recreational<br />
play. Themed door-to-door busing is provided across<br />
the GTA, making this outdoor experience easily<br />
accessible for your family. Most importantly, for over<br />
70 years, we have taken pride in caring for every child<br />
like they’re our own. Call today to learn more about<br />
this ultimate summer experience!<br />
Year Established<br />
1946<br />
Ages<br />
4-15<br />
Camp Size<br />
800 Campers<br />
Staff/Camper Ratio<br />
1:4<br />
Session Cost<br />
$1,200 (approx.)<br />
10243 Reesor Road<br />
416 736-4443 office@camprobinhood.ca<br />
Zodiac Day Camp<br />
www.zodiackids.ca<br />
Directors<br />
Ellen & Rick<br />
Howard<br />
and Danny<br />
Goodman<br />
Zodiac Day Camp is a private, co-ed day camp for<br />
children ages 2.0-15.5 years old, located at a beautiful<br />
indoor/outdoor location in midtown Toronto (Leo Baeck<br />
Day School, near Allen/Eglinton). During our seven<br />
one-week sessions, we offer an adult & tot program<br />
for campers 2.0-4.0 yrs, a licensed daycare program<br />
for campers 2.5-4.5 yrs, and full day programs for<br />
campers 4.5-15.5 yrs. Busing and lunch options, FREE<br />
extended hours, daily Zodiac Swim School high-quality,<br />
low-ratio instructional swim lesson, enthusiastic and<br />
caring staff, and a FREE taste of overnight camp at<br />
Camp Tamarack are other central features. At Zodiac<br />
Day Camp, building skills, developing friendships and<br />
creating lasting memories are what we’re all about.<br />
Be part of the Zodiac experience…summer daycare<br />
and day camp, swimming lessons, Zodiactors’ musical<br />
theatre program, Tamarack overnight camp and more!<br />
For more information, please visit www.zodiackids.ca.<br />
Year Established<br />
1998<br />
Ages<br />
2.0-15.5<br />
Camp Size<br />
300-350 Campers<br />
Staff/Camper Ratio<br />
1:4-6<br />
Session Cost<br />
Varies<br />
501 Arlington Avenue<br />
416 789-1989 ext. 152<br />
info@zodiaccamp.on.ca<br />
30 VILLAGE LIVING <strong>MIDTOWN</strong>
Metropolitan Preparatory Academy<br />
Fostering the<br />
of each child<br />
Athletic and academic merit-based entrance<br />
scholarships available for grades 7, 8, and 9.<br />
GET READY FOR<br />
SUMMER <strong>2019</strong>!<br />
Contact us today! Visit www.metroprep.com or call 416-285-0870<br />
est. 1998<br />
OPEN HOUSE<br />
ACTIVITIES, INFO, TOURS, SNACKS & MORE!<br />
Saturday April 6, <strong>2019</strong><br />
10:00am – 12:00pm<br />
Leo Baeck Day School 501 Arlington Avenue (Allen/Eglinton)<br />
• 1-Week Sessions<br />
• Daily Zodiac Swim Lesson<br />
• Adult & Tot (2.0-4.0 yrs) • Free Extended Hours<br />
• Licensed Daycare (2.5-4.5 yrs) • Lunch/Busing Options<br />
• Full Day Programs (4.5-15.5 yrs)<br />
416-789-1989 www.zodiackids.ca<br />
Use code VL50<br />
for $50 off<br />
your camp and/or<br />
swim registration*.<br />
Register now<br />
for Spring!<br />
*Offer valid on Zodiac Day Camp Summer <strong>2019</strong> registrations (excl. Adult & Tot and Daycare) and/or on Zodiac Swim School Spring <strong>2019</strong><br />
registrations (excl. Zodiac Tot & Leadership). One time use per family for each of camp and swim. Offer open to new Zodiac families only.<br />
BEST DAY CAMP<br />
VOTED BY THE READERS OF CITY PARENT, 2018<br />
AGES 4-13<br />
» Life-Saving Society swim<br />
instruction<br />
» Door-to-Door transportation<br />
» Centrally located<br />
» Nutritious lunch and snacks<br />
included<br />
» Age-specific programs in the<br />
following areas:<br />
• Sports and Recreation<br />
• Arts and Media<br />
• Science and Technology<br />
• Nature and Exploration<br />
Please call the camp office at 416-449-7746 to learn<br />
more about our enriched award winning programming!<br />
bayviewglencamp.ca
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