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ISSUE NO.59 MAY 2019<br />
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MAY 2019<br />
Keeping you connected to your community.<br />
FROM THE<br />
PUBLISHERS<br />
Spring is here, but there’s lot a more than<br />
just our gardens that are growing this<br />
month. Our May issue is about all kinds of<br />
growth: in our community as it expands<br />
and shifts to meet our changing needs,<br />
in ourselves as we learn to take better care of our<br />
bodies and minds, and in our families, however<br />
conventional or not they may be.<br />
City Councillor Josh Matlow outlines his vision for<br />
a new community centre in the heart of <strong>Midtown</strong>,<br />
a place that support our growing neighbourhood.<br />
He’s not the only one supporting the hearts and<br />
minds of <strong>Midtown</strong>ers: in our Styling section we look<br />
at a spa owner who’s giving back to the community<br />
and uplifting underprivileged women.<br />
Speaking of women — Happy Mother’s Day! We<br />
celebrate moms of all kinds (Well-Being), keeping<br />
“it takes a village” to heart. In ‘Diary of a<br />
New Mama,’ a reminder for moms to take care of<br />
themselves each and every day in the simplest, yet<br />
most important way: nutrition.<br />
If you’re looking for a last minute gift for mom,<br />
we’ve got that covered too! A good book goes a long<br />
way. (Parenting)<br />
If the warm spring air is calling you outside and<br />
into the garden, we have a guide to helpful bugs<br />
(<strong>Living</strong>) that you’ll actually want crawling through<br />
your plants. You can also try to bring the out-side in<br />
with cottage decor fit for city living (Styling).<br />
All this, plus eco-friendly bling (Styling), the<br />
city’s best hummus (Eating) and the latest fitness<br />
technology (<strong>Living</strong>)! It’s a jam-packed month full of<br />
new ways to better yourself.<br />
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MAY 2 -12<br />
Toronto Jewish<br />
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MAY 6 – 12<br />
Canadian Music Week<br />
www.net/Music/<br />
MAY 10 – 12<br />
Tastemaker Toronto<br />
Evergreen Brickworks<br />
550 Bayview Ave.<br />
www.thetastemakertour.com<br />
MAY 11 – 12<br />
The Toronto Comic Arts<br />
FREE<br />
Festival 2019<br />
Toronto Reference Library<br />
789 Yonge St.<br />
www.torontocomics.com<br />
MAY 11 – 20<br />
Wee Festival<br />
www.weefestival.ca<br />
MAY 12<br />
Casaloma –<br />
Mothers’ Day Brunch<br />
www.casaloma.ca<br />
MAY 12<br />
Mother’s Day Plant Café<br />
11:00 am – 2:30 pm<br />
Toronto Botanical Garden<br />
777 Lawrence Ave. E.<br />
MAY 12<br />
Mother’s Day Class –<br />
Blend Your Own<br />
Custom Scent<br />
2:00 – 4:00 pm<br />
Druxy’s Famous Deli<br />
29 Queen St. E.<br />
MAY 16 – 19<br />
Rib & Craft<br />
FREE<br />
Beer Fest<br />
Yonge-Dundas Square<br />
1 Dundas St. E.<br />
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EVENTS<br />
Farmers’<br />
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THURSDAYS<br />
Dufferin Grove<br />
Farmers’ Market<br />
3:00 – 7:00 pm<br />
Dufferin Grove Park<br />
875 Dufferin Park Ave.<br />
SATURDAYS<br />
The Junction<br />
Farmers’ Market<br />
9:00 am – 1:00 pm<br />
Junction Train Platform<br />
2960 Dundas St. W.<br />
The Stop Farmers’ Market<br />
8:00 am – 12:30 pm<br />
Wychwood Artscape Barns<br />
601 Christie St.<br />
Evergreen Brickworks<br />
Farmers’ Market<br />
8:00 am – 1:00 pm<br />
Evergreen Brickworks<br />
550 Bayview Ave.<br />
MAY 19<br />
Spring Beerfest TO<br />
12:00 – 7:00 pm<br />
Fort York – Garrison Common<br />
100 Garrison Rd.<br />
www.beerfestival.ca<br />
MAY 25 – 26<br />
Woofstock Festival<br />
Woodbine Park<br />
1695 Queen St. E.<br />
www.rove.me<br />
MAY 23 – JUNE 2<br />
Inside Out –<br />
LGBT Film Festival<br />
www.insideout.ca<br />
MAY 24 – 26<br />
FREE<br />
Toronto<br />
Poutine Fest<br />
May 24/25 11:00 am – 10:00 pm<br />
May 26 11:00 am – 9:00 pm<br />
Yonge-Dundas Square<br />
1 Dundas St. E.<br />
MAY 25<br />
CBC Music Festival<br />
1:30 pm<br />
Cost: Passes - $39.50 (All Ages)<br />
Echo Beach<br />
909 Lakeshore Blvd. W.<br />
VILLAGELIVINGMAGAZINE.CA 7
Creating Spaces<br />
to Support Our<br />
Community<br />
Meeting <strong>Midtown</strong> Toronto’s<br />
growing needs<br />
BY COUNCILLOR JOSH MATLOW<br />
When the provincial government designated the<br />
Yonge and Eglinton area of <strong>Midtown</strong> Toronto<br />
as a “Growth Centre” they unfortunately<br />
only legislated one aspect – new condos. No<br />
additional funding or direction was provided to build new<br />
schools, affordable childcare centres, recreation spaces or the<br />
social services necessary to build complete neighbourhoods.<br />
That’s why I worked with local residents, parents, TDSB<br />
Trustee Shelley Laskin and City of Toronto Staff for the last<br />
seven years to ensure that a Community Hub would be part<br />
of the Davisville school rebuild.<br />
I am excited to announce that a final agreement has<br />
been reached with the School Board for the City to fund<br />
the Davisville Hub and Site Plan approval has been provided<br />
by our Planning Division to begin construction on the<br />
project, which will start with the school. The new public<br />
facility will provide new and much-needed recreation<br />
opportunities, including:<br />
➔ A new double gymnasium within the school that will have<br />
community access some evenings and on Saturdays for<br />
City-run recreation programs<br />
➔ An aquatic facility in a separate<br />
City building on the Davisville PS site which will include<br />
one 25 metre, 6 lane pool and a warm water teaching pool<br />
with the appropriate ancillary spaces (i.e. change rooms,<br />
administrative and mechanical spaces)<br />
➔ Affordable Child Care Centre<br />
➔ Multi-purpose rooms, including a community space of<br />
approximately 5,000 square feet<br />
➔ Roof top park/garden that will include a green roof, elevator<br />
access, patio and walking path<br />
Community Hubs can provide a central access point for<br />
a range of needed social services, along with cultural,<br />
recreational and educational opportunities that reflect the<br />
needs of the surrounding residents.<br />
As the new City Councillor for the Oakwood Vaughan &<br />
St. Clair West communities, I am exploring the possibility of<br />
creating a new hub to serve local residents.<br />
This March, I moved a motion at Council to have City Staff<br />
work with the School Board and community agencies to<br />
assess the feasibility of establishing a hub at Vaughan Road<br />
Academy (VRA), located at 529 Vaughan Road. While no<br />
longer an operating school, the TDSB voted in February 2017<br />
to retain the building as a “core holding” and put it to use for<br />
purposes still to-be-negotiated. Currently, the school is being<br />
used as an ‘overflow’ school to accommodate students from<br />
schools that are under construction in other parts of the city.<br />
A community-based organization, Oakwood<br />
Vaughan Neighbourhood<br />
Action Partnership (OVNAP), has been engaged in discussions<br />
to add more community programs and services at<br />
529 Vaughan Road.<br />
Parks, Forestry and Recreation already offers swimming<br />
lessons and basketball programs at VRA, and the Learning<br />
Enrichment Foundation operates a child care centre on the site.<br />
A community hub would help address the need for<br />
programming and space in this community and would align<br />
with the Oakwood Vaughan Strategic Plan to foster safe and<br />
vibrant neighborhoods.<br />
JOSH MATLOW was elected to Toronto City Council on October 25th, 2010, and is now serving his third term as City Councillor<br />
for Toronto-St. Paul’s.<br />
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WHAT THE TECH!?!?<br />
VS<br />
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OURA<br />
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Ringing in the newest fitness tech<br />
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About a year ago I wrote about fitness bands,<br />
smartwatches and the whole fit-tech movement.<br />
Names like Fitbit and Apple Watch are notorious<br />
as brands that everyone wears. Today we move forward,<br />
literally and figuratively. From the wrist to the finger: the<br />
possible next big thing in fitness tech is smart rings.<br />
I have had a chance to test out the two leaders in the<br />
category. For the last few months I have been wearing a<br />
ring on each hand that has been measuring stats like<br />
steps, calories burnt, sleep and heart rate. Meet Motiv<br />
(mymotiv.com) and Oura (ouraring.com), the leaders in<br />
the smart ring evolution.<br />
THE GOOD: Both rings work with a smartphone<br />
app that allows you to sync via Bluetooth and gives<br />
you details about your health and workouts, such<br />
as active minutes and quality of sleep. You can<br />
see if you got a good night sleep or not, plus you<br />
can look at sleep by week or month to find trends<br />
in your sleep pattern. Each ring will measure your<br />
heart rate, both active and resting, which can be a<br />
useful piece of info for you (or your doctor, trainer<br />
or fitness guru).<br />
THE BAD: You need to get a sizing kit first<br />
before ordering your ring. The sizing kits is a<br />
pack of plastic rings that you try on and wear for<br />
a few days, and once you pick a finger you are<br />
comfortable with, you order the real ring. Therefore<br />
you really can’t change fingers or even give the<br />
ring as a gift. Also, because a ring battery is smaller<br />
then a watch, you need to charge it every 3 to 4<br />
days. Lastly, it does not alert you to a phone call or<br />
text message, so if that is a feature you need then<br />
perhaps a smart ring alone is not enough.<br />
Final Thoughts: While the two rings are priced similarly, the truth is I found one to be more useful for me.<br />
The Oura ring has a better app, plus its ability to measure body temperature makes it a clear winner.<br />
JON COHEN is the owner of All About Tech and a certified Apple Mac & iOS Technician; just your local, friendly tech superhero!<br />
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LIVING<br />
Beneficial insects:<br />
The bugs you<br />
actually want<br />
in your garden<br />
Clearly, there are pests we don’t want in<br />
our lawns and gardens such as mites and<br />
aphids which do a great job at destroying plant<br />
life and spreading disease. But there are plenty of<br />
bugs that do good. They’re known as beneficial<br />
insects. Using beneficial insects to control other<br />
less garden-friendly bugs is a method known as<br />
biological control. By using living organisms to<br />
control malicious insects you create a garden that<br />
is free of pesticides and other garden chemicals.<br />
Essentially, you are creating an organic garden.<br />
We’ve all heard about the shortage of bees<br />
in recent years. These garden must-haves are<br />
essential for pollinating vegetables, fruit trees<br />
and other crops. To attract more bees and other<br />
pollinators such as butterflies, plant a wide<br />
variety of flowering plants as well as pollen and<br />
nectar sources. Bees are especially attracted to<br />
blue, purple, white, yellow and violet. Leave a<br />
section of your garden free from mulch so as to<br />
attract ground bees, and a dead tree or rotting log<br />
will supply prime nesting. Provide them with a<br />
shallow water source such as a birdbath or saucer<br />
filled with water.<br />
BY ELDEN FREEMAN<br />
Beetles are another beneficial insect you should<br />
welcome on your property. These nocturnal bugs<br />
help to keep night-time pests at bay. They prey on<br />
about 50 types of pests such as snails and slugs.<br />
Attract beetles to your garden by using mulch and<br />
planting perennials. They nest and lay their eggs<br />
in decaying plant matter and will overwinter<br />
there as well.<br />
Ladybugs are another garden-friendly bug you<br />
want to have. They enjoy munching on pests like<br />
aphids, whiteflies, mites and mealy bugs. Their<br />
larvae are equally important in your garden as<br />
they are as ravenous, if not more so than their<br />
parents. One thing to keep in mind is that ladybug<br />
larva look remarkably different from the parents:<br />
it looks like a tiny red and black alligator and<br />
not at all like a grown ladybug, which is often<br />
considered the darlings of the bug world.<br />
Don’t let the large size and scary shape of a<br />
praying mantis scare you: they are harmless to<br />
humans! Not so much to other bugs, though. In<br />
fact, a praying mantis will eat just about any<br />
insect in the garden. They’ve been known to<br />
catch small frogs and birds as well.<br />
Sources: www.organiclesson.com, www.thespruce.com, www.care2.com<br />
ELDEN FREEMAN M.E.S., AGB, is the founder of the non-profit organization, The National Association of Green Agents and Brokers<br />
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LIVING<br />
New real estate<br />
model is saving<br />
mid-town home<br />
buyers and<br />
sellers thousands<br />
A Cedarvale home sold in February for $1,890,000, costing the<br />
sellers $94,500 in commission. It’s not unusual; with home<br />
prices rising exponentially over the past 15 years, agent fees<br />
have also risen dramatically.<br />
Agents can provide an extremely valuable service to<br />
their clients, whether representing buyers or sellers. Yet<br />
with improvements to technology and increased access<br />
to information, potential buyers and sellers are now more<br />
personally involved in the real estate process. This is creating<br />
a number of new players in the space, each seeking to help<br />
their clients save money in a very expensive market.<br />
Since last fall, several alternatives have entered the GTA<br />
real estate market, aiming to improve upon an industry that<br />
shows no signs of slowing down.<br />
Justo Inc., Brokerage is the first to disrupt the industry with<br />
a focus on fairness and transparency.<br />
Sellers working with a Justo agent pay only 50% of the<br />
standard listing fee (typically 2.5%) taken by most brokers*.<br />
Justo also includes staging or virtual staging***, 3D Virtual<br />
tours, professional photography and enhanced advertising for<br />
their listings.<br />
Similarly, when representing a buyer, they split their<br />
commission 50/50. The brokerage also covers the cost of a<br />
home inspection and lawyer fees.<br />
This can prove invaluable for those buying and selling<br />
in midtown Toronto, where the average cost of a home is<br />
28% higher than the city as a whole, with prices averaging<br />
$1,155,209.**<br />
On that previously mentioned Cedarvale home, if the<br />
seller had listed with Justo, they would have saved $23,625<br />
in commission, plus several thousand dollars more on<br />
marketing costs.<br />
Had the buyer used an agent with the service, they would<br />
have received that same amount — $23,625 — in cashback<br />
on closing and would have also saved around $1500 on the<br />
inspection and legal fees.<br />
“Buyers and sellers are smarter and more savvy than ever<br />
in today’s market, and they understand that they have a voice<br />
in the process,” said Daphne de Groot, CEO and co-founder<br />
of Justo. “We feel that we can offer superior service at lower<br />
fees, and we’ve clearly hit on something with our new model<br />
because demand is even stronger than we anticipated.”<br />
Their website lets visitors view all MLS listings and<br />
immediately see the amount of cash back they can expect for<br />
each property.<br />
Other brokerages are also trying to level the playing field.<br />
The most recent entry into the Canadian market is US-run<br />
Redfin, which offers low listing rates for sellers — between<br />
1% and 1.5%, depending on the market — and some cashback<br />
incentive for buyers.<br />
UK-based Purplebricks is another option, mainly for sellers<br />
seeking to list on their own, offering assistance and guidance<br />
for an upfront flat fee, usually around $3000.<br />
There’s a lot to learn about these new options. As with<br />
other companies who’ve disrupted their markets like Amazon<br />
or Uber, there will be some who embrace this new trend and<br />
others who will take some time to adjust. But, as a result of so<br />
many great new options, those in the residential real estate<br />
market have more power in their hands than ever before.<br />
*In addition to the listing fee, the seller also pays a buyer’s agent commission, set by the seller, but commonly 2.5% + HST. HST is applicable on all commissions.<br />
All commissions are negotiable. **Based on MLS data for C03, C03, C09, C10 and C11 *** Staging offered for properties listed over $400k<br />
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STYLING<br />
Bling with<br />
Benefit<br />
HOW TO LOVE<br />
JEWELRY<br />
AND NOT KILL<br />
THE PLANET<br />
BY SARAH JEAN HARRISON<br />
I<br />
likely inherited my love for fun and<br />
flashy jewelry from my Grannie<br />
Lucy Bond, a grand English dame<br />
who loved fuschia, feather hats and<br />
anything that sparkled. While she<br />
blithely embraced the costume jewelry<br />
of the 50s and 60s without a care in the<br />
world, I have to face down the realities<br />
of mercury pollution and child labour<br />
when looking at some silly bauble at<br />
Ardene’s that would really jazz up my<br />
cocktail dress.<br />
The hard reality is that my love<br />
of jewelry completely out strips the<br />
resources I have to purchase ethically<br />
mined gold and gemstones from the<br />
likes of Chopard. What is the glam<br />
loving, sustainably minded gal without a<br />
billionaire’s bank account to do?<br />
I’ve channeled my inner Grannie<br />
Bond, imagining what a shopkeeper’s<br />
wife like Lucy would do when faced<br />
with limited resources, a desire to<br />
be sustainable and a big bling-loving<br />
imagination. Here’s what I’ve discovered:<br />
Answer #1 Vintage, darlings, vintage.<br />
I source cocktail rings and strands of<br />
faux pearls from vintage shops, church<br />
sales and every Value <strong>Village</strong> I can pop<br />
into. I used to balk at “fakes” until I<br />
learned that Coco Chanel was famous<br />
for mixing fakes with the real thing. If it<br />
worked for Coco, it’ll work for me.<br />
Answer #2 Go for one-of-a-kind.<br />
Toronto-based jewelry influencer<br />
Katrina Myhal from @the.lost.earring<br />
advises going for pieces from local<br />
artists. “I can’t afford a lot of high-end<br />
pieces so I try to source the unique and<br />
unexpected. There are jewelry artists in<br />
this city who are working with quality,<br />
sustainably-sourced materials in small<br />
batches. When someone stops me and<br />
says where did you find that piece?! I<br />
know I’ve got something great.” Katrina<br />
suggests visiting all the art fairs and<br />
pop-up shops you can because “you’ll<br />
never know what unexpected is just<br />
waiting for you”.<br />
“I can’t<br />
afford a<br />
lot of highend<br />
pieces<br />
so I try to<br />
source the<br />
unique and<br />
unexpected”<br />
Answer #3<br />
Find the sweet spot<br />
between super cheap<br />
and super pricey.<br />
In between dollar<br />
store necklaces and<br />
diamond encrusted<br />
emerald drop<br />
earrings there is a<br />
world of mid-priced pieces. I’m happy<br />
to spend a little more on pieces that will<br />
see me through the day and dress up an<br />
office look. Ethical brands like Chic Made<br />
Consciously, whose latest collection<br />
works with artisans in Cambodia to<br />
upcycle landmines into minimalist<br />
“golden” pieces, are just the thing for<br />
looking polished while meeting with<br />
clients. I love it when bling combines<br />
with benefit.<br />
www.chicmadeconsciously.com<br />
@chicmadeconsciously<br />
@the.lost.earring<br />
www.chopard.com<br />
SARAH JEAN HARRISON is the co-founder of Peace Flag House and an eco-fashionista who specialises in sustainability-focused<br />
public relations. peaceflaghouse.com, @peaceflaghouse<br />
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Do Good.<br />
Feel Good.<br />
Look Good.More<br />
than<br />
skin<br />
deep<br />
BY DIANA AZIZ<br />
Do good. Feel good. Look good.<br />
That is what Paula does<br />
every day.<br />
Step into Beauty Lounge Salon<br />
and Spa at 1500 Bathurst St and leave<br />
your stress at the door. Reminiscent<br />
of old Hollywood glamour, the spa is<br />
designed with a colour palette that<br />
captures the calm of the ocean, making<br />
you feel like a beautiful spring flower<br />
emerging through the heavy, melting<br />
snow.<br />
It was Paula’s calm, reassuring voice<br />
that propelled a local woman’s visit.<br />
Julie had suffered a miscarriage and<br />
subsequent depression; she couldn’t<br />
bring herself to leave her house for four<br />
long months. After speaking to Paula<br />
on the phone, she felt confident enough<br />
to emerge and travel to the salon. It<br />
was there that she found solace in a<br />
supportive, encouraging environment<br />
and was able to feel “whole” again. Paula<br />
innately sees the beauty from within<br />
and pulls that beauty to the surface,<br />
thus helping create one’s best self.<br />
Paula is a hair and makeup stylist by<br />
profession and an ordained minister and<br />
chaplain by vocation. She has a passion<br />
for the underdog and started mentoring<br />
women years ago after observing a wellqualified<br />
woman being turned down<br />
for a job because of how she presented<br />
herself. This is how Dress for Success was<br />
born. With help from companies such<br />
as Shopper’s Drug Mart and Holiday Inn,<br />
Paula was able to provide sponsorships<br />
and scholarships to help youth at risk<br />
and those living in underprivileged<br />
communities. She provided styling,<br />
organized a clothing donation drive,<br />
taught skills on managing finance,<br />
health and grooming and how to present<br />
in a job interview. Women were able<br />
to access a free clothing bank to outfit<br />
themselves in business attire that would<br />
have been previously unattainable for<br />
them. Paula helps them get a leg up<br />
through connections and mentorship.<br />
Presently Paula is mentoring five<br />
young teens and adults and is involved<br />
in many community programs such<br />
as Clean Up the Don River and Hope<br />
Worldwide.<br />
Her passion for creating a caring,<br />
responsible environment in the<br />
community is very important to her<br />
and is very apparent in how she runs<br />
her salon.<br />
As proprietor, Paula has created<br />
an eco-friendly and family friendly<br />
community hub in St. Clair West that<br />
is an oasis for the mind, body and soul.<br />
All are welcome, whether it’s a young<br />
girl’s first spa experience or a caregiver’s<br />
much needed pampering. Paula does<br />
the same at her salon as she does in<br />
her mentorship program: shine up the<br />
diamond from within.<br />
Beauty Lounge Salon and Spa is a<br />
designated Green Circle Spa. Products<br />
are sustainable and natural, and hair<br />
clippings, foils and product containers<br />
are repurposed and recycled. Most of<br />
Paula’s extensive lines of product are<br />
eco-friendly. Nail colour, hair colour and<br />
skin care such as Sparitual and Calura are<br />
all made with natural ingredients that<br />
are not only good for the environment,<br />
but also for the people who use it. Spa<br />
treatments are environmentally friendly<br />
and noninvasive. Oxygenated facials and<br />
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DIANA AZIZ is<br />
a consummate<br />
traveler, water<br />
lover, foodie, fashion<br />
slave and adventure<br />
seeker who loves to<br />
experience people,<br />
culture and life.<br />
Then write about it.<br />
radioactive anti-aging treatments offer<br />
state of the art procedures at a minimal<br />
risk to the client. Hair is donated for<br />
environmental causes such as oil spills,<br />
and products are properly recycled<br />
rather than pitched onto landfills.<br />
This is truly about giving back to the<br />
community and to the planet.<br />
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Easy Ways to<br />
Create Chic<br />
Cottage Style<br />
Bring the Cottage home<br />
BY REBECCA HAY<br />
The winter is finally gone, the<br />
sun is out, birds are singing<br />
and the trees are a fresh shade<br />
of lime green. To me, May<br />
brings the excitement that the cottage<br />
season is about to begin. If I could live<br />
the cottage life with my family all year<br />
round, I would. But cottage life doesn’t<br />
have to be restricted to a vacation home<br />
outside the city. You can easily create<br />
charming, relaxed cottage-style living<br />
in your own home. Besides the obvious<br />
attraction of relaxation, cottages warm<br />
my soul and I LOVE designing cottages<br />
and creating this style for our clients<br />
here in the city.<br />
Here are my five simple design ideas<br />
to bring easy, breezy cottage design to<br />
your own home this summer.<br />
Light and Bright is Always Right<br />
The best way to achieve the look of<br />
a fresh summer retreat is with loads<br />
of white paint. My go-to wall colour<br />
is Benjamin Moore’s Cloud White. It’s<br />
fresh but warm and works on every<br />
wall as a great canvas for colour. By<br />
painting all your walls white, you can<br />
add pops of colour in any shade, and<br />
it’s easy to switch up the look as the<br />
seasons change.<br />
Blue Is My Hue A shade of blue is hands<br />
down the freshest way to create a crisp<br />
cottage aesthetic. Many know that I love<br />
nautical navy, but aqua or robin’s eggs<br />
blue works well too. Have fun layering<br />
in this colour with art, pillows and even<br />
lighting: colour in lighting is a big new<br />
trend that is popping up everywhere. It<br />
can add a lot of visual interest and be a<br />
great conversation starter.<br />
Vintage Finds add a casual and comfortable<br />
vibe. This is the perfect time of<br />
year to go to local antique markets or<br />
simply wander consignment stores for<br />
the perfect vintage piece of furniture or<br />
great light that speaks to you.<br />
Natural Textiles such as cotton, wool<br />
and jute add a relaxed feel. It’s okay if<br />
they wrinkle or aren’t perfect: that’s<br />
the idea! Jute rugs are fantastic and<br />
can withstand a lot of wear, and they<br />
also feel amazing underfoot. Summer<br />
is a time for bare feet and bathing suits<br />
so it’s always nice to have natural<br />
materials to stand or sit on. A great<br />
cotton slipcovered sofa will make your<br />
guests feel so relaxed and at ease, they<br />
may not want to leave.<br />
When it comes to summer living<br />
and cottage style, comfort is key. Keep<br />
it fresh and remember not to get too<br />
fussed. Whether you have a summer<br />
home or simply want to make your city<br />
dwelling feel like your summer escape,<br />
these tips will get you there every time.<br />
Now go get that glass of lemonade and<br />
create your own cottage charm in your<br />
own backyard or living area.<br />
Natural Wood Tones are a must-have.<br />
I always include a great warm wood<br />
floor or table in my designs. This helps<br />
to balance all those white walls! It also<br />
adds an element of warmth and often<br />
history. The classic pine furniture<br />
creates a great cottage vibe. A vintage<br />
or antique find is always the best, but<br />
any warm wood will do the trick.<br />
REBECCA HAY is a local Designer - principal of Rebecca Hay Designs Inc., Toronto based complete home design services.<br />
Serving clients throughout Toronto, Muskoka and Canada. RebeccaHayDesigns.com<br />
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EATING<br />
Cooking Up<br />
Some<br />
Motherly Love<br />
THE PERFECT GIFT FOR THE PERFECT MOM<br />
BY SARA BEDERMAN<br />
The modern mom is a woman<br />
who seems to be doing a<br />
million things at once (some<br />
things never change), and a<br />
good chunk of her time is often spent in<br />
the kitchen. Whether she’s a gourmet<br />
or a greenhorn in the culinary space,<br />
give a gift this Mother’s Day that’s sure<br />
to make her time in the kitchen a total<br />
treat. From a designer and an admitted<br />
kitchen connoisseur, here are five of my<br />
favourite new kitchen essentials that<br />
Mom’s sure to love.<br />
For the “Smoothie Mom”<br />
Spring and summer give us an<br />
abundance of fresh fruits and veggies.<br />
If your mom never leaves the house<br />
in the morning without a smoothie in<br />
hand, the Breville Super Q blender is<br />
certain to be well-used and well-loved.<br />
Two smoothie programs make for<br />
silky dairy smoothies and smoother<br />
green smoothies, and it’s also great for<br />
whipping up healthy soups and salads.<br />
This happens to be my favourite new<br />
kitchen helper! The commercial-grade<br />
blender is a total powerhouse — much<br />
like Mom herself! It’s quick, quiet<br />
and efficient, and looks stylish on the<br />
countertop too.<br />
For the “Chef Mom”<br />
Rule #1 in the kitchen: every great<br />
chef needs an awesome set of knives.<br />
Henkels’ 5-piece knife set includes a<br />
paring knife, prep knife, Santoku knife<br />
and Nikiri knife, with high-quality<br />
stainless steel blades and comfort<br />
handles to tackle all the slicing and<br />
dicing with ease. It’s all set in a bright<br />
red knife block that can become a great<br />
focal point on your countertop. When<br />
you can outfit a utilitarian space with<br />
some functional style, you’ve got a<br />
winning combination!<br />
For the “Coffee Mom”<br />
For the coffee lovers in the house,<br />
the Barista Touch espresso maker<br />
is a perfect addition to a kitchen or<br />
coffee bar. Boasting beauty and brawn,<br />
this machine features commercialquality<br />
performance, speedy threesecond<br />
heat-up time (for the days you<br />
need a little extra... motivation) and<br />
is programmable with up to eight<br />
customizable drink settings. This is<br />
the next best thing to having your own<br />
personal barista who knows exactly<br />
how Mom likes her coffee and gets<br />
her order right every time.<br />
For the “Hostess Mom”<br />
Keep the wine perfectly chilled and<br />
always at the ready by outfitting Mom’s<br />
kitchen with a wine fridge. Whether<br />
she’s hosting a swanky soiree or having<br />
a quiet and cozy evening in “Silhouette”<br />
by Danby’s line of wine fridges will suit<br />
her needs. It comes in a range of sizes<br />
and bottle capacities to fit every space.<br />
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For the “Relaxed Mom”<br />
Okay, this one might be more of a<br />
“Mom goal” than an actual Mom type, but I digress! Some<br />
mother’s might argue that nothing beats kicking back with<br />
a soothing cup of tea after a long and trying day. Brew that<br />
elusive “perfect” cup every time with the Breville Smart Tea<br />
Infuser, which actually knows the right temperature and<br />
steeping time. Bonus: it looks pretty on a<br />
tabletop or counter.<br />
Mother’s Day is an ideal opportunity to<br />
show Mom you care and perhaps score<br />
yourself an invitation to her next dinner<br />
party! Whether it is a blender that stirs you<br />
or kitchen decor that catches your eye, give<br />
Mom the gift of culinary love — from your<br />
heart to hers, for the heart of her home.<br />
SARA BEDERMAN Over a decade this Toronto<br />
bespoke design firm has become known for<br />
creating stylish, thoughtfully curated, livable<br />
interiors. sarabederman.com<br />
Many Colours Available<br />
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EATING<br />
Hummus<br />
YOURS IS STILL THE BEST<br />
BY EZRA BRAVES<br />
Hummus. Battle lines are drawn<br />
whenever I mention the word.<br />
There is always someone else<br />
who makes it the “best.” Even my own<br />
family has differing opinions. No tahini,<br />
more lemon, less salt, extra garlic.<br />
There are very few foods as ubiquitous<br />
these days and as healthy. We eat a lot<br />
of hummus in my house, it is a staple,<br />
especially for the vegetarians at the<br />
table, and super easy to make - and as<br />
peanut butter is forbidden in school<br />
lunches (sigh).<br />
Although we were unanimous in<br />
our final decision after a blind tasting<br />
of the four dishes, we still continued<br />
to debate the flavour – we just knew it<br />
was great (and amusing to see my kids<br />
sitting at the table reaching in the air for<br />
imaginary spoons while blindfolded). I<br />
still prefer to make it at home. For me<br />
it is about control of the ingredients. If<br />
I’m eating oil, I want it to be extra virgin<br />
and not filler vegetable oil - all salts<br />
are not created equal - real lemons to<br />
bottled lemon juice and garlic cloves<br />
to powder. Why go out if you can make<br />
it better from scratch? I regularly use<br />
hummus as a stage for fried mushrooms,<br />
caramelized onions, or whatever is lying<br />
around, drizzled in heated olive oil with<br />
lemon zest, fried garlic, and za’atar.<br />
The first time I went into Chamsine<br />
(chhum’zeen – pronounce the ‘ch’ like<br />
you are choking), corner of St. Clair and<br />
Vaughan Rd, and ordered hummus, I was<br />
surprised by how good it was – really<br />
tasty – I’m wired for low expectations<br />
so I can be astonished (or relieved)<br />
experiencing a different outcome. So,<br />
I went back thinking it wouldn’t be as<br />
good the second time – still excellent.<br />
Went back a third and fourth time – still<br />
great, and no bullshit. Getting the flavour<br />
of hummus to be consistent isn’t easy<br />
– the same recipe can bring different<br />
results depending on the maker or how<br />
the ingredients are combined. In our<br />
tasting, we also liked Aish Tanoor and<br />
Jerusalem on Eglinton. Fat Pasha was good,<br />
but with a smallish, yet adorned smear<br />
of hummus at over $15 (including a takeout-guilt-tip),<br />
there should really be a<br />
shot of frozen vodka on the bar to drink<br />
while I’m waiting. Hummus from Sababa<br />
and Tabule, not in our blind tasting, is<br />
also worth mentioning. Perhaps I was in<br />
already in a bad mood when I went into a<br />
much-hyped place on Geary, but I really<br />
couldn’t bare any more disappointment<br />
that day when I tried to order some, and<br />
was informed, rather smugly, that they<br />
don’t do take-out during brunch.<br />
I like to eat hummus as a meal so my<br />
overall favourite experience was at The<br />
Hummussiah near Church and Dundas.<br />
Hummus is the star of the show - go<br />
there, nothing to fear travelling south of<br />
Bloor. Very few things in life make me as<br />
happy as a bowl of hummus with warm<br />
chickpeas, olive oil, a huge spoonful of<br />
homemade zhug/harif (middle eastern<br />
chili paste), tons of tahini, fresh fried<br />
eggplant, and a total lack of pretention.<br />
The owner recommended I try the falafel<br />
balls, which I will, as I plan to eat there<br />
weekly.<br />
EZRA BRAVES is the founder of Ezra’s Pound and the president of The Espresso Institute of North America.<br />
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WELL-BEING<br />
It takes a <strong>Village</strong> to raise a child<br />
How my mother figures taught me to be a better mother<br />
BY SAMANTHA BEDERMAN<br />
When I was three, I had a babysitter from<br />
Switzerland. She was hired as a mother’s<br />
helper. She cooked like a gourmet French<br />
chef and didn’t speak a word of English. We<br />
were left to fend for each other as the rest of my family went<br />
to school or work. We became fast friends and each other’s<br />
teachers of life. I taught her how to speak English and she<br />
taught me about nature, European culture (mostly Swiss<br />
chocolate), travel and art. Every day we would draw, cook,<br />
read, walk the dog and genuinely keep each company. She<br />
was the 18-year-old daughter of the Bern Chief of Police,<br />
a survivor of sexual and child abuse and one of my soul<br />
sisters. Even though her title was mother’s helper, (we<br />
affectionately referred to her as our babysitter) she was<br />
very much a part of my childhood fabric and impactful as a<br />
mother’s imprint.<br />
At nine, I watched my mother apply her lipstick with<br />
perfection and precision. She would cat-walk down the<br />
hallway of our bungalow in her chestnut-brown Italian<br />
leather stilettos, tight fitting turtle neck and denim slacks<br />
hugging her waist, while looking all buttoned down in her<br />
blazer. I was in awe. Her beauty was classic and her style<br />
on point. She was this perfect little package, all organized<br />
and strategically placed like each file in her attaché. She<br />
knew what was being served for dinner, who was going to<br />
piano lessons and who to a swim meet. She grocery shopped<br />
organic and local before it was a “thing.” I watched her hop<br />
into her sports car and drive downtown every day to go to<br />
work, and she sang me a lullaby every night before bed.<br />
She is the framework of my liberation into womanhood.<br />
My self-confidence is the greatest gift she ever gave me.<br />
Once I actually became a mother, I began to comprehend<br />
what a reward it is to be called Mom. Today when I parent,<br />
I am ever aware of the other “mothers” that enter and touch<br />
my children’s lives and I feel relief. If you had asked me in<br />
the toddler years who I would need in my village to help<br />
with my own mothering, I would have said no one. But as a<br />
more mature mother, I am eternally grateful to have made<br />
the roads smooth and trusting between my sister and me. I<br />
can listen to my mother’s advice and hear her perspective,<br />
absorbing it without always adopting it. In this messy life, I<br />
am surrounded by ex-grandparents, step-parents, friendslike-family<br />
and mentors, all who offer positive and loving<br />
support around the institution of parenting, even if they are<br />
unaware of their contribution.<br />
This Mother’s Day, take stock of the mother-like figures in<br />
your life and in your children’s lives. These are the people<br />
that forgive your shortcomings, your greatest mistakes, and<br />
unconditionally give you and your children their heart and<br />
soul expecting nothing in return.<br />
This is your village and those involved have likely been<br />
imprinted upon by mothers, aunts, sisters, mentors and<br />
friends themselves. All of these influences create that<br />
drapery of lifelong soulful relationships. Happy Mother’s Day<br />
to all you mothers, father-mothers, soul sisters and mentors.<br />
As a mother, I am touched. Namaste.<br />
SAMANTHA BEDERMAN is a Certified Yoga Instructor and Iyengar trained. Sam uses Yoga to assist with healing from injury, surgery,<br />
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Insomnia – Part 2 of 3<br />
Separating Fact from Fiction:<br />
Debunking Myths About Insomnia<br />
BY DR. DEBRA TREVISAN,<br />
PH.D., C.PSYCH.<br />
In the last few decades, scientists have<br />
begun to unravel the many mysteries<br />
surrounding sleep. While there is still<br />
so much we need to learn and many<br />
questions regarding sleep still to be<br />
answered, there are lots of things we<br />
know for sure. It’s time we separate fact<br />
from fiction by debunking some popular<br />
myths about insomnia.<br />
1. A Drink Will Help You Sleep<br />
MYTH. Insomnia can leave you<br />
desperate for a good night’s rest.<br />
Think a glass or two of wine or a<br />
cocktail before bed will offer relief?<br />
Think again. This myth probably<br />
persists because alcohol, being a<br />
depressant with sedating effects,<br />
can help you fall asleep. However,<br />
as alcohol is broken down and<br />
metabolized in the body, it may lead<br />
to disturbed, restless sleep, or it may<br />
make you wake much earlier than<br />
usual.<br />
2. You Can’t Train Yourself to Sleep<br />
MYTH. You can successfully train<br />
your body to associate certain restful<br />
behaviours with sleep. The key, of<br />
course, is consistency. Maintain a<br />
consistent sleep schedule. Try read<br />
for an hour or taking a warm bath<br />
before bed, or maybe meditating or<br />
daydreaming<br />
will help you drop off<br />
to sleep. Find what works for<br />
you, and then make those rituals<br />
a regular part of preparing for bed<br />
every night.<br />
3. Insomnia Is All In Your Head<br />
MYTH. It’s true that psychological<br />
issues can cause or worsen<br />
insomnia. As a matter of fact, stress<br />
is the number one reason people<br />
report a lack of sleep. However,<br />
it’s not the only insomnia trigger.<br />
Many things can cause insomnia,<br />
including poor sleep hygiene, illness,<br />
medication side effects, chronic<br />
pain, restless legs syndrome or<br />
sleep apnea.<br />
4. You Can Make Up For Lost Sleep<br />
MYTH. It’s highly unlikely that you<br />
can fully catch up on sleep you’ve<br />
lost. Sleeping in over the weekend<br />
may actually upset your natural<br />
body clock and make it harder to get<br />
to sleep the next time. The only way<br />
to catch up on lost sleep is to get<br />
back into a regular sleep schedule.<br />
5. Stay in Bed If You Can’t Sleep<br />
MYTH. Tossing and turning for a<br />
half hour or more in bed? It’s okay<br />
to get up to read or listen to relaxing<br />
music. A quiet activity can help<br />
you relax and feel sleepy. Staying<br />
in bed can lead to frustration and<br />
clock-watching and over time,<br />
you may associate your bed with<br />
wakefulness, not rest. Serious health<br />
conditions have been associated<br />
with chronic lack of sleep, including<br />
obesity, hypertension, diabetes,<br />
heart attack and stroke.<br />
6. Sleep Problems Go Away on<br />
Their Own<br />
MYTH. Until you know what’s<br />
causing your insomnia — whether<br />
it’s stress, medication, illness or<br />
another issue — don’t expect it to<br />
disappear on its own. If you’ve had<br />
problems getting to sleep or staying<br />
asleep, or if you’re consistently tired,<br />
you may have a sleep disorder. It’s<br />
time to talk to your doctor about<br />
treatment.<br />
Stay tuned for my next article<br />
where I cover treatment options<br />
for insomnia.<br />
DR. DEBRA TREVISAN is a Clinical Psychologist with special interests in mood and anxiety disorders, insomnia, and personality disorders.<br />
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PARENTING<br />
DIARY OF A NEW MAMA<br />
Being<br />
my own<br />
dietitian<br />
BY JAIME SLAVIN<br />
It’s hard to practice what I preach<br />
when I’m busy taking care of my<br />
little one. When it comes to eating<br />
nutritiously as a mother of a one-yearold,<br />
I’ve had to come up with a few<br />
strategies to keep me feeling healthy<br />
and thriving (or surviving, depending on<br />
the day).<br />
Busy mom nutrition tips:<br />
Don’t skip meals and then overeat at<br />
night. Seems simple, but it’s actually<br />
harder to achieve when you are busy<br />
taking care of your babe during the day.<br />
If you don’t fuel yourself, you will have<br />
no energy to take care of your little one.<br />
Being prepared is key, so make sure you<br />
always have something in your fridge/<br />
freezer/purse/diaper bag that is not just<br />
for your baby but for you.<br />
» Don’t meal prep, ingredient prep.<br />
Have things on hand like hard-boiled<br />
eggs, washed and sliced veggies, a<br />
homemade salad dressing, roasted<br />
sweet potatoes or cooked quinoa. Just<br />
start with that. It’s a base for a meal<br />
or snack that doesn’t involve much<br />
time and guarantees that you have<br />
something in the fridge when you<br />
need something quick.<br />
» If you are really pinched for time or<br />
need something on the go, make a<br />
big smoothie and try to put as many<br />
healthy fats, protein and greens in<br />
it as you can. This will help you feel<br />
full for longer and will give you the<br />
nutrients you are missing from not<br />
sitting down to a meal.<br />
» Speaking of sitting, this is one of my<br />
poorest nutrition habits that I am<br />
trying to correct: eating standing<br />
up or in a rush. This is not only bad<br />
for digestion, but it also takes away<br />
the pleasure of eating. I’ve learned<br />
to either choose the time my son is<br />
napping to enjoy a meal, or fill his<br />
pack and play with his favourite toys<br />
so he can play and I can sit down to<br />
eat.<br />
» Stress levels and sleep deprivation<br />
lead to more cravings. For some that<br />
may be salt, but for me, it’s cookies<br />
or chocolate. I always have dark<br />
chocolate on hand and I make a<br />
weekly batch of energy bites that are<br />
oat based, which taste like oatmeal<br />
cookies, so my cravings are satisfied<br />
without the crash of a sugary<br />
processed treat.<br />
JAIME SLAVIN is a nutritionist, registered dietician, Masters of Public Health, food educator and advocate for your health and well-being.<br />
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PARENTING<br />
HOOKED ON BOOKS<br />
Gifts for Moms<br />
who Love to Read<br />
BY JOANNE SALLAY EDUCATION COLUMNIST<br />
I<br />
love May and celebrating Mother’s<br />
Day with my family. What I don’t love<br />
is looking for presents for the special<br />
women in my life who are sometimes<br />
challenging to shop for. If you have this<br />
dilemma, I recommend shopping for<br />
gifts connecting to reading.<br />
With so many different categories to<br />
choose from, a good book or reading<br />
accessory is a perfect gift for any mom,<br />
and it sets a great example at home.<br />
Families who read inspire kids to read.<br />
I say this as a self-proclaimed book nerd<br />
raising two little bookworms to like<br />
reading as much as I do.<br />
These days, books aren’t the only<br />
things you can pick up at the local bookstore!<br />
Here are a few literary-inspired<br />
gifts to consider for mom this May:<br />
Cozy clothing, blankets and pillows<br />
I hope my family is reading this<br />
column, because this would be my ideal<br />
gift. I like to get all cozy while reading<br />
before bedtime. A throw blanket is a<br />
must-have for me, and comfortable<br />
pyjamas and a robe too, paired with a<br />
good book I can’t put down. I have also<br />
always wanted to try a pair of Indigo<br />
reading socks, hint-hint.<br />
Reading accessories and decor<br />
Consider charming accessories<br />
that literary lovers will appreciate<br />
for decorating their desk or around<br />
the home. I recently discovered the<br />
Bibliophile line illustrated by Jane<br />
Mount, comprised of artisanal vases,<br />
stationary, agendas and journals, all<br />
designed with the bookworm in mind.<br />
They make a great gift year-round too!<br />
Personalized labels<br />
While many associate customized<br />
name labels with children, they also<br />
make a great gift item for adults. My<br />
mother-in-law is incredibly generous<br />
lending out her favourite books from<br />
her personal collection to friends<br />
and family (and Tupperware too).<br />
Mabel’s Labels would ensure she gets<br />
them back!<br />
Books or gift cards<br />
This idea is for the mom who is always<br />
searching for a good title, takes her<br />
time to read, brings a book on holiday<br />
and does not have patience to wait for<br />
the most popular picks to borrow. The<br />
key here is to know the types of genres<br />
she is into, but get a gift receipt just in<br />
case. When in doubt, you can never go<br />
wrong with a gift card to Indigo.<br />
Reading retreat at the spa<br />
For the ultimate of splurges, I<br />
recommend sending mom away from<br />
the hustle and bustle of her routine<br />
for some rest and relaxation with a<br />
luxurious day spa or overnight getaway.<br />
Ste. Anne’s spa resort in Grafton, Ont.<br />
is my happy place. What I love most<br />
is that you can leave your electronics<br />
behind to truly get away from it all and<br />
get lost in a novel between lunch and a<br />
massage. While this option can have a<br />
higher price tag, it can be combined as a<br />
Father’s Day gift. Double win!<br />
What’s on your Mother’s Day wishlist?<br />
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