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<strong>Muscular</strong> <strong>Dystrophy</strong>:<br />

A <strong>Guide</strong> <strong>to</strong> <strong>parents</strong><br />

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Contents<br />

1. Introduc<strong>to</strong>ry comments ................................................................................... 3<br />

2. The causes of muscular dystrophy ................................................................... 3<br />

3. Diagnosing muscular dystrophy ....................................................................... 4<br />

4. Treatment ......................................................................................................... 5<br />

4.1. General health ........................................................................................... 5<br />

4.2. Physical therapy and exercise .................................................................... 5<br />

4.3. Drug therapy .............................................................................................. 6<br />

4.4. Assisted devices and support aids ............................................................. 6<br />

4.5. Dietary changes ......................................................................................... 6<br />

4.6. Occupational therapy ................................................................................ 6<br />

4.7. Corrective surgery ...................................................................................... 7<br />

5. Emotional support ............................................................................................ 7<br />

5.1. Parents ....................................................................................................... 7<br />

5.2. Siblings ....................................................................................................... 8<br />

5.3. Affected child ............................................................................................. 9<br />

5.4. The school situation ................................................................................. 10<br />

5.5. Socialisation ..............................................................................................10<br />

5.6. Counselling .............................................................................................. 11<br />

6. Conclusion ..................................................................................................... 11<br />

7. Bibliography ................................................................................................... 12


ABOUT THE MUSCULAR DYSTROPHY FOUNDATION OF<br />

SOUTH AFRICA<br />

The <strong>Muscular</strong> <strong>Dystrophy</strong> Research Foundation of South Africa was founded in 1974 by<br />

Mr and Mrs New<strong>to</strong>n Walker of Potchefstroom, who at the time had a son affected with<br />

Duchenne muscular dystrophy. They felt there was a need <strong>to</strong> reach out <strong>to</strong> other <strong>parents</strong><br />

and families in a similar situation and also <strong>to</strong> support research in<strong>to</strong> this disease with the<br />

ultimate goal of finding a cure.<br />

Today the <strong>Muscular</strong> <strong>Dystrophy</strong> Foundation of South Africa (MDFSA) is a registered<br />

non-profit organisation – Reg. No. 004-152 NPO – consisting of a national office and<br />

three branches (Roodepoort, Cape Town and Durban) which operate in the nine<br />

provinces of South Africa.<br />

The mission of the Foundation is <strong>to</strong> support people affected by muscular dystrophy<br />

and neuromuscular disorders and endeavour <strong>to</strong> improve the quality of life of its<br />

members. We assist affected persons and their families by providing access <strong>to</strong> international<br />

information regarding specific dystrophies, workshops, support groups, referral <strong>to</strong><br />

genetic counselling and health facilities, and providing assistive devices when funding is<br />

available. We also strive <strong>to</strong> keep our members updated via the MDF website, Facebook<br />

page and in-house magazine.<br />

National Office<br />

12 Botes Street, Florida Park<br />

Tel 011 472-9703<br />

Website: www.mdsa.org.za<br />

Facebook: <strong>Muscular</strong> <strong>Dystrophy</strong> Foundation of South Africa<br />

Gauteng Branch (Gauteng, Free State, Mpumalanga, Limpopo and North West<br />

12 Botes Street, Florida Park<br />

Tel 011 472-9824<br />

KZN Branch (KwaZulu Natal and part of Eastern Cape)<br />

Office 7, 24 Somtseu Road, Durban<br />

Tel 031 332-0211<br />

Cape Town Branch (Western Cape, Northern Cape and part of Eastern Cape)<br />

3 Wiener Street, Goodwood<br />

Tel 021 592-7306<br />

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1. Introduc<strong>to</strong>ry comments<br />

Every new day holds promise for children everywhere, even for youngsters affected<br />

with muscular dystrophy. The only difference is that children with muscular dystrophy<br />

cannot do things they enjoy without your assistance, patience and understanding and<br />

an ever-present helping hand. They will be whatever you enable them <strong>to</strong> be. Your role<br />

will not be easy, but remember that you can find the strength and guidance <strong>to</strong> care for<br />

them. Parents’ natural grief upon learning that their child has muscular dystrophy can<br />

make it difficult <strong>to</strong> absorb all the implications at once. It is therefore important <strong>to</strong> visit<br />

the doc<strong>to</strong>r, counsellor or social worker <strong>to</strong> discuss the matters of importance <strong>to</strong> you.<br />

Genetic counselling may also be discussed, especially after the initial implications of the<br />

diagnosis have sunk in.<br />

2. Causes of muscular dystrophy<br />

<strong>Muscular</strong> dystrophy (pronounced “dis-tro-fee”) is the name given <strong>to</strong> a group of more<br />

than 70 different neuromuscular disorders causing progressive wasting and weakness<br />

of the muscles. Each type presents differently and with its own levels of severity and<br />

complexity. They are characterised primarily by progressive muscle weakness, leading<br />

<strong>to</strong> secondary effects such as fatigue, increasingly limited physical activity, impaired<br />

balance and often collapsing. The prognosis varies according <strong>to</strong> the type of muscular<br />

dystrophy and the speed of progression. Some types are mild and progress very slowly,<br />

allowing normal life expectancy, while others are more severe and result in functional<br />

disability and loss of the ability <strong>to</strong> walk. Life expectancy may depend on the degree of<br />

muscle weakness and any respira<strong>to</strong>ry or cardiac complications.<br />

These disorders affect about 1 in 1 200 people in the general population, including<br />

children and adults of every race. The disorders are usually inherited, with the<br />

defective gene responsible for the weakening of the muscles being passed on from one<br />

generation <strong>to</strong> the next. However, muscular dystrophy can also occur in families<br />

where there is no prior his<strong>to</strong>ry of the condition. Respira<strong>to</strong>ry and cardiac diseases are<br />

common, and some patients may develop a swallowing disorder. <strong>Muscular</strong> dystrophy is not<br />

contagious and cannot be brought on by injury or activity.<br />

All of the muscular dystrophies result from a mutation in one of the thousands<br />

of genes that program the proteins that are critical for normal muscle health and<br />

development. The body’s cells do not work properly when a protein is altered or produced in<br />

insufficient quantity or sometimes missing completely. Genes are like blueprints: they<br />

contain coded messages that determine a person’s characteristics or traits. They are<br />

arranged along 23 rod-like pairs of chromosomes, with one half of each pair being<br />

inherited from each parent. Each half of a chromosome pair is similar <strong>to</strong> the other,<br />

except for one pair, which determines the sex of the individual.<br />

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<strong>Muscular</strong> dystrophies can be inherited in three ways:<br />

• Au<strong>to</strong>somal dominant inheritance occurs when a child receives a normal gene from<br />

one parent and a defective gene from the other parent.<br />

• Au<strong>to</strong>somal recessive inheritance means that both <strong>parents</strong> must carry and pass on<br />

the faulty gene. The <strong>parents</strong> each have one defective gene but are not affected by<br />

the disorder. Children of either sex can be affected by this pattern of inheritance.<br />

• X-linked (or sex-linked) recessive inheritance occurs when a mother carries the<br />

affected gene on one of her two X chromosomes and passes it <strong>to</strong> her son (males<br />

always inherit an X chromosome from their mother and a Y chromosome from their<br />

father, while daughters inherit an X chromosome from each parent).<br />

3. Diagnosing muscular dystrophy<br />

<strong>Muscular</strong> dystrophy is diagnosed through a physical exam, a family medical his<strong>to</strong>ry, and<br />

tests.<br />

These might include the following:<br />

• Muscle biopsy – Muscle from patients with muscular dystrophy looks different from<br />

normal muscle, when seen under a microscope. The small piece of muscle that is<br />

removed during the biopsy is cut in<strong>to</strong> very thin slices, stained with a series of special<br />

dyes <strong>to</strong> show the different types of muscle fibres and studied by a pathologist.<br />

• Genetic testing – This looks for genes known <strong>to</strong> either cause or be associated with<br />

inherited muscle disease. DNA analysis and enzyme assays (measurements of<br />

enzyme activity) can confirm the diagnosis of certain neuromuscular diseases,<br />

including muscular dystrophy. Genetic linkage studies can identify whether a<br />

specific genetic marker on a chromosome and a disease are inherited <strong>to</strong>gether.<br />

• Electromyography - When muscles contract (shorten) there is electricity<br />

flowing through the muscle tissue. An abnormal muscle has an abnormal pattern of<br />

electricity that can be recognised and recorded using special equipment. An EMG<br />

test involves putting a small needle through the skin in<strong>to</strong> a muscle and recording<br />

the pattern of electricity in the muscle when it is contracting.<br />

• Blood and enzyme tests – These can detect defective genes and help identify<br />

specific neuromuscular disorders. CK is an enzyme (protein) that is important for<br />

energy production within muscle fibres. If a muscle fibre is damaged by a disease<br />

process such as muscular dystrophy, some of the CK leaks out in<strong>to</strong> the blood.<br />

Normally only a small amount is in the blood, but in muscular dystrophy there may<br />

be 10 <strong>to</strong> 100 times the normal amount. Very few other disease processes cause<br />

such a high level of CK in the blood.<br />

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4. Treatment<br />

4.1. General health<br />

Your child’s general health is not necessarily affected by their muscular dystrophy<br />

condition, but the following points should be noted:<br />

• Affected children will be very susceptible <strong>to</strong> colds, which could lead <strong>to</strong> bronchitis<br />

and pneumonia. This is dangerous as their muscle weakness makes them less able <strong>to</strong><br />

cough effectively. If you are worried, call a doc<strong>to</strong>r. Never neglect a cold. Act swiftly.<br />

• It is important <strong>to</strong> avoid unnecessary bed rest or other forms of immobility, as this<br />

could in fact speed up the weakening of the muscles.<br />

• Obesity is a common and very trying problem. Generally it is due <strong>to</strong> the inevitable<br />

lack of muscular activity <strong>to</strong> “burn up” the excess intake. Everybody feels sorry for<br />

affected children, and <strong>to</strong>o many people can think of no better way <strong>to</strong> express their<br />

feelings than <strong>to</strong> provide the child with sweets and luxuries. There could be no more<br />

misplaced kindness. Excess weight restricts mobility even more and puts further<br />

strain on the carers. Restrict carbohydrate foods and if possible improve protein<br />

intake. If these habits are followed from an early age, no sudden changes will need <strong>to</strong><br />

be made during the early teen years, when other frustrations are already occurring.<br />

• Normal routine immunisations should be carried out. Doc<strong>to</strong>rs also recommend the<br />

influenza vaccine annually.<br />

4.2. 4.2. Physical therapy and exercise<br />

Physical therapy and exercise can minimise abnormal or painful positioning of the joints<br />

and prevent or delay deformities such as curvature of the spine. Regular, moderate<br />

exercise can improve movement and muscle strength, help maintain a range of motion,<br />

and keep muscles as flexible and strong as possible. These physical interventions help <strong>to</strong><br />

prevent muscle atrophy and delay the development of contractures.<br />

A programme is normally developed <strong>to</strong> meet the individual’s needs. For example:<br />

• Respira<strong>to</strong>ry care, deep breathing, and coughing exercises may be recommended for<br />

persons with a weakened diaphragm. Coughing and deep breathing exercises are<br />

designed <strong>to</strong> keep the lungs fully expanded.<br />

• Speech therapy may help those whose facial and throat muscles have weakened.<br />

The affected person can learn <strong>to</strong> use special communication devices, such as a<br />

computer with voice synthesiser.<br />

• Special exercises <strong>to</strong>gether with a special diet and feeding techniques may be<br />

recommended for people who have a swallowing disorder and struggle <strong>to</strong> convey<br />

food or liquid from the mouth <strong>to</strong> the s<strong>to</strong>mach.<br />

• Repeated low-frequency bursts of electrical stimulation <strong>to</strong> the thigh muscles can<br />

produce a slight increase in strength in boys with Duchenne muscular dystrophy.<br />

• Exercise options include passive stretching and postural correction exercises.<br />

Therapy should begin as soon as possible following diagnosis, before there is joint<br />

or muscle tightness.<br />

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4.3. Drug therapy<br />

Sadly there is still no definite cure for muscular dystrophy, although research is<br />

being conducted across the world <strong>to</strong> understand the disease better and ultimately find<br />

a cure. In some cases of muscular dystrophy, medicine may be prescribed <strong>to</strong> relieve<br />

symp<strong>to</strong>ms or delay disease progression and muscle degeneration. Corticosteroids such as<br />

prednisone, for example, can slow the rate of muscle deterioration in Duchenne<br />

muscular dystrophy and help children retain strength and prolong independent<br />

walking by as much as several years. Respira<strong>to</strong>ry infections may be treated with<br />

antibiotics. Medications also can be prescribed for some muscular dystrophy -related<br />

heart problems.<br />

4.4. Assistive devices and support aids<br />

Various assistive devices are needed <strong>to</strong> help maintain mobility and independence<br />

as the physical condition of a person deteriorates. Examples include canes, walkers,<br />

mo<strong>to</strong>rised wheelchairs, splints and braces, bath lifts, raised <strong>to</strong>ilet seats, pressure<br />

regulating mattresses, pressure care cushions, ventila<strong>to</strong>rs, speech aids, electric patient<br />

hoists, overhead bed bars (trapezes), orthopaedic appliances and other rehabilitative<br />

devices.<br />

Mobility is also linked <strong>to</strong> accessibility. Building alterations become necessary for this<br />

purpose, such as installing wheelchair ramps at entrances and modifying bathrooms <strong>to</strong><br />

accommodate wheelchair manoeuvres.<br />

4.5. Dietary changes<br />

Changes <strong>to</strong> the diet of those with muscular dystrophy have not been shown <strong>to</strong> slow<br />

the progression of the disease. Proper nutrition is essential, however, for overall<br />

health. Limited mobility or inactivity resulting from muscle weakness can contribute <strong>to</strong><br />

obesity, dehydration and constipation. A high-fibre, high-protein, low-calorie diet<br />

combined with recommended fluid intake may help. <strong>Muscular</strong> dystrophy patients with<br />

swallowing or breathing disorders and those persons who have lost the ability <strong>to</strong> walk<br />

independently should be moni<strong>to</strong>red for signs of malnutrition.<br />

4.6. Occupational therapy<br />

Occupational therapy attempts <strong>to</strong> help people maintain their normal skills and activities<br />

at work or in other spheres. By so doing it can help some people with muscular dystrophy<br />

<strong>to</strong> deal with progressive weakness and loss of mobility. Some individuals may need <strong>to</strong><br />

learn new job skills or new ways <strong>to</strong> perform tasks, while other persons may need <strong>to</strong> change<br />

jobs. Assistive technology may include modifications <strong>to</strong> home and workplace settings<br />

and the use of mo<strong>to</strong>rised wheelchairs, wheelchair accessories, and adaptive utensils.


4.7. Corrective surgery<br />

Surgery may be performed <strong>to</strong> ease complications from muscular dystrophy. Surgery <strong>to</strong><br />

reduce the pain and postural imbalance caused by scoliosis may help some patients.<br />

Scoliosis occurs when the muscles that support the spine begin <strong>to</strong> weaken and can<br />

no longer keep the spine straight. The spinal curve, if <strong>to</strong>o great, can interfere with<br />

breathing and posture, causing pain. Another option is spinal fusion, in which bone is<br />

inserted between the vertebrae in the spine and allowed <strong>to</strong> grow, fusing the vertebrae<br />

<strong>to</strong>gether <strong>to</strong> increase spinal stability.<br />

5. Emotional support<br />

5.1. Parents<br />

People react <strong>to</strong> this diagnosis differently. Each has his or her own strengths,<br />

resources, networks and ways of coping. Some may take weeks or months <strong>to</strong> adjust <strong>to</strong> the<br />

diagnosis, hoping the terrible prognosis will go away. Others understandably react<br />

with shock, anger and sadness. They may be angry with the doc<strong>to</strong>r who gave them the<br />

diagnosis, angry with their spouse or with themselves. It may take some time<br />

before a family develops its own way of living with a family member who has muscular<br />

dystrophy and is able <strong>to</strong> deal with the issues this brings. The process of coping is<br />

continuous and will vary over time in response <strong>to</strong> the changes and needs of the<br />

situation. There will be highs and lows, and as long as the way used <strong>to</strong> cope by the<br />

family is not self-destructive and does not hurt anyone, then it is appropriate and should<br />

be respected. There is no right or wrong way and each family will find what works for them.<br />

Drawing on their own resources and the support and experience of others can be useful.<br />

The natural inclination of <strong>parents</strong> is <strong>to</strong> protect their disabled child from<br />

knowledge of the disorder and from the apparent cruelty of the outside world, but this<br />

could lead <strong>to</strong> overprotection. This may frustrate the child’s normal impulse <strong>to</strong>wards<br />

independence, especially in early adolescence, and may hamper their ability <strong>to</strong><br />

make friends. Friendship both within the family and outside is very important for<br />

the affected person. Parents should not be embarrassed about exposing their<br />

child within the community. In this respect, young disabled adolescents should be<br />

granted the space and independence <strong>to</strong> test their own emotions, creativity, and<br />

social capability and be encouraged and supported <strong>to</strong> develop their leadership abilities.<br />

Looking after a disabled youngster is not an easy task and there are more than the<br />

normal share of problems. One parent-made problem is the tendency <strong>to</strong> be <strong>to</strong>o<br />

anxiously sympathetic. A feeling of self-sufficiency and independence is so necessary for<br />

the child’s mental health. The parent should institute a schedule of everyday activities<br />

– simple things that the child knows they can do with little or no help. They will learn<br />

self-respect that comes from achievement, which is so vital for maintaining an interest<br />

in life.<br />

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This brings us <strong>to</strong> the point of your own needs. In your devotion <strong>to</strong> looking<br />

after your disabled child, do not forget your own needs. Try <strong>to</strong> stay involved<br />

with social, community or other matters of interest <strong>to</strong> you. Allow yourself short<br />

breaks of a few hours every week. You need time off <strong>to</strong> retain perspective.<br />

Naturally, at times, feelings of depression could occur within the family, but it is<br />

not common for children who have muscular dystrophy. Parental feelings of guilt<br />

and a tendency <strong>to</strong> blame oneself is often the reason for depression. The sooner<br />

you rid yourself of this blame the better. Nothing about the situation is your fault.<br />

Plan for the future. Even if you have few assets, it’s important <strong>to</strong> draw up a will, appoint<br />

guardians, outline your wishes for your affected child’s care, and establish a special<br />

needs trust, in case your child outlives you (Medvescec, 2004).<br />

5.2. Siblings<br />

Because special attention is given <strong>to</strong> the affected child, other children within the<br />

family may feel jealous. Obviously everyone wishes a disabled child <strong>to</strong> live the fullest life<br />

possible, and the nature of muscular dystrophy and the deterioration of strength make<br />

more attention and assistance necessary for the affected child. This is not favouritism<br />

but essential care, and this should be carefully explained <strong>to</strong> the child’s siblings. It is<br />

therefore important <strong>to</strong> help brothers and sisters realise that they are equally loved and<br />

encourage them <strong>to</strong> have empathy with the affected child and behave lovingly <strong>to</strong>wards them.<br />

Christina Medvescek (2004) writes as follows about siblings in this situation:<br />

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… the sibling experience isn’t easy, especially as children see their affected brother or<br />

sister decline physically. Sadness, resentment, jealousy, embarrassment, frustration,<br />

guilt and not a little fear — all are part of the s<strong>to</strong>ry.<br />

Siblings usually have the longest-lasting relationships in a family. It’s not uncommon<br />

for an adult sibling, having outlived the <strong>parents</strong>, <strong>to</strong> take on caregiving responsibilities<br />

for an affected brother or sister.<br />

Families that foster a climate of security, belonging, love and caring — all the positives<br />

of a healthy family system — generally have children who cope well with the daily<br />

realities of neuromuscular disease, says Arden Peters, a psychologist… .<br />

But a good family climate can’t guarantee that kids won’t struggle with their<br />

difficult roles. Signs that siblings may be having trouble coping include: greater-than-normal<br />

bickering, anger, jealousy and complaining; acting out at school or home; sleep<br />

disturbances; clinging; and (ironically) overachieving and trying <strong>to</strong> be “perfect<br />

How do you set a good family climate?<br />

• Be open and honest with children about the disability. “Parents should openly<br />

communicate about the disease process, treatment regime and especially their<br />

feelings,” says Laura Frobel, a social worker… .<br />

When younger children start asking questions about death, they’re ready <strong>to</strong> begin


talking about it. If older children haven’t asked about death, maybe they’re worried<br />

they’ll cause something bad <strong>to</strong> happen by bringing it up.<br />

“Children need <strong>to</strong> know that when <strong>parents</strong> cry about such things, it’s a sign of love<br />

and the children have done the right thing, not the wrong thing, in talking about<br />

it,” says Peters. …<br />

• Listen. Children don’t always need you <strong>to</strong> fix things. A sympathetic ear and a hug<br />

can go a long way. Be strong enough <strong>to</strong> bear their “bad” feelings. Counselling can be<br />

a valuable <strong>to</strong>ol for some children, but non-talkative children may just need <strong>to</strong> know<br />

they can talk <strong>to</strong> you if they need <strong>to</strong>. …<br />

• Treat them as individuals. … Don’t lay on guilt by emphasizing how much luckier<br />

they are than their affected siblings. Find time <strong>to</strong> connect privately with each child.<br />

Give them private space. Take vacations that cater <strong>to</strong> their interests, not just built<br />

around hospital visits or physical limitations. Help them connect with a caring adult<br />

who is there just for them. Let overachievers know you love them for who they are,<br />

not what they do.<br />

• Don’t expect children <strong>to</strong> assume adult roles. Caregiving is a character-building<br />

experience and many siblings say they’ve benefited from it. Too much caregiver<br />

responsibility robs siblings of their growing-up experiences, and can make them<br />

bossy and authoritarian. How much is <strong>to</strong>o much? The key is that the <strong>parents</strong> remain<br />

in charge, and that they ensure helper siblings get <strong>to</strong> be kids <strong>to</strong>o.<br />

• Remember they’re young. Even though they understand intellectually that<br />

their siblings with disabilities need more attention, children don’t yet have good<br />

emotional control and often act immaturely. Be patient.<br />

5.3. Affected Child<br />

Very young children will not understand any details of the diagnosis, but those who<br />

are already aware of their problem will welcome an opportunity <strong>to</strong> discuss what is<br />

happening <strong>to</strong> them. How much a child should be <strong>to</strong>ld depends on their own<br />

curiosity and emotional make-up. Your child’s questions should be a good indica<strong>to</strong>r of<br />

what he or she is ready <strong>to</strong> hear. As a general rule, do not volunteer disturbing information<br />

needlessly. It is recommended that you are open and honest from the very beginning.<br />

I was officially diagnosed with congenital muscular dystrophy at age 4, but I was<br />

always aware of my disability. I recognised that I was different from my peers – I<br />

was unable <strong>to</strong> walk, run and climb steps. I also looked different – I was very thin<br />

as a child, I had contractures and scoliosis causing asymmetry of the <strong>to</strong>rso. My<br />

<strong>parents</strong> <strong>to</strong>ld us that I have something called muscular dystrophy, meaning I have<br />

much weaker muscles than other children. At that age, this was enough knowledge<br />

for me. For many years, when other children would ask the inevitable question,<br />

‘what’s wrong with you? ’I would simply answer, ‘I’ve got muscular dystrophy so I<br />

can’t walk like you’.<br />

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It is also important <strong>to</strong> consider siblings, as they should be included in any discussions<br />

you have as a family. However, refrain from telling siblings more about the condition<br />

than the affected child. Any information you choose <strong>to</strong> share with your children should<br />

be fair and equal.<br />

Independence and confidence is a very important skill, particularly in coping with a<br />

variety of people and situations. It is therefore important for your child <strong>to</strong> participate<br />

in activities outside the home. Not only does participation develop independence<br />

and a positive self-image, but the activities themselves provide a wonderful source of<br />

pleasure and enjoyment.<br />

Above all else your child must feel loved and supported by you and your family.<br />

Sometimes the comfort of a loving hug is all the reassurance they want and need.<br />

5.4. Education<br />

Education is important <strong>to</strong> everyone, including disabled individuals, who have<br />

the same potential as anyone intellectually. Physical challenges at school such as<br />

moving from class <strong>to</strong> class, climbing stairs and carrying a suitcase should be overcome by<br />

arrangement with the principal, teacher and schoolmates. The presence of<br />

occasional pupils in wheelchairs in any mainstream school may in fact be an advantage <strong>to</strong><br />

everyone, giving the affected children the opportunity <strong>to</strong> live in a regular environment,<br />

and their schoolmates the opportunity <strong>to</strong> recognise the problems of the disabled.<br />

Special schools for the disabled, however, give them opportunities <strong>to</strong> see themselves as<br />

only one of a great many disabled people. Another advantage of special schools could<br />

be the services available, such as physiotherapy, nursing supervision and a chance <strong>to</strong><br />

learn <strong>to</strong> use special equipment and techniques <strong>to</strong> overcome physical difficulties. The<br />

best solution should be sought for each individual child. Often the child will first attend<br />

a mainstream school (the so-called ‘normal’) school, but they should change <strong>to</strong> a special<br />

needs school before their needs become critical and result in an emergency situation.<br />

As previously mentioned, the diagnosis could reduce life expectancy or result in<br />

functional disability. Despite this prognosis it is important that children do attend<br />

school that provide educational programs <strong>to</strong> enable them <strong>to</strong> find meaningful work once<br />

they have left school.<br />

5.5. Socialisation<br />

It is important that your child has contact with a broad range of people for his or her<br />

development. Contact with those who do not have the disorder will help your child <strong>to</strong><br />

not feel different, while contact with other children with muscular dystrophy will give<br />

him or her opportunity <strong>to</strong> be themselves.


A group of children diagnosed with muscular dystrophy can talk about how they feel<br />

and how they deal with certain situations in a way that is different from talking with<br />

their <strong>parents</strong>. This peer support is invaluable, something which plays a big role in the<br />

life of any teenager or young adult.<br />

5.6. Counselling<br />

Given the demands and challenges of situations they meet, at times a family may find<br />

it useful <strong>to</strong> seek professional counselling and assistance. This should be thought of as a<br />

positive and constructive action rather than a failure or weakness.<br />

The <strong>Muscular</strong> <strong>Dystrophy</strong> Foundation of South Africa will give you as much support<br />

as it can. Join the Foundation and our social work team can provide support in terms<br />

of individual therapy, family therapy, or group therapy; or you can just simply meet<br />

others with similar problems <strong>to</strong> comfort and advise each other by telephone or through<br />

support group meetings.<br />

6. Conclusion<br />

There cannot, of course, be a single right answer <strong>to</strong> every problem. Every child’s set of<br />

circumstances is different, and the advice given should be shaped <strong>to</strong> fit the individual.<br />

But remember that you are not alone with your problem.<br />

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7. Bibliography<br />

Life on the slow lane. Disability & lifestyle blog. http://www.lifeontheslowlane.co.uk/<br />

Medvescek, C. 2004. “The other children in the family”, Quest, January–February 2004,<br />

as excerpted online by the <strong>Muscular</strong> <strong>Dystrophy</strong> Association in Learning <strong>to</strong> live with<br />

neuromuscular disease: A message for <strong>parents</strong>. https://www.mda.org/sites/default/<br />

files/publications/Learning_<strong>to</strong>_Live_P-195.pdf<br />

<strong>Muscular</strong> <strong>Dystrophy</strong> Association. 2011. Learning <strong>to</strong> live with neuromuscular disease:<br />

A message for <strong>parents</strong>. www.mda.org/sites/default/files/publications/Learning_<strong>to</strong>_<br />

Live_P-195.pdf<br />

<strong>Muscular</strong> <strong>Dystrophy</strong> Association / <strong>Muscular</strong> <strong>Dystrophy</strong> Australia. 2018. DMD – A guide<br />

for <strong>parents</strong>. https://www.mda.org.au/wp-content/uploads/2018/07/DMD_A-<strong>Guide</strong>_<br />

for_Parents.pdf<br />

<strong>Muscular</strong> <strong>Dystrophy</strong> Foundation of South Africa. A guide <strong>to</strong> <strong>parents</strong>. http://www.mdsa.<br />

org.za<br />

<strong>Muscular</strong> <strong>Dystrophy</strong> Foundation of South Africa. 2016. Orientation programme, 30<br />

June. Florida.<br />

PLEASE NOTE<br />

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The treatments and drugs mentioned in this fact sheet are for information purposes<br />

ONLY. Please consult your physician or other health care specialist for information<br />

regarding the use of any of the above.


A heartfelt thank you <strong>to</strong> FC Robb Charitable Trust for donating the funding <strong>to</strong> make this<br />

book possible.


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