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the new lenox patriot | April 25, 2019 | 17<br />

Service dogs lifesavers for those suffering from PTSD<br />

SEAN HASTINGS, Editor<br />

“A man’s best friend”<br />

just doesn’t cut it when describing<br />

what a service dog<br />

means to someone suffering<br />

from PTSD.<br />

It is more than the greeting<br />

at the door, a big lick<br />

across the face or a snuggle<br />

buddy. It is a companion<br />

that is there to make sure<br />

they want to get up in the<br />

morning, can sleep through<br />

the night or go out in public.<br />

Four veterans and one<br />

police officer were officially<br />

presented with their<br />

service dogs at the New<br />

Lenox American Legion,<br />

Saturday, April 20. The<br />

evening was put together<br />

by K9’s for Veteran and Michael<br />

Tellerino, veteran and<br />

founder led the event.<br />

Julian Silva, Brian Skraba,<br />

Oscar Gutierrez, Cassandra<br />

Taylor and Brad<br />

Vaughn all officially received<br />

their dogs.<br />

“Watching the difference<br />

in these guys, you can’t put<br />

a price on that,” Tellerino<br />

said.<br />

Each service dog is<br />

trained specifically for the<br />

person they are helping.<br />

PTSD cannot be seen and<br />

it can’t be picked out of a<br />

crowd and in a room filled<br />

with people.<br />

And for Skraba of Lockport,<br />

as much as that night<br />

was about officially getting<br />

his service dog, Bentley, it<br />

was just as much about continuing<br />

to spread the word<br />

about PTSD and finding<br />

ways to treat it better and<br />

faster.<br />

Skraba, a Marine veteran,<br />

was overwhelmed by<br />

the support shown toward<br />

him and the others with the<br />

community members and<br />

other former Marine’s in<br />

the room cheering him on.<br />

He has been out of the<br />

military for 10 years and he<br />

said sometimes he misses<br />

the camaraderie he once<br />

had, but events like that<br />

night brings it back.<br />

“He’s just a calming<br />

presence,” Skraba said. “If I<br />

start getting a little stressed<br />

out or zoning out, he’s going<br />

to help bring me back<br />

and take me out of the bad<br />

place so I don’t stay there<br />

all day.”<br />

And the first step for Skraba<br />

to getting better and<br />

getting help was admitting<br />

that he needed it. While the<br />

dog may give away that he<br />

is dealing with something,<br />

he hopes that gives someone<br />

else, who is trying to<br />

find the strength to get help,<br />

get it, he said.<br />

“For a while, I thought<br />

about the stigma, but then<br />

I said whatever,”he said.<br />

“The happiness she brings<br />

me and the mood change<br />

is worth any kind of weird<br />

stigma that anybody may<br />

apply.”<br />

Skraba also mentioned<br />

how 22 veterans commit<br />

suicide each day.<br />

“Maybe by me having<br />

the service dog, maybe<br />

someone will ask for help<br />

and maybe that will cut<br />

down on one,” he said.<br />

“One makes all the difference<br />

in the world. Hopefully<br />

he makes a difference<br />

for other people and not just<br />

me.”<br />

That is the one thing all<br />

the service dog recipients<br />

had in common: they asked<br />

for help and K9’s for Veterans<br />

holding the event, has<br />

society taking one step forward.<br />

For Gutierrez, that is why<br />

that night meant so much to<br />

him and his dog Daisy.<br />

He had friends that took<br />

their own lives because<br />

they did not have someof<br />

the options that are available<br />

now.<br />

“If they would have had<br />

something like a service<br />

dog to read the signs,they<br />

would probably still be<br />

here,” he said.<br />

Gutierrez struggles with<br />

panic attacks and that is<br />

how Daisy has helped him<br />

already.<br />

Service dogs are trained<br />

to read panic attacks even<br />

before they start and can<br />

calm a veteran down.<br />

“When they’re happening,<br />

she comes next to me<br />

and I’m able to pet her and<br />

get my mind off whatever<br />

triggered me,” he said.<br />

And a little extra special<br />

aspect for Gutierrez is that<br />

he never owned a dog before,<br />

but now having Daisy,<br />

wishes he had a dog before.<br />

“I wish their life spans<br />

were as long as mine because<br />

she’s grown into me<br />

already,” he said. “I love<br />

this dog to death. She’s definitely<br />

a part of the family.”<br />

He has been reaching out<br />

to others to let them know<br />

how much it helps and one<br />

veteran has already showed<br />

up to the center to get a dog<br />

trained for him.<br />

Vaughn, of Peoria<br />

Heights, is the first first responder<br />

to receive a service<br />

dog through K9’s for Veterans.<br />

He was having night terrors<br />

on a regular basis, but<br />

his dog, Bo, has already<br />

helped him with them. Bo<br />

sleeps next to Vaughn’s<br />

bed and will jump in if he<br />

senses a panic attack, put<br />

his weight on Vaughn and<br />

let him know it’s OK.<br />

“He lets me know that<br />

whatever was in my head<br />

isn’t real and he is my reality,”<br />

Vaughn said.<br />

Dogs love children. For<br />

whatever reason, they’re<br />

drawn to them, but when<br />

Vaughn and his family went<br />

to pick up Bo, he darted<br />

right past Vaughn’s kids<br />

and went straight for him.<br />

“It was like he already<br />

knew I was the guy having<br />

anxiety issues,”he said.<br />

“It’s incredible.”<br />

Vaughn struggles to be in<br />

crowded rooms when he’s<br />

off duty and usually has his<br />

back against the wall when<br />

he is in them, but now he<br />

separates himself because<br />

of Bo.<br />

Bo watches what is going<br />

on behind Vaughn and<br />

tugs when he sees some one<br />

walking behind him.<br />

“I can kind of let my<br />

guard down a little bit,”<br />

Vaughn said. “He can keep<br />

an eye out for me.”<br />

Silva, who is just 22,<br />

of Oak Lawn, an Air<br />

Force veteran, said his<br />

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