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the new lenox patriot | May 9, 2019 | 19<br />
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“Don’t look now, but I think that might just<br />
be the sun trying to break through the<br />
clouds. What a welcome change that will<br />
be.”<br />
New Lenox resident, Jeff McDonald posted<br />
this, May 3<br />
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“SHOW ME THE MONEY! As of May<br />
1 the Providence Catholic High School<br />
Class of 2019 has been awarded over $36<br />
MILLION in College Scholarships and they<br />
are not done yet....stay tuned!”<br />
@PCHS_Celtics posted this to its Twitter,<br />
May 1.<br />
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from the editor<br />
Be happy with what you can do;<br />
don’t worry about what you can’t<br />
Sean Hastings<br />
sean@newlenoxpatriot.com<br />
By now, I’m sure<br />
you’ve heard<br />
about the Lincoln-<br />
Way West triplets who<br />
dominated the ACT. One<br />
day they were three high<br />
school students who did<br />
well on the ACT and<br />
the next they’re doing<br />
interviews, getting calls<br />
from Ellen and Facebook<br />
sensations.<br />
The only problem that<br />
came out of that was people<br />
calling them cheaters,<br />
using their twin telepathy<br />
and don’t deserve the<br />
praise. Of course they do.<br />
Two 35s and a perfect 36<br />
deserve recognition.<br />
But that’s how the<br />
world works. Some<br />
people, when they can’t<br />
do something, like to<br />
bring down the people<br />
who can. What’s the use<br />
in doing that?<br />
The problem is comparing<br />
yourself to others. I<br />
used to do it. Growing up<br />
and still now, my brother<br />
has always naturally been<br />
smarter than me. Not that<br />
I was a bad student. My<br />
brother was always just<br />
a step above me gradewise.<br />
And as we went<br />
through high school<br />
together, I just wished<br />
things clicked for me as<br />
easily as they did for him.<br />
But thinking like that gets<br />
you nowhere.<br />
I went to college with<br />
minimal scholarships, and<br />
even when I was in school<br />
and having my own success<br />
writing for my school<br />
paper, I always thought<br />
what if I was as smart<br />
as my brother, maybe I<br />
would be saving money.<br />
It took me time to<br />
finally figure it out, and it<br />
was one of the best things<br />
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I have done. And the<br />
triplets also touched on<br />
this, as well. They used to<br />
compete with each other,<br />
but now they realize they<br />
are their own individuals<br />
and take pride in their<br />
strengths and work on<br />
their weaknesses.<br />
Our goals should not<br />
be to constantly compete<br />
with others and compare,<br />
because that is not<br />
healthy. Take pride in your<br />
strengths and respect other<br />
people’s, as well, rather<br />
than trying to measure<br />
yours to others. Compete<br />
with yourself and get<br />
better.<br />
My brother is in engineering<br />
with all kinds<br />
of math and physics I<br />
couldn’t even begin to<br />
explain, and so I always<br />
looked at him as being<br />
supreme and “smart.” But<br />
when he told me how he<br />
respected what I did with<br />
writing, photography and<br />
other journalistic work,<br />
I finally realized we all<br />
need to be proud to be<br />
good at what we are.<br />
There’s always going to<br />
be someone who is way<br />
better at certain things<br />
than you. Whether that<br />
is with other professions<br />
or even inside your own,<br />
there’s always room to<br />
grow.<br />
To tie this back to the<br />
triplets and their high<br />
ACT scores, why can’t we<br />
let others enjoy their successes<br />
and we enjoy our<br />
own, as well.<br />
The negative comments<br />
are not going to change<br />
their ACT scores or the<br />
fact that they are happy<br />
for scoring so well.<br />
I know I can’t put up<br />
ACT numbers like that,<br />
and I’m totally fine with<br />
it. I’m happy being a<br />
writer and editor.<br />
Try to be the best at<br />
what you do; don’t worry<br />
about what others can or<br />
can’t do.<br />
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