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newlenoxpatriot.com sound off<br />

the new lenox patriot | May 9, 2019 | 19<br />

Social snapshot<br />

Top Web Stories<br />

From NewLenoxPatriot.com as of Monday,<br />

May 6<br />

1. Two large residential developments to<br />

come to New Lenox<br />

2. Local student and Girl Scout receives<br />

Gold Award<br />

3. Lincoln-Way welding teacher wins prize<br />

package for school<br />

4. The Dish: A sweet selection sets<br />

Whizzy Puffs apart from the competition<br />

5. <strong>NL</strong>SD122 certified staff members<br />

receiving pay raise<br />

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“Don’t look now, but I think that might just<br />

be the sun trying to break through the<br />

clouds. What a welcome change that will<br />

be.”<br />

New Lenox resident, Jeff McDonald posted<br />

this, May 3<br />

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TheNewLenoxPatriot<br />

“SHOW ME THE MONEY! As of May<br />

1 the Providence Catholic High School<br />

Class of 2019 has been awarded over $36<br />

MILLION in College Scholarships and they<br />

are not done yet....stay tuned!”<br />

@PCHS_Celtics posted this to its Twitter,<br />

May 1.<br />

Follow The New Lenox Patriot: @The<strong>NL</strong>Patriot<br />

from the editor<br />

Be happy with what you can do;<br />

don’t worry about what you can’t<br />

Sean Hastings<br />

sean@newlenoxpatriot.com<br />

By now, I’m sure<br />

you’ve heard<br />

about the Lincoln-<br />

Way West triplets who<br />

dominated the ACT. One<br />

day they were three high<br />

school students who did<br />

well on the ACT and<br />

the next they’re doing<br />

interviews, getting calls<br />

from Ellen and Facebook<br />

sensations.<br />

The only problem that<br />

came out of that was people<br />

calling them cheaters,<br />

using their twin telepathy<br />

and don’t deserve the<br />

praise. Of course they do.<br />

Two 35s and a perfect 36<br />

deserve recognition.<br />

But that’s how the<br />

world works. Some<br />

people, when they can’t<br />

do something, like to<br />

bring down the people<br />

who can. What’s the use<br />

in doing that?<br />

The problem is comparing<br />

yourself to others. I<br />

used to do it. Growing up<br />

and still now, my brother<br />

has always naturally been<br />

smarter than me. Not that<br />

I was a bad student. My<br />

brother was always just<br />

a step above me gradewise.<br />

And as we went<br />

through high school<br />

together, I just wished<br />

things clicked for me as<br />

easily as they did for him.<br />

But thinking like that gets<br />

you nowhere.<br />

I went to college with<br />

minimal scholarships, and<br />

even when I was in school<br />

and having my own success<br />

writing for my school<br />

paper, I always thought<br />

what if I was as smart<br />

as my brother, maybe I<br />

would be saving money.<br />

It took me time to<br />

finally figure it out, and it<br />

was one of the best things<br />

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New Lenox Patriot. Letters can be mailed to: The New Lenox Patriot,<br />

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www.newlenoxpatriot.com.<br />

I have done. And the<br />

triplets also touched on<br />

this, as well. They used to<br />

compete with each other,<br />

but now they realize they<br />

are their own individuals<br />

and take pride in their<br />

strengths and work on<br />

their weaknesses.<br />

Our goals should not<br />

be to constantly compete<br />

with others and compare,<br />

because that is not<br />

healthy. Take pride in your<br />

strengths and respect other<br />

people’s, as well, rather<br />

than trying to measure<br />

yours to others. Compete<br />

with yourself and get<br />

better.<br />

My brother is in engineering<br />

with all kinds<br />

of math and physics I<br />

couldn’t even begin to<br />

explain, and so I always<br />

looked at him as being<br />

supreme and “smart.” But<br />

when he told me how he<br />

respected what I did with<br />

writing, photography and<br />

other journalistic work,<br />

I finally realized we all<br />

need to be proud to be<br />

good at what we are.<br />

There’s always going to<br />

be someone who is way<br />

better at certain things<br />

than you. Whether that<br />

is with other professions<br />

or even inside your own,<br />

there’s always room to<br />

grow.<br />

To tie this back to the<br />

triplets and their high<br />

ACT scores, why can’t we<br />

let others enjoy their successes<br />

and we enjoy our<br />

own, as well.<br />

The negative comments<br />

are not going to change<br />

their ACT scores or the<br />

fact that they are happy<br />

for scoring so well.<br />

I know I can’t put up<br />

ACT numbers like that,<br />

and I’m totally fine with<br />

it. I’m happy being a<br />

writer and editor.<br />

Try to be the best at<br />

what you do; don’t worry<br />

about what others can or<br />

can’t do.<br />

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