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<strong>Issue</strong> <strong>50</strong> <strong>June</strong> <strong>2016</strong><br />

Misconceptions<br />

about marriage<br />

Page 5<br />

On pilgrimage<br />

to Kent<br />

Page 6 & 7<br />

Learning<br />

to forgive<br />

Page 11<br />

A new auxiliary bishop for Kent<br />

By Greg Watts<br />

Fa<strong>the</strong>r Paul Mason has become<br />

<strong>the</strong> new auxiliary<br />

bishop for Kent. He was ordained<br />

by Archbishop Peter<br />

at a Mass in a packed St<br />

George’s Ca<strong>the</strong>dral.<br />

For <strong>the</strong> last two years, Fr<br />

Paul has been episcopal<br />

vicar for Kent, which consists<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> deaneries <strong>of</strong><br />

Canterbury, Chatham,<br />

Dover, Gravesend, Maidstone,<br />

Thanet, and Tunbridge<br />

Wells. He was<br />

appointed to <strong>the</strong> role following<br />

<strong>the</strong> retirement <strong>of</strong><br />

Bishop John Hine.<br />

Archbishop Peter said, "I<br />

am very happy that <strong>the</strong> Holy<br />

Fa<strong>the</strong>r has once again appointed<br />

a third auxiliary to<br />

<strong>Southwark</strong>, and I am sure<br />

that as Paul begins this new<br />

stage in his ordained ministry<br />

he will work with <strong>the</strong><br />

clergy, religious and lay<br />

faithful <strong>of</strong> Kent with <strong>the</strong><br />

same energy and enthusiasm<br />

he has demonstrated as a<br />

priest.”<br />

Bishop Paul said, “Although<br />

I have been working<br />

as episcopal vicar for Kent<br />

for just over two years, I<br />

still experienced something<br />

<strong>of</strong> a seismic shift when <strong>the</strong><br />

nuncio, Archbishop Mennini,<br />

handed me a letter saying<br />

that Pope Francis wished to<br />

appoint me as Auxiliary<br />

Bishop for <strong>Southwark</strong>.<br />

“<strong>Southwark</strong> is a wonderful<br />

diocese with great energy<br />

and diversity where <strong>the</strong><br />

clergy are not only very supportive<br />

but also a delight to<br />

work with. I look forward to<br />

continuing my ministry with<br />

Archbishop Peter and to do<br />

all I can to support and promote<br />

<strong>the</strong> Catholic faith and<br />

help share <strong>the</strong> love and<br />

mercy <strong>of</strong> God, particularly<br />

to <strong>the</strong> people <strong>of</strong> Kent and<br />

<strong>the</strong> Medway.”<br />

Born in North Shields,<br />

Tyne and Wear, Bishop Paul<br />

studied at Kings College,<br />

London, and <strong>the</strong>n worked in<br />

Turin for Olivetti before<br />

joining Hewlett-Packard.<br />

He began his training for<br />

<strong>the</strong> priesthood in 1992 at<br />

<strong>the</strong> Venerable English College<br />

in Rome and was ordained<br />

in 1998.<br />

Following three years as<br />

an assistant priest at St John<br />

<strong>the</strong> Baptist, Purley, he was<br />

appointed full-time hospital<br />

chaplain at St Thomas’ &<br />

Guys Hospital Trust. He also<br />

took on a national role for<br />

healthcare chaplaincy for<br />

<strong>the</strong> Bishops’ Conference <strong>of</strong><br />

England and Wales.<br />

In 2012 he became pastoral<br />

director <strong>of</strong> Allen Hall<br />

Seminary and director <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>Southwark</strong> Ongoing Formation.<br />

He has taught courses<br />

on medical ethics and sacraments<br />

at St Mary’s University,<br />

Strawberry Hill, and on<br />

faith, values and culture at<br />

King’s College, London.<br />

He has also served as an<br />

Apostleship <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Sea cruise<br />

chaplain, spending a fortnight<br />

on board P & O’s Aurora<br />

in <strong>the</strong> Mediterranean.<br />

“<strong>The</strong> contract with <strong>the</strong> shipping<br />

company classifies <strong>the</strong><br />

priest as an ‘entertainer’.<br />

This didn’t worry me. <strong>The</strong>y<br />

could have called me <strong>the</strong><br />

chief bottle-washer so long<br />

as we get <strong>the</strong> opportunity to<br />

provide this ministry,” he<br />

said.<br />

<strong>The</strong> weekend<br />

that Fatima<br />

came to<br />

Kidbrooke.<br />

A statue <strong>of</strong><br />

Our Lady <strong>of</strong><br />

Fatima and<br />

<strong>the</strong> relics <strong>of</strong><br />

Jacinta and<br />

Francisco,<br />

two <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

visionaries,<br />

being<br />

carried in<br />

procession<br />

from<br />

Kidbrooke<br />

Green to St<br />

John Fisher's<br />

Church for<br />

an all-night<br />

vigil.<br />

Afterwards<br />

<strong>the</strong> statue<br />

visited St<br />

Michael’s,<br />

Mitcham,<br />

Our Lady<br />

Immaculate,<br />

Tolworth, and<br />

St Pius X,<br />

Norbiton.


Editorial<br />

<strong>The</strong> relic <strong>of</strong> St Thomas<br />

was venerated at<br />

Westminster Ca<strong>the</strong>dral<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Pilgrim</strong> <strong>June</strong> <strong>2016</strong><br />

Relic returns<br />

to Canterbury<br />

By Greg Watts<br />

A relic <strong>of</strong> St Thomas a Becket, one <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> patrons <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>Southwark</strong> <strong>Archdiocese</strong>, has made a tour <strong>of</strong> London<br />

and Kent.<br />

<strong>The</strong> fragment <strong>of</strong> bone believed to be from <strong>the</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

former Archbishop <strong>of</strong> Canterbury’s arm was brought<br />

to <strong>the</strong> UK by <strong>the</strong> president <strong>of</strong> Hungary, where it has<br />

been kept for 800 years.<br />

<strong>The</strong> relic was venerated at a Mass at Westminster<br />

Ca<strong>the</strong>dral celebrated by Cardinal Vincent Nichols,<br />

Archbishop <strong>of</strong> Westminster, and Cardinal Peter Erdo,<br />

Archbishop <strong>of</strong> Esztergom in Hungary. O<strong>the</strong>r relics <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> saint from churches in London and Kent were<br />

also venerated.<br />

Later, <strong>the</strong> relic from Hungary was taken to Westminster<br />

Abbey, Rochester Ca<strong>the</strong>dral, and, finally,<br />

Canterbury Ca<strong>the</strong>dral, where Fr Valentine Erhahon<br />

<strong>of</strong> nearby St Thomas’s church, celebrated Mass in<br />

<strong>the</strong> crypt.<br />

St Thomas was murdered in Canterbury Ca<strong>the</strong>dral<br />

in 1170 by four knights sent by King Henry II. While<br />

studying in Paris, Thomas had become friends with<br />

Lukas Banfi who later became Archbishop <strong>of</strong><br />

Esztergom. After Thomas’ martyrdom, Archbishop<br />

Lukas founded a church and dedicated it to <strong>the</strong><br />

memory <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> martyr.<br />

Messages in children’s stories<br />

By Bishop Paul Hendricks<br />

I was very pleased when I heard that<br />

<strong>the</strong> 1980s children’s TV series Moondial<br />

has just been re-released on<br />

DVD. It features Minty, a teenage<br />

girl whose fa<strong>the</strong>r has recently died.<br />

Staying with her aunt for a few<br />

days, she hears that her mo<strong>the</strong>r has<br />

been badly injured in a car accident<br />

and is now in danger <strong>of</strong> death. Initially<br />

unable to visit her mo<strong>the</strong>r,<br />

Minty can’t bear to be cooped up<br />

with her aunt, so she finds temporary<br />

escape in <strong>the</strong> grounds <strong>of</strong> a<br />

neighbouring stately home, Belton<br />

House.<br />

As she wanders around, she experiences<br />

various sensations that suggest<br />

she may be picking up echoes<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> past, in particular from some<br />

children who are in one way or ano<strong>the</strong>r<br />

trapped and looking for release.<br />

She discovers an ancient sundial,<br />

with <strong>the</strong> figures <strong>of</strong> Chronos (time)<br />

and Eros (love), and unexpectedly<br />

finds herself transported back in<br />

time. She meets Tom, a Victorian<br />

servant-boy who is bullied by <strong>the</strong><br />

o<strong>the</strong>r servants and is evidently suffering<br />

from consumption.<br />

Minty speculates as to whe<strong>the</strong>r<br />

<strong>the</strong> sun-dial might really be a moondial,<br />

with access to a different sort<br />

<strong>of</strong> moon-time that behaves differently<br />

to sun-time.<br />

On ano<strong>the</strong>r occasion she meets a<br />

girl called Sarah from an earlier<br />

century still, whose face is badly<br />

disfigured by a birthmark. Miss<br />

Voles, <strong>the</strong> woman who is supposed<br />

to look after her, keeps her a virtual<br />

prisoner.<br />

She and <strong>the</strong> children <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> area<br />

both fear and bully Sarah, because<br />

<strong>the</strong>y think she has <strong>the</strong> mark <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

devil. <strong>The</strong>y tell her that if she sees<br />

her reflection, <strong>the</strong> mirror will break<br />

and <strong>the</strong> devil will come and get her.<br />

Some days later, a Miss Raven arrives<br />

as a lodger in Minty’s aunt’s<br />

house. Identical in appearance with<br />

Miss Voles, she says she’s a ghosthunter<br />

and Minty senses that in<br />

some obscure way she’s seeking to<br />

“trap” Tom and Sarah, just as Minty<br />

is looking for a way <strong>of</strong> releasing<br />

<strong>the</strong>m.<br />

Meanwhile, Minty’s mo<strong>the</strong>r remains<br />

in a coma, possibly able to<br />

hear what is said, but unable to respond.<br />

Using a cassette recorder,<br />

Minty tells her <strong>the</strong> story <strong>of</strong> her experiences<br />

at Belton, hoping that hearing<br />

her voice will encourage her<br />

mo<strong>the</strong>r to return to consciousness.<br />

She feels obscurely that <strong>the</strong> fate<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> children and <strong>of</strong> her own<br />

mo<strong>the</strong>r are somehow linked, giving<br />

her an additional incentive. I won’t<br />

go into <strong>the</strong> details <strong>of</strong> how this is resolved,<br />

partly because it makes<br />

more sense dramatically than<br />

logically!<br />

It works for me, though, ra<strong>the</strong>r in<br />

<strong>the</strong> same way that a traditional<br />

ghost story does. In a sense it’s better<br />

to leave things suggested ra<strong>the</strong>r<br />

than fully explained. <strong>The</strong> best way I<br />

can put it, is to say that <strong>the</strong> story<br />

feels right psychologically.<br />

Part <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> solution comes when<br />

Tom and Minty finally persuade<br />

Sarah to overcome her fears and to<br />

look into a mirror. She can <strong>the</strong>n realise<br />

that she is nei<strong>the</strong>r cursed nor<br />

ugly, but is in fact beautiful and<br />

quite able to lead a normal life.<br />

In this and in o<strong>the</strong>r ways, <strong>the</strong><br />

story does say something about<br />

different forms <strong>of</strong> imprisonment,<br />

about love and mutual concern, and<br />

about <strong>the</strong> desire to see wrongs put<br />

right.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re is also an idea that has<br />

echoes in o<strong>the</strong>r stories (for instance,<br />

<strong>The</strong> Children <strong>of</strong> Green<br />

Knowe and Tom’s Midnight Garden)<br />

that <strong>the</strong>re can be a link between us<br />

and those who have gone before us,<br />

so that our lives are somehow intertwined.<br />

Perhaps, on a human level,<br />

an echo <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> reality that we call<br />

“<strong>the</strong> communion <strong>of</strong> saints”?<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Archdiocese</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Southwark</strong><br />

Archbishop Peter Smith<br />

020 7928-2495<br />

archbishop@rcsouthwark.co.uk<br />

www.rcsouthwark.co.uk<br />

Area bishops<br />

Episcopal vicar for Kent<br />

Bishop Paul Mason<br />

01732 845486<br />

episcopalvicarkent@gmail.com<br />

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<strong>The</strong> <strong>Pilgrim</strong> <strong>June</strong> <strong>2016</strong><br />

Canterbury<br />

to Rome<br />

pilgrimage<br />

A group <strong>of</strong> 120 parishioners from St<br />

Thomas’ Church in Canterbury<br />

have made a pilgrimage to Rome<br />

Led by Fr Valentine Erhahon, <strong>the</strong><br />

group contained young people currently<br />

preparing for confirmation<br />

and those having been confirmed in<br />

<strong>the</strong> last five years now on <strong>the</strong><br />

young mentors award programme<br />

for confirmation.<br />

Fr Valentine presented Pope<br />

Francis with a painting by Charlotte<br />

Galt and a drawing book <strong>of</strong><br />

letters written by children from<br />

<strong>the</strong> parish.<br />

Jesuits run marathon<br />

Learning about<br />

seafarers<br />

Pupils from St Peter’s Catholic Primary<br />

School in Sittingbourne learnt about how<br />

Apostleship <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Sea (AoS) port<br />

chaplains live out <strong>the</strong> seven corporal<br />

works <strong>of</strong> mercy in <strong>the</strong>ir ministry<br />

supporting seafarers.<br />

AoS London <strong>of</strong>ficer Roland Hayes gave<br />

an assembly at <strong>the</strong> school using AoS’ new<br />

Year <strong>of</strong> Mercy schools resource, produced<br />

with <strong>the</strong> help <strong>of</strong> <strong>The</strong> <strong>Pilgrim</strong> editor Greg<br />

Watts.<br />

<strong>The</strong> resource provides specific examples<br />

<strong>of</strong> how <strong>the</strong> charity’s chaplains live out<br />

<strong>the</strong>ir faith by providing spiritual and practical<br />

support to seafarers in need. One example<br />

is clothing <strong>the</strong> naked.<br />

AoS director <strong>of</strong> development John<br />

Green said, “A number <strong>of</strong> Catholic<br />

parishes around <strong>the</strong> country support our<br />

work by providing seafarers with woolly<br />

hats, socks and o<strong>the</strong>r clothing. <strong>The</strong>se<br />

items might seem unimportant, but if you<br />

are at sea in freezing wea<strong>the</strong>r, <strong>the</strong>y can<br />

really make a difference.”<br />

Next month is Sea Sunday when parishes<br />

are asked to support <strong>the</strong> work <strong>of</strong> AoS.<br />

Ro<strong>the</strong>rhi<strong>the</strong><br />

club burgled<br />

Westgate ashes<br />

to be reburied<br />

News<br />

Thieves stole charity money when <strong>the</strong>y broke<br />

into <strong>the</strong> social club at St Peter and <strong>the</strong> Guardian<br />

Angels Church in Ro<strong>the</strong>rhi<strong>the</strong>.<br />

<strong>The</strong> money had been collected for <strong>the</strong> British<br />

Lung Foundation and a local woman suffering<br />

from cancer.<br />

Chair <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> social club Michael Hannon said,<br />

“<strong>The</strong> charity money was for my daughter’s<br />

fundraising, and we had stored it in <strong>the</strong> cellar<br />

where I thought it was safe.”<br />

Ashes from <strong>the</strong> memorial garden at St Peter’s<br />

church in Westgate are to be reburied in St<br />

Augustine, Ramsgate.<br />

<strong>The</strong> ashes <strong>of</strong> around 60 people were buried in<br />

<strong>the</strong> garden between 1997 until 2010. St Peter’s<br />

church closed in 2014 when it was merged with<br />

nearby Birchington to form Holy Family parish in<br />

Thanet.<br />

Canon David Caine, parish priest <strong>of</strong> Holy<br />

Family, said, “We hope to bury all <strong>the</strong> ashes in St<br />

Augustine’s, but if a family wants to bury <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

ashes somewhere else, that’s fine.”<br />

Young people<br />

meet at ca<strong>the</strong>dral<br />

Over 300 young people and <strong>the</strong>ir parents and<br />

catechists ga<strong>the</strong>red toge<strong>the</strong>r at St George’s<br />

Ca<strong>the</strong>dral to coincide with <strong>the</strong> Jubilee event for<br />

young people in <strong>the</strong> Vatican.<br />

<strong>The</strong> afternoon began in <strong>the</strong> Amigo Hall with<br />

Archbishop Peter who led everyone through <strong>the</strong><br />

Holy Door. He encouraged everyone to live a life<br />

<strong>of</strong> faith and pray daily.<br />

<strong>The</strong> afternoon continued with catechesis,<br />

testimony, prayer, music, and a chance to meet<br />

o<strong>the</strong>r young Catholics. It finished with a renewal<br />

<strong>of</strong> baptismal promises.<br />

A team <strong>of</strong> runners from Jesuit<br />

Missions completed <strong>the</strong> Virgin<br />

London Marathon to raise money<br />

to send medical supplies to Syria.<br />

Novices Jacques St Laurent<br />

and Benjamin Eckmans ran in<br />

Womble costumes. “I missed<br />

not being able to see <strong>the</strong> great<br />

London landscape as I went<br />

around <strong>the</strong> course as I could really<br />

only see my feet and <strong>the</strong><br />

road in front <strong>of</strong> me” said<br />

Jacques. “But in compensation I<br />

got huge cheers and photo calls<br />

from <strong>the</strong> crowd all <strong>the</strong> way<br />

around for <strong>the</strong> costume.”<br />

Fellow novice Chris Brolly was<br />

pleased with his time <strong>of</strong> 3hrs<br />

43mins. “<strong>The</strong> crowd was fantastic.<br />

One chap misread my T-<br />

shirt which read ‘Jesuit<br />

Missions’ and called out ‘Come<br />

on Jesus!,’ which made me<br />

smile!”<br />

Head Boy Marcus Edwards-Laing and Head Girl Akosua Bonsu with Bishop Paul in <strong>the</strong> reception following <strong>the</strong> blessing<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> new chapel at St Thomas More Catholic School, Purley.<br />

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News<br />

We want your news!<br />

Email your stories to<br />

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or telephone<br />

0208 776 92<strong>50</strong>.<br />

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DJ Twin B<br />

inspires<br />

students<br />

Former Christ <strong>the</strong> King Sixth<br />

Form College student Radio<br />

1 DJ Twin B has said that his<br />

success is because <strong>of</strong> his<br />

education.<br />

Speaking to current students<br />

at a London mayoral<br />

election event at Deptford<br />

Town Hall, he said, “I’m<br />

from <strong>the</strong> same circles as<br />

you, and I travelled <strong>the</strong><br />

same journey as you.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> DJ – real name Alec<br />

Boateng – studied A-levels in<br />

computer science, business<br />

studies and maths at <strong>the</strong><br />

college.<br />

“I discovered my passion<br />

for music while I was studying<br />

at Christ <strong>the</strong> King,” he<br />

said. “I used a lot <strong>of</strong> things<br />

that I learnt in business<br />

studies to develop and build<br />

my career in music. It’s all<br />

about using <strong>the</strong> right parts<br />

<strong>of</strong> your education. I went<br />

back to university in later<br />

life.”<br />

Close encounters with outer space<br />

Students at <strong>The</strong> Holy Cross<br />

School in New Malden have enjoyed<br />

an interactive experience<br />

<strong>of</strong> astronomy.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y got to handle a fragment<br />

<strong>of</strong> 4.3 billion year-old<br />

meteorite and a 1.2 billion<br />

year-old piece <strong>of</strong> Mars.<br />

<strong>The</strong> samples were provide by<br />

<strong>the</strong> UK’s Science and Technology<br />

Facilities Council, which<br />

provides science outreach programmes<br />

to inspire young people.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y were collected in <strong>the</strong><br />

1960s and 70s during some <strong>of</strong><br />

NASA’s first manned space<br />

missions to <strong>the</strong> Moon.<br />

Home for<br />

church<br />

mural<br />

needed?<br />

A new home is being sought for a<br />

mural in an Eastbourne church due<br />

for demolition.<br />

<strong>The</strong> mural depicts scenes from<br />

John Bunyan’s <strong>Pilgrim</strong>’s Progress and<br />

measures 30 metres. It is painted by<br />

<strong>the</strong> famous artist Hans Freibusch,<br />

who is well-known for his murals at<br />

St John, Waterloo, St Alban <strong>the</strong> Martyr,<br />

Holborn, and elsewhere.<br />

Anyone interested in rehousing <strong>the</strong><br />

mural should contact Freda Matassa<br />

on freda@matassa-t<strong>of</strong>folo.com<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Pilgrim</strong> <strong>June</strong> <strong>2016</strong><br />

Altar server award<br />

Les Walker, who has served on <strong>the</strong> altar at Our<br />

Lady <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Sacred Heart in Herne Bay for over<br />

30 years has been awarded <strong>the</strong> <strong>Southwark</strong><br />

diocesan Fideliter Servienti (Faithful Servant)<br />

award. <strong>The</strong> award was established by Archbishop<br />

Peter as a means <strong>of</strong> recognising <strong>the</strong> faithful<br />

work done by so many people in <strong>the</strong> diocese.<br />

Housing charity Mass<br />

A celebration Mass for <strong>the</strong> Catholic Housing Aid<br />

Society’s diamond jubilee took place at St<br />

George’s Ca<strong>the</strong>dral.<br />

<strong>The</strong> event was part <strong>of</strong> a programme to mark<br />

<strong>the</strong> 60 years since Maisie Ward and Molly Walsh<br />

founded <strong>the</strong> charity in 1956.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Mass was celebrated by Archbishop Peter<br />

and <strong>the</strong> homily was given by <strong>the</strong> Rt Revd James<br />

Langstaff, Bishop <strong>of</strong> Rochester, and chair <strong>of</strong><br />

Housing Justice.<br />

Mayoral assembly<br />

Students and staff from Notre Dame School in St<br />

George’s Road attended <strong>the</strong> <strong>2016</strong> Mayoral<br />

Assembly at <strong>the</strong> Copperbox Arena with 4,000<br />

o<strong>the</strong>r people from London.<br />

<strong>The</strong> group consisted <strong>of</strong> nine Year 10 girls who<br />

are a part <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> housing committee and 20 Year<br />

7 and 8 girls from <strong>the</strong> gospel choir. <strong>The</strong> Year 7<br />

and 8 girls joined a group <strong>of</strong> two hundred o<strong>the</strong>r<br />

students from around London to perform in <strong>the</strong><br />

choir which provided entertainment for <strong>the</strong><br />

evening.<br />

<strong>The</strong> students heard mayoral candidates Sadiq<br />

Khan and Zac Goldsmith speak about <strong>the</strong>ir plans<br />

for housing, employment and o<strong>the</strong>r key issues in<br />

London.<br />

KPMG visit Camberwell school<br />

Students at Sacred Heart School in Camberwell<br />

were taught <strong>the</strong> secrets <strong>of</strong> giving a good<br />

presentation when accountancy giant KPMG paid<br />

a visit.<br />

<strong>The</strong> students learned about physical, social<br />

and emotional body language when giving an<br />

effective presentation. By <strong>the</strong> end <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

workshop <strong>the</strong>y had identified eye contact, no<br />

fidgeting, and audience interaction as some <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> key features <strong>of</strong> a successful presentation.<br />

A number <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> students stayed behind after<br />

<strong>the</strong> workshop to take <strong>the</strong> opportunity to speak<br />

with <strong>the</strong> KPMG associates. <strong>The</strong>y received advice<br />

on working for a pr<strong>of</strong>essional services company,<br />

work experience and school leaver<br />

opportunities.<br />

Holocaust survivor<br />

tells his story<br />

Students from Richard Challoner School in New Malden listened to a<br />

moving testimony given recently by Holocaust survivor, Zigi Shipper.<br />

Mr Shipper’s testimony was followed by a question and answer<br />

session to enable students to better understand <strong>the</strong> nature <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

Holocaust and to explore its lessons in more depth. Questions<br />

ranged from whe<strong>the</strong>r he thought he wouldn’t ever survive to what<br />

his views were about putting former Nazis on trial.<br />

Chris Doran, history teacher<br />

and director <strong>of</strong> sixth form studies,<br />

said, “Zigi Shipper’s optimistic<br />

and selfless commitment<br />

to young people is an inspiration<br />

to staff and students. It was a<br />

privilege for us to welcome Zigi<br />

to our school and his testimony<br />

will remain a powerful reminder<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> horrors so many<br />

experienced.”


<strong>The</strong> <strong>Pilgrim</strong> <strong>June</strong> <strong>2016</strong><br />

Feature<br />

<strong>The</strong> tenth in a series by Fr David Gibbons, director <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> diocesan Centre for Catholic Formation, in which<br />

he looks at liturgies o<strong>the</strong>r than Mass which we sometimes attend, such as baptisms, weddings and funerals.<br />

Some misconceptions about marriage<br />

Getting Married is too expensive.<br />

According to recent press reports<br />

<strong>the</strong> average cost <strong>of</strong> a wedding is<br />

£24,000. However, nearly all <strong>of</strong> this<br />

expenditure is for <strong>the</strong> wedding reception<br />

and <strong>the</strong> costs are inflated<br />

by couples wanting to keep up with<br />

<strong>the</strong> Joneses as we say.<br />

But <strong>the</strong>re is no need to spend so<br />

much money on <strong>the</strong>se extras, and<br />

<strong>the</strong> marriage ceremony itself in<br />

church will only cost hundreds, not<br />

thousands, <strong>of</strong> pounds. It is <strong>the</strong> ceremony<br />

<strong>of</strong> Matrimony in church itself<br />

which is <strong>the</strong> important thing, not<br />

<strong>the</strong> reception. Have <strong>the</strong> courage not<br />

to want to outdo your friends; instead<br />

have a simple, low key and<br />

low cost reception in <strong>the</strong> church hall<br />

afterwards.<br />

Fa<strong>the</strong>r, will you bless our<br />

marriage? Couples <strong>of</strong>ten ask priests<br />

this question, but it doesn’t really<br />

mean anything in a Catholic context.<br />

If you are engaged to be married,<br />

ask <strong>the</strong> priest to make an<br />

appointment to begin preparing you<br />

to get married.<br />

If you have been civilly married in<br />

a register <strong>of</strong>fice without a dispensation<br />

from <strong>the</strong> bishop to marry outside<br />

<strong>the</strong> Church, ask <strong>the</strong> priest to<br />

convalidate your marriage by coming<br />

to church for a wedding ceremony<br />

(<strong>the</strong> preparation procedure is<br />

<strong>the</strong> same as if you are not married).<br />

If you have had a “traditional” or<br />

tribal marriage, make an appointment<br />

with <strong>the</strong> priest to see what is<br />

needed for <strong>the</strong> Church to recognise<br />

it. If you have been married for, say,<br />

25 years or <strong>50</strong> years and want to<br />

mark <strong>the</strong> event, ask <strong>the</strong> priest for a<br />

blessing on your anniversary; <strong>the</strong>re<br />

is a special Rite for this in <strong>the</strong> new<br />

Order <strong>of</strong> Celebrating Matrimony.<br />

A Catholic can’t marry a non-<br />

Catholic or a non-baptised person.<br />

This is not true. <strong>The</strong>re are special<br />

rules and regulations which have to<br />

be followed, issued by <strong>the</strong> Bishops<br />

<strong>of</strong> England and Wales. For example,<br />

<strong>the</strong>re cannot be a nuptial Mass if<br />

one party is not baptised.<br />

A Catholic needs permission from<br />

<strong>the</strong> bishop to marry a non-Catholic.<br />

But if a Catholic wishes to marry a<br />

non-Catholic, or get married in, for<br />

instance, a Church <strong>of</strong> England<br />

church, this can be done as long as<br />

you go and see your parish priest.<br />

Let him sort out <strong>the</strong> complications.<br />

It is, also, very important that <strong>the</strong><br />

couple discuss thoroughly <strong>the</strong> difficulties<br />

that may ensue from having<br />

different beliefs and are clear about<br />

bringing up children. <strong>The</strong> diocesan<br />

Marriage and Family Life team organise<br />

special pre-nuptial sessions<br />

for inter-faith couples to assist with<br />

this.<br />

A non-Catholic must become a<br />

Catholic first. Again, not true. If<br />

<strong>the</strong> non-Catholic wishes to become<br />

a Catholic, fine. He/she can enrol<br />

on <strong>the</strong> parish RCIA programme. But<br />

as we have just seen it is possible to<br />

marry a non-Catholic as long as <strong>the</strong><br />

Church’s requirements are<br />

observed. <strong>The</strong> non-Catholic party<br />

should not be compelled to be<br />

baptised or received into full<br />

communion if he or she doesn’t<br />

want to do this.<br />

Marriage is too difficult, impossible<br />

even. <strong>The</strong> vows <strong>of</strong> Christian matrimony<br />

are indeed demanding: “for<br />

better, for worse, for richer, for<br />

poorer, in sickness and in health, to<br />

love and to cherish till death do us<br />

part”. But if you get married in<br />

church according to <strong>the</strong> sacrament<br />

<strong>of</strong> matrimony – as opposed to<br />

merely going to <strong>the</strong> register <strong>of</strong>fice –<br />

<strong>the</strong>n Christ is also present, giving<br />

you His grace, his strength to enable<br />

you in your future life to live up to<br />

those promises.<br />

Through <strong>the</strong> sacrament Christ will<br />

help you “to forgive one ano<strong>the</strong>r, to<br />

bear one ano<strong>the</strong>r’s burdens, … and<br />

to love one ano<strong>the</strong>r with supernatural,<br />

tender and fruitful love.”<br />

“Here let me say a word to fiancés. Have <strong>the</strong> courage to be<br />

differ ent. Don’t let yourselves get swallowed up by a society<br />

<strong>of</strong> consumption and empty appearances. What is important is<br />

<strong>the</strong> love you share, strength ened and sanctified by grace.<br />

You are capable <strong>of</strong> opting for a more modest and simple<br />

celebration in which love takes precedence over everything<br />

else”. - Pope Francis Amoris Laetitia.<br />

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Feature<br />

Making a pilgrimage in <strong>Southwark</strong><br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Pilgrim</strong> <strong>June</strong> <strong>2016</strong><br />

To mark <strong>the</strong> <strong>50</strong>th edition <strong>of</strong> <strong>The</strong> <strong>Pilgrim</strong>, Fr Marcus Holden, rector <strong>of</strong> St<br />

Augustine’s, Ramsgate, explores pilgrimages in <strong>the</strong> <strong>Archdiocese</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Southwark</strong><br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Southwark</strong> <strong>Archdiocese</strong> should<br />

be one <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> great centres <strong>of</strong><br />

European pilgrimage. South London<br />

and Kent has had this status before<br />

and <strong>the</strong>re is no reason why it can’t<br />

be so again. We’ve inherited a<br />

tradition <strong>of</strong> saints and shrines that<br />

goes back to <strong>the</strong> inception <strong>of</strong><br />

Christianity for <strong>the</strong> English.<br />

I’ve just completed <strong>the</strong><br />

production <strong>of</strong> a new documentary<br />

called To Be a <strong>Pilgrim</strong>. It’s all about<br />

<strong>the</strong> Canterbury Way running from<br />

London to <strong>the</strong> shrine <strong>of</strong> St Thomas<br />

Becket in Kent. One <strong>of</strong> things I<br />

realsed was that along <strong>the</strong> lanes,<br />

paths and roads <strong>of</strong> our diocese,<br />

sometimes hidden or obscured,<br />

<strong>the</strong>re remains <strong>the</strong> footprint <strong>of</strong> one<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> greatest pilgrimage routes <strong>of</strong><br />

all time.<br />

<strong>Pilgrim</strong>age is never just about <strong>the</strong><br />

destination but also about <strong>the</strong><br />

journey and along <strong>the</strong> Chaucer route<br />

from <strong>Southwark</strong> to Canterbury you<br />

also can find many places <strong>of</strong><br />

significance, <strong>of</strong> sacred traditions<br />

and inspiration.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re are <strong>the</strong> shrines <strong>of</strong> St Alfege<br />

at Greenwich, <strong>the</strong> holy places at<br />

Rochester <strong>of</strong> St William <strong>of</strong> Perth, St<br />

Paulinus and St John Fisher. You can<br />

continue on to Faversham which<br />

honours Ss Crispin and Crispinianus<br />

and nowadays <strong>the</strong> shrine <strong>of</strong> St Jude<br />

<strong>the</strong> Apostle <strong>of</strong> hopeless causes.<br />

If you drop down to <strong>the</strong> parallel<br />

Winchester route through Kent you<br />

stumble across <strong>the</strong> holy well <strong>of</strong> St<br />

Edith at Kemsing, <strong>the</strong> living shrine<br />

<strong>of</strong> Our Lady <strong>of</strong> Mount Carmel and St<br />

Simon Stock at Aylesford and many<br />

more places besides.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re has been a particular<br />

revival in interest in walking<br />

pilgrimages, probably inspired by<br />

<strong>the</strong> Camino Santiago de Compostela<br />

in Spain to <strong>the</strong> shrine <strong>of</strong> St James<br />

<strong>the</strong> Apostle.<br />

Yet surprisingly per mile <strong>the</strong>re are<br />

more places to see and more stories<br />

to tell along <strong>the</strong> Way <strong>of</strong> Thomas<br />

Becket than on <strong>the</strong> Way <strong>of</strong> St James.<br />

Many are working to revive <strong>the</strong><br />

walking pilgrimage and we’ve been<br />

collaborating ecumenically with<br />

Canterbury Anglican diocese and <strong>the</strong><br />

green pilgrimage network to<br />

develop <strong>the</strong> route.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Way <strong>of</strong> St Augustine<br />

Last year we inaugurated <strong>the</strong> Way <strong>of</strong><br />

Augustine which is a one-day<br />

walking route between Canterbury<br />

and St Augustine’s Shrine in<br />

Ramsgate. It is now sign posted for<br />

walkers and is 17 miles long. It can<br />

be trekked in a day but some choose<br />

to take two days, staying overnight<br />

in one <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> route’s many medieval<br />

inns or daring to undertake what is<br />

now called ‘champing’ from ‘church<br />

camping’ (sleeping in disused<br />

medieval churches)!<br />

You can ei<strong>the</strong>r begin at Ramsgate<br />

and follow <strong>the</strong> route that St<br />

Augustine and his first missionary<br />

monks took to Canterbury in 597AD<br />

or you can begin in Canterbury at St<br />

Augustine’s chair and first shrine<br />

and end at <strong>the</strong> coast with devotions<br />

at his new shrine on <strong>the</strong> Thanet<br />

coast (this latter way is reminiscent<br />

<strong>of</strong> pilgrims who make one final day’s<br />

journey to Finnister or Muxia to visit<br />

<strong>the</strong> landing place <strong>of</strong> St James after<br />

arriving at Santiago).<br />

Along <strong>the</strong> way <strong>of</strong> St Augustine you<br />

can visit various important places<br />

including St Martin’s church known<br />

to St Augustine, Minster Abbey and<br />

<strong>the</strong> shrine <strong>of</strong> St Mildred and St<br />

Augustine’s cross which marks <strong>the</strong><br />

place <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> saint’s encounter with<br />

King E<strong>the</strong>lbert <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Saxons.<br />

<strong>Pilgrim</strong>s have a passport and can<br />

receive stamps at various points and<br />

it is even possible to complete part<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> route between Fordwich and<br />

Grove Ferry by hired canoe or boat.<br />

<strong>Pilgrim</strong>ages were like religious<br />

holidays in medieval times, <strong>the</strong>y<br />

were penitential and devotional but<br />

<strong>the</strong>y were also adventures and filled<br />

with fun, food and<br />

discovery. Many today<br />

are finding <strong>the</strong> spiritual<br />

and human benefits <strong>of</strong><br />

making pilgrimage and it<br />

is hoped that over <strong>the</strong><br />

next few years from our<br />

Catholic shrines in <strong>the</strong><br />

archdiocese we can<br />

revive awareness <strong>of</strong> our<br />

great heritage and<br />

increase participation.<br />

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<strong>The</strong> <strong>Pilgrim</strong> <strong>June</strong> <strong>2016</strong><br />

Feature<br />

<strong>The</strong> holy door where<br />

Christianity entered England<br />

Thanks to Archbishop Peter and<br />

Pope Francis, pilgrimage in<br />

Ramsgate has received a boost<br />

from <strong>the</strong> opening <strong>of</strong> a Holy Door<br />

for <strong>the</strong> Jubilee year <strong>of</strong> mercy.<br />

Hundreds <strong>of</strong> people attended<br />

<strong>the</strong> opening <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> door on 24th<br />

January. People came from<br />

across Thanet, and from much<br />

fur<strong>the</strong>r afield. Numbers were<br />

swelled by retreatants at <strong>the</strong><br />

Divine Retreat Centre, based in<br />

<strong>the</strong> former monastery across <strong>the</strong><br />

road, and everyone was able to<br />

join <strong>the</strong> procession through <strong>the</strong><br />

Door.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Door overlooks <strong>the</strong> English<br />

Channel and <strong>the</strong> churchyard. With<br />

an emphasis on <strong>the</strong> works <strong>of</strong><br />

mercy, pilgrims are especially<br />

reminded to pray for <strong>the</strong> dead as<br />

<strong>the</strong>y come from <strong>the</strong> churchyard<br />

into <strong>the</strong> shrine-church.<br />

<strong>The</strong> solemn opening was<br />

performed by Abbot Cuthbert<br />

Brogan OSB, <strong>of</strong> Farnborough<br />

Abbey, who also presided at<br />

vespers sung by <strong>the</strong> nuns <strong>of</strong><br />

Minster Abbey with our community<br />

chant choir <strong>the</strong> Schola Augustini.<br />

<strong>The</strong> service began with prayers<br />

read by Abbot Cuthbert, followed<br />

by a reading from <strong>the</strong> Gospel <strong>of</strong><br />

Luke, and an excerpt from <strong>the</strong><br />

papal bull Misericordiae Vultus<br />

written by Pope Francis.<br />

Everyone sang hymns as <strong>the</strong>y<br />

processed out <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> church by<br />

<strong>the</strong> main door, along <strong>the</strong> street,<br />

and round into <strong>the</strong> churchyard.<br />

Once <strong>the</strong>re, Abbot Cuthbert struck<br />

<strong>the</strong> Door three times with his<br />

crozier, and opened <strong>the</strong> door.<br />

Everyone re-entered <strong>the</strong> church<br />

through <strong>the</strong> Door.<br />

Holy Doors are great places <strong>of</strong><br />

pilgrimage, and have indulgences<br />

attached to <strong>the</strong>m. <strong>The</strong>y emulate<br />

<strong>the</strong> Holy Door at St Peter’s in<br />

Rome, which was opened by Pope<br />

Francis in December. <strong>The</strong> Holy<br />

Door provides a focus and tangible<br />

way <strong>of</strong> engaging with <strong>the</strong> Year <strong>of</strong><br />

Mercy.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y are symbolic on many<br />

levels. Going through <strong>the</strong> door<br />

symbolises our resolve to reform<br />

our lives and align <strong>the</strong>m towards<br />

God. Jesus described himself as<br />

‘<strong>the</strong> door’, meaning that it is<br />

through him that we attain<br />

eternal life.<br />

When <strong>the</strong> door was opened it<br />

was struck, which symbolises<br />

Moses striking <strong>the</strong> rock to bring<br />

out water to drink, just as <strong>the</strong><br />

door is a way <strong>of</strong> enabling God’s<br />

mercy to wash over you. <strong>The</strong><br />

opening <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> door symbolises us<br />

removing obstacles in <strong>the</strong> way<br />

between us and God.<br />

Since January many thousands<br />

<strong>of</strong> pilgrims have been able to pass<br />

through <strong>the</strong> Ramsgate shrine door<br />

and have been inspired to receive<br />

and carry out <strong>the</strong> message <strong>of</strong><br />

God’s mercy. <strong>The</strong> Holy Door will<br />

be open until 20th November<br />

<strong>2016</strong>, when <strong>the</strong> Year <strong>of</strong> Mercy will<br />

close.<br />

THE SOUTHWARK<br />

SEMINARY FUND<br />

48 Dale Road, Purley, CR8 2EF<br />

Tel: (020) 8660 3815<br />

Please help train our future priests by<br />

contributing to <strong>the</strong> cost <strong>of</strong> educating<br />

our students at St John’s Seminary<br />

Wonersh. <strong>The</strong> Diocese have 21<br />

students in training at a cost <strong>of</strong><br />

£20,000 per student each year. <strong>The</strong><br />

<strong>Southwark</strong> Seminary Fund augments<br />

<strong>the</strong> annual Ecclesiastical Education Collection. Please send<br />

your donation/legacy ei<strong>the</strong>r through your parish priest or<br />

directly to Canon James Pannett at Purley.<br />

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Education<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Pilgrim</strong> <strong>June</strong> <strong>2016</strong><br />

Giving young people a voice<br />

Jessica Gjeloshi<br />

explains <strong>the</strong> role <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> Youth Executive<br />

Board in <strong>the</strong> diocese<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>Southwark</strong><br />

During this year, we are called as<br />

Catholics to celebrate <strong>the</strong> Jubilee<br />

Year <strong>of</strong> Mercy. Pope Francis in his<br />

message to us all has said that this<br />

time is “meant for everyone: people<br />

<strong>of</strong> every age, from far and near”.<br />

It is important to remember that<br />

faith is for people <strong>of</strong> all demographics.<br />

Although our faith may stem<br />

back two thousand years it should<br />

still resonate with <strong>the</strong> youth in <strong>the</strong><br />

Catholic community and allow <strong>the</strong>m<br />

all to connect with it on a personal<br />

level.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Youth Executive Board (YEB)<br />

is a group which aims to act as a<br />

voice for <strong>the</strong> young people within<br />

Catholic education across <strong>the</strong> <strong>Southwark</strong><br />

diocese, allowing <strong>the</strong>m to play<br />

an active role in <strong>the</strong> work <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

Church within <strong>the</strong>ir own community.<br />

Its formation was requested by<br />

Archbishop Peter himself and it<br />

works throughout <strong>the</strong> year alongside<br />

<strong>the</strong> Diocesan Education Committee<br />

and <strong>the</strong> Education Commission to<br />

make Catholic education as valuable<br />

as possible.<br />

<strong>The</strong> students who represent <strong>the</strong><br />

board come from various schools<br />

across <strong>the</strong> diocese. <strong>The</strong> group meet<br />

three times a year to discuss <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

personal experiences being educated<br />

in a Catholic school and what<br />

<strong>the</strong>y feel <strong>the</strong>y have gained from it.<br />

Jacinta, a member <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> board,<br />

described <strong>the</strong> YEB’s meetings as “a<br />

chance to constructively critique issues<br />

concerning education in our<br />

diocese”, which <strong>the</strong>n enables <strong>the</strong><br />

group to think <strong>of</strong> a plan <strong>of</strong> action to<br />

tackle any concerns raised.<br />

Edward, also a member <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

YEB, said he felt that as part <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

board he is able to make decisions<br />

that can help thousands <strong>of</strong> students'<br />

education.<br />

Edward’s comment sums up <strong>the</strong><br />

primary goal <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> YEB which is to<br />

enable students <strong>the</strong>mselves to make<br />

relevant changes to <strong>the</strong>ir own<br />

schooling and to <strong>the</strong> schooling <strong>of</strong><br />

o<strong>the</strong>rs, giving young Catholic people<br />

<strong>the</strong> power to make a change to <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

own community.<br />

A topic discussed in YEB’S last<br />

meeting was how students felt <strong>the</strong>y<br />

had benefited from <strong>the</strong>ir sex education<br />

lessons and what <strong>the</strong>y felt<br />

could be improved to make<br />

<strong>The</strong> members <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> group spoke<br />

about how <strong>the</strong>y felt <strong>the</strong>re were a<br />

great deal <strong>of</strong> improvements that<br />

could be made to <strong>the</strong> way <strong>the</strong> subject<br />

tackled and <strong>the</strong> information, or<br />

lack <strong>of</strong>, that was being put across to<br />

students.<br />

O<strong>the</strong>r things discussed were <strong>the</strong><br />

way in which religious education<br />

lessons are structured once students<br />

reach sixth form and what <strong>the</strong>y<br />

hope to achieve in <strong>the</strong>m through <strong>the</strong><br />

qualifications that can be gained at<br />

<strong>the</strong> end <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir time in school.<br />

Ano<strong>the</strong>r topic discussed was <strong>the</strong><br />

question <strong>of</strong> how schools in <strong>the</strong> diocese<br />

could come toge<strong>the</strong>r through<br />

<strong>the</strong> celebration <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir patron<br />

saints’ feasts days to build a<br />

stronger sense <strong>of</strong> community.<br />

By making <strong>the</strong>se decisions, members<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> YEB are able to develop<br />

a range <strong>of</strong> interpersonal skills which<br />

can take <strong>the</strong>m throughout life. <strong>The</strong>y<br />

gain skills which will enable <strong>the</strong>m to<br />

work alongside o<strong>the</strong>rs as a team towards<br />

a common goal and within <strong>the</strong><br />

group build on <strong>the</strong>ir leadership skills<br />

by taking on roles such as chair, vice<br />

chair and secretary.<br />

<strong>The</strong> vice chair <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> board,<br />

Pamela, said that she feels its “up<br />

to us all to do what we can to make<br />

a change.” Through <strong>the</strong>se changes<br />

to Catholic education we can make<br />

students’ time in Catholic schools<br />

more rewarding and enable <strong>the</strong>m to<br />

feel closer to <strong>the</strong>ir faith by being<br />

active in <strong>the</strong> work <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Church.<br />

Mass matters more than rugby<br />

By Lucy Russell<br />

Last month I noted a remark from<br />

Edgar’s rugby coach: “What are you<br />

doing to that kid?” It was a comment<br />

made when his dad explained<br />

he wouldn’t be able to make away<br />

games this season, because <strong>of</strong> his<br />

first Holy Communion preparation.<br />

Edgar made his first Holy Communion<br />

on <strong>the</strong> Feast <strong>of</strong> Corpus<br />

Christi, along with 11 o<strong>the</strong>r children,<br />

during a beautiful Mass at St<br />

Thomas’ in Deal.<br />

I love <strong>the</strong> liturgy. A school friend<br />

once likened going to Mass with<br />

taking an indigestion remedy:” It’s<br />

like taking antacid for <strong>the</strong> mind and<br />

soul. I go in feeling stressed out,<br />

and emerge calm.” Mass is <strong>the</strong> most<br />

pr<strong>of</strong>ound encounter we can have on<br />

earth with Jesus.<br />

<strong>The</strong> word “liturgy” originally<br />

meant a “public work” or a “service<br />

in <strong>the</strong> name <strong>of</strong> or on behalf <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> people.” In <strong>the</strong> Christian tradition<br />

it means <strong>the</strong> participation <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> People <strong>of</strong> God in <strong>the</strong> work <strong>of</strong><br />

God. It says in Psalm 119:164 that<br />

<strong>the</strong> people <strong>of</strong> Israel interrupted<br />

<strong>the</strong>ir work “seven times a day” to<br />

praise God.<br />

Jesus, who was Jewish, took part<br />

in <strong>the</strong> liturgy and prayers <strong>of</strong> his<br />

people. He taught his disciples to<br />

pray, and ga<strong>the</strong>red <strong>the</strong>m in <strong>the</strong><br />

upper room to celebrate <strong>the</strong> liturgy<br />

<strong>of</strong> all liturgies: <strong>the</strong> gift <strong>of</strong> himself in<br />

<strong>the</strong> last supper, when he said, “Do<br />

this in memory <strong>of</strong> me”.<br />

<strong>The</strong> liturgy is a remembrance <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> Last Supper. Jesus continues his<br />

work in, with, and through his<br />

Church today through <strong>the</strong> liturgy.<br />

In <strong>the</strong> New Testament <strong>the</strong> word<br />

liturgy refers not only to <strong>the</strong> celebration<br />

<strong>of</strong> divine worship, but also<br />

to <strong>the</strong> proclamation <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Gospel<br />

and to active charity.<br />

Going to Mass does many things<br />

for me. It gives me time to sit quietly,<br />

reflect and pray. It’s a rendezvous<br />

with Jesus that reminds me<br />

that God loves me. It inspires me to<br />

go out afterwards and keep trying.<br />

<strong>The</strong> fact that <strong>the</strong> format <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

Mass remains <strong>the</strong> same, with <strong>the</strong><br />

same prayers, can also be <strong>of</strong> great<br />

comfort at difficult times. I have<br />

always found Catholic funeral<br />

Masses easier to bear, because I can<br />

hold on to <strong>the</strong> structure <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

liturgy: <strong>the</strong> format and prayers. I<br />

know what is coming next, and so I<br />

don’t feel as though I am in free<br />

fall.<br />

<strong>The</strong> first Communion Mass at St<br />

Thomas’ was followed by a party for<br />

<strong>the</strong> whole parish community. <strong>The</strong><br />

word religion actually comes from<br />

<strong>the</strong> Latin word “religare”, which<br />

means to bind or connect. What <strong>the</strong><br />

Church <strong>of</strong>fers is a bond with o<strong>the</strong>r<br />

individuals, which helps to connect<br />

us all to <strong>the</strong> wider universe.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re are times when we all<br />

need a bit <strong>of</strong> toge<strong>the</strong>rness. Toge<strong>the</strong>r<br />

we can make a difference,<br />

toge<strong>the</strong>r we are stronger. <strong>The</strong>re is<br />

a strong sense <strong>of</strong> community at St<br />

Thomas’. After <strong>the</strong> Sunday Masses,<br />

everyone comes toge<strong>the</strong>r for refreshments,<br />

older and young.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re aren’t many o<strong>the</strong>r places<br />

where that happens.<br />

I enjoy watching Edgar play<br />

rugby. But being present for<br />

Edgar’s first Holy Communion was a<br />

different, and far more moving experience.<br />

St <strong>The</strong>resa <strong>of</strong> Avila said:<br />

“Let nothing disturb you, let nothing<br />

frighten you, all things pass<br />

away: God never changes.”<br />

So in answer to Edgar’s rugby<br />

coach, what I hope we are giving to<br />

Edgar (and James) is faith and spirituality,<br />

and <strong>the</strong> knowledge that<br />

rugby, and everything else, will<br />

pass away. But God will always be<br />

<strong>the</strong>re.<br />

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<strong>The</strong> <strong>Pilgrim</strong> <strong>June</strong> <strong>2016</strong><br />

Europe and <strong>the</strong> common good<br />

Fr Ashley Beck, assistant priest at St Edmund <strong>of</strong><br />

Canterbury, Beckenham, and lecturer in pastoral ministry<br />

at St Mary’s University, Twickenham, continues his series<br />

exploring modern papal encyclicals<br />

On <strong>the</strong> feast <strong>of</strong> Pentecost, we<br />

celebrate <strong>the</strong> coming <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Holy<br />

Spirit on <strong>the</strong> disciples and, like<br />

<strong>the</strong> whole <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> season <strong>of</strong> Eastertide,<br />

this leads us to reflect<br />

about, and to celebrate, <strong>the</strong> nature<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Catholic Church.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Holy Spirit dwells within<br />

<strong>the</strong> Church as a guarantee <strong>of</strong><br />

truth, <strong>of</strong> freedom from error.<br />

That is what we mean when we<br />

say that <strong>the</strong> Church is infallible in<br />

its teaching ministry. Much <strong>of</strong> this<br />

ministry is articulated in <strong>the</strong> ministry<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Vicar <strong>of</strong> Christ, which<br />

is why we talk <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> pope being<br />

infallible.<br />

So Pentecost and <strong>the</strong> weeks<br />

following are a good time to<br />

think about <strong>the</strong> subject <strong>of</strong> my<br />

monthly articles this year, encyclical<br />

letters from <strong>the</strong> popes <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> last century.<br />

Pope St John XXIII, as many <strong>of</strong><br />

you will still remember, was only<br />

pope for five years, having been<br />

elected at a great age, and many<br />

saw him as a stop-gap or a “caretaker”<br />

pope: but in those years<br />

he achieved a tremendous<br />

amount, above all by calling <strong>the</strong><br />

Second Vatican Council, which<br />

opened only a few months before<br />

he died <strong>of</strong> cancer in <strong>June</strong> 1963.<br />

But two <strong>of</strong> his encyclical letters<br />

are also very important and we<br />

will look at <strong>the</strong> first this month,<br />

Mater et Magistra, issued in <strong>the</strong><br />

summer <strong>of</strong> 1961. <strong>The</strong> letter’s<br />

opening words are a good Pentecost<br />

statement: “Mo<strong>the</strong>r and<br />

teacher <strong>of</strong> all nations - such is<br />

<strong>the</strong> Catholic Church in <strong>the</strong> mind<br />

<strong>of</strong> her founder, Jesus Christ.”<br />

For us it might not seem a very<br />

striking description but it actually<br />

sets a tone in addressing <strong>the</strong><br />

“nations” which strikes <strong>the</strong><br />

reader as somewhat warmer and<br />

more ‘mo<strong>the</strong>rly’ than had been<br />

true in <strong>the</strong> recent past (<strong>the</strong> pope<br />

actually got <strong>the</strong> phrase “Mo<strong>the</strong>r<br />

and Teacher” from Innocent III in<br />

<strong>the</strong> Middle Ages).<br />

<strong>The</strong> letter celebrates <strong>the</strong> 70th<br />

Pope John XXIII meeting President<br />

Dwight D. Eisenhower in 1959<br />

anniversary <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> letter <strong>of</strong> Leo<br />

XIII, which we looked at in March,<br />

Rerum Novarum, seen as <strong>the</strong> beginning<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> modern tradition<br />

<strong>of</strong> Catholic Social teaching, and<br />

<strong>the</strong> pope addresses social issues<br />

in <strong>the</strong> light <strong>of</strong> Catholic moral<br />

teaching.<br />

As with all papal encyclicals,<br />

<strong>the</strong>re is a lot <strong>of</strong> emphasis on continuity.<br />

That is why <strong>the</strong> anniversaries<br />

<strong>of</strong> Rerum Novarum are<br />

seen as important. But at <strong>the</strong><br />

same time <strong>the</strong> tradition grows<br />

and develops as <strong>the</strong> Church responds<br />

to changes in <strong>the</strong> world,<br />

to history.<br />

<strong>The</strong> change in tone is crucial,<br />

reflecting Pope John’s overall approach<br />

<strong>of</strong> warmth and a desire<br />

for reconciliation, but <strong>the</strong>re are<br />

two big ways in which <strong>the</strong> letter<br />

shows a shift, a movement, in<br />

Catholic teaching.<br />

<strong>The</strong> letter is significant in<br />

many ways in <strong>the</strong> ra<strong>the</strong>r complicated<br />

world <strong>of</strong> Italian politics in<br />

<strong>the</strong> late 19<strong>50</strong>s and early 1960s<br />

which is too big a subject to be<br />

looked at here. But one thing <strong>the</strong><br />

pope does is to endorse moves<br />

towards what we call <strong>the</strong> “welfare<br />

state.”<br />

He welcomes what he calls “an<br />

increase in social relationships”<br />

and “a development in man’s social<br />

life”. Drawing on <strong>the</strong> writings<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Jesuit anthropologist and<br />

<strong>the</strong>ologian Pierre Teilhard de<br />

Chardin, <strong>the</strong> pope welcomes a<br />

sense <strong>of</strong> interdependence in <strong>the</strong><br />

human family. This means that<br />

when <strong>the</strong> state intervenes to help<br />

people it is a good thing “even in<br />

matter <strong>of</strong> such intimate concern<br />

to <strong>the</strong> individual as health and<br />

education, <strong>the</strong> choice <strong>of</strong> a career,<br />

and <strong>the</strong> care and rehabilitation <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> physically and mentally<br />

handicapped.”<br />

In <strong>the</strong> years immediately after<br />

<strong>the</strong> Second World War <strong>the</strong> Church<br />

in some places had seen welfare<br />

state policies as a sign <strong>of</strong> centralised<br />

state control and an undermining<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> place <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

family (partly because <strong>of</strong> what<br />

had happened in Communist and<br />

Fascist countries).<br />

For most Catholics 15 years on<br />

this was less <strong>of</strong> a threat. <strong>The</strong><br />

pope’s endorsement is important<br />

all <strong>the</strong>se years later at a time<br />

when many <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> services associated<br />

with <strong>the</strong> welfare state are<br />

no longer provided in <strong>the</strong> same<br />

way, if at all, a change generally<br />

criticised by Catholic bishops and<br />

charities.<br />

<strong>The</strong> second important development<br />

- and very topical in this<br />

month - is over international relations.<br />

Pius XII after <strong>the</strong> war had<br />

reminded Catholics that <strong>the</strong> sovereignty<br />

<strong>of</strong> nation states cannot<br />

be absolute. It is only relative<br />

and <strong>the</strong>re needs to be international<br />

bodies to stifle national<br />

aggression.<br />

Pope John takes this fur<strong>the</strong>r,<br />

specifically endorsing intergovernmental<br />

organisations: “<strong>The</strong><br />

demands <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> common good on<br />

<strong>the</strong> international level include:<br />

<strong>the</strong> avoidance <strong>of</strong> all forms <strong>of</strong> unfair<br />

competition between <strong>the</strong><br />

economies <strong>of</strong> different countries;<br />

<strong>the</strong> fostering <strong>of</strong> mutual collaboration<br />

and good will; and effective<br />

co-operation in <strong>the</strong> development<br />

<strong>of</strong> economically less advanced<br />

communities.”<br />

Mater et Magistra was written<br />

three years after <strong>the</strong> signing <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> Treaty <strong>of</strong> Rome, which set up<br />

<strong>the</strong> Common Market, <strong>the</strong> EEC.<br />

Italy had been a founder member<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> common European institutions<br />

set up from 19<strong>50</strong>, and Pope<br />

John’s words are an endorsement<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> ideals and aims <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> EEC,<br />

which has grown into <strong>the</strong> European<br />

Union.<br />

Of course Britain was not a<br />

member <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> EEC in 1961. But<br />

it is hard to square <strong>the</strong> pope’s vision<br />

with <strong>the</strong> outlook <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

“Leave” campaign in <strong>the</strong> current<br />

EU Referendum debate in this<br />

country. His vision should help to<br />

guide as we pray about how to<br />

vote.<br />

By Fr Daniel O’Leary<br />

Into every life, <strong>the</strong> wise ones say,<br />

comes one shining moment. It is a<br />

moment <strong>of</strong> glory. <strong>The</strong> curtains part,<br />

<strong>the</strong> vision is granted, and something<br />

is changed forever.<br />

That single experience, in one<br />

way or ano<strong>the</strong>r, stays with us always<br />

and colours <strong>the</strong> whole <strong>of</strong> our lives. It<br />

is <strong>the</strong> timeless time when <strong>the</strong> veil is<br />

drawn from <strong>the</strong> mystery <strong>of</strong> our existence,<br />

when our essence is disclosed<br />

to us, when we discover – even if<br />

only fleetingly – who we really are.<br />

It is a highly personal moment <strong>of</strong><br />

truth.<br />

Your one bright and shining moment<br />

may have to do with naming<br />

what or who you really love; with<br />

revealing to you <strong>the</strong> job or relationship<br />

that is slowly destroying you; or<br />

with becoming aware that all your<br />

decisions and reactions spring from<br />

a deeply hidden anxiety, anger or<br />

fear.<br />

Or it might be that you need no<br />

longer be afraid because you are<br />

loved unconditionally by a God who<br />

delights in you; that, without a<br />

doubt, <strong>the</strong> universe and life itself<br />

are safe places for yourself, your<br />

children and all you love; that<br />

everything that has ever happened<br />

to you is not happen-chance but<br />

part <strong>of</strong> a carefully crafted love<br />

story.<br />

Feature/Column<br />

Have you experienced<br />

a shining moment?<br />

In <strong>the</strong> popular film<br />

‘It’s a Wonderful<br />

Life’, George Bailey<br />

experiences a<br />

shining moment<br />

<strong>The</strong> Leaven<br />

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CALLING ALL<br />

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Seeking to dedicate<br />

<strong>the</strong>ir life to God<br />

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It might be that your shining moment<br />

happens when God comes to<br />

you usually disguised as your life, in<br />

all its bits and pieces; that apart<br />

from one or two cherished beliefs,<br />

nothing matters very much. You realise<br />

that it is in our weakness and<br />

sinfulness that we are strongest <strong>of</strong><br />

all and that we are indestructible<br />

and untouchable as long as we remain<br />

close to God.<br />

<strong>The</strong> human life <strong>of</strong> Jesus in time<br />

and space was one <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> brightest<br />

shining moments in <strong>the</strong> history <strong>of</strong><br />

creation. In <strong>the</strong> fullness and totality<br />

<strong>of</strong> his very own humanity lies <strong>the</strong> secret<br />

passage to <strong>the</strong> heart <strong>of</strong> God.<br />

And, <strong>the</strong>refore, likewise with us.<br />

It is during our most desperate, ecstatic,<br />

despairing, joyful, routine,<br />

hopeless times that those luminous<br />

moments <strong>of</strong> clarity surround us with<br />

transparency.<br />

We are held in a threshold between<br />

two phases <strong>of</strong> our lives – not<br />

to do with <strong>the</strong> chronological time <strong>of</strong><br />

years and decades but with <strong>the</strong><br />

kairos-time <strong>of</strong> falling into mystery,<br />

<strong>of</strong> falling in love with God.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se moments heal and transcend<br />

<strong>the</strong> damaging religious education<br />

<strong>of</strong> our childhood days and<br />

liberate us into <strong>the</strong> belief that we<br />

are all gods-in-<strong>the</strong> making, that<br />

even from our murkiest and most<br />

sinful encounters with evil, God can<br />

bring light.<br />

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Features<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Pilgrim</strong> <strong>June</strong> <strong>2016</strong><br />

Author examines <strong>the</strong> arguments for <strong>the</strong> divinity <strong>of</strong> Christ<br />

In a new book, Faith meets Forensics, Paul De Marco argues that <strong>the</strong>re is plenty <strong>of</strong> scientific pro<strong>of</strong> to explain <strong>the</strong> divinity <strong>of</strong> Jesus<br />

We <strong>of</strong>ten hear that “faith is blind”<br />

and a<strong>the</strong>ists cite <strong>the</strong> lack <strong>of</strong> scientific<br />

evidence as <strong>the</strong> reason why<br />

<strong>the</strong>y don’t believe in a supreme<br />

being. Our generation has seen unprecedented<br />

advances in science<br />

and technology and so it’s perfectly<br />

reasonable that <strong>the</strong>y would ask for<br />

this.<br />

<strong>The</strong> three-hour period <strong>of</strong> darkness<br />

and <strong>the</strong> earthquake on <strong>the</strong> day <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> crucifixion provide one piece <strong>of</strong><br />

evidence that Jesus was God. Many<br />

have attributed this to an eclipse<br />

but this couldn’t possibly have been<br />

<strong>the</strong> case.<br />

A total solar eclipse is a very rare<br />

event, happening at any point on<br />

Earth only once every 360 years, so<br />

<strong>the</strong> probability <strong>of</strong> one occurring in<br />

Jerusalem on <strong>the</strong> day <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> crucifixion<br />

would be 1 in 131,490. However,<br />

a total solar eclipse can only<br />

last for 7 minutes and 31 seconds,<br />

which is <strong>the</strong> longest period it can<br />

take for <strong>the</strong> moon to pass over <strong>the</strong><br />

sphere <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> sun.<br />

Also, this phenomenon can only<br />

happen at <strong>the</strong> time <strong>of</strong> a new moon<br />

and <strong>the</strong> crucifixion happened at<br />

Passover time, which is always celebrated<br />

at <strong>the</strong> time <strong>of</strong> a full moon.<br />

<strong>The</strong> darkness also couldn’t have<br />

been caused by a lunar eclipse, because<br />

<strong>the</strong> darkness from a lunar<br />

eclipse can only be experienced on<br />

<strong>the</strong> night side <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> planet and<br />

Jerusalem at midday was clearly on<br />

<strong>the</strong> day side <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> planet.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re’s geological evidence for<br />

earthquakes having hit Jerusalem in<br />

both 31 and 33 AD and this event is<br />

also recorded in <strong>the</strong> writings <strong>of</strong><br />

Phlegon in his History <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

Olympiads. Twenty significant earthquakes<br />

have struck Jerusalem from<br />

<strong>the</strong> Qumran earthquake <strong>of</strong> 31 BC<br />

which killed 30,000 to <strong>the</strong> 1927 Jericho<br />

earthquake. So this represents a<br />

severe earthquake every 97.9 years.<br />

<strong>The</strong> probability <strong>of</strong> one striking<br />

Jerusalem on <strong>the</strong> day <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> crucifixion<br />

would <strong>the</strong>refore be 1 in<br />

35,758. But even if <strong>the</strong> darkness had<br />

been caused by a total solar eclipse,<br />

<strong>the</strong> probability <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>re being both<br />

an eclipse and an earthquake on this<br />

day would be 1 in 131,490 x 1 in<br />

35,758 or 1 chance in 4.7 billion.<br />

<strong>The</strong> messianic prophecies provide<br />

fur<strong>the</strong>r evidence. King David lived<br />

from 1040 to 970 BC and made <strong>the</strong><br />

astonishing prophecy that <strong>the</strong> hands<br />

and feet <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Messiah would be<br />

pierced and that lots would be cast<br />

for his clothing.<br />

This is remarkable as <strong>the</strong> first<br />

recorded use <strong>of</strong> crucifixion was <strong>50</strong>0<br />

years later in 519 BC when Darius I<br />

<strong>of</strong> Persia crucified 3000 men in<br />

Babylon.<br />

Isaiah lived from 740 to 680 BC<br />

and prophesied that <strong>the</strong> messiah<br />

would be born to a virgin, but also<br />

that he would be “pierced for our<br />

transgressions.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> prophet Micah lived from 7<strong>50</strong><br />

to 696 BC and predicted that <strong>the</strong><br />

Messiah would be born in Bethlehem,<br />

which is incredible as this village<br />

only had a population <strong>of</strong><br />

several hundred even at <strong>the</strong> time<br />

Jesus was born.<br />

<strong>The</strong>n we have Zechariah who in<br />

519 BC prophesied that <strong>the</strong> Lord<br />

would be priced at 30 pieces <strong>of</strong> silver<br />

and that <strong>the</strong>se coins would be<br />

thrown into <strong>the</strong> house <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Lord,<br />

“to <strong>the</strong> potter.” This is precisely<br />

what Judas Iscariot did and <strong>the</strong><br />

chief priests used <strong>the</strong> money to buy<br />

<strong>the</strong> potter’s field as a burial place<br />

for foreigners.<br />

<strong>The</strong> divinity <strong>of</strong> Jesus is also endorsed<br />

by <strong>the</strong> miracles attributed to<br />

him, which were also described by<br />

<strong>the</strong> historians Josephus and Tertullian.<br />

Josephus was born only four<br />

years after Jesus died and would<br />

<strong>the</strong>refore have had access to people<br />

who had actually been cured by<br />

Jesus and who had witnessed <strong>the</strong><br />

phenomena at <strong>the</strong> crucifixion.<br />

<strong>The</strong> most spectacular miracle was<br />

<strong>the</strong> raising <strong>of</strong> Lazarus four days<br />

after his death, which showed that<br />

he had power over life itself.<br />

<strong>The</strong> miracle <strong>of</strong> multiplication<br />

at <strong>the</strong> feeding<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> 5,000 would have<br />

seen about 15,000 fed<br />

from just five loaves and<br />

two fish, if women and<br />

children are included.<br />

<strong>The</strong> conversion <strong>of</strong> between<br />

4<strong>50</strong> and 690 litres<br />

<strong>of</strong> water into wine at<br />

Cana, showed that Jesus<br />

could change a substance<br />

at will and is a reflection<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> transubstantiation<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> bread and wine at Mass.<br />

<strong>The</strong> empty tomb presents yet<br />

more compelling evidence and several<br />

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<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> body. <strong>The</strong><br />

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Jesus over a period <strong>of</strong> 40 days, including<br />

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at one time, adds to <strong>the</strong> weight<br />

<strong>of</strong> evidence.<br />

So too does <strong>the</strong> behaviour <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

disciples who, subsequent to <strong>the</strong><br />

resurrection, gave up <strong>the</strong>ir lives and<br />

suffered martyrdom proclaiming<br />

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<strong>The</strong> <strong>Pilgrim</strong> <strong>June</strong> <strong>2016</strong><br />

Features/Diary<br />

Learning<br />

to forgive<br />

Barry Mizen, whose sixteen-year-old son Jimmy<br />

was murdered in Lee in 2008, says forgiveness not<br />

revenge should be <strong>the</strong> response to violence<br />

What does mercy mean for us? What<br />

is expected <strong>of</strong> me? What do I expect<br />

<strong>of</strong> myself?<br />

Like all else in life we have a<br />

choice, we have freewill. We can<br />

choose to commit to acts <strong>of</strong> mercy<br />

or not. However, if we do, we also<br />

need God’s grace to encourage and<br />

enable <strong>the</strong>se thoughts, and actions.<br />

Perhaps one <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> hardest <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

works <strong>of</strong> mercy is to “forgive all injuries”.<br />

It goes completely against<br />

all expectation <strong>of</strong> modern society.<br />

Following <strong>the</strong> terrorist attacks in<br />

Paris, <strong>the</strong> response <strong>of</strong> President Hollande<br />

was to say <strong>the</strong>y would be<br />

“merciless.” Many <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> most popular<br />

<strong>of</strong> films have been about revenge,<br />

not forgiveness. We only<br />

have to think <strong>of</strong> <strong>The</strong> Godfa<strong>the</strong>r and<br />

Gladiator.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y are great cinema and give us<br />

a sense <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> power some individuals<br />

possess Unfortunately, some people<br />

are unable to distinguish<br />

between a film and everyday life.<br />

Some act as if <strong>the</strong>y are Don<br />

Corleone, or Maximus Decimus<br />

Meridius.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se are some <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> thought<br />

patterns that lead to actions <strong>of</strong> violence<br />

and death on our streets. <strong>The</strong><br />

number <strong>of</strong> murders committed in<br />

England and Wales in <strong>the</strong> year up to<br />

September 2015 went up 14 per<br />

cent.<br />

What about <strong>the</strong> majority <strong>of</strong> us<br />

that want our thought patterns to<br />

lead to actions <strong>of</strong> mercy? Perhaps an<br />

answer lies in <strong>the</strong> most well known<br />

<strong>of</strong> prayers?<br />

When we pray <strong>the</strong> “Our Fa<strong>the</strong>r”<br />

we acknowledge <strong>the</strong> greatness <strong>of</strong><br />

God. To forgive, it is a conscious decision,<br />

a deliberate thought.<br />

Following <strong>the</strong> murder <strong>of</strong> my son<br />

Jimmy, I have never had a desire to<br />

do to <strong>the</strong> perpetrator what he did to<br />

him. I thank God for that and that I<br />

believe is forgiveness.<br />

Forgiveness is unique to each <strong>of</strong><br />

us. However, it’s something we<br />

don’t talk about in detail, when<br />

someone says I forgive does that<br />

mean, “Hey, no problem, don’t<br />

worry about it, forget it?”<br />

This would seem to be <strong>the</strong><br />

way <strong>the</strong> media portray it, and if we<br />

say we have a faith, we are<br />

Christian, <strong>the</strong>n it is deemed that’s<br />

why we forgive. That’s what we<br />

have to do.<br />

<strong>The</strong>n Peter came and said to him,<br />

"Lord, how <strong>of</strong>ten shall my bro<strong>the</strong>r<br />

sin against me and I forgive him? Up<br />

to seven times?" Jesus said to him, "I<br />

do not say to you, up to seven<br />

times, but up to 70 times seven.”<br />

I don’t think this means we have<br />

to say countless times “I forgive<br />

you,” but we do have <strong>the</strong> power<br />

over my thoughts, we can drive ourselves<br />

with thoughts <strong>of</strong> revenge, or<br />

we can drive ourselves with<br />

thoughts <strong>of</strong> forgiveness.<br />

I don’t want to do to you what<br />

you did to me, and I do it for myself,<br />

I do it for those close to me, I<br />

do it for those I love. I do it for<br />

Jimmy.<br />

Following his murder, I was determined,<br />

with God’s grace, not to be<br />

beaten by what happened and to do<br />

whatever I could to prevent more<br />

damage being done to my family. A<br />

major part <strong>of</strong> that was to not let <strong>the</strong><br />

negative thoughts springing into my<br />

mind take hold.<br />

If I am plotting retribution, if I am<br />

always sprouting revengeful words,<br />

it will have a huge impact on those<br />

around me. It will eventually destroy<br />

my family, and none <strong>of</strong> us<br />

wanted that.<br />

As my wife said to <strong>the</strong> press <strong>the</strong><br />

day after Jimmy had been murdered:<br />

“Anger breeds anger, and bitterness<br />

will destroy my family if I'm<br />

not careful - and I won't allow<br />

that.”<br />

Forgiveness or revenge starts with<br />

a thought, which leads to an action.<br />

We have a choice. We have freewill.<br />

I choose forgiveness.<br />

School days<br />

Sadie Bromley<br />

9: “<strong>The</strong> Marriage <strong>of</strong> Faith and Reason, a talk by<br />

by Sebastian Morello, 7:30pm – 8:30pm, Amigo<br />

Hall.<br />

DIARY - JUNE<br />

Home: Guildford.<br />

Job: Teacher <strong>of</strong> Art and Design and Photography,<br />

Richard Challoner School, New Malden.<br />

What secondary school did you attend?<br />

Colne Primet High School, Lancashire.<br />

Favourite subject? PE, I just loved being outside!<br />

Worst subject? Maths, mostly because <strong>the</strong> teachers used to put you on <strong>the</strong> spot<br />

in front <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> whole class and I used to get so scared I get it wrong in front <strong>of</strong><br />

everyone that I found every lesson very stressful.<br />

Favourite teacher? Mrs Mann, French teacher but also my form teacher for five<br />

years. A very lovely, kind caring lady.<br />

Favourite school dinner? A pudding called Angel Delight, which was<br />

blancmange. I haven’t eaten it since school but I always remember it tasting<br />

really yummy – probably all <strong>the</strong> E numbers in it.<br />

Guilty secret? I am addicted to giant chocolate buttons and will easily eat a<br />

whole packet to myself.<br />

What lessons about life did you learn? Life is too short to sulk about things. If<br />

things don’t go <strong>the</strong> way you expected, <strong>the</strong>n you just have to get on with it and<br />

make <strong>the</strong> most <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> situation. And I usually find that when you look back life<br />

has a way <strong>of</strong> working things out for <strong>the</strong> best any way.<br />

What do you wish you had been told? To spend more time with <strong>the</strong> ones you<br />

love.<br />

What did you do immediately after leaving school? I went to work in North<br />

Wales teaching Sailing, climbing, surfing, kayaking and mountaineering.<br />

What career advice would you give to a young person? I would ask <strong>the</strong>m,<br />

“If money was no object <strong>the</strong>n what would you do?” I would encourage <strong>the</strong>m to<br />

follow <strong>the</strong>ir dreams and passions instead <strong>of</strong> chasing money. To do a job you love<br />

every day and feel that what you are doing is worthwhile and fulfils your life –<br />

<strong>the</strong>n that is worth more than anything.<br />

11: <strong>The</strong> Prison Advice and Care Trust (PACT)<br />

information morning for those interested in<br />

becoming volunteers, 9.30am – 1pm, Amigo Hall.<br />

For more information, email<br />

Thomas.Brindle@prisonadvice.org.uk<br />

or call 0203 031 6869.<br />

11: “A<strong>the</strong>ism and <strong>the</strong> Death <strong>of</strong> Reason,”<br />

a talk by by Sebastian Morello, 7:30pm – 8:30pm,<br />

Amigo Hall.<br />

11: Study day for new and potential catechists,<br />

<strong>the</strong> Centre for Catholic Formation, Tooting Bec,<br />

10:30 am – 4:00pm. Cost: £10 (which should be<br />

met by <strong>the</strong> parish). <strong>The</strong> sessions will include <strong>the</strong><br />

vocation <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> catechist, prayer, safeguarding,<br />

practical guidance, and <strong>the</strong> different areas <strong>of</strong><br />

catechesis. To book a place ring 020 8672 7684 or<br />

email <strong>of</strong>fice@ccftootingbec.org.uk<br />

18: Celebration <strong>of</strong> Marriage annual Mass,<br />

St George’s Ca<strong>the</strong>dral, 3pm. Please contact<br />

marriage2014@virginmeadia.com for fur<strong>the</strong>r<br />

details.<br />

23 – 25: “Called to Care” conference, organised<br />

by <strong>the</strong> Health and Social Care Advisory Group <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> Bishops’ Conference <strong>of</strong> England and Wales, St<br />

Mary’s University, Twickenham. Speakers include<br />

Duncan Selbie, chief executive, Public health<br />

England; Paul Farmer, chief executive, MIND; and<br />

If you have an event, please e-mail<br />

details to us at<br />

pilgrim@rcsouthwark.co.uk<br />

Cardinal Vincent Nichols. For more information,<br />

email Nicholas.johnson@cbcew.org.uk<br />

25: Summer Youth Day, <strong>The</strong> Friars, Aylesford.<br />

Join groups from <strong>the</strong> diocese and <strong>Southwark</strong><br />

Catholic Youth Service for a day <strong>of</strong> conversation,<br />

games, music, art, and drama. <strong>The</strong> day begins at<br />

10 am and concludes with Mass at 6pm.<br />

Cost: £10. Please book in advance.<br />

Call Jean on 01227-272900.<br />

28: Mass to celebrate Catholic education in Kent,<br />

<strong>The</strong> Friars, Aylesford, 1pm, followed by light<br />

lunch. For more information,<br />

email wmonaghan@kcsp.org.uk<br />

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<strong>The</strong> <strong>Pilgrim</strong> <strong>June</strong> <strong>2016</strong><br />

Focus on faith<br />

A mystic and prophet<br />

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Fa<strong>the</strong>r Eric Doyle was born in Bolton<br />

on 13th July 1938, <strong>the</strong> son <strong>of</strong> a millworker<br />

and was baptised in St Edmund’s<br />

church, where he later served<br />

as an altar boy.<br />

Inspired by a book he had read on<br />

<strong>the</strong> life <strong>of</strong> St Francis, he entered <strong>the</strong><br />

Order <strong>of</strong> Friars Minor at <strong>the</strong> age <strong>of</strong> 16<br />

when he took <strong>the</strong> name Eric.<br />

He made his solemn pr<strong>of</strong>ession <strong>the</strong><br />

day after his 21st birthday and was<br />

ordained on 16th July 1961, which required<br />

a dispensation in view <strong>of</strong> his<br />

young age. Studies in Rome followed<br />

during <strong>the</strong> period<br />

when <strong>the</strong> Second Vatican<br />

Council was in<br />

session. Here he<br />

trained as an ecclesiastical<br />

historian and<br />

gained his doctorate<br />

in 1964 with <strong>the</strong> highest<br />

possible marks.<br />

Responding to <strong>the</strong><br />

Council’s call for religious<br />

orders to return<br />

to <strong>the</strong> charisms <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong>ir founders, he was<br />

at <strong>the</strong> forefront <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

renewal process in <strong>the</strong><br />

English province, lecturing<br />

widely in Franciscan<br />

spirituality.<br />

He was instrumental in <strong>the</strong> Order’s<br />

return to a more fraternal way <strong>of</strong> living<br />

in small communities and was a<br />

founding fa<strong>the</strong>r <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Franciscan<br />

Study Centre in Canterbury, which<br />

opened in 1973.<br />

He devised and implemented a new<br />

Franciscan studies course which introduced<br />

students to <strong>the</strong> great heritage<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir order, a course which<br />

has subsequently become <strong>the</strong> foundation<br />

year <strong>of</strong> formation for all those<br />

entering <strong>the</strong> Order. Yet, <strong>the</strong>ology for<br />

Fr Eric, as for <strong>the</strong> great scholars <strong>of</strong><br />

his order, had to be practical and<br />

have a contemporary relevance if it<br />

was to have any meaning at all.<br />

Sought out as a retreat-giver, lecturer,<br />

speaker and broadcaster, Fr<br />

Eric’s net covered a wide area. He<br />

taught not only at <strong>the</strong> Study Centre,<br />

but also at Wonersh Seminary, <strong>the</strong><br />

University <strong>of</strong> Kent, and St Bonaventure<br />

University in New York.<br />

From 1971 until 1984 he was a contributor<br />

to Anglia TV’s <strong>The</strong> Big Question.<br />

One reviewer wrote: “Eric, to<br />

be plain, is quite simply <strong>the</strong> best allround<br />

performer working in television<br />

today… Eric is, quite simply, <strong>the</strong> man<br />

to follow. <strong>The</strong> length, breadth and<br />

width <strong>of</strong> his discourse… is quite colossal.<br />

I quite simply demand that you<br />

do not fail to join me, and thousands<br />

<strong>of</strong> like-minded fans, in watching<br />

Eric’s saltatorial displays each<br />

Wednesday night.”<br />

Without oversimplification<br />

<strong>the</strong> threemember<br />

ecumenical<br />

panel sought to engage<br />

in ordinary language<br />

with <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

viewers about <strong>the</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong>ological and social<br />

questions <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir day,<br />

something at which Fr<br />

Eric excelled. He was<br />

also a welcome regular<br />

contributor to BBC<br />

Radio 4’s Prayer for<br />

<strong>the</strong> Day.<br />

Fr Eric made a lasting<br />

impression all on<br />

whom he met and many recall him<br />

with affection and anecdote. Witty,<br />

erudite and extremely likeable, he<br />

preached and taught with humour<br />

making light <strong>of</strong> his great learning, yet<br />

<strong>the</strong> pr<strong>of</strong>undity <strong>of</strong> his message was always<br />

clear, whe<strong>the</strong>r he was addressing<br />

a group <strong>of</strong> young children or an<br />

international ga<strong>the</strong>ring.<br />

His vision was always Christ, seen<br />

through <strong>the</strong> Franciscan lens, whose<br />

littleness and humility he strove to<br />

follow with joy and enthusiasm, and<br />

which were infectious to those<br />

around him. He loved to walk through<br />

<strong>the</strong> streets <strong>of</strong> Canterbury in his habit,<br />

when he would show visitors around<br />

<strong>the</strong> little stone house at Greyfriars on<br />

<strong>the</strong> River Stour, where <strong>the</strong> first Franciscans<br />

had settled in 1224.<br />

During <strong>the</strong> course <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> 7<strong>50</strong>th anniversary<br />

celebrations <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir arrival<br />

in Canterbury Fr Eric became <strong>the</strong><br />

first Catholic since <strong>the</strong> Reformation<br />

to speak from <strong>the</strong> pulpit in Canterbury<br />

Ca<strong>the</strong>dral, addressing a crowd<br />

<strong>of</strong> thousands.<br />

A keen ecumenist he worked tirelessly<br />

in this area and numbered<br />

many <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> hierarchy amongst his<br />

friends, notably Cardinal Basil Hume,<br />

Bishop Alan Clark and Archbishop<br />

Robert Runcie.<br />

A visionary, Fr Eric described <strong>the</strong><br />

now familiar World Youth Day inaugurated<br />

by Pope John Paul II nine years<br />

before <strong>the</strong> first event in Rome in<br />

1986, and many <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> conclusions<br />

which he reached in <strong>the</strong> 1970s are<br />

now echoed in Pope Francis’ Laudato<br />

Si’.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Franciscan vision <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> unity<br />

<strong>of</strong> all creation, <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> bro<strong>the</strong>rhood<br />

and sisterhood <strong>of</strong> humanity, and <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> interconnectedness <strong>of</strong> everything<br />

in <strong>the</strong> cosmos in Christ through whom<br />

everything has been created, lay at<br />

<strong>the</strong> core <strong>of</strong> his belief.<br />

Fr Eric described an “evangelical<br />

primacy" now coming to fruition in<br />

<strong>the</strong> current papacy and he would<br />

have been a great advocate <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

Year <strong>of</strong> Mercy because for him kindness<br />

(one <strong>of</strong> his favourite words) was<br />

so important.<br />

His writings, which remain apposite<br />

today, are insightful and inspirational<br />

and possess a mystical quality. In his<br />

short life Fr Eric published over 100<br />

articles and two books.<br />

Sadly, all <strong>of</strong> his homilies, neatly<br />

written by hand, and <strong>the</strong> half-finished<br />

manuscript <strong>of</strong> a book on Christology,<br />

have disappeared. It would be<br />

a significant find indeed if <strong>the</strong>se<br />

were ever to come to light again.<br />

Many people were affected and<br />

saddened by Fr Eric’s sudden death<br />

at <strong>the</strong> age <strong>of</strong> only 46.<br />

He was buried at <strong>the</strong> Friary in<br />

Chilworth on 31st August, 1984 where<br />

<strong>the</strong> church was full to overflowing,<br />

and where over 100 priests concelebrated<br />

his requiem Mass. In 1985 an<br />

ambo was erected in <strong>the</strong> chapel <strong>of</strong><br />

New Hall School in his memory.<br />

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