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Contents<br />
44<br />
7<br />
Noticeboard<br />
Local educational<br />
news and events<br />
School of Rock<br />
The modern way<br />
into music study<br />
FREWEN<br />
The Dyslexia School<br />
Since 1910<br />
COLLEGE<br />
11<br />
15<br />
19<br />
23<br />
29<br />
31<br />
35<br />
39<br />
43<br />
Educating the<br />
whole child<br />
A well-rounded<br />
approach to education<br />
the whole person<br />
The educational philosophy<br />
in practical terms<br />
Ask the Experts<br />
Tips for parents of<br />
young children<br />
On their Marks...<br />
First steps in sport<br />
read all about it<br />
Rebecca Cuffe’s book picks<br />
for children up to seven<br />
Planting the seed<br />
Schools where pupils<br />
grow fruit and veg<br />
ask the experts<br />
Prep school kids<br />
POETRY please<br />
The winners of our<br />
poetry competition<br />
READ ALL ABOUT IT<br />
Books for children from<br />
seven to thirteen<br />
50<br />
52<br />
59<br />
61<br />
63<br />
67<br />
68<br />
75<br />
80<br />
ask the experts<br />
Going up to big school<br />
Meet the matrons<br />
The joys and challenges<br />
of boarding<br />
read all about it<br />
Young people over 14 will<br />
love these book picks<br />
ask the experts<br />
Surviving GCSEs<br />
educating the<br />
future<br />
How to get your child ready for<br />
the jobs of tomorrow<br />
The life scientific<br />
Advances in science teaching<br />
This art of mine<br />
Magnificent art by pupils<br />
Going Solo<br />
Young people who shine<br />
in individual sports<br />
ASK THE EXPERTS<br />
Sixth formers<br />
Cover image photographed by David<br />
Merewether at the science and technology<br />
centre at Sevenoaks School, Kent<br />
Prep<br />
School<br />
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A School Full<br />
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editor’s letter<br />
the theme of this year’s issue of the education magazine<br />
is educating the whole person. rather than channelling<br />
all effort into safe ‘academic’ subjects, encouraging<br />
young people, with their wonderfully supple minds, to<br />
experiment in all areas. Not just to cram, but to grow.<br />
so i was very glad to hear on the radio as i drove into the<br />
office this morning, a spokesperson for the russell group of<br />
elite universities saying that they are officially tearing up the<br />
list of recommended ‘facilitating subjects’ they used to advise<br />
increased chances of being accepted by one of them.<br />
what they are more interested in now, he said, is young<br />
people who have stretched and challenged themselves in lots of<br />
different areas, including the pure arts of drama, fine art and<br />
music, languages and vocational technical subjects.<br />
bravo to that! and we would also add the importance of<br />
varied physical education, to help our children reach their full<br />
potential in every aspect of life.<br />
in this spirit we have devoted most of this special issue<br />
to school initiatives in sports and the creative arts – from<br />
solo sport, to junior rock bands – at all ages, balanced with<br />
expert advice on four key stages of education from the experts<br />
themselves, the teachers.<br />
we hope you will find plenty in it to inform and inspire you<br />
on the exhilarating journey of your child’s education.<br />
<strong>Education</strong> team<br />
editor ....................................................................................... Maggie alderson<br />
editorial assistant ........................................................................rebecca Cuffe<br />
design director ..........................................................................anthony boxall<br />
design team .................................................................................... Freya bruce<br />
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distribution ....................................................................................... kate watts<br />
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the Mhs colour run<br />
Children, parents, staff and past pupils of Marlborough<br />
house school all came together for a hugely fun and<br />
colour-filled afternoon to raise money for local charity<br />
taylor-Made dreams on Friday 29 March. under a<br />
beautiful blue sky, 362 runners took part in a huge group<br />
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beautiful grounds and at various points along the course,<br />
the runners ran through paint stations where more colour<br />
was thrown into the mix. the atmosphere throughout<br />
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The latest school and event news from the South East<br />
artistic opportunities<br />
JaM on the Marsh has been working<br />
with primary schools on romney<br />
Marsh since 2014. this year has<br />
been no exception, as they have<br />
teamed up with the singing stars<br />
weekly after-school club of palmarsh<br />
and hythe bay primary schools,<br />
where there are limited resources or<br />
opportunities for progression. once<br />
a month, inspirational professional<br />
vocal tutors have been joining the<br />
stars in preparations for a public<br />
performance at JaM on the Marsh<br />
on thursday 11 July<br />
with the<br />
Chapel Choir of selwyn College<br />
Cambridge, Canterbury Cathedral<br />
girls’ Choir, top quintet onyx brass<br />
and professional soloists. Marsh<br />
primary schools have also eagerly<br />
taken up the opportunity of joining<br />
beach artist Jon Foreman to learn<br />
about the environment, ecology and<br />
how to tie maths into design, while<br />
also building teamwork skills and<br />
enjoying outdoor activity.<br />
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the greatest show<br />
this year Manor house school<br />
in bookham’s senior production<br />
of Barnum took on an ambitious<br />
33 musical numbers with over<br />
400 costume changes. the circus<br />
extravaganza is based on the life of<br />
circus showman p.t. barnum which<br />
inspired The Greatest Showman.<br />
the production challenged the<br />
cast to master circus skills along<br />
with complicated song and dance<br />
routines choreographed by adrian<br />
edmeades, bbC Children’s<br />
Choreographer, for three nights<br />
of performances from Monday<br />
25 to Wednesday 27 March.<br />
manorhouseschool.org<br />
on point<br />
ballet Central is a critically<br />
acclaimed company celebrating rising<br />
stars who are about to graduate from<br />
Central school of ballet in London.<br />
having left home aged 16 to train<br />
full-time in London, it is a shining<br />
example of the commitment and<br />
artistic achievement of young people.<br />
this year they tour england from 28<br />
March to 20 July, giving the dancers<br />
valuable performing experience and<br />
audiences the chance to see the<br />
ballet stars of tomorrow at just<br />
£15 a ticket.<br />
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Open days<br />
Thursday 12 September<br />
Reigate Grammar School<br />
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Thursday 19 September<br />
Mayfield School<br />
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Wednesday 25 September<br />
Moor house School<br />
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Mill Lane, Hurst Green,<br />
Oxted, Surrey RH8 9AQ<br />
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Saturday 28 September<br />
St Edmund’s School<br />
St Thomas Hill, Canterbury,<br />
Kent CT2 8HU<br />
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Saturday 5 October<br />
Tonbridge School<br />
High Street, Tonbridge,<br />
Kent TN9 1JP<br />
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Friday 11 October<br />
Dulwich Prep<br />
Cranbrook<br />
Coursehorn, Cranbrook,<br />
Kent TN17 3NP<br />
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Saturday 12 October<br />
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Heywood House, Portsmouth<br />
Road, Cobham, Surrey KT11 1BL<br />
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Saturday 12 October<br />
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Bodiam, Nr. Robertsbridge,<br />
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There is no planet B<br />
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May, Cumnor House Sussex hosted its first Green Week in an effort to inform<br />
and encourage practical action in aid of the environment. The week included<br />
a plastic pledge, clothes swap tent, den building for woodland animals, fashion<br />
workshops for alternatives to ‘fast fashion’, weighing food waste, a collaborative<br />
art installation made with plastic bottles and a ‘Night Without Light Challenge’<br />
to ditch electrical gadgets for a week or longer, to raise money for the week’s<br />
chosen charity, SolarAid. cumnor.co.uk<br />
Heads up<br />
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who succeeds Mr Bill Jones as Head<br />
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experienced at running orchestras<br />
and choirs. Mrs Jaggard commented<br />
that she is “extremely honoured and<br />
privileged to have been chosen to<br />
take over the leadership of Spring<br />
Grove School”.<br />
springgroveschool.co.uk<br />
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story Billionaire Boy comes<br />
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ducating<br />
Ethe whole child<br />
A<br />
radical and exciting revolution is taking place in<br />
education and it’s one guaranteed to produce happier<br />
children, more fulfilled young people and more<br />
capable and cheerful adults.<br />
If this sounds too good to be true, it’s worth knowing that<br />
this revolution is long overdue and that while its full results<br />
have yet to be seen – education is a slow business, it grows at<br />
exactly the same rate as the young human being – everyone<br />
involved in it is confident of success.<br />
This revolution is both absurdly simple, yet also subtle and<br />
complex. It involves seeing all children as the individuals they<br />
truly are and then offering them an education that encourages<br />
every aspect of themselves to flourish and grow.<br />
It’s also an idea that has its roots in ancient ideas, right back<br />
to ancient Rome, when the poet Juvenal coined the phrase<br />
mens sana in corpore sano (a healthy mind in a healthy body).<br />
English philosopher John Locke’s influential work Some<br />
Thoughts Concerning <strong>Education</strong> of 1693<br />
proposed a similar theory, that education<br />
must address three areas: a healthy body,<br />
a virtuous character and an appropriate<br />
academic curriculum.<br />
Now, ‘educating the whole child’ is an<br />
idea that has spread rapidly across all schools<br />
in recent years, first taking off when the<br />
innovative headmaster Anthony Seldon took<br />
over Wellington School and introduced hippy-style ‘happiness<br />
lessons’ into an institution that had until then been mainly<br />
known for its links with the military.<br />
‘Schools,’ he explained, ‘should open the minds, as well<br />
as the hearts, of the young. It is vital that they do this as<br />
many adults possess neither open minds nor open hearts.<br />
Our young should learn how to think and how fully to feel.<br />
<strong>Education</strong> is their greatest chance to learn how to live.’<br />
Since then, the revolution has galloped ahead and virtually<br />
all schools now say they aim to offer an all-round education.<br />
This is clearly visible in the way they reach out to potential<br />
new parents. Test and exam results are still important,<br />
but they no longer fill the whole stage. Instead schools<br />
emphasize that their pupils play in the mud, sprawl on<br />
their boarding house beds, laugh a lot, make music,<br />
dress up, help others and do lots of hands-on learning.<br />
Of course, schools have always offered arts and<br />
Our education writer Hilary Wilce explains<br />
the new – and ancient – philosophy which is<br />
coming back to the fore in British schools<br />
sports and after-school clubs, but one of the fundamental<br />
underpinnings of this new style education is the recognition<br />
that great academic results spring out of personal happiness<br />
and fulfillment, not the other way round.<br />
The revolution has been driven by forward-looking heads,<br />
but also by parents who wanted to find ways their children<br />
could avoid the distress of ‘exam treadmill’ schooling.<br />
Now, say schools, parents actively seek out a rich and<br />
happy school experience, asking probing questions about<br />
the provision of emotional and social learning alongside the<br />
academic curriculum.<br />
Significantly, one of the most popular schools in London at<br />
present, with a long waiting list, is an alternative forest school<br />
that educates its children entirely outdoors in all weathers.<br />
So what does educating the whole child actually involve?<br />
Of course, pupils still get regular lessons, but these are<br />
increasingly tailored to meet the different learning styles<br />
of the children in class. Factory-style<br />
“Factory-style rote<br />
learning is long gone<br />
and pupils are offered<br />
opportunities to develop<br />
their creative side”<br />
‘Logic will get you<br />
from A to B.<br />
Imagination will<br />
take you everywhere.’<br />
Albert Einstein<br />
rote learning is long gone. Pupils are<br />
offered opportunities to develop their<br />
creative side, through drama, art and<br />
music, their adventurous side through<br />
outdoor play and exploration, and their<br />
leadership and teamwork skills through<br />
group projects.<br />
In addition, many schools now<br />
emphasise serving others through charity and community<br />
work. And underpinning all this is a whole new focus on<br />
character education and the importance of developing<br />
students’ inner strengths such as resilience,<br />
tenacity, kindness and empathy. They<br />
may be encouraged to take risks,<br />
set goals, make mistakes and<br />
review their actions. <br />
‘Intelligence plus<br />
character – that<br />
is the goal of true<br />
education.’<br />
Martin Luther King<br />
‘Educating the mind<br />
without educating<br />
the heart is no<br />
education at all.’<br />
Aristotle<br />
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Another vital element<br />
is the recognition that<br />
today’s students face<br />
many new challenges.<br />
Social media can lead to<br />
insecurity and bullying,<br />
fragmenting families can<br />
mean emotional instability<br />
and a rapidly changing world<br />
means an uncertain future.<br />
‘It is vital when<br />
educating our<br />
children’s brains we do<br />
not neglect to educate<br />
their hearts.’<br />
The Dalai Lama<br />
Schools now provide older students with sophisticated personal<br />
education programmes that include questions of racial and sexual<br />
identity, and mental health issues such as depression and selfharm.<br />
Students are taught ways to look after both their physical<br />
and mental wellbeing.<br />
All this makes for a much kinder, more inclusive education<br />
than in the past. Today’s non-sporty child will find success in<br />
fencing or yoga. The anxious one will have learned mindfulness<br />
and know who to ask for help. The swotty pupil will be able to<br />
pursue their own advanced science projects, while a creative one<br />
might be busy producing their own film and soundtrack.<br />
Of course, many students will still experience difficulties and<br />
parents need to watch out for these. They should also be cautious<br />
about any school’s glossy claims of what’s on offer. It’s always<br />
important to look below the surface to make sure it’s not just fine<br />
words. The key is to watch closely what’s actually going on and<br />
ask existing pupils about their day-to-day experiences.<br />
A NEW UNIVERSITY FOR A<br />
NEW AGE OF PUPILS<br />
Some people in education think only a really radical<br />
shake-up of our whole system will meet the needs of<br />
students in the 21st century.<br />
One institution striking out on a new path is the<br />
London Interdisciplinary School, which opens in East<br />
London next year. This new ‘university for polymaths’<br />
will train students to solve complex problems by<br />
bringing different skills and strands of knowledge to<br />
bear on a single issue. The Metropolitan Police has<br />
already asked it to study the problem of knife crime,<br />
for example.<br />
All students will take the same bachelor of arts<br />
and science degree, incorporating science, technology<br />
and the humanities and including ten weeks of handson<br />
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Dr Adrian Rainbow, Deputy Head (Co-curriculum) of Sevenoaks School, describes how the whole person<br />
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How can parents best support their<br />
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children more fearful of their transition.<br />
Try not to show your own anxiety or<br />
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On the practical side, practise zips,<br />
getting dressed and undressed, putting<br />
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children are toilet trained.<br />
Prepare them for learning by reading<br />
lots of stories and talking about<br />
the characters, storylines and make<br />
predictions. Build mathematical language<br />
into everyday play routines, such as<br />
counting out the correct number of<br />
knives and forks at the dinner table.<br />
Ensure they get plenty of rest with a<br />
calm bedtime routine at a sensible time<br />
and don’t sign them up for lots of after<br />
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What signs should parents look out for<br />
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If they seem unusually withdrawn or<br />
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when they appear to be fine or are tearful<br />
for no clear reason.<br />
What should parents do if they think<br />
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Discuss with your child about how<br />
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appointment to see the class teacher to<br />
discuss concerns further. Don’t try and<br />
speak to them at the beginning or end of<br />
the day as this can be the busiest time.<br />
Explain to the class teacher what the<br />
purpose of the appointment is so that<br />
they can prepare in advance. Ask what<br />
can be done at home to help and get<br />
feedback from the teacher on any areas<br />
where a child might be struggling.<br />
Is there anything parents do with good<br />
intentions, which is actually unhelpful?<br />
Some parents feel they are being helpful<br />
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parental reliance. It’s better to encourage<br />
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It’s also tempting for parents to dress<br />
their child for speed in the mornings,<br />
but it’s really helpful if they can allow the<br />
child to learn how to do it themselves, so<br />
they can change unaided for PE.<br />
It’s also helpful if the child can prepare<br />
their own school bag. This will train<br />
them to be more organised and feel in<br />
control of their own routine.<br />
Lingering in the classroom after drop<br />
off can destabilise their own child’s<br />
emotions and be unsettling for other<br />
class members. It also makes it difficult<br />
for the teacher to start the day with their<br />
class routine.<br />
We delight in children’s mark making<br />
and attempt to build on these skills in<br />
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Sam Selkirk, Head of Lower School<br />
Fostering independence is one of the<br />
best ways you can help your child to<br />
get ready for school. This can be done<br />
at home by encouraging them to dress<br />
themselves in the morning, cut their<br />
own food at mealtimes and have a go at<br />
tasks such as pouring a drink.<br />
These small things start the process<br />
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opportunities for them to explore<br />
their world and play independently<br />
are essential whilst motivating them to<br />
‘have a go’, persevere, think and solve<br />
problems. These are all an essential part<br />
of learning how to learn.<br />
One of the biggest indicators that a<br />
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in their behaviour, perhaps becoming<br />
slightly more subdued or restless but it<br />
could present in a plethora of ways.<br />
However, at Reception age it is often<br />
tricky to identify the root cause of any<br />
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A close relationship with a child’s<br />
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and if parents are concerned, it is<br />
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If parents think their child isn’t<br />
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Be positive<br />
Parents can support their child<br />
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Encourage<br />
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Resilience and the ability to<br />
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Harrison Straw – Head of Pre-Prep PE<br />
I believe it is very important for children to take part in<br />
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dulwich prep Cranbrook has a gardening Club which runs at lunchtime<br />
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edward in Year 6 said he likes getting out in the fresh<br />
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Invaluable tips from experienced<br />
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education<br />
Claremont Prep School<br />
Rachel Potter, Head of Pre-Prep<br />
What do parents need to consider<br />
when choosing a prep school? A<br />
good place to start is to choose a<br />
school with the same values as your<br />
own. A school’s value system and<br />
ethos plays a central part in giving<br />
each one its own unique ‘personality’,<br />
an essential point of difference that<br />
will help you decide if your child is<br />
going to be happy and thrive there.<br />
Great facilities, resources and small<br />
class sizes often come as standard<br />
in prep schools, but curriculum<br />
design, great teachers, enrichment<br />
programmes, after-school care and<br />
how the school engages, supports and<br />
involves parents can often set it apart.<br />
Be inquisitive and come armed<br />
with lots of questions and if you are<br />
in it for the long haul, find out about<br />
the school’s long-term vision and<br />
future plans for developing teaching<br />
and learning.<br />
Should they ask about which<br />
secondary schools the prep school<br />
feeds up to? It helps to get an idea of<br />
how your child’s whole educational<br />
journey will play out, but plans often<br />
change along with the needs and<br />
aspirations of pupils as they get older.<br />
Ask how the transition process<br />
from prep to senior is managed. This<br />
will ease progression and bring a<br />
welcome air of familiarity at what can<br />
be an anxious time for a child.<br />
Should parents be looking for a<br />
school that plays to their child’s<br />
strengths at this stage? Yes, but<br />
it’s important to look for a school<br />
that offers a broad curriculum that<br />
encourages children to not only<br />
develop their current talents, but<br />
also to explore new and unchartered<br />
learning territories.<br />
Choose a prep school that does the<br />
basics extremely well, but also has a<br />
diverse and imaginative co- and extracurricular<br />
programme all wrapped up<br />
in a nurturing pastoral environment<br />
that empowers every child to shine.<br />
Is staying with a peer group a child<br />
is comfortable with important at<br />
this stage? No, children make friends<br />
so quickly. A happy, nurturing and<br />
supportive school environment will<br />
ensure this, and the right school<br />
will work hard to ensure a seamless<br />
transition and a swift but calm<br />
settling in period.<br />
Claremont Prep School, Hastings,<br />
East Sussex 01424 751555<br />
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“How the school engages,<br />
supports and involves<br />
parents can set it apart”<br />
Chinthurst School<br />
Cathy Trundle, Headteacher<br />
What do parents need to consider<br />
when choosing a prep school? Does<br />
this school value children and build<br />
positive relationships with them?<br />
Children need to be treated with<br />
kindness and love so they can challenge<br />
themselves and make mistakes along the<br />
way, confident that they will always be<br />
supported.<br />
It is also very important that the<br />
school makes lessons fun. Children<br />
should skip into school excited about<br />
what they will learn that day!<br />
Should they ask about which<br />
secondary schools the prep school<br />
feeds up to? This is important,<br />
particularly for families joining a<br />
school in Year 3 or above. A good prep<br />
school will ensure its children progress<br />
to senior schools that suit each child’s<br />
individual academic levels and talents.<br />
Close relationships with parents and<br />
children are key to ensuring a school can<br />
properly guide families in their choice.<br />
Should parents be looking for a prep<br />
school that plays to their child’s<br />
strengths (academic, sport, arts)<br />
at this stage? Children’s talents have<br />
not always developed when they first<br />
start school and, as they mature, their<br />
interests and strengths can change. It<br />
is more important to look for a prep<br />
school that will give children a wide<br />
range of opportunities and the time and<br />
space to develop their skills and find<br />
their niche.<br />
Is staying with a peer group a child<br />
is comfortable with important at<br />
this stage? A good school with happy<br />
children and experienced staff should<br />
be able to welcome new pupils at any<br />
stage and ensure they settle in quickly<br />
and form bonds with their new class.<br />
Kindness and a focus on relationship<br />
building should ensure that a child can<br />
confidently join a school without the<br />
need to move with a peer group.<br />
Chinthurst School, Tadworth, Surrey<br />
01737 812011 chinthurstschool.co.uk<br />
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Vinehall School<br />
Joff Powis, Headmaster<br />
What do parents need to consider<br />
when choosing a prep school? Fees,<br />
location, class size, academic reputation<br />
and wrap around care – all are vital.<br />
However, I believe that parents find the<br />
best fit prep school for their child only<br />
once they have visited and experienced<br />
the atmosphere first hand.<br />
They must look beyond the results<br />
and facilities of a school to focus<br />
on what really matters, which is the<br />
happiness of the children, the calibre<br />
of the staff and the strong relationships<br />
between the teachers and parents.<br />
Should they ask about which<br />
secondary schools the prep school<br />
feeds up to? For many parents, entry<br />
into the secondary school of choice is<br />
paramount to their decision to enter the<br />
independent sector in the first place.<br />
I would encourage parents to keep<br />
an open mind in order to allow a<br />
child to grow and develop before a<br />
secondary school choice is finalised. The<br />
‘destination of leavers’ will be proudly<br />
stated on any prep school’s website<br />
and the greater the variety of these<br />
destinations on offer will reflect a prep<br />
school’s strength in developing the<br />
individual child.<br />
Should parents be looking for a school<br />
that plays to their child’s strengths<br />
(academic, sport, arts) at this stage?<br />
How can a parent possibly know<br />
their child’s strengths yet? The<br />
purpose of a prep school is to lay<br />
as many opportunities at a child’s<br />
feet as time will possibly allow.<br />
As their confidence grows, their<br />
interests will spread and new strengths<br />
“The purpose of prep<br />
school is to lay as many<br />
opportunities at a child’s<br />
feet as time will allow”<br />
and passions will be discovered. In a<br />
small, family school, the needs and<br />
talents of each individual child can be<br />
recognised, valued and developed in time<br />
for the next phase at secondary school,<br />
where children will finally specialise.<br />
Is staying with a peer group a child<br />
is comfortable with important at this<br />
stage? To feel comfortable and confident<br />
within your peer group is absolutely<br />
critical in a child’s overall development.<br />
A child’s peers are every bit as important<br />
as the greatest teacher in creating<br />
a sense of belonging, empathy and<br />
encouragement. A sense of place and a<br />
sense of purpose is instilled in us all at a<br />
very young age by our childhood peers.<br />
Of course, the term comfortable<br />
can have an ulterior meaning and<br />
this is where a stimulating learning<br />
environment and high expectations will<br />
support each child to grow and reach<br />
their potential.<br />
Vinehall School, Robertsbridge, East<br />
Sussex 01580 880413 vinehallschool.com<br />
The New Beacon<br />
Mike Piercy, Headmaster<br />
What do parents need to consider<br />
when choosing a prep school?<br />
Research is key and a great deal<br />
can be discovered through schools’<br />
websites. Unsurprisingly, many<br />
schools appear to have similar aims<br />
and it can be difficult to differentiate<br />
– the ‘news’ pages can be revealing:<br />
what achievements does the school<br />
celebrate? <strong>Education</strong>, however, is a<br />
human business: talk to trusted friends<br />
and family to discover personal stories.<br />
Consider also single-sex or<br />
co-education. Boys learn in a very<br />
different way to girls and, particularly at<br />
prep school age, they will often develop<br />
better learning habits at an earlier stage<br />
in an all boys’ environment – but you<br />
would expect me to say that as Head of a<br />
boys’ school! The proviso is that pastoral<br />
care must pay equal attention to the<br />
gentle and sensitive boy as to the lively<br />
and ebullient.<br />
Should they ask about which<br />
secondary schools the prep school<br />
feeds up to? Yes, absolutely! A good<br />
indicator is a wide range of destination<br />
schools which suggests a bespoke<br />
approach, tailored to the individual<br />
child. The range of schools should be in<br />
keeping with your aspirations for your<br />
child – but beware of aspirations which<br />
may be too ambitious.<br />
Should parents be looking for a<br />
school that plays to their child’s<br />
strengths at this stage? A prep school<br />
is, by definition, ‘preparatory’. There<br />
should be a wide range of opportunity<br />
on offer from the academic to the<br />
co-curriculum, to the arts, performing<br />
arts and sport. If at an early stage your<br />
child shows leanings and talents in a<br />
particular direction then some prep<br />
schools do have specialisms – but beware<br />
of narrowing your child’s opportunities<br />
at too early an age.<br />
There is a temptation to live out our<br />
own ambitions through our children, but<br />
my advice would be to provide breadth<br />
of opportunity at this early stage coupled<br />
with a school’s willingness to support the<br />
pursuit of excellence in any given field.<br />
Is staying with a peer group a child<br />
is comfortable with important at<br />
this stage? Friends are important to<br />
children – they provide comfort and<br />
security – but they should not be<br />
the determining factor in choosing or<br />
changing schools. At The New Beacon<br />
in Key Stage 1 we ‘shuffle’ classes<br />
almost every year to enhance social<br />
development and in response to varying<br />
levels of maturity and development.<br />
Children are more resilient and adaptable<br />
than we, as parents, may think. There is, of<br />
course, socialisation in the classroom but<br />
it is by definition a place for learning and<br />
playtime is primarily for friends.<br />
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Poetry please<br />
we are thrilled to share the winners of<br />
our poetry competition, judged by awardwinning<br />
children’s author Sally Gardner<br />
one word sums up our response<br />
to the entries to our first<br />
poetry competition: wow!<br />
and not only because the pile of entries<br />
when printed out and gathered together<br />
was an astonishing 10cms high – the<br />
sheer quality and variety of the poems<br />
submitted was so exciting.<br />
editor, Maggie alderson read them<br />
all and narrowed it down to a short list<br />
of 35, which she and sally gardner read<br />
together, agreeing on the winners with<br />
not a single moment of disagreement.<br />
the original plan was to have a<br />
winner and two runners up in each age<br />
group, but so many of the entries didn’t<br />
have the age, or year group written on<br />
them that proved a little tricky.<br />
instead we decided to have a winner<br />
in each age group (who will each<br />
receive a £20 book token) and three<br />
non-age specific runners up. and in<br />
an exciting new development – sally<br />
was so impressed by one of the poems<br />
she decided to create a special award<br />
just for it. so congratulations to roshy<br />
orr, who is the winner of the sally<br />
gardner poetry prize. sally said: ‘this<br />
poem is well over the years of the writer,<br />
it’s quite astounding. this is clearly<br />
someone who reads, they love language<br />
and had a real feel for their brief. i’m<br />
sure i will run into roshy on the literary<br />
circuit in the future.’<br />
please note we have left all the<br />
spellings and punctuations as they<br />
appeared in the original entries. we are<br />
also showing some of the lovely poems<br />
we received with illustrations, which<br />
were greatly appreciated.<br />
<strong>Summer</strong> Poem by Roshy Orr<br />
year 7, The lady eleanor holles School<br />
we left the garden fat with summer’s growth<br />
left behind the still, parched air thick with smoke<br />
from next door’s pit<br />
scorched flatbreads, garlicky baba ghanoush<br />
and morsels of piping hot fatty lamb<br />
and plunged towards the coast<br />
seeking air that is heady with ozone and salt<br />
rock pools glinting with spangled light<br />
toes exploring crevices in the rock<br />
where winkles may be hid.<br />
Fringes of seaweed tickle my soft undersoles,<br />
so i wade deeper wanting to sink into the silty sand,<br />
splash my sun-charred flesh in the cool green water.<br />
swaying in the pool i hear the guttural yaw of the engine first,<br />
peering up into the blue bowl of sky<br />
i see a tiny plane carving the air,<br />
pirouetting, streaming headlong<br />
in spirals and arabesques,<br />
leaving a looping, white contrail<br />
in his wake;<br />
i follow his every move in wonder<br />
he skims the rim of the sky,<br />
arches back impossibly and nosedives<br />
pell-mell towards our placid sea<br />
pulling up wildly just before the two<br />
elements crash.<br />
i see this matchbox plane of finespun metal,<br />
a platinum gleam in the summer sun<br />
spun by this pilot, across the skies<br />
in a dangerous wonderful web,<br />
for nothing more than our own momentary<br />
revelling in a wonder that is a summers day.<br />
saLLY<br />
gardNer<br />
award
wiNNer<br />
10 to 13<br />
age group<br />
The Persistence of the Sea<br />
by Benjy Day<br />
age 10, banstead Preparatory School<br />
the persistence of the sea is when<br />
the waves advance and dissolve your castle<br />
it draws near and eats away your tent<br />
it detains a life to keep it company.<br />
the persistence of the wind is when<br />
it whisks away your umbrella<br />
it bites your nerves and makes you yield<br />
it loosens the nails for your marquee.<br />
the persistence of the children is when<br />
they try in vain to net a fish<br />
they try to raise a floundering crab<br />
they desperately try to unbolt a clam.<br />
SallY Said: ‘there are<br />
no clichés, or “like a” in<br />
this poem, he uses “is”,<br />
which is so much stronger.<br />
the last line alone was<br />
enough to win. benjy also<br />
has very nice writing.’<br />
ruNNers<br />
up<br />
Honor Goodman, Vinehall<br />
dry ground,<br />
green trees,<br />
bird sound,<br />
summer breeze.<br />
hot sun,<br />
boiling sand,<br />
summer’s come,<br />
take my hand.<br />
the sky is blue,<br />
but it won’t be long,<br />
till summer’s through<br />
then it’s gone.<br />
it’s getting cold,<br />
we’re saying goodbye,<br />
summer’s sold,<br />
No longer dry.<br />
SallY Said: ‘this is very concise and deceptively simple.<br />
it’s much harder to write less and honor has done that – and<br />
covered the whole arc of the summer season.’<br />
Hollie-Mae Olwant,<br />
age 10, Skippers hill manor Prep<br />
i adore summer because……<br />
Classes are over and there is no more school,<br />
holidays and bbQs are loads of cool fun,<br />
relaxing and playing under the hot baking sun,<br />
wiNNer<br />
5 to 9<br />
age group<br />
Zac bengtsson<br />
cobham international School<br />
the sun shines bright<br />
in the bright daylight.<br />
if you lie in the sun<br />
it will really be fun,<br />
then you swim in the pool<br />
while you’re cool.<br />
if you’re wet<br />
You’ll probably want to sweat!<br />
super<br />
unstopable<br />
Magnifasent<br />
enchanted<br />
radicale<br />
i love summer because ……<br />
we bring out the tent ready to camp,<br />
Not forgetting the tables chairs and the lamp,<br />
we dust off the stove ready to cook,<br />
and i power my torch to read my new book,<br />
i like summer because……<br />
when the sun is hot we go down to the sea,<br />
and my dad buys an ice cream just for me,<br />
i like when it melts and drops onto my hands,<br />
and slips around my fingers onto the sands,<br />
i don’t like summer because……<br />
i get hot and bothered lying in bed,<br />
i keep turning my pillow to cool my head,<br />
and the nights are so light they keep me awake.<br />
oh please, please let me sleep for goodness sake!<br />
i hate summer because ……<br />
the mosquito army come out to attack,<br />
and they bite my legs, my feet and my back,<br />
as i rub on the lotion to keep the bites cool,<br />
i remember it will soon be over and it’s back to school.<br />
SallY Said: ‘hollie-Mae has used a very interesting and<br />
original structure in her poem, with a classic rhyme scheme,<br />
which really makes it stand out.’<br />
SallY Said: ‘this<br />
poem has real oomph<br />
that i like. he’s a player<br />
with language, rare in<br />
one so young. i think<br />
he could be a really<br />
good rapper.’<br />
Amal, 2b cobham international School<br />
in summer, flowers bloom.<br />
in summer, no one is gloom.<br />
in summer, winds blow.<br />
in summer, i glow.<br />
SallY Said: ‘amal’s poem is a tiny little gem.<br />
it’s very simple, but conveys a lot.’
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School of<br />
roCK!<br />
Violins and flutes are all very well, but a great way to engage a<br />
wider swathe of young people with music is to allow them to<br />
play the style they most identify with
An interview with<br />
siMpLy GLEB<br />
Claremont Senior School<br />
what better way<br />
to appeal to teenagers than<br />
give them the freedom to express themselves<br />
through rock instruments? it helps them to experience<br />
and appreciate the art of performance, collaboration,<br />
sharing creative ideas then trying them out to see what<br />
happens. Quite often, these initial musical experiences<br />
inspire students to delve deeper into other genres.<br />
all pupils here have access to the electric/acoustic guitars,<br />
amps, basses, keyboard and acoustic/electric drum kits<br />
and Claremont senior school students have always banded<br />
together to play music with each another and regularly<br />
‘rock’ the performance stage in the space theatre.<br />
at the Compassion talent show in March this<br />
year one notable band, simply gleb, formed by<br />
russian student, gleb buchnev, covered rage<br />
against the Machine’s Killing in the Name with the<br />
help of students Jack Lofting, tom o’brien hughes<br />
and performing arts assistant, harry Mousley.<br />
gleb filled the stage with his infectious rock ‘n’ roll spirit,<br />
unleashing his mane of hair and teenage angst in front of<br />
a mesmerized audience of parents and fellow students.<br />
the performance began with the band playing the intro<br />
before gleb stood up at the back of the audience, belted out<br />
the first line of the song, then proceeded to march through<br />
the theatre telling everyone ‘you do what they told yah’.<br />
also performing that night was the Jam Club. this<br />
popular club incorporates many different musicians,<br />
songs and instruments including brass, drums, guitar,<br />
piano and more. the Jam Club covered amy winehouse’s<br />
Valerie, Expectations by Lauren and paolo Nutini’s Iron<br />
Sky, with a different lead vocalist performing each one.<br />
this club allows students to better understand<br />
collaboration in music and their performance at<br />
the Compassion talent show echoed this.<br />
Jack, drums; Tom, guitar;<br />
Gleb, vocals guitar, bass and drums<br />
how did the band form? we were helping out a mate<br />
(gleb), who wanted to play some songs as it was his<br />
last year at Claremont, then it turned into something<br />
much more, and watching the audience reaction<br />
just added to our enjoyment and performance.<br />
What music do you play? rock/rap music.<br />
do you write your own songs? gleb does, however<br />
they are more on the rap side than rock music.<br />
What music do you like? gleb: rock music, rap<br />
music, russian music mostly. Tom: i enjoy all sorts of<br />
music from 80’s rap to hard rock. Jack: any music.<br />
Who are your rock and pop idols? Tom: i really look<br />
up to and admire Led Zeppelin, the guitarist Jimmy<br />
page is an icon who keeps surprising with his riffs.<br />
Jack: Jimi hendrix and roger taylor from<br />
Queen, because he’s a sick drummer.<br />
gleb: other than my russian idols, i am<br />
inspired by kurt Cobain, bon Jovi and Mr<br />
Mousley our performing arts assistant.<br />
does being in the band give you cred with the<br />
other kids? gleb (agreeing before the question<br />
was even finished): Yes it does and it feels great<br />
being complimented at the end of a performance,<br />
particularly after all the hard work that goes into it.<br />
Claremont senior school, hastings, east sussex<br />
01424 751555 claremontschool.co.uk
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An interview with<br />
MAniC<br />
Dulwich Prep Cranbrook<br />
Clemency Whiting, Head of Music<br />
pupils can learn<br />
almost any instrument at<br />
dulwich, with a team of twenty visiting music<br />
teachers, many of whom are professional players themselves.<br />
our rock school formed about two years ago and<br />
since then it has grown with popularity. we have<br />
three bands made up of pupils largely in Years 7 and<br />
8, but pupils as young as 9 or 10 are now forming<br />
their own bands, often with the guidance of the<br />
senior pupils, which is wonderful to see. one of our<br />
bands is called Manic, the others are still deciding!<br />
in February we had our first rock school Concert<br />
in aid of the sam west Foundation* and this<br />
summer rock school will perform at our summer<br />
Concert, the Friends of dulwich summer Fair,<br />
and at the woodlands Festival in hawkhurst.<br />
it is only a matter of time before some of them go<br />
on to form proper bands. when we see our pupils<br />
perform, it is hard to believe how young they are.<br />
we have one pupil, twinkle (an excellent rock ‘n’<br />
roll name), who sounds like the next adele.<br />
Charlie andrew, brit award-winning producer<br />
of alt J, is a famous former dulwich pupil, and it<br />
is only a matter of time before we have more.<br />
our music department values all types of music and<br />
this is certainly an avenue for children who prefer rock<br />
and pop. however, we often find that our best rockers are<br />
also top players in our orchestra. For example, we have an<br />
excellent guitarist who is also an incredible bassoonist.<br />
if you have a love and enjoyment of music, it is<br />
natural to explore different genres and get involved.<br />
in this way, our pupils get a truly rounded experience<br />
of what music can offer, shaping their curiosity for all<br />
types of music as they move into their later teens.<br />
dulwich prep Cranbrook, kent 01580 712179<br />
dulwichprepcranbrook.org<br />
Twinkle, vocals; Henry, drums; Elliot, keyboard;<br />
Alex, electric guitar; Zane, electric guitar<br />
elliot: in my very first week at dulwich our<br />
teacher realised i played the keyboard and invited<br />
me to meet the others, it was so great.<br />
we are like a big family, it is such good fun.<br />
so far Manic have performed Born to Be Wild<br />
and The Best of You by the Foo Fighters. we are<br />
now working on a new song that twinkle has<br />
written, inspired by sam smith’s Stay with Me.<br />
we like a wide variety of music, twinkle listens to<br />
60’s music, i like guns & roses and aCdC.<br />
after our concert, loads of people came up<br />
to us and said we were amazing. it made us<br />
feel really proud and more determined.<br />
*the Sam West Foundation has been set up by the family<br />
of Sam West, a cranbrook student who took his own life,<br />
after suffering depression. the charity’s mission is to help<br />
people find the appropriate resources to improve their<br />
mental health and wellbeing. samwestfoundation.org
Hurst College<br />
Will Carroll, Head of Music Technology<br />
pupils can learn guitar, vocals,<br />
drums, keyboards, you name it, taught by<br />
college music teachers and visiting teachers.<br />
it attracts children who might be put off by the<br />
idea of classical music to learn an instrument.<br />
everyone likes the idea of being a rock star.<br />
we have a band in each year group which generally<br />
stay together throughout their time at school. the<br />
hurst rockers is our main uVi (upper sixth) band.<br />
there are a minimum of three concerts each<br />
year at the college with others outside school also.<br />
Many of our bands stay together after school and<br />
perform throughout university and onwards.<br />
pupils are encouraged to try every style of music<br />
so they are welcome to play in rock bands as well<br />
as the jazz band or the school orchestra.<br />
hurst College, hassocks,<br />
west sussex 01273 833636 hppc.co.uk<br />
An interview with<br />
ThirTyfourspoons<br />
Thomas Bettle, Year 13<br />
i am on guitar and vocals. playing in bands at school<br />
is really fun – making your own songs and playing in<br />
concerts at various locations inside and outside school.<br />
we are all friends who play instruments in the<br />
same year group. we got together and started<br />
writing and performing music. we play pop/<br />
rock/progressive and we write our own songs.<br />
i like a wide variety of music, including<br />
Jimi hendrix, david bowie, the who,<br />
the specials and stevie wonder. My friends<br />
like coming to see me perform.<br />
An interview with<br />
ThE rEMoVE<br />
Fin di Castiglione, Year 10<br />
i really love playing music with other people<br />
in my band, and even though i didn’t enjoy<br />
it at first, i now really like performing.<br />
we’re just a group of friends who all play music and<br />
love to do it, so naturally we formed a band, and now<br />
we practise every week and we’re getting pretty good!<br />
we play a bit of everything – some rock, some<br />
pop, a mix really. we don’t write our own songs<br />
yet, but we’ll probably start soon. i’m not a huge<br />
fan of pop – i like more rock/indie rock type<br />
music e.g. guns n roses, green day, oasis etc.<br />
My friends think it’s cool that i’m good at guitar and<br />
singing, and when i have my guitar in college, they get<br />
me to play songs at break time.<br />
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Mike Piercy, Headmaster<br />
How involved should the child be in the<br />
choice of upper school? Involved yes, but<br />
not the ultimate decision-maker. Often,<br />
a child will be influenced by where<br />
his/her friends are going, which again<br />
should not be the determining factor.<br />
The change to senior school brings<br />
children together from different social<br />
and educational backgrounds – social<br />
development going hand in hand<br />
with academic development.<br />
If you are thinking of 13+ transfer, it is<br />
good to take your child on a tour of two<br />
or three short-listed, achievable schools to<br />
give a sense of ambition, probably around<br />
Year 5 or 6 (10 or 11 years of age).<br />
How can parents best support their<br />
child as they progress from prep<br />
school to senior school? In truth,<br />
this is as much the school’s job as<br />
the parents’ responsibility. A 13+<br />
school should engender confidence,<br />
resilience and independence; the<br />
ability to ask for help when needed.<br />
When the child rises to Year 8 the<br />
best help at home will be supporting<br />
and encouraging him/her to learn to take<br />
responsibility for belongings, equipment<br />
(the right things to school on the right<br />
day), managing workload and homework.<br />
These are independent work habits which<br />
will serve well in Year 9 at ‘big school’.<br />
What signs should parents look out for<br />
that indicate their child is not happy at<br />
their new school? Look out for changes<br />
in behaviour while keeping firmly in mind<br />
the adolescent hormones pinging around<br />
indiscriminately and inexplicably. Grunts<br />
and silences are common!<br />
At pick-up or in the evening, review<br />
the day but focus on and encourage<br />
the positives while listening out for the<br />
negatives. Is a new social life emerging:<br />
asking friends round, going to their<br />
houses, meeting in town? Above all,<br />
be patient. Some children, naturally<br />
gregarious, will make friends quickly. For<br />
many, however, it will take time.<br />
Who should parents speak to if<br />
they are concerned their child isn’t<br />
flourishing academically? All schools<br />
have different systems but it should<br />
be made very clear to you who is the<br />
direct contact, the teacher looking<br />
after your child’s social and academic<br />
welfare. Send an email initially, perhaps,<br />
asking for feedback on the teacher’s/<br />
tutor’s impressions and reporting what<br />
you are seeing at home – or what<br />
is worrying you. Good schools will<br />
respond quickly – but don’t expect<br />
an immediate, daytime response as<br />
the teacher is most likely teaching.<br />
Thereafter, regular review and<br />
contact if your worries are not assuaged,<br />
with the school suggesting and<br />
implementing strategies for support.<br />
How much notice should parents<br />
take of their child’s friendship group<br />
at this stage? Friends are important<br />
but do remember they will be chosen<br />
by the child and not by the parents! It<br />
is advisable however to take careful<br />
notice of (and good to get to know)<br />
your child’s friends. Encourage them to<br />
“Good schools will provide regular feedback on their<br />
pupils’ performance, welfare and personal development”<br />
visit your home, after school, weekends,<br />
sleepovers, holidays and you will soon get<br />
a measure of an emerging social group.<br />
Getting to know their parents is always<br />
helpful and can also develop your own<br />
social group. Teenagers are exposed to<br />
temptations at ever younger ages; peer<br />
pressure can be difficult to resist and few<br />
have the emotional maturity to gauge risk<br />
with accuracy – trusting communications<br />
with fellow parents can be invaluable.<br />
How can parents support their child<br />
with academic work at this stage? Or<br />
should they leave the school to it? Good<br />
schools will provide regular feedback<br />
on their pupils’ performance, welfare<br />
and personal development. Many will<br />
provide easy access to assessment scores<br />
through online portals which give a good<br />
indication of progress and achievement.<br />
Careful (preferably discreet)<br />
monitoring at home will indicate<br />
whether due time and attention is<br />
being given to homework. ‘Discreet’,<br />
because communication is as<br />
much about listening as it is about<br />
talking. Adolescents need cautious<br />
care: too much pressure and they will<br />
cease to communicate entirely!<br />
Children’s progress, both<br />
academic and social, is not a straight<br />
line graph: there will be periods of<br />
acceleration and deceleration, lumps,<br />
bumps and plateaux. Every child<br />
is different and there are generally<br />
differences between the genders.<br />
Our policy at The New Beacon is<br />
to say that we will contact the parent<br />
if we are concerned and equally, we<br />
invite parents to contact us if they have<br />
concerns at home. In the latter case,<br />
our response is often simply to provide<br />
reassurance. The key is a strong, mutually<br />
supportive relationship with the school.<br />
The New Beacon School, Sevenoaks,<br />
Kent 01732 452131 newbeacon.org.uk<br />
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WHITGIFT<br />
OPEN MORNING<br />
21 SEPTEMBER <strong>2019</strong><br />
Sir William Perkins School<br />
Amanda Stebbings, Head of Year 7<br />
Choosing a senior ‘big’ school in the independent<br />
education system is much like buying a house. It is<br />
a huge investment and, whilst the spec might look<br />
perfect for your child, if it doesn’t have the right<br />
feel, like a house, you are unlikely to buy it. After<br />
all, assuming your child will make the most of the<br />
vast array of co-curricular activities on offer, this will<br />
become their second home for the best part of seven<br />
years of their life.<br />
So, how involved should your child be in the<br />
decision? Very, is the answer. Your child is the one<br />
who is going to be taking up residence, so needs to feel<br />
comfortable and at home.<br />
At the very least, looking around and signing up for<br />
any pre-joining activities which may be on offer, i.e.<br />
Year 4 workshops or Year 5 taster days is a good idea.<br />
Once the choice has been made, do not be a stranger,<br />
keep visiting and attending any appropriate events<br />
which allow your child to feel part of the community<br />
before their arrival.<br />
When the big day comes and they are standing<br />
for the obligatory photo in their new uniform, try to<br />
put your own nerves to one side. Experience teaches<br />
us that the moment they enter the gates is far more<br />
traumatic for parents than the children. Suddenly they<br />
are independent, they will probably be using different<br />
transport and their journey may well be longer.<br />
Friendships will morph endlessly in the first three<br />
years of secondary school and guidance should always<br />
trump interference. Encourage them to have a wide<br />
friendship group; getting involved in a variety of<br />
different clubs is a good way to make lots of new<br />
friends with similar interests.<br />
Homework will probably increase from what your<br />
child is used to and it is advisable to take an interest<br />
in what they are doing. It will probably be vastly more<br />
varied than your own experience of homework!<br />
If in any doubt, contact the Form Tutor who will<br />
have an overview of how your child is getting on both<br />
socially and academically.<br />
Sir William Perkins School, Chertsey, Surrey<br />
01932 574900 swps.org.uk<br />
Whitgift is one of Britain’s finest independent day<br />
and boarding schools for boys aged 10 to 18.<br />
Set in 45 acres of parkland, we offer pathways for<br />
IB and A Levels plus a Section Française.<br />
Generous bursaries and scholarships are available.<br />
Join us at our Open Morning on 21 September to find<br />
out more about our inspiring school community.<br />
admissions@whitgift.co.uk<br />
+44 (0)20 8633 9935<br />
www.whitgift.co.uk/opendays<br />
Whitgift School<br />
Haling Park | South Croydon | CR2 6YT<br />
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Meet the matrons<br />
(or house parents as they are now called)<br />
Boarding can be a wonderful experience, producing independent young people,<br />
ready to go out into the world – but the prospect can be daunting, so who better<br />
to ask for advice about it than matron? (sorry, house parent)<br />
Battle Abbey<br />
Sara Walkley, Matron<br />
Ihave been a matron at Battle Abbey<br />
since 1995. My mother was a matron<br />
here and she loved the environment and<br />
her work, so when a position became<br />
available I applied.<br />
A matron needs a good mix of<br />
kindness, empathy, patience and<br />
understanding – and being able<br />
to provide a compassionate ear is<br />
as important as any one quality. A<br />
reasonable level of diplomacy and tact<br />
is also very useful. You also need to<br />
be able to maintain discipline in the<br />
boarding house so it’s essential to be<br />
able to switch on a more authoritarian<br />
side when necessary.<br />
I’m on the evening rota so after a<br />
handover with day staff I go to supper<br />
and supervise boarders’ prep time. I’ll<br />
spend some dedicated time chatting to<br />
pupils on my mentor list or who may<br />
need help. I’ll start supervising younger<br />
pupil’s bedtimes, then turn lights out in<br />
dormitories at the relevant times.<br />
To get a child emotionally ready for<br />
boarding we advise parents to talk about<br />
it in a positive way in the run up to<br />
their child’s departure. Explain to the<br />
child that there may be rough days, but<br />
there will always be people on hand to<br />
help. It’s important to encourage a child<br />
to be open about their feelings about<br />
going away from home.<br />
The main issue will always be<br />
homesickness and we work hard over<br />
the boarding induction process and<br />
the first few weeks to try to limit any<br />
isolation boarding pupils might be<br />
feeling and make sure the separate<br />
Matron Sara Walkley<br />
with boarder Prokop Spanel<br />
nationalities socialize together.<br />
Matrons need to spend time with new<br />
boarders, offer reassurance, encourage<br />
them to make friends and team them<br />
with a boarding buddy if necessary.<br />
We also assist with team building and<br />
boarding social activities.<br />
In the many years I’ve been at Battle<br />
Abbey there’s only been a couple of<br />
children who haven’t settled. Most<br />
former students we talk to have great<br />
memories of their boarding life at Battle<br />
Abbey School. Young people who board<br />
at school learn how to live in a large<br />
community with different individuals<br />
and cultures. It’s the global village<br />
in microcosm! They learn how to be<br />
independent and amass an array of life<br />
skills that stand them in great stead for<br />
university and adult life in general.<br />
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Prokop Spanel<br />
A termly boarder, Year 10<br />
I was eleven years old when<br />
I came to Battle Abbey. I’m<br />
from the Czech Republic and<br />
it was a tough adjustment at<br />
first, coming from a different<br />
background and entering a<br />
new culture.<br />
I thought adjusting to<br />
another culture and language<br />
would be a challenge,<br />
especially at such a young<br />
age, but everyone was<br />
welcoming and helpful<br />
through my journey of<br />
settling in.<br />
The time it takes to<br />
settle in is definitely<br />
something a child should<br />
be aware of before coming<br />
to a boarding school.<br />
There are several things<br />
that I like and enjoy about<br />
boarding but one that stands<br />
out for me is the way it<br />
improves my organisation by<br />
structuring the day better.<br />
I feel this is a crucial part<br />
of growing up for anyone<br />
who wants to be successful<br />
at school. At home it’s very<br />
difficult for me to achieve<br />
the same level of organisation<br />
and structure.<br />
I also like the fact that I<br />
meet people from different<br />
backgrounds and I learn<br />
things I would never learn,<br />
speak to people I wouldn’t<br />
otherwise speak to and get<br />
out of my comfort zone.<br />
There are certain people that<br />
I’m glad I met and if it wasn’t<br />
for boarding, I don’t think I<br />
would’ve done.<br />
Everything has its<br />
advantages and disadvantages,<br />
but I feel boarding has made<br />
me a better person by making<br />
me deal with these things, as<br />
I think it is an important part<br />
of becoming independent<br />
and growing up.<br />
Battle Abbey School, Battle,<br />
East Sussex 01424 772385<br />
battleabbeyschool.com<br />
Frewen College<br />
Boarding team: Sarah Medcraft (Head of Boarding)<br />
Hannah Lewis and Ben Swinson<br />
Being a houseparent is a way of<br />
life rather than just a job. It’s<br />
being a ‘mum away from Mum’<br />
and creating a caring community<br />
which nurtures, encourages<br />
and provides boundaries for<br />
students of different ages, from<br />
different cultures and with different<br />
needs and expectations.<br />
Each day there is a basic routine<br />
which involves making sure the<br />
boarders get to school on time,<br />
prepared for the day ahead. Later<br />
we have an evening meal, followed<br />
by homework club and then we<br />
run a choice of activities such as<br />
cricket, baking, rounders, crafts,<br />
volleyball, music and gym. Outside of<br />
that, anything can happen! House<br />
parents need lots of patience, a sense<br />
of humour, warmth and kindness. It’s<br />
important to be a good role model and<br />
to encourage children to find the best<br />
in themselves.<br />
Boarding is a big change and helping<br />
your child in advance to develop some<br />
independent life skills, such as being<br />
able to change their sheets and load a<br />
dishwasher can help prepare them for<br />
boarding.<br />
If they have never slept away from<br />
home arrange sleepovers with friends<br />
or family. Talk about any worries and<br />
reassure them that they will have support.<br />
If possible, meet with boarding staff<br />
before they come so a child gains a sense<br />
of collaboration around their wellbeing.<br />
First time boarding can be daunting<br />
and feeling lost and unsure what to do<br />
can add to being unsettled. Allocating<br />
a house buddy helps as they’ve<br />
almost certainly experienced the same<br />
feelings. Keeping them busy and having<br />
fun helps, as well as clear routines.<br />
Our boarding team will talk with the<br />
student and their family to enquire how<br />
things are going. Most students settle in,<br />
although some take longer than others.<br />
It’s important to let them give it a fair<br />
go and avoid rushing into decisions.<br />
Boarders develop a real sense of<br />
independence and team spirit. They get<br />
a well-rounded holistic education and<br />
experience personal growth. They make<br />
friends for life and great memories.<br />
We love what we do and hearing from<br />
students years later who remember things<br />
you did to support them makes even<br />
the most challenging days worth while.<br />
A Frewen full-time boarder<br />
I was 14 years old when I started boarding. It took a month or two to settle in and<br />
sometimes I did get homesick. It was good that I had an instant connection with<br />
my roommate and the supportive boarding staff really helped too. There is a really<br />
nice atmosphere and it’s is a relatively small boarding house so that helped.<br />
It feels homely – a real home away from home. There is routine with an element<br />
of freedom to make some choices, and my own space and time. There is a good<br />
variety of weekend activities. I like the respect between staff and peers and the<br />
sense of community.<br />
Frewen College, Northiam, East Sussex 01797 252494 frewencollege.co.uk<br />
Head of Boarding<br />
Sarah Medcraft,<br />
with boarders<br />
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Dulwich Prep Cranbrook<br />
Kate Montgomery, Senior Housemistress<br />
Amatron is a ‘Super Mum’, being a boarder each day what they are doing<br />
mum to the boarders in her charge, and where to go. Each boarding house<br />
organising and preparing all the things a has its own noise and smell, something<br />
mum does, but on a much larger scale. to adjust to... but it all comes with time.<br />
You wake the boarders at 7am with a All children will get there in the end,<br />
smile (and occasionally a song!) and carry some just take longer to settle than<br />
on until after all the boarders are in bed. others. My best example is a boy who<br />
I came to the career after studying cried every morning while his parents<br />
Child Care & Management, then I were living aboard, but when he returned<br />
joined a prep school from there. after Christmas he just stopped crying.<br />
A matron needs to have stamina, By then I had another new boy and<br />
so you can just keep going and work he started crying every morning... so<br />
outside the normal nine to five. You need I asked the first boy to look after him<br />
patience, and lots of it, laughter and an and, after a week of chatting as to how<br />
ear to listen to concerns. When boarders things would improve, I had two very<br />
think they are getting up to mischief, you happy boarders who both went on to<br />
might as well be wearing a T shirt saying Tonbridge as full boarders. I still see<br />
“been there, seen that before” on it… them and we joke about it now.<br />
Parents of new boarders should<br />
What kids get from boarding is<br />
prepare their kids by always talking amazing experience in managing<br />
about boarding in a positive way, never oneself. You can always spot the boarder<br />
saying “well if you don’t like it, you can on a residential trip, they are neat,<br />
come home”. Help them learn practical organised, know to get up, get dressed,<br />
tasks, such as how to change a bed, shower, make their bed etc. There is<br />
clean their shoes, pack an overnight an air about a child who can cope and<br />
bag and make lists of things to do. manage day-to-day life without a parent<br />
Then make packing for boarding standing by. Parents have such busy<br />
fun. Choose a day to shop together for lives now, so it is helpful if a child can<br />
boarding essentials, such bedding, towels, deal with simple day-to-day concerns.<br />
toiletries, underwear, pyjamas, casual Boarders are encouraged to help<br />
clothes and stationery and get the child during mealtimes in the dining<br />
to help with name taping all items. room, wash up the items they<br />
For many kids who are starting, a use in the boarding house and<br />
problem is not knowing where to be at to keep their dorms tidy.<br />
the right time. Schools can be a large Above all they learn to think about<br />
place and it’s so easy to get lost when it others and be part of a wider boarding<br />
appears that everyone else knows where family. This helps hugely with their<br />
to go and what to do. Matrons can be confidence and the way they interact with<br />
in the background gently reminding a other people for the rest of their lives.<br />
This page: Matrons<br />
preparing the dorms<br />
and a knitting lesson<br />
Freddie,<br />
A termly boarder in Year 7<br />
I started in Year 4, when I was 8.<br />
I gradually built up my boarding<br />
experience from one night per<br />
week, to two nights and so on, over<br />
a course of a year, so it only took<br />
me a short while to settle and did<br />
not miss my parents too much.<br />
My parents emailed me often so<br />
I felt in touch with my family. I<br />
also loved receiving letters – when<br />
you are boarding it’s very exciting<br />
to receive post, and sometimes<br />
the letters contained treats!<br />
The matrons were brilliant when<br />
I started and really helped me feel at<br />
home. I feel I can ask the matrons<br />
anything. They are always jolly.<br />
I love the nice cosy dorms,<br />
the huge variety of food and<br />
all the activities we do each<br />
night. I loved learning to knit.<br />
I also enjoy looking after and<br />
helping the younger boarders<br />
who are just starting out.<br />
There is a wonderful boarding<br />
community in the school. There<br />
are lots of games in the house<br />
to play with friends on winter<br />
evenings, a pool table, table<br />
football table and table tennis.<br />
I am going to be a full boarder<br />
at my senior school and feel<br />
my boarding at Dulwich will<br />
stand me in good stead.<br />
Dulwich Prep Cranbrook,<br />
Kent 01580 712179<br />
dulwichprepcranbrook.org<br />
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SATURDAY 21 September
Gordon’s School<br />
Daniel and Gemma Aukett,<br />
House Parents<br />
As house parents, primarily, we<br />
perform two roles – pastoral<br />
and academic support. In a pastoral<br />
sense, we look after every aspect of a<br />
student’s wellbeing when they are in<br />
our care. This can be as wide ranging<br />
as helping them find their socks in<br />
laundry, to assisting them with settling<br />
into life as a boarder, or helping them<br />
deal with peer relationship issues.<br />
From an academic perspective our<br />
role is to support them when they are<br />
not in lessons, liaising with teachers to<br />
understand where students might need<br />
extra support and whether through extra<br />
revision sessions, or in-house support<br />
to improve their time management.<br />
To help children to settle into<br />
boarding quickly, parents should visit the<br />
boarding environment before arriving.<br />
The more familiar they become with<br />
their surroundings the better they will be<br />
able to adapt, so attend any orientation<br />
days that the school may offer.<br />
Understandably, students often<br />
suffer with homesickness in the first<br />
few weeks of boarding. One thing that<br />
worked really well in the boarding<br />
house at the beginning of the year was<br />
reading to the Year 7 dormitory at bed<br />
time. They really enjoyed hearing the<br />
amazing stories of Roald Dahl and it<br />
helped take their minds off any concerns<br />
and settle in to their new lives.<br />
David and Angela Mathews,<br />
House Parents<br />
We look after 90 girls in a<br />
residential and day boarding<br />
house. We are also teachers and<br />
parents of our own two young<br />
children, plus a tortoise and cats.<br />
Running a school boarding house<br />
is very much a family affair as our<br />
children love being with the girls.<br />
Girls start boarding either weekly<br />
or termly from the age of 11 and are<br />
immersed in fun events to occupy them<br />
and keep homesickness to a minimum.<br />
They are all assigned a ‘buddy’<br />
who acts as a mentor to help and<br />
support them while they get used<br />
to being away from home.<br />
While the hours are long, the<br />
thrill of seeing the girls succeed both<br />
academically and in inter-house<br />
activities is very rewarding. Watching<br />
the girls develop and grow to be lovely<br />
young ladies is a real highlight.<br />
Gordon’s School, Woking, Surrey<br />
01276 858084<br />
gordons.school<br />
Noah Sempala-Ntege, 17<br />
A full-time boarder<br />
I’m about to start my sixth<br />
year boarding at Gordon’s. I<br />
arrived aged 11, the first of four<br />
siblings to attend the school.<br />
My dad is in the Army so had<br />
the potential to move around<br />
so I boarded from Year 7.<br />
It was quite hard at first,<br />
getting used to being away from<br />
home but my house parents did<br />
lots of bonding things which<br />
made it easier. They put on lots of<br />
weekend activities. On Saturday<br />
evenings we have treats – a<br />
movie night with cheesy bread!<br />
My house parents were always<br />
there when I needed them.<br />
When in Year 9, my Dad went<br />
to Iraq, it was really nice having<br />
my house parents. I could<br />
openly speak to them about it<br />
and they would reassure me.<br />
We boarders have such a close<br />
bond. When you are boarding<br />
you have to learn how everyone<br />
reacts differently to situations<br />
and to respect people and<br />
socialise. I would send my own<br />
children to boarding school<br />
because it helps you develop as<br />
a person. At Gordon’s they urge<br />
you to be the best you can and<br />
give you all the opportunities<br />
to be the best you can.<br />
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GCSEs<br />
Invaluable tips from experienced<br />
teachers for each stage of<br />
education<br />
Claremont Senior School<br />
Claire Martin and Victoria Liggett, Assistant Heads (Teaching and Learning)<br />
This is the most stressful time of<br />
the whole school journey – how can<br />
parents best support their children?<br />
Planning can really help here. During<br />
holiday times, in the run-up and half<br />
term in the middle of exams, make sure<br />
that your child isn’t having to choose<br />
between fun activities and working.<br />
If you can plan the family day<br />
and their social engagements around<br />
providing time for them to revise, it<br />
will make it much easier. Perhaps come<br />
to an agreement that they work in the<br />
mornings, with a prompt start, but the<br />
afternoons are for relaxing.<br />
The run-up to exams is often the worst<br />
time. Discuss that although exams are<br />
important, they are also just a stepping<br />
stone and will soon be over. They need<br />
to do as well as they can, but not at<br />
the expense of their mental or physical<br />
health. Reassure them that doing their<br />
best is what is important to you.<br />
What is the best way for parents to<br />
support kids with revision? Help them<br />
plan a ‘Goldilocks’ revision timetable<br />
“Reassure them<br />
that doing their<br />
best is what is<br />
important to you”<br />
that is realistic in terms of hours – not<br />
too much, not too little, just right. There<br />
isn’t such a thing as a one-size-fits-all<br />
revision timetable and it doesn’t matter<br />
what your child’s friends are doing, it<br />
needs to be right for them.<br />
Make sure they include all their<br />
subjects – not just the ones they like<br />
or the ones they find the hardest. One<br />
good suggestion can be to use their<br />
lesson timetable as a guide to ensure that<br />
subjects are evenly spread. Don’t leave it<br />
too long before revisiting subjects. Try<br />
and rotate them regularly.<br />
Show an interest in what they are<br />
doing, but not so much that they feel<br />
stifled. Maintain the usual routine as<br />
much as possible. What signs should<br />
parents look out for that their child is<br />
dangerously stressed?<br />
Watch out for sleeplessness and lack<br />
of eating, or any major and unexpected<br />
changes in behaviour. A little bit of<br />
stress is to be expected and can be a<br />
good thing as it can often enhance<br />
performance, but it shouldn’t change<br />
who they are and how they behave.<br />
If they cut themselves off from their<br />
friends or you, start refusing to go to<br />
school or exhibit behaviour that’s out<br />
of character, that may be a sign that the<br />
stress has gone beyond ‘useful’ levels.<br />
And what should they do to combat<br />
serious stress? Speak to them if you<br />
can about what their specific worries<br />
are and talk to the school. Make sure<br />
you tell people that you are worried<br />
about your child and find out whether<br />
they are seeing the same behaviour<br />
as you are. The school will be able to<br />
offer advice about what to do next<br />
and if you are seriously concerned<br />
you can always speak to your GP.<br />
How can parents support their child<br />
during the actual exam period?<br />
Late night revision sessions are not<br />
going to help. Try to encourage a<br />
reasonable bedtime. Good nutritious<br />
meals and some time spent outside<br />
away from the revision when possible<br />
is good. Try and encourage them to<br />
go outside to offset the hours they<br />
will spend sitting and studying –<br />
that will help with mood swings.<br />
If they want to talk about how the<br />
exam went, that’s great, but many<br />
won’t want to talk about it at all. Try<br />
to be OK with that! Most importantly,<br />
once the exams have started, everyone<br />
will feel like the end is in sight.<br />
How can parents look after their own<br />
wellbeing at this time – so that they<br />
can best support their child? It can be<br />
a very stressful time for parents. I often<br />
hear from them how powerless, anxious<br />
and sometimes frustrated they can feel at<br />
this time. Try and roll with the punches<br />
and not allow inevitable self-centred<br />
and stressed behaviour get to you too<br />
much – it is only for five weeks. Get<br />
early nights yourself, relax when you can<br />
and, when in doubt, have a glass of wine!<br />
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East Sussex 01580 830396<br />
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Is your child ready to become<br />
a Cyber Attack Agent or an<br />
Algorithm Bias Auditor?<br />
Jeremy Lewis, head of school at aCs egham international school,<br />
looks at ways you can ensure your child is prepared to meet the<br />
challenges of the 21st century workplace<br />
what will today’s children be when they enter<br />
the workplace? with the rapid pace of change<br />
in society and the furious advance of new<br />
technologies, it’s increasingly hard to predict both what and<br />
where new jobs will be.<br />
the world economic Forum estimated that six in ten<br />
children today will have careers that, as yet, simply don’t exist.<br />
and very recently, it firm, Cognizant, created a list citing 21<br />
possible ‘jobs of the future’. these included some thoughtprovoking<br />
job titles including Cyber attack agent, algorithm<br />
bias auditor and head of Machine personality design.<br />
it’s interesting how we all take for granted that the jobs<br />
of the future will be created primarily in it and technical<br />
industries, but what really struck me about this list, was just<br />
how many of these so called ‘new jobs’ also alluded to a high<br />
degree of creativity.<br />
i was greatly encouraged by this as it suggests that it’s<br />
by following a broad and well-rounded curriculum that<br />
our children will be best prepared for these new and<br />
challenging roles.<br />
STEAM vs STEM<br />
at aCs, we believe in the steaM approach. this is steM<br />
(science, technology, engineering and maths), with the<br />
addition of the arts.<br />
while an education focused on steM will help prepare<br />
students for scientific fields, studying the arts is clearly<br />
increasingly important and relevant in industries that rely<br />
on innovators and creative minds to generate new ways of<br />
thinking about the world.<br />
it’s the people who can truly<br />
synthesise ideas and create new<br />
and exciting options who will be<br />
headhunted as the next Cyber attack agent or Virtual identity<br />
defender, so by encouraging students in drama, music or the<br />
visual arts as much as we do in traditional steM subjects, we<br />
can truly help them develop the imagination needed for the<br />
pioneering industries of the 21st century.<br />
Building an entrepreneurial mindset<br />
we also believe, in tandem to this, that developing an<br />
entrepreneurial mindset can provide a strong foundation for<br />
success in these pioneering industries and indeed create new ones.<br />
our own report inspiring entrepreneurship in education<br />
underpins this view. the report presents research<br />
commissioned by the National Centre for entrepreneurship in<br />
education (NCee) and aCs international schools amongst<br />
heads of enterprise (hoes) in 62 universities across the uk and<br />
cites that 90 per cent of hoes believe more should be done at<br />
school level to develop entrepreneurship competence in students.<br />
what’s more, considering perceived barriers to<br />
entrepreneurship in schools, two thirds of university hoes<br />
believe narrowing of subject choices has a negative impact on<br />
entrepreneurship interest amongst students.<br />
Factors that have a positive impact on students’ interest in<br />
enterprise and entrepreneurship by the time they arrive at<br />
university include the general ethos of the school; having teachers<br />
trained in entrepreneurship; the students’ peer groups; and the<br />
school teaching specific character-building skills.<br />
and nearly two thirds of hoes also believe that exposure<br />
to different nationalities and cultures while at school is highly<br />
beneficial to students’ entrepreneurial outlook.<br />
other positive factors include social media, crowdfunding sites,<br />
tV programmes, such as dragon’s den, and e-commerce.<br />
bottom of the list of factors were a lack of experience of<br />
failure and brexit.<br />
A qualification for the 21st century<br />
in my view, our emerging generation of schoolchildren is,<br />
if anything more powerfully determined than the so-called<br />
‘millennials’ to do things differently.<br />
they see entrepreneurship as a way to independence and<br />
control in their careers and to making the world a better<br />
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your child and will advise on the right study programme for<br />
them. But what else can parents do?<br />
place. As such it’s vital that schools develop activities which<br />
create a springboard for students to explore and advance their<br />
entrepreneurial skills and ambition at university and beyond.<br />
So, what can we all do to encourage and support students as<br />
they prepare for this brave new world? At ACS we believe that<br />
the International Baccalaureate Diploma Programme (IBDP)<br />
provides a great foundation. Offered at ACS Egham, the IBDP<br />
allows students to select a wide range of topics to study across<br />
the sciences, arts and languages. This means they graduate with<br />
a mix of skills rather than the comparatively narrow subject<br />
areas they would have to choose at A Level.<br />
With A Levels, students often pick just three subjects whilst<br />
IB includes six, three at higher level and three at standard,<br />
which cover languages, social studies, science and maths.<br />
And while it’s often cited that A Level students emerge with<br />
in-depth knowledge of their chosen subjects, I believe that<br />
this can sometimes push them too early down a set path that<br />
becomes difficult to deviate from later, especially when it comes<br />
to choosing university options.<br />
It may be harder for an A Level student who only studied<br />
humanities to then change their mind and secure a place on<br />
a science degree, for example, and vice versa. The IB, with its<br />
broader span of subjects, keeps higher education options<br />
much more fluid, a great advantage.<br />
As well as six IB subjects, students also undertake extra<br />
components which count towards their final grades, including<br />
a mandatory 4,000-word extended essay: while the IB’s ‘Theory<br />
of Knowledge’ component is designed to actually teach students<br />
how to apply knowledge to real-life situations.<br />
A fundamental part of the IB is ‘Creativity, Action, Service’<br />
or CAS which shows students the importance of extracurricular<br />
activities as an integral part of life. As part of CAS<br />
projects, ACS students have built school facilities in Nepal,<br />
fundraised for Great Ormond Street Hospital and supported<br />
local charities.<br />
Over the last decade, ACS research amongst university<br />
admissions officers has consistently cited the IB as the best<br />
preparation for university, outscoring A Levels on attributes<br />
such as encouraging independent inquiry, developing workplace<br />
skills, nurturing an open mind and creativity.<br />
However, it’s important that students choose the right<br />
qualification and study programme for them as individuals, so<br />
it is always worthwhile discussing with teachers who also know<br />
Building resilience<br />
Coming back to character-building skills, it is evident that<br />
we must also teach students resilience and show them how to<br />
take responsibility.<br />
Just last week a new report suggested that many recent<br />
graduates lack the required mindset and determination to cut<br />
it in the workplace but, of course, the reasons underpinning<br />
this view are perfectly understandable. We’re all fed a constant<br />
media diet of horror stories about what could happen to our<br />
children if we leave them alone for any length of time.<br />
And while social media platforms and smartphones make<br />
it simple to stay in touch, a downside is that our offspring<br />
have been taught from an early age to rely and depend on<br />
pervasive parental presence which, while well meant, may<br />
have reduced the ability of young people to make and learn<br />
from their own mistakes.<br />
An exciting new world awaits our children, it is our job to<br />
teach them to make the most of it.<br />
WAYS TO ENCOURAGE INDEPENDENT KIDS<br />
• Set them regular tasks at home to learn<br />
responsibility. It may be as simple as keeping<br />
their room in order, but do be prepared to impose<br />
rigid penalties for jobs not done – a reduction<br />
of pocket money, less treats, less online time for<br />
example. Make them realise that failure to deliver<br />
on agreed tasks has implications.<br />
• Let them organise their own school equipment<br />
such as a sport’s kit or project work, even if it is<br />
quicker and easier for you to do it.<br />
• Give them physical freedom to take informed<br />
risks. Playing sport and being part of a team is a<br />
great way to enable this. On the playing field they<br />
have no choice but to make their own decisions.<br />
• Teach them not to expect to have everything at<br />
once. Help them learn patience by creating more<br />
distant end goals and encourage them to save<br />
pocket money to buy that item they crave or earn<br />
the money to pay for it themselves.<br />
ACS Egham International School is part of the ACS<br />
International Schools group, serving both local and global<br />
families since 1995. The school is non-sectarian and<br />
co-educational, enrolling over 550 students aged 3 to 18<br />
years. ACS Egham was the first IB World School in the UK<br />
to offer all four International Baccalaureate (IB) programmes:<br />
the IB Primary Years, Middle Years, Diploma and Careersrelated<br />
Programmes.<br />
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Just as technology is now involved with every aspect<br />
of life, the school subjects that used to be considered<br />
the preserve of boffins and nerds are becoming much<br />
more integrated with other parts of the curriculum. And a<br />
proper grounding in theoretical and practical sciences is now<br />
essential for careers in an ever-increasing range of areas.<br />
Schools are rising to the challenge, investing in innovative science<br />
blocks and taking new approaches to teaching these subjects, making<br />
them more approachable to the broadest range of pupils.<br />
Nick Ellwood of Tonbridge School explains the thinking behind<br />
the school’s state-of-the-art new science centre.<br />
The life<br />
scientific<br />
In every aspect of life, science is<br />
more important than ever – and<br />
schools are rising to the challenge<br />
Science at Tonbridge took a great leap forward this year<br />
with the opening of the Barton Science Centre, a truly<br />
ambitious development which provides a world-class<br />
environment for innovative teaching and learning.<br />
Named after Nobel Prize-winning chemist Sir Derek Barton,<br />
a former Tonbridge pupil, the spectacular three-storey building<br />
places science and technology at the heart of school life, blending<br />
new classrooms and spacious laboratories with many architectural<br />
features from the school’s original Victorian science building. Features<br />
include an interactive periodic table, a TV wall, a beehive, thoughtprovoking<br />
sculptures, a roof garden, a greenhouse and three libraries.<br />
The school’s Head of Science, Bill Burnett, describes the<br />
centre as: ‘striking, innovative and simply fun to be a part of.<br />
‘Everything reflects our approach that science should be a<br />
creative and exploratory endeavour, not dry fact learning. Practical<br />
work is used to stimulate questions pupils want the answers<br />
to, not to confirm what they already knew beforehand.<br />
‘Classrooms have a flexible layout, with a range of imaginative<br />
designs. There are specialist labs for optics in Physics, microscopy<br />
in Biology and fume extraction in Chemistry. Other rooms<br />
provide opportunities for independent project work.<br />
‘The centre’s location, in the middle of the school, is significant<br />
too. Staff and students are encouraged to wander through and<br />
take notice of the presentations, experiments and other activities<br />
that happen in its shared areas. A sixth-form international science<br />
“Science should be a creative and exploratory<br />
endeavour, not dry fact learning…”<br />
conference, an art exhibition and a ‘Mission Discovery’ educational<br />
course run by NASA astronauts all took place in recent times.<br />
‘The Barton Science Centre will also have a wider public benefit and<br />
the school hopes it will become a regional hub for the community. It<br />
will enable the school to enhance its outreach programmes, such as<br />
the popular Science for Schools project that benefits hundreds of local<br />
primary school pupils each year, and to host more public lectures.’<br />
‘When you walk around,’ adds Phil Deakin, Head of Physics,<br />
‘you are more likely to see teachers and students building a<br />
Heath Robinson machine side-by-side, than you are to see<br />
a teacher lecturing at the front of a class laid out in rows.<br />
It is an extremely exciting time for science at Tonbridge.’<br />
Tonbridge School, Tonbridge, Kent<br />
01732 365555 www.tonbridge-school.co.uk<br />
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Team sports don’t suit everyone – some<br />
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Rebecca Jutson, Assistant Director of Girls’ Sport<br />
With a greater number of students in the school we are now providing a broader<br />
range of sporting opportunities, and the uptake for more individual sports has<br />
increased. We now have a wide range of activities on offer including tennis, athletics,<br />
swimming, golf, sailing, climbing, kayaking, aerobics, triathlon, cross-country, archery,<br />
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Students who don’t wish to get involved with team games derive a great deal of<br />
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Sport is compulsory and everyone is expected to involve themselves, whether that<br />
be at participation or performance level. To a degree the sport is irrelevant, it is more a<br />
belief that the sporting environment is there to provide youngsters with the opportunity<br />
to develop personal and interpersonal skills which will benefit them in later life.<br />
It is also there to provide them with a physical release from their studies and<br />
encourage them to lead healthy, active lifestyles. The skills and qualities they derive from<br />
participation in sporting activities are certainly more important than the outcome of a<br />
particular match or the achievement of a result. Within this culture and central to our<br />
students’ development is the promotion of personal confidence.<br />
Joe Sullivan,<br />
Year 12, Golfer<br />
“I started playing when I was four and<br />
my best achievement to date is playing<br />
for the England U16 squad last year for<br />
the first time. My dad introduced me to<br />
the game and I really enjoyed it. From<br />
playing golf I have learned that I have<br />
a good temperament and I am able to<br />
bounce back after a bad run. I think<br />
overall I have become slightly<br />
more confident over the<br />
last couple of years.”<br />
Hurst College, Hassocks, West Sussex 01273 833636 hppc.co.uk<br />
Felix Warren,<br />
Year 9, Climber<br />
“I have been climbing for five years<br />
now – since I was nine. I always used<br />
to climb trees and when our local<br />
climbing centre opened I gave it a<br />
try and got really into it. I love it<br />
because there are so many challenges<br />
and when you complete something<br />
you have been working at for a while,<br />
there is an overwhelming sense<br />
of satisfaction.”<br />
Tallulah Sullivan,<br />
Year 9, Triathlete<br />
“I have been competing in Triathlon since I<br />
was around eight or nine years old. Before I<br />
was injured I came third in the South East<br />
of England for TS1 girls and I also have a<br />
few other trophies for achieving a top three<br />
position. I have always been a strong runner<br />
and I thought it would be a good opportunity<br />
to compete in a sport that could stretch<br />
me in aspects that running alone couldn’t.<br />
I like that it pushes me to work hard and<br />
train hard and it gives me adrenaline.”<br />
Jamie Briggs,<br />
Year 11, Fencer<br />
“I first started just after my 7th birthday<br />
and, because of my age, I had to use foam<br />
swords. A year later I was able to progress<br />
to the proper thing and took part in my<br />
first competition in March 2012. I have<br />
been on the U13, U15 and U17 England<br />
squads and last year I was invited to be<br />
a part of the GB U17 squad. It has been<br />
amazing to be able to represent<br />
my country in a sport<br />
that I love.”
Elizabeth Fraser<br />
Fencing Champion<br />
“My favourite thing about fencing<br />
is the tactics and mental strength it<br />
takes to win a fight. I have learnt<br />
a lot about myself through fencing<br />
– particularly my ability to bounce<br />
back. In the last two years I have<br />
suffered from two injuries, but I<br />
didn’t let this hold me back.<br />
I trained hard to get back and<br />
now I am able to<br />
compete again.”<br />
Sutton Valence School, Maidstone, Kent<br />
Sutton Valence School believes that all pupils can be successful in<br />
sport and, with a strong sporting tradition, we offer every child<br />
the opportunity to develop their fitness and love of exercise which will<br />
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The sports department provides bespoke training<br />
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Students are also invited to lectures on nutrition, sports<br />
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Antonia Beary, Headmistress at Mayfield School, shares her<br />
school sport philosophy – and her own experiences<br />
Teachers from my own schooldays might be rather<br />
sceptical at my writing an article on the benefits of sport,<br />
and rightly so, as any recollections of my youthful endeavours<br />
to avoid cross country or the 1500 metres (I think I was the<br />
only person in my year not to do it) would elicit, at best,<br />
amusement. However, even the most recalcitrant child can<br />
surprise themselves and others.<br />
Sport teaches us all, not just our children, skills and<br />
helps discover abilities which can prove invaluable as life<br />
skills. Playing as a team requires not only working together,<br />
but thinking about other people and understanding their<br />
strengths and weaknesses.<br />
Good team players will be able to see themselves<br />
contributing to something bigger, as they have to look beyond<br />
their own individual goals to the shared, common good.<br />
Representing our school, county or even country, requires<br />
working towards an altruistic goal, espousing what may seem<br />
old-fashioned values, which are increasingly at odds with<br />
those of the self-centred society in which we seem to live. For<br />
teenagers to appreciate both that it is not just ‘all about them’<br />
but also that they have something valuable to contribute,<br />
promotes a balanced sense of self-esteem.<br />
Practice, as we know, makes perfect. In a world where<br />
there is a disproportionate focus on individuals plucked out<br />
of obscurity allegedly to fame and fortune, sport offers an<br />
excellent lesson: while natural ability may be an advantage,<br />
it is nothing without consistent effort and application –<br />
whatever the weather.<br />
With our increasing dependence on mobile phones<br />
allowing the best-laid plans to be changed at the last minute,<br />
understanding the concept of commitment to a match or<br />
practice is important. It doesn’t matter if you have a better<br />
offer – you have a responsibility to your team. In making<br />
sacrifices, so character is built and captaining a team can lead<br />
on to more significant leadership roles and the responsibility<br />
being a role model entails.<br />
Learning how to win and – more importantly – how to<br />
lose, graciously are skills which should not be underrated.<br />
Sport provides an arena where it is almost impossible not to<br />
make mistakes, offering opportunities to learn how to cope<br />
when, inevitably, things do not go to plan. Learning to roll<br />
with the punches – literal and metaphorical – is a vital skill.<br />
At the same time, having to conform to a set of rules is<br />
no bad thing for a child, whilst fair play and respect for the<br />
umpire’s decision needs to be learnt and can’t necessarily be<br />
assumed. Sport should help instil in our young people the<br />
fundamental value of integrity.<br />
Computer games may offer a certain type of stimulation<br />
but there is nothing to beat fresh air and physical activity for<br />
real wellbeing. Regular physical activity also means that you<br />
can get away with spoiling yourself with a food treat every<br />
now and then.<br />
Sport also provides a vital outlet for pent-up tension – as I<br />
discovered when I worked in a boys’ school, one harsh winter<br />
when I had to teach classes unable to play sport due to frozen<br />
pitches. Expending energy on the playing field, means that<br />
you can focus effectively on your academic study.<br />
Equally, the skills of concentration, focus and<br />
determination are easily transferrable and success in a match<br />
can boost confidence and instil a self-belief which in turn<br />
allows you to approach a challenging maths problem or a<br />
philosophical conundrum with more conviction.<br />
There is a reason why we ‘play’ sport – it has to be about<br />
having fun. For some, that pleasure will come from being<br />
intensely competitive, for others simply in being part of<br />
something bigger than themselves and spending time with<br />
their friends.<br />
And the joy of sport is that there is something for everyone.<br />
For the record: the girl who, aged 13, tried to arrange her<br />
music lessons in PE, in a few short years found herself<br />
representing Cambridge University in the Boat Race. Who<br />
says miracles don’t happen?<br />
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invaluable tips from experienced<br />
teachers for each stage<br />
of education<br />
frewen college<br />
hazel lawrence, head of Sixth form<br />
at this stage our kids are young<br />
adults – not children. how can<br />
parents support them in a way<br />
that respects this? (and not get<br />
irritated!) speak to them and listen<br />
to what they are saying, even if it<br />
sounds outlandish. several of my<br />
students have suggested it’s easier<br />
to have these conversations when<br />
you are doing something else, like<br />
washing up, or preparing dinner, as<br />
this makes them feel less intense.<br />
start sixth Form options discussions<br />
early. it takes away the pressure<br />
to make immediate decisions if you’re<br />
not agreeing. the summer term of<br />
Year 10 is a good time to start.<br />
work with them! explore all the<br />
options and try to get to a point<br />
where your son or daughter thinks<br />
it was their decision. using a ‘drip,<br />
drip’ approach to achieve an outcome<br />
everyone is happy with.<br />
how can parents best support<br />
their children with their choices?<br />
at Frewen College we have a strong<br />
ethos of working with students and<br />
young people to help them make their<br />
next steps and we include parents<br />
too. all Year 11 students have a weekly<br />
mentor session to discuss options as<br />
well working with the young person to<br />
keep them on track. in Year 10 students<br />
will also have a one-on-one meeting<br />
with our independent careers adviser<br />
to start thinking about next steps.<br />
encourage your child to visit as<br />
many colleges as possible, particularly<br />
if they are undecided and/or there<br />
are several colleges offering the same<br />
courses. this is really important<br />
as each course will vary slightly.<br />
For young people who have a<br />
strong idea about what they want<br />
to do and learn in a more handson<br />
way, apprenticeships are another<br />
area to pursue. there are a range<br />
of them in different fields; from<br />
the more traditional like catering<br />
or construction industry to newer<br />
ones like cyber security.<br />
take time to visit apprenticeship<br />
fairs and events which will provide<br />
both parents and young people<br />
with information and advice.<br />
Many colleges will also offer taster<br />
day events for Year 10 students<br />
towards the end of the summer. this<br />
is an excellent opportunity to get a<br />
feel for a college and experience new<br />
courses – many of the courses offered<br />
“Reassure them it’s OK to not<br />
know exactly what they’d like<br />
to do in the future at this stage”<br />
at bteC or a Level will be very<br />
different from those offered at gCse.<br />
also, reassure them it’s ok to<br />
not know exactly what they’d like<br />
to do in the future at this stage.<br />
What is the best way to resolve<br />
tension when parents and young<br />
people have different ideas about<br />
what the next step should be?<br />
try to visit colleges and/or<br />
universities which the young<br />
person is interested in – and those<br />
which you think are suitable.<br />
ask lots of questions, such as:<br />
‘what do typical students go on to<br />
do once they have completed this<br />
course?’ this can be very revealing<br />
and can sometimes show the limited<br />
possibilities a desired course may<br />
present for job opportunities.<br />
if you have friends or family members<br />
who have experience in subjects or<br />
professions your son or daughter is<br />
interested in, encourage them to have a<br />
chat with them about their experiences.<br />
speak to the career’s adviser at your<br />
child’s current school. also speak<br />
to their teachers – what do they<br />
think about the options available?<br />
what are the alternatives? what will<br />
they need to do to secure a place<br />
at a russell group university?<br />
What is a good way to resolve the<br />
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For many students the idea of a gap year<br />
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school. at Frewen College we work<br />
with students who want to take a gap<br />
year and encourage them to develop a<br />
plan detailing what they hope to achieve<br />
at the end of the year. universities<br />
will want to know this as well.<br />
For those of our students who are<br />
seriously interested in pursuing a<br />
gap year they have looked at options<br />
through organisations like Vso.<br />
these offer young people several<br />
short- and long-term opportunities<br />
in a number of different fields.<br />
Frewen college, Northiam, east Sussex<br />
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