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Vinehall School<br />

Joff Powis, Headmaster<br />

What do parents need to consider<br />

when choosing a prep school? Fees,<br />

location, class size, academic reputation<br />

and wrap around care – all are vital.<br />

However, I believe that parents find the<br />

best fit prep school for their child only<br />

once they have visited and experienced<br />

the atmosphere first hand.<br />

They must look beyond the results<br />

and facilities of a school to focus<br />

on what really matters, which is the<br />

happiness of the children, the calibre<br />

of the staff and the strong relationships<br />

between the teachers and parents.<br />

Should they ask about which<br />

secondary schools the prep school<br />

feeds up to? For many parents, entry<br />

into the secondary school of choice is<br />

paramount to their decision to enter the<br />

independent sector in the first place.<br />

I would encourage parents to keep<br />

an open mind in order to allow a<br />

child to grow and develop before a<br />

secondary school choice is finalised. The<br />

‘destination of leavers’ will be proudly<br />

stated on any prep school’s website<br />

and the greater the variety of these<br />

destinations on offer will reflect a prep<br />

school’s strength in developing the<br />

individual child.<br />

Should parents be looking for a school<br />

that plays to their child’s strengths<br />

(academic, sport, arts) at this stage?<br />

How can a parent possibly know<br />

their child’s strengths yet? The<br />

purpose of a prep school is to lay<br />

as many opportunities at a child’s<br />

feet as time will possibly allow.<br />

As their confidence grows, their<br />

interests will spread and new strengths<br />

“The purpose of prep<br />

school is to lay as many<br />

opportunities at a child’s<br />

feet as time will allow”<br />

and passions will be discovered. In a<br />

small, family school, the needs and<br />

talents of each individual child can be<br />

recognised, valued and developed in time<br />

for the next phase at secondary school,<br />

where children will finally specialise.<br />

Is staying with a peer group a child<br />

is comfortable with important at this<br />

stage? To feel comfortable and confident<br />

within your peer group is absolutely<br />

critical in a child’s overall development.<br />

A child’s peers are every bit as important<br />

as the greatest teacher in creating<br />

a sense of belonging, empathy and<br />

encouragement. A sense of place and a<br />

sense of purpose is instilled in us all at a<br />

very young age by our childhood peers.<br />

Of course, the term comfortable<br />

can have an ulterior meaning and<br />

this is where a stimulating learning<br />

environment and high expectations will<br />

support each child to grow and reach<br />

their potential.<br />

Vinehall School, Robertsbridge, East<br />

Sussex 01580 880413 vinehallschool.com<br />

The New Beacon<br />

Mike Piercy, Headmaster<br />

What do parents need to consider<br />

when choosing a prep school?<br />

Research is key and a great deal<br />

can be discovered through schools’<br />

websites. Unsurprisingly, many<br />

schools appear to have similar aims<br />

and it can be difficult to differentiate<br />

– the ‘news’ pages can be revealing:<br />

what achievements does the school<br />

celebrate? <strong>Education</strong>, however, is a<br />

human business: talk to trusted friends<br />

and family to discover personal stories.<br />

Consider also single-sex or<br />

co-education. Boys learn in a very<br />

different way to girls and, particularly at<br />

prep school age, they will often develop<br />

better learning habits at an earlier stage<br />

in an all boys’ environment – but you<br />

would expect me to say that as Head of a<br />

boys’ school! The proviso is that pastoral<br />

care must pay equal attention to the<br />

gentle and sensitive boy as to the lively<br />

and ebullient.<br />

Should they ask about which<br />

secondary schools the prep school<br />

feeds up to? Yes, absolutely! A good<br />

indicator is a wide range of destination<br />

schools which suggests a bespoke<br />

approach, tailored to the individual<br />

child. The range of schools should be in<br />

keeping with your aspirations for your<br />

child – but beware of aspirations which<br />

may be too ambitious.<br />

Should parents be looking for a<br />

school that plays to their child’s<br />

strengths at this stage? A prep school<br />

is, by definition, ‘preparatory’. There<br />

should be a wide range of opportunity<br />

on offer from the academic to the<br />

co-curriculum, to the arts, performing<br />

arts and sport. If at an early stage your<br />

child shows leanings and talents in a<br />

particular direction then some prep<br />

schools do have specialisms – but beware<br />

of narrowing your child’s opportunities<br />

at too early an age.<br />

There is a temptation to live out our<br />

own ambitions through our children, but<br />

my advice would be to provide breadth<br />

of opportunity at this early stage coupled<br />

with a school’s willingness to support the<br />

pursuit of excellence in any given field.<br />

Is staying with a peer group a child<br />

is comfortable with important at<br />

this stage? Friends are important to<br />

children – they provide comfort and<br />

security – but they should not be<br />

the determining factor in choosing or<br />

changing schools. At The New Beacon<br />

in Key Stage 1 we ‘shuffle’ classes<br />

almost every year to enhance social<br />

development and in response to varying<br />

levels of maturity and development.<br />

Children are more resilient and adaptable<br />

than we, as parents, may think. There is, of<br />

course, socialisation in the classroom but<br />

it is by definition a place for learning and<br />

playtime is primarily for friends.<br />

The New Beacon School, Sevenoaks, Kent<br />

01732 452131 newbeacon.org.uk<br />

surrey-homes.co.uk<br />

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