Education | ED06 | Summer 2019
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Vinehall School<br />
Joff Powis, Headmaster<br />
What do parents need to consider<br />
when choosing a prep school? Fees,<br />
location, class size, academic reputation<br />
and wrap around care – all are vital.<br />
However, I believe that parents find the<br />
best fit prep school for their child only<br />
once they have visited and experienced<br />
the atmosphere first hand.<br />
They must look beyond the results<br />
and facilities of a school to focus<br />
on what really matters, which is the<br />
happiness of the children, the calibre<br />
of the staff and the strong relationships<br />
between the teachers and parents.<br />
Should they ask about which<br />
secondary schools the prep school<br />
feeds up to? For many parents, entry<br />
into the secondary school of choice is<br />
paramount to their decision to enter the<br />
independent sector in the first place.<br />
I would encourage parents to keep<br />
an open mind in order to allow a<br />
child to grow and develop before a<br />
secondary school choice is finalised. The<br />
‘destination of leavers’ will be proudly<br />
stated on any prep school’s website<br />
and the greater the variety of these<br />
destinations on offer will reflect a prep<br />
school’s strength in developing the<br />
individual child.<br />
Should parents be looking for a school<br />
that plays to their child’s strengths<br />
(academic, sport, arts) at this stage?<br />
How can a parent possibly know<br />
their child’s strengths yet? The<br />
purpose of a prep school is to lay<br />
as many opportunities at a child’s<br />
feet as time will possibly allow.<br />
As their confidence grows, their<br />
interests will spread and new strengths<br />
“The purpose of prep<br />
school is to lay as many<br />
opportunities at a child’s<br />
feet as time will allow”<br />
and passions will be discovered. In a<br />
small, family school, the needs and<br />
talents of each individual child can be<br />
recognised, valued and developed in time<br />
for the next phase at secondary school,<br />
where children will finally specialise.<br />
Is staying with a peer group a child<br />
is comfortable with important at this<br />
stage? To feel comfortable and confident<br />
within your peer group is absolutely<br />
critical in a child’s overall development.<br />
A child’s peers are every bit as important<br />
as the greatest teacher in creating<br />
a sense of belonging, empathy and<br />
encouragement. A sense of place and a<br />
sense of purpose is instilled in us all at a<br />
very young age by our childhood peers.<br />
Of course, the term comfortable<br />
can have an ulterior meaning and<br />
this is where a stimulating learning<br />
environment and high expectations will<br />
support each child to grow and reach<br />
their potential.<br />
Vinehall School, Robertsbridge, East<br />
Sussex 01580 880413 vinehallschool.com<br />
The New Beacon<br />
Mike Piercy, Headmaster<br />
What do parents need to consider<br />
when choosing a prep school?<br />
Research is key and a great deal<br />
can be discovered through schools’<br />
websites. Unsurprisingly, many<br />
schools appear to have similar aims<br />
and it can be difficult to differentiate<br />
– the ‘news’ pages can be revealing:<br />
what achievements does the school<br />
celebrate? <strong>Education</strong>, however, is a<br />
human business: talk to trusted friends<br />
and family to discover personal stories.<br />
Consider also single-sex or<br />
co-education. Boys learn in a very<br />
different way to girls and, particularly at<br />
prep school age, they will often develop<br />
better learning habits at an earlier stage<br />
in an all boys’ environment – but you<br />
would expect me to say that as Head of a<br />
boys’ school! The proviso is that pastoral<br />
care must pay equal attention to the<br />
gentle and sensitive boy as to the lively<br />
and ebullient.<br />
Should they ask about which<br />
secondary schools the prep school<br />
feeds up to? Yes, absolutely! A good<br />
indicator is a wide range of destination<br />
schools which suggests a bespoke<br />
approach, tailored to the individual<br />
child. The range of schools should be in<br />
keeping with your aspirations for your<br />
child – but beware of aspirations which<br />
may be too ambitious.<br />
Should parents be looking for a<br />
school that plays to their child’s<br />
strengths at this stage? A prep school<br />
is, by definition, ‘preparatory’. There<br />
should be a wide range of opportunity<br />
on offer from the academic to the<br />
co-curriculum, to the arts, performing<br />
arts and sport. If at an early stage your<br />
child shows leanings and talents in a<br />
particular direction then some prep<br />
schools do have specialisms – but beware<br />
of narrowing your child’s opportunities<br />
at too early an age.<br />
There is a temptation to live out our<br />
own ambitions through our children, but<br />
my advice would be to provide breadth<br />
of opportunity at this early stage coupled<br />
with a school’s willingness to support the<br />
pursuit of excellence in any given field.<br />
Is staying with a peer group a child<br />
is comfortable with important at<br />
this stage? Friends are important to<br />
children – they provide comfort and<br />
security – but they should not be<br />
the determining factor in choosing or<br />
changing schools. At The New Beacon<br />
in Key Stage 1 we ‘shuffle’ classes<br />
almost every year to enhance social<br />
development and in response to varying<br />
levels of maturity and development.<br />
Children are more resilient and adaptable<br />
than we, as parents, may think. There is, of<br />
course, socialisation in the classroom but<br />
it is by definition a place for learning and<br />
playtime is primarily for friends.<br />
The New Beacon School, Sevenoaks, Kent<br />
01732 452131 newbeacon.org.uk<br />
surrey-homes.co.uk<br />
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