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<strong>February</strong> <strong>16</strong>, <strong>2020</strong><br />
BEAUTy<br />
Looks<br />
We Are<br />
Crushing<br />
On<br />
Must-Have<br />
Items For<br />
Timeless<br />
Wardrobe<br />
Emem Isong Misodi:<br />
Redefining Nollywood Movies
8<br />
15<br />
13<br />
6<br />
IN THIS ISSUE<br />
email: <strong>allure</strong>fortheworld@vanguardngr.com<br />
HAPPINESS<br />
8 Cover: Emem Isong Misodi;<br />
Redefining Nollywood Movies<br />
13 Sexmatics: What Next After<br />
<strong>February</strong> 14th?<br />
<strong>16</strong> Instagram Moments<br />
WELCOME...<br />
CELEBRATION<br />
4 Fashion : Wardrobe Essentials For<br />
Every Man<br />
6 Fashion : Must-Have Items For<br />
Timeless Wardrobe<br />
12 Fashion : Beauty Looks We Are<br />
Crushing On<br />
<strong>16</strong> FEBRUARY <strong>2020</strong><br />
15 People: Celebrities Step Out<br />
For OffAir With Gbemi And Toolz -<br />
Season 2<br />
• Alex Okosi’s Classy Send-forth Party<br />
WELLBEING<br />
14 My Lagos Adventure<br />
Finally, the muchanticipated<br />
ceremony of the<br />
year, Valentines Day has come<br />
and gone; gone with the<br />
anxiety, frenzy and<br />
expectations. Colour red<br />
popped from every shop<br />
window, items carefully<br />
displayed to attract shoppers.<br />
Red was everywhere and it<br />
was dizzying.<br />
The colour took a whole new meaning as men<br />
and women made efforts to express their inner<br />
most feelings. We can all sigh now hoping that<br />
cupid’s arrow did more good than harm. If William<br />
Shakespeare’s famous quote is anything to go by,<br />
“There’s no art/ to find the mind’s construction in the<br />
face.” Whatever went down this season, good or<br />
bad, only time will tell.<br />
So, we return from love world to meet<br />
Nollywood’s film maker, Emem Isong Misodi, as she<br />
talks about her creative world, and the challenges<br />
of practicing in it. Pg 8-10<br />
And if as a man you need to rejig your wardrobe<br />
with some building blocks, see what you need as<br />
compiled by Linda Orajekwe Pg 4-5<br />
The women can do same.<br />
Tope Ojo shows you how. Pg<br />
6-7<br />
Have a great week ahead.<br />
J . E<br />
Jemi Ekunkunbor<br />
lookposh2017@gmail.com<br />
08052201126<br />
Quotes<br />
“One of the greatest<br />
gifts you can give to<br />
anyone is the gift of<br />
attention”.<br />
- Jim Rohn<br />
“Learning is a matter<br />
of gathering<br />
knowledge; wisdom is<br />
applying that<br />
knowledge”.<br />
- Dr Roopleen<br />
“Love can produce<br />
the children, but it<br />
has nothing to do<br />
with the raising of<br />
the children”.<br />
- Brooke Shields<br />
EDITOR<br />
JEMI EKUNKUNBOR<br />
ASST. EDITOR<br />
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LATASHA NGWUBE<br />
TEAM<br />
COPY EDITOR<br />
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FASHION<br />
Regalia<br />
By Fal<br />
Rolls Out <strong>2020</strong><br />
Look Book<br />
By - Jemi Ekunkunbor<br />
Fashion house Regalia, has rolled out its<br />
recent work in a look book filled with<br />
amazing designs under the umbrella of<br />
Regalia by FAL. Creative head, Funmi Ajila-<br />
Ladipo says the <strong>2020</strong> collection was inspired<br />
first by God, then the creativity in the land<br />
such as the fabrics, African motives, the tie<br />
and dye and need for Nigerians to be able to<br />
buy clothes off the rack.<br />
The newly curated collection which took<br />
about six months to put together, boasts of a<br />
combination of tie and dye mixed with western<br />
fabrics.<br />
The designs were created for the young and<br />
stylish Nigerians who appreciates creativity.<br />
The president of FADAN announced that every<br />
month and on every special occasion, a new<br />
collection would be rolled out.<br />
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FASHION<br />
Wardrobe Essentials<br />
for<br />
Every Man<br />
By - Linda Orajekwe<br />
Picking an outfit to wear as women can be very difficult; and with the over-packed<br />
wardrobe, one can feel confused looking for what to wear. Women are not the only<br />
ones who find themselves in this situation. Men get confused too!<br />
A man will require close to 37 items to have a really rich wardrobe. To avoid the<br />
confusion that follows, we’ve trimmed this number to bring you the eight most<br />
important items to make dressing up easier.<br />
Clean<br />
Collared<br />
Tees<br />
Denim<br />
Jeans<br />
A pair of denim jeans<br />
is a staple wardrobe<br />
piece for every man.<br />
The versatility of this<br />
classic piece, makes<br />
it possible for it to be<br />
worn to almost<br />
anywhere depending<br />
on how it is styled.<br />
Although best<br />
apprppraite for the<br />
most casual events,<br />
a blazer gives it a<br />
formal twist.<br />
This can be paired<br />
with your jeans and<br />
sneakers for that<br />
Saturday night out. It<br />
would look just as<br />
nice for Sunday<br />
service if styled same<br />
or topped with a<br />
two-buttoned suit.<br />
Black Classic<br />
Derby<br />
This is a masculine signature footwear that has a<br />
version for younger boys. That’s how important it is to<br />
the wardrobe of a man as it makes your look dressy.<br />
A classic Derby is a good investment for any man’s<br />
wardrobe. Save for one. Get one.<br />
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FASHION<br />
Accessories<br />
Accessories aren’t for just women. Every<br />
man should own their fair share to give their<br />
looks a little lift. Accessories such as quality<br />
sunglasses, wristwatches, statement rings<br />
are your go-to for this look elevation<br />
Two-Buttoned Suit<br />
This is a classic suit you can easily wear from an<br />
all formal occasion such as dinner and special<br />
events, and then covert to a semi formal when<br />
worn over a pair of jeans.<br />
Socks, Belt<br />
And Tie<br />
How do you think you’d look<br />
wearing your tailored tux<br />
and dressy shoes without<br />
your belt, tie and socks?<br />
Half-baked right? And you<br />
definitely do not want to<br />
show up that way. So, get<br />
those essentials and come<br />
correct looking like a<br />
well-baked cake!<br />
White Shirt<br />
A quality classic white shirt<br />
is perfect for important<br />
occasions. The emphasis is<br />
on the colour and the<br />
quality. Invest in quality<br />
brands that can also help<br />
your confidence level for<br />
those elite occasions<br />
A Casual Jacket<br />
You need a<br />
classic jacket for<br />
those cold<br />
evenings to the<br />
movies or hang<br />
out with friends.<br />
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FASHION<br />
scarf bag<br />
Scarves<br />
Scarves are one of those<br />
things that most people don’t<br />
specifically set out to buy, but<br />
always end up with anyway.<br />
There are many intentionally<br />
stylish things you can do to<br />
with it.<br />
Try tying a scarf around a<br />
handle on your purse,<br />
around your waist as a<br />
belt, or artfully knotted as<br />
a halter. Go for a loose<br />
wrap-around look, or<br />
twist before knotting for<br />
an easy yet fancy look.<br />
black blazer<br />
A Perfect<br />
Black<br />
Blazer<br />
Blazers are awesome pieces<br />
because there are so many<br />
varieties to choose from. Be<br />
sure to have that perfectfitting<br />
classic one in your<br />
closet. Make sure the<br />
sleeves hit right at your<br />
wrists, and the shoulders<br />
have enough room to layer<br />
underneath. The front<br />
should be fitted, but not pull<br />
out around your chest.<br />
Must-Have<br />
Items For<br />
scarf<br />
Timeless<br />
Wardrobe<br />
By - Temitope Ojo<br />
Every fashion-forward girl must know the basic<br />
building blocks of a well-rounded closet.<br />
There are definitely classic pieces that you<br />
shouldn’t be afraid to splurge on. These pieces, if<br />
well taken care of, can last for years or even decades.<br />
They will carry you through work weeks at a big girl job,<br />
dinners, networking soirees, and so much more.<br />
Here, we list some of these closet essentials.<br />
little black<br />
dress<br />
white shirt<br />
on PAnts<br />
Classic<br />
White Shirt<br />
If you will be working, going to<br />
interviews, or even just looking<br />
polished for a nice dinner any time<br />
soon, a classic white dress shirt<br />
should be your new best friend<br />
forever.<br />
Pair with a pencil skirt, with a blazer,<br />
khaki trousers, or black pants. Finish<br />
with a statement necklace and<br />
simple pumps or ballet flats. The<br />
combinations are endless.<br />
Black Pumps<br />
No girl in the world should go without<br />
a pair of wearable, classic, and<br />
simple black heels in her closet. From<br />
weddings to company functions, first<br />
dates to first jobs, black heels do an<br />
amazing job complementing dressy<br />
shorts, tank top blouse with a<br />
pencil skirt, and can be paired<br />
with a blazer for the meeting,<br />
and take it off for the date.<br />
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/ <strong>February</strong> <strong>16</strong>, <strong>2020</strong><br />
A pair of Jimmy<br />
Choo black pumps
Simple V-Neck<br />
Shirts<br />
V-necks are fantastic for layering under<br />
jackets, lounging around the rooms in, or<br />
using as an inner piece. There’s no outfit<br />
easier or breezier than a<br />
V-neck paired with<br />
jeans or shorts,<br />
canvas shoes,<br />
sunglasses, and<br />
a headband.<br />
FASHION<br />
V Neck<br />
T-shirt<br />
Wide-leg<br />
Jeans<br />
Although skinny, boyfriend<br />
and trouser-style jeans are<br />
more modern, it’s still<br />
important to have a classic<br />
pair of dark-wash, wide-leg<br />
jeans in your closet. These<br />
jeans have come back into<br />
style and are great for nice<br />
dinners, casual days at<br />
work, or even just pairing<br />
with a t-shirt.<br />
wide leg<br />
jeans<br />
wide leg<br />
jeans<br />
Ballet Flats<br />
The fantastic thing about ballet flats is that,<br />
they’re a totally classic staple item that you<br />
don’t need to spend a bunch of money on.<br />
Rather than spending so much on one<br />
fancy leather pair, pick up several different<br />
colours and styles.<br />
ballet flats<br />
Little Black<br />
Dress<br />
Having a trusted LBD in<br />
your closet is a crucial<br />
item in your wardrobe.<br />
Look for classic kneelength<br />
sleeveless sheath<br />
styles. Make sure it’s not<br />
too short and doesn’t<br />
show cleavage for the<br />
ultimate versatile piece.<br />
chic ama<br />
genevieve<br />
nnaji<br />
ballet flats<br />
Black Pants<br />
Black dress pants are an absolute musthave<br />
for emergencies. Look for styles that<br />
fit loosely throughout the thigh, and flare out<br />
oh-so slightly around the calves.<br />
Striking is your look when you pair it with a<br />
white dress shirt tucked in.<br />
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INTERVIEW<br />
8 / <strong>February</strong> <strong>16</strong>, <strong>2020</strong>
INTERVIEW<br />
Emem Isong Misodi:<br />
Redefining Nollywood Movies<br />
Words By - Rita Okoye<br />
Emem Isong Misodi is an award-winning Nigerian film-maker, screenwriter, and the Chief<br />
Executive Officer (CEO) of the Royal Arts Academy, a media school based in Lagos. She is also a<br />
movie producer and a film distributor.<br />
The Nollywood icon who just returned after a brief break from filmmaking, has again thrilled movie<br />
lovers with her latest project- Special Jollof.<br />
In the spirit of Valentine’s Day and the celebration of black history month in the United States, Emem<br />
Isong Misodi’s Special Jollof hit the cinemas last Friday.<br />
The film which is a Royal Arts Academy production, was shot in both the United States of America<br />
and Nigeria. It tells the story of a scorned American journalist who goes undercover at a Nigerian<br />
restaurant in the United States, to prove Nigerian Immigrants come into the country illegally to hurt<br />
Americans, and break their laws. She ended up falling in love and proven wrong.<br />
In this interview, the talented producer gives more insight about her new movie, challenges of a female<br />
filmmaker and other topical issues.<br />
You took a break from filmmaking, why?<br />
I didn’t really take a break. I was making a<br />
few made to TV films. I decided to give the big<br />
screen a break and I was away for a while to<br />
attend to family matters.<br />
Our popular cuisine, Jollof is taking on a<br />
whole new meaning especially with your<br />
latest production, “Special Jollof”. What is<br />
the inspiration behind the movie?<br />
The movie isn’t exactly about Jollof Rice<br />
but my movie is set in an African restaurant in<br />
Houston, USA hence the title. Special Jollof<br />
treats the subject of immigrants being<br />
regarded as nuisances in the country they<br />
migrate to. The prejudices, the hate, the<br />
racial profiling and all is what the movie is<br />
about.<br />
What are the take home for fans?<br />
Let Love lead. Get rid of the prejudices.<br />
There’s been an influx of young film<br />
makers into the industry. What’s been your<br />
staying power?<br />
Passion prayer and consistency.<br />
Are the challenges you faced as a young<br />
film maker still there?<br />
Yes. The issue of film financing and lack of<br />
proper distribution channels are still there: but<br />
the latter has improved a bit.<br />
If you say film distribution is better, what is<br />
the copyright situation now?<br />
The copyright situation hasn’t improved<br />
because piracy still remains our biggest<br />
problem. Distribution is better in terms of<br />
having more cinemas to show our movies and<br />
having them streamed on pay per view TV.<br />
Would you say Creatives are reaping the<br />
fruit of their labour like their counterparts<br />
abroad?<br />
The remuneration for Creatives in this<br />
clime is a far cry from what their counterparts<br />
receive abroad. Hollywood and other more<br />
established film industries, are much older,<br />
and much more sophisticated than Nollywood<br />
and such would most definitely, reward their<br />
practitioners better. Moreover, you cannot<br />
really divorce the economic reality of the<br />
environment in which we practise from the<br />
industry. The situation in Nollywood would not<br />
be far from what the social, political and<br />
economic situation in the country.<br />
Lack of adequate infrastructures, lack of<br />
adequate support from the government and<br />
various foundations that support filmmaking<br />
would definitely affect the welfare of<br />
Nollywood and it’s practitioners. Same can’t<br />
exactly be said for our side of the pond. To be<br />
honest, we aren’t where we used to be, but<br />
we still have a long way to go, to get to where<br />
we need to be.<br />
What does a Nigerian film maker needs to<br />
obtain to be able to shoot his movie<br />
abroad?<br />
It all depends on what the filmmaker wants<br />
to achieve with the film. He or she may need<br />
to obtain a work permit in order to make things<br />
easy. The filmmaker needs to get a work<br />
permit and possibly, liaise with another<br />
filmmaker there to make the process smooth.<br />
Were there gender dimensions to the<br />
challenges?<br />
At the beginning yes; but not so much<br />
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INTERVIEW<br />
these days.<br />
Share with us your candid opinion on the<br />
Oscar selection that some people felt was<br />
politicized and rigged against Nollywood...<br />
I may not exactly agree with that even<br />
though it tilts towards the politics of it a bit.<br />
They had their specifications and I guess we<br />
did not meet it 100%, and I don’t think we<br />
lobbied enough. There is a bit of lobbying<br />
involved in the selections and strategic<br />
planning which I am not sure we did. My<br />
opinion though.<br />
What do we need to do differently?<br />
Making great films isn’t enough. We need to<br />
be deliberate and strategic about certain<br />
things.<br />
Making great<br />
films isn’t<br />
enough. We need<br />
to be deliberate<br />
and strategic<br />
about certain<br />
things.<br />
Apart from the Grammys which we missed,<br />
in what other way can Nigeria be strategic<br />
in other to win?<br />
Nigeria needs to support its film industry<br />
more by creating an enabling environment for<br />
us to practise. Good policies affecting out<br />
businesses should be created. Less taxes or<br />
no taxes at all on film making equipment being<br />
imported into the country thereby, making the<br />
cost of making films relatively cheaper and<br />
less cumbersome.<br />
We need more stringent policies regarding<br />
piracy. If filmmakers have adequate funding<br />
not just to make films but to position their films<br />
well at International film festivals, this may<br />
open up doors in the international circle for the<br />
films to have a chance to be nominated. The<br />
members of the Oscar committee in Nigeria,<br />
have an important role to play in lobbying and<br />
positioning the right films for nomination for the<br />
Oscars. All these things are a function of<br />
finances.<br />
Which Nollywood actor would you<br />
nominate to play the Intricate Oscar<br />
winning role?<br />
I really cannot pin point a particular actor. I<br />
believe that we have great actors here that,<br />
given the right scripts, the right directors and<br />
the right production,:can give Oscar-winning<br />
performances. There are a few of them known<br />
and unknown.<br />
As a filmmaker, would you say filmmakers<br />
are telling authentic, contemporary African<br />
stories?<br />
We are not telling enough of those stories<br />
probably because of the fear of box office<br />
failure. However, I believe if we tell those<br />
stories very well and from the heart, and well<br />
executed and interpreted by good believable<br />
characters, and most importantly, well<br />
marketed and distributed, they would do well.<br />
What do you look out for before picking an<br />
actor to work with, popularity or talent?<br />
I focus more on talent but I do not ignore<br />
popularity, depending on what I want to do<br />
with the film.<br />
What are the highpoints of your career?<br />
Empowering the next generation of<br />
filmmakers, although there are still more high<br />
points yet to be reached.<br />
How do you relax and find time for family?<br />
Travelling to serene places and reading.<br />
Sometimes, I shut down for weeks and stay<br />
home with my family.<br />
Where is your best holiday destination?<br />
Venice, Italy.<br />
Best fashion accessory?<br />
A good pair of glasses.<br />
Who are your favourite Nigerian<br />
designers?<br />
Mai Atafo and Lanre Da Silva.<br />
What are your plans for <strong>2020</strong>?<br />
As the Lord leads.<br />
10 / <strong>February</strong> <strong>16</strong>, <strong>2020</strong>
Healing Foods<br />
tobi@quincyherbals.com<br />
& Herbs<br />
Health<br />
Benefits<br />
of Papaya:<br />
Fruit,<br />
Seeds &<br />
Leaves<br />
By - Tobi Ayodele Keeney<br />
The papaya fruit or pawpaw as it is<br />
commonly known in Nigeria, is a very<br />
common and tasty fruit widely eaten<br />
nationwide. It almost grows wildly, dotting<br />
the streets and growing in front of everyone’s<br />
home. A little known fact is that the tree<br />
bears a very beneficial fruit with wonderful<br />
health benefits.<br />
Papaya fruit is very high in antioxidants<br />
and Vitamin C. This makes the fruit good in<br />
boosting immunity and thereby preventing<br />
infections like, the common cold or flu. In<br />
addition, it reduces cholesterol buildup in<br />
the blood thereby reducing the risk of<br />
developing heart disease. The fruit is also<br />
rich in Vitamin A which is responsible for<br />
preserving vision and protecting against age<br />
related eye diseases. Papaya can help to fight<br />
and prevent cancer. The fruit is rich in<br />
lycopene and carotene which has been<br />
demonstrated to reduce cancer risk. Special<br />
antioxidants in papaya have also been shown<br />
to have anti-cancer activity as well as to<br />
reduce oxidative damage which is a<br />
precursor to the formation of cancer.<br />
Another benefit of papaya is its ability<br />
to fight inflammation. Inflammation is the<br />
root of many diseases ranging from arthritis<br />
to cancer and papain, an enzyme found in<br />
papaya has exhibited very strong antiinflammatory<br />
qualities. Papain reduces pain,<br />
muscle soreness and aids in digestion.<br />
Papain is also used in skin preparations to<br />
PAPAYA SEED &<br />
LEAVES<br />
improve the texture of the skin and to<br />
promote wound healing.<br />
Papaya leaves are not to be ignored;<br />
they are packed with superior medicinal<br />
qualities and have been used effectively in<br />
traditional medicine for a long time. Papaya<br />
leaves have been used to reduce fever and<br />
body pains associated with malaria. It works<br />
similar to conventional painkillers such as<br />
Ibuprofen without the side effects. The<br />
leaves also contain the enzyme papain which<br />
aid digestion and relieves menstrual pain.<br />
The leaves are also used to fight diabetes. It<br />
works by preventing excess sugar from<br />
staying in the blood which also helps to<br />
reduce the organ damage caused by diabetes.<br />
Papaya leaves also accelerates wound<br />
healing, making for a faster recovery. For<br />
people who have problems digesting gluten<br />
and wheat, the enzymes in papaya leaves help<br />
to break the proteins down in the body.<br />
Papaya seeds are also very important to<br />
our health. Many of us think the seeds are<br />
inedible and we throw them away, not<br />
knowing we are discarding valuable<br />
medicine. Papaya seeds are great for<br />
detoxification. Consuming the seeds help to<br />
detoxify the liver and kidneys. The high fibre<br />
content also helps to cleanse and detoxify the<br />
colon. This can also aid in achieving weight<br />
loss for overweight people. Just like the fruit<br />
and the leaves, papaya seeds are also very<br />
valuable in reducing inflammation and<br />
lowering high blood pressure. The benefits<br />
go on and on.<br />
Many<br />
of us think the<br />
seeds are inedible<br />
and we throw them<br />
away, not knowing we<br />
are discarding valuable<br />
medicine.<br />
Papaya seeds are great for<br />
detoxification. Consuming<br />
the seeds help to detoxify<br />
the liver and<br />
kidneys.<br />
In conclusion, papaya is a delicious<br />
fruit with many health advantages. We<br />
should strive to incorporate it into our diets<br />
regularly and this should include the seeds<br />
and the leaves.<br />
A simple detox regimen is to try what<br />
we call ‘Pawpaw Therapy’. Cut a medium<br />
sized papaya into 3 equal parts, and divide<br />
the seeds in to 3 equal parts. In addition, boil<br />
the leaves in a small sized cooking pot with 6<br />
cups of water. In the morning, eat one-third<br />
of the pawpaw, swallow one third of the<br />
seeds, and drink 2 cups of the papaya leaf tea.<br />
Do this also in the afternoon and evening<br />
making sure to drink at least 3 litres of water<br />
throughout the day. Resume your regular<br />
meals the following day. This will help to<br />
cleanse your system, lose weight and hydrate<br />
your skin.<br />
I hope you try this wonderful tip soon<br />
and start reaping the health benefits!<br />
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FASHION<br />
Get that<br />
melanin<br />
popping as<br />
the Brown<br />
Skin Girl that<br />
you are just<br />
like Elisha<br />
Saa. Look<br />
created by Linda<br />
Akintoye of<br />
Dhorastouch<br />
BEAUTY<br />
LOOKS<br />
WE ARE<br />
CRUSHING ON<br />
Go elegant like Dillish Mathews with this recreated Barbie look by<br />
Ara by Laide.<br />
By - Linda Orajekwe<br />
Beauty trends come and go but, there are,<br />
indeed, some looks that will stand the test of<br />
time, and still look fresh when placed side by<br />
side with future looks. This week, we are<br />
crushing on some of these looks created by<br />
Nigerian makeup artists that you can also try<br />
on to look just as fabulous.<br />
For a<br />
simple<br />
look, try<br />
Rita<br />
Dominic’s<br />
look<br />
created by<br />
Radieze<br />
by Eve<br />
Ronke Raji<br />
shows us that<br />
a subtle glam<br />
on a laid back<br />
day won’t hurt<br />
no one<br />
12 / <strong>February</strong> <strong>16</strong>, <strong>2020</strong>
with Adesuwa 070112893<strong>16</strong> | adesuwaewoigbokhan@hotmail.com<br />
What Next After <strong>February</strong> 14th?<br />
<strong>February</strong> 14th celebration has come and gone,<br />
with all its emotions. The tales following vary for<br />
different people; some found love, some had a<br />
blast celebrating their loved one, while some<br />
others lost their partner. And of course, there<br />
were the singles who celebrated with their<br />
unmarried friends or just back home to chill with<br />
wine and ice cream.<br />
Most hotel rooms were booked for hours,<br />
eateries/fast food even several beer parlours<br />
and pepper soup spots were also occupied by<br />
lovers. All that is over now.<br />
The question now is, what next? What is the<br />
next step to take after Cupid’s celebration?<br />
Usually, after a major celebration like that, we<br />
hear of men becoming broke, some ladies<br />
getting pregnant and many relationships<br />
destroyed. If it turns out your Valentine day<br />
didn’t go down well, here are a few things you<br />
can do to get you lively again.<br />
*First, you have to pamper yourself.<br />
It’s super important to have “me time “ This can<br />
be anything that gets you feeling spoiled such<br />
as taking a break to curl up, reading that novel<br />
that you keep eyeing but never able to pick it<br />
up. Also, put on the headphones to listen to the<br />
tunes that you have recently downloaded.<br />
*Try having a spa day, if it happens that you<br />
don’t have time for an entire day, you can just<br />
settle for a facial or maybe a pedicure. A hot<br />
rock massage might also do the trick as it could<br />
help melt away any stress that you might have.<br />
It is really all about taking care of yourself.<br />
Taking a class or being volunteer is another<br />
way to go. If there is a class on your bucket<br />
list, move it over to your accomplish list, it does<br />
not have to be a full semester course.<br />
There could be day/night classes for 6<br />
weeks or weekend classes. Bear in mind that<br />
there are all kinds of classes out there ranging<br />
from cooking, to photography, dance, music to<br />
learning new languages. You can always take<br />
a look at the different institutions and any online<br />
programs in your area for options.<br />
Volunteering on its own is all about your<br />
passion. It is also flexible to work around your<br />
schedule. The opportunities are everywhere<br />
from mentoring of school children, to helping<br />
out at events.<br />
No matter what your interests are, there is a<br />
volunteer job that matches your heart desires.<br />
The above activities promote self-confidence<br />
and is also a great way to meet people with<br />
similar passions.<br />
Get to spend time with friends and family;<br />
nothing binds friends and family like an<br />
afternoon outing at the movie. It can be very<br />
relaxing and fun to be around people that have<br />
been there with you, through thick and thin.<br />
Enjoy the time to just release stress and be<br />
yourself.<br />
There is something about Mother Nature that<br />
is refreshing and invigorating. For those who<br />
may not be hiking enthusiasts, there are lots of<br />
other activities to do outside. Also, there are<br />
some neighbor-hood attractions that are<br />
opened all year round. You could also play<br />
tourist for an afternoon and explore your town<br />
on foot. The sole aim is to disconnect from the<br />
everyday routine to help reset and energize, so<br />
enjoy the great outdoors.<br />
Nothing helps moving on better than letting go.<br />
Clean out on that one closet that you look away<br />
from every time you walk by it, give out those<br />
clothes that you have not worn in a year to<br />
family, friends or the less privileged.<br />
Try and recycle old electronics that are sitting<br />
around collecting dust, this will give you a<br />
sense of accomplishment and closure when<br />
you clear things out of your home that you no<br />
longer need.<br />
Valentine’s Day may be over for another<br />
year, but its the perfect time to let go, and<br />
energise.<br />
Talk<br />
SPOT<br />
By - Rita Okoye<br />
What some of your favourite<br />
celebrities said and we listened.<br />
“No one will understand our love<br />
like we do, the bound , the<br />
connection and love that we<br />
share is out of this world and if I<br />
was to come back to this world<br />
and was asked who I’d want as<br />
a life partner I’ll definitely choose<br />
you over and over and over<br />
again. I’ve only fallen in love<br />
once in my life and I’m proud to<br />
say it is with you”.<br />
Princess Shyngle goes all<br />
romantic to celebrate her<br />
husband on Valentine.<br />
“The death of my mother will always<br />
remain to be the greatest loss in my<br />
life. May God grant you eternal<br />
peace. I look back to the days you<br />
were with us and I can’t help myself<br />
crying. I still miss you so much, mom.<br />
I cannot forget my mother. She is my<br />
bridge. When I needed to get across,<br />
she steadied herself long enough for<br />
me to run across safely”.<br />
Eniola Badmus remembers mum<br />
after <strong>16</strong> years.<br />
“I’m proud of many things<br />
in this world, but nothing<br />
beats being a mother. My<br />
kids are the beat in my<br />
heart, the pulse in my<br />
veins, the energy in my<br />
soul. I live for them.<br />
Nadia Buari enjoying<br />
the joy of motherhood.<br />
“Life is like vapour that appears for a little while<br />
and then disappears. Once our time is up, all the<br />
ambitious chasing of money, power, fame, and<br />
pleasure count for nothing, if they were not<br />
motivated by love. Today and everyday, let us<br />
renew our commitment to love more.<br />
I love you, my beautiful babe”.<br />
PaSTOr Sam Adeyemi expressing his love<br />
for his wife, Nike.<br />
<strong>February</strong> <strong>16</strong>, <strong>2020</strong> / 13
MY LAGOS<br />
ADVENTURE<br />
By Odun Ogunbiyi<br />
hope you all had a fantastic Valentines Day!<br />
I I am predicting that after my morning at the<br />
passport office, I came home to sleep off the<br />
trauma and pretended the rest of the day was<br />
not happening.<br />
I am writing this at the beginning of the week,<br />
as you can imagine, so I am really flexing my<br />
powers of deductive reasoning here. I am also<br />
predicting (while we are at it) that the traffic<br />
on Friday was unbearable.<br />
I hope you are having a wonderful, restful<br />
Sunday.<br />
This is Oddbod and the City – My Lagos<br />
Adventure.<br />
...Oddbod & The City<br />
14<br />
Small World<br />
Small World<br />
Silver<br />
Anniversary<br />
Event<br />
Last Saturday evening, after a pleasant<br />
afternoon nap, I attended my very first<br />
Small World event. My friend got tickets,<br />
discovered there was an “over 18” clause<br />
meaning she could not take her daughter,<br />
so I lucked into being her date for the night.<br />
Held annually, this year’s event was held at<br />
the open-air space at the Federal Palace<br />
and was delightfully organised, calm, but<br />
still tons of fun.<br />
We strolled through stands loaded with<br />
food and drinks, a bazaar featuring<br />
delicacies and delights from different parts<br />
of the world. Our favourites included a rumbased<br />
concoction from Brazil and the food<br />
/ <strong>February</strong> <strong>16</strong>, <strong>2020</strong><br />
Manicure by Henry<br />
Small World<br />
from China and India and the sure-fire winner<br />
was an absolutely delish pork from the West<br />
Indies.<br />
I experienced a small existential crisis as I<br />
literally stood in front of the scones and clotted<br />
cream from the England stand, worrying<br />
whether or not I was being adventurous enough.<br />
We finally went to the Azerbaijan stand where<br />
I finally crossed off Baklava as food I had read<br />
about but never eaten.<br />
Later, we made our way to the stage area to<br />
watch the show organised by the International<br />
Women’s Organisation for charity. They are<br />
a registered NGO who, in their 25 years of<br />
operation, have raised almost ₦500 million<br />
for the charities they support. Very admirable<br />
indeed.<br />
The shows were great fun with tons of<br />
enthusiasm and support for the performances.<br />
My favourites were the dance routine from India<br />
and the Chinese opera.<br />
I am very much looking forward to next year’s<br />
offering.<br />
Base coat<br />
Base Coat<br />
Until two weeks ago I was a fan of doing my manicure<br />
at home. I have quite the collection of colours and<br />
treatments, but alas, just when I reach a length I can be<br />
proud of, one broken nail means I must lop everything off.<br />
For years I have been (un)happily riding this rollercoaster of<br />
joy and disappointment that would have continued unabated<br />
but for a fateful dinner party.<br />
While at a friends’ home where she was being an amazing<br />
host as usual—you know, fresh flowers on the table, mood<br />
lighting courtesy of some strategically placed candles and<br />
gentle music, providing a soft background to stimulating<br />
conversation—she was floating around in some dreamy<br />
floaty concoction, serving us food in some gorgeous<br />
crockery. The icing on the cake? The perfectly- manicured<br />
tips of her elegant hand as she went about her hostessing<br />
duties.<br />
It took me a couple of weeks to wrap my head around<br />
what needed to be done; but I had no idea where to go<br />
so, I called up another friend (madam hostess was out the<br />
country at this time). Luckily, my timing was impeccable; she<br />
was in need of a manicure touch up and was about to try<br />
out a new spot in Victoria Island.<br />
Base Coat opened in November last year but already has<br />
an atmosphere of leaders in the field. I love the make an<br />
appointment rule; this allows your technician to focus on<br />
what you want. In this case, a very therapeutic pedicure<br />
followed by a manicure slay that has had me feeling more<br />
myself since I got it done.<br />
I am the proud owner of some gorgeous, in-the-nude-family,<br />
adult manicure, thank you very much. My technician, Henry,<br />
was satisfyingly concerned with making sure I loved my<br />
nails, which led him to flex his creative juices with some<br />
pink glitter that brings me joy every time I look at them.<br />
My friend was taken care of by Sultan, who has quite the<br />
following for his creative nail artistry. Coincidently, he did the<br />
nails that gave me the nail envy that started all of this in the<br />
first place.<br />
An abundance of OPI colours and quality products<br />
available. They have created a monster and have a regular<br />
customer in me.<br />
For further information about my adventures<br />
check out my Instagram @oddbodandthecity
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Celebrities Step<br />
Out For OffAir<br />
With Gbemi And<br />
Toolz- Season 2<br />
Gbemi Olateru Olagbegi & TOLU ONIRU-DEMUREN<br />
Stoies By Oscar Ochiogu<br />
Mocheddah<br />
CYNTHIA OBI-UCHENDU<br />
BISOLA AIYEOLA<br />
toke makinwa<br />
Banky W & Adesua Etomi<br />
DEBOLA WILLIAMS ELIZABETH OSHO TUNDE DEMUREN, AZEEZ<br />
Media personalities,<br />
celebrities and friends of on-air<br />
personalities, Gbemi Olateru<br />
Olagbegi and Tolu ‘Toolz’ Oniru-<br />
Demuren, came together to<br />
celebrate the premiere of the<br />
all-new season of their talk show,<br />
OffAir.<br />
The event, hosted by popular<br />
media personalities, Toke<br />
Makinwa and Ebuka Obi-<br />
Uchendu, had in attendance<br />
media executives, and a host of<br />
celebrities.<br />
With the new season of OffAir,<br />
Gbemi and Toolz ppromise<br />
even more drama, laughter and<br />
shade as they take on the latest in<br />
entertainment, lifestyle, dating,<br />
relationship, marriage, and even<br />
sex!<br />
Alex Okosi’s<br />
Classy send-forth<br />
party<br />
Family and friends of Alex Okosi,<br />
recently gathered to send him forth<br />
after spending 15 years as Executive Vice<br />
President, and Managing Director of VCN<br />
Africa and BET International.<br />
Okosi was celebrated for his<br />
contributions to the Media and<br />
Entertainment Industry in Africa, since he<br />
took up the mantle of leadership at Viacom<br />
Africa 15 years ago.<br />
The event which was star-studded, had<br />
in attendance captains of industries across<br />
different sectors including Founder,<br />
Silverbird Group, Ben Murray-Bruce,<br />
Publisher of Thisday newspaper, Prince<br />
Nduka Obaigbena, CEO, Multichoice<br />
Nigeria, Mr John Ugbe, movie and music<br />
stars; 2Baba, Falz, Rita Dominic, D’banj,<br />
Dr Sid, Flavour, Ice Princ, Martin Mabutho<br />
and a host of others.<br />
The event was hosted by comedian Bovi<br />
and Tolu ‘Toolz’ Oniru-Demuren.<br />
Alex Okosi & Ben Bruce<br />
Nse Ikpe-Etim<br />
Ice Prince<br />
2baba<br />
bovi<br />
Craig Paterson Tope Oshin<br />
<strong>February</strong> <strong>16</strong>, <strong>2020</strong> / 15
INSTAGRAM<br />
MOMENTS<br />
With Yemisi Suleiman<br />
In case you missed, these were the most Interesting pictures<br />
and stories on Instagram last week as posted by your favourite<br />
celebrities.<br />
Genevieve Nnaji<br />
stuns in this<br />
classy look<br />
A-list actress<br />
and movie producer,<br />
Genevive Nnaji was<br />
the cynosure of all<br />
eyes recently when<br />
she stunned in this<br />
lovely design from<br />
haute Couturier Odio<br />
Mimonet. We love the<br />
elegant style of the<br />
jacket, the colour and<br />
overall look on her<br />
ebony skin.<br />
TheWorkBooth Magazine<br />
Launches Third Edition<br />
TheWorkBooth Magazine, TWB, the first digital<br />
management magazine in Africa, has officially launched<br />
its third edition.<br />
The magazine which targets professionals in different<br />
fields, is published with the objective of inspiring,<br />
informing and advocating issues that affect workers within<br />
the African Continent.<br />
The theme of this special edition is “The HR<br />
Organisation “ featuring articles and op-eds from<br />
outstanding professionals including, Lola Esan (the<br />
director of people and organizational practice, Ernst and<br />
Young West Africa), Enife Atobiloye (Regional head,) and<br />
a host of others.<br />
Speaking on the new edition, TWB Editor, Tunde-<br />
Success Osideko, an alumnus of several worthy<br />
institutions including IMD Switzerland, Harvard Business<br />
School Executive Education, Anglian Ruskin University,<br />
United Kingdom, Gordon Institute of Business Science,<br />
South Africa, says ‘ In this edition of the magazine, we<br />
seek to demystify every misconception around the HR<br />
profession, share insights on how to build a successful<br />
HR career, identify and understand the unique challenges<br />
of HR practitioners in Africa’<br />
Kemi Nelson marks birthday in Style<br />
The APC Women Leader, Chief Mrs. Kemi Nelson was a year older last Sunday. To<br />
mark the occasion, she threw a Praise and Worship party in Lagos to mark the special<br />
day . The glamorous event was witnessed by some top members of the APC as well as<br />
Lagos State Speaker and wife Hon and Mrs Obasa amongst others.<br />
TUBO Unveils VICTORIA BY TUBO<br />
<strong>2020</strong> Bridal Collection<br />
Setting the tone for a remarkable<br />
year in fashion, forward-thinking with<br />
trends and timeless pieces befitting<br />
for the modern-day bride, Nigerian<br />
womenswear powerhouse TUBO,<br />
signals a break from the norm with the<br />
latest VICTORIA BY TUBO <strong>2020</strong> bridal<br />
collection.<br />
Best known for her creativity and<br />
impact in the bridal industry and fashion<br />
as a whole, TUBO takes an interesting<br />
path with this collection, with new<br />
approaches to detailing and bridal<br />
fashion.<br />
For Creative Director, Sandrah<br />
Tubobereni, every stage and every<br />
aspect of a woman’s journey is worthy<br />
of celebration, from being single to<br />
dating, getting married, being a single<br />
mother, or getting divorced. “This<br />
collection breaks away from the norm.<br />
It celebrates the Tubowoman and the<br />
Tubobride in all of her glory. She is living<br />
life on her own terms and the choice<br />
is always hers, not influenced by what<br />
society thinks or expects of her.<br />
“This collection is a mark away from<br />
the routine bridal designs, pitching<br />
with a clear motive of class, elegance,<br />
originality and acceptance. The creative<br />
process transcends into the final product<br />
which presents the Bride with feeling the<br />
freedom to express and become.” She<br />
said.