Blue Chip Journal - June 2019 edition
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LEADERSHIP<br />
I flew to the States to meet and learn from<br />
him. We returned to South Africa with eight<br />
books that Mitch had written and a world<br />
of knowledge, ready to re-think financial<br />
planning at Chartered Wealth Solutions. We<br />
now initiate our journey with a life planning<br />
meeting as a precursor to financial planning,<br />
giving each client a tailor-made life plan.<br />
My first introduction to Brené Brown<br />
During the process of learning, getting to<br />
know myself better and working with clients,<br />
I came across a Ted Talk entitled "The Power of<br />
Vulnerability". This was my first introduction to<br />
Brené’s work and the beginning of a long-term<br />
admiration. A good friend shared that Daring<br />
Greatly was one of her favourite books of all<br />
time. As a self-proclaimed learner and teacher,<br />
I immediately bought the book, and started<br />
my six-year journey with Brené Brown.<br />
Learnings from Brené Brown<br />
I have since read all of Brené’s books. Daring<br />
Greatly taught me that vulnerability is our<br />
clearest path to courage, and that if we allow<br />
ourselves to drop the armour, we are more<br />
open to authentic experiences that bring true<br />
meaning to our lives. It inspired me to bring<br />
my whole self to the world, as wife, mother,<br />
friend, businesswoman and coach, especially<br />
with clients in life planning meetings.<br />
Rising Strong contains a powerful<br />
message: if we are brave, we will stumble and<br />
fall at times. But it is in the falling that we learn<br />
from our disappointments, giving us the<br />
power to rise up with renewed hope. I was<br />
encouraged to step out of my comfort zone<br />
and write my book, Retiremeant – Get More<br />
Meaning From Your Money, and to launch my<br />
own brand. This was a leap of faith for me, but<br />
I felt compelled to share my message. Next,<br />
Brené wrote Braving the Wilderness, which<br />
guides us to being our authentic selves.<br />
Parallel journeys<br />
When I entered the financial planning<br />
industry, sharing the Life Planning<br />
philosophy, I was often met with blank stares<br />
and disbelief. I introduced this revolutionary<br />
concept at many conferences, urging<br />
planners to understand their clients’ history,<br />
principles and personality before advising<br />
on their finances. Many planners argued that<br />
they did not have the time for life planning.<br />
My learnings from Brené’s work encouraged<br />
me to stay steadfast on my path, offering<br />
support and guidance to whoever wanted to<br />
join me. I truly believe that when the student<br />
is ready, the teacher will appear.<br />
Brown released her latest book, Dare<br />
to Lead, in 2018. Her work has had such a<br />
significant impact on my life, on a personal<br />
and business level, that I applied (and was<br />
accepted) to be trained by Brené Brown’s as<br />
a Dare to Lead Facilitator.<br />
Dare to Lead keynotes and workshops<br />
I am excited to share my insights based<br />
on my personal experience and Brené<br />
Brown’s 20-year study on courage at the<br />
Humans under Management conference<br />
in September. I will be introducing the<br />
Dare to Lead philosophy to the industry<br />
and encourage financial planners to move<br />
towards Daring Leadership.<br />
Financial planners have a unique role, and<br />
indeed, responsibility, to understand their<br />
clients’ relationship with money so that they<br />
can enable them to change the behaviour<br />
that no longer serves them – and put money<br />
in its rightful place.<br />
Kim Potgieter<br />
Marketing and Life Planning Director,<br />
CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER®,<br />
Retiremeant Specialist<br />
• If you would like more information on the<br />
Dare to Lead programme, please email Kim<br />
Potgieter at kim@kimpotgieter.co.za<br />
www.bluechipjournal.co.za<br />
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