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LEADERSHIP<br />

I flew to the States to meet and learn from<br />

him. We returned to South Africa with eight<br />

books that Mitch had written and a world<br />

of knowledge, ready to re-think financial<br />

planning at Chartered Wealth Solutions. We<br />

now initiate our journey with a life planning<br />

meeting as a precursor to financial planning,<br />

giving each client a tailor-made life plan.<br />

My first introduction to Brené Brown<br />

During the process of learning, getting to<br />

know myself better and working with clients,<br />

I came across a Ted Talk entitled "The Power of<br />

Vulnerability". This was my first introduction to<br />

Brené’s work and the beginning of a long-term<br />

admiration. A good friend shared that Daring<br />

Greatly was one of her favourite books of all<br />

time. As a self-proclaimed learner and teacher,<br />

I immediately bought the book, and started<br />

my six-year journey with Brené Brown.<br />

Learnings from Brené Brown<br />

I have since read all of Brené’s books. Daring<br />

Greatly taught me that vulnerability is our<br />

clearest path to courage, and that if we allow<br />

ourselves to drop the armour, we are more<br />

open to authentic experiences that bring true<br />

meaning to our lives. It inspired me to bring<br />

my whole self to the world, as wife, mother,<br />

friend, businesswoman and coach, especially<br />

with clients in life planning meetings.<br />

Rising Strong contains a powerful<br />

message: if we are brave, we will stumble and<br />

fall at times. But it is in the falling that we learn<br />

from our disappointments, giving us the<br />

power to rise up with renewed hope. I was<br />

encouraged to step out of my comfort zone<br />

and write my book, Retiremeant – Get More<br />

Meaning From Your Money, and to launch my<br />

own brand. This was a leap of faith for me, but<br />

I felt compelled to share my message. Next,<br />

Brené wrote Braving the Wilderness, which<br />

guides us to being our authentic selves.<br />

Parallel journeys<br />

When I entered the financial planning<br />

industry, sharing the Life Planning<br />

philosophy, I was often met with blank stares<br />

and disbelief. I introduced this revolutionary<br />

concept at many conferences, urging<br />

planners to understand their clients’ history,<br />

principles and personality before advising<br />

on their finances. Many planners argued that<br />

they did not have the time for life planning.<br />

My learnings from Brené’s work encouraged<br />

me to stay steadfast on my path, offering<br />

support and guidance to whoever wanted to<br />

join me. I truly believe that when the student<br />

is ready, the teacher will appear.<br />

Brown released her latest book, Dare<br />

to Lead, in 2018. Her work has had such a<br />

significant impact on my life, on a personal<br />

and business level, that I applied (and was<br />

accepted) to be trained by Brené Brown’s as<br />

a Dare to Lead Facilitator.<br />

Dare to Lead keynotes and workshops<br />

I am excited to share my insights based<br />

on my personal experience and Brené<br />

Brown’s 20-year study on courage at the<br />

Humans under Management conference<br />

in September. I will be introducing the<br />

Dare to Lead philosophy to the industry<br />

and encourage financial planners to move<br />

towards Daring Leadership.<br />

Financial planners have a unique role, and<br />

indeed, responsibility, to understand their<br />

clients’ relationship with money so that they<br />

can enable them to change the behaviour<br />

that no longer serves them – and put money<br />

in its rightful place.<br />

Kim Potgieter<br />

Marketing and Life Planning Director,<br />

CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER®,<br />

Retiremeant Specialist<br />

• If you would like more information on the<br />

Dare to Lead programme, please email Kim<br />

Potgieter at kim@kimpotgieter.co.za<br />

www.bluechipjournal.co.za<br />

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