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| Q&A<br />

PROCESS OF DISCOVERY<br />

Fifteen years ago, SUSIE THEULE had an idea. Today, that idea has a name:<br />

<strong>SLO</strong> Classical Academy. The private school, known to many as <strong>SLO</strong>CA, is a<br />

uniquely California entrepreneur-in-a-garage start up story that now enrolls<br />

412 students. Its director stopped by our office the other day to talk about the<br />

challenges that come with balancing the management of a growing program,<br />

which employees a staff of eighty, as well as remaining present for her<br />

husband and four children. Here is some of what she had to say…<br />

Okay, Susie, let’s talk about where you are from.<br />

I grew up outside Chicago in a Northwest suburb<br />

called Arlington Heights. I lived in only two<br />

different houses there before going away to school.<br />

For college, I decided that I wanted to get out<br />

either to the beach or to the mountains, so I ended<br />

up going down to San Diego. After graduation, I<br />

ended up moving up to LA to get my doctorate<br />

in clinical psychology. And, during that time, I<br />

met my husband and got married. We lived in San<br />

Clemente, which is an amazing little beach town,<br />

but it’s still in Orange County. His brother had<br />

gone to Cal Poly, so we had visited and knew that<br />

we loved it here and knew we wanted to raise a<br />

family here. So, when he had a job opportunity that<br />

felt right, we moved.<br />

And, how was the transition? As soon as we<br />

arrived, I said to my husband, “How about we<br />

start a school?” And the poor man had just been<br />

through my doctorate, my dissertation, and my<br />

psychology licensing, and we moved, and we had<br />

just had our third child. He said, “Please, can<br />

you please wait just a year?” So, a year later I was<br />

looking for a book, and I met someone who was an<br />

educator. She had always wanted to start a school<br />

here and, so, we put our heads together and did a<br />

bunch of work and ended up opening <strong>SLO</strong>CA in<br />

2005. We started at four homes around the city,<br />

including our own. We whitewashed our garage<br />

and added a window. We had eleven first graders in<br />

there and total enrollment was thirty-seven by the<br />

first half of the year. I was pretty sure it wasn’t legal<br />

for us to be doing this in our home.<br />

You just jumped in with both feet. Yes, exactly. I<br />

really had no idea what I was doing, literally. I just<br />

knew what I wanted for my kids. I would do many<br />

things differently had I known what I know now.<br />

So, we really needed to clean that up, but we also<br />

knew that the school would not be sustainable if<br />

people are driving all over the city to four different<br />

houses. And, I knew that if we were in a setting that<br />

was an actual school site that more people would<br />

be attracted to it and have a higher level of trust.<br />

Fortunately, that proved to be true. We just kind<br />

of grew and grew and grew for years, by leaps and<br />

bounds. We rent the old Teach Elementary School<br />

campus from San Luis Coastal Unified and we’ve<br />

had a great relationship with the district, but we<br />

are outgrowing it. It’s across the street from Cal<br />

Poly and we also rent houses across the street to<br />

house our high school. We’ve completely gutted<br />

and remodeled five homes over there, but we’re<br />

outgrowing them, as well.<br />

Let’s switch gears for a moment and talk about<br />

your background in psychology. Sure, okay, I’m<br />

a depth psychologist by training, so there are lots<br />

of deep thoughts going on with me, and emotions,<br />

and thinking about life. I have a rich internal life,<br />

always thinking. My mind is running all of the<br />

time. But, I really have a lot on my plate in terms of<br />

just completing tasks and trying to remain present.<br />

Every day, I’m aware of my weaknesses and how<br />

I screw up with my parenting and my leadership.<br />

People say to me, “I don’t know how you do what<br />

you do.” And, I do it the same way everybody else<br />

does it. I get up every day and put my clothes on,<br />

take a shower, and just put one foot in front of the<br />

other. But, yeah, I don’t know. I’m a bundle of other<br />

things going on, I think, underneath this leadership<br />

tag that I have somehow found myself in—I’m<br />

a very reluctant leader. I really did this because I<br />

wanted something special for my kids and then saw<br />

that so many other people wanted that same thing<br />

for their kids, as well.<br />

That must be difficult to balance. You know, I really<br />

am sort of a troubled soul. I’m very contemplative,<br />

probably to a fault. So, everything that happens to<br />

me goes through a process of discovery, wondering<br />

what it’s about. I’m also a really deep feeler. I feel<br />

a great, heavy responsibility, and so I carry that,<br />

and I think about it a lot. I’m just contemplative<br />

and thoughtful and can sort of get stuck in<br />

that sometimes. And then I think what makes<br />

it difficult is I really believe in living in the<br />

moment. I really want to look in my kids’ eyes<br />

and know what they’re thinking and feeling<br />

that day. I also want to really know the people<br />

I work with; and I’ve got a list of tasks that’s just<br />

insane at work and at home. I have four kids. I think<br />

that’s why going for a paddle on Lopez Lake works<br />

so well for me. It gives me time to just sort of be<br />

quiet. I don’t listen to anything out on the lake. I<br />

just paddle and sort of pray and think. I try to tend<br />

to myself a little bit. <strong>SLO</strong> <strong>LIFE</strong><br />

30 | <strong>SLO</strong> <strong>LIFE</strong> MAGAZINE | FEB/MAR <strong>2020</strong>

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