Deyah Magazine Issue #6 July 2019

JULY 2019 #ISSUE 6 

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DEYAH MAGAZINE 

DEYAH 

AFRO/CARIB MUSIC | LIFESTYLE | CULTURE 

CONTENTS 

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EVENT BUZZ 

ONE FAMALAY CONCERT 

RICHIE SPICE 

FLYING THE FLAG OF CONSCIOUSNESS 

BUSINESS 

PROUD & GIFTED 

SOCA BUZZ 

CREDABLE (RELEASE DE RIDDIM) 

EVENT BUZZ 

MS DESIRE AND FRIENDS 

CHARTS 

UK HYPE REGGAE/DANCEHALL TOP TEN 

FATFIB FASHION 

SUMMER MUST HAVES 

HEALTH 

ORAL LICHEN PLANUS 

SEXPRESS 

SEXUAL SATISFACTION (PT1) 

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DID YOU KNOW - CARNIVAL 

In the later 50s Claudia Jones an event at the St Pancras Town hall to recreate 

the Caribbean carnival experience for immigrants in the Uk. This was also to help 

relieve the tensions of the race issues. 

1. Notting Hill is the second largest in the world. Rio de Janeiro, sits at 1st place 

2. Notting hill carnival was first held in 1966. This was started by Rhaune Laslett 

it was called the Notting Hill fayre, but the mother of carnival is considered to be 

Claudia Jones. 

3. Notting Hill requires over 40,000 volunteers and in excess of 9000 police 

officers to man the parade every year 

4. There are over 1 million attendees at Notting hill each August Bank Holiday. (last 

bank holiday of August) 

5. Costumes come in different sizes shapes, style and colour and Every year there 

are around 17,000 costumes on display. 

6. Bands Aka Masquerade bands get pretty big they take a lot of co-ordination. 

and planning. There are some 70 plus bands and each Mas Band can hold between 

30- 300 people. 

7. Sundays traditionally is kid’s day a more family orientated day, the crowd is 

usually much smaller and on Monday is adult day. 

8. There are 60 plus performing stages, steel pan bands and sounds systems and 

food stales. 

9. Dutty Mas - oil, paint and powder J’Ouver. J’Ouver is normally on the first day of 

Carnival (Carnival Sunday) 6am dutty mas starts. 

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EDITORS NOTE 

The gauntlet has been thrown down and the race is now in full heat. 

It’s July and the heat in the UK is rising, Carnival in St. Lucia is ending now, 

Rotterdam is in fully swing. What does carnival mean to you, to the UK, to us that 

are from the islands with Soca flowing through our veins. 

Like the four seasons, Soca seems to be a season in its own right. A music not 

recognised as a genre, just a seasonal music that brings the festivity with it like 

Christmas or Birthdays once a year. 

CREDITS 

Writers: 

AC Christie - @ilovecarnival - christieac4@gmail.com 

Mr Wondah - allgoodnsweet@yahoo.co.uk 

Abbie Tiny Samuel - @tinyhoudini – abbie.samuel139@hotmail.co.uk 

SexPress – sexpress@deyah.co.uk 

Janice Fletcher - janice.25@hotmail.co.uk 

Tricia Blake - tricia@divachoice.co.uk 

Lisa Brown - browncoachpr@gmail.com 

Chantelle Ldn 

Photographers: 

Bampson @bampson1 

JiggadPhotography - @jiggadphotography 

Shapshutta - @sharpshutta_photos 

Trinis In London - @trinisinlondon 

Designer: Yomi - yomeyusuf@gmail.com 

Creatives: Escapism 360, @Nlpr_studios – Tricia Blake 

Fashion: 

Tricia - @Divachoice_ceo 

Sasha - @makeupby_sasha 

Dancehall Honies: 

Shoot MUA 

Charts: Epik Jones - @epikjjones - epikint@gmail.com 

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ONE FAMALAY CONCERT 

Written by: Alvaro Barrington x Socaholic x Colours Carnival 

What inspired the One Famalay Concert? 

Art is always who we are. It’s about community – sharing ideas through music, 

dance, painting, performances. I grew up first in the Caribbean and then in a 

Caribbean American community in Brooklyn, and have studied art for over twenty 

years, including at the Slade here in London. On my first visit to London, I stayed 

with my Jamaican aunt and extended family. My practice is always concerned 

with celebrating communities in the way that they celebrate themselves, and the 

diverse cultural languages in which we celebrate ourselves, so I am responsive to 

both carnival and the millions who celebrate it as I do, also those of us who love 

to go to galleries and museums to see paintings. Working together with Socaholic 

and Colours Carnival allowed us to create an experience that links communities 

and ideas. The concert is one kind of experience because it’s short, packed, and 

relatively small. Carnival is another: it’s massive, two days long, a lot of bodies and 

energy. You probably will lose your friends but find new friends. The show at Sadie 

Coles HQ is on for nearly two months. It is another way of viewing the paintings 

in relative quiet with your own thoughts. You can get deep into your thoughts 

with the paintings. All these experiences are valuable and touch on the different 

ways we process art and community. The paintings are the beginning of a fourshow 

run about the life of Marcus Garvey and his relationships to London, the 

Caribbean and New York. It’s the first chapter, so it starts with birth, sex, nurturing 

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and family (famalay) which is the first relationship we have in the world. One of 

the challenges is that galleries often have mostly white viewers and I’m talking 

about a black man and black relationships, and I think there are responsible ways 

to share these ideas and stories. I knew I needed to go to black folks in a way that 

allows them to become part of what’s happening, to be in the conversation. And 

Caribbean folks celebrate carnival so it was my job to reach them in a space that 

is organic to the culture, which we are doing in a delicate collaborative manner. 

The people who have made the choices – like who performs, where we perform – 

are folks whose careers are centred around carnival. We’ve used our resources to 

make it happen. The overall experience, from the concert to carnival to the show, 

hopefully, highlights the exchanges formed in a multicultural city like London while 

at the same time acknowledging the long history of those exchanges. At the same 

time as Garvey was looking at Africa while studying here in London, Gauguin was 

visiting Martinique, Picasso was looking at African sculptures, Matisse was visiting 

Harlem to listen to Jazz. Many of the elements of Africa can be found in Carnival, 

they were all finding new ideas, passing on old ideas through exchanges, through 

making, although in a specific cultural context. An underlying story in the paintings 

is Anansi the spider, mixed with Louise Bourgeois’s spider, who then becomes a 

stand-in for my mom (as the spider was for Bourgeois) and my mom’s relationship 

with my dad, giving birth to me, remarrying my stepdad ten years later, and then 

them having my brother. 

Alvaro Barrington, 2019 

How has the response been like for the event? 

It has been Phenomenal, people are genuinely blown away as they never saw it 

coming! I guess keeping something like this a secret was exciting for all those 

involved and now that it’s out there the response has been nothing but positive 

- putting on a concert of this magnitude with headline artists in their own right 

and making it as accessible to as many people as possible is the biggest and most 

important factor and I feel like we are accomplishing that. 

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What’s the target audience of the One Famalay Concert? 

We do not feel like we need to preach to the converted as we already have an 

amazing community that are absolutely die-hard soca fans - they go far and 

wide, travel not only up and down the country but also into the UK for our 

spectacular Notting Hill Carnival so putting on a concert of this calibre feels 

especially important to try and push this concert to as many people as we possibly 

can outside of the soca scene. We desperately want this genre of music to be 

appreciated and recognised globally, by opening this up to a wider audience we 

begin to elevate our culture, art and music which leads to exciting opportunities 

being opened to everyone. 

Will this event become a yearly event? 

You will have to wait and see! 

What sets this concert apart from other events like it? 

That would be telling, we do not want to give away too much but think BIG! We 

are going for WOW-factor not only on the line-up but also on the curation of the 

concert itself. We are aiming to leave concert-goers in awe, invigorated and talking 

about this for years to come. 

You have a very star-studded line-up, any more surprise the fetter can look 

forward to? 

Oh, we are full of surprises, so all I can say is to stay tuned! 

Where can we find more information about One Famalay - The Carnival Concert? 

and most importantly where can we buy tickets? 

Links for the event: onefamalay.co.uk, Ticket Tailor, Ticketmaster 

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RICHIE SPICE 

Written by: Mr Wondah 

What’s been the biggest challenges you face on your mission? 

The biggest challenge is getting the words out, but it’s becoming a little easier with 

social media. 

You hail from rack hall and I understand you came from a very musical family? 

Yea, Rack hall St. Andrew. Spanner Banner, Pliers from Chaka Demus and Pliers and 

Snatcher lion we are all family. 

Was it inevitable for you to gravitate towards music based on your background? 

Well, Yes, I’m born into a house old that these activities are taking place so 

eventually it’s going to be a natural progression for one to just gravitate into. 

Earth a run red, topped the Billboard charts in 2004, racked up in excess of 5 

million views on YouTube and announced you to the world, what’s the creative 

history behind that song? 

I recorded the song for some time, then it got released and the feedback was great. 

everyone was wandering who sing the song as there was no face to it but whenever 

I performed the song I would get great response, you could tell people felt the 

energy. Then we linked up with 5th element. That’s when we got a video done so 

people could put a face to the song and then we formed a management team and 

they helped to propel the song even more. 

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Before you became a house old name, you toured with Rita Marley, Everton 

Blender and Chaka Demus and Pliers through Europe and USA back in the mid 

90s. Is this the reason live performance is such a big part of you? 

Well I would say yes, Because, doing a thing over and over the years, the more you 

grow, the more you learn the more you do it the more you get used to it and better 

at it. 

Youths dem cold is a very socially conscious song, what inspired that song? 

Well, that was just a natural vibration, you see where the youth’s suffering in the 

street, you see the lock of parenting, you see the youths out there cleaning car 

glass and begging, some are under age, those things are not too good for the 

future generation. So, as we see these things we try to address them and as we 

don’t get the opportunity to speak with those in charge we put it into music so 

they can still here our cries and get the message. 

You’ve share the stage with some elite names in music, world wide, what is your 

most memorable experience on stage? 

Most memorable experience, I went to Norway to perform once and I really got 

frightened while preforming, In the middle of the performance the people started 

running towards the stage even the band left the stage, I held my ground, I didn’t 

know where to run to and it was a good thing as it was just love the people was 

showing. 

At times it seems Dancehall is over shadowing Reggae; did you sit down an say 

right I’m going to concentrate on consciousness and spreading conscious music 

because the fans and the world needs to this music? 

Well, I am who I am, Whatever I do comes from within, I don’t plan these things, 

these are just natural expressions and vibrations, A natural mystic as the king would 

say. 

Trouble in the world on the first born riddim is a very social conscious song. How 

did that song come about? 

Well, I mean that song came about from reflecting on the all that was and is 

happening out there in the world, all the pollution, the breaking down of the ozone 

layer, the greed etc. all these things happening and no one seem to be looking out 

for the next generation coming, all these things are trouble. 

Marijuana Pon De Corner that’s another one? 

Yes-man, lol, now you talking about the healing of the nation, the world is crying 

out for medicine and there’s no other medicine like the herbs, you can extract all 

these medicine from it to treat all types of ailment’s. 

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One sky, one light, two hearts, one night, a 

sample from the single beautiful life which 

features Canadian singer Kathryn Aria. The 

song combines your strongest themes, love 

and consciousness, you used nature to reflect 

the love between a man and a woman. That 

shows vision. What is the creative history of 

this song? 

My friend from element music group 

introduced me to Kathryn, she’s from Canada, 

I listened to her and she as a unique vocal and 

mine is somewhat different as well, so we put 

these two together and based on the feedback 

of the people that’s what they want to hear. 

In the same breath give thanks to the I dem 

that support and play these types of music so 

the people can hear it because in these times 

these are what the people need to listen, the 

promotion of Love and oneness. 

I understand there a new album in the works how is that, going what can we 

expect? 

Well its finish we are just trying to pull it out the pipeline, we also have some 

features, Chronic, Catherine, Dre Island likewise. It’s a great album touching the 

usual subjects love oneness, social issues of course the herbs and a feel-good vibe 

for some skanking. 

How can people keep up with you find out what’s going on where you are going 

to be next? 

All they have to do is link me on Instagram and Twitter One Richie spice that’s 

number one. Just link me there and everything will come up. 

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BUSINESS 

PROUD & GIFTED 

Written by: Tricia Blake 

How did you get into your line of business? 

Research showed the lack of businesses showcasing Inspirational young people, so 

I created one. 

How long as your business been running? 

The business has been running for 10 months now. 

What has been the highlight of your business? 

Surprising someone with my Award, then seeing their reaction was priceless. 

What advice would you give to someone getting into the business? 

You have to believe in your brand 1000% and never get put off by people’s 

opinions. 

What inspired you to get into the business? 

The lack of people recognising Young People, inspired me to do it. 

Given the opportunity to cook at a 5star restaurant what dish would you prepare? 

I would prepare a traditional Antiguan dish of sweet potato dumplings with salt 

fish but I would give it my own twist and finesse. As it is important to maintain our 

traditions we can just revamp them for current times. 

What advice would you give to your 14-year-old self? 

Learn as much as you can, live life and live with no fair. 

If you weren’t doing this line of business what else would you be doing? 

Another business supporting Vulnerable People & Juveniles in police custody. 

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What is the one change you would implement in 

your industry, given the chance and why? 

I would implement more positive coverage 

celebrating young people’s achievements, why? 

There is currently too much negative news about 

our youths. 

Where do you see yourself and the business in 5 

years? 

I’d like the Business to be in a position to 

recognising a young person by, presenting them 

with an award 7 days of the week, and receive 

worldwide recognition. 

Myself = Key figure empowering a younger 

generation. 

How can you be contacted/socials? 

Email info@proudandgifted.co.uk Tel: 07506310044. 

Socials: proud and gifted on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, YouTube. 

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SOCA BUZZ 

WITH CREDABLE 

(RELEASE D RIDDIM) 

Written by: Abbie Tiny Samuel 

One of the places you’ve dj’ed at recently was Ibiza Soca, how was your 

experience? 

It was really great. Thinking about it I wondered how they can make it better but 

I had an amazing time and top it off they brought Machel [Montano] as a surprise 

artist. 

You have Dj’ed at Ibiza Soca for the last 3 years? 

Yes, Ibiza Soca started 3 years ago so I’ve been there from the start. It’s been great, 

we just do our thing. This is the first year we dj’ed at the boat party which was 

crazy. Our boat was crazy! We teamed up with DJ Spice (Team Soca) and it was 

a nice mix of people from different countries. We usually play 100% soca and we 

don’t like to repeat tracks. 

What was your favourite theme party? 

It had to be the carnival theme party because I love to play mas. 

Did you learn anything new from Djing at Ibiza Soca this year? 

Me personally I’m always thinking about what I’m playing, I might review what I’ve 

played, see how other people play, and see the crowd’s reaction to songs being 

played. 

Your known for doing the Zig Zag dance, which you did at one of the parties. 

How did you learn how to do it? 

My boy Raph showed me how to do it at Toulouse carnival earlier this year. I already 

kind of had a dance in my head but when the track came on I was getting ready to 

do it, then he joined in and naturally we created the dance. Raph originally started 

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off the dance in Trinidad but it really picked up when we were in Toulouse when 

everyone started joining in. 

You are apart of Release D Riddim, how did that start? 

Release D Riddim started on 7th April 2007. We were going to a lot of fetes 

and weren’t hearing songs we thought should had played. We spoke to Martin 

Jay about it and he said if you want to hear those type of songs do something 

yourselves. On 7th April 2007, we had our own fete for the first time it was £1 entry. 

It was successful and became a weekly event. We then had an event called ‘Red 

Eye’ that went on all night from 10pm to 6am with no repetition of songs. 

Apart from Djing, what other projects are you doing as part of Release D Riddim? 

We have a mas band that’s been going on for 6 years, we also organise packages 

for people and we take them to carnivals if they want to experience it, we arrange 

their accommodation etc. The next trips we’re doing are Barbados, Grenada, 

London (Notting Hill Carnival) and then Miami. 

What is your role within the Release D Riddim Mas band? 

I originally started off as a band leader and would help out at the mas camp for 

Dragons before we had our own band. Now that I’m one of the mas owners I mainly 

oversee everything that happens but still help out where I can. 

What other weekenders have you done this year? 

This year has been really busy. We did Caribbean weekender in the UK - we get 

brought in to play soca. We did Touolouse carnival, Hollywood, there’s been so 

many. We do private parties and play at other events too. 

What’s the toughest crowd you’ve had to deal with? 

It depends on what I’m playing. At soca parties I don’t have to worry, private parties 

can be a bit more difficult. Recently I played for an Indian family so made sure I was 

up to date on the Bhangra and make sure I had all of the tunes but they were also 

requesting songs which made it easier - I even took the opportunity to throw in 

some Chutney soca. 

What events do you have coming up for the rest of this year? 

Rotterdam carnival, Crop Over, Quencher boat cruise in Barbados, a fete called 

DRUM at a club called Bananas in Grenada, Dreamland Jouvert in London, Miami 

and then Uber Soca Cruise. 

How can fetters and promoter contact you, book you or just keep updated with 

what you are doing? 

You can follow me on: Instagram Credable1, Facebook Credable Stephen, 

Twitter – Credable, Also follow Release D Riddim on all socials. 

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EVENT BUZZ 

MS DESIRE AND FRIENDS 

Written by: Abbie Tiny Samuel 

What inspired the Ms Desire and Friends 

event? 

I’ve always wanted to do a concert like 

this, but the timing has never been right. 

This year just felt like the right time. I’ve 

built an extensive catalogue, have my 

own band and so ready to perform for 

everyone that has been supporting me 

over the years. 

What as the response been like for the event? 

The response has been fantastic. Better than I even expected. The ticket orders are 

coming in and I couldn’t be happier. 

What’s the target audience Ms Desire and Friends? 

The target audience is anyone who loves soca music and loves and appreciates of 

live music. 

What can attendees expect at this your 1st headline show? 

It will be night filled with good vibes, great music and lots of talent from my 

musical friends! 

What sets your show apart from other events like it? 

The authenticity. I’m not here trying to make my concert the best thing for the 

Nottinghill Carnival season. I’m just here trying to entertain and connect with my 

fans from my heart to theirs; and I think that’s what will set it apart. 

What are some of the attractions people can look forward to? 

People can look forward to the guest artists, which will be revealed over time and 

they can also look forward to hearing all their favorite Ms Desire songs; old and 

new. 

Where can we find more information about wet it up and buy tickets? 

You can get tickets from www.desireandfriends.eventbrite.co.uk – tickets are free!! 

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FABFIT 

FASHION 

summer must haves 

written by Tricia Blake 

Photo by DeMorris Byrd on Unsplash 

We are in the middle of festival season, not to mention all of the day parties and 

the ultimate Street Festival Notting-Hill Carnival!! 

We have you covered with some of the hottest trendy fashion pieces to fit any 

summer party occasion……..take a look 

Playboy x Missguided Green 

Tropical print mesh playsuit £25 

missguided.co.uk 

Neon Orange Satin Caged 

Bralet £18 

prettylittlething.com 

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Venus Reversible Vest 

£39 

divachoice.co.uk 

Fringe White High Neck 

Festival Dress £26 

isawitfirst.com 

Zara Marie Swimsuit/Body Suit 

£30 

divachoice.co.uk 

Zara Light Blue Ripped Shorts 

£19.99 

zara.com 

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HEALTH 

ORAL LICHEN PLANUS 

By Janice Fletcher - Qualified Dental Nurse 

I really do hope you are all enjoying the summer weather. In this month’s health 

issue I will be looking at an oral health disease called Lichen Planus. Did you know 

that there are still a lot of people within our society who are so unaware of “What is 

Lichen Planus?” 

Lichen Planus is a long lasting disease that can 

affect the mouth and sometimes other areas of 

the body. It presents itself in the form of an itchy 

rash. The affected areas are usually the mouth 

(oral Lichen Planus), arms and legs, nails and 

scalp, vulva, vagina and penis. The exact cause is 

unknown however the condition is not infectious 

and does not run in families. Approximately 1-2% 

of the population worldwide is affected by this 

disease. However Oral Lichen Planus is more 

common in females. Oral Lichen Planus predominantly occurs in adults older than 

40 years, although younger adults and children can be affected. There is however 

no known cause of the disease in most patients. However it may be a sign of mild 

weakness in the body’s immune system although patients with Lichen Planus are 

always well. Lichen Planus can be caused by a reaction to medicines such as pain 

killers, diabetic treatment, high blood pressure tablets and a number of other 

medications. 

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Lichen Planus is usually diagnosed by a doctor or a dentist if it’s Oral Lichen Planus 

by examining the rash and asking about your symptoms. A biopsy is usually carried 

out before a full diagnosis is made. Lichen Planus usually turns up as a white patch 

in the lining of the mouth, especially the cheeks, tongue and gums. Sometimes pain 

can be experienced with this condition. Emotional stress and spicy food or citrus 

fruits can often cause symptoms to worsen. 

There is no single treatment that will cure it completely; however treatments are 

available such as steroid creams and ointments to help manage the symptoms. It 

only needs to be treated if you are in severe pain. If corticosteroids are not effective 

in treating patients symptoms you may be prescribed a medication to supress the 

immune system. Topical corticosteroids help to treat the inflammation and redness 

caused by the Lichen Planus. Mild treatment of Lichen Planus will not require 

treatment however a mouthwash not containing alcohol is used to numb the mouth 

thus making eating easier. 

USEFUL TIPS Can I stop myself getting Oral Lichen Planus? 

As the cause is usually not known it is impossible to stop it. To avoid the risk of 

serious disease of the lining of the mouth: 

• Do not smoke 

• Don’t drink large amounts of alcohol 

• Do have a diet with plenty of fresh fruit and vegetables. 

• Regular brushing of your teeth and tongue twice a day with a fluoride 

toothpaste 

• You have your teeth, gums and cheek checked regularly to spot any changes 

in the lining of the mouth. 

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SEXPLORATION 

SEXUAL SATISFACTION (PART 1) 

By SexPress 

Sitting in a restaurant on a night out eating food with friends is something I 

try to do on a regular basis. As usual it wouldn’t be a night out if the subject of 

relationships and sex don’t come up and sexually satisfaction was the main topic. 

What was revealed was that a few women at the table, had issues with not being 

sexually satisfied by their partners. This is a common theme and trust me they are 

not alone. There are too many women out here finding themselves with men who 

are not willing to put in the effort in making sure their woman is sexually satisfied. 

Now let’s make it clear, I’m not talking about the side chick, or the one night stands, 

we will go into that another time, but these are supposed to be the bonified. the 

one who you go home to after a long day, the one who you have kids with , pay the 

bills with, cooks your dinners and makes sure your clothes are washed. But let’s be 

fair, if you haven’t stated what works for you sexually in your relationship then how 

will he know. We as women, need to also take some responsibility here too. 

The time you have with me is a short, but I’m aiming for it to be sweet, lol. 

When having sex, you want someone to buss opened those chains, while releasing 

the woman in you. So here are two basic ways you can take more responsibility and 

try and make your sexual experiences a little better. 

1. Be vocal about your sexual desires. 

In some cases we don’t know what we like sexually and that’s OK. I’m sure there is 

something that you would prefer your partner to do more of or there is something 

that you would like to try (We can talk about explorations another time.) so let 

him know, but be realistic, don’t take the piss. I MUST MAKE IT CLEAR, I know 

us women can go on brutal at times, so be mindful of how you address this 

conversation. State how you feel, without being negative and meet your partner in 

the middle, Rome wasn’t built in a day. For example you could say , I love it when 

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you……….. Do you know when you do this it drives me crazy………… I always think 

about ……. or it gets me horny when…….., have you ever wanted to try………..etc. This 

is to minimise your other half feeling disheartened or that your bashing his ego, so 

be gentle. Ask what he may want to change in the bedroom, this may also give him 

the chance to air what his likes and dislikes also. If talking about sex isn’t normal 

for you both, start with small statements. Be mindful of when you’re having these 

convos, avoid when he has just gotten in from a long day, when he is rushing to go 

somewhere, this is not the time. Maybe try a date night or when it’s just you two 

at the dinner table, the key is that you’re telling him what you want, not what you 

don’t want. 

Talking about what works for you isn’t selfish, rude, or anything negative. when 

everyone gets what they want, everyone is happy and performs better. 

2. Pay attention. 

Give your partner a few sessions to build his confidence and put things into action. 

Let him find his way into doing what you like, he needs to find his grove. When he 

does start making progress, make sure you acknowledge it and say how much you 

enjoyed it. Nothing worse than not being praised for making change, especially 

when someone asked for it and it went unnoticed. If you feel that he’s attempting 

to do what you like and maybe not doing it how you like it, then maybe guide there 

hand or move your body to the right place to support. OK JUST TO BE CLEAR…. 

IF YOU WANT HIM TO GIVE YOU ORAL DON’T SIT ON HIS FACE WITHOUT HIS 

CONSENT, IT DON’T WORK LIKE THAT. Just try and be subtle in your actions, 

unless they ask you to be blatant. 

Let’s start speaking and exploring our sexual selves more, we only have one life 

and sex is a big part of it for most of us. All those nerve ending were placed in the 

clitoris for a reason, so lets put them to good use. lol 

Part two we will look at some of the repercussions of not being in a sexually 

satisfying relationship and the problems that it can bring. For both of you…… 

Send messages, questions, etc @ sexpress@deyah.co.uk 

Sexy tunes of the month: 

Lucky Daye - Try your fire, Summer Walker - Grave 

Enjoy, 

SexPress XxX 

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