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Vanguard Newspaper 12 July 2020
Vanguard Newspaper 12 July 2020
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SUNDAY Vanguard, JULY 12, 2020, PAGE 21<br />
Stranger than fiction – Could some men get this low!?<br />
Are today’s women<br />
trying to out-do the<br />
men in their quest<br />
for sex? When we accuse<br />
some men of being lechers,<br />
isn’t their success to do with<br />
the connivance of their<br />
‘victims’? When I came<br />
across a recent story of the<br />
nightmare a young man<br />
Andy went through in the<br />
hands of her fiancee’s mum<br />
and grandma, I was lost for<br />
words. According to him: “I<br />
had a wonderful fiancee and<br />
we were saving up to buy a<br />
flat together. I was very<br />
happy with my wife. Then<br />
something happened to<br />
change that.<br />
“It began when my fiancee<br />
asked me to help her<br />
decorate her mother’s house.<br />
We both took the day off<br />
work and threw ourselves<br />
into the job. Halfway<br />
through, she got a phone call<br />
from the office, asking her to<br />
go in. I felt bad leaving her<br />
mum to decorate alone, so I<br />
offered to stay and finish it<br />
off. I worked hard all day.<br />
My fiancee’s mum was<br />
delighted and suggested<br />
toasting her new-look home<br />
with a drink. She opened a<br />
bottle of wine, we both had a<br />
couple of glasses and I<br />
began to feel tipsy. What<br />
happened next took me by<br />
surprise. One minute we<br />
were admiring the room,<br />
the next we were kissing<br />
passionately. We stumbled<br />
upstairs to the bedroom<br />
and into bed.<br />
“A little while later, I<br />
heard a creaking sound. I<br />
glanced up to see my<br />
fiancee’s grandmother<br />
popping her head round<br />
the door. She looked<br />
shocked but put her finger<br />
to her lips, then<br />
disappeared. Her<br />
daughter didn’t notice a<br />
thing. A few minutes went<br />
by, then the <strong>front</strong> door<br />
opened and shut loudly<br />
and we heard my fiancee’s<br />
grandmother calling<br />
hello. Her daughter leapt<br />
out of bed, threw her<br />
clothes on and told me to<br />
come down in 10 minutes.<br />
I did as she asked and said<br />
I’d better be off. My<br />
fiancee’s grandmother<br />
insisted on giving me a<br />
lift. I couldn’t refuse.<br />
“As we got into her car,<br />
she started to laugh. She<br />
told me not to worry, that<br />
she wouldn’t say a thing.<br />
She said if I did her a<br />
small `favour’ then she’d<br />
lose her memory”. We<br />
arrived at her home and<br />
went inside. I asked where<br />
she wanted me to start<br />
decorating but she ignored<br />
me. Instead, she began<br />
telling me that she hadn’t<br />
been with a man for many<br />
years. That even though she<br />
had vibrators, she missed<br />
the `human touch’. She<br />
might be a grandmother,<br />
but she was in her early 60s.<br />
“Suddenly, I realised what<br />
she was asking of me. I was<br />
horrified but knew she\d tell<br />
my fiancee if I didn’t agree.<br />
I thought that once it was<br />
over, I could put it all to the<br />
back of my mind and forget<br />
about it. I was wrong. Now<br />
I have two women<br />
constantly pestering me<br />
for sex. They won’t give<br />
up. They keep inventing<br />
excuses for me to go to<br />
their homes to `help out’.<br />
It looks mean if I don’t go,<br />
but once there, I’m<br />
cornered. My fiancee is<br />
starting to suspect that<br />
something is wrong but<br />
she’d never guess the<br />
truth. The guilt is<br />
overwhelming. I<br />
desperately want to tell<br />
her but I know it would<br />
spell the end of our<br />
relationship. I love my<br />
fiancee so much and I’m<br />
desperate not to lose her.<br />
Is there a way out for me,<br />
or have I ruined any<br />
chance of a happy future<br />
with the woman I love? ...”<br />
My first reaction was to<br />
laugh. Who did this<br />
adventurer think he was<br />
kidding? Did he genuinely<br />
believe that if he didn’t<br />
bonk his fiancee’s grandmother,<br />
she would let it<br />
slip about his being<br />
caught in bed with her<br />
own mother? And risk<br />
being condemned by both<br />
daughter and granddaughter?<br />
Please!<br />
I recently shared Andy’s<br />
experience with a male<br />
friend of mine, expecting<br />
him to be appalled by<br />
Andy’s recklessness. He<br />
told me he was actually<br />
bemused by my<br />
indignance. “Women are<br />
equally wayward when it<br />
comes to the grand<br />
seduction”, he told me<br />
flatly. “You hear of the<br />
devoted wife and mother<br />
who constantly sleeps<br />
with her father-in-law, or<br />
the disgruntled ex-wife<br />
who still bonks her ex-s<br />
much older uncle years<br />
after the break up of her<br />
marriage. The uncle<br />
makes sure she never<br />
wants for anything<br />
financially and even if the<br />
ex finally got a whiff of the<br />
scandal, there’s nothing<br />
he could do except make<br />
a lot of noise”.<br />
When it comes to sex, he<br />
affirms, your best bet is to<br />
get it wherever you can<br />
and with whoever you can<br />
as long as the chemistry if<br />
right! I’m still trying to<br />
get that round my head!<br />
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Agbarha Warri communities distance selves from threat<br />
to oil firms<br />
The Agbarha Warri riverine<br />
oil communities of<br />
Ukpokiti and Oteghele in Warri<br />
South Local Government Area of<br />
Delta State have disassociated<br />
themselves from a threat to oil and<br />
gas companies in Warri South ,<br />
Warri South- West and Warri<br />
North local government areas in<br />
a petition to President<br />
Muhammadu Buhari written by<br />
one Roland Oti Yomere.<br />
The inuovwodo (representatives<br />
of Agbarha Warri) of the two<br />
communities, High Chief Victor<br />
Usiakpor and High Chief Samuel<br />
Itu in their reaction made<br />
available newsmen in Warri at the<br />
weekend, noted that the news item<br />
could destabilize and cause<br />
pandemonium in the area<br />
The two Agbarha-Warri high<br />
chiefs made it clear that Ukpokiti<br />
and Oteghele are Urhobo<br />
communities of Agbarha-Warri<br />
autonomous kingdom and not<br />
parts of Omadino federated<br />
communities as claimed by<br />
Yomere. They said Yomere cannot<br />
speak on behalf the two<br />
communities.<br />
The two Agbarha Warri chiefs<br />
insisted that the two communities<br />
were never consulted before the<br />
threat was issued and therefore<br />
added "If there is eventually a shut<br />
down of oil well and gas locations<br />
in our area, government should<br />
hold him responsible ".<br />
Chief Usiakpor and Chief Itu<br />
maintained that Ukpokiti and<br />
Oteghele are peace-loving<br />
communities and therefore<br />
cannot be part of any action that<br />
would be inimical to the revenue<br />
generation of Delta State and<br />
federal governments.<br />
They however appealed to<br />
President Buhari to prevail on<br />
Niger Delta Development<br />
Commission (NDDC) contractor<br />
handling the Omadino/Ukpokiti<br />
and Okerenkoko Escravos<br />
Bridge project to return to site,<br />
adding that the completion of the<br />
project would attract meaningful<br />
development to the area.<br />
WASC Bible varsity holds maiden matriculation<br />
ASC Bible University, Ekete,<br />
WDelta State of the Celestial<br />
Church of Christ has held its maiden<br />
matriculation for students of the 2019/<br />
2020 academic session.<br />
The institution also used the<br />
occasion to honour some<br />
distinguished personalities with<br />
honorary doctorate degrees and<br />
award of honour.<br />
Some of the recipients include;<br />
Chief (Dr.) Freeman O. Ikpen; Engr.<br />
(Dr.) Moses Eyewubokan; Chief (Dr.)<br />
Dickson M. Najomoh. Also among the<br />
recipients of Award of Honour was the<br />
first female bishop in Uvwie, Bishop<br />
(Dr.) Ileleji Felicia, founder of God's<br />
Command Ministry, Effurun.<br />
In a welcome address, the Registrar,<br />
WASC Bible University, Sis. Gloria<br />
Novughakpo, stated that WASC Bible<br />
University is the work of Celestial<br />
Church of Christ Welfare<br />
Association of Shepherds and<br />
Clergies with the intention of<br />
preparing and equipping<br />
ministers for the propagation of<br />
the gospel of Jesus Christ.<br />
The registrar while presenting<br />
the 14 matriculating students,<br />
congratulated them for taking a<br />
decision to receive knowledge<br />
and divine impartation in the<br />
institution. According to her, the<br />
vision of WASC is to raise<br />
kingdom messengers.<br />
Mr. Akhabue-Airiede Matthew<br />
and Bishop (Dr.) Ileleji Felicia<br />
who responded on behalf of<br />
recipients of the awards<br />
commended board members of<br />
the Bible University for the<br />
recognition and award bestowed<br />
on them.