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Efe Magazine Issue 15 – July/August 2020 Edition

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A STROKE OF STYLE<br />

BY PATTI PONTES-CHUNG<br />

How would you describe<br />

your armour?<br />

An armour is something you put on every single day. Whether intentionally<br />

or unknowingly, you are always wearing it. Your armour is what the world<br />

sees and is what others may be using to understand who you are as<br />

an individual.<br />

I describe my armour as strong, authentic and passionate.<br />

A first impression is based on a few seconds of being in someone’s presence.<br />

Your traits shine and exude through the energy you possess.<br />

It’s not about being voted the smartest in class or the prettiest gal at the<br />

party. We are all built with limitless super power and it goes deeper than<br />

words <strong>–</strong> it’s your vibration, and the pulsations you create with other people.<br />

Look! It’s legit science.<br />

Enclothed cognition <strong>–</strong> captures the systematic influence that clothes have on<br />

the wearer's psychological processes.<br />

Embodied cognition <strong>–</strong> Experts have discovered that our thought processes<br />

are based on physical experiences that set off associated abstract concepts,<br />

including those generated by the clothing we wear.<br />

So, what’s YOUR armour? What’s YOUR vibe? How do you hone in on<br />

what you are putting out to the world?<br />

Being comfortable with who you are, inside and out is an awe-inspiring<br />

feeling. People gravitate to those with the confidence to be their genuine<br />

self, and I think that’s because we all want to do the same. We are all made<br />

of magic but for whatever reason, life sometimes holds us back from shining<br />

as bright as we should.<br />

My mission is to help you bring out your true spirit and share that sparkle of<br />

yours, after all, the world we live in at the moment needs all the shine it can get!<br />

Seriously though <strong>–</strong> can we just talk about the world right now for a sec?<br />

Walking in my neighbourhood, I catch myself extending immense smiles and<br />

colossal waves to strangers because of how isolating our new world is. Life has<br />

changed so drastically and I am truly lost for human connection. I would jump<br />

over mountains to have coffee with you or sift through your closet with you<br />

while we laugh, cry, hug and help you discover your words of armour.<br />

However here we are <strong>–</strong> physically distant with a deep need to connect<br />

in new ways.<br />

Today’s world consists of zoom calls on a daily basis. Our home is the<br />

headquarters for all our personal, educational and business activity.<br />

The walls feel a lot smaller than they did before. It’s new... It's tricky...<br />

But it IS possible.<br />

MAGAZINE JUL/AUG <strong>2020</strong><br />

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