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y Alison Lobb<br />
FAMILY<br />
of current data? With the Internet so accessible, that is<br />
definitely an issue.<br />
Perhaps the easiest way to start, and to generate interest<br />
(and assistance) among relatives, is to produce a Grandma<br />
or Grandpa booklet. For my mother’s 80th birthday, I<br />
called each of the siblings, children and grandchildren<br />
and asked them, right then and there, to give me one<br />
word they would use to describe her, and a memory they<br />
had involving her. The results were fascinating, and even<br />
surprising. Who would have expected a teenage grandson<br />
to comment, “She has good legs”? I put their anecdotes<br />
together in a booklet, complete with photos through the<br />
years, and it was the hit of her birthday party.<br />
As an added bonus, I had not identified who said what,<br />
and she and Grandpa spent many hours trying to puzzle<br />
that out.<br />
Family memory books are the most personal, perfect gift<br />
you can give on any occasion. They generate discussion,<br />
and we were all surprised when my mother added her<br />
own anecdote.<br />
“There is an inscription on my wedding ring, because I<br />
insisted it was important that there be one,” Mom said.<br />
“Dad took care of it, but since he put the ring on my<br />
finger in 1933, I have never once had it off... so, I still<br />
have no idea what the inscription is!”<br />
hard cover book). I found, however, if I want 25 copies<br />
to share with relatives, it’s cheaper to have them printed<br />
locally at our excellent print shops — simply by creating<br />
a pdf document with a spiral binding.<br />
Memories are a wonderful thing. They’re what transforms<br />
a genealogy into a family history. Don’t assume the<br />
memories and anecdotes will remain intact! They don’t.<br />
When I first worked on our family history, I collected<br />
many old photos, which were family treasures. Then our<br />
house burned to the ground with everything in it, and I<br />
lost them all. As a result of that experience, my passion is<br />
to collect family memorabilia and anecdotes, and then to<br />
share the info.<br />
Gather the names and dates, by all means. The computer<br />
resources available today certainly help. However, it’s<br />
also important to document your own family memories,<br />
and those of your parents, and your children. It’s equally<br />
important to share them, so they are preserved in many<br />
places. Make sure the stories and treasures endure.<br />
Document the memories, then share, share, share.<br />
Alison Lobb is a mother, cash-crop farmer, municipal politician, and<br />
writer. Her commitment to community development has her actively<br />
involved in several local organizations.<br />
I have created over 25 family booklets, typing into either<br />
Microsoft Word or other readily available software<br />
programs. For smaller booklets, my personal preference is<br />
a free program called PhotoInPress.ca (cost about $50 per<br />
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