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Contents <strong>April</strong> <strong>2021</strong><br />
THE VICAR'S LETTER, 5<br />
THE PARISH NOTICEBOARD<br />
— A passion for prayer, 7<br />
— For your prayers in <strong>April</strong>, 7<br />
— On Reflection: Abraham, 9<br />
— From the editor's desk, 9<br />
— STAY, 10<br />
— <strong>The</strong> Persecuted Church, 11<br />
— Alpha on Zoom, 13<br />
features<br />
— Accidents do happen, 13<br />
— Easter Queen of Festivals, 15-17<br />
— Jake takes a step, 19<br />
— PCC Centenary, 21<br />
— Easter denominations, 22-23<br />
around the villages<br />
— A day out in Windsor Castle, 25<br />
— Looking familiar, 27<br />
— Me2 Lockdown Hero Award, 27<br />
— Sonning Tennis open days, 27<br />
HEALTH<br />
— Emily's healthy recipes, 29<br />
— Dr Simon Ruffle writes, 31<br />
HOME & GARDEN<br />
— Recipe of the Month, 33<br />
— Bible Garden birds, 33<br />
THE ARTS<br />
— Blindness to insight, 35<br />
— Give thanks to the risen Lord, 35<br />
— Poetry Corner, 37<br />
the sciences<br />
— Information, 37<br />
PUZZLE PAGE, 38-39<br />
This month's FRONT COVER<br />
March <strong>2021</strong> — Mothering Sunday and Palm Sunday<br />
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CHARVIL, SONNING and sonning eye SINCE THE 7 th CENTURY<br />
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Services at<br />
St Andrew’s<br />
IN-PERSON WORSHIP<br />
As we went to press the ministry<br />
team and the PCC were discussing the<br />
resumption of in-person worship. If<br />
possible it is hoped to start again on<br />
Palm Sunday 28 March at 10.30am.<br />
EASTER SERVICES<br />
It is also hoped that we will be able<br />
to hold the following services during<br />
Easter:<br />
1 <strong>April</strong>: Maundy Thursday<br />
Stripping of the Altar at 7.30pm<br />
2 <strong>April</strong>: Good Friday<br />
Last Hour Service with soloist singing<br />
hymns at 2.00pm<br />
3 <strong>April</strong>: Easter Saturday<br />
<strong>The</strong> first Communion service of<br />
Easter outside in <strong>The</strong> Ark gardens at<br />
8.00pm<br />
4 <strong>April</strong>: Easter Day<br />
<strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist service at 10.30am<br />
For more information about all the<br />
above services please see the parish<br />
website, the weekly service sheet, or<br />
call the parish office — see page 42<br />
for the full list of contact details.<br />
WEEKDAY SERVICES<br />
Morning Prayer in St Andrew's<br />
Tuesday 20 <strong>April</strong> a 9.30am<br />
Tuesday 27 <strong>April</strong> at 9.30am<br />
Friday 30 <strong>April</strong> at 9.30am<br />
Compline on Zoom<br />
8.30pm on Monday, each week.<br />
Contact Rev Kate for details about<br />
joining her on Zoom.<br />
Thursday at Eight<br />
8pm on Zoom every Thursday — see<br />
page 7 for details.<br />
children's page, 41<br />
information<br />
— Church services, 3<br />
— From the registers, 3<br />
— <strong>Parish</strong> contacts, 42<br />
— Advertisers index, 42<br />
From the registers<br />
Funerals<br />
— Tuesday 2 March, David Ronald Fillingham, interment of ashes in the churchyard<br />
— Wednesday 3 March, Denise Edith Bertram, St Andrew's Church followed by burial<br />
in the churchyard.
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<strong>The</strong> vicar's letter<br />
Dear friends,<br />
Living through this uncertain period of Covid pandemic we need signs of<br />
hope and resurrection. We need the assurance that God is with us always<br />
and that is the promise we receive on Easter Day.<br />
A child asks her mother, 'Where is God?' Her mother answers, 'God is<br />
everywhere.' <strong>The</strong> child cries out, 'But I want God to be somewhere!'<br />
So do we! We want God to be here, with us now and forever. This is,<br />
I think, the greatest significance of our Easter celebration, for Easter is<br />
the promise we receive that Christ lives, and he is among us even now.<br />
<strong>The</strong> resurrection story is the foundation of our hope that Christ lives in<br />
eternity and that we will live with him now and forever.<br />
THE ASSURANCE OF THE EMPTY TOMB<br />
We should never underestimate the strength and the hope that God's<br />
presence can bring to our lives. <strong>The</strong> affirmation that 'Christ is risen'<br />
suggests that God is near to us. It reminds us that there is something<br />
stable, something permanent in creation that will not be defeated by<br />
human sin and evil.<br />
<strong>The</strong> empty tomb is our assurance that God stands in and behind our<br />
world, and that God is there to strengthen and uphold anything that is<br />
good.<br />
<strong>The</strong> truth of the matter is that God in his great love and concern for us<br />
rarely gives us signs or miracles if you want to call them that. God gives<br />
us signs of his presence and work in the ordinary events of our everyday<br />
lives.<br />
Think of the birth of a child; reflect on a Sunday school teacher's<br />
commitment and enthusiasm for sharing the gospel. What about the joy<br />
one feels on coming home after leaving for a period of time? Consider<br />
how one is moved, staying to the end with another human being through<br />
hours of pain and dying.<br />
<strong>The</strong>se are the signs, yes, the miracles of God in our everyday lives. In<br />
each one of them, one senses the presence of hope, and the victory of<br />
eternal life over death. In these experiences, one really can feel the power<br />
of resurrection.<br />
WE ALL NEED EASTER<br />
As we confront the ultimate question of life and death which we all<br />
must face as individuals, we need the assurance of Easter. For you see,<br />
Good Friday and Easter go together because every person has some dark<br />
moments, some disappointments throughout the course of a lifetime.<br />
This is why we all need Easter, the day on which we celebrate God's<br />
greatest miracle. We need Easter as the assurance of a power that is<br />
beyond ourselves. We need Easter so that we may have hope for the future<br />
because in the end, all human beings must face their death alone. We<br />
need Easter, with its hope for better days ahead in this life. We need the<br />
promise of life eternal which only Jesus Christ can bring us.<br />
He is risen!<br />
Warm wishes for a happy and blessed Easter.<br />
Jamie
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A passion for prayer<br />
Rev Kate writes why prayer and praying, although difficult at<br />
times, is an important two-way communications path with<br />
God that is necessary to build a strong relationship.<br />
Part 2 will be published in our May issue.<br />
I am passionate about prayer but that doesn’t mean it’s always easy! Prayer isn’t<br />
simply about asking God for what we want, or even for what we need — although<br />
this can be a part of prayer. Primarily it is about relationship.<br />
Communication is an important part<br />
of any relationship and this is the<br />
same with our relationship with God.<br />
In order for relationships to<br />
grow and develop, they need<br />
communication. Prayer is about<br />
praising God, sharing our joys with<br />
him and thanking him. It is about<br />
bringing before God our needs and the<br />
needs of the world.<br />
It is about saying sorry and turning<br />
from the mistakes we have made and<br />
asking for God’s forgiveness.<br />
Prayer is our way of communicating<br />
with God and therefore something<br />
that isn’t optional for Christians.<br />
Throughout history Christians have<br />
prayed in many ways and many<br />
contexts. Some through the spoken<br />
word, through singing, by using their<br />
bodies to express prayer — such as<br />
prostrating themselves on the floor or<br />
raising their arms — or using silence<br />
or contemplation.<br />
I could talk for hours on this topic<br />
and have many books of prayer, but<br />
this month I want to focus on a couple<br />
of different approaches to prayer,<br />
and next month, I will explore some<br />
different and creative ways to pray, and<br />
look at some of the difficulties.<br />
RHYTHM OF PRAYER<br />
<strong>The</strong> daily offices, as they are called,<br />
are something that ordained people<br />
commit to praying each day, but many<br />
others also join in this discipline. This<br />
usually consists of Morning Prayer<br />
and Evening Prayer, although there<br />
are various other services for different<br />
points in the day. This rhythm of<br />
daily prayer is important to many<br />
Christians throughout the world.<br />
<strong>The</strong> daily offices follow a pattern<br />
of readings from the Old and New<br />
Testament, and psalms each day. <strong>The</strong><br />
prayers and readings connect us with<br />
the wider church, as well as bringing<br />
us together to pray locally.<br />
In <strong>April</strong> we will introduce some<br />
new services of Morning Prayer in<br />
St Andrew’s Church, initially each<br />
Tuesday at 9.30am and on the first<br />
Friday of each month at 9.30am.<br />
I will also continue a Zoom service<br />
of sung compline (night prayer) that<br />
was introduced three evenings a week<br />
during Lent. After Easter it will be held<br />
on Monday at 8.30pm, with the option<br />
of joining online from 8.10pm to learn<br />
the music. If you are interested in<br />
trying this then please email me for<br />
more details. I hope to start a sung<br />
service of compline once a month<br />
in church when we are able to sing<br />
together again.<br />
PERSONAL PRAYER<br />
Our own personal prayer can take<br />
many forms. Since I was ordained,<br />
I have had the joy of hearing people<br />
talk about how they pray. Many talk<br />
of praying as they walk and enjoying<br />
praying outdoors.<br />
Some pray in silence — this can<br />
be a challenge for some as people<br />
use words so much of the time, but<br />
for many others sitting with God in<br />
silence is how they prefer to pray.<br />
Some may use set words such as<br />
the Lord’s Prayer or prayers they learnt<br />
as a child, whereas others have a much<br />
more conversational and informal<br />
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approach. Some kneel, some don’t….<br />
and so on. <strong>The</strong>re are perhaps as many<br />
ways to pray as there are people!<br />
IT'S GOOD TO TALK<br />
If you would like a conversation<br />
about prayer please contact me, I<br />
would love to hear from you.<br />
revkate@sonningparish.org.uk<br />
It’s not always easy but prayer<br />
can be incredibly sustaining as we<br />
journey through the ups and downs<br />
of life. If you would like a starting<br />
point, then there is perhaps nowhere<br />
better than the words Jesus taught<br />
us to pray:<br />
Our Father, who art in heaven,<br />
hallowed be thy name;<br />
thy kingdom come;<br />
thy will be done;<br />
on earth as it is in heaven.<br />
Give us this day our daily bread.<br />
And forgive us our trespasses,<br />
as we forgive those who<br />
trespass against us.<br />
And lead us not into temptation;<br />
but deliver us from evil.<br />
For thine is the kingdom,<br />
the power and the glory,<br />
for ever and ever. Amen.<br />
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prayers<br />
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On reflection . . .<br />
Abraham and taking<br />
matters into our hands<br />
By Elizabeth Spiers<br />
Abraham serving three angels by Rembrandt<br />
Public domain<br />
According to the Bible in Genesis 12, Israel is a nation that<br />
was started by God when he promised Abram, a childless<br />
but religious man, that he would be the father of a nation so<br />
numerous that you couldn’t count them.<br />
He changed Abram’s name to Abraham because that means<br />
‘father of multitudes’. However, Abraham and his wife Sarah<br />
had to wait many years to see this promise fulfilled and in<br />
the waiting period, they took matters into their own hands.<br />
At Sarah’s prompting, Abraham had a son, Ishmael, with her<br />
maidservant, Hagar.<br />
Abraham’s actions didn’t stop God being faithful. 13 years<br />
after Ishmael was born, God gave Abraham and Sarah a son<br />
of their own, Isaac. And from Isaac came the Jewish nation.<br />
But soon after Isaac was born, there was great strife between<br />
the two mothers, and much to Abraham’s distress, Sarah<br />
made him send Ishmael and Hagar away.<br />
CONSEQUENCES<br />
By taking matters into their own hands they caused<br />
problems for everyone in the family at the time, and far into<br />
the future, with serious consequences. Forced to leave his<br />
father’s house, Ishmael was not part of the family that led to<br />
the birth of the nation of Israel. Islamic lore says that Hagar<br />
took Ishmael to Mecca. Certainly, Ishmael is considered a<br />
patriarch of Islam and many Arabs today can probably trace<br />
their line back to him. <strong>The</strong>re is still a great deal of strife<br />
between the descendants of Isaac and those who see Ishmael<br />
as their father — look at the problems in the Middle East.<br />
We can often do as Abraham and Sarah did and take<br />
things into our own hands. We give God a ‘helping hand’ or<br />
perhaps we doubt that we heard from him or maybe we don’t<br />
believe that God is still interested in us or our nation or the<br />
wider world. It’s easy for us to lose confidence when time<br />
passes, and nothing happens.<br />
But our God is faithful. If he promises something, he<br />
means it and will do it. It is in God’s timing, not ours.<br />
Taking matters into our own hands can have<br />
consequences beyond anything we can imagine. What might<br />
the world look like today if Abraham and Sarah had not<br />
decided to give God a helping hand?<br />
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One event, many<br />
interpretations<br />
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St George's Day on 23 <strong>April</strong> always reminds me of the first<br />
church that I went to, I wonder how many people remember<br />
their first church?<br />
St George's Church in Tarpots, Essex, was not then a<br />
'proper' church as most people would imagine, it was a hall<br />
in which worship was held for the local people who found it<br />
difficult attending the 'real', 1,000 year old parish church of<br />
St Peter's Thundersley. <strong>The</strong> two churches were only 1½ miles<br />
apart along a road aptly named, Church Road, where I lived.<br />
<strong>The</strong> journey between the two churches meant climbing a<br />
very steep hill — also aptly named 'Church Hill' — that even<br />
many cars in the early 1950's had difficulty driving up. As a<br />
boy, one of the greatest challenges was to try to cycle up it,<br />
the reward being a dangerously fast but thrilling ride down.<br />
One of my aunts lived at the bottom of the hill so when we<br />
crashed there was somewhere to get patched up!<br />
St George's was one of those small halls that were built by<br />
churches after the war and although it was used for services,<br />
worshippers had to face west instead of the traditional east<br />
— east meant looking towards Jerusalem, the city that was at<br />
the centre of the Easter events that we celebrate this month.<br />
<strong>The</strong> 'proper' services such as baptism, confirmation, marriage<br />
and funerals, were always celebrated up the hill in St Peter's.<br />
It was in St George's that I believe I had my first call to serve<br />
in the church, but that's another long story!<br />
MEMORABLE<br />
Nevertheless, St George's was where each month I<br />
marched with a boy scouts' drum and fife band. I was the<br />
lead drummer, although secretly I wanted to play the big bass<br />
drum but that was a man-sized job! On St George's Day we<br />
all trooped off to Southend-on-Sea for a huge parade when<br />
scouts from throughout Essex marched along the seafront<br />
with their bands playing and flags flying for a service in<br />
the Odeon theatre and cinema. For me, St George's Day has<br />
always been memorable.<br />
St George's Church stood in a large field on the edge of<br />
Tarpots and beyond was a 'green belt' area. <strong>The</strong> other day I<br />
googled St George's Church and was pleased to see that<br />
it still exists, although it is no longer a daughter church<br />
of St Peter's. It is part of the New Wine evangelical<br />
movement that grew out of the Church of England as a<br />
multidenominational group of churches. <strong>The</strong> old building<br />
had long gone and now a smart new church stands in a<br />
more densely-populated area.<br />
My excuse for writing about my St George's Day memories<br />
is that it led me to think about how Christians experience<br />
their faith in so many different ways but all recognise that<br />
their roots lie in the amazing, life changing, and historychanging<br />
events that happened in Jerusalem 2,000 years ago<br />
— albeit in slightly different ways. This, in turn, led to the<br />
centre page article this month. Happy Easter!
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STAY<br />
St Andrew's Youth<br />
STAY on Sunday<br />
During February we continued to enjoy<br />
the Alpha Youth video series at STAY on<br />
Sunday, including topics such as:<br />
— Healing: does God still heal today?<br />
— Evil: how can I resist evil?<br />
— Telling others: how and why should I<br />
tell others?<br />
— Church: what about the church?<br />
We had lots of great discussions<br />
about our faith, we prayed for<br />
healing for one another and we asked<br />
questions about how we can make<br />
church a place where everyone feels<br />
welcome.<br />
STAY Pancake Party<br />
On Shrove Tuesday 16 February we<br />
celebrated by having a Zoom pancake<br />
party! <strong>The</strong>re was mess made, pancakes<br />
flipped and toppings galore! Prizes were<br />
awarded to: Will for doing 40 flips in<br />
30 seconds, Jayden for tastiest looking<br />
pancakes, Amelia and Sophia for nicest<br />
looking topping and Izzy and Will for<br />
best score in the pancake party quiz!<br />
STAY in Schools<br />
We have been able to continue to provide<br />
mentoring sessions through team calls<br />
to 22 students each week. It has been<br />
a real honour to journey with so many<br />
amazing students from both Blue Coat<br />
and Piggott schools!<br />
We have also continued, over<br />
this lockdown, to provide all the<br />
local schools with online assemblies.<br />
<strong>The</strong>mes have included: inspiring<br />
stories, divided kingdoms, Noah’s<br />
Ark and the parable of the weeds.<br />
Pictures (top to bottom):<br />
— Using orbeez and water to illustrate the<br />
parable of the weeds. It’s hard to separate the<br />
good from the bad until the harvest is ready,<br />
teaching us patience! I hope it made sense to<br />
the 1400 Piggott students watching!<br />
— <strong>The</strong> Alpha Body of Christ video at STAY<br />
on Sunday<br />
— Checking that everyone has enough eggs<br />
for our pancakes<br />
— STAY pancake party recipe<br />
— Retelling Noah's Ark from the Lego Bible<br />
at an online school assembly<br />
For more information, or a chat,<br />
contact Westy on<br />
youthminister@sonningparish.org.uk<br />
STAY Detached Project<br />
Left to right: Sherlon, Westy and Mark<br />
Our new detached project in Charvil<br />
and Sonning has enabled us to engage in<br />
positive conversations with an average of<br />
18 or so young people each week. It’s so<br />
encouraging seeing young people from<br />
the local schools and being able to chat<br />
and check on their well-being during<br />
lockdown.<br />
It’s also an amazing privilege<br />
working in partnership with Mark<br />
Brown from Grace Church in<br />
Caversham and especially Sherlon<br />
Bartenbach from Reach — a pastoral<br />
and RE support for schools charity.<br />
<strong>The</strong> reason it’s so special working<br />
with Sherlon is that he used to be one<br />
of my young people many years ago.<br />
I met him aged 15 and he caused me<br />
many headaches in my school lunch<br />
club. He went onto become one of my<br />
best youth volunteer leaders and my<br />
intern. Now he works across Reading<br />
schools delivering similar work I met<br />
him through all those years ago. God<br />
really does work in mysterious ways!
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<strong>The</strong> Persecuted Church<br />
This month we focus on Myanmar (Burma) where about<br />
90% of the Burmese population practice Buddhism, with<br />
Christians forming the second largest religion with about<br />
8%. Islam is the third-largest.<br />
Myanmar is in chaos. <strong>The</strong> country’s biggest city, Yangon, has<br />
seen the biggest protests against this year’s military coup,<br />
with hundreds of thousands taking to the streets. At the<br />
time of writing, 28 February, a Reuters report tells how this<br />
day has been the bloodiest day in weeks of demonstrations,<br />
with at least 18 people killed after Myanmar police fired on<br />
protesters. In Mandalay, earlier in February, live ammunition<br />
was used to disperse anti-coup protesters, leaving two dead<br />
and several others injured.<br />
<strong>The</strong> February military coup in Myanmar is the latest<br />
in a series over the years. On this occasion, the military’s<br />
argument was claims of voter fraud. Those claims were<br />
rejected by the election commission. <strong>The</strong> coup declared a oneyear<br />
emergency, and placed state councillor Aung San Suu Kyi<br />
under house arrest.<br />
This is not the first time of house arrest for Ms Suu Kyi.<br />
<strong>The</strong> first was in 1989, with others since. She formed her<br />
party, the National League for Democracy (NLD), in 1988.<br />
In 1990 the NLD won a landslide election victory. Ms Suu<br />
Kyi has had two terms as state councillor. Her NLD party<br />
won a landslide victory in the 2015 elections, but she was<br />
constitutionally barred from becoming prime minister due to<br />
her husband and sons being British.<br />
In 2017, there was sectarian violence against the Rohingya<br />
Muslim population in the Rakhine area. <strong>The</strong> UN High<br />
Commissioner for human rights termed it ethnic cleansing.<br />
In August that year, over 5 million Rohingyas left Myanmar<br />
to neighbouring countries such as Bangladesh. Along with<br />
the mainly-Muslim Rohingya people (who include a small<br />
minority of Christians), the Karen and other mainly-<br />
Christian ethnic people groups including Kachin and Chin<br />
have been brutally oppressed by the military-controlled<br />
government for decades.<br />
Barnabas Fund reports that a Myanmar Army document<br />
has been discovered, instructing soldiers to 'punish and<br />
breakdown' ethnic-minority Christians and other civilians<br />
deemed to be against the military regime, or even appearing<br />
critical of it in social media posts. At the outset of the<br />
coup this year, the Myanmar army shelled the Papun and<br />
Nyaunglebin districts, reports Barnabas. Karen villagers<br />
were forced to flee into mountainous jungle. Thousands of<br />
Karen people are now hiding there.<br />
Barnabas Fund has appealed to raise money for the<br />
helpless and homeless displaced Karen people in the jungle.<br />
<strong>The</strong>y were particularly in need of rice, cooking oil, fish and<br />
tarpaulins or other strong plastic sheeting for roofing.<br />
Thankfully, gifts totalling £1,500 at the time of writing have<br />
helped provide makeshift shelters and food. It is still possible<br />
to contribute to this appeal: https://tinyurl.com/kctx4x6f<br />
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News, features, and links by Colin Bailey: please read for awareness,<br />
and support by prayer, financial or otherwise.<br />
Pray for justice, righteousness and equality in Burma<br />
CONSTITUTIONALLY BARRED<br />
HIDING IN THE JUNGLE<br />
Kyaiktiyo Pagoda, a Buddhist pilgrimage site in Mon State, Burma. It is a<br />
small pagoda built on the top of a granite boulder covered with gold leaves.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Golden Rock is said to precariously perched on a strand of the Buddha's<br />
hair.<br />
Paolo Campana, dreamstime.com<br />
When the NLD won the general election last November,<br />
it announced it would form a national unity government and<br />
would be inviting other ethnic minority parties to work with<br />
it. This offer was also made on their 2015 victory but was not<br />
fulfilled. Please join with Christian leaders in praying for the<br />
people of Myanmar and for a change of heart of the army and<br />
coup leaders, and for the Karen people hiding in the jungle.<br />
Pray that whoever governs Myanmar will rule with justice<br />
and righteousness, caring for all citizens equally.<br />
Sources and further reading<br />
Myanmar coup timeline in <strong>The</strong> Independent: https://tinyurl.com/tbycdhp2<br />
Al Jazeera report on Myanmar protests: https://tinyurl.com/djmx5pd9<br />
Barnabas Fund : flight of Karen Christians: https://tinyurl.com/3vppc5sx<br />
Barnabas Fund Facebook: flight of Karen Christian villagers: https://tinyurl.<br />
com/3vdt4me8<br />
Barnabas Fund:: Daily Prayer, 13 February, on Myanmar: https://tinyurl.<br />
com/5a2r89cm<br />
Barnabas Fund: Myanmar Army document: https://tinyurl.com/282mbbw9<br />
Barnabas Fund appeal to help displaced Karen villagers: https://tinyurl.<br />
com/34d6vw62<br />
Barnabas Fund Facebook update on Karen Christian appeal: https://tinyurl.<br />
com/87kw6658<br />
Associated Press: Protest in Mandalay: https://tinyurl.com/2yrkthtm<br />
Reuters: <strong>The</strong> bloodiest day of protests https://tinyurl.com/9m3b4nk6
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feature — 1<br />
Accidents do<br />
happen!<br />
By Claude Masters<br />
Catherine Chernyakova, dreamstime.com<br />
Alpha course on Zoom starts Thursday 22 <strong>April</strong>, 8pm<br />
— Has lockdown helped you reassess what’s important in life or helped you refocus?<br />
— Have the restrictions given you the space to wonder about life’s big questions?<br />
— Has some of the dark months of Covid made you wonder what’s the point of it all?<br />
However you might answer those questions, we would love you to join us for our brand<br />
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questions and more will be explored.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Alpha course is an amazing and relaxed way to ask questions, share thoughts<br />
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<strong>The</strong> course will run for 12 weeks on Thursday evenings at 8pm for an hour. It starts<br />
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It is often said that there are only<br />
two things you can be sure of in this<br />
life, death and taxes, but there is<br />
another — accidents!<br />
From a toddler tearing a nail in the sand<br />
on a beach to an old man tripping over a<br />
kerb, something at sometime, is going to<br />
happen to you.<br />
<strong>The</strong> 1974 Health & Safety legislation<br />
was introduced to make employers<br />
and employees more responsible and<br />
careful in work places. Disregard for<br />
them became a criminal offence.<br />
Occasionally the legislation is open<br />
to ridicule as an unfortunate lady<br />
found out when showing a group of<br />
building tradesmen at a health and<br />
safety lecture how to wash their hands.<br />
It is now common practice to do<br />
a 'risk assessment' before any work,<br />
even though the job may have been<br />
done safely for years. This seems an<br />
unnecessary requirement as we all<br />
subconsciously do this all the time.<br />
Usually, nobody does anything unless<br />
they know it is safe to do so.<br />
UNFORTUNATE?<br />
It is a trait of human nature to<br />
laugh when seeing some one else’s<br />
misfortune, however serious the<br />
incident might be. Such incidents are<br />
often seen on the internet, though<br />
some are clearly a set up.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Chambers Dictionary defines<br />
accidents as unexpected occurrences<br />
that are usually unfortunate. But this<br />
is not always true — an unexpected<br />
baby is often referred to as an accident<br />
but will hopefully bring sheer joy!<br />
A plumber was called out for an<br />
overflowing cistern in the ladies staff<br />
changing room of a London hotel.<br />
Knowing it would not take long, he<br />
didn’t put up an ‘Out of Order’ notice,<br />
and propped the door open to indicate<br />
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closed behind him but when he opened<br />
it, he beheld a screaming young lady<br />
wearing the skimpiest of underwear.<br />
He shut himself in the cubicle until<br />
the coast was clear and is now known<br />
as the man in the toilet by all the<br />
waitresses! Accidents do happen!
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feature — 2<br />
'Queen of Festivals' traditions — new and old<br />
Easter 2015: <strong>The</strong> Easter Egg and Spoon Race which is now a St Andrew's Church 'tradition'<br />
Easter often reminds me of a faithful member of St Andrew's once saying that<br />
she only liked to receive Holy Communion twice a year, on Easter Sunday and<br />
Christmas Day. This had been a 'tradition' from her younger days that she<br />
felt made Holy Communion very special. I am sure that for many of us this<br />
will be true when the Covid restrictions are eased and we can all, once again,<br />
receive the bread and wine that Jesus invited his followers to remember him<br />
by shortly before his crucifixion. <strong>The</strong> good news is that it seems likely that we<br />
will be able to receive Communion this Easter, writes Bob Peters.<br />
Other Easter 'traditions' such as<br />
our Easter Saturday family fun day<br />
will not be possible, and the special<br />
services, whose traditions date back<br />
2,000 years, will be different if they<br />
are held — see page 7.<br />
In the May 1876 issue of this<br />
magazine, Rev Hugh Pearson wrote:<br />
Easter, according to the Saxon historian,<br />
the Venerable Bede, is derived from<br />
Eostre, the name of a goddess worshipped<br />
of old in Britain. Bede lived sufficiently<br />
near to pagan times to be able to speak<br />
with certainty, and no writer has given<br />
greater diligence to ensure accuracy. <strong>The</strong><br />
word Easter does not represent the Saxon<br />
word for resurrection, as is sometimes<br />
supposed. Our Easter therefore may be<br />
considered to have displaced the British<br />
Festival of Eostre, on the well-known<br />
principle of Christian antiquity, whereby<br />
churches were built on the site, and<br />
often with the materials of the ancient<br />
temples, (as for instance in the case of<br />
St Paul’s Cathedral, built on the site of<br />
the Temple of Diana, in London), and<br />
heathen festivals were adapted to the<br />
Christian calendar. Easter was known<br />
throughout the ancient church as the<br />
'Queen of Festivals', and was kept with<br />
especially joyous and imposing solemnity.<br />
It is a pleasure to feel that our own church<br />
services of this year were not unworthy of<br />
the Great Festival, and in harmony with<br />
the glad spirit of the universal church.<br />
Down the years, other 'traditions'<br />
have emerged for Easter, both<br />
Christian and secular, such as<br />
chocolate Easter eggs. Some of them,<br />
such as receiving Holy Communion<br />
only twice a year, have been lost in<br />
time.<br />
OLD TRADITIONS<br />
Even so, you can still see reminders<br />
of lost traditions in some of the<br />
ancient churches around the country.<br />
In St Andrew's, for example, there<br />
is stone arch that Hugh Pearson<br />
mentioned in <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> for<br />
June 1869:<br />
<strong>The</strong> most remarkable feature in<br />
the interior of the Church, is the richly<br />
sculptured stone arch on the North side of<br />
the Sacrarium. Of the history or purpose<br />
of this beautiful work of medieval art<br />
we know absolutely nothing. <strong>The</strong>re is no<br />
notice of it in Ashmole’s account of the<br />
Church, and in Lyson’s Magna Britannia<br />
it is only spoken of as 'an elegant pointed<br />
arch, very richly ornamented with<br />
figures of saints.' <strong>The</strong>re have been many<br />
conjectures as to its original purpose. It<br />
may possibly have been raised over what<br />
was called an Easter Sepulchre, that is,<br />
a place for the performance of certain<br />
solemn rites commemorative of the<br />
Resurrection of our Lord.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Easter Sepulchre was also<br />
used in some medieval churches to<br />
Tom Farncombe<br />
keep the bread and wine used for<br />
Holy Communion from Good Friday<br />
until Easter Day<br />
<strong>The</strong> Easter traditions, new and<br />
old, have all developed to illustrate<br />
and strengthen the significance of<br />
Easter, which is the most important<br />
celebration in the Christian calender.<br />
<strong>The</strong>se include:<br />
— Burial of the cross from Good<br />
Friday to Easter Day<br />
— Stripping the altar on Maundy<br />
Thursday<br />
— An Easter vigil between the death<br />
and resurrection of Christ<br />
— <strong>The</strong> Last Hour Service to mark the<br />
last moments of the life of Christ<br />
— An Easter play<br />
— <strong>The</strong> Easter candle, traditionally lit<br />
to mark the start of Easter<br />
— Flowering the cross, on Easter<br />
morning a cross is decorated with<br />
flowers<br />
— Blessing each home in the parish<br />
— Easter food, particularly lamb<br />
— Easter eggs, symbolising new life<br />
and the stone used to seal the tomb<br />
of Christ<br />
— An Easter garden<br />
NEW TRADITIONS<br />
Making an Easter garden is a recent<br />
'tradition' and has become more<br />
popular with children, although<br />
people of all ages can enjoy it.<br />
It emerged as a custom in a<br />
similar way to the Christmas nativity<br />
scene and is used to remind us of<br />
the special events that surrounded<br />
Jesus at the time. Like the nativity,<br />
it is placed in a prominent place<br />
throughout the 50 days of Easter.<br />
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feature — 3<br />
Easter 'traditions' old and new<br />
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from page 15<br />
2013: <strong>The</strong> 'traditional' Easter egg hunt at St Andrew's Tom Farncombe<br />
Easter gardens take many forms,<br />
from small ones created in a dish or<br />
tray to larger, less portable gardens<br />
in purpose made containers. Some<br />
people also make outdoor Easter<br />
gardens in a quiet corner of their<br />
garden where they can sit peacefully<br />
to meditate.<br />
All have four essential parts — a<br />
mound on which one or three crosses<br />
may be placed, a cave cut into the<br />
mound, a large stone that forms the<br />
door to the cave and is moved on<br />
Easter Day, and living plants that<br />
represent the new life that Jesus<br />
gives us.<br />
<strong>The</strong> site in Jerusalem where<br />
Jesus was buried is unknown but<br />
one possible location is a beautiful<br />
and very peaceful garden owned and<br />
administered by <strong>The</strong> Garden Tomb<br />
(Jerusalem) Association, a Christian<br />
non-denominational charitable<br />
trust based in the UK. Set against a<br />
backdrop of a rocky cliff that appears<br />
to have a face naturally formed<br />
in the rocks recalling the Biblical<br />
location of Golgotha — Skull Hill<br />
— there is a natural cave below that<br />
Instructions on how to make an Easter<br />
garden like the one above can be found on:<br />
https://amysfreeideas.com/English/Step_<br />
by_step_instructions_for_how_to_make_<br />
an_Easter_Garden.html<br />
archaeologists believe was used as<br />
a burial tomb for a wealthy person<br />
in the time of Jesus. Whether this<br />
is the garden or not, it has inspired<br />
thousands of Christians when<br />
making their own Easter gardens.<br />
Why not start a new 'tradition' for<br />
yourself and make one this Easter?<br />
If you make an Easter garden,<br />
send us a picture of it before 12 noon<br />
on 6 <strong>April</strong> and we will try to include<br />
it in our next issue:<br />
editor@theparishmagazine.co.uk<br />
<strong>The</strong> Golgotha tomb where Jesus is said to have been buried<br />
Aleksandar Todorovic, dreamstime.com<br />
Above: Some examples of different types of<br />
Easter gardens made by St Andrew's Church<br />
Sunday Club members for Easter last year.
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Jake takes a<br />
step up<br />
Meet Jake (right) who lives in<br />
Reading. He has just turned six, and<br />
has a very rare condition known<br />
as RERE Syndrome, a difficult-todiagnose<br />
genetic condition currently<br />
identified as affecting less than 30<br />
people around the world — RERE<br />
(Arginine-Glutamic Acid Dipeptide<br />
Repeats) is a Protein Coding gene.<br />
Jake's low muscle tone means he can<br />
crawl but not yet walk. Now that he's<br />
a big lad —he wears age 10 clothes<br />
and weighs 30kg (4stone 10lbs) — his<br />
parents were finding it a real problem<br />
to help him in and out of the bath.<br />
But things have now got a little<br />
easier for Jake and his family as a<br />
volunteer 'MakeAbility' engineer from<br />
the charity Remap has designed and<br />
made him a bespoke set of speciallypadded<br />
bathroom steps.<br />
VOLUNTEERS<br />
Remap has 70 county 'MakeAbility'<br />
groups in England, Wales and Northern<br />
Ireland. Founded in 1965, they assist<br />
about 3,000 people every year. Remap<br />
volunteers enjoy using their skills to<br />
create custom-made equipment and<br />
gadgets for people who have disabilities<br />
or special needs and who cannot find<br />
anything suitable to buy.<br />
<strong>The</strong> 'MakeAbility' service is entirely<br />
free. <strong>The</strong> volunteers have a wide variety<br />
of expertise ranging from IT and<br />
electronics, to metalwork, carpentry<br />
and 3D-printing.<br />
Jake's mother, Rachel Green said:<br />
'Jake cannot get in or out of the bath<br />
Jake with his specially made steps.<br />
Remap<br />
Remap<br />
himself, but he is too mobile to qualify for<br />
a hoist. It was fine when he was smaller,<br />
but as he grew it became so difficult for us<br />
to lift him over the bath-side. Now that<br />
he has the steps he is able to get himself<br />
both in and out. <strong>The</strong>y have made a real<br />
difference'.<br />
Jake's condition was identified<br />
after a three-year participation in<br />
the 1000-genome research project,<br />
designed to catalogue human genetic<br />
variations and support future medical<br />
research. <strong>The</strong> RERE gene provides<br />
instructions for making a protein that<br />
is critical for normal development<br />
before birth, and disruption of this can<br />
lead to neuro-developmental delays<br />
and other problems.<br />
'We were so pleased when we finally<br />
discovered he had RERE because it meant<br />
he was likely to continue to develop rather<br />
than going downhill,' said Rachel. 'He<br />
didn't sit up until he was 2 years old, and<br />
is autistic, but we see such progress in him.'<br />
Jake gets on well his 2 year old sister. Remap<br />
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Rachel is a lab technician, Jed, his<br />
father, is a systems manager, and his<br />
sister Sophie is 2 years old. 'Jake is about<br />
two years old mentally,' said Rachel, 'so<br />
he and Sophie really seem to connect'.<br />
Jake's unique steps were built by<br />
Remap Berkshire's Phil Cartwright,<br />
who lives in Wokingham. A retired<br />
technical sales person, he inherited<br />
an enthusiasm for practical projects<br />
from his father. 'Dad had a good busy<br />
garage and I helped him make all sorts of<br />
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coffee tables, and other items'.<br />
CHALLENGING<br />
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feature — 5<br />
It is 100 years since '<strong>The</strong> Parochial<br />
Church Councils (Powers) Measure<br />
1921' became law, a law which was<br />
an important stage in the birth of<br />
the PCC.<br />
During the First World War army<br />
chaplains found that many men who<br />
thought of themselves as church<br />
goers were ignorant of the basics of<br />
religion. This led to a new interest in<br />
mission for the church.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re were national days of prayer<br />
during the war and in 1915 there was<br />
a National Mission of Repentance and<br />
Hope. <strong>The</strong> public were more in the<br />
mood for victory than repentance.<br />
After the Armistice there was a desire<br />
for change in the national church and<br />
this led to a discussion about the links<br />
with the state.<br />
Parliament was often slow to<br />
enact laws for the church and many<br />
people felt the national church should<br />
have more authority to govern itself.<br />
<strong>The</strong> setting up of Parochial Church<br />
Councils was part of that process.<br />
In the past, much of the local<br />
secular administration had been the<br />
responsibility of churchwardens in<br />
the vestry meetings. Gradually their<br />
functions were passed to local councils.<br />
Most of their remaining powers were<br />
transferred to PCC's by <strong>The</strong> Parochial<br />
Church Councils (Powers) Measure 1921.<br />
<strong>The</strong> purpose behind these new<br />
councils was to give the laity a more<br />
prominent role in parish life and to<br />
work alongside the deanery, diocesan<br />
and national councils which became<br />
the synods. <strong>The</strong> PCC would have an<br />
important role in church life.<br />
Some conservative clerics were<br />
concerned at this reform and felt that<br />
congregations would pick and choose<br />
clergy or object to a new incumbent<br />
chosen by a patron.<br />
<strong>The</strong> process of starting PCCs to<br />
share in decision making in parishes<br />
was widely accepted but a few older<br />
incumbents, and those in more<br />
rural areas, failed to do either out of<br />
reluctance or ignorance.<br />
One difficult issue was what level<br />
of commitment to church life enabled<br />
a person to be eligible to serve on a<br />
church council. It was decided that<br />
anyone on the electoral role could<br />
participate — even if they did not<br />
attended communion regularly.<br />
<strong>The</strong> then Bishop of Oxford resigned<br />
over the issue because he thought<br />
that councils must only be made up of<br />
committed regular communicants.<br />
<strong>The</strong> next Bishop of Oxford, in<br />
his monthly diocesan magazine,<br />
endorsed the principle of democracy<br />
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PCC's celebrate 100 years of service this month<br />
<strong>April</strong> <strong>2021</strong> officially marks the centenary of the Parochial Church Council (PCC) in the Church of England although many parish<br />
churches, such as ours, began establishing and running a PCC during the previous year. Here, Rev Peter Crumpler, a former CofE<br />
communications director gives the background to this radical change in the management of parish churches that placed them in the<br />
hands of their church members rather than the vicar and the church wardens.<br />
PROMINENT ROLE<br />
and reassured people that it was not<br />
a negative step and would not limit<br />
the powers of clergy or wardens. He<br />
encouraged the congregations to<br />
consider how to use each other’s gifts.<br />
In Aylesbury the idea of the new<br />
PCC's had been discussed as early<br />
as 1918. It was felt that they would<br />
support the clergy particularly with<br />
financial issues.<br />
It is strange to think that the<br />
proposal for clergy and congregation<br />
to work together for the benefit of the<br />
church could be controversial.<br />
<strong>The</strong> birth of the PCC was a major<br />
step in the life of the church. I wonder<br />
what the next 100 years will bring?<br />
William Temple Public domain<br />
Meanwhile at<br />
A leading churchman in the reform<br />
St Andrew's . . .<br />
movement was William Temple who<br />
became leader of the Life and Liberty In our parish, Rev Gibbs Payne<br />
movement which influenced the move Crawfurd was the vicar from 1907-<br />
towards democratic government in the 1925. He supported the move to place<br />
Church of England.<br />
the management of parish churches in<br />
William Temple was Bishop of the hands of their members.<br />
Manchester in the 1920's, Archbishop In <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> of February<br />
of York (1929-1942) and Archbishop of 1920 — more than a year before <strong>The</strong><br />
Canterbury (1942-1944).<br />
Parochial Church Councils (Powers)<br />
He had been a secretary of the<br />
Measure 1921— he set out a plan to<br />
National Mission of Repentance and elect members to create a PCC.<br />
Hope in 1916 and became chairman<br />
<strong>The</strong> first monthly meeting was held<br />
and joint leader with Dick Sheppard of shortly afterwards and the PCC began<br />
the Life and Liberty movement.<br />
to make changes that were welcomed<br />
'We demand liberty for the Church of by everyone.<br />
England' he declared at a meeting in<br />
One of these changes concerned<br />
July 1917.<br />
this magazine. Since 1869 when it was<br />
founded, the magazine had been the<br />
ANYONE<br />
sole responsibility of the vicar who not<br />
only edited it but funded it.<br />
In 1920, Rev Gibbs Payne Crawfurd<br />
wrote that he was closing the magazine<br />
because he could not bear the annual<br />
deficit of £30 — that's about £1,400<br />
today!<br />
<strong>The</strong> PCC felt that the magazine was<br />
essential for them to keep the parish<br />
informed about its work and voted<br />
to take full responsibility for it. <strong>The</strong>ir<br />
bold decision has enabled <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong><br />
<strong>Magazine</strong> to continue to be published<br />
continuously ever since — something<br />
no other church has achieved!
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feature — 6<br />
<strong>The</strong> most important festival for Christians<br />
for all denominations around the world<br />
Most statisticians agree that the world population is about 8 billion of which 2.25 billion are<br />
Christians, 1.9 billion are Muslim, 1.2 billion are Hindu, with the balance shared between those of other<br />
religions and none. <strong>The</strong>y also estimate that Christians belong to more than 30,000 different church<br />
denominations of which 900 million are Protestant and about 1,300 million people Catholic. Despite<br />
this different approach to the faith, all Christians look to Jesus as their saviour who rose from the dead<br />
thus making Easter the most important annual celebration around the world.<br />
<strong>The</strong> term, 'Christian' is found in the New<br />
Testament and was first used to described the<br />
disciples of Jesus in Antioch (Acts 11:26).<br />
As the early church, whose history is recorded<br />
in the New Testament, spread around the world<br />
the gospel message of Christ was clearly relevant<br />
in different ways to the different people in their<br />
different situations. This led to different churches<br />
developing as illustrated in the opening chapters<br />
of the Book of Revelation which tells us about how<br />
seven different Christian churches responded to<br />
the gospel of Christ.<br />
DIVERSITY<br />
As time moved on churches began to form<br />
groups of people who shared similar Christian ideas<br />
and so, like any family tree, it became increasingly<br />
diverse, with different styles of worship and different<br />
emphasis on the doctrines of their faith.<br />
Yet, despite this diversity, Christians have always<br />
been united in their central beliefs taught by Jesus,<br />
and his resurrection. As churches grew they found<br />
strength in joining with other like-minded churches<br />
and so the different denominations that exist today<br />
slowly emerged.<br />
<strong>The</strong> 'family tree' diagram below illustrates the<br />
history of Christianity since the time of Jesus. It<br />
shows how the churches evolved into nine different,<br />
yet closely aligned families that theologians like to<br />
give special names. <strong>The</strong> Church of England, which is<br />
c31 Christian Church, Antioch (Acts 20-26)<br />
1208 Roman Catholic<br />
1534 Church of England (Anglican)<br />
1560 Church of Scotland<br />
1612 Baptist<br />
1712 Scottish Episcopal<br />
1832 Congregational Church of England & Wales<br />
1843 <strong>The</strong> Free Church of Scotland<br />
1800’s Quakers<br />
1865 Salvation Army<br />
1883 Brethren<br />
1901 Pentecostal<br />
1920 <strong>The</strong> Church in Wales<br />
1932 Methodist<br />
1972 United Reformed Church<br />
1987 Ecumenical Founders Church<br />
2004 Messy Church<br />
also the 'parent' of the Anglican branch, is part of the<br />
'Protestantism family'.<br />
<strong>The</strong> table above gives the year that some of the<br />
different Christian churches in the United Kingdom<br />
were established. <strong>The</strong> logos illustrated on the right<br />
are for some of these denominations — how many<br />
can you identify? <strong>The</strong> answers to this 'Easter quiz'<br />
are on page 39!'<br />
In more recent times different denominations<br />
have come together to share common aims and<br />
worship while maintaining their individual<br />
identities. Churches Together is one example, of<br />
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After the Sabbath, at dawn on the first day of the week, Mary Magdalene and the other Mary went to look at the<br />
tomb. <strong>The</strong>re was a violent earthquake, for an angel of the Lord came down from heaven and, going to the tomb,<br />
rolled back the stone and sat on it. His appearance was like lightning, and his clothes were white as snow. <strong>The</strong><br />
guards were so afraid of him that they shook and became like dead men. <strong>The</strong> angel said to the women, 'Do not be<br />
afraid, for I know that you are looking for Jesus, who was crucified. He is not here; he has risen, just as he said.<br />
Come and see the place where he lay. <strong>The</strong>n go quickly and tell his disciples: ‘He has risen from the dead and is<br />
going ahead of you into Galilee. <strong>The</strong>re you will see him.’ (Matthew 28: 1-7)<br />
where local churches of different denominations<br />
meet and work together on ecumenical community<br />
projects.<br />
In 1991 the churches in Sonning, Charvil,<br />
Twyford, Ruscombe, and Wargrave decided to<br />
establish a local interdenominational Churches<br />
Together group but because there were very few<br />
different denominations involved — at the time<br />
there were five Anglican churches, one Roman<br />
Catholic, one United Reformed Church and one<br />
Baptist in the area — it was never well balanced<br />
from a denominational viewpoint despite there<br />
being enthusiastic support.<br />
LOCAL TOGETHERNESS<br />
In March 1992 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> carried<br />
this report from Rev Christopher Morgan, vicar<br />
of Sonning: <strong>The</strong> 28 January was the AGM of CTTD<br />
[Churches Together in Twyford District] and marked St<br />
Andrew's and St Patrick's first full year of membership.<br />
'What is CTTD?' I am sure many people are still asking.<br />
CTTD is part of Churches Together in Berkshire which<br />
in turn is part of Churches Together in England. We are<br />
therefore part of the nationwide ecumenical movement<br />
involving all the major denominations.<br />
<strong>The</strong> report then gives some details of planned<br />
combined services, but unfortunately the rather<br />
limited initial enthusiasm waned because there<br />
were never enough different denominations — and<br />
consequently, people — involved to develop the<br />
activities outside of combined acts of worship that<br />
were not supported by all the member churches.<br />
More recently, however, the Twyford and<br />
Ruscombe churches have joined with the Anglican<br />
church of St Nicholas Hurst to form a successful<br />
partnership called THRU-Christ. 'THR' stands for<br />
the CofE churches in Twyford, Hurst and Ruscombe<br />
and the U for Twyford's United Reformed Church.<br />
However, in Reading, a similar attempt to create<br />
a Churches Together group was very successful and<br />
it is now contributing to many local initiatives in the<br />
town, and has played an important role during the<br />
Covid restrictions.<br />
At St Andrew's our community focus, both within<br />
and outside of the parish, has taken a different path<br />
through the children and youth activities that we<br />
report about regularly in this magazine.<br />
NOW IT GETS MESSY!<br />
<strong>The</strong>re is, of course, another church at St Andrew's<br />
that crosses the denominational boundaries, namely,<br />
Messy Church.<br />
According to its owners, <strong>The</strong> Bible Reading<br />
Fellowship: 'Messy Churches are happening across all<br />
sorts of denominations — Salvation Army, Pentecostal,<br />
Anglican, Baptist, Methodist, Roman Catholic, Free<br />
Church, Church of Scotland, Scottish Episcopal, Seventh<br />
Day Adventist, Church in Wales, New Frontiers, United<br />
Reformed Church, Assemblies of God and Uniting Church<br />
to name the ones we are aware of at the moment.'<br />
Messy Church, Churches Together in Reading,<br />
THRU-Christ and our children and youth work in<br />
this parish, and beyond, are all good examples of<br />
how Christians work together regardless of the<br />
denomination of their chosen church.<br />
<strong>The</strong> driving force behind these and many other<br />
similar activities around the world dates back more<br />
than 2,00o years to the events of Easter when Jesus<br />
rose from the dead and commissioned his disciples<br />
to follow his teaching and to go out into the<br />
world to share God's love for them with everyone,<br />
everywhere. Happy Easter!
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Before lockdown became such a well used word, <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> regularly published stories about interesting places to visit locally, but we have<br />
not published any in the series for more than year so we thought it was time to continue with a stay-at-home adventure that is still virtually open ...<br />
Windsor Castle — a great day out at home<br />
On 21 <strong>April</strong>, the Queen celebrates her<br />
95th birthday — her official birthday,<br />
traditionally held when the weather<br />
is more congenial for parades, is on<br />
12 June. Her real birthday will be<br />
marked with a midday gun salute<br />
with 41 guns fired in Hyde Park, 62<br />
at the Tower of London, and 21 in<br />
Windsor Great Park. Being only 16<br />
miles away from St Andrew's Church,<br />
Windsor Castle is the closest of these<br />
venues, however, the pandemic rules<br />
are likely to mean that the nearest we<br />
can get to it will be online!<br />
You could also make a day of it at home<br />
by visiting the Royal Collection Trust<br />
online where there are royal activities<br />
for all the family — quizzes, virtual<br />
tours through the castle's state rooms<br />
and museums, a royal recipe to try, a<br />
huge collection of photographs taken<br />
by the royal family, and a gift shop!<br />
On St George's Day the order of the Garter<br />
awards are announced at Windsor Castle.<br />
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Aerial view of Windsor Castle - Amanda Lewis, dreamstime.com; Ceremonial entrance to St George's Chapel<br />
- emotionart, dreamstime.com; Canon Pearson cross - Sue Peters; Castle tower - Audrey H, unsplash.com.<br />
Royal Collection Trust is one of<br />
five Royal Household departments<br />
that are responsible for the care of the<br />
Royal Collection. It also manages the<br />
public opening of the Queen's official<br />
residences of Buckingham Palace,<br />
Windsor Castle and the Palace of<br />
Holyroodhouse in Edinburgh.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Queen's church, St George's<br />
Chapel at Windsor Castle, has<br />
historical connections with our<br />
parish, and this magazine! Our first<br />
editor, Rev Hugh Pearson, served as a<br />
highly-respected Canon at St George's<br />
(1876–82) during his incumbency in<br />
this parish. Next to the chapel steps<br />
used for ceremonial occasions such as<br />
royal weddings, you will find a cross<br />
erected in Canon Pearson's memory.<br />
<strong>The</strong> present chapel is one of the<br />
finest examples of Gothic architecture<br />
in England and dates from 1475 when<br />
Edward IV was king. It is the spiritual<br />
home of the Order of the Garter,<br />
the senior order of British Chivalry<br />
established in 1348 by Edward III and<br />
houses the tombs of 10 monarchs,<br />
including Henry VIII, his third wife<br />
Jane Seymour, and Charles I.<br />
<strong>The</strong> links below will take you to<br />
some of the highlights of Windsor<br />
Castle, a tudor quiz, a virtual tour of<br />
the Waterloo Chamber, and a royal<br />
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Looking familiar?<br />
Several readers have commented on<br />
how much they liked last month's front<br />
cover of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> but where<br />
was it painted?<br />
Charvil tree warden, Sarah Swatridge,<br />
thought at first that it may have been<br />
an artist's impression of how a new<br />
fish refuge in Charvil's water meadows<br />
might look in the future. Her photograph<br />
(right) shows a close resemblance to<br />
Jean Hutchinson's pastel picture (below),<br />
part of which was used for our March<br />
front cover. However, the answer to the<br />
whereabouts of Jean's painting is that it<br />
was inspired by a photograph she took<br />
at Michelham Priory in East Sussex. On<br />
the site of a former<br />
Augustine priory in<br />
the Cuckmere Valley,<br />
Michelham Priory is<br />
owned by the Sussex<br />
Archaeological Society,<br />
a charity which, in<br />
normal times welcomes<br />
visitors to explore the<br />
15 acres of grounds and<br />
buildings. When open,<br />
there are activities<br />
for all the family with<br />
interactive displays<br />
illustrating its 800 year<br />
history.<br />
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physical activities during lockdown.<br />
Me2 Club, an inclusion charity for<br />
children and young people with<br />
additional needs and disabilities in the<br />
Wokingham and Reading boroughs,<br />
was one of 70 nominations for the 9th<br />
GBA Awards this year.<br />
<strong>The</strong> judging panel recognised 29<br />
organisations and individuals whose<br />
contribution truly made a difference<br />
during the pandemic. <strong>The</strong> Awards not<br />
only go to people who have excelled<br />
in sporting achievement over the<br />
previous year, but more importantly<br />
to those, such as Me2 Club, who have<br />
made sport possible for others.<br />
Tennis open days<br />
planned for May and<br />
June in Sonning<br />
Sonning Tennis Club, which will be<br />
celebrating its 75th anniversary this<br />
year, is planning two open days for<br />
May and June, provided, of course,<br />
that the Covid-19 relaxation of rules<br />
continues as hoped. As we went to<br />
press the dates were being finalised.<br />
STC always welcomes new family and<br />
adult members having all standards<br />
of play to its friendly local club. It<br />
has three courts on the edge of the<br />
King George V Field, Sonning.<br />
As well as coaching junior and<br />
adult players, the club organises<br />
tournaments and social events, and<br />
has men’s, ladies and mixed teams in<br />
the Berkshire leagues.<br />
For the latest information and<br />
details of membership see:<br />
http://www.sonningtennis.com/<br />
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Thank you for sharing<br />
your lockdown art . . .<br />
You have to admire Sonning Art Group<br />
who have kept going through the<br />
lockdowns by meeting online, and we<br />
thank them for sharing some of their<br />
great works of art with us. As well as<br />
'classic' images such as the scene on<br />
the left that featured last month on<br />
the front cover, they have been letting<br />
their artistic imaginations wander.<br />
Below are some their latest<br />
'wanderings' — Alan Langdon's<br />
chocolate dreams; Sue Dobson’s love<br />
penguins; George Gallocker's carrot<br />
lady; Sue Eley's nest; Jean Hutchinson's<br />
tea bag shower; Bernadette Varilone's<br />
market and George Gallocker’s ram.
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HEALTH — 1<br />
Ingredients for the ‘pastry’<br />
— 400g ground almonds<br />
— 400g pitted Medjool dates<br />
— 6 tbsps melted coconut oil<br />
Ingredients for the filling<br />
— 200g dried mixed fruit<br />
— 40g dried cranberries<br />
— 2 finely chopped apples<br />
— zest & juice of a lemon and an<br />
orange<br />
— ½ tsp ground mixed spice<br />
— ½ tsp ground cinnamon<br />
— ¼ tsp ground nutmeg<br />
— ¼ tsp ground cloves<br />
— 2 tbsps brandy or orange liqueur<br />
(optional)<br />
— 30g coconut oil<br />
— 4 tbsps water<br />
— ¼ tsp vanilla extract<br />
— Pinch of salt<br />
Method<br />
Preheat oven to 1800C/Gas Mark 4<br />
Place 12 cupcake cases on a baking tray.<br />
Place all the filling ingredients<br />
into a saucepan and simmer for<br />
approximately 25 minutes until the<br />
apples have softened. Stir occasionally<br />
to avoid sticking.<br />
While the filling is cooking, make the<br />
‘pastry’. Place all the base ingredients<br />
in a food processor and blend for<br />
around 1-2 minutes until everything is<br />
mixed together. Roll the mixture out<br />
onto a board to around ½ cm thick.<br />
Cut out 12 circles from the pastry<br />
using a cookie cutter and place one in<br />
each of the cupcake cases. Bake for 5-7<br />
minutes. Remove from the oven.<br />
Once the filling is cooked, place<br />
approximately 2 tbsps of the filling<br />
into each case. Return to the oven<br />
and bake the mince pies for another 7<br />
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allow to cool. Enjoy anytime!<br />
HEALTHY BRAIN SMOOTHIE<br />
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— 1 cup fresh spinach<br />
— 1 tbsp ground flaxseed<br />
— 1 cup frozen blueberries<br />
— 1 cup unsweetened almond milk<br />
— ½ medium banana<br />
— 1 tbsp nut butter<br />
— tsp cinnamon<br />
— ¼ tsp ginger<br />
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Emily's healthy food recipes — her favourite collection!<br />
Some readers have asked why Emily Hylan's healthy eating column, which included some of her favourite recipes, has disappeared from<br />
the magazine. At the end of last year, Emily left Charvil to take up a new job which meant that she would not have time to continue writing<br />
for us. Her recipes were obviously popular so we have collected them together to make it easier for her fans to keep handy — and if you<br />
haven't tried any yet, here's another chance!<br />
GLUTEN AND DAIRY FREE<br />
MINCE TARTS<br />
EASTER CARROT CAKE PORRIDGE<br />
Ingredients<br />
— 100g porridge oats<br />
— 250ml almond milk<br />
— 250ml water<br />
— 1 carrot peeled and grated<br />
— 1 tbsp date syrup or maple syrup<br />
— ¼ tsp each of ground cinnamon<br />
ground nutmeg and ground ginger<br />
— 30g raisins.<br />
Method<br />
Put oats, almond milk and water<br />
in a small saucepan and heat over<br />
a medium heat. Stir in most of the<br />
carrot along with the syrup, spices<br />
and raisins. Cook for 5-7 minutes until<br />
thick and creamy, stirring regularly.<br />
Sprinkle with the remaining carrot<br />
and serve. Happy Easter!<br />
BLACKBERRY OAT BARS<br />
Ingredients<br />
— 310g oats<br />
— 120 g almond flour/ground almonds<br />
— 1/2 tsp salt<br />
— 1/2 tsp cinnamon<br />
— 1 tsp lemon juice<br />
— 100 g coconut oil, melted<br />
— 117 g maple syrup<br />
— 1 tbsp nut butter (or seed butter)<br />
— 12 oz blackberries<br />
— 1/2 tbsp corn starch<br />
Method<br />
Preheat the oven to 1800C and line an 8 x<br />
8 inch baking tin with parchment paper.<br />
Combine the oats, almond flour, salt,<br />
and cinnamon in a food processor and<br />
pulse together.<br />
Melt the coconut oil and stir in the<br />
maple syrup and nut butter. Pour this<br />
mixture into the dry ingredients in<br />
the food processor and pulse until the<br />
mixture starts to come together.<br />
Set aside approximately 100g of the oat<br />
mixture for a crumb topping.<br />
With the rest of the oat mix, evenly<br />
distribute in the parchment lined<br />
baking tin and press down. Prick the<br />
crust with a fork so steam can escape.<br />
Bake for 8-10 minutes.<br />
While the crust is baking, add the<br />
blackberries, corn starch and lemon<br />
juice to the food processor and blend<br />
together until it has reached a desired<br />
consistency.<br />
Remove the crust from the oven<br />
and pour the blackberry puree over<br />
the crust. Using the reserved oat<br />
mix, spread evenly on top over the<br />
blackberry puree. Bake for 20-25<br />
minutes, until golden brown.<br />
Remove from oven and cool in the<br />
pan for about 1 hour. Refrigerate for at<br />
least 3-4 hours until it completely sets.<br />
Remove from the pan by gently lifting<br />
the edges of the parchment paper. Cut<br />
into bars.
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HEALTH — 2<br />
Dr Simon Ruffle writes . . . about shaking<br />
A common presentation to doctors is shaking — or tremors.<br />
Due to our inbuilt prejudice, our brains snap to the easiest<br />
conclusion so we can get on with life. If we consciously<br />
made decisions, all the time, we’d be almost paralysed<br />
by indecision and certainly couldn’t drive or complete<br />
complicated tasks.<br />
We learn these decisions and automate them until we no<br />
longer make a conscious decision to continue.<br />
We override these decisions to change outcomes; for<br />
better or worse. Teenage boy’s brains are wired differently<br />
and they take more risks by overriding their unconscious<br />
decisions. In general our learned decisions are correct;<br />
repeating failure leads to doom!<br />
So, back to the shakes. Being in Britain our sense of<br />
humour will make us think ‘take more water with it!<br />
Certainly an option to ask about but let’s explore this very<br />
common symptom.<br />
TEMPUS FUGIT<br />
Like most conditions that cause a lack of ease or disease<br />
they occur as we age. Nothing we can do about 'tempus fugit'<br />
— time flies — and the alternative to this is seen all around<br />
St Andrew’s.<br />
ESSENTIAL<br />
<strong>The</strong> commonest form of tremor is 'essential tremor'.<br />
This is a fast tremor that, annoyingly, starts as you go to do<br />
something. A nice cuppa awaits, you go to pick it up and ‘the<br />
shakes start.’ Often you can overcome this and I worked with<br />
a surgeon that shook until the moment of precision and then<br />
he was steady as a rock. This is a variant known as intention<br />
tremor.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re’s little we can do about mild symptoms and very<br />
few people go on to be disabled by the condition. <strong>The</strong>re<br />
is a new type of surgery where the brain is stimulated by<br />
electricity overriding the tremor — alcohol can slow this<br />
tremor.<br />
ETHANOL C2H5-OH<br />
Let’s bite the alcohol bullet. Alcohol doesn’t cause tremor.<br />
Withdrawing format does. You do not need to be alcoholic<br />
to get some tremor if you have had one for the road that you<br />
weren’t going to, you may get a little shaky between 10-12<br />
hours after your last drink.<br />
Other normally encountered reasons for tremors are lack<br />
of sleep, low blood sugar and dehydration — all encountered<br />
in a hangover too!<br />
SHAKES ARE NORMAL<br />
Shaking is a natural reaction to stress. Adrenaline levels<br />
rise. Your heart rate and blood pressure rise and tremor<br />
starts — you are warming up to fight or flight. This is great<br />
when the lions attack but not when you have a presentation<br />
to make or an interview.<br />
GREY TUMOUR<br />
In speaking about adrenaline there is a condition called<br />
'phaeochromocytom'. This is a benign tumour that causes too<br />
much adrenaline to be produced. This gives a pseudo — fake<br />
Ladies dancing<br />
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— fight and flight response. <strong>The</strong> tumour cells are dusky in<br />
colour thus the name, 'phaeo' means dusky', 'chromo' means<br />
colour and 'chroma' is tumour.<br />
MORNING RITUAL?<br />
Caffeine and smoking causes shaking but so can many<br />
prescribed medications, especially asthma inhalers.<br />
Thyroid disease, especially overactive thyroid can cause<br />
the symptoms as can lack of B12 and liver disease.<br />
BRAIN DISORDERS<br />
Asking people what makes people shake, second to<br />
alcohol is Parkinson’s Disease.<br />
Parkinson’s is now known as a range of conditions but<br />
there are brain conditions that mimic Parkinson’s Disease.<br />
<strong>The</strong> tremor of PD is slow, a rigid/releasing tremor or<br />
cog wheeling. Some patients also experience a ‘pill-rolling<br />
tremor.’ This is exactly as it sounds. <strong>The</strong> patient rolls an<br />
invisible pill in their fingers.<br />
Medicine and surgery are now used in Parkinson’s disease<br />
to alleviate the symptoms but the disease is degenerative.<br />
If you have never watched the film Awakenings with Robin<br />
Williams and Robert De Niro, do so. It is a fictionalised<br />
biography about patients and doctors having PD and trying<br />
to treat it. (Warning: box of Kleenex, other tissues are<br />
available, required.)<br />
Multiple Sclerosis patients also present with tremor,<br />
often in one hand but sometimes both.<br />
BIAS BE GONE<br />
I hope that a little knowledge of what makes us shake can<br />
change our unconscious bias on how we see someone with<br />
the shakes.<br />
OH! ONE MORE THING<br />
Simon Ruffle<br />
My hobby is photography. <strong>The</strong>re is no way humans can<br />
control camera shake with low shutter speeds without using<br />
a tripod. Even then, many cameras compensate for shake so<br />
brilliantly that you have to turn the mechanism off when<br />
the camera is stabilised —if only humans could do this!<br />
However, sometimes, the misnomer, camera shake — it<br />
should be called operator or human shake — can be an<br />
advantage. Indulge me!
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Rare<br />
visitor<br />
from<br />
Biblical<br />
times<br />
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Gazing through the window and thinking of what to do<br />
first in the Bible garden when the wet, cold weather eases, I<br />
spotted a rare visitor that took me back to my childhood. It<br />
was a lone sparrow, writes Bob Peters.<br />
<strong>The</strong> sparrow is one of the world's most common birds and<br />
it has been recorded in every continent except Antarctica.<br />
<strong>The</strong>y have been around it seems since time began and are<br />
mentioned several times in the Bible: 'Are not five sparrows<br />
sold for two pennies? And not one of them is forgotten before<br />
God.' (Luke 12:6). Sparrows are welcome visitors to my Bible<br />
garden!<br />
<strong>The</strong>re are 25 species of birds found only in Israel with<br />
about 400 species in the neighbouring areas. Birds are often<br />
mentioned in the Bible, both literally and metaphorically.<br />
In my younger days, sparrows, and starlings (although<br />
not mentioned in the Bible, starlings are said to be ‘spiritual<br />
messengers’) were considered pests, they were everywhere,<br />
although blackbirds, thrushes (Isaiah 38:14), blue tits,<br />
robins and wrens all managed to find a spot to feed. <strong>The</strong>n<br />
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Recipe of the month: Easter Story Biscuits for children<br />
Preparation time: 20 minutes, total time: 1 day!<br />
Ingredients<br />
— 110 grams of pecan nuts — 200 grams sugar<br />
— 5 grams vinegar<br />
— large plastic bag<br />
— 3 egg whites<br />
— wooden spoon<br />
— a pinch salt<br />
— tape<br />
Instructions: Find your Bible then preheat the oven to 1500C<br />
Place pecans in the plastic bag and let the children beat them with<br />
the wooden spoon to break into small pieces. Explain that after<br />
Jesus was arrested, he was beaten by the Roman soldiers. Read<br />
John 19:1-3.<br />
Let each child smell the vinegar. Put vinegar into mixing bowl.<br />
Explain that when Jesus was thirsty on the cross He was given<br />
vinegar to drink. Read John 19:28-30.<br />
Add egg whites to vinegar. Eggs represent life. Explain that Jesus<br />
gave his life to give us life. Read John 10:10-11.<br />
Sprinkle a little salt into each child's hand. Let them taste it and<br />
brush the rest into the bowl. Explain that this represents the salty<br />
tears shed by Jesus' followers, and the bitterness of our own sin.<br />
Read Luke 23:27.<br />
So far the ingredients are not very appetising . . .<br />
Birds in and above the Bible garden<br />
Add sugar. Explain that the sweetest part of the story is that<br />
Jesus died because he loves us. He wants us to know and belong to<br />
him. Read Psalm 34:8 and John 3:16.<br />
Beat with a mixer on high speed until stiff peaks are formed.<br />
Explain that the colour white represents the purity in God's eyes<br />
of those whose sins have been cleansed by Jesus. Read Isaiah 1:18<br />
and John 3:1-3.<br />
Fold in broken nuts. Use a teaspoon to drop the mixture onto a<br />
non-stick baking parchment-covered baking sheet. Explain that<br />
each mound represents the rocky tomb where Jesus' body was<br />
laid. Read Matthew 27:57-60.<br />
Put the baking sheet in the oven, close the door and turn the<br />
oven off. Give each child a piece of tape and seal the oven door.<br />
Explain that Jesus' tomb was sealed. Read Matthew 27:65-66.<br />
GO TO BED! Explain that they may feel sad to leave them in the<br />
oven overnight. Jesus' followers felt despair when the tomb was<br />
sealed. Read John 16:20 and 22.<br />
On Easter morning, open the oven and give everyone a cookie.<br />
Notice the cracked surface and take a bite. <strong>The</strong> cookies are hollow!<br />
On the first Easter Jesus' followers were amazed to find the tomb<br />
open and empty. Read Matthew 28:1-9.<br />
in summer the house martins and swallows (Isaiah 38:14)<br />
arrived and, when the weather was rough, along came the<br />
seagulls (Leviticus 11:16) — my garden then was near the<br />
Thames Estuary, only 70 miles downstream as the crow flies<br />
from Charvil in Berkshire where I live now, so the climates<br />
were similar. And yet, 60 years later, the smaller birds such<br />
as sparrows and starlings, have become rare visitors.<br />
While the Royal Society for the Protection of Birds<br />
points out that bird numbers vary each year according to<br />
the availability of food and the climate, it also records that<br />
with many species of birds there has been a worrying steady<br />
decline in numbers over the past 30 years — sparrows have<br />
declined by 95% and starlings by 71%.<br />
LARGER BIRDS IN THE SKIES<br />
Interestingly, in the 10 years I have lived in Charvil, as<br />
the smaller birds have declined in numbers, there has been<br />
an obvious rise of larger birds such as crows (same family<br />
as the raven (Genesis 8:6-7), red kites (Leviticus 11:14) and<br />
parakeets, all of which have larger flocks every year. Just<br />
before Christmas last year a peregrine falcon (Leviticus 11:14)<br />
appeared and seems to have attracted another one — I saw<br />
one flying by with twigs in its beak, perhaps they are setting<br />
up home nearby!<br />
One bird, however, that has been ever present in my<br />
Bible garden is the pigeon (Luke 2:24) which can be a problem<br />
when they attack the young broad bean plants. In the<br />
Bible, pigeons were used for food and sacrifice. <strong>The</strong>y too<br />
are declining in numbers — in America it is estimated that<br />
billions of them have disappeared in recent years.<br />
<strong>The</strong>n there is the heron (Leviticus 11:19) that steals fish<br />
from the Bible garden pond! This is one of the 'unclean' birds<br />
of the Bible — another 'unclean' bird that I have not heard<br />
for several years but hope will herald spring one day soon, is<br />
the cuckoo. (Leviticus 11:14).
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THE ARTS — 1<br />
From blindness to sight and insight<br />
Caravaggio, Public domain, via Wikimedia Commons<br />
I like the story of the vestry noticeboard of a church in Hampshire: after a<br />
Holy Week performance of Stainer’s ‘Crucifixion’, the choirmaster wrote: ‘<strong>The</strong><br />
Crucifixion — well done, everyone!’ Later that day, someone had added, ‘<strong>The</strong><br />
Resurrection — well done, God!’, writes Rev Michael Burgess<br />
For the two disciples treading the road to Emmaus, there was no such sense of victory<br />
and celebration. <strong>The</strong>ir minds and hearts were numb with the sense of loss and failure.<br />
<strong>The</strong>y had seen their Lord tried and crucified.<br />
As Luke recounts that walk in his Gospel, he shows how it began with<br />
absence and loss, but journeyed to presence. It was a road that took the<br />
disciples from blindness and despair to sight and insight. <strong>The</strong>y talked over past<br />
events with the stranger who joined them. Luke uses 10 different Greek words<br />
to describe that conversation — all stages in their understanding. And when<br />
they share a meal with the stranger, who becomes the host, taking the bread<br />
and giving thanks, then the understanding becomes vision and insight.<br />
ASTONISHED AND UNDERSTANDING<br />
That meal is the theme of Caravaggio’s painting of 1601, ‘<strong>The</strong> Supper at<br />
Emmaus.’ Caravaggio had a reputation for being a violent, irrational artist,<br />
given to bouts of anger and forced to spend part of his life in exile in Naples and<br />
Sicily. His paintings as well as his lifestyle, shocked and provoked, comment.<br />
This portrayal of Jesus with a plump, youthful face and his depiction of the<br />
apostles as ordinary labourers upset the church authorities. But by giving Jesus<br />
a beardless face, Caravaggio was trying to show him in the new likeness of<br />
Resurrection – an Easter image of our Lord. <strong>The</strong> light from Jesus fills the scene<br />
as the two disciples look on, astonished and finally understanding.<br />
When we read the Gospel, we are drawn into the scene. For Caravaggio the<br />
movement is the other way: the scene reaches out to us from the canvas. Look<br />
at the outstretched hand of Jesus, the elbow of one disciple and the left hand of<br />
the other: they are being projected into our world. And that basket of fruit, full<br />
of apples and figs and grapes, symbols of the fall and the eucharist: it is about<br />
to topple off the table and into our laps. It is an Easter encounter 2,000 years<br />
ago, reaching out to us through light and shade and the skill of the artist.<br />
<strong>The</strong> story in Luke is of an ordinary encounter between travellers and a<br />
stranger. But it is made extraordinary by the transforming power of the risen<br />
Lord, talking with the disciples in the open air and then going inside for a meal.<br />
However, the doors are not shut to us. For Caravaggio shows how that special<br />
moment of encounter for the disciples can reach out to enter our world. He<br />
shows the hand of the risen Lord beckoning us to step into that Easter world of<br />
sacrament and new life.<br />
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Alleluia!<br />
Alleluia!<br />
Give<br />
thanks<br />
to the<br />
Risen<br />
Lord!<br />
Bruno van der Krann, unsplash.com<br />
Not many university students are<br />
able to write Christian songs which<br />
become worldwide hits, but Don<br />
Emry Fishel managed it with his<br />
Alleluia No 1.<br />
Nearly 50 years on, it is loved and<br />
sung by millions of Christians<br />
worldwide.<br />
Fishel wrote it in 1971, while<br />
he was a student at the University<br />
of Michigan and also music leader<br />
of a Roman Catholic charismatic<br />
community based in Ann Arbor,<br />
Michigan.<br />
<strong>The</strong>se were the days of folk songs<br />
and guitars, and Alleluia No. 1 fitted<br />
the prevailing mood perfectly.<br />
Written in E Major, it is ideal for<br />
guitar accompaniment.<br />
LIVE FOREVER<br />
Mr Fishel became a freelance<br />
flutist, flute instructor and<br />
composer. He was publications editor<br />
for the Word of God and Servant<br />
Music for a number of years, and<br />
then worked in computers for 25<br />
years. In 2008 he moved to Nashville<br />
and returned to music, teaching the<br />
flute.<br />
Alleluia No 1 was Fishel’s first<br />
song, written 'rather quickly, in<br />
about an hour.' It had four verses to<br />
begin with, but a fifth verse (which<br />
became the third verse) was added<br />
later, as he prepared for baptism.<br />
As Fishel explained, he wanted<br />
the line ‘We have been crucified with<br />
Christ; now we shall live forever’ to<br />
be the centre of the song.<br />
Alleluia No 1 was first published<br />
in the UK in Sound of Living Waters,<br />
in 1974.
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the ARTS — 2<br />
Poetry corner<br />
Promises<br />
God has not promised<br />
Skies always blue,<br />
Flower-strewn pathways<br />
All our life through;<br />
God has not promised<br />
Sun without rain,<br />
Joy without sorrow,<br />
Peace without pain.<br />
But God has promised<br />
Strength for the day,<br />
Rest for the labour,<br />
Light for the way;<br />
Grace for the trial,<br />
Help from above,<br />
Unfailing sympathy,<br />
Undying love.<br />
(Anon)<br />
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And just a little blue<br />
I stop right there<br />
And ask myself<br />
What would JESUS do?<br />
Whenever my mind goes wandering<br />
To where it shouldn’t do<br />
I stop right there<br />
And ask myself<br />
What would JESUS do?<br />
Whenever someone’s unkind to me<br />
It gets me in a stew<br />
I stop right there<br />
And ask myself<br />
What would JESUS do?<br />
Whenever days go by<br />
And I don’t know what to do<br />
I stop right there<br />
And ask myself<br />
What would JESUS do?<br />
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the sciences<br />
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By Dr Ruth M Bancewicz, church engagement director at the Faraday<br />
Institute for Science and Religion in Cambridge.<br />
Science tells us how the world works, and technology<br />
offers applications of that knowledge, but neither can<br />
tell us what we ought to do. All scientific discoveries<br />
or new technologies can be used to either help or harm<br />
others. For example, a smartphone can be used to stay in<br />
touch but also enables bullying.<br />
It is important to get past our initial reactions: the ‘yuk!’ or<br />
‘wow!’ <strong>The</strong>se feelings may well change once we learn more<br />
about the science and other factors behind a new development.<br />
Ethical thinking can be divided into three main categories.<br />
<strong>The</strong> consequentialist approach is demonstrated in the Biblical<br />
book of Proverbs when Wisdom calls young men to consider<br />
the outcome of their actions. Utilitarianism is a form of<br />
consequentialist ethic that tries to maximise the greatest good<br />
for the largest number of people affected, but unchecked it<br />
leaves minorities out in the cold.<br />
ETHICAL DECISIONS<br />
Duty or law-based ethics start with intrinsic values,<br />
asking what is the correct course of action or our duty? <strong>The</strong>se<br />
values might be God-given, such as the Ten Commandments,<br />
or worked out by human reason. It is possible, however, to<br />
do harm while obeying the law, especially if someone asks<br />
‘What can I get away with?’ Also, what happens when rules<br />
collide? For example, who should be treated first when<br />
resources are limited?<br />
Virtue ethics are about building character, growing<br />
in wisdom and the fruit of the Spirit. <strong>The</strong>re are plenty of<br />
Biblical principles to guide virtuous living, such as the idea<br />
that we are ‘made in the image of God’ which supports<br />
the value of every human life (Genesis 1:26–27, Genesis 9:6,<br />
James 3:9–10), but the right decision can vary depending on<br />
circumstances.<br />
So how can we make ethical decisions about new<br />
technologies? <strong>The</strong> five C's bring together a number of types<br />
of ethical thinking into a framework for decision-making.<br />
— Clarify the facts and key questions.<br />
— Consider our choices: what could we achieve?<br />
— Constraints: External, what must we do? Internal, how<br />
should we behave?<br />
— Compare the pros and cons of each approach.<br />
— Choose what is best, with all parties in mind.<br />
Finally, we have to recognise that the information<br />
available to us will change over time, our knowledge of God<br />
and his word will keep growing, and we cannot avoid making<br />
mistakes, so our ethical decisions will need to be revisited<br />
and revised from time to time.
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PUZZLE PAGE ANSWERS IN THE<br />
CROSSWORD<br />
Across<br />
1 High-pitched flute (4)<br />
3 Observing (8)<br />
9 Single-horned creature (7)<br />
10 Gardeners sow these (5)<br />
11 Dictatorial (12)<br />
13 Flash intermittently (6)<br />
15 Outline model, plan or theory (6)<br />
17 Make a guess that is too high (12)<br />
20 Small marine fish (5)<br />
21 Tax imposed on ships (7)<br />
22 Perceived (8)<br />
23 Transparent camera part (4)<br />
Down<br />
1 Fruit sugar (8)<br />
2 Force upon (5)<br />
4 Elaborately adorned (6)<br />
5 Directions (12)<br />
6 Do repeatedly (7)<br />
7 Lesion (4)<br />
8 Fellow plotter (12)<br />
12 Groundless (8)<br />
14 Returns to a former state (7)<br />
16 Insect that transmits sleeping<br />
sickness (6)<br />
18 Not asleep (5)<br />
19 Capital of Norway (4)<br />
CODEWORD<br />
1 2 3 4 5 6 7<br />
8<br />
9 10<br />
11<br />
13 14 15<br />
19<br />
17 18<br />
16<br />
20 21<br />
22 23<br />
Across<br />
1 - High-pitched flute (4)<br />
3 - Observing (8)<br />
11 - Dictatorial (12)<br />
15 - Representation of a plan or theory (6)<br />
17 - Make a guess that is too high (12)<br />
20 - Small marine fish (5)<br />
21 - Tax imposed on ships (7)<br />
22 - Perceived (8)<br />
23 - Transparent camera part (4)<br />
Down<br />
1 - Fruit sugar (8)<br />
2 - Force upon (5)<br />
9 - Single-horned creature (7)<br />
4 - Elaborately adorned (6)<br />
10 - 2. Gardeners Which sow King these was (5) killed by an arrow while 5 - Directions hunting (12) in the<br />
6 - Do repeatedly (7)<br />
13 - 3. Flash Which intermittently English (6) King was named Coeur 7 - de Lesion Lion? (4)<br />
2 4 12 8 19 18 19 3 2 9 17 2<br />
4 25 8 21 2 25 9<br />
10 22 10 8 19 21 22 25 8 8<br />
6 2 9 23 25 14 25 20 6 16<br />
8 21 21 22 2 2 8 8<br />
4 19 14 4 25 20 8 14<br />
8 22 21 8 4 26 6<br />
13 22 5 24 21 12 12 6<br />
25 15 23 26 14 8 2 11<br />
19 6 14 23 2 20 6 25 4 11<br />
2 25 14 21 7 22 2 25 9 21<br />
25 11 2 2 1 4 2<br />
22 4 19 8 20 18 21 2 23 19 2 19<br />
A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z<br />
SOLUTIONS FOR THE MARCH PUZZLES<br />
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13<br />
W<br />
12<br />
14 - Returns to a former state (7)<br />
16 - Insect that transmits sleeping sickness (6)<br />
SUDOKU<br />
Each of the nine blocks has to contain all the<br />
numbers 1-9 within its squares. Each number can<br />
only appear once in a row, column or box.<br />
EASTER WORDSEARCH<br />
QUIZ<br />
CROSSWORD CODEWORD SUDOKU WORDSEARCH<br />
14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26<br />
C O N N O T A T I O N S T U C C O F L A M E S<br />
1. St Andrew's X Youth<br />
2. Islam<br />
3. Nathan May<br />
4. More Doggerel Days<br />
5. For the hedgehogs<br />
6. Dutch Elm Disease<br />
7. May 1988<br />
8. Marsh Lane<br />
THE APRIL HISTORY QUIZ<br />
1. What famous battle was fought on Senlac Hill?<br />
New Forest?<br />
8 - Fellow plotter (12)<br />
4. What notable event occurred at Runnymede?<br />
12 - Groundless (8)<br />
5. Who was the first Prince of Wales?<br />
6. What caused the death of supposedly half the English<br />
population during 1348/9?<br />
18 - Not asleep (5)<br />
7. Who in 1474 made history at the sign of the ‘Red Pole’ ?<br />
19 - Capital of Norway (4)<br />
8. Which English king married his brother’s widow ?<br />
I N E E O U F<br />
N E E X E R T S P A<br />
T U N E D M E T S<br />
E E F E M U S I C<br />
M I S G U I D E I<br />
P S L A B N<br />
E T O R T I L L A<br />
R I O J A W H U T<br />
A C D N E N N U I<br />
T E E O R I B I D N<br />
E A P N S E G<br />
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Easter — the crucifixion, death and resurrection<br />
of Jesus Christ — celebrates the triumphant<br />
highlight of the Christian year. As St Paul pointed<br />
out, unless Jesus really did rise again our faith is<br />
useless, and we may as well forget any hope of<br />
heaven or eternal life.<br />
passover<br />
bread<br />
wine<br />
body<br />
blood<br />
betrayal<br />
Jerusalem<br />
Pilate<br />
Judas<br />
Gethsemane<br />
trial<br />
crucifixion<br />
soldiers<br />
cross<br />
nails<br />
vinegar<br />
temple<br />
curtain<br />
tomb<br />
angel<br />
stone<br />
risen<br />
gardener<br />
Mary
NEXT ISSUE<br />
EASTER ANAGRAMS<br />
1. Airy odd fog - - - - -/- - - - - -<br />
2. Rags see get - - - - - -/- - - -<br />
3. Layman spud - - - -/- - - - - -<br />
4. Coin uric fix - - - - - - - - - - -<br />
5. Brunch so toss - - -/- - - - -/- - - -<br />
6. Apples rust - - - -/- - - - - -<br />
7. Acid air just so - - - - -/- - - - - - - -<br />
8. Torch frowns on - - - - -/- -/- - - - - -<br />
9. Hen irises - -/- -/- - - - -!<br />
BIBLE BASED CROSSWORD<br />
Church in<br />
Wales coat<br />
of arms<br />
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ANSWERS TO THE DENOMINATIONS QUIZ ON PAGE 22<br />
Baptist Union of<br />
Great Britain<br />
United<br />
Reformed<br />
Church<br />
Church of<br />
England<br />
Church of<br />
Ireland<br />
Across<br />
1. Relating to the whole universe (6)<br />
4. <strong>The</strong> disciple who made the remark in 8 Across (John 20:24) (6)<br />
8. ‘Unless I see the nail marks — — hands, I will not believe it’ (John 20:25) (2,3)<br />
9. He urged King Jehoiakim not to burn the scroll containing Jeremiah’s<br />
message (Jeremiah 36:25) (7)<br />
10. Baptist minister and controversial founder of America’s Moral Majority,<br />
Jerry — (7)<br />
11. ‘Look, here is — . Why shouldn’t I be baptized?’ (Acts 8:36) (5)<br />
12. Repossessed (Genesis 14:16) (9)<br />
17. Port from which Paul sailed on his last journey to Rome (Acts 27:3–4) (5)<br />
19. ‘Moses was not aware that his face was — because he had spoken with<br />
the Lord’. (Exodus 34:29) (7)<br />
21. Roonwit, CS Lewis’s half-man, half-horse (7)<br />
22. Grill (Luke 24:42) (5)<br />
23. ‘<strong>The</strong> lot fell to Matthias; so he was added to the — apostles’ (Acts 1:26) (6)<br />
24. ‘I was sick and you looked after me, I was in — and you came to visit me’<br />
(Matthew 25:36) (6)<br />
Down<br />
1. Coastal rockfaces (Psalm 141:6) (6)<br />
2. Academic (1 Corinthians 1:20) (7)<br />
3. Publish (Daniel 6:26) (5)<br />
5. For example, the Crusades (4,3)<br />
6. 11 Across is certainly this (5)<br />
7. He reps (anag) (6)<br />
9. Liberator (Psalm 18:2) (9)<br />
13. Man who asked the question in 11 Across was in charge of all her treasury (7)<br />
14. <strong>The</strong>y must be ‘worthy of respect, sincere, not indulging in much wine’ (1<br />
Timothy 3:8) (7)<br />
15. <strong>The</strong> human mind or soul (6)<br />
16. ‘O Lord, while precious children starve, the tools of war increase; their<br />
bread is — ’ (Graham Kendrick) (6)<br />
18. ‘We played the flute for you, and you did not — ’ (Matthew 11:17) (5)<br />
20. Bared (anag) (5)<br />
Churches<br />
Together<br />
Salvation<br />
Army<br />
Church<br />
of<br />
Scotland<br />
Catholic<br />
Bishop<br />
Conference<br />
England<br />
and Wales<br />
Methodist Church<br />
in Britain<br />
World Council<br />
of Churches<br />
Church<br />
in<br />
Wales<br />
Episcopal<br />
Church<br />
Brethren
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Signature Cliveden Manor Care Home 28<br />
Sonning Golf Club 32<br />
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