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<strong>The</strong> John King Trophy and Gold Award<br />

Best <strong>Magazine</strong> of the Year 2018<br />

National <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> Awards<br />

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Best Editor 2019<br />

Best Print 2018<br />

Best Content 2016<br />

Best Overall <strong>Magazine</strong> 2015<br />

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Contents <strong>April</strong> <strong>2021</strong><br />

THE VICAR'S LETTER, 5<br />

THE PARISH NOTICEBOARD<br />

— A passion for prayer, 7<br />

— For your prayers in <strong>April</strong>, 7<br />

— On Reflection: Abraham, 9<br />

— From the editor's desk, 9<br />

— STAY, 10<br />

— <strong>The</strong> Persecuted Church, 11<br />

— Alpha on Zoom, 13<br />

features<br />

— Accidents do happen, 13<br />

— Easter Queen of Festivals, 15-17<br />

— Jake takes a step, 19<br />

— PCC Centenary, 21<br />

— Easter denominations, 22-23<br />

around the villages<br />

— A day out in Windsor Castle, 25<br />

— Looking familiar, 27<br />

— Me2 Lockdown Hero Award, 27<br />

— Sonning Tennis open days, 27<br />

HEALTH<br />

— Emily's healthy recipes, 29<br />

— Dr Simon Ruffle writes, 31<br />

HOME & GARDEN<br />

— Recipe of the Month, 33<br />

— Bible Garden birds, 33<br />

THE ARTS<br />

— Blindness to insight, 35<br />

— Give thanks to the risen Lord, 35<br />

— Poetry Corner, 37<br />

the sciences<br />

— Information, 37<br />

PUZZLE PAGE, 38-39<br />

This month's FRONT COVER<br />

March <strong>2021</strong> — Mothering Sunday and Palm Sunday<br />

<strong>The</strong><br />

<strong>Parish</strong><br />

<strong>Magazine</strong><br />

the church of st andrew, SERVING THE COMMUNITIES OF<br />

CHARVIL, SONNING and sonning eye SINCE THE 7 th CENTURY<br />

<strong>The</strong> Easter Story<br />

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Services at<br />

St Andrew’s<br />

IN-PERSON WORSHIP<br />

As we went to press the ministry<br />

team and the PCC were discussing the<br />

resumption of in-person worship. If<br />

possible it is hoped to start again on<br />

Palm Sunday 28 March at 10.30am.<br />

EASTER SERVICES<br />

It is also hoped that we will be able<br />

to hold the following services during<br />

Easter:<br />

1 <strong>April</strong>: Maundy Thursday<br />

Stripping of the Altar at 7.30pm<br />

2 <strong>April</strong>: Good Friday<br />

Last Hour Service with soloist singing<br />

hymns at 2.00pm<br />

3 <strong>April</strong>: Easter Saturday<br />

<strong>The</strong> first Communion service of<br />

Easter outside in <strong>The</strong> Ark gardens at<br />

8.00pm<br />

4 <strong>April</strong>: Easter Day<br />

<strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist service at 10.30am<br />

For more information about all the<br />

above services please see the parish<br />

website, the weekly service sheet, or<br />

call the parish office — see page 42<br />

for the full list of contact details.<br />

WEEKDAY SERVICES<br />

Morning Prayer in St Andrew's<br />

Tuesday 20 <strong>April</strong> a 9.30am<br />

Tuesday 27 <strong>April</strong> at 9.30am<br />

Friday 30 <strong>April</strong> at 9.30am<br />

Compline on Zoom<br />

8.30pm on Monday, each week.<br />

Contact Rev Kate for details about<br />

joining her on Zoom.<br />

Thursday at Eight<br />

8pm on Zoom every Thursday — see<br />

page 7 for details.<br />

children's page, 41<br />

information<br />

— Church services, 3<br />

— From the registers, 3<br />

— <strong>Parish</strong> contacts, 42<br />

— Advertisers index, 42<br />

From the registers<br />

Funerals<br />

— Tuesday 2 March, David Ronald Fillingham, interment of ashes in the churchyard<br />

— Wednesday 3 March, Denise Edith Bertram, St Andrew's Church followed by burial<br />

in the churchyard.


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<strong>The</strong> vicar's letter<br />

Dear friends,<br />

Living through this uncertain period of Covid pandemic we need signs of<br />

hope and resurrection. We need the assurance that God is with us always<br />

and that is the promise we receive on Easter Day.<br />

A child asks her mother, 'Where is God?' Her mother answers, 'God is<br />

everywhere.' <strong>The</strong> child cries out, 'But I want God to be somewhere!'<br />

So do we! We want God to be here, with us now and forever. This is,<br />

I think, the greatest significance of our Easter celebration, for Easter is<br />

the promise we receive that Christ lives, and he is among us even now.<br />

<strong>The</strong> resurrection story is the foundation of our hope that Christ lives in<br />

eternity and that we will live with him now and forever.<br />

THE ASSURANCE OF THE EMPTY TOMB<br />

We should never underestimate the strength and the hope that God's<br />

presence can bring to our lives. <strong>The</strong> affirmation that 'Christ is risen'<br />

suggests that God is near to us. It reminds us that there is something<br />

stable, something permanent in creation that will not be defeated by<br />

human sin and evil.<br />

<strong>The</strong> empty tomb is our assurance that God stands in and behind our<br />

world, and that God is there to strengthen and uphold anything that is<br />

good.<br />

<strong>The</strong> truth of the matter is that God in his great love and concern for us<br />

rarely gives us signs or miracles if you want to call them that. God gives<br />

us signs of his presence and work in the ordinary events of our everyday<br />

lives.<br />

Think of the birth of a child; reflect on a Sunday school teacher's<br />

commitment and enthusiasm for sharing the gospel. What about the joy<br />

one feels on coming home after leaving for a period of time? Consider<br />

how one is moved, staying to the end with another human being through<br />

hours of pain and dying.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se are the signs, yes, the miracles of God in our everyday lives. In<br />

each one of them, one senses the presence of hope, and the victory of<br />

eternal life over death. In these experiences, one really can feel the power<br />

of resurrection.<br />

WE ALL NEED EASTER<br />

As we confront the ultimate question of life and death which we all<br />

must face as individuals, we need the assurance of Easter. For you see,<br />

Good Friday and Easter go together because every person has some dark<br />

moments, some disappointments throughout the course of a lifetime.<br />

This is why we all need Easter, the day on which we celebrate God's<br />

greatest miracle. We need Easter as the assurance of a power that is<br />

beyond ourselves. We need Easter so that we may have hope for the future<br />

because in the end, all human beings must face their death alone. We<br />

need Easter, with its hope for better days ahead in this life. We need the<br />

promise of life eternal which only Jesus Christ can bring us.<br />

He is risen!<br />

Warm wishes for a happy and blessed Easter.<br />

Jamie


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A passion for prayer<br />

Rev Kate writes why prayer and praying, although difficult at<br />

times, is an important two-way communications path with<br />

God that is necessary to build a strong relationship.<br />

Part 2 will be published in our May issue.<br />

I am passionate about prayer but that doesn’t mean it’s always easy! Prayer isn’t<br />

simply about asking God for what we want, or even for what we need — although<br />

this can be a part of prayer. Primarily it is about relationship.<br />

Communication is an important part<br />

of any relationship and this is the<br />

same with our relationship with God.<br />

In order for relationships to<br />

grow and develop, they need<br />

communication. Prayer is about<br />

praising God, sharing our joys with<br />

him and thanking him. It is about<br />

bringing before God our needs and the<br />

needs of the world.<br />

It is about saying sorry and turning<br />

from the mistakes we have made and<br />

asking for God’s forgiveness.<br />

Prayer is our way of communicating<br />

with God and therefore something<br />

that isn’t optional for Christians.<br />

Throughout history Christians have<br />

prayed in many ways and many<br />

contexts. Some through the spoken<br />

word, through singing, by using their<br />

bodies to express prayer — such as<br />

prostrating themselves on the floor or<br />

raising their arms — or using silence<br />

or contemplation.<br />

I could talk for hours on this topic<br />

and have many books of prayer, but<br />

this month I want to focus on a couple<br />

of different approaches to prayer,<br />

and next month, I will explore some<br />

different and creative ways to pray, and<br />

look at some of the difficulties.<br />

RHYTHM OF PRAYER<br />

<strong>The</strong> daily offices, as they are called,<br />

are something that ordained people<br />

commit to praying each day, but many<br />

others also join in this discipline. This<br />

usually consists of Morning Prayer<br />

and Evening Prayer, although there<br />

are various other services for different<br />

points in the day. This rhythm of<br />

daily prayer is important to many<br />

Christians throughout the world.<br />

<strong>The</strong> daily offices follow a pattern<br />

of readings from the Old and New<br />

Testament, and psalms each day. <strong>The</strong><br />

prayers and readings connect us with<br />

the wider church, as well as bringing<br />

us together to pray locally.<br />

In <strong>April</strong> we will introduce some<br />

new services of Morning Prayer in<br />

St Andrew’s Church, initially each<br />

Tuesday at 9.30am and on the first<br />

Friday of each month at 9.30am.<br />

I will also continue a Zoom service<br />

of sung compline (night prayer) that<br />

was introduced three evenings a week<br />

during Lent. After Easter it will be held<br />

on Monday at 8.30pm, with the option<br />

of joining online from 8.10pm to learn<br />

the music. If you are interested in<br />

trying this then please email me for<br />

more details. I hope to start a sung<br />

service of compline once a month<br />

in church when we are able to sing<br />

together again.<br />

PERSONAL PRAYER<br />

Our own personal prayer can take<br />

many forms. Since I was ordained,<br />

I have had the joy of hearing people<br />

talk about how they pray. Many talk<br />

of praying as they walk and enjoying<br />

praying outdoors.<br />

Some pray in silence — this can<br />

be a challenge for some as people<br />

use words so much of the time, but<br />

for many others sitting with God in<br />

silence is how they prefer to pray.<br />

Some may use set words such as<br />

the Lord’s Prayer or prayers they learnt<br />

as a child, whereas others have a much<br />

more conversational and informal<br />

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approach. Some kneel, some don’t….<br />

and so on. <strong>The</strong>re are perhaps as many<br />

ways to pray as there are people!<br />

IT'S GOOD TO TALK<br />

If you would like a conversation<br />

about prayer please contact me, I<br />

would love to hear from you.<br />

revkate@sonningparish.org.uk<br />

It’s not always easy but prayer<br />

can be incredibly sustaining as we<br />

journey through the ups and downs<br />

of life. If you would like a starting<br />

point, then there is perhaps nowhere<br />

better than the words Jesus taught<br />

us to pray:<br />

Our Father, who art in heaven,<br />

hallowed be thy name;<br />

thy kingdom come;<br />

thy will be done;<br />

on earth as it is in heaven.<br />

Give us this day our daily bread.<br />

And forgive us our trespasses,<br />

as we forgive those who<br />

trespass against us.<br />

And lead us not into temptation;<br />

but deliver us from evil.<br />

For thine is the kingdom,<br />

the power and the glory,<br />

for ever and ever. Amen.<br />

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On reflection . . .<br />

Abraham and taking<br />

matters into our hands<br />

By Elizabeth Spiers<br />

Abraham serving three angels by Rembrandt<br />

Public domain<br />

According to the Bible in Genesis 12, Israel is a nation that<br />

was started by God when he promised Abram, a childless<br />

but religious man, that he would be the father of a nation so<br />

numerous that you couldn’t count them.<br />

He changed Abram’s name to Abraham because that means<br />

‘father of multitudes’. However, Abraham and his wife Sarah<br />

had to wait many years to see this promise fulfilled and in<br />

the waiting period, they took matters into their own hands.<br />

At Sarah’s prompting, Abraham had a son, Ishmael, with her<br />

maidservant, Hagar.<br />

Abraham’s actions didn’t stop God being faithful. 13 years<br />

after Ishmael was born, God gave Abraham and Sarah a son<br />

of their own, Isaac. And from Isaac came the Jewish nation.<br />

But soon after Isaac was born, there was great strife between<br />

the two mothers, and much to Abraham’s distress, Sarah<br />

made him send Ishmael and Hagar away.<br />

CONSEQUENCES<br />

By taking matters into their own hands they caused<br />

problems for everyone in the family at the time, and far into<br />

the future, with serious consequences. Forced to leave his<br />

father’s house, Ishmael was not part of the family that led to<br />

the birth of the nation of Israel. Islamic lore says that Hagar<br />

took Ishmael to Mecca. Certainly, Ishmael is considered a<br />

patriarch of Islam and many Arabs today can probably trace<br />

their line back to him. <strong>The</strong>re is still a great deal of strife<br />

between the descendants of Isaac and those who see Ishmael<br />

as their father — look at the problems in the Middle East.<br />

We can often do as Abraham and Sarah did and take<br />

things into our own hands. We give God a ‘helping hand’ or<br />

perhaps we doubt that we heard from him or maybe we don’t<br />

believe that God is still interested in us or our nation or the<br />

wider world. It’s easy for us to lose confidence when time<br />

passes, and nothing happens.<br />

But our God is faithful. If he promises something, he<br />

means it and will do it. It is in God’s timing, not ours.<br />

Taking matters into our own hands can have<br />

consequences beyond anything we can imagine. What might<br />

the world look like today if Abraham and Sarah had not<br />

decided to give God a helping hand?<br />

From the desk<br />

of the editor<br />

editor@theparishmagazine.co.uk<br />

One event, many<br />

interpretations<br />

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St George's Day on 23 <strong>April</strong> always reminds me of the first<br />

church that I went to, I wonder how many people remember<br />

their first church?<br />

St George's Church in Tarpots, Essex, was not then a<br />

'proper' church as most people would imagine, it was a hall<br />

in which worship was held for the local people who found it<br />

difficult attending the 'real', 1,000 year old parish church of<br />

St Peter's Thundersley. <strong>The</strong> two churches were only 1½ miles<br />

apart along a road aptly named, Church Road, where I lived.<br />

<strong>The</strong> journey between the two churches meant climbing a<br />

very steep hill — also aptly named 'Church Hill' — that even<br />

many cars in the early 1950's had difficulty driving up. As a<br />

boy, one of the greatest challenges was to try to cycle up it,<br />

the reward being a dangerously fast but thrilling ride down.<br />

One of my aunts lived at the bottom of the hill so when we<br />

crashed there was somewhere to get patched up!<br />

St George's was one of those small halls that were built by<br />

churches after the war and although it was used for services,<br />

worshippers had to face west instead of the traditional east<br />

— east meant looking towards Jerusalem, the city that was at<br />

the centre of the Easter events that we celebrate this month.<br />

<strong>The</strong> 'proper' services such as baptism, confirmation, marriage<br />

and funerals, were always celebrated up the hill in St Peter's.<br />

It was in St George's that I believe I had my first call to serve<br />

in the church, but that's another long story!<br />

MEMORABLE<br />

Nevertheless, St George's was where each month I<br />

marched with a boy scouts' drum and fife band. I was the<br />

lead drummer, although secretly I wanted to play the big bass<br />

drum but that was a man-sized job! On St George's Day we<br />

all trooped off to Southend-on-Sea for a huge parade when<br />

scouts from throughout Essex marched along the seafront<br />

with their bands playing and flags flying for a service in<br />

the Odeon theatre and cinema. For me, St George's Day has<br />

always been memorable.<br />

St George's Church stood in a large field on the edge of<br />

Tarpots and beyond was a 'green belt' area. <strong>The</strong> other day I<br />

googled St George's Church and was pleased to see that<br />

it still exists, although it is no longer a daughter church<br />

of St Peter's. It is part of the New Wine evangelical<br />

movement that grew out of the Church of England as a<br />

multidenominational group of churches. <strong>The</strong> old building<br />

had long gone and now a smart new church stands in a<br />

more densely-populated area.<br />

My excuse for writing about my St George's Day memories<br />

is that it led me to think about how Christians experience<br />

their faith in so many different ways but all recognise that<br />

their roots lie in the amazing, life changing, and historychanging<br />

events that happened in Jerusalem 2,000 years ago<br />

— albeit in slightly different ways. This, in turn, led to the<br />

centre page article this month. Happy Easter!


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STAY<br />

St Andrew's Youth<br />

STAY on Sunday<br />

During February we continued to enjoy<br />

the Alpha Youth video series at STAY on<br />

Sunday, including topics such as:<br />

— Healing: does God still heal today?<br />

— Evil: how can I resist evil?<br />

— Telling others: how and why should I<br />

tell others?<br />

— Church: what about the church?<br />

We had lots of great discussions<br />

about our faith, we prayed for<br />

healing for one another and we asked<br />

questions about how we can make<br />

church a place where everyone feels<br />

welcome.<br />

STAY Pancake Party<br />

On Shrove Tuesday 16 February we<br />

celebrated by having a Zoom pancake<br />

party! <strong>The</strong>re was mess made, pancakes<br />

flipped and toppings galore! Prizes were<br />

awarded to: Will for doing 40 flips in<br />

30 seconds, Jayden for tastiest looking<br />

pancakes, Amelia and Sophia for nicest<br />

looking topping and Izzy and Will for<br />

best score in the pancake party quiz!<br />

STAY in Schools<br />

We have been able to continue to provide<br />

mentoring sessions through team calls<br />

to 22 students each week. It has been<br />

a real honour to journey with so many<br />

amazing students from both Blue Coat<br />

and Piggott schools!<br />

We have also continued, over<br />

this lockdown, to provide all the<br />

local schools with online assemblies.<br />

<strong>The</strong>mes have included: inspiring<br />

stories, divided kingdoms, Noah’s<br />

Ark and the parable of the weeds.<br />

Pictures (top to bottom):<br />

— Using orbeez and water to illustrate the<br />

parable of the weeds. It’s hard to separate the<br />

good from the bad until the harvest is ready,<br />

teaching us patience! I hope it made sense to<br />

the 1400 Piggott students watching!<br />

— <strong>The</strong> Alpha Body of Christ video at STAY<br />

on Sunday<br />

— Checking that everyone has enough eggs<br />

for our pancakes<br />

— STAY pancake party recipe<br />

— Retelling Noah's Ark from the Lego Bible<br />

at an online school assembly<br />

For more information, or a chat,<br />

contact Westy on<br />

youthminister@sonningparish.org.uk<br />

STAY Detached Project<br />

Left to right: Sherlon, Westy and Mark<br />

Our new detached project in Charvil<br />

and Sonning has enabled us to engage in<br />

positive conversations with an average of<br />

18 or so young people each week. It’s so<br />

encouraging seeing young people from<br />

the local schools and being able to chat<br />

and check on their well-being during<br />

lockdown.<br />

It’s also an amazing privilege<br />

working in partnership with Mark<br />

Brown from Grace Church in<br />

Caversham and especially Sherlon<br />

Bartenbach from Reach — a pastoral<br />

and RE support for schools charity.<br />

<strong>The</strong> reason it’s so special working<br />

with Sherlon is that he used to be one<br />

of my young people many years ago.<br />

I met him aged 15 and he caused me<br />

many headaches in my school lunch<br />

club. He went onto become one of my<br />

best youth volunteer leaders and my<br />

intern. Now he works across Reading<br />

schools delivering similar work I met<br />

him through all those years ago. God<br />

really does work in mysterious ways!


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<strong>The</strong> Persecuted Church<br />

This month we focus on Myanmar (Burma) where about<br />

90% of the Burmese population practice Buddhism, with<br />

Christians forming the second largest religion with about<br />

8%. Islam is the third-largest.<br />

Myanmar is in chaos. <strong>The</strong> country’s biggest city, Yangon, has<br />

seen the biggest protests against this year’s military coup,<br />

with hundreds of thousands taking to the streets. At the<br />

time of writing, 28 February, a Reuters report tells how this<br />

day has been the bloodiest day in weeks of demonstrations,<br />

with at least 18 people killed after Myanmar police fired on<br />

protesters. In Mandalay, earlier in February, live ammunition<br />

was used to disperse anti-coup protesters, leaving two dead<br />

and several others injured.<br />

<strong>The</strong> February military coup in Myanmar is the latest<br />

in a series over the years. On this occasion, the military’s<br />

argument was claims of voter fraud. Those claims were<br />

rejected by the election commission. <strong>The</strong> coup declared a oneyear<br />

emergency, and placed state councillor Aung San Suu Kyi<br />

under house arrest.<br />

This is not the first time of house arrest for Ms Suu Kyi.<br />

<strong>The</strong> first was in 1989, with others since. She formed her<br />

party, the National League for Democracy (NLD), in 1988.<br />

In 1990 the NLD won a landslide election victory. Ms Suu<br />

Kyi has had two terms as state councillor. Her NLD party<br />

won a landslide victory in the 2015 elections, but she was<br />

constitutionally barred from becoming prime minister due to<br />

her husband and sons being British.<br />

In 2017, there was sectarian violence against the Rohingya<br />

Muslim population in the Rakhine area. <strong>The</strong> UN High<br />

Commissioner for human rights termed it ethnic cleansing.<br />

In August that year, over 5 million Rohingyas left Myanmar<br />

to neighbouring countries such as Bangladesh. Along with<br />

the mainly-Muslim Rohingya people (who include a small<br />

minority of Christians), the Karen and other mainly-<br />

Christian ethnic people groups including Kachin and Chin<br />

have been brutally oppressed by the military-controlled<br />

government for decades.<br />

Barnabas Fund reports that a Myanmar Army document<br />

has been discovered, instructing soldiers to 'punish and<br />

breakdown' ethnic-minority Christians and other civilians<br />

deemed to be against the military regime, or even appearing<br />

critical of it in social media posts. At the outset of the<br />

coup this year, the Myanmar army shelled the Papun and<br />

Nyaunglebin districts, reports Barnabas. Karen villagers<br />

were forced to flee into mountainous jungle. Thousands of<br />

Karen people are now hiding there.<br />

Barnabas Fund has appealed to raise money for the<br />

helpless and homeless displaced Karen people in the jungle.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y were particularly in need of rice, cooking oil, fish and<br />

tarpaulins or other strong plastic sheeting for roofing.<br />

Thankfully, gifts totalling £1,500 at the time of writing have<br />

helped provide makeshift shelters and food. It is still possible<br />

to contribute to this appeal: https://tinyurl.com/kctx4x6f<br />

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News, features, and links by Colin Bailey: please read for awareness,<br />

and support by prayer, financial or otherwise.<br />

Pray for justice, righteousness and equality in Burma<br />

CONSTITUTIONALLY BARRED<br />

HIDING IN THE JUNGLE<br />

Kyaiktiyo Pagoda, a Buddhist pilgrimage site in Mon State, Burma. It is a<br />

small pagoda built on the top of a granite boulder covered with gold leaves.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Golden Rock is said to precariously perched on a strand of the Buddha's<br />

hair.<br />

Paolo Campana, dreamstime.com<br />

When the NLD won the general election last November,<br />

it announced it would form a national unity government and<br />

would be inviting other ethnic minority parties to work with<br />

it. This offer was also made on their 2015 victory but was not<br />

fulfilled. Please join with Christian leaders in praying for the<br />

people of Myanmar and for a change of heart of the army and<br />

coup leaders, and for the Karen people hiding in the jungle.<br />

Pray that whoever governs Myanmar will rule with justice<br />

and righteousness, caring for all citizens equally.<br />

Sources and further reading<br />

Myanmar coup timeline in <strong>The</strong> Independent: https://tinyurl.com/tbycdhp2<br />

Al Jazeera report on Myanmar protests: https://tinyurl.com/djmx5pd9<br />

Barnabas Fund : flight of Karen Christians: https://tinyurl.com/3vppc5sx<br />

Barnabas Fund Facebook: flight of Karen Christian villagers: https://tinyurl.<br />

com/3vdt4me8<br />

Barnabas Fund:: Daily Prayer, 13 February, on Myanmar: https://tinyurl.<br />

com/5a2r89cm<br />

Barnabas Fund: Myanmar Army document: https://tinyurl.com/282mbbw9<br />

Barnabas Fund appeal to help displaced Karen villagers: https://tinyurl.<br />

com/34d6vw62<br />

Barnabas Fund Facebook update on Karen Christian appeal: https://tinyurl.<br />

com/87kw6658<br />

Associated Press: Protest in Mandalay: https://tinyurl.com/2yrkthtm<br />

Reuters: <strong>The</strong> bloodiest day of protests https://tinyurl.com/9m3b4nk6


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feature — 1<br />

Accidents do<br />

happen!<br />

By Claude Masters<br />

Catherine Chernyakova, dreamstime.com<br />

Alpha course on Zoom starts Thursday 22 <strong>April</strong>, 8pm<br />

— Has lockdown helped you reassess what’s important in life or helped you refocus?<br />

— Have the restrictions given you the space to wonder about life’s big questions?<br />

— Has some of the dark months of Covid made you wonder what’s the point of it all?<br />

However you might answer those questions, we would love you to join us for our brand<br />

new Alpha course on Zoom starting after Easter. It will be a safe space where these<br />

questions and more will be explored.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Alpha course is an amazing and relaxed way to ask questions, share thoughts<br />

and learn new things in a non judgemental and non threatening environment. It is<br />

designed for people of no faith, some faith or those just asking questions.<br />

'Alpha was the best thing I ever did. It helped answer some huge questions<br />

and to find a simple empowering faith in my life'— Bear Grylls<br />

<strong>The</strong> course will run for 12 weeks on Thursday evenings at 8pm for an hour. It starts<br />

on Thursday 22 <strong>April</strong>. <strong>The</strong> videos are only 20 minutes long and we stop for questions<br />

throughout. Come along for the first week to try it out. If it's not your thing then there<br />

is no expectation to return. If it does float your boat, then stick around for the course.<br />

No judgement either way!<br />

For Zoom details, or to have a chat about coming along, email the parish office on<br />

office@sonningparish.org.uk<br />

It is often said that there are only<br />

two things you can be sure of in this<br />

life, death and taxes, but there is<br />

another — accidents!<br />

From a toddler tearing a nail in the sand<br />

on a beach to an old man tripping over a<br />

kerb, something at sometime, is going to<br />

happen to you.<br />

<strong>The</strong> 1974 Health & Safety legislation<br />

was introduced to make employers<br />

and employees more responsible and<br />

careful in work places. Disregard for<br />

them became a criminal offence.<br />

Occasionally the legislation is open<br />

to ridicule as an unfortunate lady<br />

found out when showing a group of<br />

building tradesmen at a health and<br />

safety lecture how to wash their hands.<br />

It is now common practice to do<br />

a 'risk assessment' before any work,<br />

even though the job may have been<br />

done safely for years. This seems an<br />

unnecessary requirement as we all<br />

subconsciously do this all the time.<br />

Usually, nobody does anything unless<br />

they know it is safe to do so.<br />

UNFORTUNATE?<br />

It is a trait of human nature to<br />

laugh when seeing some one else’s<br />

misfortune, however serious the<br />

incident might be. Such incidents are<br />

often seen on the internet, though<br />

some are clearly a set up.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Chambers Dictionary defines<br />

accidents as unexpected occurrences<br />

that are usually unfortunate. But this<br />

is not always true — an unexpected<br />

baby is often referred to as an accident<br />

but will hopefully bring sheer joy!<br />

A plumber was called out for an<br />

overflowing cistern in the ladies staff<br />

changing room of a London hotel.<br />

Knowing it would not take long, he<br />

didn’t put up an ‘Out of Order’ notice,<br />

and propped the door open to indicate<br />

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wearing the skimpiest of underwear.<br />

He shut himself in the cubicle until<br />

the coast was clear and is now known<br />

as the man in the toilet by all the<br />

waitresses! Accidents do happen!


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feature — 2<br />

'Queen of Festivals' traditions — new and old<br />

Easter 2015: <strong>The</strong> Easter Egg and Spoon Race which is now a St Andrew's Church 'tradition'<br />

Easter often reminds me of a faithful member of St Andrew's once saying that<br />

she only liked to receive Holy Communion twice a year, on Easter Sunday and<br />

Christmas Day. This had been a 'tradition' from her younger days that she<br />

felt made Holy Communion very special. I am sure that for many of us this<br />

will be true when the Covid restrictions are eased and we can all, once again,<br />

receive the bread and wine that Jesus invited his followers to remember him<br />

by shortly before his crucifixion. <strong>The</strong> good news is that it seems likely that we<br />

will be able to receive Communion this Easter, writes Bob Peters.<br />

Other Easter 'traditions' such as<br />

our Easter Saturday family fun day<br />

will not be possible, and the special<br />

services, whose traditions date back<br />

2,000 years, will be different if they<br />

are held — see page 7.<br />

In the May 1876 issue of this<br />

magazine, Rev Hugh Pearson wrote:<br />

Easter, according to the Saxon historian,<br />

the Venerable Bede, is derived from<br />

Eostre, the name of a goddess worshipped<br />

of old in Britain. Bede lived sufficiently<br />

near to pagan times to be able to speak<br />

with certainty, and no writer has given<br />

greater diligence to ensure accuracy. <strong>The</strong><br />

word Easter does not represent the Saxon<br />

word for resurrection, as is sometimes<br />

supposed. Our Easter therefore may be<br />

considered to have displaced the British<br />

Festival of Eostre, on the well-known<br />

principle of Christian antiquity, whereby<br />

churches were built on the site, and<br />

often with the materials of the ancient<br />

temples, (as for instance in the case of<br />

St Paul’s Cathedral, built on the site of<br />

the Temple of Diana, in London), and<br />

heathen festivals were adapted to the<br />

Christian calendar. Easter was known<br />

throughout the ancient church as the<br />

'Queen of Festivals', and was kept with<br />

especially joyous and imposing solemnity.<br />

It is a pleasure to feel that our own church<br />

services of this year were not unworthy of<br />

the Great Festival, and in harmony with<br />

the glad spirit of the universal church.<br />

Down the years, other 'traditions'<br />

have emerged for Easter, both<br />

Christian and secular, such as<br />

chocolate Easter eggs. Some of them,<br />

such as receiving Holy Communion<br />

only twice a year, have been lost in<br />

time.<br />

OLD TRADITIONS<br />

Even so, you can still see reminders<br />

of lost traditions in some of the<br />

ancient churches around the country.<br />

In St Andrew's, for example, there<br />

is stone arch that Hugh Pearson<br />

mentioned in <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> for<br />

June 1869:<br />

<strong>The</strong> most remarkable feature in<br />

the interior of the Church, is the richly<br />

sculptured stone arch on the North side of<br />

the Sacrarium. Of the history or purpose<br />

of this beautiful work of medieval art<br />

we know absolutely nothing. <strong>The</strong>re is no<br />

notice of it in Ashmole’s account of the<br />

Church, and in Lyson’s Magna Britannia<br />

it is only spoken of as 'an elegant pointed<br />

arch, very richly ornamented with<br />

figures of saints.' <strong>The</strong>re have been many<br />

conjectures as to its original purpose. It<br />

may possibly have been raised over what<br />

was called an Easter Sepulchre, that is,<br />

a place for the performance of certain<br />

solemn rites commemorative of the<br />

Resurrection of our Lord.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Easter Sepulchre was also<br />

used in some medieval churches to<br />

Tom Farncombe<br />

keep the bread and wine used for<br />

Holy Communion from Good Friday<br />

until Easter Day<br />

<strong>The</strong> Easter traditions, new and<br />

old, have all developed to illustrate<br />

and strengthen the significance of<br />

Easter, which is the most important<br />

celebration in the Christian calender.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se include:<br />

— Burial of the cross from Good<br />

Friday to Easter Day<br />

— Stripping the altar on Maundy<br />

Thursday<br />

— An Easter vigil between the death<br />

and resurrection of Christ<br />

— <strong>The</strong> Last Hour Service to mark the<br />

last moments of the life of Christ<br />

— An Easter play<br />

— <strong>The</strong> Easter candle, traditionally lit<br />

to mark the start of Easter<br />

— Flowering the cross, on Easter<br />

morning a cross is decorated with<br />

flowers<br />

— Blessing each home in the parish<br />

— Easter food, particularly lamb<br />

— Easter eggs, symbolising new life<br />

and the stone used to seal the tomb<br />

of Christ<br />

— An Easter garden<br />

NEW TRADITIONS<br />

Making an Easter garden is a recent<br />

'tradition' and has become more<br />

popular with children, although<br />

people of all ages can enjoy it.<br />

It emerged as a custom in a<br />

similar way to the Christmas nativity<br />

scene and is used to remind us of<br />

the special events that surrounded<br />

Jesus at the time. Like the nativity,<br />

it is placed in a prominent place<br />

throughout the 50 days of Easter.<br />

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feature — 3<br />

Easter 'traditions' old and new<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>April</strong> <strong>2021</strong> 17<br />

from page 15<br />

2013: <strong>The</strong> 'traditional' Easter egg hunt at St Andrew's Tom Farncombe<br />

Easter gardens take many forms,<br />

from small ones created in a dish or<br />

tray to larger, less portable gardens<br />

in purpose made containers. Some<br />

people also make outdoor Easter<br />

gardens in a quiet corner of their<br />

garden where they can sit peacefully<br />

to meditate.<br />

All have four essential parts — a<br />

mound on which one or three crosses<br />

may be placed, a cave cut into the<br />

mound, a large stone that forms the<br />

door to the cave and is moved on<br />

Easter Day, and living plants that<br />

represent the new life that Jesus<br />

gives us.<br />

<strong>The</strong> site in Jerusalem where<br />

Jesus was buried is unknown but<br />

one possible location is a beautiful<br />

and very peaceful garden owned and<br />

administered by <strong>The</strong> Garden Tomb<br />

(Jerusalem) Association, a Christian<br />

non-denominational charitable<br />

trust based in the UK. Set against a<br />

backdrop of a rocky cliff that appears<br />

to have a face naturally formed<br />

in the rocks recalling the Biblical<br />

location of Golgotha — Skull Hill<br />

— there is a natural cave below that<br />

Instructions on how to make an Easter<br />

garden like the one above can be found on:<br />

https://amysfreeideas.com/English/Step_<br />

by_step_instructions_for_how_to_make_<br />

an_Easter_Garden.html<br />

archaeologists believe was used as<br />

a burial tomb for a wealthy person<br />

in the time of Jesus. Whether this<br />

is the garden or not, it has inspired<br />

thousands of Christians when<br />

making their own Easter gardens.<br />

Why not start a new 'tradition' for<br />

yourself and make one this Easter?<br />

If you make an Easter garden,<br />

send us a picture of it before 12 noon<br />

on 6 <strong>April</strong> and we will try to include<br />

it in our next issue:<br />

editor@theparishmagazine.co.uk<br />

<strong>The</strong> Golgotha tomb where Jesus is said to have been buried<br />

Aleksandar Todorovic, dreamstime.com<br />

Above: Some examples of different types of<br />

Easter gardens made by St Andrew's Church<br />

Sunday Club members for Easter last year.


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feature — 4<br />

Jake takes a<br />

step up<br />

Meet Jake (right) who lives in<br />

Reading. He has just turned six, and<br />

has a very rare condition known<br />

as RERE Syndrome, a difficult-todiagnose<br />

genetic condition currently<br />

identified as affecting less than 30<br />

people around the world — RERE<br />

(Arginine-Glutamic Acid Dipeptide<br />

Repeats) is a Protein Coding gene.<br />

Jake's low muscle tone means he can<br />

crawl but not yet walk. Now that he's<br />

a big lad —he wears age 10 clothes<br />

and weighs 30kg (4stone 10lbs) — his<br />

parents were finding it a real problem<br />

to help him in and out of the bath.<br />

But things have now got a little<br />

easier for Jake and his family as a<br />

volunteer 'MakeAbility' engineer from<br />

the charity Remap has designed and<br />

made him a bespoke set of speciallypadded<br />

bathroom steps.<br />

VOLUNTEERS<br />

Remap has 70 county 'MakeAbility'<br />

groups in England, Wales and Northern<br />

Ireland. Founded in 1965, they assist<br />

about 3,000 people every year. Remap<br />

volunteers enjoy using their skills to<br />

create custom-made equipment and<br />

gadgets for people who have disabilities<br />

or special needs and who cannot find<br />

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<strong>The</strong> 'MakeAbility' service is entirely<br />

free. <strong>The</strong> volunteers have a wide variety<br />

of expertise ranging from IT and<br />

electronics, to metalwork, carpentry<br />

and 3D-printing.<br />

Jake's mother, Rachel Green said:<br />

'Jake cannot get in or out of the bath<br />

Jake with his specially made steps.<br />

Remap<br />

Remap<br />

himself, but he is too mobile to qualify for<br />

a hoist. It was fine when he was smaller,<br />

but as he grew it became so difficult for us<br />

to lift him over the bath-side. Now that<br />

he has the steps he is able to get himself<br />

both in and out. <strong>The</strong>y have made a real<br />

difference'.<br />

Jake's condition was identified<br />

after a three-year participation in<br />

the 1000-genome research project,<br />

designed to catalogue human genetic<br />

variations and support future medical<br />

research. <strong>The</strong> RERE gene provides<br />

instructions for making a protein that<br />

is critical for normal development<br />

before birth, and disruption of this can<br />

lead to neuro-developmental delays<br />

and other problems.<br />

'We were so pleased when we finally<br />

discovered he had RERE because it meant<br />

he was likely to continue to develop rather<br />

than going downhill,' said Rachel. 'He<br />

didn't sit up until he was 2 years old, and<br />

is autistic, but we see such progress in him.'<br />

Jake gets on well his 2 year old sister. Remap<br />

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Rachel is a lab technician, Jed, his<br />

father, is a systems manager, and his<br />

sister Sophie is 2 years old. 'Jake is about<br />

two years old mentally,' said Rachel, 'so<br />

he and Sophie really seem to connect'.<br />

Jake's unique steps were built by<br />

Remap Berkshire's Phil Cartwright,<br />

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feature — 5<br />

It is 100 years since '<strong>The</strong> Parochial<br />

Church Councils (Powers) Measure<br />

1921' became law, a law which was<br />

an important stage in the birth of<br />

the PCC.<br />

During the First World War army<br />

chaplains found that many men who<br />

thought of themselves as church<br />

goers were ignorant of the basics of<br />

religion. This led to a new interest in<br />

mission for the church.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re were national days of prayer<br />

during the war and in 1915 there was<br />

a National Mission of Repentance and<br />

Hope. <strong>The</strong> public were more in the<br />

mood for victory than repentance.<br />

After the Armistice there was a desire<br />

for change in the national church and<br />

this led to a discussion about the links<br />

with the state.<br />

Parliament was often slow to<br />

enact laws for the church and many<br />

people felt the national church should<br />

have more authority to govern itself.<br />

<strong>The</strong> setting up of Parochial Church<br />

Councils was part of that process.<br />

In the past, much of the local<br />

secular administration had been the<br />

responsibility of churchwardens in<br />

the vestry meetings. Gradually their<br />

functions were passed to local councils.<br />

Most of their remaining powers were<br />

transferred to PCC's by <strong>The</strong> Parochial<br />

Church Councils (Powers) Measure 1921.<br />

<strong>The</strong> purpose behind these new<br />

councils was to give the laity a more<br />

prominent role in parish life and to<br />

work alongside the deanery, diocesan<br />

and national councils which became<br />

the synods. <strong>The</strong> PCC would have an<br />

important role in church life.<br />

Some conservative clerics were<br />

concerned at this reform and felt that<br />

congregations would pick and choose<br />

clergy or object to a new incumbent<br />

chosen by a patron.<br />

<strong>The</strong> process of starting PCCs to<br />

share in decision making in parishes<br />

was widely accepted but a few older<br />

incumbents, and those in more<br />

rural areas, failed to do either out of<br />

reluctance or ignorance.<br />

One difficult issue was what level<br />

of commitment to church life enabled<br />

a person to be eligible to serve on a<br />

church council. It was decided that<br />

anyone on the electoral role could<br />

participate — even if they did not<br />

attended communion regularly.<br />

<strong>The</strong> then Bishop of Oxford resigned<br />

over the issue because he thought<br />

that councils must only be made up of<br />

committed regular communicants.<br />

<strong>The</strong> next Bishop of Oxford, in<br />

his monthly diocesan magazine,<br />

endorsed the principle of democracy<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>April</strong> <strong>2021</strong> 21<br />

PCC's celebrate 100 years of service this month<br />

<strong>April</strong> <strong>2021</strong> officially marks the centenary of the Parochial Church Council (PCC) in the Church of England although many parish<br />

churches, such as ours, began establishing and running a PCC during the previous year. Here, Rev Peter Crumpler, a former CofE<br />

communications director gives the background to this radical change in the management of parish churches that placed them in the<br />

hands of their church members rather than the vicar and the church wardens.<br />

PROMINENT ROLE<br />

and reassured people that it was not<br />

a negative step and would not limit<br />

the powers of clergy or wardens. He<br />

encouraged the congregations to<br />

consider how to use each other’s gifts.<br />

In Aylesbury the idea of the new<br />

PCC's had been discussed as early<br />

as 1918. It was felt that they would<br />

support the clergy particularly with<br />

financial issues.<br />

It is strange to think that the<br />

proposal for clergy and congregation<br />

to work together for the benefit of the<br />

church could be controversial.<br />

<strong>The</strong> birth of the PCC was a major<br />

step in the life of the church. I wonder<br />

what the next 100 years will bring?<br />

William Temple Public domain<br />

Meanwhile at<br />

A leading churchman in the reform<br />

St Andrew's . . .<br />

movement was William Temple who<br />

became leader of the Life and Liberty In our parish, Rev Gibbs Payne<br />

movement which influenced the move Crawfurd was the vicar from 1907-<br />

towards democratic government in the 1925. He supported the move to place<br />

Church of England.<br />

the management of parish churches in<br />

William Temple was Bishop of the hands of their members.<br />

Manchester in the 1920's, Archbishop In <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> of February<br />

of York (1929-1942) and Archbishop of 1920 — more than a year before <strong>The</strong><br />

Canterbury (1942-1944).<br />

Parochial Church Councils (Powers)<br />

He had been a secretary of the<br />

Measure 1921— he set out a plan to<br />

National Mission of Repentance and elect members to create a PCC.<br />

Hope in 1916 and became chairman<br />

<strong>The</strong> first monthly meeting was held<br />

and joint leader with Dick Sheppard of shortly afterwards and the PCC began<br />

the Life and Liberty movement.<br />

to make changes that were welcomed<br />

'We demand liberty for the Church of by everyone.<br />

England' he declared at a meeting in<br />

One of these changes concerned<br />

July 1917.<br />

this magazine. Since 1869 when it was<br />

founded, the magazine had been the<br />

ANYONE<br />

sole responsibility of the vicar who not<br />

only edited it but funded it.<br />

In 1920, Rev Gibbs Payne Crawfurd<br />

wrote that he was closing the magazine<br />

because he could not bear the annual<br />

deficit of £30 — that's about £1,400<br />

today!<br />

<strong>The</strong> PCC felt that the magazine was<br />

essential for them to keep the parish<br />

informed about its work and voted<br />

to take full responsibility for it. <strong>The</strong>ir<br />

bold decision has enabled <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong><br />

<strong>Magazine</strong> to continue to be published<br />

continuously ever since — something<br />

no other church has achieved!


22 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>April</strong> <strong>2021</strong>1<br />

feature — 6<br />

<strong>The</strong> most important festival for Christians<br />

for all denominations around the world<br />

Most statisticians agree that the world population is about 8 billion of which 2.25 billion are<br />

Christians, 1.9 billion are Muslim, 1.2 billion are Hindu, with the balance shared between those of other<br />

religions and none. <strong>The</strong>y also estimate that Christians belong to more than 30,000 different church<br />

denominations of which 900 million are Protestant and about 1,300 million people Catholic. Despite<br />

this different approach to the faith, all Christians look to Jesus as their saviour who rose from the dead<br />

thus making Easter the most important annual celebration around the world.<br />

<strong>The</strong> term, 'Christian' is found in the New<br />

Testament and was first used to described the<br />

disciples of Jesus in Antioch (Acts 11:26).<br />

As the early church, whose history is recorded<br />

in the New Testament, spread around the world<br />

the gospel message of Christ was clearly relevant<br />

in different ways to the different people in their<br />

different situations. This led to different churches<br />

developing as illustrated in the opening chapters<br />

of the Book of Revelation which tells us about how<br />

seven different Christian churches responded to<br />

the gospel of Christ.<br />

DIVERSITY<br />

As time moved on churches began to form<br />

groups of people who shared similar Christian ideas<br />

and so, like any family tree, it became increasingly<br />

diverse, with different styles of worship and different<br />

emphasis on the doctrines of their faith.<br />

Yet, despite this diversity, Christians have always<br />

been united in their central beliefs taught by Jesus,<br />

and his resurrection. As churches grew they found<br />

strength in joining with other like-minded churches<br />

and so the different denominations that exist today<br />

slowly emerged.<br />

<strong>The</strong> 'family tree' diagram below illustrates the<br />

history of Christianity since the time of Jesus. It<br />

shows how the churches evolved into nine different,<br />

yet closely aligned families that theologians like to<br />

give special names. <strong>The</strong> Church of England, which is<br />

c31 Christian Church, Antioch (Acts 20-26)<br />

1208 Roman Catholic<br />

1534 Church of England (Anglican)<br />

1560 Church of Scotland<br />

1612 Baptist<br />

1712 Scottish Episcopal<br />

1832 Congregational Church of England & Wales<br />

1843 <strong>The</strong> Free Church of Scotland<br />

1800’s Quakers<br />

1865 Salvation Army<br />

1883 Brethren<br />

1901 Pentecostal<br />

1920 <strong>The</strong> Church in Wales<br />

1932 Methodist<br />

1972 United Reformed Church<br />

1987 Ecumenical Founders Church<br />

2004 Messy Church<br />

also the 'parent' of the Anglican branch, is part of the<br />

'Protestantism family'.<br />

<strong>The</strong> table above gives the year that some of the<br />

different Christian churches in the United Kingdom<br />

were established. <strong>The</strong> logos illustrated on the right<br />

are for some of these denominations — how many<br />

can you identify? <strong>The</strong> answers to this 'Easter quiz'<br />

are on page 39!'<br />

In more recent times different denominations<br />

have come together to share common aims and<br />

worship while maintaining their individual<br />

identities. Churches Together is one example, of<br />

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Romolo Tavani, dreamstime.com<br />

After the Sabbath, at dawn on the first day of the week, Mary Magdalene and the other Mary went to look at the<br />

tomb. <strong>The</strong>re was a violent earthquake, for an angel of the Lord came down from heaven and, going to the tomb,<br />

rolled back the stone and sat on it. His appearance was like lightning, and his clothes were white as snow. <strong>The</strong><br />

guards were so afraid of him that they shook and became like dead men. <strong>The</strong> angel said to the women, 'Do not be<br />

afraid, for I know that you are looking for Jesus, who was crucified. He is not here; he has risen, just as he said.<br />

Come and see the place where he lay. <strong>The</strong>n go quickly and tell his disciples: ‘He has risen from the dead and is<br />

going ahead of you into Galilee. <strong>The</strong>re you will see him.’ (Matthew 28: 1-7)<br />

where local churches of different denominations<br />

meet and work together on ecumenical community<br />

projects.<br />

In 1991 the churches in Sonning, Charvil,<br />

Twyford, Ruscombe, and Wargrave decided to<br />

establish a local interdenominational Churches<br />

Together group but because there were very few<br />

different denominations involved — at the time<br />

there were five Anglican churches, one Roman<br />

Catholic, one United Reformed Church and one<br />

Baptist in the area — it was never well balanced<br />

from a denominational viewpoint despite there<br />

being enthusiastic support.<br />

LOCAL TOGETHERNESS<br />

In March 1992 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> carried<br />

this report from Rev Christopher Morgan, vicar<br />

of Sonning: <strong>The</strong> 28 January was the AGM of CTTD<br />

[Churches Together in Twyford District] and marked St<br />

Andrew's and St Patrick's first full year of membership.<br />

'What is CTTD?' I am sure many people are still asking.<br />

CTTD is part of Churches Together in Berkshire which<br />

in turn is part of Churches Together in England. We are<br />

therefore part of the nationwide ecumenical movement<br />

involving all the major denominations.<br />

<strong>The</strong> report then gives some details of planned<br />

combined services, but unfortunately the rather<br />

limited initial enthusiasm waned because there<br />

were never enough different denominations — and<br />

consequently, people — involved to develop the<br />

activities outside of combined acts of worship that<br />

were not supported by all the member churches.<br />

More recently, however, the Twyford and<br />

Ruscombe churches have joined with the Anglican<br />

church of St Nicholas Hurst to form a successful<br />

partnership called THRU-Christ. 'THR' stands for<br />

the CofE churches in Twyford, Hurst and Ruscombe<br />

and the U for Twyford's United Reformed Church.<br />

However, in Reading, a similar attempt to create<br />

a Churches Together group was very successful and<br />

it is now contributing to many local initiatives in the<br />

town, and has played an important role during the<br />

Covid restrictions.<br />

At St Andrew's our community focus, both within<br />

and outside of the parish, has taken a different path<br />

through the children and youth activities that we<br />

report about regularly in this magazine.<br />

NOW IT GETS MESSY!<br />

<strong>The</strong>re is, of course, another church at St Andrew's<br />

that crosses the denominational boundaries, namely,<br />

Messy Church.<br />

According to its owners, <strong>The</strong> Bible Reading<br />

Fellowship: 'Messy Churches are happening across all<br />

sorts of denominations — Salvation Army, Pentecostal,<br />

Anglican, Baptist, Methodist, Roman Catholic, Free<br />

Church, Church of Scotland, Scottish Episcopal, Seventh<br />

Day Adventist, Church in Wales, New Frontiers, United<br />

Reformed Church, Assemblies of God and Uniting Church<br />

to name the ones we are aware of at the moment.'<br />

Messy Church, Churches Together in Reading,<br />

THRU-Christ and our children and youth work in<br />

this parish, and beyond, are all good examples of<br />

how Christians work together regardless of the<br />

denomination of their chosen church.<br />

<strong>The</strong> driving force behind these and many other<br />

similar activities around the world dates back more<br />

than 2,00o years to the events of Easter when Jesus<br />

rose from the dead and commissioned his disciples<br />

to follow his teaching and to go out into the<br />

world to share God's love for them with everyone,<br />

everywhere. Happy Easter!


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Before lockdown became such a well used word, <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> regularly published stories about interesting places to visit locally, but we have<br />

not published any in the series for more than year so we thought it was time to continue with a stay-at-home adventure that is still virtually open ...<br />

Windsor Castle — a great day out at home<br />

On 21 <strong>April</strong>, the Queen celebrates her<br />

95th birthday — her official birthday,<br />

traditionally held when the weather<br />

is more congenial for parades, is on<br />

12 June. Her real birthday will be<br />

marked with a midday gun salute<br />

with 41 guns fired in Hyde Park, 62<br />

at the Tower of London, and 21 in<br />

Windsor Great Park. Being only 16<br />

miles away from St Andrew's Church,<br />

Windsor Castle is the closest of these<br />

venues, however, the pandemic rules<br />

are likely to mean that the nearest we<br />

can get to it will be online!<br />

You could also make a day of it at home<br />

by visiting the Royal Collection Trust<br />

online where there are royal activities<br />

for all the family — quizzes, virtual<br />

tours through the castle's state rooms<br />

and museums, a royal recipe to try, a<br />

huge collection of photographs taken<br />

by the royal family, and a gift shop!<br />

On St George's Day the order of the Garter<br />

awards are announced at Windsor Castle.<br />

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Aerial view of Windsor Castle - Amanda Lewis, dreamstime.com; Ceremonial entrance to St George's Chapel<br />

- emotionart, dreamstime.com; Canon Pearson cross - Sue Peters; Castle tower - Audrey H, unsplash.com.<br />

Royal Collection Trust is one of<br />

five Royal Household departments<br />

that are responsible for the care of the<br />

Royal Collection. It also manages the<br />

public opening of the Queen's official<br />

residences of Buckingham Palace,<br />

Windsor Castle and the Palace of<br />

Holyroodhouse in Edinburgh.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Queen's church, St George's<br />

Chapel at Windsor Castle, has<br />

historical connections with our<br />

parish, and this magazine! Our first<br />

editor, Rev Hugh Pearson, served as a<br />

highly-respected Canon at St George's<br />

(1876–82) during his incumbency in<br />

this parish. Next to the chapel steps<br />

used for ceremonial occasions such as<br />

royal weddings, you will find a cross<br />

erected in Canon Pearson's memory.<br />

<strong>The</strong> present chapel is one of the<br />

finest examples of Gothic architecture<br />

in England and dates from 1475 when<br />

Edward IV was king. It is the spiritual<br />

home of the Order of the Garter,<br />

the senior order of British Chivalry<br />

established in 1348 by Edward III and<br />

houses the tombs of 10 monarchs,<br />

including Henry VIII, his third wife<br />

Jane Seymour, and Charles I.<br />

<strong>The</strong> links below will take you to<br />

some of the highlights of Windsor<br />

Castle, a tudor quiz, a virtual tour of<br />

the Waterloo Chamber, and a royal<br />

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Looking familiar?<br />

Several readers have commented on<br />

how much they liked last month's front<br />

cover of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> but where<br />

was it painted?<br />

Charvil tree warden, Sarah Swatridge,<br />

thought at first that it may have been<br />

an artist's impression of how a new<br />

fish refuge in Charvil's water meadows<br />

might look in the future. Her photograph<br />

(right) shows a close resemblance to<br />

Jean Hutchinson's pastel picture (below),<br />

part of which was used for our March<br />

front cover. However, the answer to the<br />

whereabouts of Jean's painting is that it<br />

was inspired by a photograph she took<br />

at Michelham Priory in East Sussex. On<br />

the site of a former<br />

Augustine priory in<br />

the Cuckmere Valley,<br />

Michelham Priory is<br />

owned by the Sussex<br />

Archaeological Society,<br />

a charity which, in<br />

normal times welcomes<br />

visitors to explore the<br />

15 acres of grounds and<br />

buildings. When open,<br />

there are activities<br />

for all the family with<br />

interactive displays<br />

illustrating its 800 year<br />

history.<br />

Me2 wins<br />

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Woodley's Me2 Club has won a Get<br />

Berkshire Active Hero award for its<br />

physical activities during lockdown.<br />

Me2 Club, an inclusion charity for<br />

children and young people with<br />

additional needs and disabilities in the<br />

Wokingham and Reading boroughs,<br />

was one of 70 nominations for the 9th<br />

GBA Awards this year.<br />

<strong>The</strong> judging panel recognised 29<br />

organisations and individuals whose<br />

contribution truly made a difference<br />

during the pandemic. <strong>The</strong> Awards not<br />

only go to people who have excelled<br />

in sporting achievement over the<br />

previous year, but more importantly<br />

to those, such as Me2 Club, who have<br />

made sport possible for others.<br />

Tennis open days<br />

planned for May and<br />

June in Sonning<br />

Sonning Tennis Club, which will be<br />

celebrating its 75th anniversary this<br />

year, is planning two open days for<br />

May and June, provided, of course,<br />

that the Covid-19 relaxation of rules<br />

continues as hoped. As we went to<br />

press the dates were being finalised.<br />

STC always welcomes new family and<br />

adult members having all standards<br />

of play to its friendly local club. It<br />

has three courts on the edge of the<br />

King George V Field, Sonning.<br />

As well as coaching junior and<br />

adult players, the club organises<br />

tournaments and social events, and<br />

has men’s, ladies and mixed teams in<br />

the Berkshire leagues.<br />

For the latest information and<br />

details of membership see:<br />

http://www.sonningtennis.com/<br />

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Thank you for sharing<br />

your lockdown art . . .<br />

You have to admire Sonning Art Group<br />

who have kept going through the<br />

lockdowns by meeting online, and we<br />

thank them for sharing some of their<br />

great works of art with us. As well as<br />

'classic' images such as the scene on<br />

the left that featured last month on<br />

the front cover, they have been letting<br />

their artistic imaginations wander.<br />

Below are some their latest<br />

'wanderings' — Alan Langdon's<br />

chocolate dreams; Sue Dobson’s love<br />

penguins; George Gallocker's carrot<br />

lady; Sue Eley's nest; Jean Hutchinson's<br />

tea bag shower; Bernadette Varilone's<br />

market and George Gallocker’s ram.


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HEALTH — 1<br />

Ingredients for the ‘pastry’<br />

— 400g ground almonds<br />

— 400g pitted Medjool dates<br />

— 6 tbsps melted coconut oil<br />

Ingredients for the filling<br />

— 200g dried mixed fruit<br />

— 40g dried cranberries<br />

— 2 finely chopped apples<br />

— zest & juice of a lemon and an<br />

orange<br />

— ½ tsp ground mixed spice<br />

— ½ tsp ground cinnamon<br />

— ¼ tsp ground nutmeg<br />

— ¼ tsp ground cloves<br />

— 2 tbsps brandy or orange liqueur<br />

(optional)<br />

— 30g coconut oil<br />

— 4 tbsps water<br />

— ¼ tsp vanilla extract<br />

— Pinch of salt<br />

Method<br />

Preheat oven to 1800C/Gas Mark 4<br />

Place 12 cupcake cases on a baking tray.<br />

Place all the filling ingredients<br />

into a saucepan and simmer for<br />

approximately 25 minutes until the<br />

apples have softened. Stir occasionally<br />

to avoid sticking.<br />

While the filling is cooking, make the<br />

‘pastry’. Place all the base ingredients<br />

in a food processor and blend for<br />

around 1-2 minutes until everything is<br />

mixed together. Roll the mixture out<br />

onto a board to around ½ cm thick.<br />

Cut out 12 circles from the pastry<br />

using a cookie cutter and place one in<br />

each of the cupcake cases. Bake for 5-7<br />

minutes. Remove from the oven.<br />

Once the filling is cooked, place<br />

approximately 2 tbsps of the filling<br />

into each case. Return to the oven<br />

and bake the mince pies for another 7<br />

minutes. Remove from the oven and<br />

allow to cool. Enjoy anytime!<br />

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— 1 tbsp ground flaxseed<br />

— 1 cup frozen blueberries<br />

— 1 cup unsweetened almond milk<br />

— ½ medium banana<br />

— 1 tbsp nut butter<br />

— tsp cinnamon<br />

— ¼ tsp ginger<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>April</strong> <strong>2021</strong> 29<br />

Emily's healthy food recipes — her favourite collection!<br />

Some readers have asked why Emily Hylan's healthy eating column, which included some of her favourite recipes, has disappeared from<br />

the magazine. At the end of last year, Emily left Charvil to take up a new job which meant that she would not have time to continue writing<br />

for us. Her recipes were obviously popular so we have collected them together to make it easier for her fans to keep handy — and if you<br />

haven't tried any yet, here's another chance!<br />

GLUTEN AND DAIRY FREE<br />

MINCE TARTS<br />

EASTER CARROT CAKE PORRIDGE<br />

Ingredients<br />

— 100g porridge oats<br />

— 250ml almond milk<br />

— 250ml water<br />

— 1 carrot peeled and grated<br />

— 1 tbsp date syrup or maple syrup<br />

— ¼ tsp each of ground cinnamon<br />

ground nutmeg and ground ginger<br />

— 30g raisins.<br />

Method<br />

Put oats, almond milk and water<br />

in a small saucepan and heat over<br />

a medium heat. Stir in most of the<br />

carrot along with the syrup, spices<br />

and raisins. Cook for 5-7 minutes until<br />

thick and creamy, stirring regularly.<br />

Sprinkle with the remaining carrot<br />

and serve. Happy Easter!<br />

BLACKBERRY OAT BARS<br />

Ingredients<br />

— 310g oats<br />

— 120 g almond flour/ground almonds<br />

— 1/2 tsp salt<br />

— 1/2 tsp cinnamon<br />

— 1 tsp lemon juice<br />

— 100 g coconut oil, melted<br />

— 117 g maple syrup<br />

— 1 tbsp nut butter (or seed butter)<br />

— 12 oz blackberries<br />

— 1/2 tbsp corn starch<br />

Method<br />

Preheat the oven to 1800C and line an 8 x<br />

8 inch baking tin with parchment paper.<br />

Combine the oats, almond flour, salt,<br />

and cinnamon in a food processor and<br />

pulse together.<br />

Melt the coconut oil and stir in the<br />

maple syrup and nut butter. Pour this<br />

mixture into the dry ingredients in<br />

the food processor and pulse until the<br />

mixture starts to come together.<br />

Set aside approximately 100g of the oat<br />

mixture for a crumb topping.<br />

With the rest of the oat mix, evenly<br />

distribute in the parchment lined<br />

baking tin and press down. Prick the<br />

crust with a fork so steam can escape.<br />

Bake for 8-10 minutes.<br />

While the crust is baking, add the<br />

blackberries, corn starch and lemon<br />

juice to the food processor and blend<br />

together until it has reached a desired<br />

consistency.<br />

Remove the crust from the oven<br />

and pour the blackberry puree over<br />

the crust. Using the reserved oat<br />

mix, spread evenly on top over the<br />

blackberry puree. Bake for 20-25<br />

minutes, until golden brown.<br />

Remove from oven and cool in the<br />

pan for about 1 hour. Refrigerate for at<br />

least 3-4 hours until it completely sets.<br />

Remove from the pan by gently lifting<br />

the edges of the parchment paper. Cut<br />

into bars.


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HEALTH — 2<br />

Dr Simon Ruffle writes . . . about shaking<br />

A common presentation to doctors is shaking — or tremors.<br />

Due to our inbuilt prejudice, our brains snap to the easiest<br />

conclusion so we can get on with life. If we consciously<br />

made decisions, all the time, we’d be almost paralysed<br />

by indecision and certainly couldn’t drive or complete<br />

complicated tasks.<br />

We learn these decisions and automate them until we no<br />

longer make a conscious decision to continue.<br />

We override these decisions to change outcomes; for<br />

better or worse. Teenage boy’s brains are wired differently<br />

and they take more risks by overriding their unconscious<br />

decisions. In general our learned decisions are correct;<br />

repeating failure leads to doom!<br />

So, back to the shakes. Being in Britain our sense of<br />

humour will make us think ‘take more water with it!<br />

Certainly an option to ask about but let’s explore this very<br />

common symptom.<br />

TEMPUS FUGIT<br />

Like most conditions that cause a lack of ease or disease<br />

they occur as we age. Nothing we can do about 'tempus fugit'<br />

— time flies — and the alternative to this is seen all around<br />

St Andrew’s.<br />

ESSENTIAL<br />

<strong>The</strong> commonest form of tremor is 'essential tremor'.<br />

This is a fast tremor that, annoyingly, starts as you go to do<br />

something. A nice cuppa awaits, you go to pick it up and ‘the<br />

shakes start.’ Often you can overcome this and I worked with<br />

a surgeon that shook until the moment of precision and then<br />

he was steady as a rock. This is a variant known as intention<br />

tremor.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re’s little we can do about mild symptoms and very<br />

few people go on to be disabled by the condition. <strong>The</strong>re<br />

is a new type of surgery where the brain is stimulated by<br />

electricity overriding the tremor — alcohol can slow this<br />

tremor.<br />

ETHANOL C2H5-OH<br />

Let’s bite the alcohol bullet. Alcohol doesn’t cause tremor.<br />

Withdrawing format does. You do not need to be alcoholic<br />

to get some tremor if you have had one for the road that you<br />

weren’t going to, you may get a little shaky between 10-12<br />

hours after your last drink.<br />

Other normally encountered reasons for tremors are lack<br />

of sleep, low blood sugar and dehydration — all encountered<br />

in a hangover too!<br />

SHAKES ARE NORMAL<br />

Shaking is a natural reaction to stress. Adrenaline levels<br />

rise. Your heart rate and blood pressure rise and tremor<br />

starts — you are warming up to fight or flight. This is great<br />

when the lions attack but not when you have a presentation<br />

to make or an interview.<br />

GREY TUMOUR<br />

In speaking about adrenaline there is a condition called<br />

'phaeochromocytom'. This is a benign tumour that causes too<br />

much adrenaline to be produced. This gives a pseudo — fake<br />

Ladies dancing<br />

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— fight and flight response. <strong>The</strong> tumour cells are dusky in<br />

colour thus the name, 'phaeo' means dusky', 'chromo' means<br />

colour and 'chroma' is tumour.<br />

MORNING RITUAL?<br />

Caffeine and smoking causes shaking but so can many<br />

prescribed medications, especially asthma inhalers.<br />

Thyroid disease, especially overactive thyroid can cause<br />

the symptoms as can lack of B12 and liver disease.<br />

BRAIN DISORDERS<br />

Asking people what makes people shake, second to<br />

alcohol is Parkinson’s Disease.<br />

Parkinson’s is now known as a range of conditions but<br />

there are brain conditions that mimic Parkinson’s Disease.<br />

<strong>The</strong> tremor of PD is slow, a rigid/releasing tremor or<br />

cog wheeling. Some patients also experience a ‘pill-rolling<br />

tremor.’ This is exactly as it sounds. <strong>The</strong> patient rolls an<br />

invisible pill in their fingers.<br />

Medicine and surgery are now used in Parkinson’s disease<br />

to alleviate the symptoms but the disease is degenerative.<br />

If you have never watched the film Awakenings with Robin<br />

Williams and Robert De Niro, do so. It is a fictionalised<br />

biography about patients and doctors having PD and trying<br />

to treat it. (Warning: box of Kleenex, other tissues are<br />

available, required.)<br />

Multiple Sclerosis patients also present with tremor,<br />

often in one hand but sometimes both.<br />

BIAS BE GONE<br />

I hope that a little knowledge of what makes us shake can<br />

change our unconscious bias on how we see someone with<br />

the shakes.<br />

OH! ONE MORE THING<br />

Simon Ruffle<br />

My hobby is photography. <strong>The</strong>re is no way humans can<br />

control camera shake with low shutter speeds without using<br />

a tripod. Even then, many cameras compensate for shake so<br />

brilliantly that you have to turn the mechanism off when<br />

the camera is stabilised —if only humans could do this!<br />

However, sometimes, the misnomer, camera shake — it<br />

should be called operator or human shake — can be an<br />

advantage. Indulge me!


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HOME & GARDEN<br />

Rare<br />

visitor<br />

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Biblical<br />

times<br />

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Gazing through the window and thinking of what to do<br />

first in the Bible garden when the wet, cold weather eases, I<br />

spotted a rare visitor that took me back to my childhood. It<br />

was a lone sparrow, writes Bob Peters.<br />

<strong>The</strong> sparrow is one of the world's most common birds and<br />

it has been recorded in every continent except Antarctica.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y have been around it seems since time began and are<br />

mentioned several times in the Bible: 'Are not five sparrows<br />

sold for two pennies? And not one of them is forgotten before<br />

God.' (Luke 12:6). Sparrows are welcome visitors to my Bible<br />

garden!<br />

<strong>The</strong>re are 25 species of birds found only in Israel with<br />

about 400 species in the neighbouring areas. Birds are often<br />

mentioned in the Bible, both literally and metaphorically.<br />

In my younger days, sparrows, and starlings (although<br />

not mentioned in the Bible, starlings are said to be ‘spiritual<br />

messengers’) were considered pests, they were everywhere,<br />

although blackbirds, thrushes (Isaiah 38:14), blue tits,<br />

robins and wrens all managed to find a spot to feed. <strong>The</strong>n<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>April</strong> <strong>2021</strong> 33<br />

Recipe of the month: Easter Story Biscuits for children<br />

Preparation time: 20 minutes, total time: 1 day!<br />

Ingredients<br />

— 110 grams of pecan nuts — 200 grams sugar<br />

— 5 grams vinegar<br />

— large plastic bag<br />

— 3 egg whites<br />

— wooden spoon<br />

— a pinch salt<br />

— tape<br />

Instructions: Find your Bible then preheat the oven to 1500C<br />

Place pecans in the plastic bag and let the children beat them with<br />

the wooden spoon to break into small pieces. Explain that after<br />

Jesus was arrested, he was beaten by the Roman soldiers. Read<br />

John 19:1-3.<br />

Let each child smell the vinegar. Put vinegar into mixing bowl.<br />

Explain that when Jesus was thirsty on the cross He was given<br />

vinegar to drink. Read John 19:28-30.<br />

Add egg whites to vinegar. Eggs represent life. Explain that Jesus<br />

gave his life to give us life. Read John 10:10-11.<br />

Sprinkle a little salt into each child's hand. Let them taste it and<br />

brush the rest into the bowl. Explain that this represents the salty<br />

tears shed by Jesus' followers, and the bitterness of our own sin.<br />

Read Luke 23:27.<br />

So far the ingredients are not very appetising . . .<br />

Birds in and above the Bible garden<br />

Add sugar. Explain that the sweetest part of the story is that<br />

Jesus died because he loves us. He wants us to know and belong to<br />

him. Read Psalm 34:8 and John 3:16.<br />

Beat with a mixer on high speed until stiff peaks are formed.<br />

Explain that the colour white represents the purity in God's eyes<br />

of those whose sins have been cleansed by Jesus. Read Isaiah 1:18<br />

and John 3:1-3.<br />

Fold in broken nuts. Use a teaspoon to drop the mixture onto a<br />

non-stick baking parchment-covered baking sheet. Explain that<br />

each mound represents the rocky tomb where Jesus' body was<br />

laid. Read Matthew 27:57-60.<br />

Put the baking sheet in the oven, close the door and turn the<br />

oven off. Give each child a piece of tape and seal the oven door.<br />

Explain that Jesus' tomb was sealed. Read Matthew 27:65-66.<br />

GO TO BED! Explain that they may feel sad to leave them in the<br />

oven overnight. Jesus' followers felt despair when the tomb was<br />

sealed. Read John 16:20 and 22.<br />

On Easter morning, open the oven and give everyone a cookie.<br />

Notice the cracked surface and take a bite. <strong>The</strong> cookies are hollow!<br />

On the first Easter Jesus' followers were amazed to find the tomb<br />

open and empty. Read Matthew 28:1-9.<br />

in summer the house martins and swallows (Isaiah 38:14)<br />

arrived and, when the weather was rough, along came the<br />

seagulls (Leviticus 11:16) — my garden then was near the<br />

Thames Estuary, only 70 miles downstream as the crow flies<br />

from Charvil in Berkshire where I live now, so the climates<br />

were similar. And yet, 60 years later, the smaller birds such<br />

as sparrows and starlings, have become rare visitors.<br />

While the Royal Society for the Protection of Birds<br />

points out that bird numbers vary each year according to<br />

the availability of food and the climate, it also records that<br />

with many species of birds there has been a worrying steady<br />

decline in numbers over the past 30 years — sparrows have<br />

declined by 95% and starlings by 71%.<br />

LARGER BIRDS IN THE SKIES<br />

Interestingly, in the 10 years I have lived in Charvil, as<br />

the smaller birds have declined in numbers, there has been<br />

an obvious rise of larger birds such as crows (same family<br />

as the raven (Genesis 8:6-7), red kites (Leviticus 11:14) and<br />

parakeets, all of which have larger flocks every year. Just<br />

before Christmas last year a peregrine falcon (Leviticus 11:14)<br />

appeared and seems to have attracted another one — I saw<br />

one flying by with twigs in its beak, perhaps they are setting<br />

up home nearby!<br />

One bird, however, that has been ever present in my<br />

Bible garden is the pigeon (Luke 2:24) which can be a problem<br />

when they attack the young broad bean plants. In the<br />

Bible, pigeons were used for food and sacrifice. <strong>The</strong>y too<br />

are declining in numbers — in America it is estimated that<br />

billions of them have disappeared in recent years.<br />

<strong>The</strong>n there is the heron (Leviticus 11:19) that steals fish<br />

from the Bible garden pond! This is one of the 'unclean' birds<br />

of the Bible — another 'unclean' bird that I have not heard<br />

for several years but hope will herald spring one day soon, is<br />

the cuckoo. (Leviticus 11:14).


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THE ARTS — 1<br />

From blindness to sight and insight<br />

Caravaggio, Public domain, via Wikimedia Commons<br />

I like the story of the vestry noticeboard of a church in Hampshire: after a<br />

Holy Week performance of Stainer’s ‘Crucifixion’, the choirmaster wrote: ‘<strong>The</strong><br />

Crucifixion — well done, everyone!’ Later that day, someone had added, ‘<strong>The</strong><br />

Resurrection — well done, God!’, writes Rev Michael Burgess<br />

For the two disciples treading the road to Emmaus, there was no such sense of victory<br />

and celebration. <strong>The</strong>ir minds and hearts were numb with the sense of loss and failure.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y had seen their Lord tried and crucified.<br />

As Luke recounts that walk in his Gospel, he shows how it began with<br />

absence and loss, but journeyed to presence. It was a road that took the<br />

disciples from blindness and despair to sight and insight. <strong>The</strong>y talked over past<br />

events with the stranger who joined them. Luke uses 10 different Greek words<br />

to describe that conversation — all stages in their understanding. And when<br />

they share a meal with the stranger, who becomes the host, taking the bread<br />

and giving thanks, then the understanding becomes vision and insight.<br />

ASTONISHED AND UNDERSTANDING<br />

That meal is the theme of Caravaggio’s painting of 1601, ‘<strong>The</strong> Supper at<br />

Emmaus.’ Caravaggio had a reputation for being a violent, irrational artist,<br />

given to bouts of anger and forced to spend part of his life in exile in Naples and<br />

Sicily. His paintings as well as his lifestyle, shocked and provoked, comment.<br />

This portrayal of Jesus with a plump, youthful face and his depiction of the<br />

apostles as ordinary labourers upset the church authorities. But by giving Jesus<br />

a beardless face, Caravaggio was trying to show him in the new likeness of<br />

Resurrection – an Easter image of our Lord. <strong>The</strong> light from Jesus fills the scene<br />

as the two disciples look on, astonished and finally understanding.<br />

When we read the Gospel, we are drawn into the scene. For Caravaggio the<br />

movement is the other way: the scene reaches out to us from the canvas. Look<br />

at the outstretched hand of Jesus, the elbow of one disciple and the left hand of<br />

the other: they are being projected into our world. And that basket of fruit, full<br />

of apples and figs and grapes, symbols of the fall and the eucharist: it is about<br />

to topple off the table and into our laps. It is an Easter encounter 2,000 years<br />

ago, reaching out to us through light and shade and the skill of the artist.<br />

<strong>The</strong> story in Luke is of an ordinary encounter between travellers and a<br />

stranger. But it is made extraordinary by the transforming power of the risen<br />

Lord, talking with the disciples in the open air and then going inside for a meal.<br />

However, the doors are not shut to us. For Caravaggio shows how that special<br />

moment of encounter for the disciples can reach out to enter our world. He<br />

shows the hand of the risen Lord beckoning us to step into that Easter world of<br />

sacrament and new life.<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>April</strong> <strong>2021</strong> 35<br />

Alleluia!<br />

Alleluia!<br />

Give<br />

thanks<br />

to the<br />

Risen<br />

Lord!<br />

Bruno van der Krann, unsplash.com<br />

Not many university students are<br />

able to write Christian songs which<br />

become worldwide hits, but Don<br />

Emry Fishel managed it with his<br />

Alleluia No 1.<br />

Nearly 50 years on, it is loved and<br />

sung by millions of Christians<br />

worldwide.<br />

Fishel wrote it in 1971, while<br />

he was a student at the University<br />

of Michigan and also music leader<br />

of a Roman Catholic charismatic<br />

community based in Ann Arbor,<br />

Michigan.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se were the days of folk songs<br />

and guitars, and Alleluia No. 1 fitted<br />

the prevailing mood perfectly.<br />

Written in E Major, it is ideal for<br />

guitar accompaniment.<br />

LIVE FOREVER<br />

Mr Fishel became a freelance<br />

flutist, flute instructor and<br />

composer. He was publications editor<br />

for the Word of God and Servant<br />

Music for a number of years, and<br />

then worked in computers for 25<br />

years. In 2008 he moved to Nashville<br />

and returned to music, teaching the<br />

flute.<br />

Alleluia No 1 was Fishel’s first<br />

song, written 'rather quickly, in<br />

about an hour.' It had four verses to<br />

begin with, but a fifth verse (which<br />

became the third verse) was added<br />

later, as he prepared for baptism.<br />

As Fishel explained, he wanted<br />

the line ‘We have been crucified with<br />

Christ; now we shall live forever’ to<br />

be the centre of the song.<br />

Alleluia No 1 was first published<br />

in the UK in Sound of Living Waters,<br />

in 1974.


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the ARTS — 2<br />

Poetry corner<br />

Promises<br />

God has not promised<br />

Skies always blue,<br />

Flower-strewn pathways<br />

All our life through;<br />

God has not promised<br />

Sun without rain,<br />

Joy without sorrow,<br />

Peace without pain.<br />

But God has promised<br />

Strength for the day,<br />

Rest for the labour,<br />

Light for the way;<br />

Grace for the trial,<br />

Help from above,<br />

Unfailing sympathy,<br />

Undying love.<br />

(Anon)<br />

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Whenever my mind goes wandering<br />

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I stop right there<br />

And ask myself<br />

What would JESUS do?<br />

Whenever someone’s unkind to me<br />

It gets me in a stew<br />

I stop right there<br />

And ask myself<br />

What would JESUS do?<br />

Whenever days go by<br />

And I don’t know what to do<br />

I stop right there<br />

And ask myself<br />

What would JESUS do?<br />

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the sciences<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>April</strong> <strong>2021</strong> 37<br />

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By Dr Ruth M Bancewicz, church engagement director at the Faraday<br />

Institute for Science and Religion in Cambridge.<br />

Science tells us how the world works, and technology<br />

offers applications of that knowledge, but neither can<br />

tell us what we ought to do. All scientific discoveries<br />

or new technologies can be used to either help or harm<br />

others. For example, a smartphone can be used to stay in<br />

touch but also enables bullying.<br />

It is important to get past our initial reactions: the ‘yuk!’ or<br />

‘wow!’ <strong>The</strong>se feelings may well change once we learn more<br />

about the science and other factors behind a new development.<br />

Ethical thinking can be divided into three main categories.<br />

<strong>The</strong> consequentialist approach is demonstrated in the Biblical<br />

book of Proverbs when Wisdom calls young men to consider<br />

the outcome of their actions. Utilitarianism is a form of<br />

consequentialist ethic that tries to maximise the greatest good<br />

for the largest number of people affected, but unchecked it<br />

leaves minorities out in the cold.<br />

ETHICAL DECISIONS<br />

Duty or law-based ethics start with intrinsic values,<br />

asking what is the correct course of action or our duty? <strong>The</strong>se<br />

values might be God-given, such as the Ten Commandments,<br />

or worked out by human reason. It is possible, however, to<br />

do harm while obeying the law, especially if someone asks<br />

‘What can I get away with?’ Also, what happens when rules<br />

collide? For example, who should be treated first when<br />

resources are limited?<br />

Virtue ethics are about building character, growing<br />

in wisdom and the fruit of the Spirit. <strong>The</strong>re are plenty of<br />

Biblical principles to guide virtuous living, such as the idea<br />

that we are ‘made in the image of God’ which supports<br />

the value of every human life (Genesis 1:26–27, Genesis 9:6,<br />

James 3:9–10), but the right decision can vary depending on<br />

circumstances.<br />

So how can we make ethical decisions about new<br />

technologies? <strong>The</strong> five C's bring together a number of types<br />

of ethical thinking into a framework for decision-making.<br />

— Clarify the facts and key questions.<br />

— Consider our choices: what could we achieve?<br />

— Constraints: External, what must we do? Internal, how<br />

should we behave?<br />

— Compare the pros and cons of each approach.<br />

— Choose what is best, with all parties in mind.<br />

Finally, we have to recognise that the information<br />

available to us will change over time, our knowledge of God<br />

and his word will keep growing, and we cannot avoid making<br />

mistakes, so our ethical decisions will need to be revisited<br />

and revised from time to time.


38 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>April</strong> <strong>2021</strong>1<br />

PUZZLE PAGE ANSWERS IN THE<br />

CROSSWORD<br />

Across<br />

1 High-pitched flute (4)<br />

3 Observing (8)<br />

9 Single-horned creature (7)<br />

10 Gardeners sow these (5)<br />

11 Dictatorial (12)<br />

13 Flash intermittently (6)<br />

15 Outline model, plan or theory (6)<br />

17 Make a guess that is too high (12)<br />

20 Small marine fish (5)<br />

21 Tax imposed on ships (7)<br />

22 Perceived (8)<br />

23 Transparent camera part (4)<br />

Down<br />

1 Fruit sugar (8)<br />

2 Force upon (5)<br />

4 Elaborately adorned (6)<br />

5 Directions (12)<br />

6 Do repeatedly (7)<br />

7 Lesion (4)<br />

8 Fellow plotter (12)<br />

12 Groundless (8)<br />

14 Returns to a former state (7)<br />

16 Insect that transmits sleeping<br />

sickness (6)<br />

18 Not asleep (5)<br />

19 Capital of Norway (4)<br />

CODEWORD<br />

1 2 3 4 5 6 7<br />

8<br />

9 10<br />

11<br />

13 14 15<br />

19<br />

17 18<br />

16<br />

20 21<br />

22 23<br />

Across<br />

1 - High-pitched flute (4)<br />

3 - Observing (8)<br />

11 - Dictatorial (12)<br />

15 - Representation of a plan or theory (6)<br />

17 - Make a guess that is too high (12)<br />

20 - Small marine fish (5)<br />

21 - Tax imposed on ships (7)<br />

22 - Perceived (8)<br />

23 - Transparent camera part (4)<br />

Down<br />

1 - Fruit sugar (8)<br />

2 - Force upon (5)<br />

9 - Single-horned creature (7)<br />

4 - Elaborately adorned (6)<br />

10 - 2. Gardeners Which sow King these was (5) killed by an arrow while 5 - Directions hunting (12) in the<br />

6 - Do repeatedly (7)<br />

13 - 3. Flash Which intermittently English (6) King was named Coeur 7 - de Lesion Lion? (4)<br />

2 4 12 8 19 18 19 3 2 9 17 2<br />

4 25 8 21 2 25 9<br />

10 22 10 8 19 21 22 25 8 8<br />

6 2 9 23 25 14 25 20 6 16<br />

8 21 21 22 2 2 8 8<br />

4 19 14 4 25 20 8 14<br />

8 22 21 8 4 26 6<br />

13 22 5 24 21 12 12 6<br />

25 15 23 26 14 8 2 11<br />

19 6 14 23 2 20 6 25 4 11<br />

2 25 14 21 7 22 2 25 9 21<br />

25 11 2 2 1 4 2<br />

22 4 19 8 20 18 21 2 23 19 2 19<br />

A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z<br />

SOLUTIONS FOR THE MARCH PUZZLES<br />

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13<br />

W<br />

12<br />

14 - Returns to a former state (7)<br />

16 - Insect that transmits sleeping sickness (6)<br />

SUDOKU<br />

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CROSSWORD CODEWORD SUDOKU WORDSEARCH<br />

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New Forest?<br />

8 - Fellow plotter (12)<br />

4. What notable event occurred at Runnymede?<br />

12 - Groundless (8)<br />

5. Who was the first Prince of Wales?<br />

6. What caused the death of supposedly half the English<br />

population during 1348/9?<br />

18 - Not asleep (5)<br />

7. Who in 1474 made history at the sign of the ‘Red Pole’ ?<br />

19 - Capital of Norway (4)<br />

8. Which English king married his brother’s widow ?<br />

I N E E O U F<br />

N E E X E R T S P A<br />

T U N E D M E T S<br />

E E F E M U S I C<br />

M I S G U I D E I<br />

P S L A B N<br />

E T O R T I L L A<br />

R I O J A W H U T<br />

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E P I T H Y U<br />

S E D G E I A T<br />

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Easter — the crucifixion, death and resurrection<br />

of Jesus Christ — celebrates the triumphant<br />

highlight of the Christian year. As St Paul pointed<br />

out, unless Jesus really did rise again our faith is<br />

useless, and we may as well forget any hope of<br />

heaven or eternal life.<br />

passover<br />

bread<br />

wine<br />

body<br />

blood<br />

betrayal<br />

Jerusalem<br />

Pilate<br />

Judas<br />

Gethsemane<br />

trial<br />

crucifixion<br />

soldiers<br />

cross<br />

nails<br />

vinegar<br />

temple<br />

curtain<br />

tomb<br />

angel<br />

stone<br />

risen<br />

gardener<br />

Mary


NEXT ISSUE<br />

EASTER ANAGRAMS<br />

1. Airy odd fog - - - - -/- - - - - -<br />

2. Rags see get - - - - - -/- - - -<br />

3. Layman spud - - - -/- - - - - -<br />

4. Coin uric fix - - - - - - - - - - -<br />

5. Brunch so toss - - -/- - - - -/- - - -<br />

6. Apples rust - - - -/- - - - - -<br />

7. Acid air just so - - - - -/- - - - - - - -<br />

8. Torch frowns on - - - - -/- -/- - - - - -<br />

9. Hen irises - -/- -/- - - - -!<br />

BIBLE BASED CROSSWORD<br />

Church in<br />

Wales coat<br />

of arms<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>April</strong> <strong>2021</strong> 39<br />

ANSWERS TO THE DENOMINATIONS QUIZ ON PAGE 22<br />

Baptist Union of<br />

Great Britain<br />

United<br />

Reformed<br />

Church<br />

Church of<br />

England<br />

Church of<br />

Ireland<br />

Across<br />

1. Relating to the whole universe (6)<br />

4. <strong>The</strong> disciple who made the remark in 8 Across (John 20:24) (6)<br />

8. ‘Unless I see the nail marks — — hands, I will not believe it’ (John 20:25) (2,3)<br />

9. He urged King Jehoiakim not to burn the scroll containing Jeremiah’s<br />

message (Jeremiah 36:25) (7)<br />

10. Baptist minister and controversial founder of America’s Moral Majority,<br />

Jerry — (7)<br />

11. ‘Look, here is — . Why shouldn’t I be baptized?’ (Acts 8:36) (5)<br />

12. Repossessed (Genesis 14:16) (9)<br />

17. Port from which Paul sailed on his last journey to Rome (Acts 27:3–4) (5)<br />

19. ‘Moses was not aware that his face was — because he had spoken with<br />

the Lord’. (Exodus 34:29) (7)<br />

21. Roonwit, CS Lewis’s half-man, half-horse (7)<br />

22. Grill (Luke 24:42) (5)<br />

23. ‘<strong>The</strong> lot fell to Matthias; so he was added to the — apostles’ (Acts 1:26) (6)<br />

24. ‘I was sick and you looked after me, I was in — and you came to visit me’<br />

(Matthew 25:36) (6)<br />

Down<br />

1. Coastal rockfaces (Psalm 141:6) (6)<br />

2. Academic (1 Corinthians 1:20) (7)<br />

3. Publish (Daniel 6:26) (5)<br />

5. For example, the Crusades (4,3)<br />

6. 11 Across is certainly this (5)<br />

7. He reps (anag) (6)<br />

9. Liberator (Psalm 18:2) (9)<br />

13. Man who asked the question in 11 Across was in charge of all her treasury (7)<br />

14. <strong>The</strong>y must be ‘worthy of respect, sincere, not indulging in much wine’ (1<br />

Timothy 3:8) (7)<br />

15. <strong>The</strong> human mind or soul (6)<br />

16. ‘O Lord, while precious children starve, the tools of war increase; their<br />

bread is — ’ (Graham Kendrick) (6)<br />

18. ‘We played the flute for you, and you did not — ’ (Matthew 11:17) (5)<br />

20. Bared (anag) (5)<br />

Churches<br />

Together<br />

Salvation<br />

Army<br />

Church<br />

of<br />

Scotland<br />

Catholic<br />

Bishop<br />

Conference<br />

England<br />

and Wales<br />

Methodist Church<br />

in Britain<br />

World Council<br />

of Churches<br />

Church<br />

in<br />

Wales<br />

Episcopal<br />

Church<br />

Brethren


40 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>April</strong> <strong>2021</strong><br />

Local Trades and Services<br />

ACG SERVICES - LOCKSMITH<br />

Locks changed, fitted, repaired and opened<br />

Door and window locks fitted, UPVC door lock expert<br />

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CHIROPODY AND PODIATRY<br />

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Office: 0118 961 8784 - Paul: 0776 887 4440<br />

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Free advice, reasonable rates<br />

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INTERSMART LIMITED<br />

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HANDYMAN & DECORATING SERVICES<br />

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Small jobs a speciality!<br />

Call Andy on 0795 810 0128<br />

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Car Servicing, Repairs and MOT<br />

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ALL AERIALS<br />

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Free estimates - All work guaranteed<br />

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MC CLEANING<br />

We are a family business with excellent references<br />

and we are fully insured<br />

All cleaning materials provided<br />

For free quote call: Maria 0779 902 7901<br />

THAMES CHIMNEY SWEEPS<br />

0779 926 8123 0162 882 8130<br />

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http://www.thameschimneysweeps.co.uk<br />

Member of the Guild of Master Sweeps<br />

PROFESSIONAL HOME VISIT WILL SERVICE<br />

Thames Valley Will Service<br />

Also Lasting Powers of Attorney and Probate Service<br />

We are still working during the pandemic period<br />

0134 464 1885 tvwills@yahoo.co.uk<br />

AJH ROOFING Co (READING) Ltd<br />

Tiling, Slating and Flat Roofing specialists<br />

36 Chatteris Way, Lower Earley, RG6 4 JA<br />

0118 986 6035 0794 447 4070<br />

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WANT HELP WITH AN ‘ODD JOB’?<br />

For local odd jobs please call Phil on<br />

0118 944 0000<br />

0797 950 3908<br />

Thames Street, Sonning<br />

BIG HEART TREE CARE<br />

Reliable and friendly service for all tree care<br />

NPTC qualified — Public Liability of £10million<br />

0118 937 1929 0786 172 4071<br />

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SMALLWOOD<br />

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0118 969 8989<br />

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BEECHWOOD CARPENTRY & CONSTRUCTION SERVICES LTD<br />

All types of Carpentry, Kitchens, Renovations<br />

Built-in Cupboards & Wardrobes, Flooring & Doors<br />

78 Crockhamwell Road, Woodley 0776 276 6110<br />

http://www.beechwood-carpentry-construction.co.uk<br />

CARER — COMPANION<br />

Experienced lady carer who is local to this area<br />

offers live-in support at competitive rates<br />

Excellent references provided — Contact Louise<br />

0784 226 2583 lasheppard61@gmail.com<br />

PAINTER and DECORATOR<br />

Roger McGrath has 25 years experience<br />

Restoration painting work of any size undertaken<br />

For a free quotation call<br />

Roger 0742 332 1179


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42 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>April</strong> <strong>2021</strong> Please mention <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> when replying to advertisements<br />

information — 2<br />

<strong>Parish</strong> contacts<br />

Ministry Team<br />

— <strong>The</strong> Vicar: Revd Jamie Taylor*<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> Office, Thames Street, Sonning, RG4 6UR<br />

vicar@sonningparish.org.uk / 0118 969 3298<br />

*Day off Friday<br />

— Associate Vicar: Revd Kate Wakeman-Toogood<br />

revkate@sonningparish.org.uk / 0746 380 6735<br />

On duty Tuesday, Friday and Sunday<br />

— Youth Minister: Chris West (Westy)<br />

youthminister@sonningparish.org.uk / 0794 622 4106<br />

— Licensed Lay Minister: Bob Peters<br />

bob@sonningparish.org.uk / 0118 377 5887<br />

Children's Ministry<br />

— Alison Smyly office@sonningparish.org.uk / 0118 969 3298<br />

Churchwardens<br />

— Perry Mills perry@oaktreeoffice.com / 0786 035 5457<br />

— Stuart Bowman sdbowman73@aol.com / 0118 978 8414<br />

Deputy Churchwardens<br />

— Liz Nelson liz.nelson1@ntlworld.com / 0118 934 4837<br />

— Simon Darvall sdarvall@businessmoves.com 0793 928 2535<br />

— Sue Peters mail@susanjpeters.com / 0118 377 5887<br />

— Molly Woodley (deputy churchwarden emeritus)<br />

mollywoodley@live.co.uk / 0118 946 3667<br />

<strong>Parish</strong> Administrator<br />

— Hilary Rennie<br />

office@sonningparish.org.uk / 0118 969 3298<br />

Parochial Church Council<br />

— Secretary: Hilary Rennie 0118 969 3298<br />

— Treasurer: Richard Moore 0118 969 2588<br />

Director of Music, organist and choirmaster<br />

— Chris Goodwin MA (Cantab), ARCO (CHM), ARCM, LRAM<br />

music@sonningparish.org.uk<br />

Sacristan<br />

— Helen Goodwin 0134 462 7697<br />

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Advertisers index<br />

ABD Construction 24<br />

ACG Services Locksmith 40<br />

ADD Plumbing 12<br />

AJH Roofing 40<br />

All Aerials Sonning 40<br />

All Waste Clearance 34<br />

Barn Store Henley 16<br />

Beechwood Carpentry and Construction 40<br />

Big Heart Tree Care 40<br />

Blandy & Blandy Solicitors 14<br />

Blinds Direct 26<br />

Blue Moose 8<br />

Bridge House 43<br />

Bridges Home Care 14<br />

Bright and Fresh Cleaning 26<br />

Bull Inn 8<br />

Carer Companion 40<br />

Chimney Sweep, Thames 40<br />

Chiropody, Linda Frewin 40<br />

Chris the Plumber 32<br />

Clark Bicknell 40<br />

Complete Pest Solutions 16<br />

Computer Frustrations 40<br />

Cruz Kitchens 34<br />

David Shailes Plumbing & Decorating 26<br />

Design for Print 28<br />

Freebody Boatbuilders 6<br />

Fields Pharmacy 32<br />

French Horn 44<br />

Gardiners Nursing 8<br />

Graham Blake Soft Furnishing 6<br />

Great House Sonning 26<br />

Handyman, Decorating 40<br />

Haslams Estate Agents 2<br />

Hicks Group 16<br />

Intersmart Electrical Installations 40<br />

James Autos 40<br />

Jones & Sheppard Stone Masons 16<br />

Just Brickwork 20<br />

Kingfisher Bathrooms 18<br />

MC Cleaning 40<br />

Mill at Sonning 4<br />

M & L Healthcare Solutions 12<br />

Mortgage Required 18<br />

Muck & Mulch 28<br />

Newgate Car Finance 20<br />

Odd Jobs 40<br />

Painter and Decorator 40<br />

Pearson Hall Sonning 30<br />

Pennymatters Finance Advice 24<br />

Q1 Care 30<br />

Reading Blue Coat School 18<br />

Richfield Flooring 14<br />

Sabella Interiors 36<br />

Shiplake College 20<br />

Signature Cliveden Manor Care Home 28<br />

Sonning Golf Club 32<br />

Sonning Scouts Marquees 32<br />

Smallwood Garden Services 40<br />

Style by Julie 24<br />

Sunrise of Sonning Senior Living 34<br />

Thames Valley Water Softeners 24<br />

Thames Valley Wills Service 40<br />

Tomalin Funerals 30<br />

Velvaere Studio 6<br />

Village Hamper 20<br />

Walker Funerals 12<br />

Water Softener Salt 28<br />

Window Cleaner 30


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<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>April</strong> <strong>2021</strong> 43<br />

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