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Blaser Mills Law set to open<br />
new office in the heart of <strong>Marlow</strong><br />
Blaser Mills Law is set to exp<strong>and</strong> its local <strong>and</strong> national<br />
operation into <strong>Marlow</strong> in <strong>Nov</strong>ember of this year, with a strong<br />
focus on continuing to bring its wide range of expertise <strong>and</strong><br />
experience to the local community.<br />
The 150-strong firm has established<br />
local roots in <strong>Marlow</strong> over many years,<br />
both in terms of advising clients <strong>and</strong> in<br />
the fact that many of its team, including<br />
CEO Dave Matthews, are residents of<br />
the town; reinforcing these strong local<br />
connections was the logical next step.<br />
“<strong>Marlow</strong> is an area that has always<br />
been of high importance to us,” said<br />
Matthews, “We have served <strong>Marlow</strong><br />
clients from our High Wycombe office<br />
for many years but having an actual<br />
physical presence – a <strong>Marlow</strong> face if<br />
you like – will enable us to deliver our full<br />
capabilities to the local community from<br />
the heart of the town”.<br />
The office will be based in Liston<br />
Exchange, in the gardens behind<br />
Liston Court, just off the High Street in<br />
central <strong>Marlow</strong>, <strong>and</strong> will be headed up<br />
by Partner Jonathan Gallop, a <strong>Marlow</strong><br />
resident <strong>and</strong> Head of the Wills, Trusts<br />
<strong>and</strong> Probate team.<br />
The office will also house Lucinda<br />
Holliday – Partner <strong>and</strong> Head of the<br />
Family & Divorce team who has spent<br />
many years living <strong>and</strong> working in the<br />
town <strong>and</strong> Samantha Bellia - Senior<br />
Associate in the Residential Property<br />
team who worked for many years at a<br />
firm on <strong>Marlow</strong> High Street.<br />
Holliday said: “We are extremely excited<br />
to be opening a base in <strong>Marlow</strong> <strong>and</strong> we<br />
are very much the advance party. We<br />
plan to increase our number in the new<br />
office over the next several months to<br />
build a team that is highly approachable<br />
<strong>and</strong> always professional. As the firm has<br />
continued to exp<strong>and</strong> in recent years the<br />
range of services we are able to deliver<br />
has also increased, meaning our clients<br />
in <strong>Marlow</strong> can benefit from our depth of<br />
experience <strong>and</strong> resources across the<br />
wider business. We can’t wait to bring<br />
the people-focused approach we have<br />
become known for to the town, <strong>and</strong> to<br />
build further on the strong roots we have<br />
within the community.”<br />
Dave Matthews added: “We are a firm<br />
that genuinely values a local focus but,<br />
unlike most local law firms, we are able<br />
to back that up with nationally-ranked<br />
expertise <strong>and</strong> depth – as well as helping<br />
local people <strong>and</strong> businesses we also<br />
act for household-name companies,<br />
political parties, major sporting<br />
institutions <strong>and</strong> sports stars”.<br />
But it is not just a professional presence<br />
the firm is looking to build. We have a<br />
proud record in diversity <strong>and</strong> inclusion<br />
within Blaser Mills – our statistics speak<br />
for themselves - <strong>and</strong> we look to support<br />
<strong>and</strong> engage with a similarly diverse<br />
range of local causes <strong>and</strong> initiatives.<br />
Our teams are looking forward to<br />
welcoming you to the office <strong>and</strong><br />
connecting with the local<br />
community, a few of us are even<br />
dusting off our running shoes<br />
for the <strong>Marlow</strong> Fun Run!”<br />
About Blaser Mills<br />
With existing offices in London,<br />
High Wycombe, Amersham, <strong>and</strong><br />
Silverstone, Blaser Mills Law has<br />
become recognised as one of the<br />
top full-service law firms in London<br />
<strong>and</strong> the Southeast.<br />
The firm consistently ranks in the<br />
Legal 500 <strong>and</strong> Chambers UK<br />
Guide <strong>and</strong>, last year, secured a<br />
spot in the Legal 500 rankings for<br />
the seventh year running, with<br />
10 practice areas listed <strong>and</strong> an<br />
additional 31 lawyers recommended.<br />
For more information,<br />
visit www.blasermills.co.uk<br />
or call +44 (0) 20 3814 2020<br />
@BlaserMillsLaw blaser-mills BlaserMillsLaw
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A Note<br />
from the EDITOR<br />
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Guest<br />
A Culinary Journey through<br />
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It’s certainly the challenge of<br />
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Christmas begins for us in July, which<br />
is about the same time as I start to<br />
ask my friends <strong>and</strong> family what they’d<br />
like as a present or if they’re free for a<br />
meal in <strong>Dec</strong>ember - each year I’m met<br />
with the same furrowed brows <strong>and</strong><br />
a ‘my god, I haven’t started thinking<br />
about that yet!’<br />
Forward planning aside, it is a rather<br />
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CHOOSING A NEW SIXTH FORM<br />
The Good Schools Guide offers some suggestions to take into consideration when making the change<br />
Whether you want to change from a<br />
single sex school to co-ed or from day to<br />
boarding, private to state, A levels to IB -<br />
or vice versa there are plenty of reasons to<br />
move schools post - GCSEs.<br />
When to start looking<br />
We’d advise getting the ball rolling<br />
towards the end of their year 10 in time<br />
for sixth form open days <strong>and</strong> applications<br />
which generally take place the following<br />
autumn.<br />
Discussions about post-GCSE options<br />
will already be taking place at your child’s<br />
current school by then <strong>and</strong> looking at<br />
other sixth forms will widen your options.<br />
Maybe the broader based curriculum<br />
of the IB would suit them better than<br />
specialising at A level? Maybe they want<br />
to pursue a more practical, less exam<br />
based, route? Or perhaps your child<br />
simply feels ready for a fresh start <strong>and</strong><br />
new faces.<br />
Choosing a new sixth form<br />
The decision needs to be a joint effort<br />
between parents <strong>and</strong> children, based as<br />
much on personal preference as objective<br />
research. Your child may have formed<br />
opinions about other schools via friends<br />
<strong>and</strong> social media but however popular a<br />
particular sixth form may be, it’s no good<br />
if it doesn’t offer the subjects they want<br />
to study.<br />
Guide your child to consider the areas<br />
of study they genuinely enjoy or find<br />
interesting. Also bear in mind that the<br />
dem<strong>and</strong>s of some A levels, such as<br />
maths, are a big jump from GCSE <strong>and</strong><br />
most schools will set higher GCSE grade<br />
requirements for these.<br />
It may seem too early when your child<br />
hasn’t even finished their GCSE courses<br />
to start talking about university subjects<br />
<strong>and</strong> destinations, but if they are going to<br />
change school for sixth form it’s important<br />
to at least start thinking about the ultimate<br />
goal. For instance, if Oxbridge or medical<br />
school is the aim then A level choices<br />
need to be made accordingly <strong>and</strong> a<br />
potential school’s record of Oxbridge <strong>and</strong><br />
medical school places taken into account.<br />
If university isn’t part of the plan then you’ll<br />
need to ask the school or college about<br />
provision for pupils who are interested in<br />
alternative post-18 options such as degree<br />
apprenticeships.<br />
You can find latest information on a<br />
school’s Oxbridge, medical school <strong>and</strong><br />
non-university destinations in the ‘Exit’<br />
section of The Good Schools Guide<br />
reviews.<br />
Day to boarding<br />
A move to boarding school for sixth form<br />
- see this article for more - is often said<br />
to be a good preparation for university.<br />
But manage your expectations – in our<br />
experience most sixth form boarding<br />
accommodation is more luxurious than the<br />
average university hall of residence!<br />
Most boarding schools have separate<br />
provision for sixth formers where they can<br />
live more independently <strong>and</strong> with fewer<br />
restrictions than younger pupils. If you<br />
are looking at full, as opposed to weekly,<br />
boarding then find out how many sixth<br />
formers are in school at weekends <strong>and</strong><br />
what activities are on offer (our writers<br />
suggest looking at boarding house<br />
noticeboards to see sign-up sheets for<br />
weekend activities).<br />
While it’s usually possible, with<br />
permission, for boarding sixth formers to<br />
attend day pupils’ parties for instance,<br />
it’s unlikely that any school will allow the<br />
same freedom to socialise (particularly<br />
with regard to sexual relationships) as day<br />
school pupils. Discuss school rules <strong>and</strong><br />
regulations frankly with your child - if they<br />
(or you) are horrified then maybe boarding<br />
isn’t the right choice.<br />
Independent to state<br />
A move from independent to state school<br />
is often determined by family finances, but<br />
we wonder whether it could also now be a<br />
strategic decision.<br />
State school sixth forms or sixth form<br />
colleges often have exam results that are<br />
comparable to independent schools <strong>and</strong><br />
they may also offer a wider range of post-<br />
GCSE choices.<br />
And as the UK’s top universities strive to<br />
rebalance their admissions procedures to<br />
correct what was (rightly) criticised as an<br />
independent school bias, will this prompt<br />
more independent school parents to send<br />
their children to take A levels at state sixth<br />
forms? Time will tell.<br />
State to independent<br />
If you think your child would benefit from<br />
taking A levels at an independent school<br />
but are worried about affording the fees, it<br />
could be worth checking whether you can<br />
apply for a bursary. Some schools offer<br />
bursaries specifically for pupils joining the<br />
sixth form from the local state sector.<br />
Entry requirements<br />
These differ considerably but five or six<br />
GCSEs including English <strong>and</strong> maths at<br />
grade 6 or above, with grade 7 or higher<br />
in subjects to be studied at A level (can<br />
be 8 or 9 for maths/further maths), is the<br />
minimum for most selective schools.<br />
Many schools set the sixth form entry<br />
bar much higher <strong>and</strong> in addition to a<br />
full set of GCSEs at grades 9-7, also<br />
expect c<strong>and</strong>idates to sit papers in their<br />
prospective A level subjects. Schools will<br />
usually interview prospective sixth formers<br />
too.<br />
The Good Schools Guide is the UK’s<br />
number one school guide, helping<br />
parents in every aspect of choosing<br />
the best education for their children<br />
using their unbiased <strong>and</strong> impartial<br />
school reviews, alongside a host of<br />
articles advising on all aspects of<br />
school life. Find out more at www.<br />
goodschoolsguide.co.uk<br />
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Am<strong>and</strong>a Owen<br />
The yorkshire Shepherdess<br />
Tells us about her life in the Dales<br />
Known to millions as The Yorkshire<br />
Shepherdess, Am<strong>and</strong>a Owen is the author<br />
of five best-selling books about her life<br />
on Ravenseat ,one of the most remote<br />
farms in the country, where she lives with<br />
her husb<strong>and</strong> Clive <strong>and</strong> nine children. She<br />
currently stars in Channel 5’s popular TV<br />
show Our Yorkshire Farm <strong>and</strong> her latest<br />
book is Celebrating the Seasons includes<br />
stories, recipes <strong>and</strong> photos from the farm<br />
<strong>and</strong> is out now.<br />
I underst<strong>and</strong> that you had had no<br />
previous links to farming, may I ask<br />
how you became so involved in this line<br />
of work?<br />
I grew up in Huddersfield <strong>and</strong> no one in<br />
my family is from a farming background.<br />
I loved the James Herriot books when I<br />
was a child, <strong>and</strong> watched the TV series.<br />
Because of James Herriot I loved the idea<br />
of being a vet, probably like most other<br />
children of that era, but was told at school<br />
that I was not academic enough to make<br />
the grades. One day in the school library<br />
I picked up a book called Hill Shepherd.<br />
It was a photographic documentary of<br />
hill farming in Yorkshire <strong>and</strong> Cumbria.<br />
Reading that book was an epiphany for<br />
me, the pictures of the hill shepherds on<br />
the moors with the sheep made me realise<br />
it was where I wanted to be. It ticked the<br />
box of wanting to work with animals in<br />
the countryside <strong>and</strong> importantly it also<br />
ticked the rebellion box as it was so the<br />
opposite of my townie life up until then.<br />
Years later after I had married my husb<strong>and</strong><br />
Clive, we realised that there was actually a<br />
photograph of him in Hill Shepherd! So it’s<br />
a very important book to me.<br />
How did you learn your crafts? One of<br />
the many things I learnt from your book<br />
was how important it is to get the grass<br />
in - in good time.<br />
I started out as a farm h<strong>and</strong>, <strong>and</strong> then<br />
moved on to being a contract shepherd,<br />
working on different farms all over the<br />
country. But really, I learnt everything as I<br />
went along.<br />
Most of my crafts came through natural<br />
progression, learning to ride a horse<br />
by riding it, learning to clip a sheep by<br />
clipping my first one, learning to work a<br />
dog, by taking the dog out with me for the<br />
first time.<br />
You can only learn what to do by doing it,<br />
you have to get practical on the ground<br />
experience. Nothing comes close to<br />
learning how to be a shepherd, other than<br />
actually doing the work of a shepherd <strong>and</strong><br />
it’s not just about learning about sheep,<br />
it’s about learning about the l<strong>and</strong>.<br />
With the grass it starts with the sheep.<br />
You’ve got to have your sheep in good<br />
order - we grow hardy stock through the<br />
winter, so it’s absolutely vital that you grow<br />
your crop well, so they have food to eat<br />
throughout the winter.<br />
You enjoy sheep shearing - were you<br />
nervous when you cut your first fleece?<br />
Of course, but you know, you have to be<br />
nervous in order to be any good at what<br />
you’re doing. If you’re lambing sheep you<br />
are dealing with nature first h<strong>and</strong>, but<br />
there is no room for you to have time to<br />
be nervous as you have to get on with the<br />
job. It’s you alone in that moment <strong>and</strong> it’s<br />
not optional to be nervous. That pressure<br />
makes you work fast.<br />
The first time I clipped, I would clip the<br />
sheep while the professional shearers<br />
were having their dinner, <strong>and</strong> they<br />
would encourage me or discourage me<br />
depending on what I was doing, <strong>and</strong> then<br />
the more you do it you get faster. You<br />
keep practicing <strong>and</strong> eventually you will<br />
get there.<br />
How do you spread yourself between<br />
9 children - it must quite a noisy<br />
household at times?<br />
It is a noisy household. But we’re very<br />
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means that there’s plenty of room for<br />
everybody to get some space outside. I<br />
enjoy the busyness <strong>and</strong> noise of family<br />
life in the house. But I can get away from<br />
it by walking out my front door. Plenty<br />
of people can’t as they leave their front<br />
door <strong>and</strong> if they live in a city, it’s still loud<br />
<strong>and</strong> busy when they get out. We’re lucky<br />
here to have the wide open spaces <strong>and</strong><br />
the kids spend a lot of time outdoors.<br />
We’re working farm <strong>and</strong> that means that<br />
everyone mucks in - no matter what<br />
the age, it could be collecting hen’s<br />
eggs, feeding the horses, or helping find<br />
uniforms for everyone, also cooking. Real<br />
dough is just as good as playdough <strong>and</strong><br />
the kids love learning to cook. The only<br />
time when we all come together is tea time<br />
at the farm, when we all come together to<br />
eat, it’s my favourite time of day, when I<br />
get to hear what everyone’s been up to on<br />
the farm <strong>and</strong> school.<br />
Your children must have a wonderful<br />
time <strong>and</strong> appear to have no fears with<br />
any of the animals. Do they each have a<br />
special one?<br />
I suppose they do. Quite a lot of the girls<br />
loves the horses. Violet loves the cows,<br />
she was excited recently that our pet cow,<br />
Ciara has now come in from the fields.<br />
Violet h<strong>and</strong> reared Ciara from a calf, so<br />
she thinks she belongs inside the house<br />
<strong>and</strong> doesn’t like the other cows. Miles is<br />
very taken with the hens <strong>and</strong> his flock of<br />
30 sheep. Through the winter <strong>and</strong> up to<br />
lambing time Miles looks after his flock of<br />
sheep after school. Sidney has his own<br />
dog, Nell a sheep dog <strong>and</strong> she runs for<br />
him, so that’s quite a big thing for a young<br />
lad to be able to work his own sheep dog.<br />
It’s a level up from being a pet. The terriers<br />
are wonderful they are real characters,<br />
they are source of frustration as they<br />
will have fights with each other, or they<br />
w<strong>and</strong>er off from the farm to the local pub<br />
quite a few miles away! The terriers, are<br />
Chalky <strong>and</strong> Sprout, sadly we lost Pippin at<br />
the beginning of lock down. Tony the pony<br />
(pictured above right) is loved by Annas,<br />
Clemmie <strong>and</strong> Nancy, they look after him,<br />
feed him, brush him <strong>and</strong> ride him. They<br />
also love the bigger horses Josie <strong>and</strong><br />
Princess. Princess is very good with the<br />
kids <strong>and</strong> often two of them ride her around<br />
the fields. They also like to take the horses<br />
down to the river <strong>and</strong> give them a bath<br />
<strong>and</strong> wash <strong>and</strong> comb their tails.<br />
Will any of them follow in your<br />
footsteps?<br />
Yeah, I think so, at the moment Miles <strong>and</strong><br />
Sidney are very keen on farming <strong>and</strong> Edith<br />
is a good shepherdess. That said I never<br />
place any expectation on any of them<br />
to follow me into being a farmer <strong>and</strong> a<br />
shepherd. You don’t know where life will<br />
take you. I’m not sitting here going: “I want<br />
you to be a shepherd”, because life goes<br />
through stages, <strong>and</strong> what you want to do<br />
changes, so I’d rather they make their own<br />
choices, they can do whatever they want<br />
to do. It’s a difficult thing to ask a child<br />
what they want to do with the rest of their<br />
life. They’ll figure it out as they go along.<br />
What is your favourite season <strong>and</strong> why?<br />
Summer. But really I mean June. June is<br />
my favourite month, because all the sheep<br />
have had lambs <strong>and</strong> been turned back<br />
out onto the moor <strong>and</strong> it’s before hay time<br />
<strong>and</strong> clipping, so there’s a lull <strong>and</strong> a pause<br />
in the farm work, <strong>and</strong> at the same time<br />
everything comes to life - the flowers, the<br />
birds on the moor. In June, the Curlews<br />
are back, as are the Lapwings, Golden<br />
Plover, Black Grouse. All you can hear<br />
is birds, wherever you’re walking. There<br />
are woodcock <strong>and</strong> snipe too - they are<br />
all ground nesting birds up here on the<br />
moor, so you get to see their nests as<br />
well - <strong>and</strong> it’s just beautiful. The flowers<br />
you see in June are marsh marigolds,<br />
globe flowers, all the hay meadow<br />
flowers, rare orchids - it’s really pretty.<br />
What made you decide to write this<br />
book? It is a delightful read <strong>and</strong> the<br />
recipes are a treat….<br />
Celebrating the Seasons, came about<br />
because I wanted to answer some of the<br />
most frequently ask questions, how do<br />
you cater for such a big family? Tell us<br />
about the practicalities? What do you<br />
cook? It was really difficult selecting<br />
recipes for the book. I wanted to include<br />
forgiving recipes. Recipes that it was<br />
totally fine to get distracted in the middle<br />
of <strong>and</strong> would still turn out good. Recipes<br />
that were achievable with the most<br />
basic of ingredients, simple feel good<br />
food, that was nutritionally good too. My<br />
absolute favourite is the Tagine recipe,<br />
it’s a people pleaser, for me its so easy<br />
<strong>and</strong> the smell always brings everyone<br />
to the kitchen - which is helpful! Every<br />
time I cook it it’s different, sometimes<br />
chick peas, sometimes wild rice, some<br />
times couscous - it always comes out<br />
slightly different each time. In addition<br />
to the recipes, people have told me they<br />
loved my photos <strong>and</strong> images of the farm<br />
that I post on twitter <strong>and</strong> would always<br />
suggest I do a photograph book. If you<br />
go back to basics it was a photography<br />
book - Hill Shepherd - that inspired me<br />
to become a shepherd. So it’s nice to<br />
go full circle. I know how inspiring a<br />
photography book can be - how it can<br />
really steer you <strong>and</strong> how a picture can<br />
tell a thous<strong>and</strong> words. I really hope that<br />
when people buy the book, that they<br />
look at the pictures over <strong>and</strong> over again<br />
<strong>and</strong> still find something new in them, as I<br />
have with Hill Shepherd.<br />
What would you like to tell our readers<br />
about your life?<br />
I want people to know that Celebrating<br />
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own way. It’s not a blueprint for how you<br />
should live your life, it simply says this<br />
is what we do as a family this is how we<br />
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Tasty recipes from Am<strong>and</strong>a Owen<br />
Wild Mushroom Soup with<br />
Wood Sorrel & Hazelnut Pesto<br />
Prep time 10 minutes<br />
Cooking time 35 minutes<br />
Serves 4<br />
2 tbsp Yorkshire rapeseed oil, plus extra for<br />
garnish<br />
1 medium onion, finely chopped<br />
1 large clove garlic, crushed or grated<br />
450g wild mushrooms, such as yellow<br />
chanterelle, roughly chopped<br />
50ml Madeira or sweet sherry<br />
850ml hot vegetable stock<br />
3 sprigs fresh thyme<br />
200ml double cream<br />
1 tsp mushroom powder<br />
Salt <strong>and</strong> black pepper<br />
Pesto<br />
25g chopped toasted hazelnuts<br />
1 small bunch wood sorrel<br />
2 tbsp olive oil<br />
10g Parmesan<br />
Garnish<br />
H<strong>and</strong>ful of wild mushrooms<br />
Heat the oil in a large saucepan, add<br />
the onion <strong>and</strong> garlic <strong>and</strong> fry gently for 5<br />
minutes, until softened but not coloured.<br />
Next, add the mushrooms <strong>and</strong> fry on a<br />
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medium heat for 8 minutes, until they are<br />
golden.<br />
Pour the Madeira over the mushrooms <strong>and</strong><br />
cook on a high heat for about a minute until<br />
the alcohol evaporates.<br />
Lower the heat <strong>and</strong> pour in the hot stock,<br />
then add the sprigs of thyme. Bring to the<br />
boil then cover <strong>and</strong> simmer gently for 20<br />
minutes.<br />
Remove the pan from the heat, blitz with<br />
a h<strong>and</strong> blender or in a liquidizer until the<br />
soup is smooth. Return the soup to a clean<br />
pan, stir in the cream <strong>and</strong> sprinkle over the<br />
mushroom powder, then season the soup<br />
<strong>and</strong> gently reheat over a low heat.<br />
Meanwhile, place the pesto ingredients into<br />
a small food processor <strong>and</strong> blitz for a few<br />
seconds until combined. Add extra oil if the<br />
pesto is a little thick <strong>and</strong> season to taste.<br />
For the mushroom garnish, drizzle some<br />
oil in a small frying pan <strong>and</strong> gently fry the<br />
remaining mushrooms for a couple of<br />
minutes until golden.<br />
To serve, ladle the soup into warm bowls,<br />
scatter over the whole fried mushrooms,<br />
<strong>and</strong> top with a spoonful of pesto.<br />
Tip<br />
Try serving with homemade spelt bread.<br />
Moroccan Lamb Tagine with<br />
Jewelled Couscous<br />
Prep time 15 minutes<br />
Cooking time 1 hour 15 minutes<br />
Serves 4<br />
Tagine<br />
2 tbsp olive oil<br />
600g lamb shoulder, diced<br />
1 large onion, sliced<br />
2 cloves garlic, crushed<br />
1 tbsp ground cumin<br />
2 tsp ground cori<strong>and</strong>er<br />
1 tbsp hot smoked paprika<br />
40g tomato purée<br />
400g can cherry tomatoes<br />
1 cinnamon stick<br />
50g dried apricots, chopped<br />
2 large pieces orange peel<br />
285ml lamb stock<br />
1 small bunch cori<strong>and</strong>er, chopped<br />
Jewelled couscous<br />
200g couscous<br />
200ml hot vegetable stock<br />
1 red onion, chopped<br />
100g pomegranate seeds<br />
1 small bunch mint, leaves roughly chopped<br />
1 small bunch cori<strong>and</strong>er, chopped<br />
3 spring onions<br />
20g almonds, toasted<br />
Salt <strong>and</strong> black pepper<br />
Preheat the oven to 180°C/160°C fan/ gas 4.<br />
Heat 1 tablespoon of the oil in a large<br />
heatproof casserole dish, then add the<br />
lamb <strong>and</strong> sear <strong>and</strong> brown on all sides for<br />
about 5 minutes. Remove the lamb from<br />
the casserole dish with a slotted spoon <strong>and</strong><br />
set aside.<br />
Return the casserole dish to the heat <strong>and</strong><br />
add the remaining oil. When hot, add the<br />
onion <strong>and</strong> fry gently for approximately 8<br />
minutes until golden. Add the garlic <strong>and</strong> fry<br />
for a further minute.<br />
Sprinkle over the ground spices <strong>and</strong> stir<br />
in the tomato purée then fry for a further<br />
minute. Return the meat <strong>and</strong> any juices<br />
to the pan with the remaining Tagine<br />
ingredients (except the fresh cori<strong>and</strong>er),<br />
bring to the boil then cover with a lid <strong>and</strong><br />
transfer to the middle shelf of the oven.<br />
Cook for 1 hour, or until the meat is tender.<br />
Meanwhile, while the Tagine cooks, put the<br />
couscous into a bowl <strong>and</strong> pour over the<br />
hot vegetable stock. Cover the bowl tightly<br />
with cling film <strong>and</strong> set aside for 10 minutes<br />
until the couscous has absorbed the liquid.<br />
Season the couscous, then stir through<br />
the remaining ingredients, saving a few<br />
almonds <strong>and</strong> herbs to garnish.<br />
To serve the Tagine, remove the cinnamon<br />
stick <strong>and</strong> check seasoning, then sprinkle<br />
over the chopped cori<strong>and</strong>er. Serve in warm<br />
bowls with the jewelled couscous.<br />
Tip<br />
This recipe can also be cooked slowly in a<br />
Tagine over a barbecue.
And time for pudding...<br />
More tasty recipes from Am<strong>and</strong>a Owen<br />
Rhubarb & Custard Crumble Cake<br />
Prep time 15 minutes<br />
Cooking time 40 minutes<br />
Serves 4-6<br />
Rhubarb<br />
250g Yorkshire rhubarb, cut into 2cm<br />
chunks<br />
50g caster sugar<br />
Crumble<br />
50g plain flour<br />
25g butter, cut into cubes<br />
40g chopped mixed nuts<br />
25g demerara sugar<br />
Cake<br />
170g butter, softened, plus extra for<br />
greasing<br />
85g caster sugar<br />
85g soft brown sugar<br />
3 medium eggs, beaten<br />
1 tsp vanilla extract<br />
170g self-raising flour<br />
1 tsp baking powder<br />
30g custard powder<br />
Icing sugar to dust<br />
Custard to serve<br />
Preheat the oven to 180°C/160°C fan/gas<br />
Grease <strong>and</strong> line a 21cm round spring-form<br />
cake tin.<br />
Put the rhubarb into a saucepan <strong>and</strong><br />
sprinkle over the caster sugar. Heat very<br />
gently until the sugar dissolves into a syrup.<br />
Simmer for 6–8 minutes until the rhubarb<br />
just begins to soften. Set aside to cool.<br />
Meanwhile make the crumble. Place the<br />
flour into a mixing bowl <strong>and</strong> rub in the<br />
butter with your fingertips until it resembles<br />
breadcrumbs, then stir in the chopped nuts<br />
<strong>and</strong> sugar.<br />
Next make the cake. Beat the butter, caster<br />
sugar <strong>and</strong> soft brown sugar in a bowl using<br />
an electric mixer for 2–3 minutes, until light<br />
<strong>and</strong> fluffy. Add the eggs <strong>and</strong> vanilla extract<br />
with 2 tablespoons of the flour, beat for<br />
a minute until combined, then fold in the<br />
remaining flour, baking powder <strong>and</strong> custard<br />
powder.<br />
Drain any excess juices from the rhubarb<br />
<strong>and</strong> discard the syrup, then gently fold the<br />
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cooled rhubarb through the cake mixture.<br />
Transfer the cake batter to the prepared tin<br />
<strong>and</strong> gently smooth the top with a spatula.<br />
Sprinkle the crumble over the cake <strong>and</strong><br />
press down lightly with the back of a spoon,<br />
then bake on the middle shelf of the oven<br />
for 40 minutes, until the cake is golden, firm<br />
to touch, <strong>and</strong> when a skewer is inserted it<br />
comes out clean. Allow to cool slightly in the<br />
cake tin, then transfer to a plate.<br />
Dust lightly with icing sugar before serving<br />
warm with custard.<br />
Tip<br />
Also delicious served with ice cream or<br />
single cream.<br />
Hedgerow Nutty Crumble<br />
Prep time 10 minutes<br />
Cooking time 40 minutes<br />
Serves 4<br />
Fruit filling<br />
40g butter<br />
40g golden caster sugar<br />
2 Braeburn apples, peeled <strong>and</strong> sliced<br />
200g Bramley apples, peeled <strong>and</strong> sliced<br />
300g foraged berries or any mixed berries,<br />
such as blackberries <strong>and</strong> wild raspberries<br />
Crumble topping<br />
125g plain flour<br />
85g unsalted butter, diced<br />
85g demerara sugar<br />
50g rolled oats<br />
30g chopped toasted hazelnuts<br />
Custard or ice cream to serve<br />
Preheat the oven to 180°C/160°C fan/gas 4.<br />
For the fruit filling, melt the butter in a<br />
pan, add the sugar <strong>and</strong> apples <strong>and</strong> gently<br />
simmer for 5 minutes. Add the berries <strong>and</strong><br />
simmer for 2 minutes, then transfer to a<br />
23cm round oven-proof dish.<br />
Meanwhile prepare the crumble topping.<br />
Put the flour into a mixing bowl <strong>and</strong> rub<br />
in the butter with your fingertips, until the<br />
mixture resembles fine breadcrumbs. Stir<br />
in the sugar, oats <strong>and</strong> hazelnuts.<br />
Sprinkle the crumble topping over the<br />
fruit, then place the dish on the middle<br />
shelf of the oven. Bake for 30-35 minutes,<br />
until the crumb is golden <strong>and</strong> fruit<br />
bubbling.<br />
Allow to cool slightly before serving with<br />
custard or ice cream.<br />
Tip<br />
Try using other seasonal fruits such as<br />
damsons or gooseberries.
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sit back <strong>and</strong> relax with<br />
Buy To Let Hunter<br />
We caught up with one of our new clients, Neil Dickins,<br />
to show him around his new property...<br />
Within three weeks of the house purchase<br />
we did all external work identified by the<br />
survey as needing attention <strong>and</strong> internal<br />
beautification to bring it up to spec before<br />
the first guests arrived.<br />
Tell us a little about yourself?<br />
I fell in love with theatre whilst at<br />
McMaster Uni in Canada, <strong>and</strong> was told I<br />
must go to London. I duly came to study<br />
Shakespeare but became ensnared in<br />
the thorns of an English rose (the red of<br />
Lancashire version) <strong>and</strong> never left.<br />
What do you do?<br />
I founded Intellectual Capital Resources<br />
(IC Resources) 22 years ago to focus on<br />
‘deep tech’ recruitment (all the tech that’s<br />
in your phone, or a satellite, or an electric<br />
car….ie everything except IT). The<br />
company is now 70 people with offices<br />
in Reading, London, Munich, China <strong>and</strong><br />
the US.<br />
What were you hoping to achieve when<br />
making an investment with BTLH?<br />
I make very high risk, seed stage<br />
investments in tech companies, <strong>and</strong><br />
wanted an investment to balance my<br />
portfolio. Like all assets, property<br />
values fluctuate but the likely downside<br />
compared to stocks (or early stage<br />
companies!!) is lower.<br />
Why did you choose BTLH?<br />
For me the most critical word in seeking<br />
success is ‘niche’. I loved the niche,<br />
under-represented ‘mid-term let’ idea<br />
as outlined by Adrian. My due diligence<br />
consisted of meeting his business<br />
partners Alex <strong>and</strong> Lucy, who also<br />
impressed me greatly <strong>and</strong> convinced me<br />
that the company was solid <strong>and</strong> would<br />
deliver on its promises. The great thing<br />
about the space that BTLH has carved<br />
out for itself is that it needs a particular<br />
kind of focus <strong>and</strong> attention, which I<br />
don’t think potential competitors will<br />
underst<strong>and</strong> even if they try to emulate<br />
BTLH. The other reason, of course, is that<br />
the ROI makes sense.<br />
What has your experience been<br />
working with BTLH?<br />
Excellent from the outset. I’m 100%<br />
confident that the outst<strong>and</strong>ing service<br />
levels will continue. We’ve also rented<br />
the house out for an excellent mediumterm<br />
rental even before it has been listed,<br />
which I’m sure is a positive portent of<br />
things to come.<br />
Any advice to someone else who might<br />
find themselves in your situation?<br />
Call me to invest in some crazy risky early<br />
stage tech companies. Eschew sensible<br />
investments like BTLH!<br />
So… if you find yourself looking for an<br />
investment all piquant with crazy risk <strong>and</strong><br />
excitement, contact Neil Dickins direct<br />
to h<strong>and</strong> over your hard-earned cash for<br />
him to invest in some dodgy early stage<br />
tech companies – <strong>and</strong> if you feel more<br />
like Neil, then get in touch with BTLH <strong>and</strong><br />
see if we can find you a little gem like his<br />
so you can make a sensible investment.<br />
Neil’s parting words to us were: “I might<br />
start thinking about my next project with<br />
you guys…” You heard it here first!<br />
Can BTLH help you find the perfect<br />
property? Get in touch <strong>and</strong> have<br />
a chat: 020 7550 9396 or<br />
hello@buytolethunter.com.<br />
For more information check out<br />
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London, TW9 1DH<br />
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DON’T: WORRY IF YOU<br />
DON’T HAVE LOADS OF<br />
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Ultimately you have to work with what<br />
you’ve got - in the last 18 months,<br />
many of us have seen our guest rooms<br />
overhauled into home offices. If you’ve<br />
ditched the bed don’t worry - how about<br />
adding an attractive sofa bed that you<br />
can actually use the rest of the time as a<br />
break out area from your desk.<br />
DO: PROVIDE BASIC<br />
AMENITIES<br />
The more things you can put in the room<br />
to make their stay easier, without having<br />
to ask you for everything, the more<br />
relaxed everyone will feel. A mirror is<br />
important, as are fresh towels, tissues,<br />
<strong>and</strong> perhaps even a hair dryer. A bedside<br />
carafe <strong>and</strong> some glasses means they can<br />
help themselves to water too.<br />
DO: INVEST IN<br />
GOOD WINDOW<br />
TREATMENTS<br />
As you might have never<br />
slept in this space, you<br />
might not know how<br />
light behaves or how<br />
effective the current<br />
window treatments are for<br />
blocking out light. For a<br />
really luxurious look, pair<br />
blackout blinds or shutters<br />
with thick, decorative<br />
drapery. Shutters give a lovely secure feel<br />
to a space <strong>and</strong> really finish the room.<br />
DON’T: SETTLE FOR A<br />
LUMPY MATTRESS<br />
The same goes for the mattress as the<br />
window treatments - spend a night in the<br />
room <strong>and</strong> see if the bed is up to scratch.<br />
DO: PROVIDE GOOD<br />
LIGHTING<br />
Multi-level lighting is key for making a<br />
space feel cosy - make sure there are<br />
two bedside lamps <strong>and</strong> then another<br />
light source in the space, such as a<br />
st<strong>and</strong>ing lamp in the corner or a lamp on<br />
a dressing table<br />
DON’T: SKIMP ON THE<br />
BED LINENS<br />
Good bed linen really is worth the money<br />
- <strong>and</strong> it tends to wash better too. Provide<br />
a good quality duvet <strong>and</strong> pillows, linens<br />
<strong>and</strong> some additional blankets if your<br />
guests feel the cold.<br />
DO: CREATE<br />
SOMEWHERE THEY CAN<br />
UNPACK<br />
We all know it’s a bit stressful trying to<br />
live out of a suitcase - allowing for some<br />
hanging space <strong>and</strong> a few drawers to<br />
unpack into, can really help guests keep<br />
on top of things whilst they’re with you.<br />
DO: MAKE IT SMELL<br />
LOVELY<br />
Kit the room out with either fresh flowers,<br />
a reed diffuser, or room sprays. Pillow<br />
spray to help deep sleep is also a lovely<br />
touch to make the space feel homely - we<br />
love Olverum’s new Restful Pillow Sleep<br />
Mist, £25, olverum.com<br />
DON’T: BE A<br />
PERFECTIONIST<br />
If your guests were hoping for hotel<br />
st<strong>and</strong>ards, then that’s where they should<br />
have stayed. Just aim to make sure<br />
the space is clean, comfortable <strong>and</strong><br />
functional, then relax - there’s enough to<br />
be worrying about in the festive season<br />
without adding high expectations on top<br />
of that.<br />
If you’re looking for a total decorative<br />
overhaul, check out our moodboards!<br />
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Dulux Paint in ‘Paper Chain’<br />
Natural Ceramic Table Lamp,<br />
£99,barker<strong>and</strong>stonehouse.co.uk<br />
Kilby Bedside<br />
Table, £229,<br />
made.com<br />
Design by Studio McGee<br />
Fingal 3 Seat<br />
Sofa, £1210,<br />
sofa.com<br />
Navy Seigaiha Wave Cushions £32 <strong>and</strong> Kayla Woven Cushion £31, hauslife.<br />
co.uk, Weeping Palm Tree Velvet Cushion Cover, £32.95, audenza.com<br />
Malibu Print, from £6.99, www.juniqe.co.uk<br />
Tulana Double Bed,<br />
£599, made.com<br />
Elowen Throw,<br />
£75, hauslife.co.uk<br />
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Bromley Chest, £399,<br />
Made.com<br />
Black Branches Print, from £6.99,<br />
www.juniqe.co.uk<br />
Jute Effect Daylight Roller<br />
Blind, from £22, John Lewis<br />
Bedroom by Pure Salt Interiors<br />
BRIGHT<br />
& CRISP<br />
Off-White Linen Bed Set.<br />
£170.99, www.truelinen.co.uk<br />
Limestone Wood Paint, £18<br />
750ml, thorndown.co.uk<br />
Dar Lighting<br />
NUS422, from £82,<br />
wtlighting.co.uk<br />
Furn Contra Olive Cushion,<br />
£25, www.persora.com<br />
London Bench, from £499,<br />
www.boconcept.com<br />
Mala Pile Rug,<br />
200x290cm, £299,<br />
Made.com<br />
Reims, Iron/Metal Four Poster Bed Frame, from<br />
£649, www.obc-uk.net<br />
Black Bud Vase, £29,<br />
room356.co.uk<br />
Achieve this look by<br />
layering different<br />
neutral textures, <strong>and</strong><br />
adding structural<br />
touches of black <strong>and</strong> a<br />
few strong accent colours<br />
Juna Striped<br />
Cushion, £34,<br />
hauslife.co.uk<br />
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Tough on all Pathogens<br />
BACTERIAL, VIRAL & FUNGAL<br />
Yet skin pH Neutral, Gentle to Skin<br />
Reasons to<br />
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At home or away, Leucillin is a<br />
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concerns, it is soothing <strong>and</strong> calming<br />
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For People AND our Pets, Leucillin is a<br />
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putting our pets first<br />
We may feel as if we have had ‘information<br />
overload’ when it comes to germ<br />
prevention <strong>and</strong> protection, but sometimes<br />
a product comes along that dem<strong>and</strong>s our<br />
attention - enter Leucillin. This is a skin<br />
health product for pets that is proving to<br />
be a product which all of us may well be<br />
putting in our first aid chests very soon.<br />
We spoke to Georgina Bashforth (pictured<br />
right) about the product <strong>and</strong> its exciting<br />
potential…….<br />
First of all, in layman’s terms – what is<br />
Leucillin?<br />
Leucillin is a clever antiseptic applied to<br />
the skin topically to protect against harmful<br />
germs. Leucillin is a revolutionary fresh new<br />
take on what an antiseptic is <strong>and</strong> can be<br />
capable of.<br />
Leucillin mimics the body’s own immune<br />
system, providing you a powerful solution<br />
which delivers the ultimate shield in<br />
topical skin protection against harmful<br />
pathogens. Leucillin’s unique formulation<br />
does not contain any alcohol, steroids or<br />
antibiotics, it is the natural choice for safe<br />
skin sanitising.<br />
Our pets our so important to us, how<br />
is Leucillin used <strong>and</strong> what specific<br />
applications is it effective for?<br />
Leucillin has a great reputation for safety<br />
<strong>and</strong> efficacy, supported by pet healthcare,<br />
veterinary <strong>and</strong> grooming industries,<br />
this year. It has been awarded human<br />
approvals <strong>and</strong> begun an exciting new<br />
chapter in healthcare.<br />
Furthermore it can be safely applied in<br />
any topical application where the skin,<br />
ears <strong>and</strong> eyes need care, whether broken,<br />
red, sore, inflamed, cuts, stings, bites<br />
or grazes, Leucillin’s powerful antiseptic<br />
properties eradicate germs on contact<br />
creating the perfect environment for rapid<br />
recovery.<br />
For children, as well as our pets, it’s<br />
“Ouch Free” formula is kind, it has been<br />
developed to match the natural pH of skin<br />
so no more wincing on that grazed knee.<br />
It seems to be a very gentle solution<br />
to a number of particularly stubborn<br />
problems - can it be used long-term?<br />
Leucillin achieves an unbeatable<br />
99.99999% reduction in bacteria on<br />
contact, but how does that compare with<br />
the 99.99% which we think is good? Well;<br />
it’s a massive 10’000 times better!<br />
Fast effective pathogen reduction means<br />
no resistance therefore long-term usage is<br />
always effective <strong>and</strong> no harmful ingredients<br />
means Leucillin is always safe!<br />
And finally, how else can it be used <strong>and</strong><br />
what are your hopes for the product<br />
going forward?<br />
Our goal is to help alleviate the dependence<br />
on antibiotics <strong>and</strong> pharmaceutical<br />
intervention in the area of germ protection,<br />
for a more natural, safe, non-invasive <strong>and</strong><br />
most importantly effective alternative.<br />
During the p<strong>and</strong>emic Leucillin has been<br />
proven effective against all coronaviruses<br />
including SARS-CoV-2 topically <strong>and</strong><br />
has been used by animal care industries<br />
including Police Dog H<strong>and</strong>ler units for<br />
reducing risk.<br />
We have also recently teamed up with The<br />
Humanimal Trust founded by Professor<br />
Noel Fitzpatrick - aka The Supervet, we’re<br />
excited to be supporting mental health <strong>and</strong><br />
raising money for ONE Medicine, so that<br />
humans <strong>and</strong> animals can benefit equally<br />
from all medical progress.<br />
We rescue <strong>and</strong> rehome dogs.<br />
Chloe<br />
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HOUSING-WITH-CARE<br />
Allowing older people to live where they want to live<br />
Imagine you’re an older person in your<br />
70s, approaching your later years <strong>and</strong><br />
perhaps in need of more support soon,<br />
but still with so much to give, so many<br />
talents to unlock, so many friends to<br />
make. You’re thinking about moving<br />
from the family home you’ve lived in<br />
for years to somewhere which provides<br />
security <strong>and</strong> care if <strong>and</strong> when you need<br />
it, but which also allows you to keep<br />
your independence <strong>and</strong> connections to<br />
the local community, <strong>and</strong> which has a<br />
range of activities <strong>and</strong> facilities to keep<br />
you busy.<br />
It’s this middle ground, this golden<br />
mean, combining independence with<br />
care <strong>and</strong> support, which housing-withcare<br />
settings across the country are<br />
offering to older people in increasing<br />
numbers. Sometimes called retirement<br />
communities, retirement villages or extra<br />
care housing, these settings give older<br />
people the opportunity to rent or own<br />
a flat or apartment, on a site with 24/7<br />
staffing, high-quality care provision if<br />
needed, <strong>and</strong> facilities like restaurants,<br />
bars, cafes, gyms, activity rooms <strong>and</strong><br />
much more.<br />
While long-st<strong>and</strong>ing options for older<br />
people like care homes <strong>and</strong> traditional<br />
retirement housing will continue to have<br />
a vital place, there is a growing need<br />
for middle options like housing-withcare<br />
which allow older people to stay<br />
independent <strong>and</strong> healthy for longer.<br />
The evidence is clear: housing-withcare<br />
improves health <strong>and</strong> well-being,<br />
drastically cuts down hospital <strong>and</strong> GP<br />
visits, <strong>and</strong> reduces feelings of loneliness.<br />
Not only do older people themselves<br />
benefit, but so too does the NHS <strong>and</strong><br />
whole social care system.<br />
Housing-with-care settings can be in<br />
either rural or urban locations, giving<br />
older people the chance to choose the<br />
lifestyle they want. Often, they are closely<br />
connected with the town centre, <strong>and</strong><br />
people of different ages are able to use<br />
the facilities at the retirement community<br />
<strong>and</strong> mix with older residents. Far from<br />
being ghettos of the elderly, housingwith-care<br />
settings can be hubs of<br />
intergenerational connection.<br />
ARCO’s role as the representative body<br />
for the housing-with-care sector is to help<br />
our members provide the best possible<br />
service to their older residents, <strong>and</strong> to<br />
ensure the sector thrives <strong>and</strong> grows in<br />
the way that it should. An important part<br />
of ARCO’s work is helping members<br />
set high st<strong>and</strong>ards through the ARCO<br />
Consumer Code, a new edition of<br />
which was launched in September this<br />
year. The code upholds the principles<br />
of transparency <strong>and</strong> fairness, giving<br />
customers <strong>and</strong> residents confidence that<br />
housing-with-care operators achieve<br />
high levels of consumer protection in<br />
everything from marketing, sales <strong>and</strong><br />
lettings, <strong>and</strong> resident relations.<br />
Because, ultimately, housing-with-care is<br />
all about the residents. About responding<br />
to the growing dem<strong>and</strong> from older<br />
people for housing options that combine<br />
independent, active living with care<br />
<strong>and</strong> support if needed. About allowing<br />
residents to live the life that they want<br />
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Separating from your spouse?<br />
Sue Andrews, family partner, B P Collins, firmly believes that letting the courts<br />
decide on child arrangements <strong>and</strong> finances should be a last resort. Here she explains<br />
some pitfalls <strong>and</strong> other options available if you’re thinking of separating...<br />
A recent Channel 4 survey on the family<br />
courts <strong>and</strong> the resolution of arrangements<br />
for children reported that:<br />
• Among those whose cases had<br />
concluded, over 70% of mothers<br />
<strong>and</strong> fathers were unhappy with the<br />
outcome.<br />
• 67% of parents agreed or strongly<br />
agreed that their children’s<br />
mental health had been affected<br />
by participation in the court<br />
proceedings.<br />
• Court proceedings were reported to<br />
have taken on average 18 months<br />
to complete, with 1 in 10 cases<br />
lasting more than 5 years.<br />
• The average cost of proceedings<br />
was said to be around £13,000,<br />
though 1 in 20 claimed they had<br />
spent over £100,000.<br />
These findings demonstrate why court<br />
proceedings should be a last resort for<br />
separating couples. They are a blunt<br />
instrument which can be clumsy, lengthy<br />
<strong>and</strong> costly. Where possible, couples<br />
should aim to reach an agreement/<br />
compromise acceptable to them both<br />
since how you deal with the issues,<br />
as well as the outcome, will affect you<br />
<strong>and</strong> your children for many years to<br />
come, <strong>and</strong> for some people, a lifetime.<br />
Communication, which includes listening,<br />
is key. Where feelings are running high,<br />
counselling can help a couple deal with<br />
the emotional fallout of the separation<br />
<strong>and</strong> how <strong>and</strong> what to communicate to<br />
their children.<br />
Giving each other time to come to terms<br />
with what is a complete life-change<br />
is likely to help, as is respecting each<br />
other. This, <strong>and</strong> remembering what<br />
brought you together, should prevent<br />
the adoption of extreme <strong>and</strong> polarised<br />
positions, <strong>and</strong> instead enable, at least,<br />
some underst<strong>and</strong>ing of a former partner’s<br />
viewpoint – which may be driven by fear,<br />
grief <strong>and</strong> uncertainty.<br />
It is also essential, if a good ending is<br />
to be achieved, to be honest with each<br />
other both about why the marriage has<br />
broken down as well as about finances<br />
<strong>and</strong> future plans.<br />
What if direct communication is<br />
difficult?<br />
If direct communication is difficult, then<br />
discussions in mediation can be helpful,<br />
since a mediator will help to neutralise<br />
the discussion by reducing the emotion<br />
in the room <strong>and</strong>, where the issues are<br />
the child arrangements, ensuring that the<br />
needs of children are the key focus.<br />
If a determination by a third party is<br />
needed, arbitration can be considered as<br />
an alternative to the court process. While<br />
the arbitrator’s fee is an additional cost, it<br />
can be less expensive <strong>and</strong> quicker than<br />
the courts in the long run, because it can<br />
enable a more streamlined procedure<br />
involving fewer hearings. The arbitrator<br />
will be an experienced family lawyer<br />
selected by both former partners, who<br />
will set aside the whole time allocated, to<br />
deal with your matter, rather than having<br />
to juggle a number of matters as a judge<br />
usually has to do. An arbitrator’s decision<br />
is final, in the same way as a court<br />
decision, with both being subject to very<br />
limited grounds for appeal.<br />
If the issue is about child arrangements<br />
thought could be given to the instruction<br />
of an independent social worker (ISW).<br />
In many such cases, a report from<br />
CAFCASS (Children <strong>and</strong> Family Court<br />
Advisory Service) will be ordered by<br />
the courts, however the time allocated,<br />
<strong>and</strong> resources available to them, is<br />
often too limited to comprehensively<br />
investigate <strong>and</strong> assess the family<br />
involved <strong>and</strong> get to grips with the issues<br />
<strong>and</strong> the inter-family relationships. So,<br />
again, while the instruction of an ISW<br />
will involve an additional cost, they<br />
will be able to provide a thorough <strong>and</strong><br />
detailed assessment to the court <strong>and</strong><br />
to the parents, which could facilitate an<br />
agreement <strong>and</strong> the suspension of the<br />
court proceedings.<br />
In short, only consider court proceedings<br />
after other avenues have been explored<br />
or where absolutely necessary, since the<br />
court process will mean that you both<br />
will no longer be in charge of the final<br />
decision, which, according to Channel 4’s<br />
survey, only 30% of parents were happy<br />
with.<br />
For professional advice <strong>and</strong> support,<br />
please contact B P Collins’ family partner,<br />
Sue Andrews on 01753 279046 /<br />
01844 397397 or email<br />
sue.<strong>and</strong>rews@bpcollins.co.uk.<br />
B P Collins can also help if you are<br />
a victim of domestic violence <strong>and</strong><br />
direct communication is not possible.<br />
Support is also available by calling the<br />
National Domestic Abuse Helpline on<br />
0808 2000 247.<br />
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