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Blaser Mills Law set to open<br />

new office in the heart of <strong>Marlow</strong><br />

Blaser Mills Law is set to exp<strong>and</strong> its local <strong>and</strong> national<br />

operation into <strong>Marlow</strong> in <strong>Nov</strong>ember of this year, with a strong<br />

focus on continuing to bring its wide range of expertise <strong>and</strong><br />

experience to the local community.<br />

The 150-strong firm has established<br />

local roots in <strong>Marlow</strong> over many years,<br />

both in terms of advising clients <strong>and</strong> in<br />

the fact that many of its team, including<br />

CEO Dave Matthews, are residents of<br />

the town; reinforcing these strong local<br />

connections was the logical next step.<br />

“<strong>Marlow</strong> is an area that has always<br />

been of high importance to us,” said<br />

Matthews, “We have served <strong>Marlow</strong><br />

clients from our High Wycombe office<br />

for many years but having an actual<br />

physical presence – a <strong>Marlow</strong> face if<br />

you like – will enable us to deliver our full<br />

capabilities to the local community from<br />

the heart of the town”.<br />

The office will be based in Liston<br />

Exchange, in the gardens behind<br />

Liston Court, just off the High Street in<br />

central <strong>Marlow</strong>, <strong>and</strong> will be headed up<br />

by Partner Jonathan Gallop, a <strong>Marlow</strong><br />

resident <strong>and</strong> Head of the Wills, Trusts<br />

<strong>and</strong> Probate team.<br />

The office will also house Lucinda<br />

Holliday – Partner <strong>and</strong> Head of the<br />

Family & Divorce team who has spent<br />

many years living <strong>and</strong> working in the<br />

town <strong>and</strong> Samantha Bellia - Senior<br />

Associate in the Residential Property<br />

team who worked for many years at a<br />

firm on <strong>Marlow</strong> High Street.<br />

Holliday said: “We are extremely excited<br />

to be opening a base in <strong>Marlow</strong> <strong>and</strong> we<br />

are very much the advance party. We<br />

plan to increase our number in the new<br />

office over the next several months to<br />

build a team that is highly approachable<br />

<strong>and</strong> always professional. As the firm has<br />

continued to exp<strong>and</strong> in recent years the<br />

range of services we are able to deliver<br />

has also increased, meaning our clients<br />

in <strong>Marlow</strong> can benefit from our depth of<br />

experience <strong>and</strong> resources across the<br />

wider business. We can’t wait to bring<br />

the people-focused approach we have<br />

become known for to the town, <strong>and</strong> to<br />

build further on the strong roots we have<br />

within the community.”<br />

Dave Matthews added: “We are a firm<br />

that genuinely values a local focus but,<br />

unlike most local law firms, we are able<br />

to back that up with nationally-ranked<br />

expertise <strong>and</strong> depth – as well as helping<br />

local people <strong>and</strong> businesses we also<br />

act for household-name companies,<br />

political parties, major sporting<br />

institutions <strong>and</strong> sports stars”.<br />

But it is not just a professional presence<br />

the firm is looking to build. We have a<br />

proud record in diversity <strong>and</strong> inclusion<br />

within Blaser Mills – our statistics speak<br />

for themselves - <strong>and</strong> we look to support<br />

<strong>and</strong> engage with a similarly diverse<br />

range of local causes <strong>and</strong> initiatives.<br />

Our teams are looking forward to<br />

welcoming you to the office <strong>and</strong><br />

connecting with the local<br />

community, a few of us are even<br />

dusting off our running shoes<br />

for the <strong>Marlow</strong> Fun Run!”<br />

About Blaser Mills<br />

With existing offices in London,<br />

High Wycombe, Amersham, <strong>and</strong><br />

Silverstone, Blaser Mills Law has<br />

become recognised as one of the<br />

top full-service law firms in London<br />

<strong>and</strong> the Southeast.<br />

The firm consistently ranks in the<br />

Legal 500 <strong>and</strong> Chambers UK<br />

Guide <strong>and</strong>, last year, secured a<br />

spot in the Legal 500 rankings for<br />

the seventh year running, with<br />

10 practice areas listed <strong>and</strong> an<br />

additional 31 lawyers recommended.<br />

For more information,<br />

visit www.blasermills.co.uk<br />

or call +44 (0) 20 3814 2020<br />

@BlaserMillsLaw blaser-mills BlaserMillsLaw


Contents<br />

A Note<br />

from the EDITOR<br />

22<br />

Guest<br />

A Culinary Journey through<br />

Northern Irel<strong>and</strong> bedroom perfection<br />

It’s certainly the challenge of<br />

publishing that you always have your<br />

head in the wrong season - each year,<br />

Christmas begins for us in July, which<br />

is about the same time as I start to<br />

ask my friends <strong>and</strong> family what they’d<br />

like as a present or if they’re free for a<br />

meal in <strong>Dec</strong>ember - each year I’m met<br />

with the same furrowed brows <strong>and</strong><br />

a ‘my god, I haven’t started thinking<br />

about that yet!’<br />

Forward planning aside, it is a rather<br />

lovely, smug feeling to know that I’m<br />

mostly sorted for the festivities - my<br />

only issue being losing said gifts<br />

between July <strong>and</strong> <strong>Dec</strong>ember 25th. If<br />

your industry doesn’t quite prepare<br />

you in the same way though, we’ve<br />

got a bevy of festive features to help<br />

get you prepped.<br />

Our competition<br />

page returns<br />

04<br />

Alongside Christmas features,<br />

we’ve got a lovely interview with<br />

The Yorkshire Shepherdess Am<strong>and</strong>a<br />

Owen, plus some delicious recipes<br />

from her new book.<br />

If you’re receiving guests this year,<br />

we’ve got some inspiration on<br />

creating the perfect guest room<br />

sanctuary. And if festive madness all<br />

gets too much, you can always slip in<br />

there yourself!<br />

Yorkshire Shepherdess<br />

Am<strong>and</strong>a Owen<br />

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Key Account Manager Ben Hollis<br />

e ben.hollis@minervapublications.co.uk<br />

d/l 01225 984503<br />

twitter: @<strong>Henley</strong><strong>Marlow</strong><br />

Editor Katie Thomson<br />

e katie.thomson@minervapublications.co.uk<br />

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Recipes from<br />

Am<strong>and</strong>a’s new book<br />

Publisher Sally Thomson<br />

Pre-Press Manager Kate Norris<br />

Contributors Rebecca Rose, Peter Thomson, Sue Cooke, Matthew Biggs<br />

Angela Cave <strong>and</strong> Pete Lawrence. Front cover courtesy of Am<strong>and</strong>a Owen<br />

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publishers. The opinions expressed within are not necessarily those of the publishers.<br />

The news has been all doom <strong>and</strong><br />

gloom of late, but I think it’s important<br />

that, toy shortage/turkey drama/fuel<br />

crisis or not, this year’s Christmas is<br />

looking so much brighter than 2020’s,<br />

<strong>and</strong> there’s so much to be thankful<br />

for. This quote from the legendary Bob<br />

Hope really captured that for me:<br />

“My idea of Christmas, whether<br />

old-fashioned or modern, is very<br />

simple: loving others. Come to<br />

think of it, why do we have to<br />

wait for Christmas to do that?”<br />

We are looking forward to seeing<br />

you again in January - we are doing<br />

away with the New Year, New You<br />

nonsense <strong>and</strong> instead focusing<br />

on what 2022 can offer you. Until<br />

then, take care, have a very Merry<br />

Christmas <strong>and</strong> a peaceful New Year.<br />

Katie<br />

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CHOOSING A NEW SIXTH FORM<br />

The Good Schools Guide offers some suggestions to take into consideration when making the change<br />

Whether you want to change from a<br />

single sex school to co-ed or from day to<br />

boarding, private to state, A levels to IB -<br />

or vice versa there are plenty of reasons to<br />

move schools post - GCSEs.<br />

When to start looking<br />

We’d advise getting the ball rolling<br />

towards the end of their year 10 in time<br />

for sixth form open days <strong>and</strong> applications<br />

which generally take place the following<br />

autumn.<br />

Discussions about post-GCSE options<br />

will already be taking place at your child’s<br />

current school by then <strong>and</strong> looking at<br />

other sixth forms will widen your options.<br />

Maybe the broader based curriculum<br />

of the IB would suit them better than<br />

specialising at A level? Maybe they want<br />

to pursue a more practical, less exam<br />

based, route? Or perhaps your child<br />

simply feels ready for a fresh start <strong>and</strong><br />

new faces.<br />

Choosing a new sixth form<br />

The decision needs to be a joint effort<br />

between parents <strong>and</strong> children, based as<br />

much on personal preference as objective<br />

research. Your child may have formed<br />

opinions about other schools via friends<br />

<strong>and</strong> social media but however popular a<br />

particular sixth form may be, it’s no good<br />

if it doesn’t offer the subjects they want<br />

to study.<br />

Guide your child to consider the areas<br />

of study they genuinely enjoy or find<br />

interesting. Also bear in mind that the<br />

dem<strong>and</strong>s of some A levels, such as<br />

maths, are a big jump from GCSE <strong>and</strong><br />

most schools will set higher GCSE grade<br />

requirements for these.<br />

It may seem too early when your child<br />

hasn’t even finished their GCSE courses<br />

to start talking about university subjects<br />

<strong>and</strong> destinations, but if they are going to<br />

change school for sixth form it’s important<br />

to at least start thinking about the ultimate<br />

goal. For instance, if Oxbridge or medical<br />

school is the aim then A level choices<br />

need to be made accordingly <strong>and</strong> a<br />

potential school’s record of Oxbridge <strong>and</strong><br />

medical school places taken into account.<br />

If university isn’t part of the plan then you’ll<br />

need to ask the school or college about<br />

provision for pupils who are interested in<br />

alternative post-18 options such as degree<br />

apprenticeships.<br />

You can find latest information on a<br />

school’s Oxbridge, medical school <strong>and</strong><br />

non-university destinations in the ‘Exit’<br />

section of The Good Schools Guide<br />

reviews.<br />

Day to boarding<br />

A move to boarding school for sixth form<br />

- see this article for more - is often said<br />

to be a good preparation for university.<br />

But manage your expectations – in our<br />

experience most sixth form boarding<br />

accommodation is more luxurious than the<br />

average university hall of residence!<br />

Most boarding schools have separate<br />

provision for sixth formers where they can<br />

live more independently <strong>and</strong> with fewer<br />

restrictions than younger pupils. If you<br />

are looking at full, as opposed to weekly,<br />

boarding then find out how many sixth<br />

formers are in school at weekends <strong>and</strong><br />

what activities are on offer (our writers<br />

suggest looking at boarding house<br />

noticeboards to see sign-up sheets for<br />

weekend activities).<br />

While it’s usually possible, with<br />

permission, for boarding sixth formers to<br />

attend day pupils’ parties for instance,<br />

it’s unlikely that any school will allow the<br />

same freedom to socialise (particularly<br />

with regard to sexual relationships) as day<br />

school pupils. Discuss school rules <strong>and</strong><br />

regulations frankly with your child - if they<br />

(or you) are horrified then maybe boarding<br />

isn’t the right choice.<br />

Independent to state<br />

A move from independent to state school<br />

is often determined by family finances, but<br />

we wonder whether it could also now be a<br />

strategic decision.<br />

State school sixth forms or sixth form<br />

colleges often have exam results that are<br />

comparable to independent schools <strong>and</strong><br />

they may also offer a wider range of post-<br />

GCSE choices.<br />

And as the UK’s top universities strive to<br />

rebalance their admissions procedures to<br />

correct what was (rightly) criticised as an<br />

independent school bias, will this prompt<br />

more independent school parents to send<br />

their children to take A levels at state sixth<br />

forms? Time will tell.<br />

State to independent<br />

If you think your child would benefit from<br />

taking A levels at an independent school<br />

but are worried about affording the fees, it<br />

could be worth checking whether you can<br />

apply for a bursary. Some schools offer<br />

bursaries specifically for pupils joining the<br />

sixth form from the local state sector.<br />

Entry requirements<br />

These differ considerably but five or six<br />

GCSEs including English <strong>and</strong> maths at<br />

grade 6 or above, with grade 7 or higher<br />

in subjects to be studied at A level (can<br />

be 8 or 9 for maths/further maths), is the<br />

minimum for most selective schools.<br />

Many schools set the sixth form entry<br />

bar much higher <strong>and</strong> in addition to a<br />

full set of GCSEs at grades 9-7, also<br />

expect c<strong>and</strong>idates to sit papers in their<br />

prospective A level subjects. Schools will<br />

usually interview prospective sixth formers<br />

too.<br />

The Good Schools Guide is the UK’s<br />

number one school guide, helping<br />

parents in every aspect of choosing<br />

the best education for their children<br />

using their unbiased <strong>and</strong> impartial<br />

school reviews, alongside a host of<br />

articles advising on all aspects of<br />

school life. Find out more at www.<br />

goodschoolsguide.co.uk<br />

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Am<strong>and</strong>a Owen<br />

The yorkshire Shepherdess<br />

Tells us about her life in the Dales<br />

Known to millions as The Yorkshire<br />

Shepherdess, Am<strong>and</strong>a Owen is the author<br />

of five best-selling books about her life<br />

on Ravenseat ,one of the most remote<br />

farms in the country, where she lives with<br />

her husb<strong>and</strong> Clive <strong>and</strong> nine children. She<br />

currently stars in Channel 5’s popular TV<br />

show Our Yorkshire Farm <strong>and</strong> her latest<br />

book is Celebrating the Seasons includes<br />

stories, recipes <strong>and</strong> photos from the farm<br />

<strong>and</strong> is out now.<br />

I underst<strong>and</strong> that you had had no<br />

previous links to farming, may I ask<br />

how you became so involved in this line<br />

of work?<br />

I grew up in Huddersfield <strong>and</strong> no one in<br />

my family is from a farming background.<br />

I loved the James Herriot books when I<br />

was a child, <strong>and</strong> watched the TV series.<br />

Because of James Herriot I loved the idea<br />

of being a vet, probably like most other<br />

children of that era, but was told at school<br />

that I was not academic enough to make<br />

the grades. One day in the school library<br />

I picked up a book called Hill Shepherd.<br />

It was a photographic documentary of<br />

hill farming in Yorkshire <strong>and</strong> Cumbria.<br />

Reading that book was an epiphany for<br />

me, the pictures of the hill shepherds on<br />

the moors with the sheep made me realise<br />

it was where I wanted to be. It ticked the<br />

box of wanting to work with animals in<br />

the countryside <strong>and</strong> importantly it also<br />

ticked the rebellion box as it was so the<br />

opposite of my townie life up until then.<br />

Years later after I had married my husb<strong>and</strong><br />

Clive, we realised that there was actually a<br />

photograph of him in Hill Shepherd! So it’s<br />

a very important book to me.<br />

How did you learn your crafts? One of<br />

the many things I learnt from your book<br />

was how important it is to get the grass<br />

in - in good time.<br />

I started out as a farm h<strong>and</strong>, <strong>and</strong> then<br />

moved on to being a contract shepherd,<br />

working on different farms all over the<br />

country. But really, I learnt everything as I<br />

went along.<br />

Most of my crafts came through natural<br />

progression, learning to ride a horse<br />

by riding it, learning to clip a sheep by<br />

clipping my first one, learning to work a<br />

dog, by taking the dog out with me for the<br />

first time.<br />

You can only learn what to do by doing it,<br />

you have to get practical on the ground<br />

experience. Nothing comes close to<br />

learning how to be a shepherd, other than<br />

actually doing the work of a shepherd <strong>and</strong><br />

it’s not just about learning about sheep,<br />

it’s about learning about the l<strong>and</strong>.<br />

With the grass it starts with the sheep.<br />

You’ve got to have your sheep in good<br />

order - we grow hardy stock through the<br />

winter, so it’s absolutely vital that you grow<br />

your crop well, so they have food to eat<br />

throughout the winter.<br />

You enjoy sheep shearing - were you<br />

nervous when you cut your first fleece?<br />

Of course, but you know, you have to be<br />

nervous in order to be any good at what<br />

you’re doing. If you’re lambing sheep you<br />

are dealing with nature first h<strong>and</strong>, but<br />

there is no room for you to have time to<br />

be nervous as you have to get on with the<br />

job. It’s you alone in that moment <strong>and</strong> it’s<br />

not optional to be nervous. That pressure<br />

makes you work fast.<br />

The first time I clipped, I would clip the<br />

sheep while the professional shearers<br />

were having their dinner, <strong>and</strong> they<br />

would encourage me or discourage me<br />

depending on what I was doing, <strong>and</strong> then<br />

the more you do it you get faster. You<br />

keep practicing <strong>and</strong> eventually you will<br />

get there.<br />

How do you spread yourself between<br />

9 children - it must quite a noisy<br />

household at times?<br />

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means that there’s plenty of room for<br />

everybody to get some space outside. I<br />

enjoy the busyness <strong>and</strong> noise of family<br />

life in the house. But I can get away from<br />

it by walking out my front door. Plenty<br />

of people can’t as they leave their front<br />

door <strong>and</strong> if they live in a city, it’s still loud<br />

<strong>and</strong> busy when they get out. We’re lucky<br />

here to have the wide open spaces <strong>and</strong><br />

the kids spend a lot of time outdoors.<br />

We’re working farm <strong>and</strong> that means that<br />

everyone mucks in - no matter what<br />

the age, it could be collecting hen’s<br />

eggs, feeding the horses, or helping find<br />

uniforms for everyone, also cooking. Real<br />

dough is just as good as playdough <strong>and</strong><br />

the kids love learning to cook. The only<br />

time when we all come together is tea time<br />

at the farm, when we all come together to<br />

eat, it’s my favourite time of day, when I<br />

get to hear what everyone’s been up to on<br />

the farm <strong>and</strong> school.<br />

Your children must have a wonderful<br />

time <strong>and</strong> appear to have no fears with<br />

any of the animals. Do they each have a<br />

special one?<br />

I suppose they do. Quite a lot of the girls<br />

loves the horses. Violet loves the cows,<br />

she was excited recently that our pet cow,<br />

Ciara has now come in from the fields.<br />

Violet h<strong>and</strong> reared Ciara from a calf, so<br />

she thinks she belongs inside the house<br />

<strong>and</strong> doesn’t like the other cows. Miles is<br />

very taken with the hens <strong>and</strong> his flock of<br />

30 sheep. Through the winter <strong>and</strong> up to<br />

lambing time Miles looks after his flock of<br />

sheep after school. Sidney has his own<br />

dog, Nell a sheep dog <strong>and</strong> she runs for<br />

him, so that’s quite a big thing for a young<br />

lad to be able to work his own sheep dog.<br />

It’s a level up from being a pet. The terriers<br />

are wonderful they are real characters,<br />

they are source of frustration as they<br />

will have fights with each other, or they<br />

w<strong>and</strong>er off from the farm to the local pub<br />

quite a few miles away! The terriers, are<br />

Chalky <strong>and</strong> Sprout, sadly we lost Pippin at<br />

the beginning of lock down. Tony the pony<br />

(pictured above right) is loved by Annas,<br />

Clemmie <strong>and</strong> Nancy, they look after him,<br />

feed him, brush him <strong>and</strong> ride him. They<br />

also love the bigger horses Josie <strong>and</strong><br />

Princess. Princess is very good with the<br />

kids <strong>and</strong> often two of them ride her around<br />

the fields. They also like to take the horses<br />

down to the river <strong>and</strong> give them a bath<br />

<strong>and</strong> wash <strong>and</strong> comb their tails.<br />

Will any of them follow in your<br />

footsteps?<br />

Yeah, I think so, at the moment Miles <strong>and</strong><br />

Sidney are very keen on farming <strong>and</strong> Edith<br />

is a good shepherdess. That said I never<br />

place any expectation on any of them<br />

to follow me into being a farmer <strong>and</strong> a<br />

shepherd. You don’t know where life will<br />

take you. I’m not sitting here going: “I want<br />

you to be a shepherd”, because life goes<br />

through stages, <strong>and</strong> what you want to do<br />

changes, so I’d rather they make their own<br />

choices, they can do whatever they want<br />

to do. It’s a difficult thing to ask a child<br />

what they want to do with the rest of their<br />

life. They’ll figure it out as they go along.<br />

What is your favourite season <strong>and</strong> why?<br />

Summer. But really I mean June. June is<br />

my favourite month, because all the sheep<br />

have had lambs <strong>and</strong> been turned back<br />

out onto the moor <strong>and</strong> it’s before hay time<br />

<strong>and</strong> clipping, so there’s a lull <strong>and</strong> a pause<br />

in the farm work, <strong>and</strong> at the same time<br />

everything comes to life - the flowers, the<br />

birds on the moor. In June, the Curlews<br />

are back, as are the Lapwings, Golden<br />

Plover, Black Grouse. All you can hear<br />

is birds, wherever you’re walking. There<br />

are woodcock <strong>and</strong> snipe too - they are<br />

all ground nesting birds up here on the<br />

moor, so you get to see their nests as<br />

well - <strong>and</strong> it’s just beautiful. The flowers<br />

you see in June are marsh marigolds,<br />

globe flowers, all the hay meadow<br />

flowers, rare orchids - it’s really pretty.<br />

What made you decide to write this<br />

book? It is a delightful read <strong>and</strong> the<br />

recipes are a treat….<br />

Celebrating the Seasons, came about<br />

because I wanted to answer some of the<br />

most frequently ask questions, how do<br />

you cater for such a big family? Tell us<br />

about the practicalities? What do you<br />

cook? It was really difficult selecting<br />

recipes for the book. I wanted to include<br />

forgiving recipes. Recipes that it was<br />

totally fine to get distracted in the middle<br />

of <strong>and</strong> would still turn out good. Recipes<br />

that were achievable with the most<br />

basic of ingredients, simple feel good<br />

food, that was nutritionally good too. My<br />

absolute favourite is the Tagine recipe,<br />

it’s a people pleaser, for me its so easy<br />

<strong>and</strong> the smell always brings everyone<br />

to the kitchen - which is helpful! Every<br />

time I cook it it’s different, sometimes<br />

chick peas, sometimes wild rice, some<br />

times couscous - it always comes out<br />

slightly different each time. In addition<br />

to the recipes, people have told me they<br />

loved my photos <strong>and</strong> images of the farm<br />

that I post on twitter <strong>and</strong> would always<br />

suggest I do a photograph book. If you<br />

go back to basics it was a photography<br />

book - Hill Shepherd - that inspired me<br />

to become a shepherd. So it’s nice to<br />

go full circle. I know how inspiring a<br />

photography book can be - how it can<br />

really steer you <strong>and</strong> how a picture can<br />

tell a thous<strong>and</strong> words. I really hope that<br />

when people buy the book, that they<br />

look at the pictures over <strong>and</strong> over again<br />

<strong>and</strong> still find something new in them, as I<br />

have with Hill Shepherd.<br />

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about your life?<br />

I want people to know that Celebrating<br />

the Seasons is a book about going your<br />

own way. It’s not a blueprint for how you<br />

should live your life, it simply says this<br />

is what we do as a family this is how we<br />

do it, feel free to follow the recipes, or<br />

do them your own way. I want people<br />

to not let themselves to be stereotyped,<br />

to know that all things are achievable if<br />

you really want to do it. So many people<br />

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Tasty recipes from Am<strong>and</strong>a Owen<br />

Wild Mushroom Soup with<br />

Wood Sorrel & Hazelnut Pesto<br />

Prep time 10 minutes<br />

Cooking time 35 minutes<br />

Serves 4<br />

2 tbsp Yorkshire rapeseed oil, plus extra for<br />

garnish<br />

1 medium onion, finely chopped<br />

1 large clove garlic, crushed or grated<br />

450g wild mushrooms, such as yellow<br />

chanterelle, roughly chopped<br />

50ml Madeira or sweet sherry<br />

850ml hot vegetable stock<br />

3 sprigs fresh thyme<br />

200ml double cream<br />

1 tsp mushroom powder<br />

Salt <strong>and</strong> black pepper<br />

Pesto<br />

25g chopped toasted hazelnuts<br />

1 small bunch wood sorrel<br />

2 tbsp olive oil<br />

10g Parmesan<br />

Garnish<br />

H<strong>and</strong>ful of wild mushrooms<br />

Heat the oil in a large saucepan, add<br />

the onion <strong>and</strong> garlic <strong>and</strong> fry gently for 5<br />

minutes, until softened but not coloured.<br />

Next, add the mushrooms <strong>and</strong> fry on a<br />

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medium heat for 8 minutes, until they are<br />

golden.<br />

Pour the Madeira over the mushrooms <strong>and</strong><br />

cook on a high heat for about a minute until<br />

the alcohol evaporates.<br />

Lower the heat <strong>and</strong> pour in the hot stock,<br />

then add the sprigs of thyme. Bring to the<br />

boil then cover <strong>and</strong> simmer gently for 20<br />

minutes.<br />

Remove the pan from the heat, blitz with<br />

a h<strong>and</strong> blender or in a liquidizer until the<br />

soup is smooth. Return the soup to a clean<br />

pan, stir in the cream <strong>and</strong> sprinkle over the<br />

mushroom powder, then season the soup<br />

<strong>and</strong> gently reheat over a low heat.<br />

Meanwhile, place the pesto ingredients into<br />

a small food processor <strong>and</strong> blitz for a few<br />

seconds until combined. Add extra oil if the<br />

pesto is a little thick <strong>and</strong> season to taste.<br />

For the mushroom garnish, drizzle some<br />

oil in a small frying pan <strong>and</strong> gently fry the<br />

remaining mushrooms for a couple of<br />

minutes until golden.<br />

To serve, ladle the soup into warm bowls,<br />

scatter over the whole fried mushrooms,<br />

<strong>and</strong> top with a spoonful of pesto.<br />

Tip<br />

Try serving with homemade spelt bread.<br />

Moroccan Lamb Tagine with<br />

Jewelled Couscous<br />

Prep time 15 minutes<br />

Cooking time 1 hour 15 minutes<br />

Serves 4<br />

Tagine<br />

2 tbsp olive oil<br />

600g lamb shoulder, diced<br />

1 large onion, sliced<br />

2 cloves garlic, crushed<br />

1 tbsp ground cumin<br />

2 tsp ground cori<strong>and</strong>er<br />

1 tbsp hot smoked paprika<br />

40g tomato purée<br />

400g can cherry tomatoes<br />

1 cinnamon stick<br />

50g dried apricots, chopped<br />

2 large pieces orange peel<br />

285ml lamb stock<br />

1 small bunch cori<strong>and</strong>er, chopped<br />

Jewelled couscous<br />

200g couscous<br />

200ml hot vegetable stock<br />

1 red onion, chopped<br />

100g pomegranate seeds<br />

1 small bunch mint, leaves roughly chopped<br />

1 small bunch cori<strong>and</strong>er, chopped<br />

3 spring onions<br />

20g almonds, toasted<br />

Salt <strong>and</strong> black pepper<br />

Preheat the oven to 180°C/160°C fan/ gas 4.<br />

Heat 1 tablespoon of the oil in a large<br />

heatproof casserole dish, then add the<br />

lamb <strong>and</strong> sear <strong>and</strong> brown on all sides for<br />

about 5 minutes. Remove the lamb from<br />

the casserole dish with a slotted spoon <strong>and</strong><br />

set aside.<br />

Return the casserole dish to the heat <strong>and</strong><br />

add the remaining oil. When hot, add the<br />

onion <strong>and</strong> fry gently for approximately 8<br />

minutes until golden. Add the garlic <strong>and</strong> fry<br />

for a further minute.<br />

Sprinkle over the ground spices <strong>and</strong> stir<br />

in the tomato purée then fry for a further<br />

minute. Return the meat <strong>and</strong> any juices<br />

to the pan with the remaining Tagine<br />

ingredients (except the fresh cori<strong>and</strong>er),<br />

bring to the boil then cover with a lid <strong>and</strong><br />

transfer to the middle shelf of the oven.<br />

Cook for 1 hour, or until the meat is tender.<br />

Meanwhile, while the Tagine cooks, put the<br />

couscous into a bowl <strong>and</strong> pour over the<br />

hot vegetable stock. Cover the bowl tightly<br />

with cling film <strong>and</strong> set aside for 10 minutes<br />

until the couscous has absorbed the liquid.<br />

Season the couscous, then stir through<br />

the remaining ingredients, saving a few<br />

almonds <strong>and</strong> herbs to garnish.<br />

To serve the Tagine, remove the cinnamon<br />

stick <strong>and</strong> check seasoning, then sprinkle<br />

over the chopped cori<strong>and</strong>er. Serve in warm<br />

bowls with the jewelled couscous.<br />

Tip<br />

This recipe can also be cooked slowly in a<br />

Tagine over a barbecue.


And time for pudding...<br />

More tasty recipes from Am<strong>and</strong>a Owen<br />

Rhubarb & Custard Crumble Cake<br />

Prep time 15 minutes<br />

Cooking time 40 minutes<br />

Serves 4-6<br />

Rhubarb<br />

250g Yorkshire rhubarb, cut into 2cm<br />

chunks<br />

50g caster sugar<br />

Crumble<br />

50g plain flour<br />

25g butter, cut into cubes<br />

40g chopped mixed nuts<br />

25g demerara sugar<br />

Cake<br />

170g butter, softened, plus extra for<br />

greasing<br />

85g caster sugar<br />

85g soft brown sugar<br />

3 medium eggs, beaten<br />

1 tsp vanilla extract<br />

170g self-raising flour<br />

1 tsp baking powder<br />

30g custard powder<br />

Icing sugar to dust<br />

Custard to serve<br />

Preheat the oven to 180°C/160°C fan/gas<br />

Grease <strong>and</strong> line a 21cm round spring-form<br />

cake tin.<br />

Put the rhubarb into a saucepan <strong>and</strong><br />

sprinkle over the caster sugar. Heat very<br />

gently until the sugar dissolves into a syrup.<br />

Simmer for 6–8 minutes until the rhubarb<br />

just begins to soften. Set aside to cool.<br />

Meanwhile make the crumble. Place the<br />

flour into a mixing bowl <strong>and</strong> rub in the<br />

butter with your fingertips until it resembles<br />

breadcrumbs, then stir in the chopped nuts<br />

<strong>and</strong> sugar.<br />

Next make the cake. Beat the butter, caster<br />

sugar <strong>and</strong> soft brown sugar in a bowl using<br />

an electric mixer for 2–3 minutes, until light<br />

<strong>and</strong> fluffy. Add the eggs <strong>and</strong> vanilla extract<br />

with 2 tablespoons of the flour, beat for<br />

a minute until combined, then fold in the<br />

remaining flour, baking powder <strong>and</strong> custard<br />

powder.<br />

Drain any excess juices from the rhubarb<br />

<strong>and</strong> discard the syrup, then gently fold the<br />

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cooled rhubarb through the cake mixture.<br />

Transfer the cake batter to the prepared tin<br />

<strong>and</strong> gently smooth the top with a spatula.<br />

Sprinkle the crumble over the cake <strong>and</strong><br />

press down lightly with the back of a spoon,<br />

then bake on the middle shelf of the oven<br />

for 40 minutes, until the cake is golden, firm<br />

to touch, <strong>and</strong> when a skewer is inserted it<br />

comes out clean. Allow to cool slightly in the<br />

cake tin, then transfer to a plate.<br />

Dust lightly with icing sugar before serving<br />

warm with custard.<br />

Tip<br />

Also delicious served with ice cream or<br />

single cream.<br />

Hedgerow Nutty Crumble<br />

Prep time 10 minutes<br />

Cooking time 40 minutes<br />

Serves 4<br />

Fruit filling<br />

40g butter<br />

40g golden caster sugar<br />

2 Braeburn apples, peeled <strong>and</strong> sliced<br />

200g Bramley apples, peeled <strong>and</strong> sliced<br />

300g foraged berries or any mixed berries,<br />

such as blackberries <strong>and</strong> wild raspberries<br />

Crumble topping<br />

125g plain flour<br />

85g unsalted butter, diced<br />

85g demerara sugar<br />

50g rolled oats<br />

30g chopped toasted hazelnuts<br />

Custard or ice cream to serve<br />

Preheat the oven to 180°C/160°C fan/gas 4.<br />

For the fruit filling, melt the butter in a<br />

pan, add the sugar <strong>and</strong> apples <strong>and</strong> gently<br />

simmer for 5 minutes. Add the berries <strong>and</strong><br />

simmer for 2 minutes, then transfer to a<br />

23cm round oven-proof dish.<br />

Meanwhile prepare the crumble topping.<br />

Put the flour into a mixing bowl <strong>and</strong> rub<br />

in the butter with your fingertips, until the<br />

mixture resembles fine breadcrumbs. Stir<br />

in the sugar, oats <strong>and</strong> hazelnuts.<br />

Sprinkle the crumble topping over the<br />

fruit, then place the dish on the middle<br />

shelf of the oven. Bake for 30-35 minutes,<br />

until the crumb is golden <strong>and</strong> fruit<br />

bubbling.<br />

Allow to cool slightly before serving with<br />

custard or ice cream.<br />

Tip<br />

Try using other seasonal fruits such as<br />

damsons or gooseberries.


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ADVERTISING FEATURE<br />

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Buy To Let Hunter<br />

We caught up with one of our new clients, Neil Dickins,<br />

to show him around his new property...<br />

Within three weeks of the house purchase<br />

we did all external work identified by the<br />

survey as needing attention <strong>and</strong> internal<br />

beautification to bring it up to spec before<br />

the first guests arrived.<br />

Tell us a little about yourself?<br />

I fell in love with theatre whilst at<br />

McMaster Uni in Canada, <strong>and</strong> was told I<br />

must go to London. I duly came to study<br />

Shakespeare but became ensnared in<br />

the thorns of an English rose (the red of<br />

Lancashire version) <strong>and</strong> never left.<br />

What do you do?<br />

I founded Intellectual Capital Resources<br />

(IC Resources) 22 years ago to focus on<br />

‘deep tech’ recruitment (all the tech that’s<br />

in your phone, or a satellite, or an electric<br />

car….ie everything except IT). The<br />

company is now 70 people with offices<br />

in Reading, London, Munich, China <strong>and</strong><br />

the US.<br />

What were you hoping to achieve when<br />

making an investment with BTLH?<br />

I make very high risk, seed stage<br />

investments in tech companies, <strong>and</strong><br />

wanted an investment to balance my<br />

portfolio. Like all assets, property<br />

values fluctuate but the likely downside<br />

compared to stocks (or early stage<br />

companies!!) is lower.<br />

Why did you choose BTLH?<br />

For me the most critical word in seeking<br />

success is ‘niche’. I loved the niche,<br />

under-represented ‘mid-term let’ idea<br />

as outlined by Adrian. My due diligence<br />

consisted of meeting his business<br />

partners Alex <strong>and</strong> Lucy, who also<br />

impressed me greatly <strong>and</strong> convinced me<br />

that the company was solid <strong>and</strong> would<br />

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about the space that BTLH has carved<br />

out for itself is that it needs a particular<br />

kind of focus <strong>and</strong> attention, which I<br />

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underst<strong>and</strong> even if they try to emulate<br />

BTLH. The other reason, of course, is that<br />

the ROI makes sense.<br />

What has your experience been<br />

working with BTLH?<br />

Excellent from the outset. I’m 100%<br />

confident that the outst<strong>and</strong>ing service<br />

levels will continue. We’ve also rented<br />

the house out for an excellent mediumterm<br />

rental even before it has been listed,<br />

which I’m sure is a positive portent of<br />

things to come.<br />

Any advice to someone else who might<br />

find themselves in your situation?<br />

Call me to invest in some crazy risky early<br />

stage tech companies. Eschew sensible<br />

investments like BTLH!<br />

So… if you find yourself looking for an<br />

investment all piquant with crazy risk <strong>and</strong><br />

excitement, contact Neil Dickins direct<br />

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him to invest in some dodgy early stage<br />

tech companies – <strong>and</strong> if you feel more<br />

like Neil, then get in touch with BTLH <strong>and</strong><br />

see if we can find you a little gem like his<br />

so you can make a sensible investment.<br />

Neil’s parting words to us were: “I might<br />

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you guys…” You heard it here first!<br />

Can BTLH help you find the perfect<br />

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Ultimately you have to work with what<br />

you’ve got - in the last 18 months,<br />

many of us have seen our guest rooms<br />

overhauled into home offices. If you’ve<br />

ditched the bed don’t worry - how about<br />

adding an attractive sofa bed that you<br />

can actually use the rest of the time as a<br />

break out area from your desk.<br />

DO: PROVIDE BASIC<br />

AMENITIES<br />

The more things you can put in the room<br />

to make their stay easier, without having<br />

to ask you for everything, the more<br />

relaxed everyone will feel. A mirror is<br />

important, as are fresh towels, tissues,<br />

<strong>and</strong> perhaps even a hair dryer. A bedside<br />

carafe <strong>and</strong> some glasses means they can<br />

help themselves to water too.<br />

DO: INVEST IN<br />

GOOD WINDOW<br />

TREATMENTS<br />

As you might have never<br />

slept in this space, you<br />

might not know how<br />

light behaves or how<br />

effective the current<br />

window treatments are for<br />

blocking out light. For a<br />

really luxurious look, pair<br />

blackout blinds or shutters<br />

with thick, decorative<br />

drapery. Shutters give a lovely secure feel<br />

to a space <strong>and</strong> really finish the room.<br />

DON’T: SETTLE FOR A<br />

LUMPY MATTRESS<br />

The same goes for the mattress as the<br />

window treatments - spend a night in the<br />

room <strong>and</strong> see if the bed is up to scratch.<br />

DO: PROVIDE GOOD<br />

LIGHTING<br />

Multi-level lighting is key for making a<br />

space feel cosy - make sure there are<br />

two bedside lamps <strong>and</strong> then another<br />

light source in the space, such as a<br />

st<strong>and</strong>ing lamp in the corner or a lamp on<br />

a dressing table<br />

DON’T: SKIMP ON THE<br />

BED LINENS<br />

Good bed linen really is worth the money<br />

- <strong>and</strong> it tends to wash better too. Provide<br />

a good quality duvet <strong>and</strong> pillows, linens<br />

<strong>and</strong> some additional blankets if your<br />

guests feel the cold.<br />

DO: CREATE<br />

SOMEWHERE THEY CAN<br />

UNPACK<br />

We all know it’s a bit stressful trying to<br />

live out of a suitcase - allowing for some<br />

hanging space <strong>and</strong> a few drawers to<br />

unpack into, can really help guests keep<br />

on top of things whilst they’re with you.<br />

DO: MAKE IT SMELL<br />

LOVELY<br />

Kit the room out with either fresh flowers,<br />

a reed diffuser, or room sprays. Pillow<br />

spray to help deep sleep is also a lovely<br />

touch to make the space feel homely - we<br />

love Olverum’s new Restful Pillow Sleep<br />

Mist, £25, olverum.com<br />

DON’T: BE A<br />

PERFECTIONIST<br />

If your guests were hoping for hotel<br />

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have stayed. Just aim to make sure<br />

the space is clean, comfortable <strong>and</strong><br />

functional, then relax - there’s enough to<br />

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without adding high expectations on top<br />

of that.<br />

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Natural Ceramic Table Lamp,<br />

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Kilby Bedside<br />

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Design by Studio McGee<br />

Fingal 3 Seat<br />

Sofa, £1210,<br />

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Navy Seigaiha Wave Cushions £32 <strong>and</strong> Kayla Woven Cushion £31, hauslife.<br />

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Malibu Print, from £6.99, www.juniqe.co.uk<br />

Tulana Double Bed,<br />

£599, made.com<br />

Elowen Throw,<br />

£75, hauslife.co.uk<br />

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Bromley Chest, £399,<br />

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Black Branches Print, from £6.99,<br />

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Jute Effect Daylight Roller<br />

Blind, from £22, John Lewis<br />

Bedroom by Pure Salt Interiors<br />

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Limestone Wood Paint, £18<br />

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Dar Lighting<br />

NUS422, from £82,<br />

wtlighting.co.uk<br />

Furn Contra Olive Cushion,<br />

£25, www.persora.com<br />

London Bench, from £499,<br />

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Mala Pile Rug,<br />

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Reims, Iron/Metal Four Poster Bed Frame, from<br />

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Black Bud Vase, £29,<br />

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We may feel as if we have had ‘information<br />

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prevention <strong>and</strong> protection, but sometimes<br />

a product comes along that dem<strong>and</strong>s our<br />

attention - enter Leucillin. This is a skin<br />

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We spoke to Georgina Bashforth (pictured<br />

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First of all, in layman’s terms – what is<br />

Leucillin?<br />

Leucillin is a clever antiseptic applied to<br />

the skin topically to protect against harmful<br />

germs. Leucillin is a revolutionary fresh new<br />

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Leucillin mimics the body’s own immune<br />

system, providing you a powerful solution<br />

which delivers the ultimate shield in<br />

topical skin protection against harmful<br />

pathogens. Leucillin’s unique formulation<br />

does not contain any alcohol, steroids or<br />

antibiotics, it is the natural choice for safe<br />

skin sanitising.<br />

Our pets our so important to us, how<br />

is Leucillin used <strong>and</strong> what specific<br />

applications is it effective for?<br />

Leucillin has a great reputation for safety<br />

<strong>and</strong> efficacy, supported by pet healthcare,<br />

veterinary <strong>and</strong> grooming industries,<br />

this year. It has been awarded human<br />

approvals <strong>and</strong> begun an exciting new<br />

chapter in healthcare.<br />

Furthermore it can be safely applied in<br />

any topical application where the skin,<br />

ears <strong>and</strong> eyes need care, whether broken,<br />

red, sore, inflamed, cuts, stings, bites<br />

or grazes, Leucillin’s powerful antiseptic<br />

properties eradicate germs on contact<br />

creating the perfect environment for rapid<br />

recovery.<br />

For children, as well as our pets, it’s<br />

“Ouch Free” formula is kind, it has been<br />

developed to match the natural pH of skin<br />

so no more wincing on that grazed knee.<br />

It seems to be a very gentle solution<br />

to a number of particularly stubborn<br />

problems - can it be used long-term?<br />

Leucillin achieves an unbeatable<br />

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the 99.99% which we think is good? Well;<br />

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Fast effective pathogen reduction means<br />

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always effective <strong>and</strong> no harmful ingredients<br />

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And finally, how else can it be used <strong>and</strong><br />

what are your hopes for the product<br />

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Our goal is to help alleviate the dependence<br />

on antibiotics <strong>and</strong> pharmaceutical<br />

intervention in the area of germ protection,<br />

for a more natural, safe, non-invasive <strong>and</strong><br />

most importantly effective alternative.<br />

During the p<strong>and</strong>emic Leucillin has been<br />

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We have also recently teamed up with The<br />

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HOUSING-WITH-CARE<br />

Allowing older people to live where they want to live<br />

Imagine you’re an older person in your<br />

70s, approaching your later years <strong>and</strong><br />

perhaps in need of more support soon,<br />

but still with so much to give, so many<br />

talents to unlock, so many friends to<br />

make. You’re thinking about moving<br />

from the family home you’ve lived in<br />

for years to somewhere which provides<br />

security <strong>and</strong> care if <strong>and</strong> when you need<br />

it, but which also allows you to keep<br />

your independence <strong>and</strong> connections to<br />

the local community, <strong>and</strong> which has a<br />

range of activities <strong>and</strong> facilities to keep<br />

you busy.<br />

It’s this middle ground, this golden<br />

mean, combining independence with<br />

care <strong>and</strong> support, which housing-withcare<br />

settings across the country are<br />

offering to older people in increasing<br />

numbers. Sometimes called retirement<br />

communities, retirement villages or extra<br />

care housing, these settings give older<br />

people the opportunity to rent or own<br />

a flat or apartment, on a site with 24/7<br />

staffing, high-quality care provision if<br />

needed, <strong>and</strong> facilities like restaurants,<br />

bars, cafes, gyms, activity rooms <strong>and</strong><br />

much more.<br />

While long-st<strong>and</strong>ing options for older<br />

people like care homes <strong>and</strong> traditional<br />

retirement housing will continue to have<br />

a vital place, there is a growing need<br />

for middle options like housing-withcare<br />

which allow older people to stay<br />

independent <strong>and</strong> healthy for longer.<br />

The evidence is clear: housing-withcare<br />

improves health <strong>and</strong> well-being,<br />

drastically cuts down hospital <strong>and</strong> GP<br />

visits, <strong>and</strong> reduces feelings of loneliness.<br />

Not only do older people themselves<br />

benefit, but so too does the NHS <strong>and</strong><br />

whole social care system.<br />

Housing-with-care settings can be in<br />

either rural or urban locations, giving<br />

older people the chance to choose the<br />

lifestyle they want. Often, they are closely<br />

connected with the town centre, <strong>and</strong><br />

people of different ages are able to use<br />

the facilities at the retirement community<br />

<strong>and</strong> mix with older residents. Far from<br />

being ghettos of the elderly, housingwith-care<br />

settings can be hubs of<br />

intergenerational connection.<br />

ARCO’s role as the representative body<br />

for the housing-with-care sector is to help<br />

our members provide the best possible<br />

service to their older residents, <strong>and</strong> to<br />

ensure the sector thrives <strong>and</strong> grows in<br />

the way that it should. An important part<br />

of ARCO’s work is helping members<br />

set high st<strong>and</strong>ards through the ARCO<br />

Consumer Code, a new edition of<br />

which was launched in September this<br />

year. The code upholds the principles<br />

of transparency <strong>and</strong> fairness, giving<br />

customers <strong>and</strong> residents confidence that<br />

housing-with-care operators achieve<br />

high levels of consumer protection in<br />

everything from marketing, sales <strong>and</strong><br />

lettings, <strong>and</strong> resident relations.<br />

Because, ultimately, housing-with-care is<br />

all about the residents. About responding<br />

to the growing dem<strong>and</strong> from older<br />

people for housing options that combine<br />

independent, active living with care<br />

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ADVERTISING FEATURE<br />

Separating from your spouse?<br />

Sue Andrews, family partner, B P Collins, firmly believes that letting the courts<br />

decide on child arrangements <strong>and</strong> finances should be a last resort. Here she explains<br />

some pitfalls <strong>and</strong> other options available if you’re thinking of separating...<br />

A recent Channel 4 survey on the family<br />

courts <strong>and</strong> the resolution of arrangements<br />

for children reported that:<br />

• Among those whose cases had<br />

concluded, over 70% of mothers<br />

<strong>and</strong> fathers were unhappy with the<br />

outcome.<br />

• 67% of parents agreed or strongly<br />

agreed that their children’s<br />

mental health had been affected<br />

by participation in the court<br />

proceedings.<br />

• Court proceedings were reported to<br />

have taken on average 18 months<br />

to complete, with 1 in 10 cases<br />

lasting more than 5 years.<br />

• The average cost of proceedings<br />

was said to be around £13,000,<br />

though 1 in 20 claimed they had<br />

spent over £100,000.<br />

These findings demonstrate why court<br />

proceedings should be a last resort for<br />

separating couples. They are a blunt<br />

instrument which can be clumsy, lengthy<br />

<strong>and</strong> costly. Where possible, couples<br />

should aim to reach an agreement/<br />

compromise acceptable to them both<br />

since how you deal with the issues,<br />

as well as the outcome, will affect you<br />

<strong>and</strong> your children for many years to<br />

come, <strong>and</strong> for some people, a lifetime.<br />

Communication, which includes listening,<br />

is key. Where feelings are running high,<br />

counselling can help a couple deal with<br />

the emotional fallout of the separation<br />

<strong>and</strong> how <strong>and</strong> what to communicate to<br />

their children.<br />

Giving each other time to come to terms<br />

with what is a complete life-change<br />

is likely to help, as is respecting each<br />

other. This, <strong>and</strong> remembering what<br />

brought you together, should prevent<br />

the adoption of extreme <strong>and</strong> polarised<br />

positions, <strong>and</strong> instead enable, at least,<br />

some underst<strong>and</strong>ing of a former partner’s<br />

viewpoint – which may be driven by fear,<br />

grief <strong>and</strong> uncertainty.<br />

It is also essential, if a good ending is<br />

to be achieved, to be honest with each<br />

other both about why the marriage has<br />

broken down as well as about finances<br />

<strong>and</strong> future plans.<br />

What if direct communication is<br />

difficult?<br />

If direct communication is difficult, then<br />

discussions in mediation can be helpful,<br />

since a mediator will help to neutralise<br />

the discussion by reducing the emotion<br />

in the room <strong>and</strong>, where the issues are<br />

the child arrangements, ensuring that the<br />

needs of children are the key focus.<br />

If a determination by a third party is<br />

needed, arbitration can be considered as<br />

an alternative to the court process. While<br />

the arbitrator’s fee is an additional cost, it<br />

can be less expensive <strong>and</strong> quicker than<br />

the courts in the long run, because it can<br />

enable a more streamlined procedure<br />

involving fewer hearings. The arbitrator<br />

will be an experienced family lawyer<br />

selected by both former partners, who<br />

will set aside the whole time allocated, to<br />

deal with your matter, rather than having<br />

to juggle a number of matters as a judge<br />

usually has to do. An arbitrator’s decision<br />

is final, in the same way as a court<br />

decision, with both being subject to very<br />

limited grounds for appeal.<br />

If the issue is about child arrangements<br />

thought could be given to the instruction<br />

of an independent social worker (ISW).<br />

In many such cases, a report from<br />

CAFCASS (Children <strong>and</strong> Family Court<br />

Advisory Service) will be ordered by<br />

the courts, however the time allocated,<br />

<strong>and</strong> resources available to them, is<br />

often too limited to comprehensively<br />

investigate <strong>and</strong> assess the family<br />

involved <strong>and</strong> get to grips with the issues<br />

<strong>and</strong> the inter-family relationships. So,<br />

again, while the instruction of an ISW<br />

will involve an additional cost, they<br />

will be able to provide a thorough <strong>and</strong><br />

detailed assessment to the court <strong>and</strong><br />

to the parents, which could facilitate an<br />

agreement <strong>and</strong> the suspension of the<br />

court proceedings.<br />

In short, only consider court proceedings<br />

after other avenues have been explored<br />

or where absolutely necessary, since the<br />

court process will mean that you both<br />

will no longer be in charge of the final<br />

decision, which, according to Channel 4’s<br />

survey, only 30% of parents were happy<br />

with.<br />

For professional advice <strong>and</strong> support,<br />

please contact B P Collins’ family partner,<br />

Sue Andrews on 01753 279046 /<br />

01844 397397 or email<br />

sue.<strong>and</strong>rews@bpcollins.co.uk.<br />

B P Collins can also help if you are<br />

a victim of domestic violence <strong>and</strong><br />

direct communication is not possible.<br />

Support is also available by calling the<br />

National Domestic Abuse Helpline on<br />

0808 2000 247.<br />

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