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Contents <strong>November</strong> <strong>2021</strong><br />

THE VICAR'S LETTER, 5<br />

THE PARISH NOTICEBOARD<br />

— Songs of Praise, 7<br />

— View from the pews, 7<br />

— STAY, 9-11<br />

— All Souls Service, 11<br />

— Remembrance Sunday, 11<br />

— Fire Alarm, 11<br />

— Christmas Fayre, 11<br />

— Toy Service, 11<br />

— For your prayers, 11<br />

— On Reflection: Habakkuk, 13<br />

— From the editor's desk, 13<br />

— <strong>The</strong> Persecuted Church, 15<br />

features<br />

— 100 poppy years, 17<br />

— Remembering the forgotten, 19<br />

— What Advent means, 21<br />

— COP26, 22-24<br />

— Fire Brigade Trust, 24-25<br />

around the villages<br />

— Food Bank crisis, 27<br />

— Girls at Blue Coat, 27<br />

— New name for Sunrise, 27<br />

— Art Group success, 29<br />

— Sonning Show winners, 29<br />

— School open days, 29<br />

— Sonning arts centre, 29<br />

— Charvil female voices, 29<br />

history, 31<br />

HEALTH<br />

— Dr Simon Ruffle, 33<br />

HOME & GARDEN<br />

— Recipe of the Month, 35<br />

— In the Garden, 35<br />

the sciences<br />

— Faith in science, 37<br />

THE ARTS<br />

— El Greco's Saviour, 37<br />

— Book Reviews, 38<br />

— Poetry Corner, 38<br />

PUZZLE PAGE, 39<br />

children's page, 41<br />

information<br />

— Church services, 3<br />

— From the registers, 3<br />

— <strong>Parish</strong> contacts, 42<br />

— Advertisers index, 42<br />

This ISSUE's FRONT COVER<br />

<strong>November</strong> <strong>2021</strong> — Remembrance<br />

<strong>The</strong><br />

<strong>Parish</strong><br />

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the church of st andrew, SERVING THE COMMUNITIES OF<br />

CHARVIL, SONNING and sonning eye SINCE THE 7 th CENTURY<br />

Lord Carey preaches at Songs of Praise<br />

Picture: Indy Biddulph<br />

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Services at<br />

St Andrew’s<br />

Sunday 7 <strong>November</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10.30am Family Service<br />

— 4.00pm All Souls Thanksgiving<br />

for the faithful departed<br />

Remembrance Sunday<br />

14 <strong>November</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10.30am Remembrance Service<br />

Sunday 21 <strong>November</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10.30am Family Communion<br />

— 3.00pm Messy Church in<br />

<strong>The</strong> Ark<br />

Advent Sunday 28 <strong>November</strong><br />

— 8.00am Holy Communion<br />

— 10.30am <strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist<br />

— 6.00pm Sunday at Six in <strong>The</strong> Ark<br />

OTHER REGULAR SERVICES<br />

Mid-week Communion in <strong>The</strong> Ark is<br />

held every Wednesday at 10.00am<br />

Morning Prayer will be in Church<br />

at 9.30am every Tuesday and once a<br />

month on the first Friday<br />

Compline on Zoom is sung every<br />

Wednesday evening — full details<br />

about how to login from Rev Kate<br />

(contact details on page 42)<br />

Home Communion at Sunrise of<br />

Sonning is held on the first Friday<br />

of each month at 10.30am. Visitors<br />

must comply with the care home's<br />

Covid restrictions so please check with<br />

Sunrise a few days before beforehand.<br />

From the registers<br />

baptisms<br />

— Sunday 12 September, Leo Thomas Monk<br />

— Sunday 12 September, Charlotte Elizabeth Scandrett<br />

weddings<br />

— Saturday 18 September, Jack Alexander Whitfield and Eleanor Jane Fry<br />

— Saturday 25 September, Andrew John Page and Lucy Rose Wigmore<br />

funerals<br />

— Saturday 4 September, David John Stewart Duvall, memorial service with<br />

interment of ashes<br />

— Tuesday 7 September, Jeremy Nicholas Rixon, interment of ashes<br />

— Tuesday 14 September, Reo Muir funeral in church followed by cremation at<br />

Reading Crematorium<br />

— Saturday 18 September, Sheila Diane Siney, interment of ashes in churchyard<br />

— Saturday 25 September, Tanya Niland, memorial service with interment of ashes


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DEAR FRIENDS,<br />

It has been said that people are the sums of their memories. This season<br />

of Remembrance is, in part, about the memories that we hold within<br />

us. Some have memories of active service. Some might have memories<br />

of the loved and lost. Some recall memories of civilian life during<br />

wartime. Others may have evidenced a long commitment to peace and<br />

reconciliation. Each of us brings different memories and thoughts to our<br />

season of Remembrance, which helps to make it more comprehensive.<br />

I know of some in this parish who lived through the Blitz. Some served<br />

in the forces. Some of us remember when nowhere on mainland Britain<br />

was safe from IRA bombs. We have all been aware of the Islamist attacks<br />

in Britain and mainland Europe in recent years. Whatever our memories<br />

of war and conflict we acknowledge them in this season. We cannot<br />

hide from what we might choose to forget at other times. During the<br />

Remembrance season we all bring very different and diverse memories.<br />

With those memories, we also bring different and complex emotions.<br />

It is easy to romanticise memories of war, especially for those of us<br />

who never lived through it. Many films turn into humour that which<br />

was devastating. Dad’s Army makes everything look funny and almost<br />

something that we would have wanted to be a part of. <strong>The</strong> nostalgia<br />

industry produces cookery books based on the ration. <strong>The</strong> Blitz can<br />

make us think of camaraderie and singing songs deep in shelters on tube<br />

station platforms. We can begin to think people might have enjoyed<br />

it. Of course, it wasn’t like that. <strong>The</strong> horrors of the Blitz led to the<br />

destruction of cathedrals, such as Coventry and for that matter Dresden,<br />

and to the destruction of countless ordinary people’s homes. For those<br />

of us who never lived through the Blitz, it’s impossible to imagine<br />

what it was like to emerge from air raid shelters and find whole streets<br />

destroyed.<br />

Sadly, some people misunderstand what Remembrance Sunday and the<br />

poppy appeal is about which leads to misguided and ignorant virtue<br />

signalling stances. When we meet in church on that sacred day, we<br />

remember all those people who have died in the pursuit of freedom<br />

and goodness. We acknowledge publicly and before God that countless<br />

people have lost their lives for us, for our freedom and for others and<br />

their freedom. We also shall pray for all who suffer and have suffered as<br />

a result of war.<br />

It would be a mistake for us to think that Remembrance is simply about<br />

the past, about what has happened. Our remembrance is not simply<br />

something in the past, but something that we make present here and<br />

now as we realise the significance for each of us. Whoever, whatever,<br />

wherever our thoughts turn to during this season, we acknowledge love<br />

laying down its life for others and we recognise that there is no greater<br />

thing that one can do than lose one’s life in the defence of freedom.<br />

'At the going down of the sun, and in the morning, we will remember them'.<br />

Warm wishes,<br />

Jamie<br />

DIVERSE MEMORIES<br />

IMPOSSIBLE MEMORIES<br />

FREEDOM AND GOODNESS<br />

NO GREATER THING


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Songs of Praise<br />

We raised the roof in songs of praise<br />

on Sunday 12 September with the 10<br />

top favourite hymns, as chosen by<br />

the congregation. <strong>The</strong> preacher was<br />

the 103rd Archbishop of Canterbury,<br />

the Rt Revd and Rt Hon Lord Carey,<br />

who also blessed the new organ, and<br />

the Rt Hon <strong>The</strong>resa May MP and<br />

Sir Philip, as joint patrons, formerly<br />

launched our new choral foundation.<br />

Our choirs were joined by the choir<br />

of Papplewick Prep School and<br />

friends of our former director of<br />

music, including the former Lord<br />

Chancellor, the Rt Hon Sir David<br />

Liddington MP. A special collection,<br />

totalling £656, was taken to support<br />

the Karun School and Orphanage,<br />

South India.<br />

Above: Songs of Praise images by Indy Biddulph<br />

YOUR TOP TEN FAVOURITE HYMNS<br />

1. O Lord my God, when I in awesome wonder<br />

2. And did those feet in ancient time<br />

3. Guide me, O thou great Redeemer<br />

4. Dear Lord and Father of mankind<br />

5. In Christ alone my hope is found<br />

6. Eternal Father, strong to save,<br />

7. <strong>The</strong> day thou gavest Lord has ended<br />

8. My song is love unknown<br />

9. Glorious things of thee are spoken<br />

10. Be thou my vision, O Lord of my heart;<br />

Thanksgiving services<br />

we will remember . . .<br />

By Claude Masters<br />

On the evening of Sunday 12<br />

September 'Songs of Praise' attracted<br />

a large congregation who joined<br />

with the St Andrew's senior and<br />

junior choirs, and a visiting choir<br />

from Ascot, to heartily sing 10 of<br />

our favourite hymns chosen by the<br />

parishioners. After such a long<br />

period of Covid-disrupted worship,<br />

it was a truly memorable, and very<br />

joyful, occasion.<br />

<strong>The</strong> main organiser of the event<br />

was our recently retired director<br />

of music, Chris Goodwin, who<br />

conducted the singing with his<br />

newly appointed successor, Hannah<br />

Towndrow, at the new electronic<br />

organ which played a central role in<br />

the proceedings.<br />

Lord Carey of Clifton, the retired<br />

103rd Archbishop of Canterbury,<br />

and always a very welcome visitor at<br />

St Andrew's, officially dedicated the<br />

new organ to God's service.<br />

In his sermon Lord Carey<br />

congratulated the choir for their<br />

fine rendering of the John Rutter<br />

anthem Look at the world and spoke<br />

about the hardships of the Covid<br />

pandemic comparing it with Hitler's<br />

attempt to get rid of us in the 1940’s.<br />

He also pointed out that the hymns<br />

we were singing had originated in<br />

many different denominations of the<br />

worldwide Christian faith.<br />

FOUNDATION<br />

A substantial part of the cost of<br />

the new electronic organ was raised<br />

by personal donations from many<br />

of the congregation present and to<br />

celebrate this Sir Philip and <strong>The</strong>resa<br />

May ceremonially unveiled a large<br />

'organ stop board' that will be placed<br />

in St Andrew's as a permanent<br />

reminder of everyone's generosity.<br />

Sir Philip and <strong>The</strong>resa May also<br />

went on to inaugurate a new 'Choral<br />

Foundation' that will encourage<br />

young, would be, church musicians<br />

to develop their skills by giving<br />

them both financial support and the<br />

opportunity to learn and develop<br />

their art. Managing the foundation<br />

will be a key part of Hannah<br />

Towndrow's new role as director of<br />

music.<br />

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Claude's<br />

view<br />

from<br />

the<br />

pew<br />

David Duvall RIP<br />

<strong>The</strong> Songs of Praise evening came<br />

just eight days after we had been<br />

treated to another very memorable<br />

thanksgiving service that also<br />

focussed on the church organ, or<br />

rather a previous organist.<br />

One would not normally refer to a<br />

memorial service as a happy event but<br />

that of David Duvall, our esteemed<br />

former organist and choir master, must<br />

be an exception; and that is how he<br />

would have wanted it.<br />

Eulogies by his two sons brought<br />

forth expressions of delight and mirth<br />

from the congregation and a former<br />

incumbent of St Andrew’s, Bishop<br />

Christopher Morgan, followed with<br />

a resume of David's life and of the<br />

time when they served together in the<br />

parish.<br />

A large number of folk came<br />

to church at 2pm on a Saturday to<br />

remember a man who made the world a<br />

better place for his having been in it.<br />

For many of us there, the service<br />

was also the first time that we heard<br />

our newly appointed, 24 year old<br />

director of music Hannah Towndrow at<br />

the keyboard. She impressed from the<br />

start as she almost imperceptibly began<br />

to play during the congregational chat<br />

before the service, gradually increasing<br />

the volume as the choir and clergy<br />

entered, culminating as the bishop<br />

took his seat.<br />

<strong>The</strong> committal of David’s ashes<br />

in the church yard was not without<br />

its moment; the hole was a little too<br />

deep for the casket to be respectfully<br />

placed in it, so, rather appropriately, his<br />

remains were laid to rest over a couple<br />

of old hymn books — a worthy tribute<br />

to a much loved long serving organist!


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STAY on Friday<br />

With STAY on Friday starting back<br />

on 10 September we didn’t waste<br />

any time getting straight into fun<br />

activities. With the darker nights<br />

we’ve also been able to play some<br />

Harry Potter based games in <strong>The</strong> Ark<br />

grounds. We have also re-opened<br />

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sessions. Rocky road (right) was the<br />

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being a teaching assistant (TA) in<br />

the classroom. <strong>The</strong> amazing thing<br />

is that the one-to-one mentoring<br />

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she said 'it's all down to the input<br />

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— What’s good and bad about them?<br />

— What makes a relationship work?<br />

— How we foster healthy relationships<br />

across our lives?<br />

— We also have Janice (a made up<br />

character) to help us (photo below).<br />

Plus we will be looking at the<br />

relationships Jesus had and how<br />

he maintained healthy boundaries<br />

across all the different relationships<br />

he had.<br />

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STAY at Sonning Show<br />

On 11 September we had the privilege of joining in with the community<br />

at the Sonning Show. We took along our church gazebo, a tub of sweets,<br />

loads of flyers and some games, including, kubb, connect four and quoits.<br />

Every young person, child, parent and grandparent had a go at winning a<br />

sweet by knocking over the kubbs. Plus they all took flyers of what’s on at St<br />

Andrew's church. From STAY on Friday, to Sunday at 6 and Messy Church to<br />

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STAY<br />

St<br />

from page 9<br />

STAY Detached Project<br />

Our detached project continues<br />

to grow and take shape. This term<br />

we are giving a focus to Charvil on<br />

Thursdays. We start at Nisa shop,<br />

then head to East Park Farm and<br />

finish at the sports courts. We are<br />

regularly seeing around 35-40 young<br />

people each week and have positive<br />

conversations, play games and give<br />

away prizes. It is a highlight of my<br />

week!<br />

Westy’s Training<br />

With the rise of poor mental health<br />

among young people I decided to get<br />

myself on a youth mental health first<br />

aid course. It was a two day course<br />

and looked at topics such as: self<br />

harm, suicide, anxiety, depression,<br />

eating disorders and psychosis. I am<br />

by no means an expert but I hope it<br />

goes some way to me being available<br />

to help where I can with young<br />

people and parents struggling in this<br />

area. Let me know if I can help in any<br />

way.<br />

I was also able to bag a place<br />

at the Oxford Diocese Chaplaincy<br />

Conference at Christ Church<br />

Cathedral in Oxford. We heard good<br />

news stories and best practice from<br />

prison chaplains, hospital chaplains,<br />

armed forces chaplains and of<br />

course a whole section on schools<br />

chaplaincy. It was amazing to be<br />

among like minded people, wanting<br />

to share the love of Jesus in all areas<br />

of society. <strong>The</strong> best bit was walking<br />

up the stairs actually used in the<br />

making of Harry Potter (picture on<br />

previous page) and eating lunch in<br />

the dining hall (above) that gave the<br />

inspiration to Hogwarts dining hall!<br />

Keep in touch!<br />

Feel free to get in touch to chat,<br />

share ideas or if you would like any<br />

help with young people in any way,<br />

please let me know on 0794 622 4106<br />

or youthminister@sonningparish.org.uk<br />

Cheers<br />

Westy!<br />

Notices (continued)<br />

All Souls Service for the Faithful<br />

Departed — 7 <strong>November</strong> at 4pm<br />

Our Annual All Souls Service of<br />

Thanksgiving the Faithful Departed<br />

is on Sunday 7 <strong>November</strong> at 4pm,<br />

followed by drinks. During the service<br />

you will have the opportunity to light<br />

a candle for a departed loved one and<br />

join with other bereaved families in<br />

thanking God for the lives of departed<br />

loved ones. If you would like to have<br />

your departed loved one mentioned<br />

while the candles are being lit please<br />

give their name to us on arrival.<br />

Following the service the ministry<br />

team will be available to chat over a<br />

drink.<br />

Remembrance Sunday<br />

At the time of writing the intention<br />

is that the service will go ahead as<br />

normal at 10.30am. If the situation<br />

changes, we will pass the news on via<br />

the parish website and social media.<br />

For your prayers in <strong>November</strong><br />

— <strong>The</strong> work of the Royal British Legion<br />

— All who still live with the scars of war<br />

— All struggling with their mental health<br />

— <strong>The</strong> work of the Woodley Food Bank<br />

Fire alarm<br />

Recent advice from the Fire Brigade<br />

was that our church should have<br />

a monitored fire detector system.<br />

Westronics Ltd have now installed this,<br />

along with our existing security alarm<br />

system and we are most grateful to the<br />

Sonning Volunteer Fire Brigade Trust<br />

(see page 25) who have made a grant<br />

of £4,000 towards the total cost of<br />

around £8,000.<br />

Christmas Fayre<br />

Because of ongoing uncertainty with<br />

Covid we have decided not to hold a<br />

Victorian Christmas Fayre this year.<br />

Family Toy and Gift Service<br />

During the 10.30am Family Service<br />

on Sunday 5 December we will be<br />

accepting donations of toys and gifts<br />

for the Reading Family Aid Appeal as<br />

well as lighting the Christmas tree<br />

and meeting St Nicholas!<br />

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On reflection . . .<br />

Habakkuk: Why?<br />

By Elizabeth Spiers<br />

<strong>The</strong> fresco of prophet Habakkuk at Chiesa di San Guseppe Church<br />

Jozef Sedmak, dreamstime.com<br />

<strong>The</strong> book of Habakkuk the prophet is like a transcript<br />

of a conversation most of us have wanted to have with<br />

God at some point. Although it was written about 2,600<br />

years ago, it is surprisingly relevant today. Habakkuk is<br />

full of questions about what is going on around him: Why<br />

do the wicked prosper? Why isn’t justice valued? And<br />

most of all, why does God, who is righteous, allow it to go<br />

on without taking action?<br />

Habakkuk was speaking at a time when evil nations<br />

were oppressing Israel and conquering their land. He was<br />

wondering where was God? Hadn’t he promised them the<br />

land forever? It’s God’s inaction that frustrates Habakkuk.<br />

He wants God to rise up and help his people. And he’s<br />

cross that God doesn’t even seem to be listening.<br />

It’s no different today. Injustice, crime, bad things<br />

happening to good people, evil people prospering. Human<br />

nature doesn’t really change. All of us have scars from<br />

being hurt in some way and all of us say: 'Why, God?<br />

Where are you? Why aren’t you doing something?'<br />

God makes several statements against the enemy,<br />

listing their sins — violence, pride, greed, idolatry — and<br />

promises Habakkuk that he will demand justice for this.<br />

RIGHTEOUSNESS ONLY FROM GOD<br />

In chapter 2 verse 4 Habakkuk says 'See the enemy is<br />

puffed up, his desires are not upright, but the righteous<br />

will live by faith.'<br />

This is a very important principle. <strong>The</strong> righteous person<br />

will live and won’t have to face God’s judgement. Think<br />

about that — God so loved the world that he gave his only<br />

begotten Son, that whoever believes in him will not perish but<br />

have eternal life. Only God can make us righteous and only<br />

then if we choose to accept him as our Lord.<br />

Habakkuk realises that this is true. He understands<br />

that while evil seems to thrive, and God seems silent and<br />

unresponsive, in fact, he has a plan and always works out<br />

justice — eventually. And he finishes his conversation<br />

with a prayer of praise to God which ends like this:<br />

Yet I will wait patiently for the day of calamity to come on the<br />

nation invading us. Though the fig tree does not bud and there are<br />

no grapes on the vines, though the olive crop fails and the fields<br />

produce no food, though there are no sheep in the pen and no cattle<br />

in the stalls, yet I will rejoice in the Lord, I will be joyful in God my<br />

Saviour. <strong>The</strong> Sovereign Lord is my strength; He makes my feet like<br />

the feet of a deer, he enables me to tread on the heights.<br />

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From the desk<br />

of the editor<br />

editor@theparishmagazine.co.uk<br />

Where has the local<br />

contacts list gone?<br />

Three years ago I decided to overhaul the local<br />

organisations contact list we have published each<br />

month for as long as anyone can remember. <strong>The</strong> list<br />

had contact details for local clubs, groups, societies<br />

and organisations, as well as the local and county<br />

councillors and political associations. <strong>The</strong> update was<br />

necessary because I was aware that many of the contact<br />

details were incorrect — new people had taken over the<br />

leadership of the various groups, and the rules regarding<br />

privacy meant that I needed written permission to use<br />

telephone numbers and email addresses. A fresh start<br />

was necessary.<br />

In the December 2018 issue of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> I<br />

removed the list and used the entire half page that it<br />

occupied to announce my plan to create a revised list. I<br />

asked all groups to send me the current contact details<br />

and the necessary permission.<br />

After a few weeks I received three updates, which was<br />

surprising because there were 70 contacts on the original<br />

list. I left it a couple of months to see if I received any<br />

further response, but there was none.<br />

Eventually, I decided to make use of the extra space<br />

by introducing a puzzle page which I know that many<br />

readers now enjoy.<br />

A STRANGE COINCIDENCE<br />

Strangely, a few weeks ago, in the same week, I<br />

received telephone calls from two different people asking<br />

where in the magazine was the list of club contacts? To<br />

my knowledge, it was the first time in three years that<br />

anyone had wanted to use the list that I inherited when I<br />

took over the magazine in 2013.<br />

Creating, and keeping such a list up-to-date, is an<br />

extremely time-consuming exercise, especially as those<br />

who appear on it rarely pass on updates when they hand<br />

over to someone else, and most people nowadays prefer<br />

to do an internet search to find the information they<br />

need on the club's website. <strong>The</strong>refore, I have no plans to<br />

reinstate the local organisations contacts list.<br />

On the other hand, I am always more than happy to<br />

support our local groups, clubs and organisations on the<br />

'Around the Villages' pages and whenever possible I will<br />

include information about where and when you meet and<br />

who to speak to for more information.<br />

<strong>The</strong> deadline for your stories and pictures is always<br />

12 noon on the sixth day of the month prior to the<br />

publication date. Hence the deadline for the December<br />

issue is Saturday 6 <strong>November</strong> at 12 noon.<br />

<strong>The</strong> 12 noon deadline is very strict because within a<br />

few hours of this I aim to complete the layout for the issue<br />

so we can begin the proof reading process.


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<strong>The</strong> Persecuted Church: Nobel Peace Prize Nominee Juliana Taimoorazy by Colin Bailey<br />

'She has brought hope where there was despair, she has engendered faith where<br />

there was distrust, and she has brought love where there was indifference'<br />

Juliana Taimoorazy is the founder of the Iraqi Christian Relief Council (ICRC).<br />

For over 15 years, Juliana and ICRC have been at the forefront of humanitarian<br />

and advocacy efforts related to Christians in Iraq and the region. <strong>The</strong>re was a<br />

two-part article featuring an interview with Juliana in the April and May 2020<br />

issue of '<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>'. By the time this issue is published, the <strong>2021</strong> Nobel<br />

Peace Prize award winner will be known — the Award ceremony is scheduled to<br />

take place in Oslo on 10 December <strong>2021</strong>.<br />

ICRC’s mission is to educate people<br />

around the globe about Iraqi Christian<br />

persecution, ask for prayers and<br />

raise funds to support their basic<br />

humanitarian needs and partake in<br />

rebuilding their lives. During her time<br />

with ICRC, Juliana has proven to be<br />

a voice for the voiceless — those with<br />

no one else to speak for them. This<br />

includes Christians, Yazidis, other<br />

minorities, women and children who<br />

have seen their regions overrun and<br />

their homes and villages destroyed.<br />

As stated in a Newsweek opinion<br />

piece that Juliana contributed to in<br />

August: 'ISIS genocide of Yazidis and<br />

Assyrians accelerated the near eradication<br />

of Iraq’s Christian communities.<br />

Christians numbered an estimated 1.5<br />

million before 2003. Now about 150,000<br />

remain in the country.”<br />

Professor Geoffrey Khan, the<br />

Regius Professor of Hebrew in<br />

the Faculty of Asian and Middle<br />

Eastern Studies at the University<br />

of Cambridge, said: '<strong>The</strong> plight of the<br />

Iraqi Christians — a people relentlessly<br />

persecuted for centuries, and the victims<br />

of genocide twice in the last 100 years<br />

— is one that the world has, with rare<br />

exceptions, chosen to ignore in favour<br />

of playing power politics in the Middle<br />

East. Juliana Taimoorazy has shone a light<br />

where darkness reigned. She has brought<br />

hope where there was despair, she has<br />

engendered faith where there was distrust,<br />

and she has brought love where there was<br />

indifference.'<br />

Juliana was nominated for the <strong>2021</strong><br />

Nobel Peace Prize by three specialists<br />

in Middle East affairs, including Prof<br />

Khan, along with Dr Anahit Khosroeva<br />

of the Armenian National Academy of<br />

Sciences and Fareed Yacoob, Kurdistan<br />

regional government member of<br />

parliament. <strong>The</strong>se experts recognized<br />

the impact she has made in the lives<br />

of so many people in the region and<br />

specifically acknowledge her fight to<br />

save the Assyrian, Chaldean, Syriac<br />

nation, Yazidis and other minorities in<br />

Iraq from genocide.<br />

<strong>The</strong> chairman of the board<br />

of directors of ICRC, Rev David<br />

Fischler, has said that with the fall of<br />

Afghanistan to the Taliban, 'Her work<br />

on behalf of the Middle East’s religious<br />

minorities is more important than ever.'<br />

UNYIELDING FAITH<br />

In a statement on Juliana’s Nobel<br />

Peace Prize Nomination, Dr George<br />

Rodriguez, Adjunct Professor of<br />

Biblical <strong>The</strong>ology, Loyola University<br />

and St Thomas University, says how in<br />

Afghanistan as a result of the 'calamity<br />

that has recently been transpiring, Juliana<br />

is currently working with her partners to<br />

secure and serve persecuted Afghans.'<br />

As well as working with her US<br />

partners to help those wanting to<br />

leave Afghanistan find a safe passage,<br />

she is gathering aid such as clothing<br />

and hygiene products for women<br />

and children, for the US camps. If<br />

you would like to donate to the care<br />

package creation work, you will be<br />

able to find, from <strong>November</strong>, more<br />

information on the ICRC website<br />

https://iraqichristianrelief.org Also there<br />

are details of other campaigns such as<br />

the 'Adopt a Refugee Family Program'<br />

and ways people can donate.<br />

'Juliana’s unyielding faith in God<br />

and her deep Assyrian roots' says Dr<br />

Rodriguez, 'continue to propel her along<br />

this vital…urgent humanitarian path'.<br />

He cites Juliana concerning the<br />

nomination, 'Yes, I am proud of this<br />

nomination. But whether the ultimate<br />

prize is bestowed upon us or not we will<br />

nevertheless continue our mission… to do<br />

so wholeheartedly and relentlessly in the<br />

service of all humanity.’<br />

Juliana’s life work has been<br />

dedicated to relieving people’s<br />

suffering, and she asks for prayers for<br />

God’s grace.<br />

References and further reading:<br />

Newsweek 30 August <strong>2021</strong> 'Biden Must Stop ISIS<br />

from Finishing Genocide of Assyrians and Yazidis<br />

| Opinion' – Abraham Cooper, Juliana Taimoorazy<br />

and Hadi Pir https://www.newsweek.com/bidenmust-stop-isis-finishing-genocide-assyriansyzidis-opinio-1624287<br />

Iraqi Christian Relief Council website:<br />

https://iraqichristianrelief.org


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Flanders Poppy field: J Vd, dreamstime.com; Selling poppies, Pawelkowalczyk, dreamstime.com<br />

By <strong>The</strong> Ven John Barton<br />

Amid the mud, blood and carnage of trench warfare in World War 1, tens of<br />

thousands of bright red poppies grew, marking the graves of the fallen. This<br />

led John McCrae, a Canadian army physician who had lost a colleague, to<br />

write 'In Flanders Fields' . . .<br />

In Flanders fields, the poppies blow<br />

Between the crosses, row on row<br />

That mark our place, and in the sky<br />

<strong>The</strong> larks, still bravely singing, fly.<br />

Poppies in St Andrew's<br />

Tom Farncombe<br />

This image inspired the adoption<br />

of a red poppy as the symbol of all<br />

soldiers who had died in conflict.<br />

Exactly 100 years ago, on the<br />

11 <strong>November</strong> 1921, poppies of<br />

remembrance were sold for the first<br />

time in British and Commonwealth<br />

countries. Hostilities had ceased<br />

three years earlier at the 11th hour<br />

of the 11th day of the 11th month.<br />

NATIONAL<br />

This year, on 14 <strong>November</strong>, which<br />

is the nearest Sunday, a two-minute<br />

silence will be kept at war memorials<br />

throughout the country, and at the<br />

national ceremony at the Cenotaph<br />

in London’s Whitehall.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Queen will pay tribute<br />

alongside members of the Cabinet,<br />

opposition party leaders, former<br />

prime ministers, the Mayor of<br />

London and many others.<br />

Representatives of the armed<br />

forces, fishing fleets and merchant<br />

air and navy will be there, as<br />

well as high commissioners of<br />

Commonwealth countries. All will<br />

wear a red poppy.<br />

About 30 million poppies are sold<br />

each year in the UK by the Royal<br />

British Legion with the proceeds<br />

being used to provide serving and<br />

ex-service personnel with financial<br />

support, advice, employment,<br />

mobility, housing and mental health<br />

facilities.<br />

LIFE SCARS<br />

Today we are more aware than<br />

ever that battles are fought mainly<br />

by young people, and many of those<br />

who survive bear scars for life. <strong>The</strong><br />

act of ‘remembering’ will not only<br />

look back to mark their sacrifice, but<br />

also yearn to learn lessons for the<br />

future.<br />

Reflecting on the poem, In<br />

Flanders Fields, the American<br />

professor Moina Michael, wrote:<br />

And now the torch and poppy red<br />

We wear in honour of our dead.<br />

Fear not that ye have died for naught;<br />

We'll teach the lesson that ye wrought<br />

In Flanders Fields.


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feature — 2<br />

Remembering those not always remembered<br />

Every year, on Remembrance Sunday, the names of those killed in action during World War I & II and other conflicts are<br />

read out as a posy of flowers is placed in front of their individual memorial plaques on the south wall inside St Andrew's<br />

Church. As part of this annual Remembrance, we often list all their names in the <strong>November</strong> issue of this magazine, but<br />

this year, 100 years after the introduction of the 'Remembrance Poppy' by the Royal British Legion, we thought that we<br />

would remember the names of some others who served our country in the armed forces but whose time or place of death<br />

did not qualify them for the memorial inside St Andrew's Church. <strong>The</strong> following information is based on the research into<br />

his family by David Hedley-Goddard, a descendant of the Ansell and Goddard families of Sonning — William Ansell was<br />

killed in action in October 1916 and is remembered on the St Andrew's Church war memorial.<br />

Lieutenant John Seymour lngleby<br />

Lived in Appletree Cottage Sonning with his mother and<br />

served in the Royal Flying Corps and Royal Air Force in<br />

World War I but was killed aged 20 years in June 1919 while<br />

on active service after the end of hostilities and so is not<br />

listed on the war memorial. However his family dedicated a<br />

stained glass window in St Andrew's Church to his memory<br />

(photograph above). He is buried in St Andrew's churchyard.<br />

His mother died in 1939 at the age of 75 years and is also<br />

buried in St Andrew's churchyard.<br />

Private Benjamin Dark and Private Albert Ponting<br />

Both were World War I soldiers who are buried in St Andrew's<br />

churchyard but did not live in the parish so their names do<br />

not appear on the St Andrew's Church war memorial. Both<br />

men died under suspicious circumstances, Benjamin Dark<br />

was found hanging from a tree on the tow path at Sonning<br />

and Albert Ponting was found drowned in Wokingham. <strong>The</strong>ir<br />

deaths could be a sad reflection of the violent nature of life<br />

for those serving in the armed forces during World War I.<br />

Private Albert Frederick Middlecoate, Captain Frank<br />

Rushby and Lieutenant Colonel F A Deare<br />

Three World War I soldiers buried in St Andrew's churchyard<br />

but did not die in action and therefore are not recorded on<br />

the war memorial.<br />

Private Albert Frederick Middlecoate. was born in<br />

Reading in 1889. In 1905, when Albert was 16, his father died,<br />

and the family moved to Headley Cottages, Headley Road,<br />

Sonning (now part of Woodley).<br />

Bob Peters<br />

Albert joined the army, becoming a member of the 3rd<br />

Btn/E company Northamptonshire Regiment and on 12<br />

<strong>November</strong> 1918, just one day after the Armistice was signed,<br />

he died at the Military Hospital at Broadway Sheerness from<br />

pneumonia caused by Spanish flu. His body was returned to<br />

Sonning and he was buried in the churchyard at St Andrew's<br />

Sonning. Albert's mother, who died in 1951 is also buried at<br />

St Andrew's, as was his sister Victoria Grace in 1952.<br />

Captain Frank Rusby was born in 1867 and the family<br />

arrived in Sonning sometime in the early 1900's, at first<br />

living within the village and then moving to Earley in 1911.<br />

When World War I broke out Frank enlisted as a Captain in<br />

the Royal Field Artillery, however in February 1915 he also<br />

caught Spanish flu and died of pneumonia aged 48. He is<br />

buried in a family grave in the churchyard at Saint Andrew's.<br />

Lieutenant Colonel Frederick Arthur Deare was born into<br />

a military family at Port Elizabeth, South Africa in 1862. In<br />

1881 his military career began when he enlisted into the <strong>The</strong><br />

Berkshire Regiment and rose through the ranks. His family<br />

lived in Twyford and eventually Caversham. At the outbreak<br />

of World War I, Frederick returned to the colours and served<br />

in home postings. He died at the age of 53 and was buried at<br />

Saint Andrew's Church.<br />

Sergeant Bernard Thomas Abbott, Sergeant Sidney John<br />

Dean and Sergeant Christopher Ronald Young.<br />

Usually, the names on the St Andrew's war memorial only<br />

mention those who are buried in Commonwealth War<br />

Graves, however these three sergeants, are mentioned as<br />

World War II casualties, and are all buried at St Andrew's.


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feature — 3<br />

What does Advent mean to you?<br />

By Bob Peters<br />

As I have grown older, I have<br />

increasingly believed that my parents<br />

must have had Jewish ancestry — I<br />

won't bore you with my reasons<br />

other than saying that my father<br />

would often use Jewish humour. One<br />

of his favourite sayings was 'if you<br />

lock seven rabbis in a room with one<br />

question you will end up with seven<br />

different correct answers!'<br />

I was reminded of this when I started<br />

to write about Advent, which begins<br />

this month on Sunday 28 <strong>November</strong>.<br />

Google 'Advent' — there are other<br />

internet search engines available!<br />

— and you will quickly see what<br />

I mean. Advent means different<br />

things to different people around the<br />

world, and the confusion has been<br />

intensified in modern times by the<br />

commercialism that blights many<br />

religious celebrations — most Advent<br />

calendars, Christmas cards and gifts<br />

and other 'traditions' have very little<br />

to do with the religious significance of<br />

the original events.<br />

Even Christian theologians from<br />

different parts of the world have<br />

different 'correct' answers as to what<br />

Advent is about — I've not tried<br />

locking seven of them in a room, but<br />

I'm as sure as my father was about the<br />

rabbis, that I would get seven correct<br />

answers!<br />

PREPARATION<br />

<strong>The</strong>re is, of course, one thing that<br />

all Christians agree on and that is that<br />

Advent is a time of preparation that<br />

leads up to Christmas.<br />

In the Middle Ages, preparations<br />

involved fasting three days a week<br />

beginning on St Martin's Day which is<br />

on 11 <strong>November</strong>. <strong>The</strong> original fasting,<br />

which became known as Martinmas,<br />

lasted 43 days but over time it was<br />

reduced to 40 days to reflect the 40<br />

days of Lent before Easter. Because of<br />

this, it is sometimes called, St Martin's<br />

Lent.<br />

Martin was the pioneer of western<br />

monasticism: he founded the first<br />

monastery in Gaul about 360 AD and<br />

by popular demand was made Bishop<br />

of Tours in 372.<br />

Bishop Martin continued<br />

his simple life as a monk and an<br />

evangelist. Christianity had been<br />

largely confined to the urban centres<br />

of population, but Martin took it<br />

into the countryside. He travelled his<br />

diocese by donkey and boat, preaching<br />

the good news of Jesus Christ while<br />

helping his people to tear down their<br />

heathen temples and sacred trees. He<br />

was sought out for his healing prayers,<br />

and also his defence of the faith from<br />

heretical critics.<br />

ADVENTUS<br />

Martin’s emblem in English art is<br />

often that of a goose, whose annual<br />

migration is about this time of year.<br />

‘St Martin’s Summer’ in England is a<br />

spell of fine weather that sometimes<br />

occurs around 11 <strong>November</strong> and it is<br />

why eating goose at Christmas is for<br />

many people a tradition.<br />

In the Western Christian churches,<br />

St Martin's Lent evolved into Advent,<br />

the name being derived from the Latin<br />

adventus which means the coming or<br />

arrival. Adventus was the translation<br />

of a Greek parousia that was used<br />

in the New Testament to mean the<br />

Second Coming of Christ.<br />

Thus, Advent in the Western<br />

Christian calendar anticipates the<br />

'coming of Christ' in three forms: the<br />

Nativity in Bethlehem, the reception<br />

of Christ in the heart of the believer,<br />

and the Second Coming of Christ —<br />

the three things that we focus on each<br />

year during Advent.<br />

For Eastern Catholic and Orthodox<br />

churches, the Advent preparations<br />

This 'Advent Calendar' builds up day-by-day<br />

to become a full Nativity scene for Christmas<br />

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Stained Glass in the Church of Saint Severin,<br />

Paris, depicting St Martin of Tours handing a piece<br />

of cloak to a beggar Jorisvo, dreamstime.com<br />

are known as the Nativity Fast or<br />

Philip's Fast which is observed from 15<br />

<strong>November</strong> to Christmas Eve. St Philip<br />

the Apostle's feast day is 14 <strong>November</strong>.<br />

In St Andrew's Church, like many<br />

around the world, Advent is marked<br />

with our own traditions. Each of the<br />

four Sundays of Advent are marked<br />

by the lighting of an Advent Candle<br />

symbolising hope, love, joy and peace<br />

and on Christmas morning, a fifth,<br />

central candle is lit to represent Jesus,<br />

the light that came into the world.<br />

During our first family service of<br />

Advent, which is on 5 December this<br />

year, we light the Christmas tree, an<br />

event that is overseen by St Nicholas<br />

who receives gifts of toys and games<br />

from the congregation which are<br />

passed on to deprived children in<br />

the Reading area. When the Covid<br />

pandemic meant that handing over<br />

gifts was not possible a 'cash' collection<br />

was made for Reading Family Aid who<br />

bought new toys for the children.<br />

<strong>The</strong> beauty of the Christian faith is<br />

that while around the world there are<br />

many different Advent traditions they<br />

have the same purpose; to celebrate<br />

the coming of Christ into the world,<br />

his coming into our individual lives<br />

and the hope for the future promise of<br />

his second coming.


22 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>November</strong> <strong>2021</strong><br />

feature — 4<br />

COP26 — the first 33 years . . .<br />

'Today's children<br />

and teenagers will<br />

face catastrophic<br />

consequences<br />

unless we take<br />

responsibility now, as<br />

'fellow workers with<br />

God' (Genesis 2.4-7),<br />

to sustain our world.'<br />

Archbishop of Canterbury<br />

Pope Francis<br />

Ecumenical Patriarch Bartholomew<br />

June 1988: Dr James Hansen told the US Senate<br />

that he was 99% certain that the earth was<br />

warmer then than it had ever been because of the<br />

greenhouse effect and he explained that freak<br />

weather was the result of this global warming.<br />

<strong>November</strong> 1988: the World Meteorological<br />

Organization and United Nations Environment<br />

Programme established the Intergovernmental<br />

Panel on Climate Change (IPCC)<br />

<strong>November</strong> 1990: IPCC's first report said that<br />

'emissions resulting from human activities<br />

are substantially increasing the atmospheric<br />

concentrations of greenhouse gases'. This led to<br />

calls by the IPCC and the second World Climate<br />

Conference for a global treaty.<br />

March 1995: COP1, the first Conference Of Parties<br />

to the United Nations Framework Convention on<br />

Climate Change was held in Berlin.<br />

December 2015: at COP21, 195 nations met in Paris<br />

to agree to combat climate change and unleash<br />

actions and investment towards a low-carbon,<br />

resilient and sustainable future.<br />

<strong>November</strong> <strong>2021</strong>, COP26 meets in Glasgow — it<br />

was postponed by a year because of Covid —<br />

with the objective to 'stabilize greenhouse gas<br />

concentrations in the atmosphere at a level<br />

that would prevent dangerous anthropogenic<br />

interference with the climate system'.<br />

WE ALL HAVE A PART TO PLAY<br />

33 years after Dr James Hansen warned of the<br />

dangerous situation the world was heading towards,<br />

many world leaders, including those from the Roman<br />

Catholic Church, the Eastern Orthodox Church<br />

and the Anglican Communion are demanding more<br />

urgent action. <strong>The</strong>ir statement — A joint message<br />

for the protection of creation — was published in<br />

October and was signed by Pope Francis, Ecumenical<br />

Patriarch Bartholomew and Archbishop Justin<br />

Welby. <strong>The</strong>y urge us all to play our part in ‘choosing<br />

life’ for the future of the planet, and call on us to pray<br />

for the world leaders attending COP26 this month.<br />

<strong>The</strong>ir message begins with a summary:<br />

‘We call on everyone, whatever their belief or world<br />

view, to endeavour to listen to the cry of the earth and<br />

of people who are poor, examining their behaviour and<br />

pledging meaningful sacrifices for the sake of the earth<br />

which God has given us. Today, we are paying the price…<br />

Tomorrow could be worse. This is a critical moment. Our<br />

children’s future and the future of our common home<br />

depend on it.’<br />

'We stand before a harsh justice: biodiversity loss,<br />

environmental degradation and climate change are the<br />

inevitable consequences of our actions, since we have<br />

greedily consumed more of the earth’s resources than the<br />

planet can endure. But we also face a profound injustice:<br />

the people bearing the most catastrophic consequences of<br />

these abuses are the poorest on the planet and have been<br />

the least responsible for causing them.’<br />

1988: James Hansen testifie<br />

Archbishop of Canterbury<br />

Pope Francis<br />

Ecumenical Patriarch


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A JOINT MESSAGE FOR THE PROTECTION OF CREATION<br />

From the Archbishop of Canterbury, Pope Francis, Ecumenical Patriarch Bartholomew<br />

For more than a year, we have all experienced the devastating effects of a global pandemic, all of us, whether<br />

poor or wealthy, weak or strong. Some were more protected or more vulnerable than others, but the rapidly<br />

spreading infection meant that we have depended on each other in our efforts to stay safe. We realised that,<br />

in facing this worldwide calamity, no one is safe until everyone is safe, that our actions really do affect one<br />

another, and that what we do today affects what happens tomorrow.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se are not new lessons, but we have had to<br />

face them anew. May we not waste this moment.<br />

We must decide what kind of world we want<br />

to leave to future generations. God mandates:<br />

'Choose life, so that you and your children might<br />

live' (Deuteronomy 30:19). We must choose to live<br />

differently; we must choose life.<br />

September was celebrated by many Christians as<br />

the 'Season of Creation', an opportunity to pray and<br />

care for God's creation. As world leaders prepare to<br />

meet in <strong>November</strong> at Glasgow to deliberate on the<br />

future of our planet, we pray for them and consider<br />

what the choices we must all make.<br />

Accordingly, as leaders of our Churches, we call<br />

on everyone, whatever their belief or world view,<br />

to endeavour to listen to the cry of the earth and of<br />

people who are poor, examining their behaviour and<br />

pledging meaningful sacrifices for the sake of the<br />

earth which God has given us.<br />

THE OPPOSITE DIRECTION<br />

In our common Christian tradition, the Scriptures<br />

and the Saints provide illuminating perspectives for<br />

comprehending both the realities of the present and<br />

the promise of something larger than what we see in<br />

the moment.<br />

<strong>The</strong> concept of stewardship-of individual<br />

and collective responsibility for our God-given<br />

endowment-presents a vital starting point for social,<br />

economic and environmental sustainability.<br />

In the New Testament, we read of the rich and<br />

foolish man who stores a great wealth of grain while<br />

forgetting about his finite end (Luke 12:13-21).<br />

We learn of the prodigal son who takes his<br />

inheritance early, only to squander it and end up<br />

hungry (Luke 15:11-32). We are cautioned against<br />

adopting short term and seemingly inexpensive<br />

options of building on sand, instead of building on<br />

rock for our common home to withstand storms<br />

(Matthew 7:24-27). <strong>The</strong>se stories invite us to adopt<br />

a broader outlook and recognise our place in the<br />

extended story of humanity.<br />

But we have taken the opposite direction. We<br />

have maximised our own interest at the expense of<br />

future generations.<br />

By concentrating on our wealth, we find that<br />

long-term assets, including the bounty of nature, are<br />

depleted for short-term advantage.<br />

Technology has unfolded new possibilities for<br />

progress but also for accumulating unrestrained<br />

wealth, and many of us behave in ways which<br />

demonstrate little concern for other people or the<br />

limits of the planet.<br />

Nature is resilient, yet delicate. We are already<br />

witnessing the consequences of our refusal to protect<br />

and preserve it (Genesis 2:15). Now, in this moment,<br />

we have an opportunity to repent, to turn around in<br />

resolve, to head in the opposite direction. We must<br />

pursue generosity and fairness in the ways that we<br />

live, work and use money, instead of selfish gain.<br />

<strong>The</strong> current climate crisis speaks volumes about<br />

who we are and how we view and treat God's creation.<br />

We stand before a harsh justice: biodiversity loss,<br />

environmental degradation and climate change are<br />

the inevitable consequences of our actions, since we<br />

have greedily consumed more of the earth's resources<br />

than the planet can endure.<br />

But we also face a profound injustice: the people<br />

bearing the most catastrophic consequences of these<br />

abuses are the poorest on the planet and have been<br />

the least responsible for causing them.<br />

We serve a God of justice, who delights in creation<br />

and creates every person in God's image, but also<br />

hears the cry of people who are poor. Accordingly,<br />

there is an innate call within us to respond with<br />

anguish when we see such devastating injustice.<br />

PAYING THE PRICE<br />

Today, we are paying the price. <strong>The</strong> extreme<br />

weather and natural disasters of recent months<br />

reveal afresh to us with great force and at great<br />

human cost that climate change is not only a future<br />

challenge, but an immediate and urgent matter<br />

of survival. Widespread floods, fires and droughts<br />

threaten entire continents. Sea levels rise, forcing<br />

whole communities to relocate; cyclones devastate<br />

entire regions, ruining lives and livelihoods. Water<br />

has become scarce and food supplies insecure,<br />

causing conflict and displacement for millions of<br />

people.<br />

We have already seen this in places where people<br />

rely on small scale agricultural holdings. Today we<br />

see it in more industrialised countries where even<br />

sophisticated infrastructure cannot completely<br />

prevent extraordinary destruction.<br />

Tomorrow could be worse. Today's children<br />

and teenagers will face catastrophic consequences<br />

unless we take responsibility now, as 'fellow workers<br />

with God' (Genesis 2:4-7), to sustain our world. We<br />

frequently hear from young people who understand<br />

that their futures are under threat.<br />

For their sake, we must choose to eat, travel,<br />

spend, invest and live differently, thinking not only<br />

of immediate interest and gains but also of future<br />

benefits. We repent of our generation's sins. We<br />

stand alongside our younger sisters and brothers<br />

turn to page 24


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feature — 5<br />

from page 23<br />

A MESSAGE FOR THE PROTECTION OF CREATION<br />

throughout the world in committed prayer and<br />

dedicated action for a future which corresponds ever<br />

more to the promises of God.<br />

Over the course of the pandemic, we have learned<br />

how vulnerable we are. Our social systems frayed,<br />

and we found that we cannot control everything. We<br />

must acknowledge that the ways we use money and<br />

organize our societies have not benefited everyone.<br />

We find ourselves weak and anxious, submersed<br />

in a series of crises; health, environmental,<br />

food, economic and social, which are all deeply<br />

interconnected.<br />

A VISION FOR LIFE<br />

<strong>The</strong>se crises present us with a choice. We are<br />

in a unique position either to address them with<br />

shortsightedness and profiteering or seize this as an<br />

opportunity for conversion and transformation. If<br />

we think of humanity as a family and work together<br />

towards a future based on the common good, we<br />

could find ourselves living in a very different world.<br />

Together we can share a vision for life where everyone<br />

flourishes. Together we can choose to act with love,<br />

justice and mercy. Together we can walk towards a<br />

fairer and fulfilling society with those who are most<br />

vulnerable at the centre.<br />

But this involves making changes. Each of us,<br />

individually, must take responsibility<br />

for the ways we use our resources.<br />

This path requires an ever closer<br />

collaboration among churches<br />

in their commitment to care<br />

for creation. Together, as<br />

communities, churches,<br />

cities and nations, we<br />

must change route and<br />

discover new ways of working together to break<br />

down the traditional barriers between peoples,<br />

to stop competing for resources and start<br />

collaborating.<br />

To those with more far reaching responsibilities—<br />

heading administrations, running companies,<br />

employing people or investing funds — we say:<br />

choose people-centred profits; make short-term<br />

sacrifices to safeguard all our futures; become leaders<br />

in the transition to just and sustainable economies.<br />

'To whom much is given, much is required.' (Luke 12:48)<br />

This is the first time that we feel compelled to<br />

address together the urgency of environmental<br />

sustainability, its impact on persistent poverty, and<br />

the importance of global cooperation. Together, on<br />

behalf of our communities, we appeal to the heart<br />

and mind of every Christian, every believer and<br />

every person of good will.<br />

CRITICAL MOMENT<br />

We pray for our leaders who will gather in<br />

Glasgow to decide the future of our planet and its<br />

people. Again, we recall Scripture: 'choose life, so that<br />

you and your children may live' (Deuteronomy 30:19).<br />

Choosing life means making sacrifices and exercising<br />

self-restraint. All of us, whoever and wherever we are,<br />

can play a part in changing our collective response to<br />

the unprecedented threat of climate change<br />

and environmental degradation. Caring<br />

for God's creation is a spiritual<br />

commission requiring a response<br />

of commitment. This is a critical<br />

moment.<br />

Our children's future and<br />

the future of our common<br />

home depend on it.<br />

THE SO<br />

PART T<br />

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— Pray for world leaders attending COP26<br />

— For individuals to make meaningful sacrifices for the<br />

sake of the planet, working together and taking<br />

responsibility for how we use our resources<br />

— For those with far-reaching responsibilities, to choose<br />

people-centred profits and lead the transition to just<br />

and sustainable economies<br />

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<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>November</strong> <strong>2021</strong> 25<br />

NNING VOLUNTEER FIRE BRIGADE:<br />

WO — A TRUST THAT KEEPS GIVING<br />

ial, London by St Paul s<br />

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engine<br />

Tony Foster<br />

In Part One, we followed the birth and rise of the Sonning Volunteer Fire Brigade from the first idea in 1904<br />

to tackle the growing dangers of fire to property and lives in the parish, through the early ground-breaking<br />

years as recorded in '<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>'. <strong>The</strong> pre-World War II years, and the war years themselves,<br />

were to see some inevitable changes that saw many local fire brigades disappear, but in Sonning it lives<br />

on in the form of an active Trust that is still serving the parish today. This part of story is best told from the<br />

records of <strong>The</strong> Sonning Volunteer First Brigade Trust . . .<br />

Up to the start of World War II, Sonning Fire<br />

Brigade attended numerous fires and won many<br />

prizes at competitions over the South of England,<br />

building up an outstanding reputation for<br />

efficiency and devotion to service.<br />

In 1936 a new Dennis Ace Chassis and pump was<br />

purchased, and a closed-in body was designed by<br />

Tom Edwards, the son of Archibald Felix Edwards,<br />

a leading light in the early years of Sonning's Fire<br />

Brigade. Archibald received a King George VI<br />

Birthday Honour in June 1951.<br />

<strong>The</strong> enclosed body meant that fire fighters<br />

could travel to a fire in greater safety inside the<br />

fire engine, rather then clinging to the outside as<br />

had been the traditional way until then. It was the<br />

first of its kind in the country and on the day of its<br />

delivery it attended its first fire. Sonning received<br />

many congratulations from other brigades for the<br />

innovative design.<br />

AIR RAID PRECAUTIONS<br />

A year later, the Fire Brigade Act of 1938, was<br />

to herald the start of new era in the management<br />

of local volunteer brigades such as Sonning.<br />

<strong>The</strong> act put the onus of fire protection on rural<br />

district councils. Financial support for the local<br />

brigades from insurance companies and public<br />

subscriptions ceased and councils contracted with<br />

existing brigades to provide protection. Sonning,<br />

for example, had contracts with Bradfield, Henley,<br />

Wokingham and Cookham councils.<br />

With the Second World War underway in<br />

1940 fire brigades focussed on training in air raid<br />

precautions and they came under the control<br />

of the central government. Sonning became<br />

'Station 15' with subsidiaries at Goring, Holloways<br />

Garage Caversham, Mortimer, Sonning Common,<br />

Burghfield and Checkendon.<br />

<strong>The</strong>ir remit went much further afield, so much<br />

so, that during the war the Sonning enclosed<br />

cab fire engine was to answer calls to air raids<br />

on London Docks, Birmingham, Southampton,<br />

Bristol, Ascot, Oxford, Bagshot, Croydon, Gosport,<br />

Portsmouth, Slough, Winchester, Coventry and<br />

Plymouth — as well as attending to the local calls.<br />

<strong>The</strong> innovative closed cab engine stayed in<br />

service after the war until 1968 after a remarkable<br />

31 years.<br />

While looking for a photograph of the Sonning<br />

1936 Dennis chassis engine, we came across the<br />

one shown bottom left on https://www.fire-enginephotos.com/picture/number40721.asp<br />

by Tony Foster<br />

in 2017 who told us: '<strong>The</strong> picture was taken at the old<br />

Ordnance Depot in Weedon, Northamptonshire, where<br />

it was hoped the Fire Services National Museum Trust<br />

would be. However things conspired against this and<br />

the collection was moved in 2017 to Petersfield. 'Again<br />

there were too many obstacles laid in their path and<br />

sadly the museum had to be broken up and sold off. <strong>The</strong><br />

1936 Dennis Ace was bought by a private collector in<br />

Yorkshire and will now receive the attention it deserves.'<br />

In 1948, when the UK government took charge of<br />

the Sonning Brigade, it purchased all the equipment<br />

previously owned by the Sonning Volunteer Fire<br />

Brigade and the proceeds were used to extend the<br />

Robert Palmer Cottages.<br />

<strong>The</strong> seeds of the idea to support the local<br />

villagers in this way led to the creation, in 1952,<br />

of a Trust fund which also received the benefit<br />

of the rent paid by the Royal Berkshire Fire and<br />

Rescue Service — that was by then responsible for<br />

providing the service — for the use of the Sonning<br />

Fire Station in Pound Lane.<br />

SEVENTY TRUST YEARS<br />

<strong>The</strong> station was eventually closed in 2007 when<br />

Royal Berkshire Fire and Rescue Services decided to<br />

have a 24-hour crew installed in Wokingham, and<br />

subsequently the site was redeveloped for housing.<br />

However, the Sonning Fire Brigade Trust<br />

continues and next year will be celebrating 70<br />

years of serving the local community by financially<br />

supporting almost every club and voluntary group<br />

in the parish, the local schools and St Andrew's<br />

Church, (see fire alarm on page 11) and helping <strong>The</strong><br />

<strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> to create an online archive of past<br />

issues.<br />

We began this two-part review of Sonning's<br />

Volunteer Fire Brigade with the report in the<br />

<strong>November</strong> 1904 issue of a Sonning <strong>Parish</strong><br />

Council meeting when it was suggested to ask<br />

for subscriptions to purchase a stand pipe. This<br />

suggestion led to starting a fire brigade. It was one<br />

that would not only improve village life then, but still<br />

does today, and it also had a significant impact way<br />

beyond our parish boundaries.


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Reduced donations of dried and canned foods for the Woodley Food Bank and<br />

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need for donations is even greater than ever before.<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>November</strong> <strong>2021</strong> 27<br />

Blue Coat School<br />

to be fully co-ed<br />

in five years<br />

<strong>The</strong> following items are in<br />

desperate short supply.<br />

— Tinned Potatoes<br />

— Vegetable Soup<br />

— Tinned Vegetables<br />

— Tinned Fruit<br />

— Custard, tinned and packet<br />

— Tinned Tuna<br />

— Sugar<br />

— Rice<br />

— Spaghetti<br />

— Biscuits<br />

— Cooking Oil<br />

— Coffee<br />

— Tea<br />

— Toilet Roll<br />

— Bathroom items: toothpaste,<br />

toothbrushes, shower gel,<br />

deodorant (male and female)<br />

— Tinned Pies (meat and vegetable)<br />

— Juice (long life) singles and 1 litre<br />

— Milk (long life)<br />

— Tinned desserts<br />

Donations can be left just inside<br />

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Earley, the Woodley Baptist Church<br />

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Woodley Library, Waitrose in<br />

Woodley, the Co-op Bulmershe and<br />

the Woodley Food Bank store located<br />

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Crescent (Monday to Friday<br />

mornings).<br />

<strong>The</strong> sun sets on Sunrise care home<br />

as Signature signs in at Sonning<br />

On 1 December <strong>2021</strong> the Sunrise of Sonning residential care home will be<br />

changing its name to Signature. It is part of a UK-wide sale of Sunrise and<br />

Gracewell homes previously owned by the US company Sunrise Senior Living.<br />

<strong>The</strong> nearest Signature residential home is in Marlow. Signature will take on 18<br />

Sunrise and two Gracewell homes, while Care UK will become the owner of the<br />

remaining seven Sunrise and 19 Gracewell homes in the UK. Sunrise Senior Living<br />

in the US is to focus its future business 0n growing its North American market.<br />

Dr Natalie-Jane Macdonald, UK chief executive of Sunrise Senior Living and<br />

Gracewell Healthcare, said: 'Sunrise has been proud to serve thousands of residents<br />

over the past 20 years in the UK and to provide a great place to work for our<br />

team members. Most recently, the commitment and resilience of our entire team<br />

throughout the pandemic, and the support of our residents and their families, has<br />

been outstanding. We are delighted to be working with two high quality providers<br />

to ensure a smooth transition process to benefit our residents, families and teams.'<br />

Aidan Roche, chief executive of Signature Senior Lifestyle, said: 'Adding 20 new<br />

homes to our portfolio is the latest stage of the growth story that began when we<br />

started the business in 2006 and is a testament to the hard work and dedication<br />

of the entire Signature team. We will be working towards a seamless transition<br />

for staff and residents and are hugely excited to be taking these next steps<br />

together.'<br />

Planning consent from Wokingham<br />

Borough Council for Reading Blue<br />

Coat School in Sonning to increase<br />

the school’s number of students has<br />

allowed the governors and senior<br />

leadership team to enable girls to<br />

now join from the age of 11 years.<br />

It is over 50 years since Reading Blue<br />

Coat opened its doors to its first<br />

female student, and 34 years since<br />

the school had a fully co-education<br />

sixth form.<br />

Now, from September 2023,<br />

the school is extending its coeducation<br />

provision by welcoming<br />

girls into Year 7 with the intention<br />

of becoming fully co-educational by<br />

September 2027.<br />

<strong>The</strong> school's chair of governors,<br />

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Coat School has seen a steady<br />

increase in pupil numbers over the<br />

last 10 years, so this decision to<br />

extend our co-education provision<br />

comes from a position of strength.<br />

Academic results have improved<br />

year on year and at the same time<br />

our 45 acre campus has benefited<br />

from considerable investment<br />

providing 21st Century facilities<br />

for our students and staff. We are<br />

looking forward to our move to full<br />

co-education and seeing the school<br />

continue to develop and improve.'


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<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>November</strong> <strong>2021</strong> 29<br />

Back to normal for Sonning Show . . .<br />

George and John enjoyed being back in Pearson Hall<br />

... so say the members of Sonning Art Group after the Sonning Show when they<br />

had a very successful day out. Added to this, the group are now back in Pearson<br />

Hall for their regular meetings. Jill Watkins, pictured left, had a particularly<br />

satisfying show — she carried away the coveted George Lamb Trophy presented<br />

for the most popular picture voted for by visitors to the group's exhibition at the<br />

show.<br />

SONNING VILLAGE SHOW PRIZE WINNERS <strong>2021</strong><br />

Preserves & Cookery: Brutton Cup for most points — Diane Reeves<br />

Victoria Sandwich: Sonning Glebe WI Golden Spoon —Christine Emmett<br />

Jubilee Cup (men only) — Tom Leviss<br />

Vegetables: Hillier Cup for the most points — Jackie Holland<br />

Best Onions: Nobby Clark Onion Cup — Emelia Silvey<br />

Collection of four kinds veg: Les Moss Tankard — Lynn Woodhouse<br />

Overall Winner: David Penny Pumpkin Trophy — John Gale<br />

People's Choice Prize: <strong>The</strong> Flower Club — Yvonne Hatcher<br />

Children's Prize: <strong>The</strong> Flower Club — Ashling Hyland<br />

Photography: Sonning Glebe WI Trophy — Karen Mccoy<br />

Craft: British Legion Cup — Jane Hunt<br />

Art Best Exhibit: Bill Gallimore Trophy — Saskia Mercer-Gray<br />

Bygone Days: Martha Angel Centenary Cup — Sonning Club<br />

Overall Winner: Wethered Flower Cup — Arthur Thomas<br />

Children's Section: White Hart Cup — Jonathan & Sophia Smyly<br />

Infants Section: £10 — Izzy Sawyer<br />

Pegs Egg Challenge — Jeff & Hannah<br />

Sonning Art Club People's Choice: George Lamb Trophy — Jill Watkins<br />

Charvil singing for female voices<br />

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An autumn pastel by Jean Hutchinson<br />

Sonning School<br />

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Further details about the school's<br />

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While a substantial sum has already<br />

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. . . 150 YEARS AGO on 10 <strong>November</strong> 1871 that Welsh<br />

journalist and explorer Henry Morton Stanley (born John<br />

Rowlands) located the missing missionary and explorer Dr<br />

David Livingstone near Lake Tanganyika in present-day<br />

Tanzania. He might, or might not, have greeted him with the<br />

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. . . 125 YEARS AGO on 16 <strong>November</strong> 1896 that Oswald<br />

Mosley, British fascist politician, was born. He was<br />

imprisoned for three years in 1940 for founding the British<br />

Union of Fascists.<br />

. . . 100 YEARS AGO on 11 <strong>November</strong> 1921 that poppies<br />

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war. In the UK they are sold by the Royal British Legion to<br />

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. . . 90 YEARS AGO on 30 <strong>November</strong> 1931 that the Crystal<br />

Palace in London was destroyed by fire.<br />

. . . 80 YEARS AGO on 13 <strong>November</strong> 1941 that the British<br />

aircraft carrier HMS Ark Royal was torpedoed by a German<br />

submarine in the Mediterranean Sea near Gibraltar. It sank<br />

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. . . 65 YEARS AGO on 5 <strong>November</strong> 1956 that Premium<br />

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.. . . 50 YEARS AGO on 14 <strong>November</strong> 1971 that NASA’s<br />

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engulfed in a dust storm, but eventually images were made<br />

of 85% of the surface. It was deactivated in October 1972.<br />

. . . 40 YEARS AGO on 12 <strong>November</strong> 1981 that the US Space<br />

Shuttle Columbia was launched on its second flight into<br />

space and became the first reusable manned spacecraft.<br />

. . . 30 YEARS AGO on 18 <strong>November</strong> 1991 that the Church of<br />

England envoy Terry Waite was released by Islamic Jihad in<br />

Lebanon after being held hostage since January 1987.<br />

. . . 25 YEARS AGO on 30 <strong>November</strong> 1996 that England<br />

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years. Scotland agreed to loan the Stone to Westminster<br />

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. . . 20 YEARS AGO from 12-13 <strong>November</strong> 2001 that the<br />

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the US who have just been announced as joint Nobel prize<br />

winners in Physiology or Medicine for <strong>2021</strong>.<br />

<strong>The</strong> vast majority of human physiological functions are<br />

triggered by the activation of receptors — the locks. <strong>The</strong><br />

triggering factor is the key. <strong>The</strong> keys well known to us are<br />

chemical keys, such as drugs, alcohol, nicotine, hormones<br />

and surface proteins of bacteria and viruses. When these<br />

receptors are activated they allow the movement of ions<br />

across our cell membranes which creates an electrical<br />

gradient and thus an electrical signal. But how does<br />

pressure work, there is no chemical reaction?<br />

It seems we have receptors that ‘open’ ion channels<br />

when pressure is applied to the cell membrane.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y found them by, literally, poking cells with a very,<br />

very, small pipette. <strong>The</strong> receptors are coded by our genes.<br />

For the pressure receptors they found 72 genes that could<br />

be involved.<br />

One by one they switched these genes off until the<br />

cell gave no measurable signal. <strong>The</strong>y named the receptors<br />

'Piezo', from the Greek word for pressure, píesi.<br />

What made us eat chillis? Surely the pain would put us<br />

off trying a second one forever!<br />

Capsaicin is the chemical in chillis that causes us to<br />

feel heat, even if the chilli is cold. Menthol makes us feel<br />

cold, even if it is hot. What is going on?<br />

<strong>The</strong> team in America theorised that these chemicals<br />

caused a response in the body and there would be a<br />

section of DNA that produced the protein that reacted to<br />

capsaicin. <strong>The</strong>y introduced this DNA to cells that didn’t<br />

normally react to chilli. When they found this protein<br />

its activation caused an ion channel to open and set off<br />

the reaction to create a nervous impulse. <strong>The</strong>y named it<br />

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Dr Simon Ruffle asks . . . how do we perceive the world?<br />

LOCK AND KEY<br />

PRESSURE<br />

FEELING HOT HOT HOT<br />

TRPV1. <strong>The</strong>y then studied its reaction to heat and found<br />

that at 430C it opens. Try heating water to 430C. It won’t<br />

burn unless you remain exposed for minutes but it is the<br />

point where you will feel uncomfortable.<br />

Similarly menthol also has its own receptor TRPM8<br />

which activates at cooler temperature.<br />

IMPLICATIONS<br />

At the moment our treatments for pain relief is very<br />

crude. <strong>The</strong> most powerful of medications block channels<br />

in our brain and have pretty awful side effects, they are<br />

also addictive and many studies show that the quality<br />

of some people's lives are significantly reduced over and<br />

above just the misery of pain. For acute conditions they<br />

are brilliant but not for chronic pain. Being able to stop<br />

the signals at source would be fantastic. Capsaicin is<br />

already used in a pain relieving cream.<br />

Being able to change the way we ‘feel’ pressure may<br />

also have many applications especially in where that<br />

mechanism has gone wrong such as amputees and where<br />

the person feels light touch as pain and in chronic pain<br />

syndromes.<br />

HUGS<br />

So giving a loved one a hug is now understood a little<br />

better, however I wouldn’t suggest mentioning Piezo<br />

receptors at that moment or threaten someone with I’m<br />

going to stimulate your Piezo receptors with my fist!<br />

PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER<br />

Simon Ruffle<br />

<strong>The</strong> photograph with this article is taken from inside a<br />

bar in Rome.<br />

A pleasantly warm day in spring, we’d walked to the<br />

Colosseum and walked back to Piazza Navaro. Repeated<br />

pressure on our feet started to make it uncomfortable to<br />

walk, so we sat down; enjoyed a cold beer and a delicious<br />

lunch with a slight kick of chilli. Later after a walking<br />

tour of the Forum, we enjoyed a very nice gelato, mine<br />

was mint!<br />

If only I’d have put it altogether I’d have a Nobel prize<br />

to my name. Instead, I have a chemical and nervous<br />

pathway created by stimuli that I can use to remember<br />

that day; which I still perceive as one of my favourite<br />

days!


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HOME & GARDEN<br />

Recipe of the month<br />

New England Pecan Pie<br />

From Emma of Emma's Kitchen, Twyford<br />

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In the garden<br />

Ingredients<br />

— 500g pack sweet shortcrust pastry<br />

— flour, for dusting<br />

— 75g butter, softened<br />

— 100g golden caster sugar<br />

— 175g golden syrup<br />

— 175g maple syrup<br />

— 3 eggs, beaten<br />

— ½ tsp vanilla extract<br />

— 300g pecan halves<br />

Method<br />

On a lightly floured surface, roll out the pastry. Use the pastry to line a 23cm<br />

tart tin (keeping any off-cuts in case you need to fill any cracks after blindbaking).<br />

Prick the base of the pastry case with a fork and chill for 30 minutes,<br />

or until firm . . .<br />

. . . or, you can cheat and buy a ready made base!<br />

Heat oven to 1900C/1700C fan/gas 5.<br />

Line the pastry case with baking parchment, fill with baking beans and bake<br />

for 15-20 minutes until the sides are set. Remove the beans and parchment and<br />

return the tin to the oven for 5-10 minutes until the pastry is golden and the<br />

base is set. Leave to cool.<br />

Increase oven temperature to 2000C/1800C fan/gas 6.<br />

Use an electric whisk to beat the butter and sugar together until light and<br />

fluffy.<br />

Keep the beaters going and pour in both of the syrups.<br />

Gradually add the eggs, ¼ tsp salt and the vanilla, then whisk until combined.<br />

Stir through the pecans, then pour the mixture into the tart case.<br />

Bake for 10 minutes.<br />

Turn heat down to 1600C/1400C fan/gas 3 and continue baking for 30-35<br />

minutes. <strong>The</strong> pie should be golden brown and the filling should wobble a little<br />

in the centre when shaken.<br />

Leave to cool in the tin. You will probably need to run a knife around the tin to<br />

lift out the pie.<br />

Serve with whipped cream or ice cream.<br />

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<strong>November</strong> is no excuse not to get<br />

out into the garden. As well as<br />

giving everything a good tidying<br />

you can also sow some broad bean<br />

and hardy pea seeds for an early<br />

spring crop and, of course, it is the<br />

start of winter tree planting season<br />

which runs from <strong>November</strong> to<br />

March.<br />

Broad beans and early peas such as<br />

'Meteor’ and ‘Kelvedon Wonder’ are<br />

best sown under cloches that not<br />

only protect them from any harsh<br />

winter frosts, but will also save the<br />

fresh shoots from being plundered<br />

by hungry pigeons!<br />

TREE WEEK<br />

This year's National Tree Week<br />

sponsored by the Tree Council<br />

starts on Saturday 27 <strong>November</strong>.<br />

While there is nothing to stop<br />

you appreciating the old trees in<br />

your garden by giving them a hug,<br />

probably the best way to celebrate<br />

trees is to plant some more!<br />

To find out how to do this visit:<br />

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seasonal-campaigns/national-tree-week/<br />

where there is a lot of helpful<br />

information about planting and<br />

caring for trees.


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the sciences<br />

Should we have faith<br />

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By Dr Ruth M Bancewicz, church engagement director at<br />

<strong>The</strong> Faraday Institute for Science and Religion, Cambridge<br />

How do you feel about science after more than 18 months<br />

of pandemic: tired or interested, impressed or cynical –<br />

or a bit of everything?<br />

<strong>The</strong> response to Covid-19 has demonstrated how ideology<br />

or world view are hugely influential in our interpretation<br />

and use of scientific data — and at times in the process<br />

of experimentation itself. Should we trial a vaccine in<br />

Spain or South Africa? Is this treatment safe enough to<br />

administer to the general public? Should vaccination be<br />

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<strong>The</strong> whole Biblical story affirms that God is the only<br />

one in whom we can have complete faith. On the other<br />

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have faith in a plane, a body of knowledge, or a person.<br />

This trust is within limits because I know that air travel<br />

involves hazards, a body of knowledge will contain some<br />

mistakes, and every ordinary human is fallible.<br />

KNOWLEDGE IS PROVISIONAL<br />

I trust science to some extent because it involves<br />

careful observation and measurement, collecting different<br />

kinds of evidence. Data is interpreted, and competing<br />

interpretations are tried out. We summarise our findings<br />

in general principles or mathematical equations. Scientists<br />

keep each other accountable by looking critically at each<br />

other’s work. Our knowledge is always provisional. You<br />

can’t prove anything scientifically because we only deal in<br />

evidence, not proof.<br />

On the other hand, there must always be the potential<br />

to disprove a theory or it’s not science. Our aim is to<br />

keep getting nearer to the truth about the way the world<br />

is. Overall, I believe this method is reliable and worth<br />

supporting, but that only God is completely trustworthy.<br />

Psalm 8 reminds us both of the splendour of God’s<br />

creation, and that he has placed us in a position of<br />

responsibility over it. Scientific knowledge can be part of<br />

what helps us to rule well. <strong>The</strong> process of doing science can<br />

be a bit like a blurry image coming into focus. <strong>The</strong> more we<br />

learn, the better we can usually see what’s going on, and<br />

hopefully the easier it is to decide on a course of action.<br />

So in answer to the question ‘Should we have faith in<br />

science?’ I would say yes, when used wisely and within its<br />

proper limits.<br />

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<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>November</strong> <strong>2021</strong> 37<br />

By Rev Michael Burgess<br />

El Greco, public domain, Wikimedia Commons<br />

<strong>The</strong> philosopher Wittgenstein advised people visiting an art<br />

gallery or exhibition to never rush through all the paintings<br />

on show, but instead choose just one painting. Sit in front of<br />

it for 20 minutes. <strong>The</strong>n get up and leave the art gallery.<br />

It is difficult advice because we feel we want our money’s<br />

worth. Once inside we feel so overawed by the number of<br />

paintings and the pressure of the crowd that we go quickly<br />

from one canvas to the next.<br />

<strong>The</strong> rushing around in a gallery is part and parcel of the<br />

way we meet each day. We rush out of habit, and we rush<br />

because everyone else is rushing. Our world seems set in the<br />

fast lane. Carl Honoré in his book In Praise of Slow tells how,<br />

as a busy journalist, he experienced a flashback to a time in<br />

his youth when life was unhurried. He reflects, with regret,<br />

that it was a better life then.<br />

If we take Wittgenstein’s advice seriously and find ourselves<br />

in the National Gallery, Edinburgh, we could do no better than<br />

to sit in front of this month’s painting: El Greco’s <strong>The</strong> Saviour.<br />

Born in 1541 in Crete, El Greco travelled to Venice, Rome and<br />

then to Toledo in Spain where he died in 1614.<br />

AN INNER STRENGTH<br />

His art is a fusion of eastern and western traditions, given<br />

extra fervour by the Counter-Reformation and resulting in a<br />

unique style of painting. His canvases have elongated figures<br />

who seem to be straining upwards, just as the Counter-<br />

Reformation was exhorting the faithful to set their sights on<br />

heaven as they made their journey through life.<br />

In Crete El Greco trained as an icon painter, and that is<br />

much in evidence in <strong>The</strong> Saviour. It shows a half-length figure<br />

of Christ — he painted a fuller figure later. This Christ like<br />

icon is looking out at us, with his right hand raised to bless<br />

us and the world, while the left hand holds that same world<br />

in his care. We can see in the eyes an inner strength, but also<br />

the poignant sadness of longing for this is a Saviour who has<br />

come through suffering and death to bring us new life.<br />

We find in El Greco’s work a Christ-calmed steadiness<br />

amid the spinning world of rush and busyness. <strong>The</strong> nearer we<br />

draw to Jesus, the slower we will find ourselves spinning. <strong>The</strong><br />

duties and responsibilities that demand so much from us take<br />

their place in the wider perspective of the Saviour’s grace and<br />

love. <strong>The</strong>n we can begin to experience that peace which the<br />

world cannot offer, but which Christ can bring.


38 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>November</strong> <strong>2021</strong><br />

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Poetry corner<br />

All Saints by Edouard Amedee Didron, stained glass window in Saint<br />

Thomas Aquinas in Paris, France<br />

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By Steven Rolling, to the tune: Sine Nomine — ‘For all the<br />

saints’ Revelation 7:9-17<br />

1. John did behold, and, lo, great multitude<br />

Which no one could number, these he sure views<br />

All nations, peoples, kindreds, praise renewed<br />

Alleluia, Alleluia!<br />

2. <strong>The</strong>y stood before the Lamb, and too the throne<br />

Clothed in white robes, Jesus as Lord they own<br />

With palms in hands, they worship Him alone<br />

Alleluia, Alleluia!<br />

3. <strong>The</strong>y cried with loud voice, saying, Salvation<br />

To our God, He atones for each nation<br />

Sits on the throne. <strong>The</strong> Lamb He be His Son<br />

Alleluia, Alleluia!<br />

4. All angels worshipped, and all gathered there<br />

In endless jubilation they do share<br />

With saints, redeemed ones, e’er under His care<br />

Alleluia, Alleluia!<br />

5. <strong>The</strong>y said, Amen, Blessing, wisdom, glory<br />

Thanksgiving, honour, power, and might be<br />

To our God ever, through eternity<br />

Alleluia, Alleluia!<br />

6. One there said to John, <strong>The</strong>se be they which, see<br />

Came forth from great tribulation, now free<br />

<strong>The</strong>ir robes washed in the Lamb’s blood, white now be<br />

Alleluia, Alleluia!<br />

7. <strong>The</strong>refore they before God’s throne day and night<br />

Serving Him in His temple, in His sight<br />

He swells among them, here endless delight<br />

Alleluia, Alleluia!<br />

8. <strong>The</strong>y hunger nor thirst any more, for so<br />

<strong>The</strong> Lamb shall feed them lead to fountains flow<br />

Of waters, every tear gone, glory’s glow<br />

Alleluia, Alleluia!


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WORDSEARCH FOR POPPIES<br />

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It was 100 years ago this month, on 11 Nov<br />

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countries to commemorate military personnel<br />

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of thousands of bright red poppies had grown,<br />

marking the graves of the fallen. This led John<br />

McCrae, a Canadian army physician who had<br />

lost a colleague, to write 'In Flanders Fields':<br />

In Flanders fields, the poppies blow, between<br />

the crosses, row on row, that mark our place,<br />

and in the sky the larks, still bravely singing, fly.<br />

This image inspired the adoption of a red poppy<br />

as the symbol of all soldiers who had died in<br />

conflict. In the UK they are sold by the Royal<br />

British Legion to raise funds for current and<br />

former members of the British Armed Forces.<br />

Around 30 million poppies are sold each year.<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>November</strong> <strong>2021</strong> 39<br />

PUZZLE PAGE — the answers will be published in the next issue<br />

REMEMBRANCE<br />

POPPIES<br />

COUNTRIES<br />

COMMEMORATE<br />

FLANDERS<br />

PERSONNEL<br />

THOUSANDS<br />

MUD<br />

BLOOD<br />

SOLD<br />

RED<br />

CARNAGE<br />

TRENCH<br />

WARFARE<br />

BRIGHT<br />

GRAVES<br />

FALLEN<br />

FIELDS<br />

SYMBOL<br />

MILITARY<br />

October<br />

Solutions<br />

CROSSWORD<br />

D A I S W E A K N E S S<br />

I N M N A A P<br />

A S P H A L T L A R G O<br />

M U L I E N N<br />

E A T E N T R I D E N T<br />

T O Y D S A<br />

R A D I U M B O S T O N<br />

I I R E S E<br />

C U S H I O N C E L L O<br />

A E S J O E U<br />

L E A C H O P P R E S S<br />

L S E I E K L<br />

Y I E L D I N G E S P Y<br />

CODEWORD<br />

F I E N D S S E I Z E D<br />

A A E M J E E<br />

C A R I B O U E B A<br />

I L U L A C Q U E R<br />

A X I N G T T L<br />

L E I E M E R Y<br />

S H O P E D N<br />

L A T H E L R A<br />

A R Y K N O W S<br />

R A V I O L I A L I<br />

G E I N U Z Z L E D<br />

O N N G O E E<br />

S I T T E R R O N D O S<br />

SUDOKU<br />

WORDSEARCH HARVEST<br />

MUSICALS QUIZ<br />

1. My Fair Lady<br />

2. Top Hat<br />

3. Oklahoma<br />

4. Singing in the Rain<br />

5. Sound of Music<br />

6. South Pacific<br />

NOVEMBER QUIZ — suggested by Claude Masters: Name the top ten hymns (see page 7) from which these lines came . . .<br />

. . . remember, as Eric Morecambe once said: 'they are not necessarily in the right order!<br />

1. He whose word cannot be broken<br />

2. Whose arm hath bound the restless wave<br />

3. He is my light, my strength, my song;<br />

4. Forgive our foolish ways<br />

5. Be all else but nought to me, save that thou art;<br />

6. My Saviour’s love to me,<br />

7. And was the holy Lamb of god<br />

8. I am weak, but thou art mighty;<br />

9. I see the stars, I hear the mighty thunder,<br />

10. <strong>The</strong> darkness falls at thy behest;<br />

St Andrew's Church by night Peter Rennie


40 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>November</strong> <strong>2021</strong><br />

Local Trades and Services<br />

ACG SERVICES - LOCKSMITH<br />

Locks changed, fitted, repaired and opened<br />

Door and window locks fitted, UPVC door lock expert<br />

Checkatrade member - Which Trusted Trader<br />

Call Richard Homden: 0149 168 2050 / 0771 040 9216<br />

Please mention <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> when responding to advertisements<br />

CHIROPODY AND PODIATRY<br />

Linda Frewin MInstChp, HCPC member<br />

General foot care and treatments<br />

25 Ashtrees Road, Woodley RG5 4LP<br />

0118 969 6978 - 0790 022 4999<br />

CLARK BICKNELL LTD - PLUMBING & HEATING<br />

Qualified Plumbing and Heating Engineers Gas Safe<br />

25 years experience - local family run company<br />

Office: 0118 961 8784 - Paul: 0776 887 4440<br />

paul@clarkbicknell.co.uk<br />

COMPUTER FRUSTRATIONS?<br />

For jargon free help with your computer problems<br />

PC & laptop repairs, upgrades, installations, virus removal<br />

Free advice, reasonable rates<br />

0798 012 9364 help@computerfrustrations.co.uk<br />

INTERSMART LIMITED<br />

Electrical Installation and Smart Home Automation<br />

intersmartuk@gmail.com<br />

Elliott — 0777 186 6696<br />

Nick — 0758 429 4986<br />

HANDYMAN & DECORATING SERVICES<br />

Reliable and affordable<br />

Small jobs a speciality!<br />

Call Andy on 0795 810 0128<br />

http://www.handyman-reading.co.uk<br />

JAMES AUTOS<br />

Car Servicing, Repairs and MOT<br />

Mole Road, Sindlesham, RG41 5DJ<br />

0118 977 0831<br />

james_autos@hotmail.co.uk<br />

ALL AERIALS<br />

A local business based in Sonning. TV - FM - DAB aerials etc.<br />

Sky dishes. Communal premises IRS systems, TV points.<br />

Free estimates - All work guaranteed<br />

0118 944 0000<br />

MC CLEANING<br />

We are a family business with excellent references<br />

and we are fully insured<br />

All cleaning materials provided<br />

For free quote call: Maria 0779 902 7901<br />

THAMES CHIMNEY SWEEPS<br />

0779 926 8123 0162 882 8130<br />

enquiries@thameschimneysweeps.co.uk<br />

http://www.thameschimneysweeps.co.uk<br />

Member of the Guild of Master Sweeps<br />

PROFESSIONAL HOME VISIT WILL SERVICE<br />

Thames Valley Will Service<br />

Also Lasting Powers of Attorney and Probate Service<br />

We are still working during the pandemic period<br />

0134 464 1885 tvwills@yahoo.co.uk<br />

AJH ROOFING Co (READING) Ltd<br />

Tiling, Slating and Flat Roofing specialists<br />

36 Chatteris Way, Lower Earley, RG6 4 JA<br />

0118 986 6035 0794 447 4070<br />

ajhroofingco.co.uk info@ajhroofingco.co.uk<br />

WANT HELP WITH AN ‘ODD JOB’?<br />

For local odd jobs please call Phil on<br />

0118 944 0000<br />

0797 950 3908<br />

Thames Street, Sonning<br />

BIG HEART TREE CARE<br />

Reliable and friendly service for all tree care<br />

NPTC qualified — Public Liability of £10million<br />

0118 937 1929 0786 172 4071<br />

bighearttreecare.co.uk info@bighearttreecare.co.uk<br />

SMALLWOOD<br />

Landscaping, garden construction,<br />

patios, lawns, fencing, decking etc<br />

0118 969 8989<br />

info@smallwoodcc.co.uk http://www.smallwoodcc.com<br />

BEECHWOOD CARPENTRY & CONSTRUCTION SERVICES LTD<br />

All types of Carpentry, Kitchens, Renovations<br />

Built-in Cupboards & Wardrobes, Flooring & Doors<br />

78 Crockhamwell Road, Woodley 0776 276 6110<br />

http://www.beechwood-carpentry-construction.co.uk<br />

CARER — COMPANION<br />

Experienced lady carer who is local to this area<br />

offers live-in support at competitive rates<br />

Excellent references provided — Contact Louise<br />

0784 226 2583 lasheppard61@gmail.com<br />

PAINTER and DECORATOR<br />

Roger McGrath has 25 years experience<br />

Restoration painting work of any size undertaken<br />

For a free quotation call<br />

Roger 0742 332 1179


CHILDREN'S PAGE?<br />

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42 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>November</strong> <strong>2021</strong> Please mention <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> when replying to advertisements<br />

information — 2<br />

<strong>Parish</strong> contacts<br />

Ministry Team<br />

— <strong>The</strong> Vicar: Revd Jamie Taylor*<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> Office, Thames Street, Sonning, RG4 6UR<br />

vicar@sonningparish.org.uk / 0118 969 3298<br />

*Day off Friday<br />

— Associate Vicar: Revd Kate Wakeman-Toogood<br />

revkate@sonningparish.org.uk / 0746 380 6735<br />

On duty Tuesday, Friday and Sunday<br />

— Youth Minister: Chris West (Westy)<br />

youthminister@sonningparish.org.uk / 0794 622 4106<br />

— Licensed Lay Minister: Bob Peters<br />

bob@sonningparish.org.uk / 0118 377 5887<br />

Children's Ministry<br />

— Alison Smyly office@sonningparish.org.uk / 0118 969 3298<br />

Churchwardens<br />

— Stuart Bowman sdbowman73@aol.com / 0118 978 8414<br />

— Liz Nelson liz.nelson1@ntlworld.com / 0118 934 4837<br />

Deputy Churchwardens<br />

— Simon Darvall sdarvall@businessmoves.com 0793 928 2535<br />

— Sue Peters mail@susanjpeters.com / 0118 377 5887<br />

— Molly Woodley (deputy churchwarden emeritus)<br />

mollywoodley@live.co.uk / 0118 946 3667<br />

<strong>Parish</strong> Administrator<br />

— Hilary Rennie<br />

office@sonningparish.org.uk / 0118 969 3298<br />

Parochial Church Council<br />

— Secretary: Hilary Rennie 0118 969 3298<br />

— Treasurer: Richard Moore 0118 969 2588<br />

Director of Music, organist and choirmaster<br />

— Hannah Towndrow BA (Oxon)<br />

music@sonningparish.org.uk<br />

<strong>Parish</strong> Website: http://www.sonningparish.org.uk<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>: http://www.theparishmagazine.co.uk<br />

— Editor: Bob Peters<br />

editor@theparishmagazine.co.uk / 0118 377 5887<br />

— Advertising and Distribution: Gordon Nutbrown<br />

advertising@theparishmagazine.co.uk / 0118 969 3282<br />

— Treasurer: Pat Livesey<br />

pat.livesey@yahoo.co.uk / 0118 961 8017<br />

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Advertisers index<br />

ABD Construction 10<br />

ACG Services Locksmith 40<br />

ADD Plumbing 12<br />

AJH Roofing 40<br />

All Aerials Sonning 40<br />

All Waste Clearance 34<br />

Barn Store Henley 16<br />

Beechwood Carpentry and Construction 40<br />

Big Heart Tree Care 40<br />

Blandy & Blandy Solicitors 14<br />

Blinds Direct 26<br />

Blue Moose 8<br />

Bridge House 43<br />

Bridges Home Care 14<br />

Bright and Fresh Cleaning 26<br />

Bull Inn 8<br />

Carer Companion 40<br />

Chimney Sweep, Thames 40<br />

Chiropody, Linda Frewin 40<br />

Chris the Plumber 32<br />

Clark Bicknell 40<br />

Complete Pest Solutions 16<br />

Computer Frustrations 40<br />

Cruz Kitchens 34<br />

DAC Mobility Services 34<br />

David Shailes Plumbing & Decorating 26<br />

Design for Print 28<br />

Freebody Boatbuilders 6<br />

Fields Pharmacy 32<br />

French Horn 44<br />

Gardiners Nursing 8<br />

Graham Blake Soft Furnishing 6<br />

Great House Sonning 26<br />

Handyman, Decorating 40<br />

Haslams Estate Agents 2<br />

Hicks Group 16<br />

Intersmart Electrical Installations 40<br />

James Autos 40<br />

Jones & Sheppard Stone Masons 16<br />

Just Brickwork 20<br />

Kingfisher Bathrooms 18<br />

MC Cleaning 40<br />

Mill at Sonning 4<br />

M & L Healthcare Solutions 12<br />

Mortgage Required 18<br />

Muck & Mulch 28<br />

Newgate Car Finance 20<br />

Odd Jobs 40<br />

Painter and Decorator 40<br />

Pearson Hall Sonning 30<br />

Pennymatters Finance Advice 10<br />

Q1 Care 30<br />

Reading Blue Coat School 18<br />

Richfield Flooring 14<br />

Sabella Interiors 36<br />

Shiplake College 20<br />

Signature Cliveden Manor Care Home 28<br />

Sonning Golf Club 32<br />

Sonning Scouts Marquees 32<br />

Smallwood Garden Services 40<br />

Style by Julie 10<br />

Sunrise of Sonning Senior Living 34<br />

Thames Valley Water Softeners 10<br />

Thames Valley Wills Service 40<br />

Tomalin Funerals 30<br />

Velvaere Studio 6<br />

Village Hamper 20<br />

Walker Funerals 12<br />

Water Softener Salt 28<br />

Window Cleaner 30


Please mention <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> when responding this advertisement<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - <strong>November</strong> <strong>2021</strong> 43<br />

BRIDGE HOUSE<br />

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<strong>The</strong> French Horn,<br />

Sonning. Quality.<br />

A continuing commitment to<br />

wonderful food and wine.<br />

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