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Page 12A THE BEACON <strong>December</strong> <strong>2021</strong><br />

By<br />

Doris<br />

Butt<br />

Community<br />

Correspondent<br />

goodolddays@goBEACONnews.com<br />

Memories of the Farm<br />

Those of you that have<br />

passed the farmstead since we<br />

sold it have noticed there is a<br />

big change.<br />

First, the house has been<br />

redone. The little bedroom<br />

that had to be made out of a<br />

porch when I could no longer<br />

go to the upstairs bedroom<br />

was removed. That was a<br />

plus since it was kind of a<br />

distraction. The house still<br />

had wooden siding. My siding<br />

survey noted that was rare<br />

for most have long ago been<br />

replaced with vinyl siding.<br />

Soon after our selling, the<br />

house had a new look. The<br />

little bedroom returned to a<br />

porch. The yellow siding was<br />

put on, with accents of red by<br />

the windows. The hundredplus-year-old<br />

beauty now can<br />

compete with the new homes<br />

in the subdivision (once our<br />

land) across the road.<br />

The barn has been changed.<br />

New siding has styled the<br />

exterior in a whole new look.<br />

Now I admit I had to think<br />

about that for a while.<br />

The barn was always special<br />

to me. Even in its previous<br />

appearance, it made quite<br />

an impression. As a child, I<br />

was proud of it.<br />

I have written some of my<br />

favorite words about the barn.<br />

I feel like sharing them.<br />

“My earliest memory is sitting<br />

on a rock in front of the<br />

barn and playing with a makebelieve<br />

miniature village with<br />

houses made of mower teeth<br />

and stick soldiers.<br />

I was about the same age<br />

when something special happened<br />

once a year. No child<br />

who has lived the experience<br />

of seeing and hearing that giant<br />

threshing machine pulled<br />

by a puffing steam engine will<br />

ever forget it. The harmonious<br />

sounds of the chugging<br />

thresher and snorting engine<br />

are still very much in my<br />

memories. I can still see the<br />

neighbor men arriving with<br />

their teams and wagons. The<br />

ladies helped my mother cook<br />

a special dinner that would,<br />

although never a spoken<br />

word said so, outdo all other<br />

meals served. I can smell the<br />

worker’s sweat, see them<br />

washing their faces in the pan<br />

on a bench, and drying off<br />

with feed sack cloth towels. (I<br />

still have the bench and some<br />

of the towels.) A crew of men<br />

carried bags of wheat into the<br />

granary and up the stairs. I<br />

would sit in the bin, and they<br />

would pour the grain over me.<br />

I liked that. It was a wonderful<br />

day.<br />

I have only to enter the barn<br />

to see my mother milking the<br />

cows named after neighbors<br />

while Dad did other chores. I<br />

can see the horses, Fannie and<br />

Barney. I remember slipping<br />

them ears of corn and enjoying<br />

their chomping noises as<br />

they ate. Their noses felt so<br />

soft. Later there was another<br />

team, Sam and Bob. They<br />

were sold when they were of<br />

no more use. My father did<br />

not ask what would become<br />

of them.”<br />

These are my favorite paragraphs<br />

of all my writing.<br />

“I hear the business of the<br />

barn: the squeak of the hay<br />

wagon and hollow sound of<br />

horse’s hoofs as they walk<br />

across the wooden floor,<br />

the creak of that loaded hay<br />

fork as it struggles along the<br />

track of the barn and rattle<br />

of impatient horses shaking<br />

their harness. I hear the sound<br />

of machinery: the slap of the<br />

drive belt as it powers the<br />

feed grinder, the pulsations<br />

of the tractor as each grain<br />

bundle is received into that<br />

noisy thresher or the corn<br />

shredder. I can hear the talk of<br />

horses, bellowing bulls, mooing<br />

cows crying for weaned<br />

calves, cats with kittens, and<br />

chickens clucking in nests in<br />

the hay. I definitely will not<br />

forget the hissing of geese<br />

as they chased me. They are<br />

sounds so alive and gratifying<br />

to my ears.<br />

One of my jobs as a child<br />

was pulling the hay rope back.<br />

Of all the jobs my parents did<br />

I remember harvesting hay the<br />

most. My dad pitched hay to<br />

my mother who arranged it on<br />

the wagon. Later in the barn,<br />

she ran the hayfork while my<br />

father worked in the mow.<br />

M<br />

DEAR<br />

ARIE<br />

By<br />

Marie<br />

Segale<br />

marie@goBEACONnews.com<br />

Dear Marie,<br />

I need some help! I will<br />

have company coming over<br />

starting in November and<br />

throughout the holidays.<br />

Some of my company will<br />

be coming from out of town<br />

several hours away, and some<br />

visitors only live an hour<br />

away.<br />

Marie, is it acceptable for<br />

The barn that was lovingly restored on our farm.<br />

guests to bring their uninvited<br />

pets to my house any time<br />

they come to visit?<br />

I can’t imagine bringing my<br />

dogs or cats to anyone’s home<br />

when I go to visit. In fact, I<br />

think my pets would not be<br />

welcomed.<br />

When I have company, I<br />

make sure to put the dogs in<br />

a different part of the house<br />

where they won’t bother my<br />

guests.<br />

Marie, am I wrong to think<br />

that showing up at anyone’s<br />

home and bringing your uninvited<br />

pet is rude?<br />

Abigail in Bright<br />

The tractor driven by my sister<br />

pulled the rope that pulled<br />

the fork with the hay into the<br />

loft. I pulled it back. It always<br />

seemed to be a very hot day.<br />

“Some changes do not come<br />

easy, but they are for the<br />

best.”<br />

Oh, there are no hollyhocks<br />

or scarecrows at the farmstead.<br />

They were just my<br />

accents I enjoyed. Ray and I<br />

spent much time and money<br />

to see that the barn would be<br />

preserved. We are pleased<br />

that the new owners share that<br />

concern and have dressed the<br />

barn and also the house so<br />

that it will be bright and alive<br />

for all to see for many years.<br />

Dear Abigail,<br />

You most certainly are correct<br />

in thinking that bringing<br />

a pet that has not been invited<br />

to another person’s house is<br />

rude. I have a personal example<br />

regarding this situation.<br />

One of my guests brought<br />

a small dog to my home, I<br />

was not happy about that at<br />

all. While the dog was at my<br />

home, another guest started<br />

playing vigorously with the<br />

little dog. During their rough<br />

play, the dog’s toenail got<br />

caught on my Berber carpet,<br />

pulling it into a snag. So do<br />

you think my guest arranged<br />

to have my carpet repaired?<br />

Of course not! I called the<br />

repairman whom I had to pay<br />

to fix the carpet.<br />

Bringing a pet who has<br />

not been invited to another<br />

person’s home is unthinkable<br />

to me. Choose your adjectiverude,<br />

showing bad manners,<br />

inconsiderate- all will apply.<br />

Have a pressing issue?<br />

Contact Marie@goBEACON<br />

news.com<br />

Downtown Lawrenceburg’s<br />

Nov. 13<br />

Ice Rink<br />

Opens<br />

Nov. 13<br />

Merchant<br />

Open<br />

Houses<br />

Nov. 27, 28<br />

Small Business<br />

Saturday, Mayor's<br />

Reception &<br />

Tree Lighting<br />

Dec. 4<br />

Winter<br />

Wonderland<br />

Parade<br />

Winter Wonderland<br />

Ice Rink Opens<br />

Located at Todd Creech Park,<br />

305 W. Tate St.<br />

November 13 - January 9, 2022<br />

Hello Holidays<br />

Merchant Open Houses<br />

11:00-4:00<br />

Carriage rides downtown, special<br />

discounts, prize giveaways, live music,<br />

and Snowman Scavenger Hunt w/<br />

Cookie Prizes. Lawrenceburg Event<br />

Center – Celebrity Chef Robert Irvine<br />

3 & 7P.<br />

NOVEMBER 27<br />

Small Business Saturday<br />

Over a dozen businesses downtown<br />

will be offering special discounts<br />

for holiday shoppers!<br />

NOVEMBER 28<br />

5:30P Mayor’s Reception<br />

at the Lawrenceburg Event Center<br />

7:00P Official Tree Lighting<br />

Ceremony at the Civic Park<br />

DECEMBER 4<br />

Breakfast with Santa<br />

Lawrenceburg Community Center<br />

Santa’s Workshop Craft Activities<br />

Winter Wonderland<br />

Parade<br />

Santa and Mrs. Claus Arrive<br />

Big Prize Giveaway<br />

DECEMBER 11<br />

Santa arrives at Ice Rink<br />

www.DowntownLawrenceburg.com<br />

Get it All at www.goBEACONnews.com

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