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- Page 8 and 9: CONTENTSAcknowledgments1. What Happ
- Page 10 and 11: ACKNOWLEDGMENTSLove begins, or shou
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marriage, then they could write it
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If your spouse’s love language is
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4. Compliment your spouse in the pr
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Love Language #2QUALITY TIMEI shoul
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“You are right,” I said, “and
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Take our RV and spend a weekend in
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have done it together. The children
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a friendly, uninterrupted context.
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Many of us…are trained to analyze
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attention. I can’t do that right
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that expressing angry feelings is n
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Based on our thoughts and emotions,
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you will have a wonderful evening.
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the radio was always on, tuned to t
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one, Words of Affirmation, and love
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some of the events of the day. When
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chapter six
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Dominica. Our purpose was to study
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serious trouble. One husband said,
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spouse has expressed excitement abo
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it the gift of self or the gift of
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ridiculous.”He was a sincere husb
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began talking almost immediately af
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afternoon, but it didn’t matter.
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had been so dense for all those yea
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the beauty you see in your spouse.3
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the charity to send a card informin
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Love Language #4ACTS OF SERVICEBefo
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not far from Andy Griffith’s lege
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go see my mother or go shopping or
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I thought I was beginning to see so
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things for him to express your love
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I wish he would change the baby’s
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After years of research, I have rea
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language. People tend to criticize
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require some of us to reexamine our
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up. Now he knows how to do everythi
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walks in the door, join the childre
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chapter eight
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Physical touch is also a powerful v
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Some parts of the body are more sen
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favorite television program require
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demonstrated that the open marriage
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I had the hunch that either Pete’
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many interests they held in common.
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But Patsy did not understand. She w
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realized it.”“She’s right,”
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“Well,” I said, “it’s not h
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prayer reach over and hold your spo
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chapter nine
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“By ‘Physical Touch,’ what do
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Most sexual problems in marriage ha
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I remember Mary in Kitchener, Ontar
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express love to his wife by giving
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language. Then list the other four
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love language of your spouse is som
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LOVE ISA CHOICEHow can we speak eac
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I told Brent on the phone, “As yo
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day. If I know her primary love lan
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Brent about the issues in this book
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In the nine months that I counseled
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begins to fill.Love is a choice. An
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LOVE MAKES THE DIFFERENCELove is no
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Love is not the answer to everythin
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schedule every week. That’s all t
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would come home in the afternoon an
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chapter twelve
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But Ann’s question did not go awa
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almost two thousand years ago, migh
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great deal of respect for the teach
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Ann paused and then continued. “O
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felt loved. More than anything, I w
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sexual intercourse at least once a
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told you I was going to try to be a
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of complaints that you have written
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chapter thirteen
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seconds, saying, “Daddy, come to
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Have you seen that in your communit
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school.” “I can’t believe you
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the child by giving gifts.If the gi
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emotional communicator to children.
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communicate love in the proper lang
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A PERSONAL WORDIn chapter 2, I warn
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“Father, forgive them for they kn
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For a free on-line study guide plea
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INTERPRETING AND USING YOUR PROFILE
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The Five Love LanguagesPROFILE FOR
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Table of ContentsAcknowledgments1.