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Page 10A THE BEACON <strong>Aug</strong>ust <strong>2023</strong><br />

The following excerpt is<br />

from a book written in 1930<br />

by a lifetime resident of Ripley<br />

County, Yorkville, and Manchester.<br />

The BEACON is honored<br />

to share another chapter<br />

of the book each month thanks<br />

to Mary Randell’s descendants.<br />

Previous chapters are<br />

available online starting with<br />

the <strong>Aug</strong>ust 2022 print edition<br />

at goBEACONnews.com/<br />

print_edition.<br />

This issue features part two<br />

of chapter 12. The first half of<br />

the chapter can be found in<br />

the July issue of issue of The<br />

BEACON.<br />

By Mary M. Greiner Randell<br />

Chapter XII- Part 2 of 2<br />

At this place we used no<br />

matches. We had a big fireside<br />

and kept a hickory chunk<br />

covered with ashes that would<br />

hold fire for a week.<br />

When I was fourteen years<br />

old my father took me to<br />

Greeensburg to find a place to<br />

work. In those days, the girls<br />

would go to the minister’s<br />

house and the minister’s wife<br />

would find a job for her or<br />

maybe have lined up already.<br />

If the girl wanted to give her a<br />

piece of money she would<br />

Author<br />

Mary Randell<br />

take it, but<br />

she made no<br />

charge. I<br />

found a<br />

place with a<br />

young<br />

couple who<br />

had one<br />

child. In<br />

those days<br />

the working<br />

girls did the washing and the<br />

ladies all wore trails on their<br />

dresses. They would walk<br />

downtown that way with their<br />

skirts dragging the sidewalk.<br />

Every time they went out they<br />

had to put on a clean dress. It<br />

took more time to do up those<br />

dresses than to do all the other<br />

housework.<br />

About eight or nine o’clock<br />

at night I had to carry the<br />

baby to sleep while the parents<br />

were reading. Sometimes<br />

I would be so tired I would<br />

almost drop the baby. When<br />

I would tell the mother I was<br />

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tired she would say, “Oh carry<br />

her a little while longer.”<br />

When I would stop walking<br />

the baby would cry.<br />

One day this lady took me<br />

to Cincinnati with her, and<br />

then it was worse than ever.<br />

She would go out to see her<br />

friends and I was left with the<br />

baby to take care of. We were<br />

there five weeks and if I could<br />

have found a different job I<br />

would not have come back<br />

with her. But in those days<br />

work was scarce. So when we<br />

came back she put on those<br />

long dresses again and I got<br />

tired of washing them. My<br />

mother came to see me and<br />

she acted so hateful that we<br />

sat up all night and the next<br />

morning my mother went<br />

home. I didn’t stay long after<br />

this.<br />

I wrote to Indianapolis and<br />

asked the minister’s wife to<br />

get me a place to work and<br />

told her that I would pay her<br />

for it. So I told the lady I was<br />

going and her sister found<br />

it out. The sister begged me<br />

to stay, but I said I couldn’t<br />

stay any longer. She was a<br />

very good woman; she and<br />

her husband went to the same<br />

church that I did and before I<br />

left they bought me a Bible.<br />

They told me to read it and<br />

not to forget that Jesus suffered<br />

and died on the cross to<br />

save the whole world. They<br />

prayed for me before I was<br />

converted. So I did what they<br />

told me. I have never forgotten<br />

those words. They have<br />

helped me all my life.<br />

When I went to Indianapolis<br />

to work I worked in another<br />

girl’s place until her mother<br />

got well. The name of this<br />

family was Tudweiler. But she<br />

didn’t get well, she died when<br />

she had been sick a month.<br />

Then the girl came back and<br />

I got another place to work.<br />

At this place I didn’t have to<br />

wash by myself. The lady of<br />

the house used to go out riding.<br />

She would take the children<br />

with her and one day one<br />

of the children took a spasm<br />

and fell off the seat onto the<br />

sidewalk. I heard her scream.<br />

I picked up the child and put<br />

it in a tub of warm water, then<br />

took it out and wrapped it in<br />

a flannel blanket. By this time<br />

the doctor had come and she<br />

asked him if that was the right<br />

thing to do. He said, “She<br />

couldn’t have done anything<br />

any better.” Then she asked<br />

me if I could unhitch a horse<br />

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and I told her I had unhitched<br />

many a horse.<br />

I liked this place of work,<br />

but I was only a helper and<br />

I was afraid I would forget<br />

what I knew about cooking.<br />

In those days they didn’t have<br />

any cook books; at least I had<br />

never seen one.<br />

At another place where I<br />

worked they were American<br />

people. Mr. Span was a real<br />

estate man. The first child was<br />

John, the second James, the<br />

third child was a girl named<br />

Mamie, and the fourth child<br />

was Charley. This man would<br />

go to market and buy quail<br />

and wild ducks. One time he<br />

bought a half of a deer. He<br />

hung it in the wash house and<br />

his wife asked him where<br />

he expected us to wash our<br />

clothes. This was on Tuesday,<br />

and on Sunday I put the<br />

last of the deer in the oven to<br />

roast. There were ten in the<br />

family, counting an aunt and<br />

a niece. At this place they had<br />

a woman to help me wash,<br />

but not to iron. No shirts were<br />

sent to the laundry either,<br />

and in the winter the washing<br />

had to be carried up two<br />

long flights of stairs to the<br />

attic. These people had also<br />

a girl to do the upstairs work<br />

and wait on the table. They<br />

had a colored man to black<br />

their shoes every night and<br />

set them in the hall in a row.<br />

He tended the furnace every<br />

morning and took care of the<br />

yard. He went to market with<br />

Mr. Span and carried a heavy<br />

basket; and in the afternoon<br />

he took the family out riding.<br />

This man bought two houses,<br />

and had them moved away so<br />

he could have a place for the<br />

boys to play croquet.<br />

One day these boys brought<br />

home some limburger cheese<br />

and put it in the cupboard.<br />

Their mother was such a little<br />

woman that she couldn’t<br />

reach everything even when<br />

standing on a chair, so she<br />

had to hunt for it. They had<br />

put it in a tureen with a lid on<br />

it. The two oldest boys were<br />

about 20 years old when I<br />

worked there. After I left they<br />

went to New York, and when<br />

each came back brought a<br />

wife with him. The morning<br />

I left they gave me two vases<br />

and I have them yet.<br />

Well, in the next place I<br />

worked I could cook, and that<br />

suited me fine. They were<br />

Jewish people and believed<br />

in lots of cooking. I had<br />

chickens to dress and geese<br />

and ducks; and we surely did<br />

enjoy eating them. I learned to<br />

pluck geese before I got there.<br />

At this place I had big loads<br />

of wash. The girl that did<br />

the kitchen work always had<br />

to do the washing and the<br />

ironing. The upstairs girl had<br />

to wait on the table and take<br />

care of the children, and take<br />

them out in the evening and<br />

undress them and put them to<br />

bed. When it came her turn to<br />

go out and be free one afternoon<br />

each week and every<br />

other Sunday, I would take<br />

the children out. Of course,<br />

this pleased the mother very<br />

much. She would give me<br />

some money to spend for the<br />

children. One time we went<br />

to an outing and stayed until<br />

dark expecting to come home<br />

on the street car. When the<br />

first car came along it was<br />

crowded; then I waited for<br />

the second and it was more<br />

crowded, so we started to<br />

walk home. I put as many as<br />

I could in the baby buggy.<br />

There were four children and<br />

we were three miles from<br />

home. Sometimes I carried<br />

one on my arm and wheeled<br />

the buggy with the other hand.<br />

This gave me a lesson never<br />

to go that far from home<br />

again. I got three dollars a<br />

week at this place and all the<br />

clothes that I needed to wear.<br />

The names of this man and<br />

his wife were Mr. Lieberman<br />

Mosler and Rachel Mosler.<br />

The first child was called<br />

Issie, the second Isabel,<br />

the third Moras, the fourth<br />

Blanche, and the fifth Gertrude.<br />

It may be that some of<br />

them may come across this<br />

book. My name then was<br />

Mary Margaret Greiner, but<br />

they called me “Maggie.”<br />

There were eleven in this<br />

family, and I had to do all the<br />

cooking for that many outside<br />

of the wash days and ironing<br />

days- in those days they didn’t<br />

know anything about sending<br />

their clothes to the laundry.<br />

Skirts had to be done up at<br />

home, and in the winter I had<br />

to carry them up two flights of<br />

stairs to the attic to hang them<br />

up to dry. That was sixty years<br />

ago.<br />

With all this work I got<br />

only three dollars and a half<br />

a week. This was before girls<br />

could work in factories. Nowadays<br />

white working girls are<br />

scarce. With all the work I<br />

used to do, I would go to her<br />

sister’s next door and sew on<br />

the sewing machine. I made<br />

clothes for the children to get<br />

more money for myself. I was<br />

with this family five years<br />

and they liked me so well that<br />

they bought nearly all my<br />

clothes. When the nurse girl<br />

would have her afternoon off,<br />

I would arrange my work so<br />

that I could take the children<br />

out. I was also paid for that.<br />

That was on Thursday afternoons.<br />

While I stayed at this place<br />

the lady of the house went to<br />

Cincinnati to see her parents.<br />

She took one child with her<br />

and one Saturday night; the<br />

robbers cut the slates on the<br />

shutters and a piece of glass<br />

out of the window so they<br />

could unlatch the window.<br />

This was in the second story.<br />

The man slept in the same<br />

room where the children<br />

slept. We girls slept in the<br />

third story and never heard<br />

anything. He said he had $80<br />

in gold under his pillow. The<br />

robbers took that and his gold<br />

watch.<br />

Once when I was working<br />

at Indianapolis all or nearly<br />

all of the horses got sick and<br />

they had to send away to get<br />

oxen to pull the bakers wagons,<br />

the milk wagons and the<br />

butchers wagons. The folks<br />

that went to the grocery had<br />

to carry their goods home or<br />

do without. Those that had<br />

carriages had sick horses and<br />

those that didn’t have haulers<br />

to do it for them had to carry<br />

their goods home themselves.<br />

The hired girls had too much<br />

to do to go to the stores.<br />

In those days the girls had<br />

to pick (pluck) the feathers<br />

off chickens and dress<br />

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the butcher shops and get<br />

the chickens all dressed, also<br />

geese and ducks and turkeys,<br />

quail and pigeons and guineas.<br />

Everything like that had<br />

to be done by the hired girls.<br />

The bare kitchen floors had<br />

to be scrubbed, kneeling;<br />

nowadays one uses mops and<br />

vacuum cleaners.<br />

When I was sixteen years<br />

old women wore dresses<br />

with trails when they went<br />

downtown. When they came<br />

back of course the dress had<br />

to go in the wash. In those<br />

days there was no laundry. If<br />

a girl didn’t know how to do<br />

up skirts, she couldn’t hold a<br />

job as kitchen girl. Kitchen<br />

girls had to do the cooking<br />

except on wash days when the<br />

upstairs girl had to do it.<br />

One thing I failed to mention<br />

was that hired girls would<br />

quit their jobs and get work in<br />

a new place to avoid buying<br />

new clothes. After this I got<br />

another place to work, with an<br />

American family, where I had<br />

to have lots of patience. The<br />

lady I worked for was always<br />

dissatisfied about everything.<br />

One day her minister’s wife<br />

came to see her and offered<br />

her a music box. But, she<br />

said, “I couldn’t stand any<br />

music.” Then the minister’s<br />

wife offered to bring her Polly<br />

parrot down to Mrs. Pattison<br />

for company, but she refused<br />

that too. Then the minister<br />

came to see her and she<br />

complained to him that the<br />

high board fence bothered her.<br />

He said, “Well there won’t be<br />

any in heaven,” and he went<br />

home.<br />

At this place I had time to<br />

sew. I got $2.50 a week and<br />

had a chance to make some<br />

of my wedding clothes. There<br />

were three in the family, Mr.<br />

and Mrs. Pattison, and a girl<br />

named Nellie. This girl laid<br />

her diamond ring down on a<br />

chair and three men came to<br />

put up a stove, but I saw the<br />

ring and saved it for her.<br />

This woman wasn’t very<br />

kind; she had trouble with<br />

her feet, and was very hard to<br />

please. So I did my sewing at<br />

the minister’s house. While I<br />

was there I also took care of<br />

her children, so the minister<br />

and his wife could go out<br />

calling among the members.<br />

One day she wanted me to do<br />

some stitching for her. I didn’t<br />

think it suited her, but I didn’t<br />

rip it out because I knew it<br />

was alright.<br />

I used to tell the minister’s<br />

children some of my childhood<br />

stories and I don’t think<br />

they had time to think of their<br />

father and mother, let alone<br />

cry after them. One day, when<br />

they came home, the children<br />

said, “I wish you and Daddy<br />

had stayed out longer, Mary<br />

has been telling us some<br />

stories.” Now, all those that<br />

can’t tell children stories<br />

should get a book and read to<br />

your children. A child likes to<br />

be entertained. I always loved<br />

children. Just two years ago,<br />

I was at my son’s house and a<br />

lady came with two children.<br />

She began to worry about<br />

them and I offered to take<br />

care of them. She said, “Oh,<br />

what a relief.” I showed them<br />

some pictures and when they<br />

got tired of those, I cut out the<br />

pictures and mixed some flour<br />

paste and spread newspapers<br />

on the floor. They pasted<br />

until they went home. I kept<br />

a wet cloth lying on a chair<br />

so I could wipe their hands.<br />

When they were just outside<br />

the door began to clean up the<br />

mess and it didn’t take five<br />

minutes.<br />

Children should be treated<br />

in such a way that they should<br />

have confidence in you<br />

and come to you with their<br />

troubles instead of going to<br />

the neighbors. I have raised<br />

seven good children.

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