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Issue 105<br />
AUGUST <strong>2023</strong><br />
FREE<br />
Industry<br />
Experts<br />
Why engage your<br />
senses for mental health?<br />
Practitioner well-being<br />
Guided role-play and<br />
vocabulary development<br />
in the early years<br />
+ lots more<br />
EYFS activities<br />
inside!<br />
This month…<br />
Understanding<br />
the World<br />
Shaping food relationships<br />
As adults, our relationship with food is a strong one.<br />
Explore with us how our habits and attachments around food stem back to the early years.<br />
TIME MANAGEMENT • HELLOS & GOODBYES • HOME EDUCATION
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Hello<br />
Welcome to our family<br />
Welcome to the <strong>August</strong> issue of <strong>Parenta</strong> <strong>magazine</strong>!<br />
It’s that time of year when children of all ages are faced with leaving friends behind (some of whom they may have known<br />
the majority of their lives so far) and at the same time, welcoming new ones. This can be a tricky time for some. How do we<br />
best teach the children in our care that sometimes we need to be ready to say “hello”, and other times, we need to find a<br />
way to say “goodbye”? On page 26, we explore this and give our top tips for easing children into ‘hellos’ and ‘goodbyes’.<br />
We thought it fitting to focus on ‘time management’ in <strong>August</strong>. Although many settings will be taking a well-earned summer<br />
break, we work in an industry which is infamous for its time constraints, so it’s no surprise that thoughts of finding the time<br />
to prepare for the new academic year are at the forefront of many people’s minds. Time management is such a vital skill for<br />
early years practitioners and educators, who wish to spend more of their working day being hands-on with the children. Turn<br />
to page 18 to find ways of being more time efficient and getting the most out of your day.<br />
This <strong>August</strong> issue is, as usual, packed with so many interesting and informative articles from our wonderful industry experts<br />
including Louise Mercieca, Jo Grace, Kathryn Peckham, Gina Bale, Stacey Kelly, Frances Turnbull and Chloe Webster.<br />
Please feel free to share the <strong>magazine</strong> with friends, parents and colleagues – they can sign up to receive their copy at<br />
www.parenta.com/<strong>magazine</strong>.<br />
Allan<br />
Regulars<br />
8 Write for us<br />
34 EYFS Activities: Understanding the World<br />
News<br />
4 Childcare News<br />
6 Small Stories<br />
39 Congratulations to our <strong>Parenta</strong> Learners<br />
Advice<br />
26<br />
14 Building assertiveness and confidence through play<br />
18 Get more from your day: the essential guide to time<br />
management<br />
22 Community management – how to embed your<br />
setting within your local community<br />
26 Hellos and goodbyes<br />
30 Home education – what’s it all about?<br />
Industry Experts<br />
36<br />
10 Why engage your senses for mental health?<br />
12 Shaping food relationships<br />
20 Practitioner well-being<br />
24 “Dough a deer”: using magic dough creatively<br />
28 Giving children learning superpowers<br />
32 Five tips for setting expectations with children<br />
36 Guided role-play and vocabulary development in the<br />
early years<br />
2 <strong>August</strong> <strong>2023</strong> | parenta.com<br />
parenta.com | <strong>August</strong> <strong>2023</strong> 3
Childcare news<br />
£204 million cash boost given to<br />
nurseries to support the expansion<br />
of childcare places<br />
The Department for Education has<br />
announced that early years nurseries<br />
are set to receive a £204 million cash<br />
boost as part of the Government’s<br />
promise to deliver the largest-ever<br />
investment in childcare. The plans,<br />
which were announced in the Spring<br />
Budget, are designed to remove<br />
significant barriers to support parents<br />
to return to work and help to grow the<br />
economy by making childcare more<br />
accessible.<br />
Chancellor of the Exchequer, Jeremy<br />
Hunt said: “I know the cost of childcare<br />
can be a real struggle for parents and<br />
can become a barrier to work. That’s<br />
why we announced the largest-ever<br />
expansion of free childcare at Spring<br />
Budget, and today we’re increasing<br />
hourly funding rates to make sure the<br />
system is ready to deliver, including<br />
uplifting rates for a two-year-old<br />
by a third. These reforms will be<br />
transformative and ensure that we<br />
build a childcare system comparable to<br />
the best.”<br />
Education Secretary, Gillian Keegan<br />
said: “Today is a great step forward<br />
as we deliver on the largest ever<br />
expansion of childcare which will be<br />
transformational for working families<br />
and will help grow our economy. I<br />
want childcare to be truly affordable<br />
and available when and where<br />
parents need it. This initial investment<br />
of over £200 million will go a long way<br />
in supporting the fantastic early years<br />
and views<br />
sector to prepare for the expansion<br />
of free childcare hours available to<br />
parents next year. The Department will<br />
shortly launch a consultation on how<br />
the funding for the new entitlements<br />
in 2024-25 will be distributed, to<br />
make sure it remains fair in light of<br />
the radically expanded free childcare<br />
offers. A further £12 million is also<br />
being given to local authorities this<br />
financial year to support them to<br />
effectively roll out the new offer.”<br />
Purnima Tanuku OBE, Chief Executive<br />
of National Day Nurseries Association<br />
(NDNA), said: “Any increase in<br />
funding must cover the spiralling<br />
costs that early years settings have<br />
been facing, especially inflation and<br />
staffing costs. With councils joining<br />
providers in highlighting the closures<br />
of nurseries due to cost pressures it is<br />
vital the Government ensures that the<br />
investment makes it to the front line.<br />
Our data shows a 50% increase in<br />
the rate of nursery closures and this<br />
is backed up by Ofsted’s statistics.<br />
Many childcare providers will receive<br />
nowhere near the average rates that<br />
have been published once regional<br />
differences and budget top-slicing<br />
have been taken into account. And for<br />
many more it will be too little, too late,<br />
especially in relation to three and fouryear<br />
old rates.<br />
The first five years of a child’s life<br />
really counts. Underinvestment in<br />
our children now will have a serious<br />
impact on their educational journey<br />
and life chances in the future. If the<br />
Government is serious about investing<br />
in early years childcare it needs to<br />
provide adequate funding to support<br />
the existing childcare infrastructure<br />
and allow providers to support their<br />
children and working families.”<br />
The full press release on the official<br />
government website can be found<br />
here.<br />
DfE reports latest figures for Early<br />
Years Education Provision<br />
In <strong>2023</strong>, the number of children<br />
registered for the 15-hour entitlements<br />
was at the lowest point in each<br />
series, whilst conversely, the number<br />
registered for the 30-hour entitlement<br />
was at the highest point in the series.<br />
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The take-up rate of 3 and<br />
4-year-olds registered for the<br />
15-hour entitlement needs to be<br />
treated with caution and likely<br />
underestimates the true rate by up<br />
to 5 percentage points (see section<br />
‘About these statistics’)<br />
Taking this into account, despite<br />
the falls in children registered<br />
for the 15-hour entitlements,<br />
the associated take-up rates in<br />
<strong>2023</strong> have increased because of<br />
larger decreases in the relevant<br />
populations (particularly for<br />
eligible 2-year-olds)<br />
The fall in the number of private,<br />
voluntary and independent (PVI)<br />
providers delivering the 15-hour<br />
entitlements was driven by a fall in<br />
the number of private or voluntary<br />
providers and childminders.<br />
Jonathan Broadbery, Director of Policy<br />
of National Day Nurseries Association<br />
(NDNA), said: “It’s heartening to see<br />
that take-up of funded places is up<br />
again after the pandemic because we<br />
know that access to early education<br />
and care can make a real difference<br />
to children’s outcomes all through<br />
their education. However, the take-up<br />
among children from disadvantaged<br />
backgrounds for two-year-old places is<br />
still lower than other groups. This is a<br />
concern because these are the children<br />
who have the most to gain from early<br />
education.<br />
“Despite the challenges of rising<br />
costs, chronic underfunding and a<br />
workforce crisis, private, voluntary and<br />
independent nurseries are the most<br />
significant group of providers for the<br />
government-funded places. These<br />
deliver 80% of eligible two-year-old<br />
places and 70% of the 30-hour places<br />
and without their input, this policy<br />
would fail. The Government must<br />
support them to be sustainable and<br />
be able to deliver additional places<br />
from April 2024 once all two-year-olds<br />
of working parents can apply for a 15-<br />
hour place.”<br />
The latest statistics in full can be found<br />
on the government website here.<br />
Warning of setting capacity ahead<br />
of free hours expansion<br />
Almost all councils are warning that an<br />
escalation of nursery closures linked to<br />
the cost-of-living crisis “will undermine<br />
capacity” when the government<br />
extends free childcare. Nine out of 10<br />
council representatives surveyed have<br />
said they fear closures will put the<br />
plans, which include offering working<br />
parents of two-year-olds 15 hours of<br />
funded childcare a week from April next<br />
year, at risk.<br />
The Local Government Association (LGA)<br />
published survey found that two in five<br />
councils saw an increase in nursery<br />
closures during 2022 compared with<br />
the previous year. Four in five councils<br />
believe nursery closures in <strong>2023</strong> “will<br />
be significant”.<br />
LGA Children and Young People<br />
Board chair Louise Gittins said; We<br />
have serious concerns about the<br />
ability of local areas to secure nursery<br />
places, with capacity issues providing<br />
challenges to the universal roll-out of<br />
the extended offer.<br />
“Nurseries and childcare providers<br />
are already under massive pressure,<br />
grappling with severe financial and<br />
workforce challenges, which has<br />
seen staff numbers depleted and an<br />
acceleration in places closing.”<br />
According to the National Day<br />
Nurseries Association (NDNA) there<br />
has been a 50% increase in nursery<br />
closures over the last year, with areas<br />
of deprivation being hardest hit.<br />
NDNA chief executive Purnima Tanuku<br />
says the LGA’s findings are a “clear<br />
warning” to ministers that expansion<br />
of funded hours “risks failure without<br />
interventions to support the sector”.<br />
“For years we have been showing<br />
how nurseries are facing increasing<br />
pressures due to spiralling costs and<br />
chronic underfunding,” she said.<br />
“Now councils are joining providers and<br />
parents in showing real concern for the<br />
viability of future expansion if we don’t<br />
fix the current system.”<br />
Between <strong>August</strong> 2021 and <strong>August</strong><br />
2022, 302 nurseries and preschools<br />
closed and the number of childcare<br />
providers including childminders fell by<br />
5,400, according to figures released by<br />
Ofsted.<br />
“It is frankly unbelievable that the<br />
government wants to expand the<br />
30-hour offer at a time that the sector<br />
is facing its most challenging time in<br />
decades,” said Early Years Alliance chief<br />
executive Neil Leitch.<br />
“Our own research finds that childcare<br />
shortages are increasing - just half of<br />
local areas have enough childcare for<br />
working parents, and only 18% have<br />
enough childcare for disabled children,”<br />
said its head Megan Jarvie.<br />
“The extension of free childcare has<br />
the potential to be a game-changer for<br />
families struggling with childcare costs,<br />
but action is needed to make sure that<br />
there will be enough places for every<br />
family that needs it.”<br />
The full story, as reported by Children &<br />
Young People Now can be found here.<br />
4 <strong>August</strong> <strong>2023</strong> | parenta.com<br />
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A round-up of some news stories that<br />
have caught our eye over the month<br />
Source and image credits to:<br />
Nursery World, Early Years Alliance,<br />
BBC News<br />
‘Considerable work’ needed to<br />
improve the effectiveness of<br />
T-Levels, says Ofsted<br />
There remains considerable work to do to<br />
improve the quality and effectiveness of<br />
T-level courses and the TLTP.<br />
More disadvantaged children to<br />
receive free nursery hours thanks<br />
to LEYF & food charity partnership<br />
A partnership between LEYF & City<br />
Harvest (which provides surplus food to<br />
the social enterprises’ settings) is being<br />
expanded.<br />
DfE launches consultation on<br />
proposed funding formula for 30<br />
hours expansion<br />
The DfE launched its consultation on its<br />
new proposed ‘fair funding formula’ for<br />
delivery of the extension of the funded<br />
hours for children from 9 months old.<br />
Political parties told to simplify<br />
early years funding system<br />
The Education Policy Institute is calling<br />
on the political parties to simplify the<br />
early years funding system & weight<br />
it ‘more heavily’ towards children with<br />
SEND & from low-income families.<br />
Families face fewer holiday<br />
childcare places and increased<br />
costs<br />
There has been a drop in the availability of<br />
summer holiday childcare provision across<br />
England, while the cost of a place has<br />
increased by 3 per cent since last year.<br />
Comedian Matt Lucas throws a<br />
‘Tantrum’ to highlight the global<br />
early years crisis<br />
Comedian & presenter Matt Lucas has<br />
got behind Theirworld’s Act for Early<br />
Years campaign, launching a ‘Global<br />
Tantrum’ in protest.<br />
Click here to send in<br />
your stories to<br />
marketing@parenta.com<br />
Cost-of-living crisis: initiatives<br />
launched to provide children<br />
with free food<br />
To support families with the cost-of-living<br />
crisis, Warburtons has teamed up with<br />
Morrisons to offer free crumpets to adults<br />
and children.<br />
Early years funding consultation<br />
for children under three<br />
published<br />
BookTrust has launched a campaign to<br />
get the nation reading, after research<br />
reveals that only one in three children are<br />
read a story every day by their dads.<br />
Childcare shortage warning as<br />
childminders quit<br />
A drastic decline in childminders could<br />
lead to a shortage of places, early years<br />
providers are warning.<br />
parenta.com | <strong>August</strong> <strong>2023</strong> 7
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Why engage your<br />
senses for mental<br />
health?<br />
I’m Jo Grace: a Sensory Engagement and Inclusion Specialist and Founder of The Sensory Projects. In this series of 10 articles, I am going<br />
to share some of my passion for understanding the sensory world with you.<br />
Connecting with your senses can be<br />
good for your mental health. To give a<br />
very rudimentary explanation, but one<br />
I am confident will resonate with many;<br />
take the experience of depression. Most<br />
people have at some time or other in their<br />
lives experienced feeling depressed. I<br />
will assume you have. And when you felt<br />
depressed, I imagine your instinct was to<br />
hide away, to shut down, to withdraw from<br />
sensation. Indeed, it has been shown that<br />
when you are depressed your senses can<br />
be dulled, particularly your sense of smell.<br />
Depression takes you inward. When you<br />
connect with the sensory world, stretch out<br />
a hand to find out what something feels<br />
like, marvel at the way the dew catches<br />
the light, take a nibble of a friend’s dinner<br />
in a restaurant, you move outwards. In<br />
the same way that depression is inwards,<br />
an engagement with the sensory world is<br />
outwards, it pulls in the opposite direction.<br />
Connecting with the sensations you are<br />
experiencing is preventative of stress,<br />
anxiety, and depression.<br />
It is wonderful to know that as you do your<br />
work sourcing materials for your setting,<br />
you can be protecting yourself from stress,<br />
anxiety, and depression. So, as you hunt<br />
around for colourful things to decorate<br />
your setting, or speculate about scented<br />
candles, or wonder about doing a cookery<br />
session, be sure to engage with it with all<br />
of your senses: touch, taste, smell, see<br />
and feel.<br />
You can offer sensory prompts and cues<br />
to the children to encourage them to do<br />
the same, as they play you can ask: “What<br />
does that smell like?” “Could that make a<br />
noise?” “Do they feel different?” - drawing<br />
their attention to the sensations available<br />
to them. If you are supporting people who<br />
can process more complex instructions,<br />
you could move from an invite or an<br />
offer to a directed activity, for example,<br />
it is a common meditative activity to use<br />
awareness of your sensory landscape<br />
to pull you into the present moment, a<br />
sensory mindfulness as it were. Using a<br />
5, 4, 3, 2, 1 countdown for this can work<br />
well: instruct the children to look at five<br />
different things (they can call out what they<br />
are looking at or they can simply try to find<br />
five different things to look at, it could be<br />
any five things or it could be five different<br />
coloured things or different shaped things).<br />
Then, ask them to listen for four noises,<br />
touch three things, and then smell two<br />
things; this can simply be noticing the<br />
aroma in the room, and smelling one’s<br />
skin or clothing. Finally, taste one thing –<br />
you could offer a taste experience at this<br />
point or just invite them to notice the taste<br />
inside their mouth at that time.<br />
Of course, the sensory world can be a<br />
distressing place and in upcoming articles<br />
we will explore this. But for now, I thought<br />
it would be fun to share some sensory<br />
pick-me-ups or sensory hugs:<br />
Smell: peppermint is meant to stimulate<br />
your thinking, perking you up. A musk<br />
scent, lavender or camomile can be<br />
calming.<br />
Taste: For a sensory hug you want<br />
something warm and sweet, sugary tea,<br />
or hot buttered toast.<br />
Touch: Try something with a bit of weight<br />
to it that fits comfortably in the palm of<br />
your hand, or if you have a body brush:<br />
brush your body with long strokes that<br />
move away from the heart. If you do<br />
not have a body brush, just find a small<br />
dustpan and brush set and steal the brush<br />
from that.<br />
Sight: Rose-tinted spectacles! Seriously,<br />
looking at things with a pinky hue is often<br />
found to be comforting.<br />
Hearing: Seek out sibilant sounds, it<br />
is likely that you naturally “shhh shhh”<br />
distressed people, you can find similar<br />
sounds in nature in the swishing of leaves<br />
in the wind or the lapping of waves on the<br />
seashore.<br />
When you stop and connect with a<br />
sensory moment, you take yourself out<br />
of your anxieties and worries, and into<br />
that sensation, into the present. It is a<br />
little bit of mindfulness in motion and can<br />
help you recognise that you are here and<br />
now: not in the awful things that may<br />
have happened before or the worrisome<br />
things that might be about to happen.<br />
At this moment it is you, in your body,<br />
experiencing this sensation. You are alive!<br />
Embrace the sensory world.<br />
In my next article, I will be looking at how<br />
we can make the most of these sensory<br />
moments. Meanwhile, feel free to connect<br />
with me on social media to watch my<br />
current sensory adventures unfurl, all<br />
the connection links can be found on my<br />
website www.TheSensoryProjects.co.uk<br />
Joanna Grace<br />
Joanna Grace is an international Sensory<br />
Engagement and Inclusion Specialist,<br />
trainer, author, TEDx speaker and founder<br />
of The Sensory Projects.<br />
Consistently rated as “outstanding” by<br />
Ofsted, Joanna has taught in<br />
mainstream and special school settings,<br />
connecting with pupils of all ages and<br />
abilities. To inform her work, Joanna<br />
draws on her own experience from her<br />
private and professional life as well as<br />
taking in all the information she can from<br />
the research archives. Joanna’s private life<br />
includes family members with disabilities<br />
and neurodiverse conditions and time<br />
spent as a registered foster carer for<br />
children with profound disabilities.<br />
Joanna has published four practitioner<br />
books: “Multiple Multisensory Rooms:<br />
Myth Busting the Magic”, “Sensory Stories<br />
for Children and Teens”, “Sensory-Being<br />
for Sensory Beings”, “Sharing Sensory<br />
Stories and Conversations with People with<br />
Dementia” and “The Subtle Spectrum”.<br />
Plus three inclusive sensory story children’s<br />
books: “Spike and Mole”, “Voyage to<br />
Arghan” and “Ernest and I” which all sell<br />
globally and her son has recently become<br />
the UK’s youngest published author with<br />
his book, “My Mummy is Autistic” which<br />
was foreworded by Chris Packham.<br />
Joanna is a big fan of social media and is<br />
always happy to connect with people via<br />
Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn.<br />
Website:<br />
thesensoryprojects.co.uk<br />
10 <strong>August</strong> <strong>2023</strong> | parenta.com<br />
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Shaping food<br />
relationships<br />
Why is childhood such an<br />
important time for shaping<br />
food relationships?<br />
When it comes to feeding a child, there’s<br />
a lot more to it than simply filling them<br />
up. Whilst, of course, that is important,<br />
many other considerations influence a<br />
child’s future health, habits, cravings and<br />
emotional attachments to food. Feeding a<br />
child in the early years is also shaping their<br />
adult relationship with food.<br />
We all know that our relationship with<br />
food is a strong one, for some people it’s<br />
a life-long love-hate relationship, largely<br />
perpetuated by the diet and weight loss<br />
industry which has many confusing and<br />
contradictory messages. For many, the<br />
habits and attachments around food stem<br />
back to the early years; we may not realise<br />
just how important our actions are around<br />
food, but children in the formative years<br />
are picking up on subtle food cues and<br />
patterns that can play an important role in<br />
future health.<br />
Early taste preferences<br />
In the years between 0 and 3, we have a<br />
real window of opportunity to influence<br />
and shape taste preferences, habits and<br />
food behaviours, as it is at this time that<br />
we can consider the child’s palate to be a<br />
blank canvas, receptive to whatever you<br />
introduce them to.<br />
It isn’t just the food…it’s the way we<br />
introduce food which can have a bearing<br />
on the way it is received. If we are very<br />
excited to introduce a young child to<br />
cake, they will pick up on our excitement<br />
before they even taste the food. Likewise,<br />
if we are apologetic about vegetables as<br />
we feel they should be eaten, our body<br />
language will reflect this, and the food will<br />
not be as well received - before it is even<br />
tasted!<br />
Food language & emotional<br />
connections<br />
One of the easiest ways to make this link<br />
is via the language we use around food;<br />
how we can emphasise certain foods and<br />
create positive or negative associations.<br />
One example is when trying to get children<br />
to eat vegetables, often people will offer<br />
a food incentive to get the child to eat the<br />
vegetable.<br />
For example: “Eat your broccoli and you<br />
can have the chocolate.”<br />
“You’re not having a ‘treat’ until you have<br />
eaten your carrots.”<br />
In this scenario, the vegetable becomes<br />
the ‘bad guy’ - the obstacle which needs<br />
to be overcome to get to the ‘good stuff’.<br />
The unhealthy food, often labelled as a<br />
‘treat’ becomes the goal, the reward, and<br />
the positive association is aimed at the<br />
unhealthy food, therefore the healthy food<br />
is portrayed negatively. This may be said<br />
innocently, but it creates associations with<br />
foods and where possible, we want the<br />
associations created to be those which<br />
view healthy foods in a good light!<br />
Emotional eating<br />
As we know, many people turn to food in<br />
times of sadness, stress, fatigue, illness,<br />
and celebration - together we group this<br />
as ‘emotional eating’. We are not born<br />
with emotional eating tendencies, they are<br />
taught. Once again, innocent phrases and<br />
eating patterns can create associations<br />
in our brains that link certain foods with<br />
attempts to fix emotional issues. Sadly,<br />
biology will never support this and<br />
emotional eating leads to many metabolic<br />
and neurological issues.<br />
Below are some examples of common<br />
phrases and situations where food is used<br />
with children that can potentially lead to<br />
‘emotional-eating’ adults.<br />
Scenario one<br />
Child falls over and hurts themselves,<br />
not seriously, but enough to make them<br />
feel upset. The grown-up naturally goes<br />
to comfort the child. They pick them up,<br />
cuddle them and say:<br />
“Let’s sit down for a minute and have a<br />
biscuit/piece of chocolate/sweet. That’ll<br />
make you feel better”.<br />
It may seem a perfectly innocuous<br />
thing to do and say, but the child on<br />
a deep subconscious level creates an<br />
association with the unhealthy food<br />
offered and comfort, even though the act<br />
that calms the child down is the cuddle<br />
and the nice words, not the food. For<br />
adults, the association remains (via our<br />
neural pathways which, on a biological<br />
level remember these connections, the<br />
strongest connections are formed before<br />
the age of 3). But for the grown-up, it could<br />
be any prolonged situation that causes<br />
them upset and stress and eating biscuits<br />
is certainly not going to fix the issues, it’s<br />
more than likely to cause more.<br />
The biology of emotional<br />
eating<br />
As with every aspect of eating, our biology<br />
plays a big part and not just with the<br />
physical digestion but with our mind too.<br />
When it comes to emotional eating, food<br />
will never fix things – and here’s why: -<br />
Mood dip
Building assertiveness<br />
and confidence<br />
through play<br />
What is needed for<br />
confidence and<br />
assertiveness?<br />
To develop confidence and assertiveness,<br />
children need to be in the right<br />
environment. A child living in an unsafe,<br />
scary or dangerous environment is much<br />
less likely to develop confidence than those<br />
who don’t. So, as early years practitioners,<br />
we need to ensure that our settings:<br />
If you’ve ever sat and watched children<br />
play, there will come a time when you may<br />
witness a potential conflict between two<br />
individuals. It could be a discussion about<br />
who plays with the scooter next or whose<br />
turn it is on the swing, but sure enough,<br />
these incidents happen. When they do,<br />
you may see:<br />
✨ A child who is submissive and gives<br />
up on what they really want when<br />
confronted<br />
✨ A child who is confident and assertive<br />
and able to stand up for what they<br />
want<br />
✨ A child who becomes aggressive<br />
and/or bossy who gets what they<br />
want through bullying or aggression/<br />
violence<br />
Clearly, we strive to encourage our young<br />
people to learn to be confident and<br />
assertive since these are positive values,<br />
whereas being submissive or aggressive<br />
are not traits to encourage because they<br />
will lead to problems for the child later on.<br />
But where is the line between being<br />
mindful of other people’s feelings and<br />
submission? When does assertiveness tip<br />
over into being aggressive? And how do<br />
we promote confidence and assertiveness<br />
anyway?<br />
Why these things are<br />
important?<br />
One of the prime areas of learning in the<br />
EYFS is “personal, social and emotional<br />
development”. The EYFS states:<br />
“Children’s personal, social and emotional<br />
development (PSED) is crucial for<br />
children to lead healthy and happy lives,<br />
and is fundamental to their cognitive<br />
development… Children should be<br />
supported to manage emotions, develop<br />
a positive sense of self, set themselves<br />
simple goals, have confidence in their own<br />
abilities, to persist and wait for what they<br />
want and direct attention as necessary….<br />
Through supported interaction with other<br />
children, they learn how to make good<br />
friendships, co-operate and resolve<br />
conflicts peaceably. These attributes will<br />
provide a secure platform from which<br />
children can achieve at school and in later<br />
life.”<br />
We want our children to be able to get<br />
the things they want in life, mindful of the<br />
needs of others, but also understanding<br />
the importance of respecting their own<br />
wants, needs and desires. It is the path<br />
to happiness and can result in children<br />
fulfilling their true potential for the benefit<br />
of themselves and those around them.<br />
The Hungarian Holocaust-survivor, turned<br />
psychologist, Dr Edith Eger said:<br />
“To be passive is to let others decide for<br />
you. To be aggressive is to decide for<br />
others. To be assertive is to decide for<br />
yourself. And to trust that there is enough,<br />
that you are enough.”<br />
Communication<br />
style/<br />
Characteristic<br />
Eye contact<br />
Body language<br />
Expressions and<br />
gestures<br />
The benefits of being confident and<br />
assertive are that children can:<br />
✨ Speak up for themselves and their<br />
peers<br />
✨ Learn to say “no” when needed<br />
✨ Treat others with respect<br />
✨ Take constructive criticism<br />
✨ Deal with bullying instances more<br />
effectively<br />
Communication styles<br />
There are a number of communication<br />
styles which psychologists have identified,<br />
but 3 of the main styles are passive,<br />
aggressive and assertive. To understand<br />
these, you must first understand that<br />
it is not just the words that people use<br />
that indicate meaning or status - body<br />
language, use of space/proxemics,<br />
gesture and eye contact all play a part.<br />
The table below shows some of the ways<br />
that these three styles play out in practice.<br />
Passive Assertive Aggressive<br />
Little or no eye contact<br />
Often looks down<br />
Closed off, shoulders<br />
down, defensive<br />
Not able to express<br />
own needs<br />
Subservient to others<br />
“I don’t care…” or “I<br />
don’t mind, whatever<br />
you want…”<br />
Makes eye contact<br />
appropriately<br />
Shoulders back, head<br />
up, open stance<br />
Respects others<br />
Listens to others<br />
Often says things like “I<br />
think…”, “I’d like…” or “I<br />
feel…”<br />
Staring, eye contact that<br />
feels uncomfortable<br />
Strong, upright stance,<br />
often moves around<br />
a lot<br />
Rude or bossy<br />
language<br />
Issues orders<br />
Focuses on their own<br />
needs “I want..”, “You<br />
need to…”<br />
Angry gestures<br />
Proxemics Stays at a distance Respects personal space Usually “in-your-face”<br />
and invades personal<br />
space<br />
✨ Make children feel safe and secure<br />
✨ Include trusted adults<br />
✨ Allow secure relationships to develop<br />
✨ Encourage small wins so children can<br />
build on past successes<br />
✨ Allow safe risk-taking for children to<br />
experiment and learn<br />
✨ Understand that mistakes are an<br />
essential part of the learning process<br />
✨ Offer praise and feedback for effort as<br />
well as attainment<br />
Using play to build<br />
confidence<br />
Confidence comes from knowing you can<br />
do something – it is an experiential feeling<br />
– you can’t learn it from a book, you have<br />
to experience that uplifting feeling of<br />
knowing you have achieved something for<br />
yourself. In practice, this means allowing<br />
the children to try things, do things<br />
for themselves, and if they fail at first,<br />
explaining that this is part of the process.<br />
The ‘secret’ to succeeding, is to keep trying<br />
and make small adjustments along the<br />
way. That’s how we all learn to walk after<br />
all. We don’t give up the first time we<br />
attempt to totter across the room – we<br />
fall down numerous times, but we keep<br />
getting back up. Eventually our tentative<br />
steps become more confident, which is<br />
reflected in our emotional understanding<br />
of ourselves and our self-esteem and<br />
general confidence.<br />
Play is extremely important in promoting<br />
these things as it allows children to take<br />
risks, explore emotions and learn from<br />
the feedback from others. If they are<br />
too aggressive in taking the toy from<br />
someone, just because they wanted it,<br />
they will face the consequences of possibly<br />
losing a friend, getting into trouble with the<br />
adults, and potentially still not getting what<br />
they want.<br />
Ways to encourage<br />
confidence- and<br />
assertive-building<br />
play<br />
✨ Practice role-play scenarios and talk<br />
about different outcomes<br />
✨ Encourage social situations where<br />
children can talk about themselves<br />
and what they want<br />
✨ Let children work through play tasks<br />
themselves – don’t be too quick to<br />
jump in and complete things for them<br />
✨ Encourage children to imagine<br />
different situations and be there to<br />
give feedback and support but don’t<br />
stifle what they want to do<br />
✨ Offer “What if?” scenarios, for<br />
example, “What if you were<br />
Superman/girl, what do you think<br />
they would do here?” or “What<br />
would happen if you used a different<br />
approach to this?”<br />
✨ Offer problem-solving play<br />
opportunities through puzzles, jigsaws<br />
or building things, encouraging and<br />
praising effort<br />
✨ Avoid comparisons with others<br />
Other resources<br />
Twinkl have a number or useful resources<br />
to encourage assertiveness and<br />
confidence. They have an assertiveness<br />
scale and picture cards that you can use<br />
to help children understand the different<br />
communication styles.<br />
References and more<br />
information<br />
Confident Communicator<br />
Nursery World<br />
Edutopia<br />
Moments a Day<br />
Happy Confident<br />
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Not surprisingly, the phrase ‘time<br />
management’ is used frequently in the<br />
early years sector; we work in an industry<br />
which is infamous for its time constraints<br />
with so many practitioners striving to make<br />
those precious hours in one day go a little<br />
further.<br />
What is ‘time<br />
management’?<br />
Get more from your<br />
day: the essential guide<br />
to time management<br />
Simply put, it’s the ability to use one’s time<br />
effectively, or productively, especially at<br />
work.<br />
A more detailed explanation, taken from<br />
Mind Tools, is “the process of organising<br />
and planning how to divide your time<br />
between different activities. Get it right,<br />
and you’ll end up working smarter, not<br />
harder, to get more done in less time –<br />
even when time is tight and pressures are<br />
high.”<br />
Easier said than done, some may say<br />
(particularly if you are working in a busy<br />
early years setting!) but one thing is<br />
certain, time management is a vital skill<br />
for early years practitioners and educators<br />
who wish to spend more of their working<br />
day in a hands-on role with children.<br />
How can I help my<br />
team with their time<br />
management?<br />
As a room leader, team leader or<br />
manager, you can develop yourself and<br />
support your fellow team members in<br />
improving their time management skills in<br />
the following ways:<br />
⚙ Set clear goals and expectations:<br />
Clearly communicate the team’s<br />
objectives, deadlines, and priorities.<br />
When team members have a clear<br />
understanding of what needs to<br />
be accomplished, they can better<br />
manage their time and prioritise<br />
tasks accordingly. This can be done<br />
in regular staff meetings, especially if<br />
short-term objectives change quickly,<br />
or need to be revisited or refreshed<br />
⚙ Provide training and resources:<br />
Offer training or workshops on time<br />
management techniques and tools.<br />
Share resources such as productivity<br />
apps, task management systems,<br />
or time-tracking tools that can assist<br />
team members in organising their<br />
work and improving their efficiency<br />
⚙ Encourage planning and prioritisation:<br />
Encourage team members to plan<br />
their work in advance. Help them<br />
identify and prioritise tasks based on<br />
urgency and importance. Supporting<br />
them in creating to-do lists or using<br />
productivity techniques like the<br />
Eisenhower Matrix can assist in<br />
effective prioritisation<br />
⚙ Foster open communication: Create<br />
an environment where team<br />
members feel comfortable discussing<br />
their workload, deadlines, and any<br />
challenges they may be facing.<br />
Encourage open dialogue about time<br />
constraints and workload distribution,<br />
so that adjustments can be made if<br />
necessary<br />
⚙ Delegate tasks effectively: Delegate<br />
tasks based on individual strengths<br />
and availability. Ensure that the<br />
workload is distributed evenly<br />
and aligned with team members’<br />
capabilities and current workloads.<br />
Delegating tasks appropriately<br />
prevents overload and promotes<br />
efficient use of time<br />
⚙ Encourage breaks and work-life<br />
balance: Remind team members<br />
about the importance of taking<br />
regular breaks to recharge and<br />
maintain focus. Encourage them to<br />
establish healthy work-life boundaries<br />
and avoid overworking, as it can lead<br />
to burnout and decreased productivity<br />
in the long run<br />
⚙ Lead by example: Demonstrate<br />
good time management practices<br />
yourself. Show your team the benefits<br />
of effective time management by<br />
being organised, meeting deadlines,<br />
and maintaining a healthy work-life<br />
balance. Your actions can inspire and<br />
motivate team members to improve<br />
their own time management skills<br />
⚙ Offer support and feedback: Be<br />
available to support team members<br />
in their time management efforts.<br />
Provide guidance and suggestions<br />
when needed and offer constructive<br />
feedback to help them refine<br />
their approach. Recognise and<br />
acknowledge their improvements and<br />
successes along the way<br />
Remember, improving time management<br />
is an ongoing process and in a busy<br />
setting, this can be difficult to maintain -<br />
which is why it’s important to encourage<br />
a growth mindset within your team and<br />
provide continuous support to foster a<br />
culture of effective time management.<br />
Now that we’ve explored the importance<br />
of helping our team members (and<br />
ourselves) with time management to help<br />
in our professional life, what are the major<br />
benefits of time management when it<br />
comes to educating the children in our<br />
care?<br />
⚙ Establishing routines: Effective time<br />
management helps establish daily<br />
routines, providing structure and<br />
predictability for our young learners.<br />
Routines create a sense of stability<br />
and security, helping children<br />
understand what is expected of<br />
them and reducing anxiety. They<br />
learn to anticipate and prepare for<br />
different activities, transitions, and<br />
responsibilities, which promotes a<br />
sense of independence and selfregulation<br />
⚙ Maximising learning opportunities:<br />
Time management allows educators<br />
to allocate sufficient time for various<br />
learning activities, ensuring a<br />
balanced and comprehensive<br />
curriculum. By organising and<br />
prioritising different tasks, practitioners<br />
can optimise the time available and<br />
create a rich learning environment<br />
that covers key developmental areas,<br />
such as social, emotional, cognitive,<br />
and physical development<br />
⚙ Fostering engagement and attention:<br />
Of course, young children have limited<br />
attention spans, so effective time<br />
management helps maintain their<br />
engagement and focus. By planning<br />
shorter, age-appropriate activities and<br />
incorporating variety, we can prevent<br />
children from becoming restless or<br />
bored. This ensures that learning<br />
experiences remain enjoyable,<br />
meaningful, and conducive to optimal<br />
learning outcomes<br />
⚙ Helping children to develop their own<br />
essential life skills: Time management<br />
skills acquired during the early years<br />
education lay the foundation for<br />
lifelong habits. When children learn<br />
to manage their time effectively, they<br />
develop self-discipline, organisation,<br />
and responsibility. These skills are<br />
transferable to other areas of their<br />
lives, including academic pursuits,<br />
personal relationships, and future<br />
careers<br />
⚙ Enhancing productivity: Time<br />
management enables educators to<br />
make the most of instructional time,<br />
ensuring that your setting’s curriculum<br />
goals are met. By allocating<br />
appropriate time to different learning<br />
activities, teachers can cover essential<br />
content, assess student progress,<br />
provide individualised attention, and<br />
facilitate meaningful interactions.<br />
This leads to improved productivity<br />
and helps children achieve their<br />
educational milestones<br />
⚙ Encouraging self-regulation:<br />
Time management in early years<br />
education encourages children to<br />
develop self-regulation skills. They<br />
learn to manage their own time,<br />
follow schedules, complete tasks<br />
independently, and transition between<br />
activities smoothly. These skills<br />
promote self-control, time awareness,<br />
and the ability to plan and organise,<br />
which are crucial for long-term<br />
academic success and personal<br />
development<br />
These are strategies and ideas which do<br />
work, and when put in place, will help you<br />
and your team get more out of your day.<br />
Remember, time management in early<br />
years education not only supports routines,<br />
maximises learning opportunities, fosters<br />
engagement and attention, but also<br />
develops essential life skills, enhances<br />
productivity, and encourages selfregulation.<br />
By effectively managing time, educators<br />
can create an environment that nurtures<br />
holistic development and sets children<br />
on a path of success in their educational<br />
journey and beyond.<br />
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Practitioner well-being<br />
Early years practitioners and educators are<br />
the bodies and minds on the floor of our<br />
early years settings; supporting children’s<br />
learning and development, giving cuddles,<br />
wiping tears, running rooms, supporting<br />
other members of the team, meeting<br />
managerial demands, being responsive<br />
to the needs of not only the children,<br />
but their parents and families too – all<br />
whilst juggling their own life baggage<br />
simultaneously.<br />
Yet the mental health and well-being of<br />
our staff teams are incredibly poor but<br />
often overlooked/ignored. Staff can be<br />
made to feel guilty for being ill, ‘letting the<br />
team down’ if they take some time off and<br />
not being 100% each and every day.<br />
Early years is an incredibly demanding<br />
sector, both physically and mentally;<br />
is it any surprise that mental illness<br />
is commonplace across the sector?<br />
Essentially, a happy workforce is a<br />
healthy workforce and practitioners are<br />
considerably more likely to fully immerse<br />
themselves in their roles, strive for<br />
professional development and provide a<br />
better quality of care when they are feeling<br />
supported, respected, and valued within<br />
the workplace, regardless of their mental<br />
health.<br />
Our practitioners put on a ‘brave face’<br />
a lot of the time so as not to impact the<br />
children’s experiences and learning and<br />
development, but from a managerial/<br />
leadership point of view, we do not want<br />
to be encouraging this to be the norm.<br />
How mental health in the early years is<br />
‘treated’ is important, as we all know that<br />
‘faking a smile’ or ‘putting on a brave face’<br />
does not solve the problems and allow the<br />
person to process or sometimes even feel<br />
their emotions - which only causes deeper<br />
rooted issues in the long term.<br />
It is imperative that managers and leaders<br />
are aware of and understand just how<br />
fraught and stressed their workforce is<br />
in order to provide adequate support;<br />
not just a hamper of ‘goodies’ in the<br />
staff room, but proper support whereby<br />
the practitioner feels listened to and<br />
understood.<br />
As a sector we pride ourselves on how<br />
communicative we are, yet when it comes<br />
to our mental health, we’d much rather<br />
sweep it under the carpet, pretend and<br />
bury ourselves in the day-to-day – but<br />
in order for us to be role models for<br />
our children and support and promote<br />
children’s emotional well-being and selfregulation,<br />
we must be able to do this<br />
ourselves first.<br />
As the people who work so closely with<br />
the youngest members of our sector,<br />
we must be emotionally and mentally<br />
available to these children - they need<br />
us to be ready to support and listen to<br />
them, and ultimately, if we’re not OK, then<br />
the children won’t be OK. Children are<br />
incredibly intuitive and even our youngest<br />
children can pick up on emotional energy,<br />
so if practitioners’ emotional needs are not<br />
being met and supported, then this will<br />
have an impact on the emotional wellbeing<br />
of the children they care for.<br />
Early years needs to lose the ‘blame<br />
culture’ and the stigma around mental<br />
illness; you can have a mental illness and<br />
still be fit to look after children; a mental<br />
illness or mental health struggles do not<br />
shape a person or practitioner, nor do<br />
they impact on how capable a person is at<br />
doing their job.<br />
All we want for the children we care for<br />
is for them to grow and develop into<br />
happy, healthy human beings who are<br />
emotionally intelligent, available, kind and<br />
empathetic of others. This ultimately is<br />
also the very same thing we’d wish for our<br />
staff teams and colleagues, and so it must<br />
start from the top and be cascaded down,<br />
thus helping us nurture and support our<br />
Chloe Webster<br />
Chloe Webster is an early years educator<br />
with over 12 years of experience in the<br />
early years sector.<br />
She is a published author and advocate<br />
of the sector. In addition to this, she also<br />
has vast experience in social media<br />
marketing and communication support<br />
for early years businesses/settings. Chloe<br />
currently has capacity to support settings,<br />
practitioners, and leaders in an advisory/<br />
consultancy role or to provide support on<br />
efficiently marketing and promoting your<br />
setting/business.<br />
She can be reached by email at<br />
chloelouisewebster@hotmail.com<br />
children in developing essential emotional<br />
skills, and building the foundations for<br />
their future emotional well-being and selfregulation.<br />
Children learn from their environments and<br />
the behaviours they observe and so if they<br />
see practitioners and leadership teams<br />
taking care of each other, and having<br />
open and honest conversations regarding<br />
mental health and the needs of others.<br />
This will then naturally develop for them as<br />
they grow and learn, which will hopefully<br />
create a society of emotionally intelligent<br />
and kind young people.<br />
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Community<br />
management – how<br />
to embed your setting<br />
within your local<br />
community<br />
There’s an old proverb that says: “It takes<br />
a village to raise a child”, meaning that the<br />
whole community has a part to play in the<br />
growth and development of the children<br />
and young people within that community.<br />
Children may be born to specific parents,<br />
but they also spend a significant part of<br />
their life outside their home environment<br />
interacting with others. These can be<br />
pre-school staff, teachers, police, local<br />
shop keepers and business owners, park<br />
wardens or local group leaders such as<br />
Scouts and Guides, church leaders or<br />
sports club coaches.<br />
One of the 4 specific areas of learning<br />
in the EYFS, Understanding The World, is<br />
sub-dived into 3 areas. Within that, there is<br />
an area called “People and Communities”<br />
which encourages children to learn about<br />
the community they come from, and<br />
the sub-section on “The World” is also<br />
designed to help children learn about the<br />
different environments and ways of living<br />
that exist on the wider planet.<br />
Benefits of community<br />
involvement in early<br />
childhood<br />
Community involvement means not only<br />
making sure that the local community<br />
know your setting exists, but that there is<br />
two-way flow of information, both into the<br />
community and back from the community<br />
into your setting. There are many benefits<br />
to this. It is beneficial in all aspects of life,<br />
not just in early years, but in early years,<br />
the opportunity is there to ease the child’s<br />
transition into community life later on.<br />
Some of the many benefits of community<br />
involvement are:
“Dough a deer”: using<br />
magic dough creatively<br />
This current 6-part series of early years<br />
music articles features a new activity each<br />
month from a number of arts activities<br />
trialled for 1 and 2-year-old children, along<br />
with musical suggestions and recordings<br />
on YouTube.<br />
Creativity comes naturally to children,<br />
and research has shown that younger<br />
children have more creative ideas than<br />
older children. How or why creative ideas<br />
reduce as children progress through<br />
school has been argued by many different<br />
people, with ideas ranging from fears of<br />
being wrong to fears of not conforming,<br />
to a narrow national curriculum geared to<br />
academic success.<br />
Thinking of people like Elon Musk, Bill<br />
Gates, Steve Jobs, and their laser focus<br />
on technology, Florence Nightingale and<br />
her recognition of the need for hygiene<br />
and a sterile nursing environment, and<br />
even the inventor of Pokémon, and his<br />
motivation for bringing insects and nature<br />
to city children, creativity seems to come<br />
from personal interests and passions. Yet<br />
despite big changes coming from people<br />
with very focussed and specialist interests,<br />
current thinking is that a wider range of<br />
experiences creates more opportunities.<br />
Delivering “the arts” in a children’s<br />
curriculum can include so many options:<br />
architecture, circus, dance, handcrafts,<br />
media art, music, theatre, visual arts, word<br />
arts, 2d/3d arts/visual media, painting,<br />
drawing, building, crafting, modelling,<br />
creating statues, installations, animations,<br />
advertisements, taking pictures and<br />
videos. Working out which “arts” to<br />
successfully deliver to 1- to 2-year-old<br />
children can be more challenging. Based<br />
on a Finnish study, Lehikoinen (<strong>2023</strong>)<br />
successfully experimented with six arts:<br />
♫<br />
♫<br />
Dance-painting – paint feet, move to<br />
song (July <strong>2023</strong>)<br />
Snow-painting<br />
♫<br />
♫<br />
♫<br />
♫<br />
Magic dough 08 – create characters<br />
in play-dough (<strong>August</strong> <strong>2023</strong>)<br />
Digital drawing<br />
Musical drawing<br />
Balloon painting<br />
This month, we are focusing on magic<br />
dough or play-dough.<br />
Recipe:<br />
8 tablespoons of flour<br />
2 tablespoons of table salt<br />
4 tablespoons of water<br />
1 tablespoon of vegetable oil<br />
Flavouring/food colouring<br />
Knead together until smooth and allow to<br />
rest in the fridge before use.<br />
This easy-to-make recipe can be used as<br />
part of the activity for children to make<br />
themselves, mixing the ingredients and<br />
kneading their own dough. Dividing the<br />
dough, children can use their creativity to<br />
create characters or any other items taken<br />
from songs that can be played or sung<br />
whilst making the dough. Then bake and<br />
paint for art extension activities!<br />
One man went to mow<br />
One man went to mow<br />
Went to mow a meadow,<br />
One man and his dog - woof!<br />
Went to mow a meadow.<br />
Two men went to mow<br />
Went to mow a meadow,<br />
Two men, one man and his dog - woof!<br />
Went to mow a meadow.<br />
Three men went to mow<br />
Went to mow a meadow,<br />
Three men, two men, one man<br />
And his dog - woof!<br />
Went to mow a meadow.<br />
Four men went to mow<br />
Went to mow a meadow,<br />
Four men, three men, two men<br />
One man and his dog - woof!<br />
Went to mow a meadow.<br />
Five men went to mow<br />
Went to mow a meadow,<br />
Five men, four men, three men, two men<br />
One man and his dog - woof!<br />
Went to mow a meadow.<br />
This lovely rhyme creates an opportunity<br />
for children to create multiple characters<br />
or work in groups, creating the different<br />
men – and of course, their dog – or even a<br />
lawnmower!<br />
Incy wincy spider<br />
Incy wincy spider<br />
Went up the waterspout<br />
Down came the rain and<br />
Washed the spider out<br />
Out came the sunshine and<br />
Dried up all the rain<br />
So incy wincy spider<br />
Went up the spout again<br />
This lovely old favourite creates<br />
opportunities for children to make spiders,<br />
webs, spouts, houses – and who knows<br />
what else they may come up with!<br />
Wind the bobbin up<br />
Wind the bobbin up<br />
Wind the bobbin up<br />
Pull, pull, clap-clap-clap<br />
Wind it back again<br />
Wind it back again<br />
Pull, pull, clap-clap-clap<br />
Point to the ceiling, point to the floor<br />
Point to the window and<br />
Point to the door<br />
Clap your hands together<br />
One-two-three<br />
Put your hands<br />
Upon your knees<br />
Unless their parents sew, it is unlikely that<br />
many children will know what a bobbin is<br />
– which can allow their imagination to run<br />
absolutely wild! Use it as an opportunity<br />
for children to imagine what a bobbin may<br />
be, something that can be wound – or use<br />
it as a lesson in the history of sewing as an<br />
industry!<br />
Ten green bottles<br />
Ten green bottles hanging on a wall<br />
Ten green bottles hanging on a wall<br />
And if one green bottle<br />
Should accidentally fall<br />
There’ll be nine green bottles<br />
Hanging on a wall<br />
Nine green bottles hanging on a wall …<br />
Eight green bottles hanging on a wall …<br />
Seven green bottles hanging on a wall …<br />
Six green bottles hanging on a wall …<br />
Five green bottles hanging on a wall …<br />
Four green bottles hanging on a wall …<br />
Three green bottles hanging on a wall …<br />
Two green bottles hanging on a wall …<br />
One green bottle hanging on a wall …<br />
No green bottles hanging on a wall<br />
No green bottles hanging on a wall<br />
And if no green bottles<br />
Should accidentally fall<br />
We can play in the garden<br />
Hanging on a wall<br />
This is another song where children<br />
can create many similar items or work<br />
in groups, creating 10 different kinds of<br />
bottles!<br />
And finally … doe a<br />
deer<br />
Despite this article referring to the song<br />
“Doe, a deer”, it is not usually a song<br />
recommended for new or young singers<br />
to learn because of its musical theory<br />
complexity. Being aware of songs that<br />
may be more complex or have too great<br />
a range for children allows children to<br />
sing successfully. However, it is a great<br />
LISTENING piece for children, helping to<br />
broaden their scope of musical experience<br />
by listening to different and more complex<br />
forms of music – not to mention giving<br />
children a wider scope of items that they<br />
can create from play-dough!<br />
Frances Turnbull<br />
Musician, researcher and author, Frances<br />
Turnbull, is a self-taught guitarist who<br />
has played contemporary and community<br />
music from the age of 12. She delivers<br />
music sessions to the early years and KS1.<br />
Trained in the music education techniques<br />
of Kodály (specialist singing), Dalcroze<br />
(specialist movement) and Orff<br />
(specialist percussion instruments), she<br />
has a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology<br />
(Open University) and a Master’s degree<br />
in Education (University of Cambridge). She<br />
runs a local community choir, the Bolton<br />
Warblers, and delivers the Sound Sense<br />
initiative “A choir in every care home”<br />
within local care and residential homes,<br />
supporting health and well-being through<br />
her community interest company.<br />
She has represented the early years music<br />
community at the House of Commons,<br />
advocating for recognition for early<br />
years music educators, and her table<br />
of progressive music skills for under 7s<br />
features in her curriculum books.<br />
Frances is the author of “Learning with<br />
Music: Games and activities for the early<br />
years”, published by Routledge, <strong>August</strong><br />
2017.<br />
www.musicaliti.co.uk<br />
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There are times in everyone’s life when<br />
we need to either welcome new friends<br />
and meet new people or say goodbye to<br />
the people we already know and love.<br />
There are very few people who are with<br />
us on our entire life journey. Mostly, we<br />
encounter new friends and colleagues<br />
along the way. Some of them we meet<br />
only once, others are there for a short time,<br />
and yet others could be with us for life.<br />
So how do we best teach our early years<br />
children about this fundamental truth - that<br />
sometimes we need to be ready to say<br />
“hello”, and other times, we need to find a<br />
way to say “goodbye”?<br />
Hellos<br />
Hellos and goodbyes<br />
In general, ‘hellos’ are usually easier to<br />
say than ‘goodbyes’ because we have<br />
less to lose. We don’t yet know the person,<br />
and have not yet formed any relationship<br />
with, or attachment to them, so we have<br />
nothing to lose by saying “hello”.<br />
Someone once said that: “Strangers are<br />
just friends we haven’t met yet” and this<br />
seems a compassionate and optimistic<br />
way to view all new faces. When meeting<br />
new people, whether talking about staff or<br />
children, there are some factors that can<br />
influence how easy people find it. These<br />
include:<br />
Whether everyone is new (such as at<br />
the start of term), or whether they are<br />
the only new one (for example when<br />
people join part-way through a term)<br />
How confident the person feels inside<br />
The culture they come from<br />
Their personality type - introverted or<br />
extroverted<br />
Any special needs they have, for<br />
example, they may dislike crowds<br />
or noise, or be completely opposite<br />
and need to run around and meet<br />
everyone<br />
The situation on the day i.e. whether<br />
they are late, early or stressed<br />
The emotional state of the other<br />
people they are meeting<br />
How to ease ‘hellos’ for<br />
children<br />
At the start of term, think about:<br />
Creating a welcome pack and<br />
sending this out to parents in good<br />
time<br />
What your procedure is for drop-off<br />
and how long parents/carers are<br />
allowed to stay<br />
Activities that can calm nervous/<br />
anxious or excited children so that the<br />
setting is ordered and calm. These<br />
could be circle games, name games,<br />
and introductions<br />
Think about how to mark the moment<br />
for children so they know it’s a special<br />
day – you could help them create a<br />
“This is me” book, or a short video<br />
(if you have consent) or perhaps a<br />
display where the children draw or<br />
mark-make something unique<br />
The rules and agreements that you<br />
need to establish on day one, and<br />
which ones can be spaced out over<br />
the day – e.g. lunchtime routines<br />
Staffing and who will be introduced,<br />
e.g. key person, room leaders<br />
Think too about how you will minimise<br />
potential conflicts on day one and<br />
what you will do should they occur<br />
Organising ‘friendship days’ prior to<br />
the start date<br />
For staff<br />
New staff need to be made to feel<br />
welcome and that they can easily fit into<br />
the team. They ideally need a buddy or<br />
mentor identified so that they can ask<br />
them questions easily without always<br />
feeling like ‘the new person’.<br />
New staff should also have a proper<br />
induction process which includes<br />
safeguarding training, HR checks, a tour,<br />
details of all day-to-day procedures and<br />
protocols, and an introduction to their<br />
team.<br />
If staff or students join part-way through<br />
the year, make sure that you have a plan<br />
to help them integrate into your setting. It’s<br />
always more difficult being the only new<br />
person and trying to break into alreadyestablished<br />
friendship groups. Try to plan<br />
ahead and explain to the existing people<br />
that there will be a new friend starting. If<br />
you can arrange for the class to meet the<br />
new child (perhaps on a tour) before the<br />
actual start date, then this could minimise<br />
anxiety.<br />
On the day, make sure you check-in<br />
regularly with them and give them a<br />
buddy or friends (possibly 2) so that they<br />
feel there is someone to help. Make sure<br />
that their key person is available on the<br />
day they start and have regular check-ins<br />
for the next few days and weeks until they<br />
are settled.<br />
Think too about any specific issues that<br />
the mid-term starter might face. Perhaps<br />
they are a looked after child (LAC) or an<br />
asylum-seeker, which might mean they<br />
have some trauma or language issues to<br />
overcome on top of the usual “I’m new”<br />
anxieties.<br />
Goodbyes<br />
As mentioned earlier, saying “goodbye”<br />
can be difficult for children. There are a<br />
number of situations where children might<br />
experience this such as:<br />
Children or staff leaving<br />
Children transitioning to Reception<br />
Moving rooms or changing the key<br />
person<br />
Staff retiring<br />
Family separations<br />
Bereavements<br />
Some of these instances are well-known<br />
in advance, such as a transition to<br />
Reception class and can be well-planned.<br />
Others, may have no warning and cause<br />
additional trauma.<br />
Planning is important where possible. For<br />
transitions to Reception, think about:<br />
Marking the moment with a special<br />
book (like a yearbook) and assembly.<br />
Twinkl have a number of different<br />
transition day resources on their site<br />
Talking openly about the transition<br />
with optimism and excitement so that<br />
the children learn it is something to<br />
look forward to and not to fear<br />
Highlight what some of the key<br />
changes will be<br />
The official transition day for your<br />
area is usually at the end of June/<br />
beginning of July for all children to<br />
visit their new school and have an<br />
induction day<br />
Encouraging children to talk about<br />
their experiences and sort out any<br />
issues that arise by liaising with<br />
parents/carers and the new school<br />
Doing some role play activities about<br />
goodbyes<br />
Making sure that all the relevant<br />
transfer details and forms have been<br />
forwarded (or received) in good time<br />
Collating/downloading any welcome<br />
packs that are available and<br />
distributing them to parents<br />
Bereavement and family<br />
separation<br />
Where children are saying “goodbye”<br />
due to bereavement or separation, it is<br />
important to support the child through<br />
their emotional journey. They are unlikely<br />
to be prepared for a sudden death and<br />
young children cannot easily understand<br />
the concept of death being permanent<br />
until they are older. Talk plainly and not in<br />
code (i.e. don’t say things like “mummy<br />
is sleeping”) but try to understand the<br />
emotions the child will have and be<br />
there for them. There is a lot of useful<br />
information at www.childbereavementuk.<br />
org/early-years and you can look at<br />
NSPCC for information on helping children<br />
through separation and divorce. There is<br />
also a guide to how this can affect children<br />
of different ages, here.<br />
Resources and more<br />
information<br />
www.twinkl.co.uk/resources/home-earlyyears/teacher-organisation-eyfs-earlyyears/early-years-transition<br />
www.teachearlyyears.com/a-uniquechild/view/supporting-transitions-in-theearly-years<br />
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Giving children<br />
learning<br />
superpowers<br />
As you are no doubt aware from your own<br />
experiences of learning anything new,<br />
success has as much to do with self-belief<br />
as it does with any level of intelligence<br />
you might possess. So, when we look at<br />
establishing the best possible start for our<br />
children as they venture into the school<br />
classroom, keep this close to mind.<br />
During their enormously influential early<br />
years, your children are sharing so many<br />
experiences of learning with you. But<br />
what can be overlooked are their first<br />
experiences of what it means to try to<br />
learn. Every experience is teaching them<br />
something about the impact of their<br />
actions and whether the effort is worth<br />
their while. So, with that in mind, ask<br />
yourself “What is the point of endlessly<br />
naming shapes, colours or the sounds of<br />
the day?”<br />
When experiences of learning are negative<br />
(they get the wrong answer) or seem<br />
meaningless (what is the point of this?)<br />
children soon see it as futile and are less<br />
likely to bother trying. This impacts their<br />
potential achievement, both directly as<br />
they lose interest in the process of learning<br />
and through its effect on their self-belief,<br />
attention skills, concentration, and<br />
persistence.<br />
Soon, classroom experiences of learning<br />
are going to replace many of the freedoms<br />
of experience that you now enjoy. When<br />
this happens, children may find limited<br />
opportunities to use their natural methods<br />
of learning; to pursue an idea for as long<br />
as they need, to be autonomous in the<br />
decisions they are making or to access the<br />
resources or environments they need.<br />
Now is your opportunity to embrace these<br />
styles of learning. Give your children<br />
opportunities to think and demonstrate<br />
what they can achieve with experiences<br />
they are interested in. Let them see<br />
why the properties of a shape might be<br />
important or how you can use the sounds<br />
of words to communicate with each other.<br />
Offer the time and opportunity for children<br />
to self-direct, allowing them to explore<br />
their direction of enquiry, revisiting as often<br />
as needed and trusting in their judgement.<br />
And let them see and feel the impact of<br />
their learning as their ideas take shape,<br />
regardless of what their intentions may<br />
have been.<br />
As children play, they try out various roles,<br />
initiating and manipulating experiences<br />
as they see how something beyond<br />
their means or capabilities feels. As they<br />
play, they are investigating and making<br />
decisions on what they will do next,<br />
exploring the power of an idea and what<br />
can come from it. When they hit difficulties<br />
or make a mistake, they learn that this<br />
is how you learn more, what it means to<br />
persist and to try new ways of thinking. All<br />
of which are powerfully important to future<br />
learning.<br />
But these are not things you can know in<br />
advance or plan an activity to manage.<br />
Instead, think about the opportunities your<br />
children have to access their environment<br />
and how free they are to connect with the<br />
experiences they need in the moment. Can<br />
they explore new ideas and discoveries<br />
in different ways? Are they allowed to<br />
combine different resources and concepts?<br />
Can they move into whichever areas they<br />
need – inside and out – as an idea occurs<br />
to them? Observe them during the day<br />
with these questions in mind.<br />
As this is happening, offer meaningful,<br />
measured, and focused praise. But<br />
watch first, be careful not to interrupt a<br />
key moment of engagement and wait for<br />
those natural breaks or when they turn to<br />
you for guidance. Offer them interesting,<br />
novel, and authentic resources with the<br />
time, space and freedom they need to<br />
engage in the rich learning opportunities<br />
they offer. Allow ideas to germinate, free<br />
from excessive distractions, interruption, or<br />
management. And be ready to see what<br />
they have to show you, even if this may<br />
be quite different to what you may expect.<br />
Remember, memories of this experience<br />
are forming constantly.<br />
Resources should be:
Did you know that Billie Eilish, Emma<br />
Watson and Nadia Sawalha were all<br />
home schooled? Or that Emma Thompson<br />
took her daughter out of formal education<br />
because she couldn’t fit in to what her<br />
daughter described as the “sausagefactory<br />
style” education? In 2019, it was<br />
estimated that between 90,000 to 130,000<br />
children were home schooled in the UK<br />
and the figure is rising significantly each<br />
year.<br />
What is home<br />
education?<br />
Home education –<br />
what’s it all about?<br />
Home education (or home schooling) is<br />
when a parent chooses to take their child<br />
out of the state-run or independent school<br />
sector and take on the full responsibility<br />
of giving their child an education. This can<br />
work better for some families, particularly<br />
if a child struggles in a mainstream<br />
environment with large class sizes. In the<br />
US, home education is more common<br />
than in the UK with 8-9% of children being<br />
home schooled.<br />
Benefits of home<br />
education<br />
Advocates of home education present<br />
several benefits including:<br />
✏ Personalised education – home<br />
schooling can be individualised to the<br />
particular needs, skills and interests of<br />
each unique child<br />
✏ More choice - there is no stateimposed<br />
curriculum to follow and<br />
parents can decide the subjects<br />
their children study and how this is<br />
done. Children must, however, be<br />
enabled to be literate and numerate,<br />
in accordance with their age, ability,<br />
aptitude and any special needs they<br />
may have<br />
✏ Classrooms can be anywhere -<br />
such as playgrounds, museums,<br />
alternative learning centres and<br />
vocational places, but you can do<br />
maths in the supermarket, chemistry<br />
in the kitchen and biology in the<br />
garden centre if you want to<br />
✏ Freedom – parents can educate their<br />
children in ways that suit their lifestyle<br />
best, and there is no need to follow<br />
a timetable of hours, days, or school<br />
holidays<br />
✏ Children’s engagement – often<br />
children do better with a 1:1 approach<br />
to their learning and if they have some<br />
autonomy over what they study, they<br />
can be more motivated or engaged<br />
✏ Life preparation – home schooling<br />
can provide a wide range of life<br />
skills that might not be taught in an<br />
institutionalised system<br />
✏ Higher education – a large<br />
percentage of home schooled children<br />
do well academically and go on to<br />
higher education<br />
✏ Less negative interactions –<br />
students who are home schooled<br />
may be protected from some of the<br />
problems that larger schools have<br />
such as bullying, child-on-child abuse<br />
or sexual harassment<br />
Disadvantages<br />
Some of the disadvantages presented<br />
against home schooling include:<br />
✏ Changing to/from home schooling<br />
can create ‘gaps in education’ for<br />
the child if they come back into<br />
mainstream after being home<br />
schooled<br />
✏ Some people argue that home<br />
schooled children do less well at<br />
social interactions, although this is not<br />
necessarily borne out by research.<br />
Home schooled students do need<br />
social interactions in the form of<br />
local groups or outside-education<br />
friendships who meet up regularly<br />
✏ It takes time, energy and money<br />
✏ Schools can have a lot of resources<br />
at their disposal such as swimming<br />
pools, gyms, science labs, and<br />
specialised language labs that<br />
parents may not have access to<br />
What are the<br />
legalities?<br />
All children must have a full-time<br />
education from the age of 5 in the UK, but<br />
they are not required to attend a formal<br />
school. Parents can home school their<br />
children at any age, but if a child starts<br />
school, then parents are legally required to<br />
inform their current Headteacher in writing<br />
if they subsequently want to home school<br />
them. The school cannot refuse, however,<br />
if parents request a part-time arrangement<br />
with the school, then the school does<br />
have the right to decline a part-time<br />
arrangement.<br />
It is recommended that parents who are<br />
home schooling their children, register<br />
with their local authority, who can provide<br />
support. The authority may make an<br />
informal enquiry to ensure that the child<br />
is getting a suitable education at home.<br />
If they are concerned, they can serve a<br />
school attendance order requiring the child<br />
be taught at school.<br />
There is no legal requirement to follow<br />
the National Curriculum which is set out<br />
for state-maintained schools, however,<br />
parents will be required to take on the<br />
full financial responsibility for their child’s<br />
education including the cost of any public<br />
examinations. See a list of FAQs about<br />
home schooling here.<br />
What about children<br />
with SEN?<br />
The right for parents to educate their child<br />
at home applies equally for children with<br />
SEN (special educational needs) as for<br />
those without, even if the child has an<br />
education, health and care plan (EHCP).<br />
However, if the child attends a special<br />
school, then the local authority will need<br />
to agree to have the child home schooled<br />
so parents will need to contact their local<br />
authority.<br />
What resources are<br />
out there?<br />
Just because a child is home educated<br />
does not mean that they have to sit in<br />
their parent’s home 24/7. In fact, many<br />
home-educated students have many<br />
more extra-curricular adventures and<br />
activities than their institutionalised peers.<br />
In addition, since the pandemic, there are<br />
many more opportunities for learning from<br />
all areas and many companies, museums<br />
and educational societies have lots of<br />
resources for parents and teachers alike.<br />
Some of the resources available for home<br />
education include:<br />
Online schools – These offer an online<br />
education usually to older students (10+).<br />
Children can choose their classes and<br />
interact with teachers and peers despite<br />
being located in different areas of the<br />
country. Some online schools even offer<br />
opportunities for pupils to meet up at<br />
events and community gatherings.<br />
Correspondence courses - A<br />
correspondence course is also known as<br />
distance learning. They can include GCSEs<br />
and A Levels and can cover a range of<br />
subjects. They usually include all lesson<br />
materials (books, online lessons, videos)<br />
and access to a tutor or teacher who can<br />
give feedback and monitor progress.<br />
Private tutors - These are usually<br />
experienced individuals or qualified<br />
teachers who provide individual tuition to<br />
students. Rates can typically range from<br />
£30 - £60 per hour.<br />
Parent-organised groups and<br />
resources - Many areas of the UK have<br />
groups of home educators on social media<br />
channels who arrange get-togethers,<br />
events and educational trips. They can<br />
socialise and share the load, pooling<br />
resources to better effect. They may have a<br />
vetting system, but most groups welcome<br />
new members and can be a great source<br />
of friendship and advice.<br />
Home education organisations - See<br />
below for 2 of the most well-known.<br />
✏ Home Education Advisory Service -<br />
www.heas.org.uk<br />
✏ Education Otherwise - www.<br />
educationotherwise.org<br />
References and more<br />
information<br />
Good Schools Guide to Home Education<br />
Elective home education - Departmental<br />
guidance for parents from gov.uk<br />
✏ Good Schools Guide to Home<br />
Education<br />
✏ Elective home education<br />
✏ Teachers to your home<br />
✏ Psychology Today<br />
✏ The Week<br />
Resources<br />
✏ Early-education.org.uk - links for early<br />
years and primary home education<br />
✏ Twinkl resources for home schooling<br />
✏ kingsinterhigh.co.uk/onlinehomeschooling<br />
✏ www.edplace.com/<br />
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Five tips for setting<br />
expectations with<br />
children<br />
1<br />
Be clear and consistent<br />
Children do well when they have clearly<br />
set expectations and structure within their<br />
setting. It is therefore vital that the dos<br />
and don’ts of their environment are welldefined<br />
and easy to understand. Having<br />
a consistent routine will help children to<br />
know what is expected of them throughout<br />
the day and the familiarity of a routine will<br />
also help them to feel safe and secure.<br />
Consistency is key. If you set a rule and<br />
consequence, make sure that you follow<br />
through with it every single time. Likewise,<br />
if you say you are going to do something<br />
positive later, make sure you follow up with<br />
that promise too. If children know that we<br />
honour our word, they are more likely to<br />
take what we say seriously.<br />
2<br />
Make expectations age<br />
appropriate<br />
It is also crucial that we set ageappropriate<br />
expectations that take into<br />
consideration a child’s developmental<br />
capabilities. For example, a 2-year-old<br />
will struggle to sit still for long periods of<br />
time, so it would be unfair to have a rule<br />
that they need to sit on the carpet for 30<br />
minutes during storytime. It is important<br />
that whatever rules and expectations<br />
we have, that we are setting children<br />
up for success and not pushing them<br />
beyond what they are developmentally<br />
programmed to be able to do.<br />
3<br />
Remember children are<br />
little people<br />
It is important to remember that children<br />
are little people with their own minds.<br />
Sometimes our expectations can be quite<br />
high and if the shoe was on the other foot,<br />
we’d struggle ourselves. For example, how<br />
would we feel if we were engrossed in a<br />
project and someone came along, took it<br />
from us without warning and demanded<br />
that we went to lunch? We’d be furious<br />
and totally frustrated! The same applies<br />
to children. Quite often we will move them<br />
from task to task with no warning and then<br />
wonder why they are having a meltdown.<br />
It’s important to treat children as we would<br />
like to be treated. A simple fix to that<br />
scenario would be tell them that lunch will<br />
be in 10 minutes and to allow them time to<br />
wrap up what they are doing. I always put<br />
myself in my children’s shoes and ask how<br />
I would react in the same situation. If they<br />
answer is ‘badly’, I amend my approach.<br />
4<br />
Give it time<br />
Routines and boundaries take time to<br />
embed. Sometimes you have to work at it<br />
for a while and give children time to adjust.<br />
Again, consistency and repetition are key.<br />
Children may need a few reminders and<br />
some redirection, but in time they will get<br />
there. Just gently guide them in the right<br />
direction, follow through with everything<br />
you say, have strong boundaries and the<br />
rest will eventually fall into place.<br />
5<br />
Lead with love<br />
We don’t need to be critical with our<br />
approach. No person is going to be their<br />
best self if they feel like they are failing. It<br />
is therefore important that we implement<br />
rules and expectations from a place of<br />
love. Children will naturally fight against<br />
change. However, ultimately, boundaries<br />
and structure make them feel safer. If<br />
we can assert ourselves but maintain<br />
the message that we care deeply whilst<br />
doing this, children will be more likely to<br />
cooperate. It may take time to stick, but it is<br />
important that we nurture our child-adult<br />
bond in the process.<br />
Stacey Kelly<br />
Stacey Kelly is a former French and<br />
Spanish teacher, a parent to 2 beautiful<br />
babies and the founder of Early Years<br />
Story Box. After becoming a mum, Stacey<br />
left her teaching career and started<br />
writing and illustrating storybooks to help<br />
support her children through different<br />
transitional stages like leaving nursery<br />
and starting school. Seeing the positive<br />
impact of her books on her children’s<br />
emotional well-being led to Early Years<br />
Story Box being born. Stacey has now<br />
created 35 storybooks, all inspired by her<br />
own children, to help teach different life<br />
lessons and to prepare children for their<br />
next steps. She has an exclusive collection<br />
for childcare settings that are gifted on<br />
special occasions like first/last days,<br />
birthdays, Christmas and/or Easter and<br />
has recently launched a new collection<br />
for parents too. Her mission is to support<br />
as many children as she can through<br />
storytime and to give childcare settings an<br />
affordable and special gifting solution that<br />
truly makes a difference.<br />
Email: stacey@earlyyearsstorybox.com or<br />
Telephone: 07765785595<br />
Website: www.earlyyearsstorybox.com<br />
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/<br />
earlyyearsstorybox<br />
Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/<br />
eystorybox<br />
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/<br />
earlyyearsstorybox<br />
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/<br />
stacey-kelly-a84534b2/<br />
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EYFS activities:<br />
Understanding<br />
the World<br />
Understanding the World is so important in the EYFS because it promotes curiosity, builds knowledge and<br />
understanding, develops critical thinking and problem-solving skills, supports social and emotional development,<br />
enhances communication and language skills, and prepares children for future academic learning. It helps young<br />
learners make sense of their world and equips them with essential skills and knowledge for their educational<br />
journey and beyond.<br />
Going Walkabout!<br />
• Taking children out on nearby walks and<br />
providing ways for them to record and<br />
explore their observations is a great way to<br />
support learning and conversation skills<br />
More on this activity and others can be found<br />
here.<br />
What Job? The dressing up game all children love!<br />
• Place objects, clothing, and pictures<br />
relating to a particular job onto a table<br />
• Observe, listen, and prompt the children’s<br />
thinking, revealing the corresponding job at<br />
the end<br />
• Let the children dress up and use props<br />
relating to that role e.g., a helmet and a<br />
high-vis jacket for a firefighter<br />
• Allow the children time to use their<br />
imagination and role-play the job. For<br />
example, the children might pretend to put<br />
out an object on fire or turn their toy car<br />
into a fire engine<br />
• It’s important you then use open-ended<br />
questions to encourage the children to think<br />
about other parts of a firefighter’s job. You<br />
can also read books with the children to<br />
develop their understanding of the different<br />
roles<br />
This activity can be based on any job role, for<br />
example, builders, doctors, teachers, chefs etc.<br />
and provides a great opportunity for children<br />
to develop an interest in the different jobs that<br />
men and women do.<br />
More on this activity and others can be found<br />
here.<br />
• When you are out for walks in your local<br />
environment or garden in your setting, talk<br />
to children about what they can see, hear<br />
and smell<br />
• Encourage them to explore different<br />
textures when they are outside – such as<br />
tree trunks, grass, concrete, pebbles, and<br />
stones<br />
• Then help the children to make rubbings of<br />
the different textures they can find using<br />
paper and crayons, which can later be<br />
used in a collage or scrapbook<br />
This is an excellent activity no matter<br />
your location. If you have limited access<br />
to woodlands, point out different local<br />
environment features and see if children can<br />
recognise familiar shop signs and logos or the<br />
different brands advertised on bus stops. You<br />
could even see how many particular-coloured<br />
cars you see on your journey.<br />
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What Sound?<br />
What could be more fun than making your<br />
own musical instruments? Making musical<br />
instruments develops children’s fine motor<br />
skills and coordination while they have the<br />
opportunity to investigate the ‘similarities<br />
and differences’ between lots of objects and<br />
materials. Start with these simple ideas using<br />
recycled objects to inspire children’s love of<br />
music and appreciation of how sounds are<br />
made.<br />
• Shakers - many percussion instruments<br />
make a sound when shaken and are very<br />
easy to make. Simply use a clear plastic<br />
bottle and fill it with something like rice,<br />
pasta or beans<br />
• Jars - fill several clear same-sized jars with<br />
different amounts of coloured water. Order<br />
the jars into a scale, tap with a wooden<br />
spoon, and listen to the different tones. You<br />
will find that more water makes a lower<br />
note, and less water makes a higher note<br />
• Tissue box guitar – a firm favourite! Stretch<br />
different-sized elastic bands over an empty<br />
tissue box for the children to pluck and<br />
strum like a guitar.<br />
• Drums - use empty biscuit tins for the<br />
children to bang and tap like a drum!<br />
More on this activity and others can be found<br />
here.
Guided role-play<br />
and vocabulary<br />
development in the<br />
early years<br />
In the early years of a child’s life, language<br />
development is crucial to their overall<br />
cognitive and social development.<br />
Language development is a complex<br />
process that starts from infancy and<br />
continues throughout childhood. It<br />
encompasses receptive language<br />
skills (understanding language) and<br />
expressive language skills (using<br />
language to communicate). During the<br />
early years, children’s language skills<br />
lay the foundation for future literacy and<br />
communication abilities.<br />
An effective approach to fostering<br />
language and communication skills, in the<br />
early years, is through guided, creative<br />
role-play.<br />
Definition of guided,<br />
creative role-play:<br />
Guided, creative role-play refers to an<br />
interactive and imaginative activity where<br />
children engage in fictional scenarios with<br />
the guidance of an adult or a facilitator. It<br />
involves children assuming various roles,<br />
using props and costumes, and creating<br />
narratives based on their imagination.<br />
How can guided, creative<br />
role-play develop language<br />
development:<br />
1. Vocabulary expansion: Guided,<br />
creative role-play exposes children to<br />
a wide range of words and phrases<br />
related to the roles they assume. This<br />
exposure enhances their vocabulary<br />
and helps them acquire new words in<br />
a meaningful context.<br />
2. Language structure and<br />
grammar: Role-play scenarios<br />
provide opportunities for children to<br />
use language in structured ways.<br />
They learn to construct sentences,<br />
use appropriate grammar,<br />
and understand the rules of<br />
communication within the context of<br />
the play.<br />
3. Communication and social<br />
interaction: Role-play encourages<br />
children to communicate their<br />
thoughts, ideas, and feelings with<br />
others. It fosters social interaction,<br />
turn-taking, and collaboration,<br />
allowing children to practice and<br />
refine their language skills in a<br />
supportive environment.<br />
4. Storytelling and narrative skills:<br />
Guided role-play involves storytelling,<br />
where children create narratives<br />
and develop characters. This activity<br />
nurtures their ability to organise<br />
thoughts, sequence events, and use<br />
language to convey stories effectively.<br />
5. Creativity and imagination: Roleplay<br />
sparks children’s imagination<br />
and creativity, enabling them to<br />
explore new scenarios and think<br />
outside the box. This imaginative<br />
play enhances their language skills<br />
by encouraging them to describe,<br />
explain, and articulate their ideas.<br />
Develop their imagination and vocabulary<br />
through fun, creative, guided and childinitiated<br />
role-play.<br />
Strategies for effective<br />
guided creative role-play:<br />
Facilitator’s role (you): Provide guidance,<br />
introduce new vocabulary, and model<br />
effective communication skills. You<br />
can also ask open-ended questions<br />
to stimulate thinking and encourage<br />
children’s language use.<br />
Incorporating real-world experiences:<br />
Integrate real-world experiences into<br />
role-play scenarios to connect language<br />
development with practical contexts.<br />
Creating a language-rich environment:<br />
Provide a variety of props, books, and<br />
print materials related to the role-play<br />
themes. Ensure your environment supports<br />
language development by fostering<br />
curiosity.<br />
Peer Collaboration: Encourage children<br />
to work together and communicate with<br />
their peers during role-play activities.<br />
Peer interactions promote language<br />
development by providing negotiation,<br />
problem-solving, and joint storytelling<br />
opportunities.<br />
Educators and parents can create a<br />
language-rich environment that facilitates<br />
optimal language development in young<br />
children by implementing strategies that<br />
support guided creative role-play.<br />
Developing child-initiated<br />
role-play:<br />
If you have children that are interested in<br />
space and aliens, take them on a trip to<br />
the moon. Even before you blast off, there<br />
are so many opportunities to enrich their<br />
language by discussing:<br />
“How will we travel to space?”<br />
Build their vocabulary by showing and<br />
discussing different types and modes of<br />
transport. Talk about real-life experiences<br />
that you and the children have had.<br />
“What do we wear in space?”<br />
You can show them images of astronaut’s<br />
clothes and discover why they have to<br />
wear protective suits. Need to ensure we<br />
have appropriate clothing including special<br />
boots. Who wants to be an astronaut with<br />
smelly feet or cold feet?<br />
“Can you fart in space?”<br />
Something that always engages the little<br />
ones and, the teachers, is the discussion<br />
of farts in space… Methane, a component<br />
found in farts, is flammable and could<br />
pose a fire hazard. So, it’s more than the<br />
aroma that’s the danger and, it is, a real<br />
subject of scientific curiosity.<br />
“Emotions of going to and being in<br />
space?”<br />
You can talk about how even astronauts<br />
can get scared and anxious in space.<br />
Maybe they are even afraid of the dark!<br />
Role-play the different emotions that you<br />
and your little astronauts may experience<br />
as they go to space and imagine if they<br />
actually met some aliens!<br />
There are so many ways of enriching<br />
their vocabulary and building their<br />
communication skills through a little<br />
imagination and role-play.<br />
Here are some words you can include<br />
in your role-play to help develop and<br />
enhance their vocabulary.<br />
What do we need in our astronaut’s<br />
suit?<br />
⭐ Oxygen tanks<br />
⭐ Lights<br />
⭐ Camera<br />
⭐ Communicators<br />
⭐ Helmet<br />
⭐ Gloves (with a screwdriver as the<br />
gloves are screwed on)<br />
⭐ Space boots<br />
⭐ Water tank<br />
⭐ In-suit drink bag<br />
⭐ Air-conditioning (can get a bit hot and<br />
sweaty)<br />
⭐ Toilet (vital)<br />
What is our rocket made up of?<br />
⭐ Engines<br />
⭐ Rocket boosters<br />
⭐ Abort system<br />
⭐ Crew module<br />
⭐ Windows<br />
⭐ Seats<br />
⭐ Safety belts<br />
⭐ Don’t forget the big red button to push<br />
to blast off into space.<br />
What will we see when we are in<br />
space?<br />
⭐ Stars<br />
⭐ Moons<br />
⭐ Planets - learn the names in our solar<br />
system<br />
⭐ Asteroids<br />
⭐ Comets<br />
⭐ Satellites<br />
⭐ International Space Station<br />
⭐ Galaxies<br />
⭐ James Webb telescope<br />
⭐ Euclid Space telescope<br />
⭐ Quasar (luminous active, galactic<br />
nucleus)<br />
⭐ Neutron stars<br />
⭐ White dwarfs<br />
⭐ Black holes<br />
⭐ Nebulas<br />
⭐ Star clusters<br />
Role-play is a valuable tool for promoting<br />
language development in the early years.<br />
Through imaginative play, children expand<br />
their vocabulary, develop language<br />
structure and grammar, enhance their<br />
communication and social interaction<br />
skills, and foster creativity and storytelling<br />
abilities. There is no end to learning<br />
through imagination and a combination of<br />
guided and child-initiated role-play.<br />
Pack some snacks (no beans…), choose<br />
your rocket, and role-play an adventure in<br />
space.<br />
What are you waiting for?<br />
Gina Bale<br />
Gina’s background was originally<br />
ballet, but she has spent the last 27<br />
years teaching movement and dance<br />
in mainstream, early years and SEND<br />
settings as well as dance schools.<br />
Whilst teaching, Gina found the time to<br />
create the ‘Hi-5’ dance programme to<br />
run alongside the Australian Children’s<br />
TV series and the Angelina Ballerina<br />
Dance Academy for Hit Entertainment.<br />
Her proudest achievement to date is her<br />
baby, Littlemagictrain. She created this<br />
specifically to help children learn through<br />
make-believe, music and movement.<br />
One of the highlights has been seeing<br />
Littlemagictrain delivered by Butlin’s<br />
famous Redcoats with the gorgeous<br />
‘Bonnie Bear’ on the Skyline stage.<br />
Gina has qualifications of teaching<br />
movement and dance from the Royal<br />
Ballet School, Trinity College and Royal<br />
Academy of Dance.<br />
Email: gina@littlemagictrain.com<br />
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/<br />
gina-bale/<br />
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/<br />
Littlemagictrain<br />
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