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When your children were younger, what was your<br />
discipline philosophy?<br />
We found that our boys are completely different and respond to<br />
different forms of discipline. Our main goal was to teach respect:<br />
respect for authority, respect for one another, and respect for themselves.<br />
We wanted to teach our children that everything they do<br />
should represent Jesus, and that we always want to be a good<br />
example.<br />
What do you see in your role as the greatest benefit<br />
to your family?<br />
We emphasize the importance of family. We want them to understand<br />
that we are a unit, and we will always have one another’s backs.<br />
It is important that our boys know they are always loved by God and<br />
by their parents, no matter what. Our job is to provide a safe and<br />
secure place where they can find comfort and restoration. Most of<br />
all our desire is for our boys to grow in their relationship with Jesus<br />
because He is where we find hope, strength, and comfort.<br />
Do you allow time to be with your spouse for a date night?<br />
We enjoy going on date nights together but don’t have a specific<br />
night set aside. With Cooper in college and Jack now having his<br />
license and spending his time with his friends, we have more alone<br />
time these days. We also like to take time to get away for a couple’s<br />
trip from time to time.<br />
What brings you the greatest joy as a parent?<br />
Children are a blessing from God. Being a parent is one of the hardest<br />
jobs, but watching our boys grow and mature into the men that God<br />
has made them to be brings us joy. Both Cooper and Jack have good<br />
heads on their shoulders and stand for what they believe in. They are<br />
both kind and compassionate and loyal. Watching them shine for<br />
Jesus brings us the most joy.<br />
Who is the financial manager in your home?<br />
Terry is a numbers guy, gifted with a math mind, and is good with<br />
technology so he is the financial manager. Of course, we consult on<br />
our finances and big purchases, and he lets me know if I am spending<br />
too much!<br />
What’s a quick go-to meal that isn’t fast food?<br />
And who does the cooking?<br />
We stay on the go, but I try to cook at home as much as possible.<br />
I do most of the cooking, but Terry likes to grill when it is not 100<br />
degrees outside. Our quick go-to meals would probably be jambalaya,<br />
spaghetti, dirty rice, or sausage pasta. Jack prefers home-cooked<br />
meals, so whatever he wants is usually what I cook. His favorite is<br />
fried chicken strips, rice and gravy, and butterbeans. A true southerner<br />
at heart!<br />
How long has Flowood been your home?<br />
We have lived in Flowood for two years but have lived in Rankin<br />
County for 23 years - from Reservoir Brandon to Brandon “Proper”<br />
to Flowood.<br />
What are some of your favorite things about Rankin<br />
County?<br />
Terry and I grew up in a small community and wanted our children<br />
to make some of the same memories growing up in a “small-town<br />
atmosphere.” Even though Rankin has grown over the years, you still<br />
get that small-town vibe. The people make all the difference.<br />
Neighbors take care of one another, children have opportunities to<br />
play in their neighborhoods and parks, the quality schools with<br />
community support, and the safe environment are just a few of the<br />
positive qualities of Rankin County. We have made wonderful<br />
friends who have become more like family and that has made<br />
Rankin County feel like home to us.<br />
40 • OCTOBER 2023
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