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Serving the <strong>Mid</strong>-<strong>South</strong> LGBT+ Community and its Allies | <strong>Mar</strong>+<strong>Apr</strong> <strong>2024</strong><br />

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FEATURED WRITERS IN THIS ISSUE<br />

CONTRIBUTORS<br />

We rely on community contributors for <strong>Focus</strong> magazine news and stories.<br />

A huge thanks to these dedicated writers!<br />

Quailvarious Brown<br />

(they/them)<br />

Quailvarious Brown is writer and<br />

journalism student at University of<br />

Memphis. Originally from Union City,<br />

TN, they now live in Memphis.<br />

Tricia Dewey<br />

(she/her)<br />

Tricia is a longtime Memphis<br />

transplant who has grown to admire<br />

the ‘grit and grind.’ She is also a mom,<br />

wife, runner, reader, recovering lawyer,<br />

tree hugger, and ally.<br />

Minnassa Gabon<br />

(she/her)<br />

Minnassa Gabon is a <strong>South</strong>ern<br />

Californian now living in the <strong>Mid</strong>-<br />

<strong>South</strong>. She is the C.E.O. of Minnassa<br />

Wellness, a psychic intuitive,<br />

Reiki Master, and the Chair of<br />

OUTMemphis’ Senior Services.<br />

Jordan Occasionally<br />

(they/he)<br />

Jordan Occasionally, or JD, is an independent dance<br />

pop/R&B artist and activist from Memphis, TN. A beloved<br />

community organizer, they also serve as an Artist Advisor<br />

on the Music Export Memphis Board.<br />

William Smythe<br />

(he/him)<br />

William is a local writer and poet. He has been<br />

published in multiple magazines, both online and<br />

in print, and works with the community creative<br />

workshop collective, Memphis Writers.<br />

Other Contributors<br />

Salamander Brandy<br />

Kelly Seagraves<br />

Jonathan Cross<br />

Kim Strickland<br />

Have a story that needs to be told? Pitch your story ideas to editor@focuslgbt.com<br />

<strong>Mar</strong>+<strong>Apr</strong> <strong>2024</strong> | focuslgbt.com | Nerd 5


CONTENTS | <strong>Mar</strong>+<strong>Apr</strong> <strong>2024</strong><br />

5 CONTRIBUTORS<br />

7 THEME: NERD<br />

8 COMMUNITY<br />

How Memphis Public Libraries became an oasis<br />

for LGBTQ+ readers<br />

12 TRAVEL<br />

Three outdoor enthusiast groups share the many<br />

nerdy wonders of Memphis’ nature scene<br />

16 COMMUNITY<br />

Nerd Night, and the deep history of the renowned<br />

Memphis Chess Club<br />

18 ORIGINAL MEMPHIS<br />

Our We Saw You OUT series documents proud<br />

LGBTQ locals. Look out for yourself or a friend!<br />

20 LIFE<br />

Lo Norman: streamer, filmmaker, masked<br />

multidisciplinary artist, and self-proclaimed nerd<br />

24 ARTS + ENTERTAINMENT<br />

Theater nerds of Opera Memphis delve into the<br />

fascinating and surprisingly queer world of opera<br />

28 LIFE<br />

Let’s come together to understand the facts and<br />

realities of the HIV/AIDS epidemic<br />

30 MUSIC<br />

Our new column featuring Jordan Occasionally<br />

highlights 8 amazing songs by LGBTQ artists<br />

32 ARTS + ENTERTAINMENT<br />

An essay and artwork as part of Prism Pages, No. 11<br />

36 LIFE<br />

Psychic intuitive Minnassa Gabon shares <strong>Mar</strong>ch +<br />

<strong>Apr</strong>il horoscope readings for every sign!<br />

38 LIFE<br />

Don’t panic this tax season: Nerd out with these<br />

useful financial tips<br />

ON THE COVER<br />

Lo Norman<br />

photo by Jasmine Smith<br />

Find the story on page 20<br />

ON THIS PAGE<br />

photo courtesy of<br />

Memphis Chess Club<br />

Find the story on page 16<br />

6 Nerd | <strong>Mar</strong>+<strong>Apr</strong> <strong>2024</strong> | focuslgbt.com


theme<br />

<strong>Mar</strong>+<strong>Apr</strong> <strong>2024</strong> | focuslgbt.com | Nerd 7


community<br />

Reading<br />

the<br />

Rainbow<br />

Memphis Public Libraries, Safe Havens<br />

for LGBTQ+ Book Lovers<br />

by Kelly Seagraves<br />

8 Nerd | <strong>Mar</strong>+<strong>Apr</strong> <strong>2024</strong> | focuslgbt.com


Rainbow Storytime with drag performer<br />

Moth Moth Moth<br />

photo courtesy Jamie Griffin<br />

1st page and above: Pride Fest 2023 at<br />

the Benjamin L. Hooks Central Library<br />

photos courtesy Dylan Miller<br />

Butterfly at Pride Fest 2023<br />

photo courtesy Jamie Griffin<br />

Memphis is lucky. Our<br />

library system is unique in<br />

that it's the only system in<br />

the United States to have<br />

won the National Medal<br />

for Museum and Library<br />

Services twice. Our libraries<br />

serve as community hubs,<br />

offering socially conscious<br />

programming to address<br />

the needs of our city's<br />

diverse population. Over the<br />

past decade, there has been<br />

a growing emphasis on<br />

LGBTQIA+ inclusivity within<br />

our library spaces. Queer<br />

book nerds rejoice, for in<br />

the cozy corners of our local<br />

libraries, the presence of<br />

LGBTQIA+ literature offers<br />

the opportunity to find a<br />

voice that resonates with<br />

your own.<br />

I recently had the honor of<br />

speaking with several staff<br />

members at the Benjamin<br />

L. Hooks Central Library,<br />

located in <strong>Mid</strong>town at 3030<br />

Poplar Avenue, about their<br />

initiatives to create a safe<br />

and welcoming environment<br />

for the Memphis queer<br />

community - especially the<br />

bibliophiles among us.<br />

When asked about<br />

visual markers indicating<br />

the library's commitment<br />

to LGBTQIA+ inclusivity,<br />

Dylan Miller, Public<br />

Services Supervisor for<br />

the Humanities, cited their<br />

use of creative, colorful<br />

LGBTQ-focused book<br />

displays. These displays are<br />

not limited to Pride Month,<br />

either! No, these bookish<br />

beacons of queerness are<br />

scattered throughout the<br />

library year-round, and cater<br />

to all ages.<br />

"When people come in,<br />

if they see those books,<br />

they'll notice and know<br />

that it is a safe, welcoming<br />

space for them," says<br />

Jessica Clark, Public<br />

Services Supervisor for the<br />

Children's Department.<br />

As we spoke, I couldn't<br />

help but notice Jessica's<br />

rainbow lanyard. On that,<br />

she remarked," Yeah!<br />

Staff members often wear<br />

lanyards adorned with pride<br />

symbols, signaling to visitors<br />

that they are approachable<br />

and supportive!"<br />

The library takes a<br />

proactive approach to<br />

ensuring its collection<br />

is diverse and inclusive,<br />

catering to the interests and<br />

identities of book nerds of<br />

all ages. Jessica informed<br />

me of a massive diversity<br />

audit that was recently<br />

conducted for the children's<br />

department. Staff members<br />

<strong>Mar</strong>+<strong>Apr</strong> <strong>2024</strong> | focuslgbt.com | Nerd 9


went through their entire<br />

collection, book by book,<br />

analyzing representation<br />

on book covers, authorship,<br />

and content. This audit<br />

later informed substantial<br />

book orders to fill gaps<br />

in their collection. While<br />

these projects are<br />

enormous, time-consuming<br />

undertakings, the staff<br />

agreed they are crucial to<br />

keeping the library a space<br />

where representation and<br />

diversity are honored. Dylan<br />

noted that they hope to do<br />

diversity audits for other<br />

departments, as well as<br />

other branches within the<br />

library system, in the future.<br />

When it comes to<br />

LGBTQIA+ events, the<br />

library shows up and shows<br />

out for the community with<br />

an annual Pride Fest. It's an<br />

event funded by the Friends<br />

of the Library, a flagship<br />

initiative active since 2019.<br />

The festivities begin with a<br />

themed night time affair for<br />

adults called "Proud Out<br />

Loud," featuring a dance<br />

party and drag bingo. The<br />

following day is the main<br />

event, which features games<br />

and fun activities for all<br />

ages. There, the library<br />

hosts an array of local nonprofit<br />

organizations and<br />

businesses, inviting them<br />

to set up tables and forge<br />

face-to-face relationships<br />

with community members.<br />

To top it off, through a grant<br />

provided by International<br />

Paper, the library was able<br />

to distribute around $2500<br />

worth of books last year to<br />

children, tweens, and teens.<br />

Pride Fest is big with<br />

teens and tweens, many of<br />

whom show up hand-inhand<br />

with a date wearing<br />

pride flags as capes.<br />

"It's so fulfilling to see<br />

because you can tell that's<br />

possibly their first Pride,"<br />

Jessica shared.<br />

Supportive parents of<br />

LGBTQIA+ kids often attend<br />

and will pull staff members<br />

aside to thank them for<br />

hosting such a wholesome,<br />

all-ages event.<br />

The most beloved event<br />

among younger attendees<br />

is Rainbow Family Story<br />

Time, which started with<br />

the first Pride Fest and<br />

has continued monthly at<br />

different library branches<br />

ever since. The goal is<br />

to reach diverse families<br />

throughout Memphis,<br />

addressing specific themes<br />

such as "love is love"<br />

and transgender family<br />

experiences.<br />

Dylan Miller beamed as<br />

she recounted the Rainbow<br />

Family Story Time at 2023's<br />

Pride Fest. "Each year that<br />

we've had it in person, Miss<br />

Mothie (a well-known local<br />

LGBTQIA+ activist and drag<br />

performer) comes through<br />

the meeting space, and we<br />

do a little parade. This was<br />

Jessica's idea, and I love it!"<br />

Jessica and Dylan<br />

described how the kids<br />

proudly marched through<br />

the room waving little pride<br />

flags, following Miss Mothie,<br />

who danced ahead of them,<br />

while the crowd clapped<br />

and cheered them on. The<br />

room was light with joy and<br />

laughter … and bubbles.<br />

Yes, bubbles. Because what<br />

kind of Pride parade doesn't<br />

include a bubble blower?<br />

With the help of a grant<br />

from the American Library<br />

Association (ALA), Cossitt<br />

Library hosted a weeklong<br />

event centering the Black<br />

queer community. The event<br />

series featured a workshop<br />

on writing love letters to<br />

yourself, a Black Queer<br />

History talk, a "Celebrate<br />

Yourself" portrait workshop,<br />

yoga and self-care lessons,<br />

a movie night, an outdoor<br />

open mic night, and a panel<br />

discussion about cultivating<br />

creative dreams.<br />

Beyond its programming<br />

and events, the library is<br />

committed to supporting<br />

its LGBTQIA+ staff<br />

through its Spectrum<br />

Employee Resource<br />

Group, an employee-run<br />

initiative for all City of<br />

Memphis employees. The<br />

group offers networking<br />

opportunities, with HR and<br />

DEI (Diversity, Equity &<br />

Inclusion) representatives<br />

present to address<br />

questions and concerns.<br />

The library also provides<br />

comprehensive training for<br />

supervisors and managers<br />

on equity, diversity, and<br />

inclusion, emphasizing a<br />

zero-tolerance stance on<br />

bullying and harassment.<br />

A notable aspect of staff<br />

support is the explicit HR<br />

policy addressing the rights<br />

and resources of trans or<br />

non-binary staff members.<br />

This internal policy ensures<br />

a smooth transitioning<br />

process within the<br />

workplace, and the library<br />

emphasizes the importance<br />

of respecting pronouns and<br />

names. Anthony Lucatelli,<br />

a Library Customer Service<br />

Assistant at Central who<br />

identifies as non-binary,<br />

described the policy as<br />

"heartening," as it lays out in<br />

no uncertain terms that all<br />

employee gender identities<br />

are valid and accepted.<br />

They went on to say, "I've<br />

seen it in practice! Across<br />

MPL, pronouns, names, and<br />

identities are respected."<br />

So, my little bookworms,<br />

in case you were looking for<br />

another reason to browse<br />

the stacks in search of<br />

your new favorite fantasy<br />

romance or sci-fi novel, let<br />

this be your reminder that<br />

the library is a safe space for<br />

ALL who visit.<br />

ALL ARE WELCOME!<br />

PRIDE-THEMED<br />

LIBRARY CARD CONTEST<br />

FEATURING LOCAL ARTISTS<br />

MARCH 12 • 6 PM<br />

BENJAMIN L. HOOKS CENTRAL LIBRARY<br />

CARDS WILL BE IN CIRCULATION IN JUNE<br />

Follow on Instagram @memphislibrary for updates.<br />

Library signage by Jessica Clark<br />

photo courtesy Laura Bontrager<br />

10 Nerd | <strong>Mar</strong>+<strong>Apr</strong> <strong>2024</strong> | focuslgbt.com


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travel<br />

Blue Tones in<br />

Green Spaces<br />

Outdoor enthusiasts in Memphis<br />

on the many wonders of nature<br />

by William Smythe<br />

12 Nerd | <strong>Mar</strong>+<strong>Apr</strong> <strong>2024</strong> | focuslgbt.com


Growing up in Memphis, one of the most forested cities<br />

in the <strong>South</strong>, if not the United States, I have developed a<br />

fondness for nature.<br />

Dad took my sisters and me for regular walks,<br />

enlightening us about all these green spaces. Sometimes,<br />

it was just an overgrown vacant lot. But we went for hikes,<br />

too, along the Old Growth Trails in Overton Park. There,<br />

I admired tall poplars, rich oaks, and sweetly-scented<br />

hickories. Ferns and ivy tickled my hands. It became a<br />

refuge.<br />

Back in college, I would find myself roaming the Montana<br />

hills and valleys, just breathing in the Douglas pines and<br />

arrow leaves whenever I had a bad day. So, I reached out<br />

to Queer Memphis Hikes, curious if they shared that solace.<br />

"Nature doesn't judge who you are or how you show up,"<br />

Jazmin and Iris of Queer Memphis Hikes tell me.<br />

Jazmin and Iris said going for regular hikes helps them to<br />

tune in to themselves and each other. Some of the things<br />

that stand out to them have been the many ecological<br />

features endemic to the <strong>Mid</strong>-<strong>South</strong>'s green history.<br />

"Like, woah," the two exclaim. "Look at that cool rock!<br />

How many million years ago was it formed?" Or, even,<br />

"Why do swamp oaks have those weird but funky exposed<br />

roots?"<br />

Queer Memphis Hike members are either amateurs<br />

or experts, many of which are mycologists and<br />

paleontologists who are familiar with the local plants and<br />

wildlife and can even break down the small animal tracks<br />

around our feet as we walk.<br />

"Some point out mushroom varieties at T.O. Fuller State<br />

Park. Other members track native flowers and plants.<br />

We've even had entomologists give us insights about<br />

the critters above our heads. It's fascinating how people<br />

interact with nature, some even stopping to take photos,<br />

able to capture small changes in our landscape," they said.<br />

The hiking group has spent time around Meeman-Shelby,<br />

going out to explore the trails in the scorching summer or<br />

cool spring and fall mornings. But perhaps soon, they'll<br />

check out Konstantin Dimopoulos's new exhibit Blue Trees<br />

along the Wolf River Greenway. Dimopoulos, the visual<br />

artist responsible for Blue Trees, hails from a desert in<br />

Egypt, where he did not see rain until he was five.<br />

"It's interesting," says Dimopoulos, "that the Sahara, and<br />

most parts of now-desiccated northern Africa, had once<br />

been green and alive, pocked with lakes, rivers, grasslands,<br />

and forests. So many places change quickly."<br />

While living in Colorado, Dimopoulos learned about<br />

deforestation caused by the mountain pine beetle.<br />

"One in 14 trees are dead in Colorado," he informs me.<br />

"In fact, that number has increased to about 30 percent<br />

since 2010."<br />

Blue Trees is Dimopoulos' response to this phenomenon.<br />

By painting the trees with non-toxic chalk paint, parts of<br />

that state's ecology stand out. Since blue trees don't exist<br />

in nature, it causes the hiker to stop and focus on the trees<br />

around them, admiring the beauty while it's here.<br />

Nature doesn't<br />

judge who you<br />

are or how you<br />

show up.<br />

Konstantin Dimopoulos’ installation, Blue Trees<br />

all photos courtesy of William Smythe.<br />

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Rather than<br />

adapting nature<br />

to our cities, we<br />

should probably try<br />

adapting our cities<br />

to nature!<br />

"The reality is none of our forests or landscapes are free<br />

from ending up like deserts. We must become aware and<br />

work to preserve trees globally and locally," he says. Blue<br />

Trees grew from the Denver area of Colorado to all over<br />

the country, leading us to the exhibit along our Wolf River.<br />

"A lot of people ask me why Memphis, Germantown? It's<br />

a beautiful city, first of all. But, it's the people we met who<br />

made the difference," says Dimopolous.<br />

People like Cat Peña, a Public Art & Design Manager in<br />

Memphis, who took a big risk to bring this work to our city.<br />

"Initially," Dimopolous admits, "we began the installation<br />

as a guerrilla work. But it has morphed and organically<br />

changed into an installation that brought inclusion with<br />

communities, with cities."<br />

Dimopolous isn't alone in bringing art to nature, however.<br />

Local art company Belleau+Churchill worked alongside<br />

him to bring their project Tree Tones to fruition. They, just<br />

like their contemporary, try to bring the hiker's attention to<br />

parts of our local environment.<br />

"For us, nature is an inspiration but also a refuge.<br />

Nature gives us opportunities to slow down, reset, and<br />

refresh. Walking is important to us. We talk a lot on walks.<br />

Sometimes, it's ideas. Sometimes, it's about what we're<br />

observing. Being in nature helps us practice mindful<br />

looking and listening."<br />

For their project, certain trees are set to specific tones<br />

inherent to those species themselves: Bald Cypress,<br />

Hackberry, Hickory, PawPaw, Sweetgum, and Water Oak.<br />

But, they aren't just interested in bringing us to nature, but<br />

also nature to us. When I asked if they had any suggestions<br />

for how the city can adapt to nature, Belleau + Churchill<br />

suggested: "Rather than adapting nature to our cities, we<br />

should probably try adapting our cities to nature!"<br />

"Nature is everywhere," say Belleau + Churchill.<br />

"One thing that immediately stood out to us when<br />

we first moved to Memphis is the number of trees in<br />

neighborhoods and the size of those trees. There's a<br />

direct correlation between the number of trees in a<br />

neighborhood and health outcomes for residents, with<br />

more trees equating to better health. Things like pollinator<br />

gardens or even replacing lawn grass with clover or native<br />

ground cover bring birds, butterflies, and bees and even<br />

reduce excessive lawn care. Even just mulching your leaves<br />

will invite nature back into the city. Leaving leaves on the<br />

ground over winter provides habitat for fireflies."<br />

One thing these Memphis Queer Hikes, Konstantin<br />

Dimopoulos, and Belleau + Churchill can definitely agree<br />

on is that nature is necessary to our lives, whether it's<br />

through health, appreciation, art, or even our mental well<br />

being.<br />

I'll leave you with this quote from Robert Lydon provided<br />

by Dimopoulos: "We need all art as we need all nature;<br />

there is a balance in both."<br />

And indeed, that is on display with the Blue Trees and<br />

Tree Tones installations, standing proudly at the blessed<br />

banks of our Wolf River.<br />

Belleau + Churchill’s installation, Tree Tones<br />

14 Nerd | <strong>Mar</strong>+<strong>Apr</strong> <strong>2024</strong> | focuslgbt.com


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Let’s<br />

"Rook 'n<br />

Roll"<br />

Behind Memphis Chess<br />

Club’s fascinating history<br />

and Nerd Nite<br />

by Ray Rico<br />

The Memphis Chess<br />

Club, the second-oldest in<br />

the United States, is more<br />

than just a chess haven;<br />

it's a lively, welcoming<br />

community hub and cafe<br />

with a deep cultural history.<br />

Beyond the game of<br />

kings, this club in downtown<br />

Memphis offers a unique<br />

blend of intellectual<br />

stimulation, camaraderie,<br />

and an inclusive<br />

environment. They have a<br />

full menu with delightful<br />

options and delicious drinks.<br />

They even have guest<br />

memberships, merch, and a<br />

reward program for patrons.<br />

But you don't have to be a<br />

member to play or eat.<br />

Nerd Nite is Memphis<br />

Chess Club's monthly<br />

gathering, inspired by<br />

the Nerd Nite at the now<br />

defunct bar, Rec Room.<br />

The night is a gateway<br />

for first-time visitors to<br />

learn about Chess Club.<br />

But Nerd Night delves into<br />

all sorts of fun intellectual<br />

spaces outside of matches.<br />

These monthly Nerd Nites<br />

are known for seamlessly<br />

combining the worlds of<br />

chess and nerd culture with<br />

events like "mini TED talks,"<br />

where enthusiasts delve<br />

into niche topics anywhere<br />

from chess, roller derby,<br />

metallurgy, Memphis history,<br />

and more. And each night<br />

maintains a family-friendly<br />

atmosphere. Speakers have<br />

included notable figures like<br />

best-selling author Scott<br />

McEwen and commentator<br />

Otis Sanford, and the group<br />

is constantly planning more<br />

to feature. After each talk,<br />

a Q&A session is held to<br />

foster a welcoming space<br />

for all curious minds. They<br />

even have musical acts to<br />

excite the crowd.<br />

While most topics are<br />

embraced, the emphasis is<br />

on accessible intellectual<br />

talks. The club aims to<br />

align these events with its<br />

mission of supporting chess<br />

development and building<br />

a sense of community.<br />

For instance, every<br />

purchase during Nerd Nite<br />

contributes to supporting<br />

chess tournaments and<br />

maintaining a dedicated<br />

brick-and-mortar venue—a<br />

rarity even in larger cities.<br />

As for the future, the<br />

Memphis Chess Club<br />

remains open to new ideas.<br />

The upcoming speakers<br />

for Nerd Nite are typically<br />

announced on social media.<br />

Jim Adelman, the driving<br />

force behind Nerd Nite,<br />

always seeks passionate<br />

individuals who are willing<br />

to share their knowledge.<br />

The club encourages<br />

anyone interested, whether<br />

a chess player or not, to<br />

reach out and get involved.<br />

In essence, the Memphis<br />

Chess Club, with its<br />

dynamic Nerd Nite and<br />

multifunctional space,<br />

stands as a beacon of<br />

intellectual exploration,<br />

community engagement,<br />

and chess appreciation.<br />

To stay updated, learn<br />

more, and be part of this<br />

unique experience, you can<br />

join the Nerd Nite Memphis's<br />

Facebook group. You can<br />

also explore their monthly<br />

events on social media<br />

platforms and their website,<br />

memphischessclub.com.<br />

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photos courtesy of Memphis Chess Club<br />

Memphis Chess<br />

Club History<br />

1877<br />

1907<br />

1914<br />

The Memphis Chess Club is founded by a group<br />

of local businessmen led by Dudley Saunders, the<br />

club's first President. The MCC meets in various<br />

locations, including the historic Exchange Building<br />

and Downtown YMCA, now their neighbors along<br />

Madison Avenue.<br />

Memphis Chess Club co-hosts the World Chess<br />

Championship match between Emanuel Lasker<br />

and Frank <strong>Mar</strong>shall, with games in the Chamber of<br />

Commerce on Monroe Avenue.<br />

MCC President Bradford Jefferson wins the Western<br />

Open, receiving two sterling trophies now displayed<br />

in the MCC headquarters. Bradford's sister, Rosa<br />

Jefferson, edits a chess column in the Memphis<br />

Commercial Appeal from 1903 until the early 1930s.<br />

Western Open aka 15th U.S. Open in Memphis TN at Business Men's Club (1914)<br />

1978<br />

2020<br />

The MCC hosts the U. S. Junior Championship at<br />

Memphis State University (now the University of<br />

Memphis).<br />

After years of planning, Casey Hill and club officers<br />

Jonathan Wade, Alex King, and Gary Pylant<br />

reinvent the MCC as a full-service chess club and<br />

cafe located at 195 Madison Avenue—returning<br />

downtown where it all started!<br />

* Compiled from the research of MCC Historian Dwight Weaver.<br />

INTO CHESS?<br />

Check out the Memphis<br />

Chess Club Newsletter<br />

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Lo Norman:<br />

Masked Multihyphenate<br />

Nerd<br />

of Your Dreams<br />

Why multi-talented artist and<br />

streamer Lo Norman reclaims<br />

the once derogatory term<br />

by Quailvarious Brown<br />

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Self portrait from Lo’s photography portfolio<br />

Cel Shade performs at David Yancy fashion show<br />

Poison JamZ album cover by Cel Shade<br />

Lo at TONE Memphis<br />

Self-described nerd Lo Norman (she/they) embodies what<br />

it means to be an artist. In an age where things can seem<br />

rushed or unoriginal, the imaginative universe Lo's created<br />

lets them do all she loves and show off her creativity, which<br />

isn't limited to just one thing. Lo is a live streamer, music<br />

composer, filmmaker, and multidisciplinary artist. It's only<br />

natural that her versatile abilities have brought her such<br />

special opportunities and supporters. As a live streamer, Lo<br />

enjoys playing obscure and underground games on Twitch<br />

and YouTube under the tag This Is LowKey.<br />

"I love everything from action-adventure, horror, RPGs, deep<br />

storylines, retro stuff, geek culture & all types of weeb shit,"<br />

says Lo.<br />

She started streaming online nine years ago with her<br />

partner for fun.<br />

"Back then, when we started, there was no incentive to<br />

make money from it," says Lo. "We just wanted to play with<br />

our friends."<br />

The This Is LowKey moniker is a conjunction of their names,<br />

Lolo and Key. Key also goes by the tag Bathwaterwhiskey.<br />

The pair began building their platform with classics like<br />

Final Fantasy IX and Sonic the Hedgehog.<br />

Lo says when it comes to finding people to connect with,<br />

there is nowhere like Memphis. She is embraced by the local<br />

nerd community here, which allows her to thrive in a city full<br />

of captivating and gifted people.<br />

"If you don’t have that community of people who aren’t<br />

going to judge you, then there will be nobody to support<br />

you and get your stuff seen," says Lo.<br />

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I surround myself with like-minded people, and it really helps<br />

me stay motivated when I see and hear what they got going on.<br />

Beyond streaming video games, Lo's creative realm<br />

extends to experimental music and performances under<br />

the alias Cel Shade.<br />

"If you had to put a genre to it, it would be vaporwave,"<br />

says Lo.<br />

Lo says it is hard to define her experimental music style.<br />

Especially as Cel Shade adds an extra dimension to her<br />

music through an innovative use of visual elements, like Y2K<br />

imagery, themes of arcade and cyber core, and liminal space.<br />

"Project Pat is my inspiration, musically," Lo says, "Soundwise,<br />

we are very different, but he is my inspiration because<br />

we are both Memphians."<br />

Lo has released 13 albums, with Poison JamZ, released<br />

June 2021, being the most recent, as well as other<br />

albums released under another alias. She enjoys letting<br />

her imagination blossom in all of her art, especially<br />

photography. Lo describes it as manipulative photography<br />

that usually involves themes like social commentary, race<br />

relations, and dark subject matter.<br />

"I try to paint this world in my photography and take you to<br />

this other realm," she says.<br />

Recently, a once-in-a-lifetime artistic opportunity presented<br />

itself when Lo and her co-director, screenwriter and partner<br />

Juniper Crawford, were awarded a $15,000 IndieGrant<br />

courtesy of Indie Memphis.<br />

Lo and Juniper’s short is now one of 25 projects awarded<br />

the IndieGrant, an initiative that helps fund short films<br />

made in Memphis.<br />

"I felt honored, proud, and seen," Lo says. "I get to turn my<br />

queer horror into a reality and see it on the big screen."<br />

They did not have high hopes when they submitted their<br />

queer horror script to Indie Memphis in August of 2023. Lo<br />

and Juniper had to wait three months for Indie Memphis's<br />

response to determine if they would win. Lo admits that<br />

the adventure of making their forthcoming film, "Friend<br />

Shaped," has been quite mind-boggling.<br />

Lo’s love of music, art and horror is evident in the intense<br />

way she talks about the subjects, and is why she doesn’t<br />

mind being called a “nerd.”<br />

Originally derogatory, people like Lo are reclaiming the term<br />

“nerd.” Being a nerd is no longer something to be ashamed<br />

of. The term is not a ticket to eat lunch alone while crying<br />

in a dirty bathroom surrounded by profanity smeared on<br />

the walls with a sharpie. Nerd culture is just a parallel to<br />

what queerness is, which is being unconventional and<br />

authentically yourself.<br />

"Being a nerd is just being yourself and truly being a fanatic<br />

and passionate about something you like," Lo says.<br />

Follow Lo at @lolodahoho_ for updates on shows and her<br />

and Juniper’s upcoming film, Friend Shaped.<br />

CORRECTION: Our NERD print issue fails to credit Juniper<br />

Crawford as co-director to the upcoming film, Friend<br />

Shaped. This fact has been corrected in both our virtual<br />

issue and blog post.<br />

All photos courtesy Lo Norman<br />

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arts+entertainment<br />

Opera,<br />

Oh, Opera!<br />

Opera Memphis, La Calisto, and the<br />

unique queerness of theater<br />

by Tricia Dewey<br />

Pinafore. All photos by Ziggy Mack<br />

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Pagliacci Serse, Opera Neo, August 2021. Courtesy Stephanie Doche Opera Memphis<br />

Art starts telling us that things exist on a spectrum.<br />

When a piece is written, if approached appropriately, it really<br />

goes toward basic ideas of what it means to be human.<br />

Now, this is asked with the utmost respect: Is there<br />

anything nerdier than opera nerds? Ned Canty, Opera<br />

Memphis' General Director and Stage Director for the<br />

upcoming La Calisto, along with Jonathan King, Opera<br />

Memphis' Music Director, both embrace that idea.<br />

Canty says, "I think of a nerd as someone who is deeply<br />

in love with a type of art or culture that does not fit into<br />

traditional notions of what 'real men' or 'real women'<br />

should be into. The most important tenet for me is that<br />

you love the thing without worrying about whether other<br />

people think you should." So, in other words, don't worry<br />

about flying your opera nerd flag.<br />

The city of Memphis has dramatically benefited from<br />

opera nerds since the founding of Opera Memphis in<br />

1956. The Metropolitan Opera and other companies<br />

had performed in Memphis before, but Opera Memphis<br />

brought opportunities for year-round opera performances<br />

not yet seen before. Canty says Opera Memphis has<br />

grown and evolved since then, most recently moving<br />

its headquarters from East Memphis to the PeCo<br />

neighborhood in late 2023, closer to the art center of<br />

Memphis. The 2023-<strong>2024</strong> season brings a mix of opera<br />

standards and more modern offerings, such as the<br />

"Variations on a Theme" series, which presented various<br />

music connected to the words of poet Langston Hughes<br />

last month.<br />

Both Canty and King agreed that opera could be viewed<br />

as a kind of heightened musical theater. Canty says that<br />

many people have stereotypical ideas about opera that<br />

have been established by popular culture from Looney<br />

Tunes' Bugs Bunny to Seinfeld to Pretty Woman. However,<br />

those stereotypical notions only represent a small slice of<br />

the genre. In the course of a three- or four-year production<br />

cycle, Opera Memphis presents a mix of standards that<br />

people know well like, Carmen and La Boheme, balanced<br />

by either Opera Memphis original works or relatively new<br />

pieces. This season, Opera Memphis was interested in<br />

La Calisto. It's a baroque opera that is rarely performed,<br />

especially compared to romantic pieces of the 19th and<br />

20th centuries, but is quite interesting to watch due to the<br />

cultural and societal questions it raises.<br />

Canty says opera is relevant now because "art starts<br />

telling us that things exist on a spectrum. When a piece is<br />

written, if approached appropriately, it really goes toward<br />

basic ideas of what it means to be human. In the case<br />

of La Calisto, which was written 400 years ago, it looks<br />

at ideas of what it means to be a man, or a woman, or a<br />

lover, or a follower, or any of these things, basic questions<br />

that every person, every human being, every society asks<br />

themselves." In prehistoric times, people answered these<br />

questions with the gods, who turned into the Greek and<br />

Roman gods, who turned into the characters in this opera.<br />

La Calisto is part of Opera Memphis' Masterworks<br />

series and will be performed with period-appropriate<br />

instruments. In La Calisto the character of Santorini, the<br />

little satyr, is a boy going through puberty. Characters like<br />

that were often played by women for comedic purposes.<br />

The casting also plays with voice and costume, similar to<br />

some characters in Shakespeare and other theaters.<br />

Another interesting characterization is that of Jove,<br />

who transforms himself into the character of Diana to<br />

seduce Calisto. The same singer plays both Diana and<br />

Jove, who looks like Diana. Canty says the casting begged<br />

the question about drag performance, a hot topic now<br />

for several state legislators. Just this past June, Memphisbased<br />

drag group Friends of George won a lawsuit that<br />

deemed a recent anti-drag law unconstitutional.<br />

Canty concluded, "The characterizations in La Calisto<br />

highlighted the notion that a really wide variety of drag<br />

and gender fluidity was happening for hundreds of years<br />

in this art form and others, and that it was (a) something<br />

to celebrate and (b) underlined how ridiculous that law<br />

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Serse, Opera Neo, August 2021. Courtesy Stephanie Doche<br />

Pinafore<br />

was. The question is, what does it mean to define yourself<br />

in one way and have someone else define you in another<br />

way? They are basic human questions that are not new and<br />

have not been scattered into people's minds by a liberal<br />

conspiracy."<br />

Looking forward in opera, Jonathan King is hoping to<br />

bring awareness to transgender issues. He says, "As a<br />

community we're discovering and working through how<br />

we celebrate and utilize transgender singers. One opera<br />

I am thinking of most is Stonewall from 2019, which is<br />

about the Stonewall Riots in New York City in the 1960s.<br />

It incorporated a transgender role played by an actual<br />

transgender singer in the opera, and I think this just<br />

continues this narrative that has been around as long as<br />

opera and stage performance has been around."<br />

King is in his first year with the company, and in his<br />

first directorship, he feels joyful and fortunate to be in<br />

Memphis. He started in music as a pianist, then realized<br />

his love for collaboration with other musicians. King<br />

loves to sing and began exploring the genre of opera. He<br />

describes opera as an over-the-top experience, "I mean,<br />

it's just singers singing their hearts out about the most<br />

passionate subjects of love, lust, and murder, and all these<br />

things. It's just larger than life in so many ways. And once<br />

I got hooked on those two things together, working with<br />

singers, the love of the story, and the dramaticism of the<br />

story, it was kind of a no-brainer for me."<br />

Canty has been at Opera Memphis since 2011 after<br />

first training in theater as an actor and then as a director.<br />

Canty enjoys interacting with singers, many of whom have<br />

expressed their gratitude for the time he takes talking<br />

about their motivation, characters, and backstories as an<br />

opera director, a thing not all directors offer. Canty is not a<br />

singer but is glad to bring his rare skill set to opera. He was<br />

a freelance director for a very long time before making the<br />

choice to find a company to direct. Then, Canty needed a<br />

city with at least one of everything: a symphony, a ballet,<br />

and "a place big enough to have those things and small<br />

enough that I could get to know my audience." Luckily,<br />

there was Memphis.<br />

"When I tell my colleagues that people come up to me<br />

at Kroger and tell me what they thought about the last<br />

show, some of them think I'm complaining about that,<br />

and it's the opposite. You want a city where you can get<br />

to know the people, where it's your job to serve them.<br />

That's one of the best parts of Memphis," said Canty.<br />

Canty is figuring out how this opera art form fits within<br />

a city of music like Memphis, "I am a musical omnivore and<br />

always finding the links and similarities between opera<br />

and rock, soul, gospel, hip hop, and the blues, of course,<br />

everything that we do here musically in Memphis with our<br />

history, exploring the overlap. How does opera intersect<br />

with those things?"<br />

What is the path to becoming an opera nerd? Well,<br />

Canty says that he didn't like the first opera he ever saw,<br />

so he suggests testing out a couple types of opera—a<br />

serious opera, a comic opera, an opera in English. Opera<br />

Memphis tries to program one of each every season to<br />

provide an on-ramp for audiences. He says he directed La<br />

Calisto for the first time in Portland, Oregon in 2007, and<br />

there were many people in their 20s and 30s who were<br />

not a stereotypical opera audience. Some of them had fun<br />

dressing up in Victorian tailcoats and the extremity of this<br />

idea of opera.<br />

Some of these stories are over 2000 years old but have<br />

lasted, which speaks to their universality. Canty describes<br />

La Calisto as an opera that alternates between comic and<br />

serious. It's about falling in love, falling in love with the<br />

wrong person sometimes, what it feels like to love that<br />

person, maybe to lose them, and what happens when the<br />

people whose job it is to protect all of us are not as good<br />

at their job as they should be. It's also similar to Percy<br />

Jackson's books, with gods and goddesses in the opera<br />

allowing a real immediacy to the story.<br />

"La Calisto is a little more adult in theme than<br />

something like the Percy Jackson books, but if you like a<br />

good, sexy, lusty, pot-boiler of a show with some magic<br />

and some dancing and some singing, you would be<br />

hard-pressed to find anything better," said Canty.<br />

Actually, it may be time for all of us to start flying our<br />

opera nerd flag.<br />

La Calisto will be at Playhouse on the Square on<br />

<strong>Mar</strong>ch 22-23 with English subtitles.<br />

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the power to create significant<br />

change. Let’s stand together<br />

as a community to end the HIV<br />

epidemic in our Tri-State areas.<br />

Your involvement matters.<br />

HIV Treatment<br />

Antiretroviral Therapy (ART): Suppresses the virus, reducing viral load and<br />

preventing transmission.<br />

28 Nerd | <strong>Mar</strong>+<strong>Apr</strong> <strong>2024</strong> | focuslgbt.com


Empowering<br />

Communities<br />

Taking Steps to End the HIV Epidemic<br />

The Power of Knowledge and<br />

Testing<br />

Knowledge is a fundamental pillar in the fight against<br />

HIV. Shelby County and its surrounding counties<br />

encourage residents to take control of their health by<br />

getting tested regularly. Confidential and accessible<br />

testing centers are established throughout these counties,<br />

providing an essential first step toward understanding and<br />

managing the epidemic.<br />

Transformative Community-<br />

Led Initiatives<br />

Ending the HIV epidemic requires a multifaceted<br />

approach. Community-led initiatives pave the way for<br />

change, dispelling myths, reducing stigma, and promoting<br />

healthy behaviors. These initiatives empower individuals<br />

and foster a sense of collective responsibility.<br />

Breaking the Stigma<br />

The battle against HIV extends beyond clinics. Shelby<br />

County is committed to breaking the stigma associated<br />

with HIV to reach far beyond our Tri-State areas. Through<br />

awareness campaigns, the communities aim to create an<br />

environment where individuals feel supported, free from<br />

judgment, and comfortable seeking testing and treatment.<br />

Providing Support Networks<br />

and Resources<br />

Recognizing the importance of support, Shelby County<br />

has established networks to assist those affected by HIV.<br />

Support groups, counseling services, and educational<br />

resources are readily available. The emphasis is on creating<br />

a community that stands together and provides a safety<br />

net for those navigating the complexities of living with HIV.<br />

Looking to the Future<br />

Shelby County is taking decisive steps to end the HIV<br />

epidemic, focusing on building a future where HIV is<br />

a thing of the past. The community encourages open<br />

conversations, regular testing, and active participation in<br />

initiatives promoting awareness and support.<br />

The journey to end the HIV epidemic in Shelby County<br />

is a testament to the resilience and strength of the<br />

community. By fostering a culture of understanding,<br />

empathy, and collective responsibility, Shelby County<br />

is shaping a future where every individual has the<br />

opportunity to live a healthy and fulfilling life, free from the<br />

impact of HIV. Together, the community is rewriting the<br />

narrative, ensuring that no one is left behind in pursuing a<br />

brighter and healthier tomorrow.<br />

Michelle Taylor<br />

MD, DrPH, MPA<br />

Division Director/Health Officer<br />

Shelby County Health Department<br />

Rosita Timmons<br />

MSML<br />

Deputy Administrator<br />

Ryan White/EHE Program<br />

SOURCE: CDC HIV Surveillance Report. www.cdc.gov/hiv/library/reports/hiv-surveillance/vol-34/content/tables.html<br />

TESTING SITES: endhiv901.org RESOURCES:<br />

hivmemphis.org<br />

<strong>Mar</strong>+<strong>Apr</strong> <strong>2024</strong> | focuslgbt.com | Nerd 29


music<br />

Queer Up Your Playlist<br />

Attention music nerds and lovers...<br />

This one's for you!<br />

by Jordan Occasionally<br />

Queer Up Your Playlist is our new series featuring cleverly curated music by LGBTQ artists—<br />

many of them local, all of them southern. Each issue'll have a freshly curated list by a local<br />

musician or music expert (available to listen via the QR code), starting with Jordan Occasionally!<br />

Jordan Occasionally (they/he) is a Memphis-based independent dance pop/R&B artist and<br />

activist with over 1.5 million streams. The recent Memphis Flyer 20 under 30 recipient serves as<br />

Artist Advisor on the Music Export Memphis Board, was featured in Genius Open Mic Stage, and was<br />

nominated for the Trailblazer Award in our 8th annual <strong>Focus</strong> <strong>Mid</strong>south Award ceremony. While you're<br />

listening to their top 8, be sure to check out Jordan’s new single, Say Less. It’s a vibe.<br />

Casual by Chappell Roan<br />

First of all, "knee deep in the passenger's seat and you're<br />

eating me out, is it casual now," is a lyric I wish I could've<br />

written. When I found out Chappell Roan was also from<br />

Tennessee, I was instantly obsessed. The music video for this<br />

song features a black siren who lures men to their death but<br />

makes out with women. It's just so sapphic. How could I not<br />

enjoy it?! There's a reason why they call her a princess.<br />

G.A.Y. by Chris Pierce<br />

First of all, the title of this song was enough to get me to<br />

press "Repeat." I found Chris Pierce on TikTok and met him<br />

in Toronto at last year's NXNE Festival when we were both<br />

headliners. Watching him perform "G.A.Y.," which stands for<br />

"Gay and Young," was a blast. His high-heeled boots and crop<br />

top shirt made me fall in love with the pride that this song<br />

brings. Such a hit.<br />

Glow 88 by Ariel J<br />

I'm always here for a feel-good rap anthem, and "Glow 88"<br />

by Ariel J is just that. It's about three minutes of confidence,<br />

and every lyric could be a caption. I love Queer rappers<br />

that know their worth, and Ariel J is definitely not one to be<br />

messed with. This song is perfect for any feel-good playlist<br />

because it's about self-worth and knowing what you deserve.<br />

I love when lesbians talk their ish.<br />

Green Ribbon by Louise Page<br />

"I wanna see you dance the way you dance in your<br />

kitchen!" Louise Page is full of feminist anthems. One<br />

thing Louise always does best is keep the spirit of live<br />

instrumentation on recordings alive. So many songs these<br />

days have fake instruments, but not Louise Page's. You'll hear<br />

a fiddle, a trumpet, and a live piano all on the same track.<br />

The music video features gorgeous drag queens, too, so you<br />

know I had to stan.<br />

Just We by Mak Ro ft.<br />

Jordan Occasionally<br />

Maybe I'm a little biased, but I had to add a verse to this<br />

song once I heard the Afrobeat feel. This song feels like<br />

drinking mimosas with your bae under umbrellas on the Miami<br />

beach. I'm a sucker for Mak Ro's breezy vocals layered over<br />

string instruments. It just screams "sex-y!" Definitely add this<br />

to your spring playlist.<br />

Papa Please by Talibah Safiya ft.<br />

MadameFraankie<br />

The Talibah Safiya and Madame Fraankie combo has yet to<br />

be topped. I got a chance to watch them perform this song<br />

before it was released at Talibah's album release party, and I<br />

was instantly hooked. Listening to this duo is always a spiritual<br />

experience, and the constant time changes in the song show<br />

so much skill that can't be put into words. They are singlehandedly<br />

bringing blues back to the mainstream.<br />

Tiptoe by Celest<br />

There's something so sultry about sweet singers like Celest.<br />

She just leaves me hanging on every word with this song.<br />

Knowing that she produced and wrote this all by herself is<br />

enough to make me a stan. Celest is bringing romance back to<br />

R&B. No shade to hook-up culture, but this song makes you want<br />

to fall in love and embrace cuddle season with matching pajamas<br />

and promise tattoos. Anyone else feel like falling in love?<br />

Warm by Tangela<br />

I first met Tangela when she was my roommate for the<br />

NXNE Festival. Moreover, when I first heard this song, my<br />

entire soul was warm. Tangela is a boss on the stage, mixing<br />

her vocals live and hitting notes that are out of this world. Her<br />

range is insane, and did I mention she's a rapper? Honestly,<br />

what can't she do? This whole E.P. is underrated, and I think<br />

everyone should give it a listen.<br />

photo by London Porchia (@Londonz.eye),<br />

courtesy Jordan Occasionally<br />

30 Nerd | <strong>Mar</strong>+<strong>Apr</strong> <strong>2024</strong> | focuslgbt.com


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no. 11<br />

Black Otaku<br />

by Salamander Brandy<br />

Ever catch yourself daring to live your dreams? To bring<br />

the driving forces of your imagination into reality. The<br />

attempt is the difference between labor, that is art and<br />

labor that simply works. Good art challenges us to think<br />

differently and moves us emotionally. For me, Anime has<br />

helped shape me and my view of the world. My love for<br />

Anime has moved me to want to live to create a more<br />

colorful reality. Anime is short for animation, but with<br />

the connotation of being produced in Japan and, more<br />

recently, Korea. Anime and Manga (the comic version of<br />

Anime) break through their medium and always have had<br />

a profound effect on our reality.<br />

That's where I am at in my life. I want to create a work of<br />

art that tears the line between reality and fiction and has<br />

them bleed into each other. That's the reason I love Anime<br />

because it already brings reality into its fiction, and by<br />

watching our bit of reality reflected in it can prompt us<br />

to change it. Anime, more often than not, takes whatever<br />

the subject matter is and doesn't dumb it down for the<br />

audience just because it's animated. We are allowed to<br />

think about real-world concepts and their consequences<br />

from a safe distance and contemplate solutions before we<br />

may have to deal with them in our reality.<br />

I've always been a fan of Anime, especially since my<br />

uncles who helped raise me were Otaku, who knew the<br />

best video shops and were a part of the early online<br />

community. So I had access to a large collection of old<br />

Anime and became an Otaku, too! What is an Otaku? It is<br />

the Japanese version of the word "nerd," but more with<br />

the connotation of being obsessed with a certain aspect<br />

of pop culture. Both terms have an older denotation<br />

for someone on the autistic spectrum. I feel the term<br />

Otaku is appropriate when referring to myself because<br />

the aspect of pop culture I'm obsessed with is Anime.<br />

It's like the word "Trekkie" for people like my mom and<br />

older uncles who love Star Trek. I love Anime. I study<br />

how it's made and am engrossed by the people who<br />

make it. When the world was cold and callous towards<br />

me, Anime was there for me. At my lowest point, I was<br />

introduced to concepts that would be considered foreign<br />

here in the West. Anime like Kare Kano or His and Hers<br />

Circumstances made me feel less lonely because Anime<br />

exposed me to stories about, or made by, people who<br />

went through similar hardships in their lives. I try to apply<br />

the lessons I learn watching different Anime to my life.<br />

Seeing another culture from the outside allowed me to<br />

better understand my own and helped me to realize that<br />

Christianity wasn't for me. I became more cognizant that<br />

I wasn't inherently evil. I was born Black and feminine in a<br />

culture that hated femininity on a planet being choked to<br />

death by white supremacy.<br />

I'm a Black Otaku. I love the medium but have my<br />

critiques. I believe to be a true fan of any medium of art,<br />

philosophy, or political belief, criticism is needed to keep<br />

them from falling into stagnation and irreverence. That's<br />

how you keep the fascist out. I'm willing to point out the<br />

problematic element of any given work. Like the fascist<br />

undertones of Eren Yeager from Attack on Titan or the<br />

occasional panty shot of underage characters instead of<br />

having an actual plot in the story. These things need to<br />

change in order for Anime to grow.<br />

As an adult, I am able to bring these criticisms to the real<br />

world and challenge the hetero-sexism that plagues my<br />

life. On that note, shows like Revolutionary Girl Utena is a<br />

super queer Anime that challenges gender roles and gives<br />

examples of toxic relationships to stay the hell away from.<br />

Read the rest of the story on focuslgbt.com.<br />

Salamander Brandy is the Executive Director of the Path of the Holy Hands<br />

church, the former co-chair of the Memphis-<strong>Mid</strong><strong>South</strong> DSA, a member of<br />

Black Lives Matter Memphis and the New Black Panther party. She was<br />

born and raised in the city of Memphis and is the descendent of Elwood<br />

Higginbottom, a hero who was lynched by the city of Oxford, Mississippi for<br />

trying to start a union for sharecroppers. She is on a mission to spread peace<br />

on planet Earth and to get justice for her family. Until she completes her<br />

mission, she won’t stop even after her last breath.<br />

Want to see our full collection of The Prism Pages? Visit our website.<br />

The Prism Pages is a literary section in the magazine where original works of poetry and fiction from the community will<br />

be showcased. As a publishing company, we are committed to saving space for up-and-coming LGBTQ+ writers.<br />

Interested in submitting something? Email editor@focusmidsouth.com.<br />

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To learn how to support this and become a sponsor, please email info@focuscenterfoundation.org.<br />

32 Nerd | <strong>Mar</strong>+<strong>Apr</strong> <strong>2024</strong> | focuslgbt.com


Enter a digital universe born of my tweenage years, where the<br />

past and the future collide in a mezmerizing dance between preapocalyptic<br />

innocense and post-apocalyptic introspection. My art<br />

transcends mere visual representation; it is a living testament<br />

to the cyclical nature of human existence, weaving a narrative<br />

that serves as both a captivating history lesson and an enigmatic<br />

fortune teller.<br />

— by Jonathan Cross, IG: @oo01010o<br />

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HOROSCOPES<br />

Psychic intuitive, Minnassa, shares her astrology<br />

readings for a better <strong>Mar</strong>ch and <strong>Apr</strong>il<br />

PISCES<br />

FEB 20 - MAR 20, <strong>2024</strong><br />

Element: Water<br />

Quality: Mutable<br />

Ruling Planet: Neptune<br />

Traits: Creative, intuitive, empathetic,<br />

compassionate, and moody<br />

New Moon in Pisces: <strong>Mar</strong>ch 10, <strong>2024</strong><br />

ARIES<br />

MAR 21 - APR 20, <strong>2024</strong><br />

Element: Fire<br />

Quality: Cardinal<br />

Ruling Planet: <strong>Mar</strong>s<br />

Traits: Confident, courageous, bold, honest,<br />

and impatient<br />

New Moon in Aries: <strong>Apr</strong>il 8, <strong>2024</strong><br />

Spring Equinox (Astrological New Year)<br />

<strong>Mar</strong>ch 19, <strong>2024</strong> – 10:06 pm (Central)<br />

Lunar Eclipse (<strong>Mar</strong>ch 25) and Solar Eclipse (<strong>Apr</strong>il 8): transformation, change, spiritual growth.<br />

Are you an astrology nerd?<br />

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on learning more about your personal astrology: astro.cafeastrology.com.<br />

36 Nerd | <strong>Mar</strong>+<strong>Apr</strong> <strong>2024</strong> | focuslgbt.com


ASTROLOGY FOR ALL SIGNS<br />

ARIES<br />

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You’re on Fire! Aries season is your time to do it BIG!<br />

Allow that fire within to guide you to inspired and<br />

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LIBRA<br />

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Think about it! Take your time. Change your<br />

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vantage point. .<br />

TAURUS<br />

(Earth-Fixed)<br />

Make that move! As you take that step of faith, the<br />

resources and support you need to move in opulence<br />

will be there.<br />

GEMINI<br />

(Air-Mutable)<br />

Let it all go. Get out of your head and face forward. The<br />

time of looking back and living in the past is over. Set<br />

your face toward the sun and go!<br />

CANCER<br />

(Water-Cardinal)<br />

Collaborate! You don’t have to do it all by yourself.<br />

Open your heart and make room for those who see<br />

you and believe in you to offer support and take action<br />

with and for you.<br />

LEO<br />

(Fire-Fixed)<br />

Oh, yes! Step into your Divine Feminine power:<br />

Create and celebrate.<br />

VIRGO<br />

(Earth-Mutable)<br />

Rest, relax, and renew. Now is the time to revel in what<br />

you have created. Now is the time to allow the seeds<br />

you have planted to begin to sprout. Time to chill!<br />

Mindfulness in the Workplace<br />

SCORPIO<br />

(Water-Fixed)<br />

Look back for motivation not condemnation.<br />

Remember the dream in your little kid heart?<br />

Reconnect with it and bring it to life!<br />

SAGITTARIUS<br />

(Fire-Mutable)<br />

It’s your time to ROAR! Step into your power and move<br />

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CAPRICORN<br />

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Happy, happy, joy, joy! Take time to celebrate the good<br />

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AQUARIUS<br />

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Oh what a tangled web we weave…Yes, you created a<br />

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PISCES<br />

(Water-Mutable)<br />

Pisces this is your season. Enjoy it all. Connect with<br />

your heart, set your intentions, and with grace and<br />

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