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ACKNOWLEDGMENTS Ray & Ruth Pease, Bill & Beat Suter, Alison & Mike Tilley, Jaci Elliott, Stella Brocklesby, Paula & Natasha Thompson, Michael Hedger, Christine Maher, Ray Martin, Dr Rudi Brasch, Prof Stephen Dain, Christine Craigie, Dr Themi Garagounas, Prof Dennis Burnham, Prof Barbara Gillham, Bryan Cockerill, Leanne Wilson, Geoff Arnold, Lisa Tierney, Robyn McCormick, Kerri-Anne Kennerley, Geoff Burch, Jonathan Norman, Marie Ricot, Julie Fenton, Nick Symons, Richard & Linda Denny, Angela & Sheila Watson- Challis, Simon Howard, Tom Kenyon-Slaney, Tony & Patrica Earle, Darley Anderson, Sue Irvine, Leanne Christie, Anita & Dave Kite, Barry Toepher, Bert Newton, Brendan Walsh, Carrie Siipola, Debbie Tawse, Celia Barnes, Christina Peters, Hannelore Federspiel, David & Jan Goodwin, Eunice & Ken Worden, Frank & Cavill Boggs, Graham & Tracey Dufty, Graham Shiels, Grant Sexton, Kaz Lyons, Barry Markoff, Peter Rosetti, Max Hitchins, Debbie Mehrtens, Jack & Valerie Collis, John Allanson, John Hepworth, Pru Watts, Michael & Sue Rabbit, Michael & Sue Burnett, Michael & Kaye Goldring, Mike Schoettler, Peter & Jill Gosper, Rachel Jones, Ros & Simon Townsend, Sussan Hawryluk, Sue Williams, Terry & Tammy Butler, W. Mitchell, Walter Dickman, Bea Pullar, Alan Collinson, Russell Jeffery, Sandra & Loren Watts, Katrina Flynn, Luke Causby, Peter Draper, Scott Gilmour, Janet Gilmour, Lisa Petrich, Geoff Weatherburn, Dawn Eccles-Simkins, David Orchard, Donn Guthrie, Chris Stewart, Howard Gibbs, Sue McIlwraith, Jules Di Maio, Nathan Haynes, Michael Kelly, Gary Larson, Dorie Simmonds and Trevor Dolby. 12
Page 2 and 3: WHY MEN DON'T LISTEN & WOMEN CAN'T
Page 4 and 5: Acknowledgments CONTENTS Introducti
Page 6 and 7: 4. Talking And Listening 85 The 'Bl
Page 8 and 9: 6. Thoughts, Attitudes, Emotions An
Page 10 and 11: 9. Men, Women and Sex 216 How Sex B
Page 14 and 15: INTRODUCTION 14
Page 16 and 17: that men and women possess exactly
Page 18 and 19: e seen again, as it was clearly bad
Page 20 and 21: M en and women are different. Not b
Page 22 and 23: Different Job Specs Men and women h
Page 24 and 25: Is it All a Male Conspiracy? Since
Page 26 and 27: qualified people should receive equ
Page 28 and 29: Research shows that we are more a p
Page 30 and 31: How We Got This Way Once upon a tim
Page 32 and 33: een thrown out - and chaos, confusi
Page 34 and 35: CHAPTER 2 MAKING PERFECT SENSE 34
Page 36 and 37: One of our friends said he couldn't
Page 38 and 39: eral vision is effective up to almo
Page 40 and 41: ains decode information over a wide
Page 42 and 43: University Campus, Government resea
Page 44 and 45: Why Women Have a 'Sixth Sense' For
Page 46 and 47: programmed to hear a baby cry in th
Page 48 and 49: locate prey or avoid approaching en
Page 50 and 51: eceived by all other women at the p
Page 52 and 53: y Michael Meaney at McGill Universi
Page 54 and 55: which is why there are far more fem
Page 56 and 57: exchange for hard-earned money. A w
Page 58 and 59: T hese lighthearted illustrations o
Page 60 and 61: monitor their surroundings, the abi
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of brain function is still very bas
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are several areas on which scientis
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architectural plan of a house is se
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Boys, however, develop the right si
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turning down the TV when the teleph
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installed so that when we are born
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male hormone and the result is a ba
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3. Friends are coming to visit and
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13. You've misplaced your keys. Wou
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21. Given the choice, you would pre
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For Females Number of A's x 15 poin
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The Brain-Wiring Test 84
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B arbara and Allan were getting rea
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specific location. Studies with lef
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close is when the division of commu
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they are beginning to associate wor
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not be so expert at humiliating a m
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The Downside of Silent Talk If a ma
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messages. Western women speak up to
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Fiona: '... and I slipped on the pa
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means or wants. If you multi-track
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This kind of facility for complex m
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apport and make him feel important.
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Women Are Indirect It started out a
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Men Are Direct Men's sentences are
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out?' 'Could you call me tonight?'
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the emotions being expressed by the
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How to Get a Man to Listen Make a t
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CHAPTER 5 SPATIAL ABILITY: MAPS, TA
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'I'll tell you where to go all righ
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giving depth. On three-dimensional
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Why Boys Hang Out in Video Arcades
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easoning. All of these skills are l
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Tests by zoologists show that male
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in hire cars. Allan normally drives
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How to Avoid an Argument Men love t
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change gears - watch out for those
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and successfully repeating it, prov
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Spatial Ability in Education As we'
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'Why aren't there more female airli
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The Computer Industry Computer scie
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Although most female drag-racers we
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mass than rats with no toys. Humans
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to take a good shot instead of laug
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C olin and Jill were driving to a p
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Studies of babies from a few hours
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while boys question teachers and pr
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Emotion in the Brain Canadian resea
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Women Value Relationships, Men Valu
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Why Men and Women Leave Each Other
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Men hate criticism - that's why the
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When a woman tries to get a man to
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When you're dealing with an upset w
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e limited conversation. The man wit
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Men need to understand that when a
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on his face. 'You're over-reacting!
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in an unstructured way over several
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CHAPTER 7 OUR CHEMICAL COCKTAIL 'Le
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Peter notices the oil light flicker
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At puberty, testosterone surges thr
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and are much less likely to contrac
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have high fertility and low mathema
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sensitive looking types who would b
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also raise her aggression level, bu
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Aggression is one male trait that c
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male testosterone. There is a growi
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Mathematics and Hormones Boys use t
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aggression, and that young men with
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What makes a woman a woman and a ma
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Homosexuality is Part of History Am
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and, if the education system taught
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Can the 'Choice' Be Changed? Gays a
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inside the closet to admit it, or b
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Fingerprint ridge counts Another st
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It's What Happens in the Womb If, d
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The Transsexual Brain Transsexuals
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it needs to be dosed in male hormon
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CHAPTER 9 MEN, WOMEN AND SEX 216
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How Sex Began Life began with a sin
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Why Men Can't Help Themselves Men's
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Women's sex drive is like an electr
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The shaded areas on the graph are w
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One remarkable study found that the
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For men, testosterone comes in five
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sense to add to the size of the tri
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The Rooster Effect A rooster is a v
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Why Men are Three-Minute Wonders Fr
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There may soon be a solution to the
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Universe contests appeal to almost
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shouldn't feel threatened by it. An
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A man needs to be trained in the ar
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How To Satisfy A Woman Every Time:
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coffee. This is because a man needs
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an orgasm - around the time of ovul
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How Men Get a Raw Deal The things t
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as good as that portrayed in movies
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perfectly suits a woman's finely tu
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P air-bonding, that is, one man-one
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discussed, sex is marvellous for ov
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opportunities never presented thems
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eveal themselves only after the inf
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their lives and spells the end of a
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can bet he is not sleeping. 'How co
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tionship under these conditions. To
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its purpose is two-fold. Firstly, i
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How do you know if a man is ready f
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chemicals are in brown chocolate an
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in the autumn. The old adage, 'In t
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Chances are you don't have much in
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T hey say it's great to be a man be
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is that 93% of modern women say fin
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understood by any person aiming for
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ole-modelled manners, courtesy, res
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concept that stifled their freedom
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Finally ... Relationships between m
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It's amazing that here, at the begi
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Beatty, W.W., and Truster, A.I., 'G
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De Lacoste-Utamsing, C. & Hollaway,
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fluctuations on human motor and per
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homosexuality', Scientific American
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Pease, Allan, Rude And Politically
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Westheimer, Ruth, Dr. Ruth's Guide
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