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neuro scientists. The brain differences between wo<strong>men</strong><br />

<strong>and</strong> <strong>men</strong> are now clear, beyond all speculation,<br />

prejudice or reasonable doubt.<br />

When weighing up the differences between males <strong>and</strong><br />

females discussed in this book, some people may say,<br />

'No, that's not like me, I <strong>don't</strong> do that!' Well, maybe<br />

they <strong>don't</strong>. But we are dealing here with average <strong>men</strong><br />

<strong>and</strong> wo<strong>men</strong>, that is, how most <strong>men</strong> <strong>and</strong> wo<strong>men</strong> behave<br />

most of the time, in most situations <strong>and</strong> for most of the<br />

past. 'Average' means that if you are in a room full of<br />

people you'll notice that <strong>men</strong> are bigger <strong>and</strong> taller than<br />

wo<strong>men</strong>, in fact 7% taller <strong>and</strong> an average 8% bigger.<br />

The tallest or biggest person in the room may be a<br />

woman, but overall the <strong>men</strong> are bigger <strong>and</strong> taller than<br />

the wo<strong>men</strong>. In the Guinness Book of World Records<br />

2001, the biggest <strong>and</strong> tallest people have almost always<br />

been <strong>men</strong>. The tallest human on record was Robert<br />

Wadlow from Alton, Illinois who, in June 1940,<br />

measured 2. 72 metres (8 feet 11. 1 inches). The tallest<br />

person in the year 2000 was Radhouane Charbib of<br />

Tunisia who stood 2. 35 metres (7 feet 8. 9 inches).<br />

History books are full of 'Big Johns' <strong>and</strong> 'Little Suzies'!<br />

This is not sexist. It's fact.<br />

Where We (the Authors) St<strong>and</strong><br />

Reading this book, some people may begin to feel<br />

smug, arrogant or angry. This is because, to a greater or<br />

lesser extent, they are victims of idealistic philosophies<br />

that claim wo<strong>men</strong> <strong>and</strong> <strong>men</strong> are the same, so let's clarify<br />

our position on this now. We, the authors, are writing<br />

this book to help you develop <strong>and</strong> improve your relationships<br />

with both sexes. We believe that <strong>men</strong> <strong>and</strong><br />

wo<strong>men</strong> should have equal opportunity to pursue a<br />

career path in any field they choose <strong>and</strong> that equally<br />

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